Doug Kramer : His Impact On Me
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
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You asked how does a narcissistic psychopath feel about the death of someone he had a rapport and working relationship with? Here's the answer to further your understanding.
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Scientology is a despicable organization. Anyone calling them out on their hideous behavior deserves praise and support. RIP Doug Kramer.
Sure does sound that way from all the stories I have heard from individuals and the documentaries made on that organization.
I wonder if his parents were TOLD he had a condition but treating was against the "church" then chose not to tell him.
I literally found out 6 weeks ago that I had a birth defect of my aortic valve. I'm 59 n a half! Dr's don't always find things b4 it's too late.
HG is the only one giving our friend Doug respect and a beautiful send off. RIP Doug, we'll all miss you! Hit the like button! 🎉
God Bless you Doug!
HG's was beautiful, but the Lifeboat as well as Andrew Gold did a video as well.
Someone name Tony Dark Zero or something like that made a horrible video. 😡
@@mtngrl5859the andrew gold video was disgusting, inaccurate and made me sick he did it for views and his views are not correct.
Spot on Ann
@@philosophie8744yeah, it pissed me off. That’s not an assumption that would apply to Doug. Bringing up their differences was tasteless too. Doug backing out of the collaboration with Andrew spoke volumes. Andrew might want to delete that video and stfu.
Turns out, it takes the ultra narcissistic psychopath to express the most insightful and truthful appreciation of Doug. Thank you.
I am shocked to hear this sad news. Doug was a valuable member of our society, sadly missed
What a tremendous loss to our little community. Doug was such an inspiration to many of us. I appreciated his openness to share, his inquisitive mind, and his passion for learning and empowering not only himself, but others who have been similarly traumatized. RIP Doug Kramer. You are already sorely missed.
well said!
Very well said, bunchhaus.
❤❤
Well said Bunch😢 x
beautifully put !
He accomplished his mission and purpose of his life: A kind empathic soul who had talked about the toxicity of scientology and been aware of who he was and about narcissism thanks to being a listener to HG who had done many unforgettable brilliant interviews with... He will be missed 😢
RIP Doug Kramer 🙏💔
Great comments 👌
@robertwalsh2614 thank you ♥️
You're welcome 😊
I was very saddened after hearing of Doug's passing. I always listened with interest to his own story and how he interacted with enthusiasm with HG. He seemed to me that his life story had left him quite traumatized and those hours on video with HG were possibly a comfort for him. Your recent eulogy was given in a heartfelt way .. thank you HG.
Couldn't agree more. It was beautiful. It's nice someone is showing him the respect Doug deserves. ❤
I'm glad you pulled up the opportunistic Andrew Gold.
I've often thought that his projection of self importance was not backed by his actual level of intellect or prior subject research.
Indeed!!! It’s common amongst his “ilk.”
@@kristinakate1 disgusting anti Semite
I watched his video and just shook my head. To speculate on the manner of death and then tell a story about a bad interaction was at best poor judgement, at worst a glimpse of what he really is.
@EmiliaJay yes! He's shown signs before, this is absolute confirmation of his poor quality
I have felt a real sense of loss over the death of Doug. His channel was by far the best of the anti Scientology community. What made it the best was his authenticity.. He taught me much about Scientology and the nature of cults, but mostly I enjoyed watching his live streams, where you could literally watch as a man searched for the meaning of our world.
I hope he has now found what he was seeking
HG was able to remove the mask and be his authentic self with Doug, being crystal clear about his intentions as a narcissistic psychopath, in a way that he couldn't with people he personally knows in everyday life. Despite that, Doug respected and admired HG, and considered him a friend.
So to anyone who thinks this reaction from HG is cold, you must understand that this may be the most genuinely positive way HG is capable of feeling about another human being, who trusted HG and accepted him for the way he is. This is his version of a brotherly friendship, and I'm sure that whenever reminded of Doug, he'll think well of him. We'll miss you Doug, you're free now. 🕊
You’ve mastered cognitive empathy, HG.
No new interviews with Doug & HG. Damn, what a loss!!! 💔
RIP Doug Kramer.
May his memory be a blessing to many.
What an excellent lesson on the tenet that there are no part-time narcissists. Doug would love this tribute. Godspeed Doug and thanks HG. 🙏
Thank you for the respect you have shown to our dear Doug. I will never truly understand how you can’t be sad that you have lost a “brother” and “friend”, you have taught me to see the logic of a narcissist psychopath. This has been valuable to me. Doug, your voice was heard, and will not be forgotten. I was so looking forward to the QA sessions. Thank you HG. I am an empath and I am shedding tears 😭 😭😭😭😭
Well said❣️😊
@kathrynhogan3387 I do know that - HG has taught me well to see how he filters his experiences. In my empath filter - I am extremely sad to have lost Doug.
Thank you, HG, for doing this in Doug's memory. Most of us are rather drowning in sorrow, so maybe it's a good thing you aren't. No way could I give a eulogy for him without falling apart quite a bit.
He looked up to you, you know. I think he *needed* you, rather deeply. You seemed to be able to provide Doug a real balance in his life that he *never* once had from his family. You offered logic and sane thinking, which helps tremendously in spotlighting errors in one's thinking processes. Ex-Scientologists definitely need that. Hell, most of us could use a big dose of that on occasion. I noticed that, after he began talking with you, he seemed calmer, more focused, more sure of himself. So, thank you for helping him...Big Bro. Ya done good. 👍
Well said.
I do not find Andrew Gold reputable especially with this. I no longer have him on my scrolls! Very inappropriate!
Me too
I have to say I thought before he was just a sun journalist still
Disgraceful his behaviour re doug
Nice to see you being critical of Andrew Gold. I watched his video and found it insensitive. Even the initial report suggested natural causes rather than self-harm.
What he did was highly inappropriate and insensitive, so uncaring.
He was a very gentle, sensitive soul 🥺
How sad and unexpected. I always made it a point to watch the interviews with Doug. They were always so helpful. What a wonderful tribute to Doug’s memory. The photos in the last video really showed us more of Doug. The photos of young Doug really showed that was the quintessential California surfer dude , not mention how easy on the eyes he was. May Doug Rest in Peace.
Yes, I felt the same looking at Doug's photos. Beautiful man inside and out.
Very sad news 😔! I really appreciated the interviews and interactions between HG and Doug…although Doug’s pain remained always palpable. Rest in peace dear Doug. You definitely made a lasting impact. ❤
Well said.
Wow thanks HG for mentioning Andrew Gold , this morning when I read a clip from his UA-cam page, he made me sick to my stomach just calling his meeting with Doug STRANGE to judge him this way was uncalled for. Thanks for your respect 🙏🏼Doug is smiling over you!!
same
Ditto
AG has gone sour, as of late.
Andrew Gold's substantially more of a weirdo than many of his guests. The value of his contributions has definitely had a sharp drop off.
Same here
Thank you for calling out Andrew
Thank you HG. One thing from the Q&A from last month that stuck with me was the discussion about friendship , that Doug thought of you as his friend but recognized that you would not regard him as such . Still he appreciated you and his interactions with you
Same here.
That was a beautiful show of his character.
Mr.. Kramer will be missed and remembered fondly.
I find you endearing the way you speak about Doug ..and stood up for him.. you sound like true friend to him even though you are a narcissist psychopath
I was surprised and disappointed that Andrew Gold speculated that Doug's death was possibly suicide.
Andrew did mention that his feelings had been hurt because there had been talk about doing a 3-way conversation with you, and then Doug changed his mind. I was shocked that Andrew went from being disappointed and hurt to speculating Doug committed suicide.
Is this Gold person a narcissist maybe? That would explain a lot.
AG has trouble keeping his schadenfreude at bay; his over-arching vanity prompts him to misinterpret interactions, whereupon he goes for blood with unmitigated glee.
The smallest perceived slight eats at his ego.
One’s valid and logical correction to his making a logical fallacy; receives a sophomoric slam-
This action seemingly lends him reason enough for creating a straw-man, re-framing one’s truth, and, sadly, engaging in a jocular retort.
AG’s behavior by displaying his lack of humility … regarding a somewhat minor correction; whether it be his original misinterpretation…or possessing a level of hubris, which infuriates him when exposed - reveals that if the specter of his employing a logical fallacy (or cognitive bias) is called-out, he cannot handle the debate as a gentleman.
And, therefore, will lash-out-as said-with his trademark schadenfreude.
You and Doug were my favorite UA-cam team. I will greatly miss the interactions.
I’m gutted in a way, this group of interconnected people on UA-cam has been to helpful, Doug had such a wonderful impact on me as did the rest. And, as for HG, the type of personality I dread, ironically has been the genesis of meeting of wonderful people and great conversations. 😢😢😢🍺🍺🍺
I will miss the conversations between you and Mr. Kramer. He seemed like a gentleman.
The piano playing at end so very much appreciated...
I don’t find HGs explanations of his reaction cold, but informative and honest. HG has expressed respect for Doug’s life and his qualities, plus a fascinating view of how HGs mind works. Many thanks, HG for sharing this.
A sad loss - but thank you for acknowledging his legacy as well as your own.
HG Thank you. This is such a beautiful and moving tribute to Doug; for what he shared of himself and his story for all of us and his friendship with you.
Thank you for this beautiful tribute that he deserved, HG. Doug, you are one of a kind. We already miss you. Rise and shine, wherever you are ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Oh no! Absolutely without taking away HG's wonderful talent at all - the Narcissists I know, are masters of refined farewells for eternity, touching, wonderful and beautiful words. And - the older they are - the more "obsessed" they are with commemorating events and people from their surroundings - archiving, recalling, recalling, recalling, engraving in stones, in memory, in hearts and in brains.
Sorry SP, completely off topic - due to incorrect translation of your words into my language :)
@@Joa5588why did you say that, Joa? I don’t see anything.
@@sweetestperfection4280 This is interesting. When I log in, I see my previous comment. And when I enter the channel from another browser, to which I am not logged in, my first statement is not visible.
Anyway, it was off topic anyway. Best regards, SP and have a nice day :)
@@Joa5588Joa, I saw your previous comment. I am not unaware of that; however, it is also a magnificent example of the difference between the finesse of a Greater vs. the ineptness of a MRN. For example, HG’s tactful and moving eulogy versus other UA-camrs whose names do not even deserve to be mentioned.
I want you to know HG, I'll feel bad when you "shuffle off" this mortal coil. I will fell probably just as bad as i do over Doug's passing. I know you don't care, I just wanted you to know. RIP Doug Kramer. You'll be missed.
I know death happens but this thought is gut wrenching for real. When HG goes silent my empathic ass worries. He knows how important he is. 🙂
Same here! Listening to his videos while I plow away on my art adds stimulation to the tedium and a relieving distraction from my depressive ruminating thoughts. His low-pitched voice carries far, such that my husband can hear it rumbling from the attic, and shouts “hi H.G.!” from his work room. The absence of new videos would be very loud indeed. It also makes me chuckle to think how little of a crap he would give in response to knowing how sad I and others would feel upon the event of his death!
Thank you HG, it was a great shock to hear Doug has died. You had a great rapport, and it was always a pleasure listening to your interviews. May he RIP
Chilling how easy it has become to recognise narcissism and psychopathy in public figures, whatever field they glide on. I truly appreciate both your work.
I had a feeling you would say something in this vein , it's just so mind boggling for someone who has empathy to grasp that you wouldn't be saddened by the loss of someone who you clearly had such great rapport with . Hard to fathom you didn't see him as a friend and wouldn't mourn the loss of this friendship but I guess this is what makes a narcissist psychopath a completely different animal to us empaths or normals . You are like an alien being opening their world to us . Thank you for being so open and honest HG !
Yikes! It was scary. They walk amongst us. I'm an empath, but in my next life, I'm aiming to be a normal 🙏
HG’s candor can help
everyone see how the narcissist in your life is the same. It’s a “peek behind the curtain”. It “appears as if” they have a warm friendship,but it was one-sided. Doug felt warmly toward HG, but not the other way around.
Same for ALL narcissists. They just make it “appear as if” there’s a genuine connection, but there’s not.
HG is always educating.
I think its a different type of mourning over what they no longer will bring to their life opposed to that person no longer having their life here.
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Definitely !@@CinnamonToast5207
Only recently found out about Doug 💜 rest in peace. In the short amount of time he’s affected so many people.
He was an exceptionally warm and engaging man who liked and respected you and your extensive knowledge very much- how many of us will get a eulogy so thoughtful and honest when our turn comes? He certainly deserved it and will be missed by many and as the Queen said ‘grief is the price we pay for love’ or ‘loss is the price we pay for losing a valued and respected asset’
Doug’s last weeks were enriched by his relationship with you- rest in peace Doug
Yes, it was nice to hear that Doug & HG had done another Q&A so recently.
Doug deserved better than HG at the end.
The Interviews That Doug And HG Conducted Massively Helped Me Not Only To Understand More About Narcissism But Also Aided Me In My Escape From The Narcissist That I Was Ensnared With. I Will Always Be Grateful For That
It's sad that there won't be anymore interviews or Q&As between HG and Doug.
Thank you HG for your loveley words.
I'm so sad about the news he was my favorite..wouldn't know about you HG had it not been for Doug may he rest in peace
Agreed. We loved Doug.
You know though, Doug had a millionaire's death. He's definitely in peace now. I'm glad he wasn't suffering.
He was a good man.
Agree! I'm sad to hear this news.. Doug impacted many with his channel and I listened to HG on there too.. RIP Doug.
Thank you, HG. This WAS hard to listen to. It WAS cold. And i kept waiting, thinking, "Not even a little bit?" But I believe that you meant what you said, and understand it, "cognitively."
And it confuses my emotions, because you showed more social grace in the aftermath of this than some others who are sobbing. 💔
you, sir, has shown us once again why you are worthy of the fuel we gladly give you. and your taste in music is also impeccable. thank you.
Fuel is a product which is commodified in our current global economy.
The worst position for a human being to be categorized as is a commodity.
One’s stay on the planet is brief, as a commodity is easily replaceable.
I had a long discussion with Doug months ago and he was a very cool and sensitive person. He was so heartbroken at friends and fellow content creators backstabbing him. I hadn’t spoken to him in a while and am happy he at least got to speak with his mom before he passed but sad his time was cut short with her. I’m sure she is grieving and feeling very remorseful.
not if she's a narcissist
HG, thank you for setting the record straight for the content vultures. They didn't even attempt to look at the evidence surrounding the cause of death. They just seen £££££.
Your comment re Golds video and The Sun made me snort - and i'm sure it would have made Doug laugh too.
I hope the comment will reach the intended indvidual and i hope it stings like an absolute bitch.
Doug being a part of your legacy is indeed something he would take pride in. Knowing his death is one of the many drivers for you to educate as many folks as possible - i can legit see the smile on his face now.
Thanks again, HG.
Doug, friend, rest easy 💙
He was the best interviewer.
Can’t say I like Gold
Admirable HG that you tell the truth about how this impacts you, I hope people hear it & take it onboard & don’t try to convince themselves otherwise. This is how narcissists think, your death is an inconvenience to them. Remember that when they are manipulating you or when you say you can’t cut them off. I liked Doug, he came across as a nice guy but clearly troubled by his own admission, he didn’t deserve to die so young, it’s very sad. My opinion regarding all these interviews with Doug was that he constantly flattered HG, it was not intentional & it was definitely not in a kiss ass way, not at all. But his manner was always complimentary to HG & always grateful & in my opinion that’s why it looked like there was something between them. Doug just naturally without trying responded to HG in a way that worked for HG.
Thank you for this comment! There is an important piece of wisdom here -a warm, kind, empathic person can put soooooo much into the relation, that the unaware outsiders may be unable to figure out that one of the two people they observe is a cold-hearted, dark and calculated narcissist. Paradoxically, in a daily life context, it can be another factor, making everything difficult - since the outsiders may see nothing but a lovely couple interacting, or a great duet of best friends, while in reality.... there is one-sided flux of human love vs. dark hole of narcissism.
Doug, as you pointed out, gave SO much of kindness, warmth, respect, care, that he amazing "created" the atmosphere of the talk, imitating the real connection.
Maybe we should learn something from this lesson.... or at least ask ourselves, to what degree our kindness and love protects the false image/mask of sanity/ persona of the narcissist?
(Of course his interaction with HG was not a regular interaction, Doug knew who he was dealing with, and deliberately chose to treat HG with natural kindness. And I appreciate HG talked to him in a kind way.)
@@missstarrynight7736 Very well said
Your explanation of your feelings in the wake of “an asset” dying is fascinating. I’m a retired therapist and always find the inner workings of the human mind interesting. Your candor is refreshing. Thank you and Namaste HG
Lovely tribute & excellent teaching about the effects of losing someone in your life. While you may not feel sadness & grief as others with empathy might, this video was still kind, respectful & beautifully done. I say that because it's in contrast to other videos I've seen about his passing, even by those with empathy, which is not only ironic, but shows how truly evolved you are as The Ultra. Thank-you H.G. I feel like Doug would have liked & appreciated both your respect & your honesty. I too, will miss your interactions. You were pretty great together.
Thank you for stating this so well. I share your thoughts.
Thank you HG. Doug will be fondly remembered.
Dough was a truth seeker, as so many of us empaths are. He too found many answers in HG’s work.
I liked listening to your conversations. They had a special smoothness and vibe about them.
Thank you HG, for giving us understanding. For us truth seekers, it is healing.
RIP Dough, you will be missed. ❤️
Beautiful music at the end.
That's just too sad! Listening to you both recently and you did have a good rapport I felt which made each of your views as important as the others with a good dose of shared healthy respect.
I wonder who really was in control of this relationship? I suspect he didn't die of smoking, even if it was the instrument of his death. People die because the soul decides to leave this plane. He was, in effect, finished with you. A different understanding of people with your condition is going to gradually emerge in the public consciousness.
I speculate that Doug would appreciate this video, it was clear that he really valued your work and “friendship”. The brothers description of your dynamic is very suitable. I am sorry for your loss…. I am grateful he introduced us to you and the information you’re able to articulate.
HG, thank you for your explanations about how you see Doug and his death. It has been very insightful and has furthered my acceptance and understanding of the personality disorders.
I am truly gutted and saddened. It is so unfair. Heavens gain, for sure.
I admire your honesty .
Beautiful eulogy HG. RIP Doug
Thanks for playing the piano as you mentioned you would one day to doug
Damn, what heartbreaking news. I don't even know what else to say right now. I think I'm in a state of shock. R.I.P. Doug💔😢
Came back, after finishing the video, to say, thank you HG for your honesty.
Despite my listening to countless hours of content regarding narcissistic abuse, I'd have never come across your channel had it not been for Doug. Admittedly, even if I had, I probably would have written you off immediately the moment I heard you describe yourself as a narcissist.
Through Doug, I was able to assimilate your teachings, learned a great deal, and found more effective ways to weaponize myself against further abuses.
Thank you HG. Thank you Doug.
This channel is now the only one I listen to regarding the topic of narcissism 😅
playing the piano for him, as he requested in his last interview with you
I caught that, too. 🎼💕
@@amyemerson 🖤🎹
Thank you, HG. I appreciate hearing your take on things, and am pleased to hear that you felt Andrew Gold's speculation to be inappropriate.
I find it quite sad that someone who lived through such horrors then died young as he was giving so much of ĥimself to others. I do offer my condolences to you and others who cared.❤🇦🇺 14:08
He made it clear all he cared about was the missed opportunities for himself. Hes a sick man. Scary actually. Charles Manson had this exact diagnosis. Very dangerous that people follow and give credence to such an evil human who has NO empathy and can’t feel love.
Based on listening to your interviews with Doug, I can only agree that he would have been fascinated by your reaction to his passing and appreciative of your using it to provide further understanding of narcissists and their mode of interacting. Doug will be sorely missed.
Very much looking forward to this. We learn a lot about relationships that HG has with people that aren't so positive, and it will be very interesting to hear his thoughts on a relationship with another person that he enjoyed the company of.
That was magnificent HG. Doug would have greatly appreciated this video as well as the earlier one you did. I am glad that the conversation videos you did with Doug form part of your overall Legacy. Thank you for this and the premiere HG, much appreciated💕
I echo that ❤
That's a beautiful rendition of The Moonlight Sonata by Beethoven! I'll miss Doug, he was really good! Thanks HG!
Thank you for this. Doug appreciated your honesty as do I.
May his soul rest in peace.
HG your honesty is refreshing. When people die, there's a lot of gushing about loss, feelings and character traits etc etc that are, perhaps, less than genuinely felt...
It's pretty ghastly to have the immediate jump to speculation - the unexpected death of a relatively young man is shocking enough without whacko theories.
I am marking this as one of your most important videos to date. Thank you for sharing this and your lovely arrangement of the Moonlight Sonata.
This is so sad! 😥 The stress of being in a toxic environment when he was younger took years off his life. This is why when you realize and become aware that you are in a toxic environment you need to remove yourself from that environment ASAP! Otherwise being in that environment will create CPTSD and effect your life psychologically which will effect your health physiologically. 😥
Well, it was not CPTSD per se, as I understand, but smoking was the main factor. Very, very sad thing, though, mostly because his death might be easily avoided.
HG, I watched your earlier tribute today, thank you and it was beautiful! I enjoyed your videos with Doug & I know you added a lot of value to his life ;)
Always helpful to hear your perspective on something as severe as death and how a narcissistic psychopath reacts. These insights help me when I do need to interact with the narcissists in my life.
Apt, unsurprising yet fascinating and, as always, eloquently articulated. Makes sense. Thx, Doug for guiding us to HG!
Thank you HG for making the video about Doug and your touching eulogy. He will be missed by many. Xx
Doug was an incredibly beautiful Soul ❤❤❤
HG
Your performance about how little you felt doesn't wash with me
You muffed your words in a couple of places, almost mispronouncing a couple
Your swallowing and breathing was unlike you've sounded before
Furthermore, your true feelings were in your choice of Beethoven Sonata ( although a genuine recording would have been preferable !)
Hugs HG, I know you're sad even a little, and will miss him too
You were great together
This is an extremely sad day
Lots of love HG
Thanks for your duetting with Doug
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I like your comment 😢😊
Thank goodness for some honesty. Most of all Doug would have appreciated this. From an empath RIP x
My guess is that, as a narcissistic psychopath, you mourn the loss of Doug the same way a normal person misses a very useful appliance or favorite piece of furniture. Doug brought you to a wider audience and assisted you in building your legacy.
At first, your comment seems a little bit cold. When I stopped to think about it, have to say that's a fair assessment.
@@mayhembeading3737 We need to remember what HG is.
I find it hard to believe that H. G. did not experience any heartfelt sadness at Doug’s death.
You know what though, HG is the only one I've seen show respect for Doug. He had a beautiful video on him.
All SPTV is using him for gossip and clicks.
Who's really the Narcissist? Looks like they all were too.
At least HG is showing respect. I think he enjoyed his time with Doug.
He's not crying over it, but doesn't mean he doesn't feel a loss.
HG does have the ability to harness cognitive empathy, since he is a highly involved in his Narcissism. He can enjoy and respect others, he is not immune from that.
I can't believe it, so sad to hear he's passed 😢
Another fabulous video. You gave us the facts of your true reaction to his death while still being respectful to Doug. Those of us who follow you weren't surprised by your admissions but those who are new to your channel, will understand why you reacted without being insulted on Doug's behalf. RIP Doug Scott Kramer.
Well stated.
I’ve watched your videos with him and I really liked them. I’m sad there won’t be anymore but feel even sadder that he has died at only 50. It’s interesting for you to explain to us that you don’t feel sad about things like that, it’s quite the insight. And your eulogy for him was certainly excellent and I commented in that video about Andrew Gold did not do a eulogy at all. In fact I was disgusted by it. I’m glad you brought this up that he speculated that he killed himself and then went on to say Doug pissed him off in the past. I was like how inappropriate to go there so fast. I’m starting to think Andrew Gold is a bit of an asshole. To sum up this long comment I find it fascinating that you are a narcissistic psychopath and Andrew may be a normal and how you handled the death giving Doug dignity and Andrew stomped on his grave.
I am quite sure that Andrew Gold is a narcissist.
@@Quapp03 we should ask HG if he has changed his analysis of Andrew because I watched him with an interview an HG thought he was a normal.
@@kathybrascher1910 I was already convinced during this interview that AG is a narcissist. I wrote that in the comments section back then. HG didn't make a definitive statement at the time, but only gave a vague assessment. But the fact that AG asked him in his role as interviewer whether he himself was a narcissist speaks volumes!
Oh God, what a terrible news!!! No, not you, Doug!!! I am shocked, upset. It's painful, even if I knew Doug only from your interviews. 😞 May he rest in peace. He was incredibly likeable person. I am very grateful that he generously allowed you to use his private life issues to explain how narcissism works. Your talks were my absolutely favourite, and I perceive him as irreplaceable.
Thanks HG for honest sharing your "feelings" (or rather thoughts) about his passing. My self-aware Upper-Mid-Range ex boyfriend shared almost identical "feelings" with me, when his "best friend" died. Looks like it's another case of universal narcissistic reaction. It's a very, very weird thing to witness for a non-narc.
It's painful, too, to know someone like Dough was just an asset. It's creepy to even think about him in this way.So, I won't say HG, that your eulogy of Doug is beautiful or something. It can't be, since you had no warm feelings for him and empathy. Ugh. But yeah.... my ex boyfriend reacted to his "best friend"s death with: "Why should I be upset because of it? Show must go on".
At least, HG, you're honest. Brutally honest in this case. But it's what it is.
Of all your extremely useful videos, this has got to be top of the list.
Rest in peace Doug such a beautiful man. So sad he’s gone.
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Thank you, as always, HG, for giving insight into your unique perspective. Your honesty is a tribute to your work and to Doug’s work. Your work is appreciated.
Thank you for giving us such an honest and revealing look at how you feel about the situation.
Beethoven's Moonlight.......perfect.❤
Still can not believe it, was rooting for him with his mama. Loved watching you both, as he would ask questions that we all wanted to ask you. I found him through my curiosity of serial killers. He made documentaries that actually educated me, he wouldnt cover that same spiel as others. Doug is the reason I found out about narcissism and HG. The series of why narcissistic abuse feels like you are in a cult, is special to me, as I know iam not crazy. Doug is a massive loss for us all. I hope he found peace. Rip handsome, you are sorely missed.
Thank you, HG. Very well explained.
I'm sorry HG. I know you don't emotionally connect to people but I also know you had a great rapport with Doug. I'm sure there will be some sense of loss there. I'm still in disbelief.
That's nice ❤
RIP Doug Kramer❤
RIP Doug Scott Kramer x
I agree with your thoughts on the Gold stream. I watched it live. I thought it was going to be about some other scientologist & not Doug. I was shocked.