Biggest mistake people make is to assume another human being thinks like you. We never can tell what other's are thinking even if the word's are good..
This is very true, but also, not everyone who thinks differently than you is harmful either. It's just trying to figure out if they are someone we can learn from or someone we will be harmed by before it's too late.
You're right it's the biggest mistake we can make to believe others think the same way as we do. It took me decades to understand some people have zero empathy.
My father is an intelligent psychopath who worked for the defense industry. The scariest thing about him is how he can fool people into thinking he's a nice guy. He was a master of the double life.
because modern people have been taught to trust people regardless, especially if they are decently looking and carry themselves well, as a sociopath we know this and play on it
I was married to one for 14 yrs. I carefully planned my escape. He didn’t resist & didn’t try to get me back. My life has been so much better. It was all about control, but it was then too much effort to get me back so he is now on his 3rd wife. I am married to a great guy who’s helped me work through my years of having someone suck me dry. He never physically hurt me. It was all psychological. Almost 40 yrs & it still hurts if I let it.
Capitalism is an economic system that puts profit above everything including humans, and any type of morality. Why should we think that it would do anything other than reward psychopathy
@@Phishyificationyou can go ahead and put yourself out there. If it isn’t caught early the odds lesson some people are born this way. Some may not be and only a product of their environment.
imo "being evil" is a moral choice of a sane adult person. for example: mafia boss chooses to be a mafia boss. if someone is "born evil" it means such person can't choose between good and wrong, because has no other choice from the get go. thus should be called differently. maybe... psychopath? sociopath? etc. such words bring not only awerness, but also scientific answers: why such person is like that and what can be done to prevent it.
@@Zmiana_Pogody I’ve seen cases where the child shows signs as early as 5. Not all are made but born. Like a narcissist The same things were shown in adhd children. Some families carry it in their dna make up. Why not a sociopath or psychopath
You can definitely see it in the eyes and feel their energy. If something doesn't feel right,,,always go with your first instinct. Don't ignored that!!!!!
I briefly befriended a Narcissist once... in the beginning, she played all her charm to make sure I'd be fond of her. Once I realised how fake she was (by her actions), I finally noticed the empty look in her eyes... they looked right through me. The things she said sounded good/well-meaning, but the eyes never matched. There was nobody behind those eyes, no soul... Also I could tell by her eyes, that she did not truly recognize me as another soul/human being.
@cheri4939, yeah, I have experienced that. This woman at work one day I felt her looking at me and I turned to the side and saw her staring at me like she was staring into my soul. It truly gave me the creeps.
You cant, on some you Can, but others are extremely good at being social chameleons. And Can mimic emotions so they are even more believable than the real deal.
I totally disagree with not being able to see it in their eyes... I was married to one for 16 yrs. You can totally see the darkness and emptiness in them. It's usually more noticeable when you are the target of their anger.
To: TheresaMarie1... I absolutely agree with you 100%... Seeing what we see in their eyes is very much a part of the spiritual world as well, seeing, recognizing and being blessed to notice their soulless spirit that eventually is revealed to us through the psychopaths eyes, their intent, their plotting, their deep true unhappiness and general disdain that they have for us... I agree with part of what the psychologist said when he said that they will attempt to fool him, however 'The Lord' will allow some victims to see the horrible spirit in the psychopaths eyes... Psychologist may have all 'The Book Smarts & Education', however being 'Angel Driven Human Beings' as we born, we are gifted to see the true inherit evil of the psychopaths forever dangerous soulless spirit... 'Just My Thoughts'!
I've experienced many people suffering an anti social disorder. Some were narcisssist, other sociopath or psychopath. Most diagnosed. I didn't yet know what to think of it. I could not see evil in their eyes. My brother in law murdered my older sister and later was diagnosed before the trial, as a psychopathic narcissist. I didn't see any evil in his eyes neither but 2 out of about 15 had a rather empty look in their eyes, in retrospect. There was one person who wasn't diagnosed, and which was the first person of which i realized he was mentally abusing me. I was already feeling really bad, was on disability and during a conversation he was seriously devaluating my person and it got me angry. Wasn't the first time but this time as i got angry i saw the pupils of his eyes become very, very large.... and as quick as the grew they snapped back to normal rather small size. In retrospect it was like he experienced joy in making me angry. THAT is the only time i had ever seen something almost otherworldy in someone's eyes.
@@shanda6425 I've always been the one that felt something was off... just never knew what it was. I had that feeling with some people, since childhood. It really felt like a giant relief the day i became aware of what i felt.
Dated a psychopath for a year- would never wish that on anyone. They're very good at wearing a mask of normalcy, and undermining your instincts (that tell you something is wrong). But the mask always eventually slips, and if you pay attention to those instincts, you'll catch on.
@@LizEarthAngel3 I’m so sorry you’ve been having to live through that. I’m truly hoping things have gotten better for you than they were a month ago but I know only too well that that’s probably unlikely. Having been there I feel for you so much and am praying for you. May 2024 bring you relief from all of your troubles.
@@Featherfinder thank you for your kind words, yes it’s still very much ongoing, the messages are getting further away from the kids to just calling me names, but I’m getting stronger that helps, I’m wishing you a very happy new year 💫 stay safe too 🙏🏻❤️
This seems to be about the mind of the murdering psychopaths, or serial killers, a subject which has been covered so many times that it almost fells like many people watching could write the script. The psychopaths who affect us much more often are those who are our bosses, or involved from top to bottom in government or business.
Those with delusions of grandeur like Soros and those who are with WEF. The WEF are some truly frightening individuals when you listen to them speak on society. They want to control people and God knows they have the money, media, resources to do just that if we allow it.
If you ever accidentally get involved with a psychopath… back out of the room very quietly… or slip away and block everything. Don’t confront these freaks.
Did you not watch the video? Many psychopaths are not bad people. There are lots of people with psychopathic traits who do crucial jobs in our society. Kinda like the doctor who realized his brain works in a similar way to a psychopath. Psychopath isn’t a synonym for evil. You’re thinking of dark triad people. Yes, psychopathy is part of the designation but there’s much more. Mostly sadism and machevelianism.(sp)
I remember when I was growing up, as well as years later when my father was dying and people would just gush and say what a beautiful heart, what a wonderful man, I must be the luckiest girl alive to have such a charming and sweet father. I was dumbfounded every time I heard it. My dad was a sadistic, extremely violent man who knew no bounds to his violence, abuse, and meanness. I used to have nightmares about him. Even after he died, I'd have nightmares of him crawling out of the grave, grabbing my ankles and dragging me below. If people only knew what he was really like behind closed doors...
@@BeRightBack131this is often the case with narcissist..they are wonderfully nice to people outside the home,,but behind closed doors they are awful monsters..they love to dominant close family ,but won’t say boo to a outsider..horrible devils .
Yep I grew in a family like this. When I turned 17 I left for Uni and NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER went back there. Im 50 now and have a great like with my awesome friends live on the beach and loving life.
Dr Matt Logan is giving true advice. You can't tell on meeting a psychopath that he is one, nor do they all have "dark eyes" or eyes showing no life. In the spectrum covering narcissism and pscyhopathy there are varying degrees of both conditions, and it takes getting to know a person before you start to see signs of either condition begin to emerge. I've had one devastating experience with a covert narc and that was enough to scare me for life - it changes your ability to trust openly ever again and makes you very wary about just who you may be talking to .
Prefacing my comment by stating that I'm a retired mental health social worker specialized in Level 1 clients both in the Child/Adolescence and later in the Adult system. Level 1's were chronic, severe requiring multiple agencies involvement. In the adult system I had 2 cases that were Rule 11's - guilty but mentally ill and were in the psych ward at the state prison - indefinitely. But I'm not going to focus on them. My focus is on the children who grow up to be psychopaths. There were 3 things at the time we looked for in our clients/patients. Cruelty to animals, fire setting, bedwetting. These behaviors were the first indicators of pathology. Then it was the misc. behaviors - stealing, lying, aggressions, passiveness, etc. For example, one client that I did an intake on had the 3 indicators. 1. Cruelty to animals: He would capture and torture smaller animals - pet hamsters, turtles, birds, lizards etc. He'd skin them alive, set them on fire, break all their bones and so on. 2. Fire setting: He would go around the apartment complex and check to see if car windows were down. Didn't have to all the way down or half down, just a gap would be fine. Then he'd light matches and push them through the opening. Sometimes he'd shove paper in and push the lit matches on top. 3. He was a bed wetter. The parents had taken to padlocking his door at night so he wouldn't get out. Then they had a padlock on the inside of their bedroom to keep him out, and a padlock on the baby brother's door. Padlocked all the cabinets and fridge; the same with all cleaning and bathing supplies, all the utensils and so on. He was 11 years old. At that time, per the DSM IIIr - his diagnosis was Conduct Disorder. Also, one cannot give a child a diagnosis of psychopathy. And in my 20+ years in this field, these children are more common than you think. We cannot wait until these children grow up to be adults before we identify them. Because by that time, they have honed their skills and become proficient in their deeds. Ted Bundy is one example. I don't know what the answer is, but it is something that we should not overlook nor ignore.
The family should have negotiated a lucrative endorsement contract from Master Lock. Monies earned could have been spent on fortifying the door entry ways with reinforced steel and concrete, then get a lucrative endorsement deal with US Steel, and use those proceeds to build a church in which to hold an exorcist event to rid the poor child of all the demons so he can be reunited with family. Then open the church for worship giving prarishners an opportunity to exercise their demons, as there seems to be an abundance of them floating about these days looking for souls to take.
But bed wetting at that age is sign of abuse ..no?we're you looking at these aspects too?,the corellation, I mean if some become psychopaths due to what they saw and experienced
Betwetting is caused often times due to lack of certain nutrients! Diet plays a huge role in aggresion, criminality also. Lack of longterm breastfeeding also together with a lacking mother who is warm, caring, sensitive, calm letting the baby drink in her arms, caressing the babies head, giving kisses! Many hate women, due to a cold demeanor, irresponsive, neglecting mothers who do not interract, play, talk nicely, cuddle with their newborn and baby age, toddler age. Also letting babies sleep in their own bed, instead in their arms body to body cintact. This is my personal experience and experience with nasty men/women.
And then there’s the common kind who just victimizes his own family. The people who are in their lives don’t comprehend psychopathy, so they usually condemn the victims; the psychopath is a professional liar.
You are so right about that. I saved myself to be able to save my children. Now, we are all saved from him. My children chose to break contact with him. He had no empathy and enjoyed the suffering of family members.
1% is very rare - not common, but narcissistic tendencies or NPD (specifically vulnerable/covert) behave in that way. Present themselves to everyone else as different from how they are, preemptively spread lies about those who know the truth about their true self so they look like the crazy ones. They are the ones who actually commit the most murders, they do this when they about to get caught in their lies & their true self will be exposed (recall the word vulnerable) OR they are about to lose their control over you (think domestic abuse, where the most dangerous time is when or just after you leave). I've personally known diagnosed & suspected (hard to get a diagnosis for most narcissists because of denial of responsibility & self reflection so they won't voluntarily see anyone who would call them out/ID them) & 1 diagnosed Sociopath (yes that DSM ago). There is a big difference, but both can destroy & damage, just differently. But only a sociopath can dive deep into your psyche beyond the narcissists superficial charm, they are the true con-artists that talk you into things that you'd never do otherwise...not lazy 'Nigerian Prince' cons playing on ignorance/innocence, they play on your internal psychological wounds & deficits. It's a whole different level. Not to diminish narcissistic trauma, that is real & requires real therapy. But as it's said in this video (tho using term psychopath - like the new anti-social personality disorder in current DMS) I knew about sociopaths, I even called the diagnosis (to myself) before I say the official. I thought I was immune...& yes, I came out better than others, but I was still destroyed. So I'm not nit-picking, the difference in terms DOES matter, it IS important, educating yourself is important & it DOES NOT mean that your trauma is less "correct", it is very real, but the difference can diminish the experiences of others. & personally, I'd like everyone to get the treatment & understanding & acceptance that they deserve & not be dismissed because every medical professional thinks they are "exaggerating" or is misusing terms as it's hard enough to be believed as female to begin with. I have an MS & I was blown off or rather LAUGHED off, so this is for ALL of us.
@@djtyner6232 Very long story. It was 1982 and I was an 18 year old kid who had no family. He took me to another State from where I was from. Then, he convinced the couple that we were renting a room from that he wanted to marry me but I had cold feet. Together they came up with a plan to get me to the alter by threatening to put me out on the street in the middle of winter if we didn't get married bc it was suddenly a moral problem for them. The Justice of the Peace said that he'd never seen a more unhappy bride and questioned whether I really wanted to go through with it. I was actually trying to get away from him which is why he came up with that plan.
@dinyhotmailthey find a new pathological space to play in once discovered. New job,new relationship,even new identity if they are the sophisticated type and have the means they do not fear ANYTHING that's the Hallmark of these meat suits..when you see that mask slip it is the most bone chilling sensation you will ever encounter..anything is better than being under that gaze.
Be careful. Family can be the cullprit to have made their children that way and they are masters in lying, deceiving people and are often so friendly and nice at the outside and outside world. But in their own house cruel, sadistic, manipulative, gaslighting, playing head games. This people will say things about their children yes...and you think this parents and other family, etc tell the truth?
They are careful not to commit crimes but the one who got me would shoplift he was bisexual he was married but had a mistress who died of a drug overdose he showed no emotion when she died but wanted to get the jewelry back that he bought her he had road rage he did not listen to music he used pharmaceutical drugs but no street drugs mostly benzodiazepines a con man and a embezzler
@@gen-zeke-8571 Yes, that’s how he has everyone fooled. I know he’s really upset because he doesn’t have power and control over me anymore. He’s always been obsessed with having power and control over me. He stole a whole life savings and didn’t leave his son, and I with a dime. I didn’t know contact. He recently tried to get to me through my son and use the money. He stole as a trigger to trigger me try to wave it in front of my face like a carrot. I’m healed from it so it doesn’t really trigger me also, I know that’s what he’s trying to do, but it’s just the gall and the evil trying to use whatever he can, to control me and still abuse me even though I don’t have direct contact with him. He told my son if I let him talk to me. He’ll give me some of the money he stole back and in the same breath, he said he has changed and he wants to make amends but he won’t give me any of the money that he stole from me unless I talk to him. Does it sound like he’s changed to you?and that he’s actually genuine? He doesn’t care about anyone not even his own children. I know he doesn’t. He just cares about himself that’s it! My son, and I actually had to count change to pay bills and to eat and he didn’t care because he wasn’t getting his way. He stole $50,000. I divorced him eight years ago, and he still trying to find ways to affect and destroy my life all because I divorced him and went no contact.
@@gen-zeke-8571Yes, that’s why they have everyone fooled. This man stole my whole life savings and left our son and I with nothing. My son and I had to literally scrape up change to pay bills and eat. Did my ex-husband care? No not at all! He wanted to make me pay for removing myself from the abusive toxic situation. Even if it meant hurting my son to hurt me. He literally has tried to destroy my life. He also tries to find ways to abuse me even though I’m in no contact with him.
@@Indigoglo1111 I'm thinking of moving on. I'll be 46 on April 8, but I stayed "broke" and kept the mindset that I'd be okay with very little. Money changes everyone and everything, and yes it's nice to have a few bucks, I'd rather live free in my mind. I stayed physically and for the sake of daughter. But she's 18 in 5 years, but I can't wait that long anymore. I am the first to admit I am not easy to live with and my Gosh have I been a rascal, but was able to retire from booze before 40 years old which is insane. This is the 8th year of no booze, and what truly does it is little things that turn into massive ordeals, but she can't touch my money because its disability. Part of the reason of staying is I just have nowhere to go, for now. The other day I was explaining how my mental health was under attack, and she responded with: "I want a snack". She went into the store and bought chips...though I got a reeses candy. Force fed love is likely more harmful than somebody being alone. *We Never NEEDED Them*. I'm glad you got out, and even though we'll never chill and talk about the madness potentials of love, I still will send you the energy of strength...and you may have pointers I could learn from. If not, take care and please be safe...**Learn self defense, or even a BB gun...as warning shots. You won't kill the dude with shots to his nuts.
I always tried to not be in a room where there was only one way out. When my narcopath went into a rage. And his eyes turned black, I knew I was going to die, I searched how and why there eyes turned, the answer I got was thy are so full of rage there blood causes the pupils to expand so much that there eyes really look black, I've seen it and experienced it when he went into a rage, he was gone, not in there, held me down with pillow over my face, in a car strangling me with a seat belt, more occasions. He left me 10 months ago with out a notice, no contact verbally. Yet he has stalked me relentlessly on my phone, security camera's. A cyber stalker genius. Court would not issue a ppo, and dismissed him being a stalker, saying he wasn't smart snuff to do the things he's doing to me in the dark. Nicest guy you would ever meet. A chameleon for sure .
Funny, i had this teacher who was great but, the angriest i had seen her, her brown eyes almost turned red, it was interesting, they were still brown, but...red...the actual iris i mean. Always thought i imagined it
Now they are trying to claim people who say the narcissist's pupils dilate like dinner plates are just hallucinating due to the psychological affects of the abuse and they are claiming this is a mental disorder too now! I thought you may like to know this and to know there are people out here who know they are liars and they are just money hungry and can never fill their pockets enough and so they search out everywhich way they can to paint up more and more and more people as mentally unwell and dangerous and in need of their intervention so they can generate more and more money from people. This is, unfortunately, how the psychiatric and psychology industry works!
I used to have a friend who I greatly admired. She was fun to be around, very sociable and likable. What I did notice about her was, she never appeared bothered when people wronged her. I used to think, I'd be devastated if someone talked to me like they did to her, but it used to just brush over her without a worry. Her husband came from a very wealthy family and when the farther-in-law died, she left her husband but not before telling him she wanted half his dads inheritance. She told me with glee how she had all these compromising sexual pics of her husband and if he tried to fight her right to half the inheritance, she would send those pictures to his boss. That's when I started to back away. I found out later that she had tried to steal her ex husbands jag and when he stood in front of the car, she smiled at him before running him over. She went to prison and I've never had anything to do with her since.
Trust your gut when meeting someone. Your body will cue you something is off. From what I understand their brains are physically different. This is not an excuse to let criminals off the hook. Just a comment on trusting our survival instinct cueing us to hey, that's weird response to our interaction... For them it's all about control, manipulation, and domination.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.larks I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
Many of them possess social intelligence, they know how to reach people and understand their needs They are also skilled in manipulation and playing behind the logic.
No I’ve definitely sensed people were not quite right and then found out they were psychopathic or narcissistic, I’ve even not felt right about someone and turned out they were a pedophile. Some people can sense and see when someone isn’t normal or has abnormal psychology. And the more I study it as a PhD candidate the more anecdotal evidence I find or am told.
Now that you mention it the 2 psychos I met seemed good guys actually but only when they directed their attention on me then I instinctivelly felt to better keep a distance .the 1st one was a convicted pedophile
True, I see it. When I first came to Uk there was a children’s presenter on tv, I immediately said to my girlfriend that the guy is a pedophile, I was 100% sure. She thought me judgemental as he was a beloved presenter she’d grown up with but I didn’t budge. I think it was about 8 years later it came out and I think he’s in prison now.
You are not taking in that some people are not analystic , but very intuitive . I have had the misfortune of running into a couple and each time my gut froze when I met them. Always trust the "big brain" your gut.
Please don't put junk food down there in that brain. That's the problem. Too poor a diet amongst the people these days leading to brain / gut disruption and messed up thinking.
@@quantumpotential7639exactly. It totally influences people’s cognition. It’s no wonder that dementia is diagnosed ever earlier. Our brains are going to mush.
Probably the reason we have fascination for them is bc they can truly function independently.. Most of us when we know we've done something so against norms, the overwhelming resulting emotions of shame, sadness, guilt, etc. Can have a paralyzing effect on our bodies.. but this doesn't happen for the psychopath.. We are only able to do horrendous things when we all collectively decide that it is alright to dehumanize a person or whole group or other species.. Psychopaths are free radicals I guess..
@briansidney3403 I meant 'independently' as in they don't feel they need to belong to or connect within a group to function.. I wasnt calling them literal recluses..
My son had a friend that was psycopathic. He was a big risk taker.. always testing how far he could go. I say that in the past tense. At 24 years old he took too much of a drug that killed him. I don't know his reasoning for doing it.. maybe he thought " not me", maybe he was trying to hurt someone.☹️
They don't like to live, they have a boredom that is only go away when killing or on drugs or adrenaline rush. The serial killer ones, say that the domination is the highest drug. Probably because they can't feel all the range of human emotion, more like a machine in flesh
^ We all lucked out that that person ODed at 24. I have a relative who was like that and he destroyed lives for a good 2 decades. Some people just fill up space.
My ex husband did the same thing years after we got divorced. He was living with a much younger woman in Vietnam. I'm sure it was accidental. He used to say he ate like a pig, not because he ate too much but because his manners. I saw him burning his chin with hot mozzarella cheese because he couldn't wait a minute for the pizza 🍕 to cool down. They overplay their tricks and make mistakes due to their narcissism. I'm sure he thought a little bit more would make it better, not deadly.
I was charmed when I first met my language professor almost a year ago. He was cheerful guy, seemingly loved what he did, and was super friendly to kids which made everyone like him on the first class itself. He was particularly close with me.. Or I think so because I've never seen him interact with other students like how he did with me. For example, during our first class, we were writing something and he sat beside me. I was so focused on my work I didn't notice him at first, but then I felt as if someone was staring at me. I turned and saw him looking straight at me. My face. I just smiled awkwardly and made small conversation (I wasn't too social at the time). When I mentioned it to my friend who's highly intuitive and slightly spiritual (trust me it is very crucial because he is also spiritually active), she was the one who made me realise that was weird. Why would he stare at me instead of what I was writing? Well.. Two months after our class started, I noticed his mask slipping. At first I thought it was just me and the lights were probably playing tricks on me, but soon, I realised it wasn't just me and two of my other close friends also felt the same. Sometimes, he has this maniacal look in his eyes when he smiles. Almost like he's taunting us. I consciously backed away from being close to him and I know he noticed it. He has tried to get close to me again but when he saw I wasn't going to let that happen, he stopped. Sometimes he acts as if I don't exist. I scored the highest in his class this semester, and he didn't even acknowledge me or said congrats, which is weird because he was praising the kid who scored highest last semester. He's very odd. We tried to observe his pattern. Very unpredictable. Sometimes we feel like he has split personality. Very easy to irritate, but won't show. Unfortunately we still have two more months to go. After that, we'll be free. His gaze unsettles me. Usually I can maintain eye contact with people.. Except him. Very creepy and mentally exhausting.
Stay clear of this fellow & always surround yourself with friends. Safety in numbers, for real. Also, please file a complaint with the Staff/ Board at your school. You may not be the first to do so. Also, it needs to be part of his record going forward. Next semester it could be another young lady & this will validate her too. Good job! Good luck too ...
I think you see it in their eyes in unguarded moments when they're not performing , when they momentarily forget to act a certain way. That's when their countenance becomes totally blank and the void behind their eyes becomes momentarily visible. Blink and you'd miss it. If you catch a glimpse of it it's eerily disconcerting ...Almost chilling but for how brief it is.
@@marvinedwards3130yeah I know what you mean.. the one I lived with a year ago had those eyes.. they were somewhat beady and predatory, he had this glint in his eyes that you would catch if you looked at him from a certain angle when he wasn’t doing anything… if you know, you know. I’m horrified that after learning about what psychopathy is that he clearly had this. The same warning signs, the same behaviours… I lived with him for 3 months in a houseshare. It was my living hell.
I have first hand experience. My mother was diagnosed psychotic. She killed my oldest sister and attempted to kill my youngest sister. She bragged about people she tried to kill. I took beating from her. She lied, caused trouble. 😒
@@kathybrem880 there is no describing what they do to you, and this is what you know as love. So you spend your whole life dealing with this kind of love, trying to figure out what is wrong with you. Nothing is wrong with you. It's them.
There's a difference between psychopath who kiII & who does not kiII. But they both has these common traits: Revengeful mentality, lack of empathy, zero concern of consequences, manipulative behaviour, joy of seeing pain & destruction
Diagnosed psycho in my family is charming until triggered maybe and then the eyes have nothing there, the charming behaviour goes and a cold character emerges who just by the obvious change scares the hell out of everyone around. It's perfectly possible to tell the person is a psycho by then, initially poss not, although the behaviour albeit charming is somehow different and disconcerting.
@ROCT1917no there is not such urge to" fit in "for Aspd person/psycopath or sociopath/it is only the cognitive understanding that this will bring whatever is wanted and needed.IF psycopath trusts you fully will simply put less efforts to wear the mask in front of you and you will face ultimate "nothingness "
@@andrianapetrova7856 true of the psycho but the sociopath learns the behaviour and the brain is wired differently. The sociopath has feeling. The psycho is empty. The difference between them is very obvious when there's a confrontation and a row ensues. The sociopath is loud and obnoxious and the psycho is cold, calculated and explosive.
I'm convinced that these people have experienced some of the worst physical and emotional abuse in their early childhood, that went totally undetected.
I'm curious about the next era of them with all the behind the screen. As we all know by now there's a good chance nobody is who or what we think. Me included.
I met many psychopaths, sociopaths and so on in my life. Some people think it is only 1%, but i know it is much more higher! But not all turn into serial killers, but end up destroying people, a hole society in many ways and forms. Many are also in power positions. Like doctors, psychiatrists, psychologes, teachers, lawjers, directors, ceo's, industrials, nurses, sportmen, chess players, husbands, wifes... I think primates like we all are, are a very nasty behaving animal in general and if we look at chimps and other primates, except gorillas and oerang oetans, we are in the same club. Only a few exceptions exist of people who are wired differently. Also, diet plays a huge role in aggression and deficienties in nutrients can cause eratic behaviir, mood swings and so on. Together with gut health.
@@WoodlandTyes, but only at the upper end, you qualify as one, so the comment above makes sense. If you score a 2/40 your technically somewhere on the spectrum, but not on the psychopathy spectrum in the classical sense.
All you folks who imagine you can spot a psychopath thru their eyes or their aura or some other Spidey sense for psychos you claim to possess, I would respectfully suggest that you are actually suffering from confirmation bias. You are looking for outward signs of psychopathy in someone you already know isn't normal or even someone you've been married to for years and know extremely well. You aren't counting all the psychopaths you don't have a clue about, which is almost all of them. There are too many cases of men who outwardly lived normal, often mundane lives by day but who stalked raped tortured and murdered people for fun when the mood struck or an opportunity presented itself. Then they return hone and cook dinner with the wife and help the kids with homework and not a single person who knew them had the slightest idea who they really were. Try to find anyone who knew BTK or Israel Keyes personally who has a single negatve word to say about either of these prolific serial killers. There aren't any, every single person the police interviewed once their crimes were discovered spoke of them in glowing terms. No one had a clue
11:00 There is something about the predatory gaze that does communicate the nature of the individual. I completely agree that it is difficult to spot the predator in the charming, charismatic "con man", but once you catch a glimpse of the predatory gaze, your soul knows what you're dealing with.
I have a neighbor who is 50 lives next to his mother on corner . HE YELLS AT HER CUSSING HER ALOT his father has already died from a heart attack. His mother is terrified of his behaviors well a uber driver didnt take it lighty hearing him cussing his mother. THAT GUY JUMPED OUT HIS CAR . AND BEAT HIS ASS .. 😮
@@StemNoodlesnakes can feel love Also psychopaths can be good people it’s just like a 35% chance and those people are so good at hiding it to the point that you can’t even tell
If 1% of society are psychopaths and this video has to date 196000 views then it is likely that 1960 of those viewers have had some kind of relationship with a psychopath at some point. 'Every single comment' isn't claiming such a relationship. I would argue that the amount of comments claiming this are proportional to the amount of psychopaths in society.
@@STORMDAME good math. It's astonishing how many the 1% is. I'm currently dealing with one, he fits 90% of the attributes descrbed on this program. And he is able to gaslight the police, the Court, friends and family. It's scarry to be next to him. You feel the proximity of 'evil' with him.
Who's reporting the percentage on this? A psychopath? Lol But, seriously, the population u can guess is probably over 50%. We live in a predator - prey world. It has always been this way.
Talk about the psychopath in a high positions in businesses and politics. They make great bosses because they think about getting ahead and not killing.
19:32 I remember when that researcher found out he had the brain of a psychopath. As we know today it is nature AND nurture that is necessary to create a monster. That man was fine, but had he been abused as a child, he might have been a danger to society. Many people are abused as children, I was one of them, but people like this are not a danger to society because we do not have the nature, or the DNA to create a psychopath.
Especially without the proper help to navigate life's lessons and losses. We have become more insulated and isolated with the influx of technology, but now the algorithm knows and watches what makes people tick.
@@lindafarwell3408 based on what? What evidence? When you study these personalities almost all of them were abused. I’d like to know how many cases there are of a psychopath that had zero trauma in childhood. I bet you can’t find one.
34:32 How the hell was Paulo Shaker allowed out in order to commit all these offences? After rape and kidnapping, he should have been put away for a very long time!
In order to catch a criminal, you have to think like one, is the hardest thing to deal with and it takes a personal form of decompression to get back to your normal self. Worked in law enforcement.
I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder about two years ago. I have alot of psychopathic tendencies. don't mistake this comment as me bragging or seeking attention, please. the past few years I've been trying to figure out if I'm a psychopath. I'm completely self aware. I lie, steal, manipulate, cheat. I've done horrible things, even as a child. I sometimes think of even worse things, and in detail. I don't always regret these actions though. i don't know if this is a calling out for help, or a rant. I just feel really confused right now. I want help, but I feel so far beyond that point, plus it has protected me for so long. I don't know what to do
@NatureofDi yes absolutely, and i have a long term partner as well. I always have had alot of love towards my pets. i killed two of my pets when i was younger. they were guinea pigs. they were already dying, and i felt like it was the right thing to do to end their suffering. but i didnt feel anything when doing so. I used to not be able to maintain relationships, but I've been doing much better now. I'm just scared in like 30 years from now I'll do something dangerous because I never got help for it. I feel like people have really overlooked my mental health. It can get really dangerous, but I don't think people believe what I say when I try to explain what's really on my mind
@@gmercado7298 I think you can go to a psychiatrist to get a diagnosis about it. Simply share your thoughts and claim to be tested. I think having a diagnosis will make you feel better on the point of uncertainity. Otherwise, you can learn more about how to deal with some feelings for the future by reading, informing yourself about coping and control mechanisms. Meanwhile surrender yourself with people who care about you and love you! I think love and value can be a cure for many disturbances or conditions. On the opposite side, try to stay away from environements that trigger you and undermine your value. These people and toxic environments can get the worst side out of you. Other than that, I wish you the best in life. 🍀
You are so self-aware and have obviously sought help as you are recently diagnosed. I don't have any answers for you, but may I express confidence in you controlling your worst and most damaging urges as you seek answers.🎉😊
This documentation comes far too mixed, attention grabbing, lacking of both structure and content. Some examples before I stopped watching: - From 12:00 on it is spoken of a psychopathy test and traits typically high on a psychopath, but the test is never explained, the traits are never listet, neither explained. - From 17:00 on brain scan pictures are shown, as if the psychopath would be simply identifiable by anyone looking at such pictures through having less brain activity (during what action?). Thats simply misleading. The only scientifically affirmed knowledge here is: More intelligent brains allways show less activity when solving a problem than the less intelligent brains. The regions of the brain specifically involved for psychopathy are not explained/mentioned, here. So no distinction can be made... - Why is Donald Trump frequently shown as if he was a textbook example of a psychopath? His behavior is so bizarre in allmost every aspect, that he cannot be seen as a good example for anything specific!
The maker of the video puts Trump in it to try to give their piece into discrediting him and the great shape the country was in while he was in office. There’s clearly an agenda for the creator by adding Trump in the video. It’s for them to hopefully sway voters thoughts by associating Trump as a psychopath.
Well....as for me personally, I just don't care. I think for most, it's a total lack of empathy for other living creatures. Had I been born in the pre DNA Era of forensics, I'd have been one of the worst, guaranteed. Not because I'm a pervert or a sexpest, I have alot of what I assume is respect and admiration for women in general. But I have a very very strong, deep, immense hatred for pdfiles and bullies. Now those types, Id get pleasure in listening to them cry for their lives. I'd very much be a Dexter type
@@ShitterMcGavinI think a lot of people would. Most of us don't care about the feelings of violent offenders. Psychopaths just don't care about anyone period.
BOTH 🤔a+b=c the act of not caring fuels their passive aggressive disguise and allows them to be anti-social and into their own damn selves, this in turn🔄👹🔃satiates their non human condition. AN ACTUAL DIFFERENT SPECIES 🗣🚽hurl
I think a lot of things Trump has said have been taken out of context. Trump is certainly no great orator but he's also not a psychopath cause he cares too much for others. He has helped many people without ever saying a word about it, nor does he like showing that side. I agree with Jordan Peterson, Trump is more of an extreme extrovert than what you are trying to paint him as.
Everything in the superficial USA is about dollars, from people to institutions, such as prisons. In Europe it's much more about the people, not possessions, which also goes into the prison system, which is about rehabilitating the criminals back into the society. Something what we are definitely lacking from you, is death sentence.
I did clinical psychiatry rotation when I was in nursing school in the early 80s. There was a patient who had the scariest eyes I've ever seen. She was an heiress to a fortune and I couldn't understand why she was in a state institution. Apparently, her family tried to place her in a private, upscale mental institution, but she wanted to go back and live in a dorm with 4 other women. She thought she was Cinderella. She spent the day making and remaking her bed, brushing her waist length silver hair and taking to herself. Her voice was low and cultured, she introduced herself as Cinderella and asked me if I was in love. She said she was waiting for Prince Charming. She was always happy, but those eyes were scary
Not sure if the ppl. I have in mind from my past were psychopath or sociopaths, but when you are friends or dating one, it’s not easy to see the traits o warning bc you get blind by wanting them in your lives and like them. So bc of Ruiz, many don’t see tyecwaening signs. Even when I tried to warm others about these ppl. they felt uncomfortable with my truth and didn’t believe me bc it made no sense to them that our mutual friend was a psychopath. So that’s in the psychopaths plans and this is how they set it up and how they pull off the hurt and manipulation. Then if ever the ppl. you know has figured it out, they are too ashamed to admit they were also fooled and was so wrong about a person.
Love all these comments from women claiming their Ex’s were psychopaths who obviously didn’t pay attention to the documentary. If they havnt been evaluated, YOU CANT KNOW! It’s way more likely that your ex has BPD or NPD. Or even more likely that YOU have BPD or NPD and are projecting it to your partner to avoid looking at your part in the relationship. Relationships are a 2-way street and no one is without fault.
My ex killed all my 8 year old son's homing pigeons in front of him, the night I asked him to leave. He also killed his new girlfriend's dog. He's a manager, high in career, drives a brand new range Rover, everyone thinks he's just a shy kind guy. How would you diagnose him?
I can sometimes spot a psychopath by looking in their eyes. It's amazing how they become pissed off for a split second when they know I know!!! They're quick to cover it up, but I've made an instant enemy, especially in the workplace! They are afraid of true goodness as they have no power over it. I remember meeting one for the first time and as soon as I looked at him, he freaked out screaming that I was looking inside of him. The weird part was that I knew I didn't see all the way inside, so what was he hiding? He immediately left the bar we were at. The people who knew him said they never saw him act that way before. So don't say that some can't see a psychopath through their eyes. I'm an INFJ and I think we often have great ability to 'read' people. It's a double-edged sword: I know what I'm up against, but that raises his/her wrath!!!
He has some traits but that is not a bad thing as it made him very successful in business & a good politician. Most people within politics are psychopaths. Biden is a very good example.
I once said to my mother, you know if i was hanging off a cliff i wouldnt trust ( her husband, stepfather) to pull me back up. she replied, to be quite honest i now realize i wouldnt trust him to pull me back up either .
I'm not quite finished, and it's been slightly touched on re careers, but being a psychopath and having psychopaths in society is not necessarily a bad thing. Very few psychopaths go out and kill. The types of careers smart psychopaths go into may utilise their psychopathic traits. Lack of empathy can be an advantage. If as a surgeon you are operating on a small child - the same age and sex of your own child say - is it not better to have no emotions to distract you, and instead the psychopath can logically provide the best care? I see the majority of psychopaths as just another neurodiversity.
Biggest mistake people make is to assume another human being thinks like you. We never can tell what other's are thinking even if the word's are good..
So true. This is very important to get thru peoples heads. Psychp mimic.
This is very true, but also, not everyone who thinks differently than you is harmful either. It's just trying to figure out if they are someone we can learn from or someone we will be harmed by before it's too late.
@fudgeholeJenkinsAgree
Paranoid is also mental disorder.
You're right it's the biggest mistake we can make to believe others think the same way as we do. It took me decades to understand some people have zero empathy.
My father is an intelligent psychopath who worked for the defense industry. The scariest thing about him is how he can fool people into thinking he's a nice guy. He was a master of the double life.
Did he go to church?
No, solid atheist. He told me he was God once.@@whitemountainapache3297
because modern people have been taught to trust people regardless, especially if they are decently looking and carry themselves well, as a sociopath we know this and play on it
Yes, people are trained to be suckers. It's sad and scary.@@Kektamusprime
@whitemountainapache3297😂😂
I was married to one for 14 yrs. I carefully planned my escape. He didn’t resist & didn’t try to get me back. My life has been so much better. It was all about control, but it was then too much effort to get me back so he is now on his 3rd wife. I am married to a great guy who’s helped me work through my years of having someone suck me dry. He never physically hurt me. It was all psychological. Almost 40 yrs & it still hurts if I let it.
The difference between physical and emotional wounds is that physical wounds heal.
Mm, both can heal. Some just teach us a healthy wariness. It’s for with whom we share this world.
He sounds like a overt narcissist?
Capitalism is an economic system that puts profit above everything including humans, and any type of morality. Why should we think that it would do anything other than reward psychopathy
I agree
One thing I've realized in my 50 years of being on this planet is that, never assume ppl are products of their environments. Some are just born Evil.
absoluty not, and if this is possible we need to help them and give options and incentives besides hiding, prison or death
@@Phishyificationyou can go ahead and put yourself out there. If it isn’t caught early the odds lesson some people are born this way. Some may not be and only a product of their environment.
@@Phishyificationsuch as?
imo "being evil" is a moral choice of a sane adult person. for example: mafia boss chooses to be a mafia boss.
if someone is "born evil" it means such person can't choose between good and wrong, because has no other choice from the get go.
thus should be called differently. maybe... psychopath? sociopath?
etc.
such words bring not only awerness, but also scientific answers: why such person is like that and what can be done to prevent it.
@@Zmiana_Pogody I’ve seen cases where the child shows signs as early as 5. Not all are made but born. Like a narcissist The same things were shown in adhd children. Some families carry it in their dna make up. Why not a sociopath or psychopath
You can definitely see it in the eyes and feel their energy. If something doesn't feel right,,,always go with your first instinct. Don't ignored that!!!!!
R U N !
his eyes @5 min 27 seconds in ,you can see the eyes 👀
I briefly befriended a Narcissist once... in the beginning, she played all her charm to make sure I'd be fond of her. Once I realised how fake she was (by her actions), I finally noticed the empty look in her eyes... they looked right through me.
The things she said sounded good/well-meaning, but the eyes never matched. There was nobody behind those eyes, no soul... Also I could tell by her eyes, that she did not truly recognize me as another soul/human being.
@cheri4939, yeah, I have experienced that.
This woman at work one day I felt her looking at me and I turned to the side and saw her staring at me like she was staring into my soul. It truly gave me the creeps.
You cant, on some you Can, but others are extremely good at being social chameleons. And Can mimic emotions so they are even more believable than the real deal.
He's so right. Psychopaths are full of emotion. Just not for anyone but themselves.
narcissists do. not psychopaths.
anger. thats their primary emotion..
"Psychopaths are full of emotion. Just not for anyone but themselves."
Wrong, thats the definition of a sociopath.
@@petermeyer6873 Wrong.
@@watsonspuzzle If your greek isnt good enough, just go and look up the definitions, dear.
I totally disagree with not being able to see it in their eyes... I was married to one for 16 yrs. You can totally see the darkness and emptiness in them. It's usually more noticeable when you are the target of their anger.
To: TheresaMarie1... I absolutely agree with you 100%... Seeing what we see in their eyes is very much a part of the spiritual world as well, seeing, recognizing and being blessed to notice their soulless spirit that eventually is revealed to us through the psychopaths eyes, their intent, their plotting, their deep true unhappiness and general disdain that they have for us... I agree with part of what the psychologist said when he said that they will attempt to fool him, however 'The Lord' will allow some victims to see the horrible spirit in the psychopaths eyes... Psychologist may have all 'The Book Smarts & Education', however being 'Angel Driven Human Beings' as we born, we are gifted to see the true inherit evil of the psychopaths forever dangerous soulless spirit... 'Just My Thoughts'!
I've experienced many people suffering an anti social disorder. Some were narcisssist, other sociopath or psychopath. Most diagnosed. I didn't yet know what to think of it. I could not see evil in their eyes. My brother in law murdered my older sister and later was diagnosed before the trial, as a psychopathic narcissist. I didn't see any evil in his eyes neither but 2 out of about 15 had a rather empty look in their eyes, in retrospect.
There was one person who wasn't diagnosed, and which was the first person of which i realized he was mentally abusing me. I was already feeling really bad, was on disability and during a conversation he was seriously devaluating my person and it got me angry. Wasn't the first time but this time as i got angry i saw the pupils of his eyes become very, very large.... and as quick as the grew they snapped back to normal rather small size. In retrospect it was like he experienced joy in making me angry.
THAT is the only time i had ever seen something almost otherworldy in someone's eyes.
It's said that the eyes are the window to your soul and, I totally agree. You can't only see it in their eyes but, you feel it.
@@shanda6425 I've always been the one that felt something was off... just never knew what it was. I had that feeling with some people, since childhood. It really felt like a giant relief the day i became aware of what i felt.
@@alainvosselman9960 I understand exactly what you mean.. I've been that way as a child too and I'm thankful for it.
Dated a psychopath for a year- would never wish that on anyone. They're very good at wearing a mask of normalcy, and undermining your instincts (that tell you something is wrong). But the mask always eventually slips, and if you pay attention to those instincts, you'll catch on.
20 years I got trapped, so scary now I look back on it and even now 5 years after leaving he is relentless in trying to destroy me and stalk me
@@LizEarthAngel3 I’m so sorry you’ve been having to live through that. I’m truly hoping things have gotten better for you than they were a month ago but I know only too well that that’s probably unlikely. Having been there I feel for you so much and am praying for you. May 2024 bring you relief from all of your troubles.
@@Featherfinder thank you for your kind words, yes it’s still very much ongoing, the messages are getting further away from the kids to just calling me names, but I’m getting stronger that helps, I’m wishing you a very happy new year 💫 stay safe too 🙏🏻❤️
Yeah thats a common trait in paycopaths really hight revenge conducts
@@Vagdinox unrelenting
This seems to be about the mind of the murdering psychopaths, or serial killers, a subject which has been covered so many times that it almost fells like many people watching could write the script. The psychopaths who affect us much more often are those who are our bosses, or involved from top to bottom in government or business.
And family members
Like Trump. I think he's psychopathic, and sociopathic.
It seems that you didn't watch the entire video.
They talk about corporate and politicians with psychopathic traits
Parents and spouses.
Jekyll and Hyde is the Hallmark of an abuser!
Those with delusions of grandeur like Soros and those who are with WEF. The WEF are some truly frightening individuals when you listen to them speak on society. They want to control people and God knows they have the money, media, resources to do just that if we allow it.
If you ever accidentally get involved with a psychopath… back out of the room very quietly… or slip away and block everything. Don’t confront these freaks.
Did you not watch the video? Many psychopaths are not bad people. There are lots of people with psychopathic traits who do crucial jobs in our society. Kinda like the doctor who realized his brain works in a similar way to a psychopath. Psychopath isn’t a synonym for evil. You’re thinking of dark triad people. Yes, psychopathy is part of the designation but there’s much more. Mostly sadism and machevelianism.(sp)
Same with anyone with malignant Narcissistic Personality Disorder - RUN! Lots of crossover.
@@shanecrump7932 dark triad= all of these 3 together: psychopathy, machievellianism and narcsissm. Dark tetrad= all of those + sadism
shanecrump I kinda think YOU didn’t watch the video!!!!!
I'm not a freak Stacy really get educated were not all evil ppl some us can control ourselves and not prey on dumb asses🤷🏻♀️
My adoptive father was a classic psychopath. All smiles and charm, when we had guests, very scary and violent, when we were alone with him.
Same here with my father. Very scary now when I understand
I remember when I was growing up, as well as years later when my father was dying and people would just gush and say what a beautiful heart, what a wonderful man, I must be the luckiest girl alive to have such a charming and sweet father. I was dumbfounded every time I heard it. My dad was a sadistic, extremely violent man who knew no bounds to his violence, abuse, and meanness. I used to have nightmares about him. Even after he died, I'd have nightmares of him crawling out of the grave, grabbing my ankles and dragging me below. If people only knew what he was really like behind closed doors...
@@BeRightBack131this is often the case with narcissist..they are wonderfully nice to people outside the home,,but behind closed doors they are awful monsters..they love to dominant close family ,but won’t say boo to a outsider..horrible devils .
@@Sally237-s4w Yes, and in particular, covert Narcissism.
Yep I grew in a family like this. When I turned 17 I left for Uni and NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER went back there. Im 50 now and have a great like with my awesome friends live on the beach and loving life.
Dr Matt Logan is giving true advice. You can't tell on meeting a psychopath that he is one, nor do they all have "dark eyes" or eyes showing no life. In the spectrum covering narcissism and pscyhopathy there are varying degrees of both conditions, and it takes getting to know a person before you start to see signs of either condition begin to emerge. I've had one devastating experience with a covert narc and that was enough to scare me for life - it changes your ability to trust openly ever again and makes you very wary about just who you may be talking to .
@@goldenautumn3073 narc is not psycopathy
BOTH are personality disorders, with one being NPD and the other is the non-official name for someone with ASPD.
Prefacing my comment by stating that I'm a retired mental health social worker specialized in Level 1 clients both in the Child/Adolescence and later in the Adult system.
Level 1's were chronic, severe requiring multiple agencies involvement.
In the adult system I had 2 cases that were Rule 11's - guilty but mentally ill and were in the psych ward at the state prison - indefinitely.
But I'm not going to focus on them.
My focus is on the children who grow up to be psychopaths.
There were 3 things at the time we looked for in our clients/patients. Cruelty to animals, fire setting, bedwetting. These behaviors were the first indicators of pathology.
Then it was the misc. behaviors - stealing, lying, aggressions, passiveness, etc.
For example, one client that I did an intake on had the 3 indicators.
1. Cruelty to animals: He would capture and torture smaller animals - pet hamsters, turtles, birds, lizards etc. He'd skin them alive, set them on fire, break all their bones and so on.
2. Fire setting: He would go around the apartment complex and check to see if car windows were down. Didn't have to all the way down or half down, just a gap would be fine. Then he'd light matches and push them through the opening. Sometimes he'd shove paper in and push the lit matches on top.
3. He was a bed wetter.
The parents had taken to padlocking his door at night so he wouldn't get out. Then they had a padlock on the inside of their bedroom to keep him out, and a padlock on the baby brother's door. Padlocked all the cabinets and fridge; the same with all cleaning and bathing supplies, all the utensils and so on.
He was 11 years old.
At that time, per the DSM IIIr - his diagnosis was Conduct Disorder. Also, one cannot give a child a diagnosis of psychopathy.
And in my 20+ years in this field, these children are more common than you think.
We cannot wait until these children grow up to be adults before we identify them. Because by that time, they have honed their skills and become proficient in their deeds. Ted Bundy is one example.
I don't know what the answer is, but it is something that we should not overlook nor ignore.
Jail for life on diagnosis. It cannot be cured.
The family should have negotiated a lucrative endorsement contract from Master Lock. Monies earned could have been spent on fortifying the door entry ways with reinforced steel and concrete, then get a lucrative endorsement deal with US Steel, and use those proceeds to build a church in which to hold an exorcist event to rid the poor child of all the demons so he can be reunited with family.
Then open the church for worship giving prarishners an opportunity to exercise their demons, as there seems to be an abundance of them floating about these days looking for souls to take.
Good job
But bed wetting at that age is sign of abuse ..no?we're you looking at these aspects too?,the corellation, I mean if some become psychopaths due to what they saw and experienced
Betwetting is caused often times due to lack of certain nutrients!
Diet plays a huge role in aggresion, criminality also. Lack of longterm breastfeeding also together with a lacking mother who is warm, caring, sensitive, calm letting the baby drink in her arms, caressing the babies head, giving kisses!
Many hate women, due to a cold demeanor, irresponsive, neglecting mothers who do not interract, play, talk nicely, cuddle with their newborn and baby age, toddler age.
Also letting babies sleep in their own bed, instead in their arms body to body cintact. This is my personal experience and experience with nasty men/women.
And then there’s the common kind who just victimizes his own family. The people who are in their lives don’t comprehend psychopathy, so they usually condemn the victims; the psychopath is a professional liar.
Look in the mirror
You are so right about that.
I saved myself to be able to save my children.
Now, we are all saved from him. My children chose to break contact with him.
He had no empathy and enjoyed the suffering of family members.
Thanks for the info doctor
1% is very rare - not common, but narcissistic tendencies or NPD (specifically vulnerable/covert) behave in that way. Present themselves to everyone else as different from how they are, preemptively spread lies about those who know the truth about their true self so they look like the crazy ones. They are the ones who actually commit the most murders, they do this when they about to get caught in their lies & their true self will be exposed (recall the word vulnerable) OR they are about to lose their control over you (think domestic abuse, where the most dangerous time is when or just after you leave). I've personally known diagnosed & suspected (hard to get a diagnosis for most narcissists because of denial of responsibility & self reflection so they won't voluntarily see anyone who would call them out/ID them) & 1 diagnosed Sociopath (yes that DSM ago). There is a big difference, but both can destroy & damage, just differently.
But only a sociopath can dive deep into your psyche beyond the narcissists superficial charm, they are the true con-artists that talk you into things that you'd never do otherwise...not lazy 'Nigerian Prince' cons playing on ignorance/innocence, they play on your internal psychological wounds & deficits. It's a whole different level. Not to diminish narcissistic trauma, that is real & requires real therapy. But as it's said in this video (tho using term psychopath - like the new anti-social personality disorder in current DMS) I knew about sociopaths, I even called the diagnosis (to myself) before I say the official. I thought I was immune...& yes, I came out better than others, but I was still destroyed. So I'm not nit-picking, the difference in terms DOES matter, it IS important, educating yourself is important & it DOES NOT mean that your trauma is less "correct", it is very real, but the difference can diminish the experiences of others. & personally, I'd like everyone to get the treatment & understanding & acceptance that they deserve & not be dismissed because every medical professional thinks they are "exaggerating" or is misusing terms as it's hard enough to be believed as female to begin with. I have an MS & I was blown off or rather LAUGHED off, so this is for ALL of us.
The inversion! The victims are framed and show up as the problem/ crazy one!
My ex scored 39/40 on the Hare Psychopathy Test. Very scary dude. I was so relieved when I heard he had died. I never could relax with him out there.
Scary. Wow. I’m sorry.
*Congratulations you win the worst partner chooser award, lol, are all your Ex's nut jobs* 😂😂😂😂
Why did you marry him ? I'm assuming not for the psychopathy of course😊, which qualities attracted you that hid his real self in the beginning?
@@djtyner6232 Very long story. It was 1982 and I was an 18 year old kid who had no family. He took me to another State from where I was from. Then, he convinced the couple that we were renting a room from that he wanted to marry me but I had cold feet. Together they came up with a plan to get me to the alter by threatening to put me out on the street in the middle of winter if we didn't get married bc it was suddenly a moral problem for them. The Justice of the Peace said that he'd never seen a more unhappy bride and questioned whether I really wanted to go through with it. I was actually trying to get away from him which is why he came up with that plan.
With death on him? Kinda harsh
Its scary so many dangerous people out there with a disguise on
Another word for “psychopath “ is “predator “.
A predator eats his prey, a psychopath usually does not.
@@petermeyer6873they slowly erase you on every level. That's worse!
It literally does not
Psychopath actually means (Suffering soul) in Greek I believe witches where the word originated from
Words matter. Chose them wisely
@@petermeyer6873you've heard of child predators, right? They are predators because they hunt & prey on those who are deemed weaker than themselves.
I would be more interested in listening to family members or friends of these psychopaths to see what they were like before their crimes
@dinyhotmailthey find a new pathological space to play in once discovered. New job,new relationship,even new identity if they are the sophisticated type and have the means they do not fear ANYTHING that's the Hallmark of these meat suits..when you see that mask slip it is the most bone chilling sensation you will ever encounter..anything is better than being under that gaze.
Be careful.
Family can be the cullprit to have made their children that way and they are masters in lying, deceiving people and are often so friendly and nice at the outside and outside world. But in their own house cruel, sadistic, manipulative, gaslighting, playing head games.
This people will say things about their children yes...and you think this parents and other family, etc tell the truth?
They are careful not to commit crimes but the one who got me would shoplift he was bisexual he was married but had a mistress who died of a drug overdose he showed no emotion when she died but wanted to get the jewelry back that he bought her he had road rage he did not listen to music he used pharmaceutical drugs but no street drugs mostly benzodiazepines a con man and a embezzler
My ex-husband is a psychopath, but he has so many people fooled. I wish someone would believe me. I’m afraid of what this man will try and do.
Is he quiet, or if you split custody does he act like nothing is wrong?
@@gen-zeke-8571 Yes, that’s how he has everyone fooled. I know he’s really upset because he doesn’t have power and control over me anymore. He’s always been obsessed with having power and control over me. He stole a whole life savings and didn’t leave his son, and I with a dime. I didn’t know contact. He recently tried to get to me through my son and use the money. He stole as a trigger to trigger me try to wave it in front of my face like a carrot. I’m healed from it so it doesn’t really trigger me also, I know that’s what he’s trying to do, but it’s just the gall and the evil trying to use whatever he can, to control me and still abuse me even though I don’t have direct contact with him. He told my son if I let him talk to me. He’ll give me some of the money he stole back and in the same breath, he said he has changed and he wants to make amends but he won’t give me any of the money that he stole from me unless I talk to him. Does it sound like he’s changed to you?and that he’s actually genuine? He doesn’t care about anyone not even his own children. I know he doesn’t. He just cares about himself that’s it! My son, and I actually had to count change to pay bills and to eat and he didn’t care because he wasn’t getting his way. He stole $50,000. I divorced him eight years ago, and he still trying to find ways to affect and destroy my life all because I divorced him and went no contact.
@@gen-zeke-8571Yes, that’s why they have everyone fooled. This man stole my whole life savings and left our son and I with nothing. My son and I had to literally scrape up change to pay bills and eat. Did my ex-husband care? No not at all! He wanted to make me pay for removing myself from the abusive toxic situation. Even if it meant hurting my son to hurt me. He literally has tried to destroy my life. He also tries to find ways to abuse me even though I’m in no contact with him.
@@Indigoglo1111 I'm thinking of moving on. I'll be 46 on April 8, but I stayed "broke" and kept the mindset that I'd be okay with very little. Money changes everyone and everything, and yes it's nice to have a few bucks, I'd rather live free in my mind. I stayed physically and for the sake of daughter. But she's 18 in 5 years, but I can't wait that long anymore. I am the first to admit I am not easy to live with and my Gosh have I been a rascal, but was able to retire from booze before 40 years old which is insane. This is the 8th year of no booze, and what truly does it is little things that turn into massive ordeals, but she can't touch my money because its disability. Part of the reason of staying is I just have nowhere to go, for now. The other day I was explaining how my mental health was under attack, and she responded with: "I want a snack". She went into the store and bought chips...though I got a reeses candy. Force fed love is likely more harmful than somebody being alone. *We Never NEEDED Them*. I'm glad you got out, and even though we'll never chill and talk about the madness potentials of love, I still will send you the energy of strength...and you may have pointers I could learn from. If not, take care and please be safe...**Learn self defense, or even a BB gun...as warning shots. You won't kill the dude with shots to his nuts.
I believe you.. Stay safe ❤
Those that are extremely intimate with a psychopath and have had their blinders taken off can see it in the person. 💯
And then spot it straight away in others.
You can never unsee it again!!
Indeed, from a mile away.
nope yall are wrong
@@bootynbass9436 Tell us Booty!
@@bootynbass9436I believe being bought up by a psychopath and a narcissist mum you can see it
Elizabeth Holmes was definitely one of these!
That woman's stare freaks me out.
I always tried to not be in a room where there was only one way out. When my narcopath went into a rage. And his eyes turned black, I knew I was going to die, I searched how and why there eyes turned, the answer I got was thy are so full of rage there blood causes the pupils to expand so much that there eyes really look black, I've seen it and experienced it when he went into a rage, he was gone, not in there, held me down with pillow over my face, in a car strangling me with a seat belt, more occasions. He left me 10 months ago with out a notice, no contact verbally. Yet he has stalked me relentlessly on my phone, security camera's. A cyber stalker genius. Court would not issue a ppo, and dismissed him being a stalker, saying he wasn't smart snuff to do the things he's doing to me in the dark. Nicest guy you would ever meet. A chameleon for sure .
Wow! That's crazy.. Hope you're well and safe now.
Funny, i had this teacher who was great but, the angriest i had seen her, her brown eyes almost turned red, it was interesting, they were still brown, but...red...the actual iris i mean. Always thought i imagined it
Now they are trying to claim people who say the narcissist's pupils dilate like dinner plates are just hallucinating due to the psychological affects of the abuse and they are claiming this is a mental disorder too now! I thought you may like to know this and to know there are people out here who know they are liars and they are just money hungry and can never fill their pockets enough and so they search out everywhich way they can to paint up more and more and more people as mentally unwell and dangerous and in need of their intervention so they can generate more and more money from people. This is, unfortunately, how the psychiatric and psychology industry works!
I used to have a friend who I greatly admired. She was fun to be around, very sociable and likable. What I did notice about her was, she never appeared bothered when people wronged her. I used to think, I'd be devastated if someone talked to me like they did to her, but it used to just brush over her without a worry.
Her husband came from a very wealthy family and when the farther-in-law died, she left her husband but not before telling him she wanted half his dads inheritance. She told me with glee how she had all these compromising sexual pics of her husband and if he tried to fight her right to half the inheritance, she would send those pictures to his boss. That's when I started to back away.
I found out later that she had tried to steal her ex husbands jag and when he stood in front of the car, she smiled at him before running him over. She went to prison and I've never had anything to do with her since.
Damn
I almost got drowned by my mother in the swimming pool, as joke.
She had 3 children ( including me), all 3 ran away before they where 18
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My mama tried that with my sister once 🤷♂️ Parents eh?
Trust your gut when meeting someone. Your body will cue you something is off.
From what I understand their brains are physically different. This is not an excuse to let criminals off the hook. Just a comment on trusting our survival instinct cueing us to hey, that's weird response to our interaction...
For them it's all about control, manipulation, and domination.
Most psychopaths never commit any crime. That's important to remember.
Or never get caught, anyway
@@JustMomHere That goes for most crimes psychopath or not. Always got to be some uneducated E-dweller.
They are very careful not to commit a crime
There is this book called Wisdom Of Psychopats. Well most of them below average intelligence.
Y r u 1
The list of psychopath should include doctors what is more controlling than putting someone’s life in jeopardy
Absolutely agree
Remember that ALL psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths.
Pop psych
This is correct. I'd like to know what percent of narcissists are also psychopaths.
A more recent study has connected schizotypy and psychopathy; interesting reas
Well but that somehow doesnt make sense or? Because Psychoapths are metanlly stable while Narcissists are mentally very unstable.
@CuriousConnoisseurs All psychopaths are narcissists. But not all narcissists are psychopaths.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.larks I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
Anxiety happens when you think you have to figure out everything all at once.
Breathe. You're strong. You got this Take it day by
day.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is. dr.larks
When people show you who they are, believe them . Then walk quickly and quietly away. Live another day and thank God. 😮
The psychopaths have what's called the psychopathic charisma. That's why people trust them 😢
Donald Trump 😮
@@faraon2012Biden, Hillary Clinton, Rumsfeld, Pelosi, Kissinger, Netanyahu, etc etc etc.
Narcissists are the same mum mummy dearest could charm the birds out of the trees😂😂😂 an evil insidious entity
Many of them possess social intelligence, they know how to reach people and understand their needs
They are also skilled in manipulation and playing behind the logic.
And Lawyers too !
It takes personal experience to see it in their eyes. Then you’ll never be fooled again.
So true
When you have personal experience, it attracts you as well.
No I’ve definitely sensed people were not quite right and then found out they were psychopathic or narcissistic, I’ve even not felt right about someone and turned out they were a pedophile. Some people can sense and see when someone isn’t normal or has abnormal psychology. And the more I study it as a PhD candidate the more anecdotal evidence I find or am told.
Now that you mention it the 2 psychos I met seemed good guys actually but only when they directed their attention on me then I instinctivelly felt to better keep a distance
.the 1st one was a convicted pedophile
If they know that you are onto them..that's a dangerous situation.
Am one of them who can sense people. It's hard to explain how. I just know.
True, I see it. When I first came to Uk there was a children’s presenter on tv, I immediately said to my girlfriend that the guy is a pedophile, I was 100% sure. She thought me judgemental as he was a beloved presenter she’d grown up with but I didn’t budge. I think it was about 8 years later it came out and I think he’s in prison now.
@@rainbows9060 I think so too it’s almost spiritual even if you don’t tell them what you know they purposely try to distance from you
You are not taking in that some people are not analystic , but very intuitive . I have had the misfortune of running into a couple and each time my gut froze when I met them.
Always trust the "big brain" your gut.
Please don't put junk food down there in that brain. That's the problem. Too poor a diet amongst the people these days leading to brain / gut disruption and messed up thinking.
@@quantumpotential7639exactly. It totally influences people’s cognition. It’s no wonder that dementia is diagnosed ever earlier. Our brains are going to mush.
@@quantumpotential7639and poop
100% correct.
I wouldn't say always, but have deep respect for your instincts.
Probably the reason we have fascination for them is bc they can truly function independently.. Most of us when we know we've done something so against norms, the overwhelming resulting emotions of shame, sadness, guilt, etc. Can have a paralyzing effect on our bodies.. but this doesn't happen for the psychopath.. We are only able to do horrendous things when we all collectively decide that it is alright to dehumanize a person or whole group or other species.. Psychopaths are free radicals I guess..
That is probably the smartest comment I've ever read 👍
They don’t function independently. They leave a wake of victims that fuels their psychopathy.
@briansidney3403 I meant 'independently' as in they don't feel they need to belong to or connect within a group to function.. I wasnt calling them literal recluses..
Well said.
Interesting perspective, but I can't condone their tactics in our realm.
My son had a friend that was psycopathic. He was a big risk taker.. always testing how far he could go. I say that in the past tense. At 24 years old he took too much of a drug that killed him. I don't know his reasoning for doing it.. maybe he thought " not me", maybe he was trying to hurt someone.☹️
They don't like to live, they have a boredom that is only go away when killing or on drugs or adrenaline rush. The serial killer ones, say that the domination is the highest drug. Probably because they can't feel all the range of human emotion, more like a machine in flesh
^ We all lucked out that that person ODed at 24. I have a relative who was like that and he destroyed lives for a good 2 decades. Some people just fill up space.
My ex husband did the same thing years after we got divorced. He was living with a much younger woman in Vietnam. I'm sure it was accidental. He used to say he ate like a pig, not because he ate too much but because his manners. I saw him burning his chin with hot mozzarella cheese because he couldn't wait a minute for the pizza 🍕 to cool down.
They overplay their tricks and make mistakes due to their narcissism. I'm sure he thought a little bit more would make it better, not deadly.
I was charmed when I first met my language professor almost a year ago. He was cheerful guy, seemingly loved what he did, and was super friendly to kids which made everyone like him on the first class itself. He was particularly close with me.. Or I think so because I've never seen him interact with other students like how he did with me. For example, during our first class, we were writing something and he sat beside me. I was so focused on my work I didn't notice him at first, but then I felt as if someone was staring at me. I turned and saw him looking straight at me. My face. I just smiled awkwardly and made small conversation (I wasn't too social at the time). When I mentioned it to my friend who's highly intuitive and slightly spiritual (trust me it is very crucial because he is also spiritually active), she was the one who made me realise that was weird. Why would he stare at me instead of what I was writing? Well.. Two months after our class started, I noticed his mask slipping. At first I thought it was just me and the lights were probably playing tricks on me, but soon, I realised it wasn't just me and two of my other close friends also felt the same. Sometimes, he has this maniacal look in his eyes when he smiles. Almost like he's taunting us. I consciously backed away from being close to him and I know he noticed it. He has tried to get close to me again but when he saw I wasn't going to let that happen, he stopped. Sometimes he acts as if I don't exist. I scored the highest in his class this semester, and he didn't even acknowledge me or said congrats, which is weird because he was praising the kid who scored highest last semester. He's very odd. We tried to observe his pattern. Very unpredictable. Sometimes we feel like he has split personality. Very easy to irritate, but won't show. Unfortunately we still have two more months to go. After that, we'll be free. His gaze unsettles me. Usually I can maintain eye contact with people.. Except him. Very creepy and mentally exhausting.
I sure hope you and your friends report the uncomfortable feelings you have because of his behavior.
Stay clear of this fellow & always surround yourself with friends. Safety in numbers, for real. Also, please file a complaint with the Staff/ Board at your school. You may not be the first to do so. Also, it needs to be part of his record going forward. Next semester it could be another young lady & this will validate her too.
Good job! Good luck too ...
Loads of bs and projecting
I think you see it in their eyes in unguarded moments when they're not performing , when they momentarily forget to act a certain way. That's when their countenance becomes totally blank and the void behind their eyes becomes momentarily visible. Blink and you'd miss it.
If you catch a glimpse of it it's eerily disconcerting ...Almost chilling but for how brief it is.
Micro expressions..
@@Tracie-x4l Not so much a micro expression as a micro 404 moment. The face becomes totally devoid of all expression.
@@marvinedwards3130yeah I know what you mean.. the one I lived with a year ago had those eyes.. they were somewhat beady and predatory, he had this glint in his eyes that you would catch if you looked at him from a certain angle when he wasn’t doing anything… if you know, you know. I’m horrified that after learning about what psychopathy is that he clearly had this. The same warning signs, the same behaviours… I lived with him for 3 months in a houseshare. It was my living hell.
I have first hand experience. My mother was diagnosed psychotic. She killed my oldest sister and attempted to kill my youngest sister. She bragged about people she tried to kill. I took beating from her. She lied, caused trouble. 😒
I'm sorry for you 😢
I can relate to that.
She forgot about you
So sorry you had that happen to you
@@kathybrem880 there is no describing what they do to you, and this is what you know as love. So you spend your whole life dealing with this kind of love, trying to figure out what is wrong with you. Nothing is wrong with you. It's them.
There's a difference between psychopath who kiII & who does not kiII.
But they both has these common traits: Revengeful mentality, lack of empathy, zero concern of consequences, manipulative behaviour, joy of seeing pain & destruction
Diagnosed psycho in my family is charming until triggered maybe and then the eyes have nothing there, the charming behaviour goes and a cold character emerges who just by the obvious change scares the hell out of everyone around. It's perfectly possible to tell the person is a psycho by then, initially poss not, although the behaviour albeit charming is somehow different and disconcerting.
Psycho means brain but uneducated people misuse the term.
@ROCT1917 it's a "get what I want" thing.
@ROCT1917 👍❤️
@ROCT1917no there is not such urge to" fit in "for Aspd person/psycopath or sociopath/it is only the cognitive understanding that this will bring whatever is wanted and needed.IF psycopath trusts you fully will simply put less efforts to wear the mask in front of you and you will face ultimate "nothingness "
@@andrianapetrova7856 true of the psycho but the sociopath learns the behaviour and the brain is wired differently. The sociopath has feeling. The psycho is empty. The difference between them is very obvious when there's a confrontation and a row ensues. The sociopath is loud and obnoxious and the psycho is cold, calculated and explosive.
Psychopaths are so prolific, I saw one in my mirror as I was shaving this morning.
😂😂😂
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Bruh
Scary, did he try and con you?
I'm convinced that these people have experienced some of the worst physical and emotional abuse in their early childhood, that went totally undetected.
I'm curious about the next era of them with all the behind the screen. As we all know by now there's a good chance nobody is who or what we think. Me included.
My ex was one and he had a good childhood
With some yes, but psychopaths are born.. Sociopaths are made, and usually go through hell in childhood.
Not always some come from edge you good homes . You don’t feel sorry for these predators they will destroy you .
Circumcision
In short: a psychopath feels no LOVE. His /her heart chakra is totally closed of. They try to fill up the void by seeking thrills and power.
I can agree to that , my love of something is personally obsession , I have to have it and no one else can …
Psychopath walks in to a bar.... Didn't feel a thing
Why walk into a bar yourself when you can own the bar and condition others to do it for you and have them pay for the privilage.
Oh, Funny!
@@generalconsultingyou missed the point on various levels.
I met many psychopaths, sociopaths and so on in my life.
Some people think it is only 1%, but i know it is much more higher! But not all turn into serial killers, but end up destroying people, a hole society in many ways and forms.
Many are also in power positions.
Like doctors, psychiatrists, psychologes, teachers, lawjers, directors, ceo's, industrials, nurses, sportmen, chess players, husbands, wifes...
I think primates like we all are, are a very nasty behaving animal in general and if we look at chimps and other primates, except gorillas and oerang oetans, we are in the same club.
Only a few exceptions exist of people who are wired differently.
Also, diet plays a huge role in aggression and deficienties in nutrients can cause eratic behaviir, mood swings and so on.
Together with gut health.
Narcissists are everywhere ! All over the place . A lot of psychopaths and sociopaths are narcissists too
i think at least 30 percent of people in workplaces, offices.
You omitted the bonobos who are the least violent of primates
Ik good and goddamn well u wasnt tryna spell orangutan
My Daddy always told me to watch out for the quiet ones.
Your dad was wrong. Quiet people are good people and they just like peace and try avoid bad people!
"Normal", charming people are the worst! They want to manipulate you, you want you trust them, so they will behave very nicely.
He told you wrong. Watch out for the overly helpful ppl or the overly nice ones that have a little charm to them.
I’m here 👹
The eyes tell everything
Dark glasses.
Some people have a poker face
@@Macs_out true
Bull ship
Chico
ASPD is a spectrum, not psychopathy. Psychopathy is the condition at the very end of the aforementioned spectrum.
Are you a psychologist?
Nope. Anything with a scoring range is automatically a spectrum. Psychopathy most certainly is a spectrum
@@WoodlandTyes, but only at the upper end, you qualify as one, so the comment above makes sense. If you score a 2/40 your technically somewhere on the spectrum, but not on the psychopathy spectrum in the classical sense.
Psychopaths are lizards with two legs.
😂
RepTiLiAnS
Worse, lizards look after their offspring.
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Don‘t insult the lizards!
All you folks who imagine you can spot a psychopath thru their eyes or their aura or some other Spidey sense for psychos you claim to possess, I would respectfully suggest that you are actually suffering from confirmation bias. You are looking for outward signs of psychopathy in someone you already know isn't normal or even someone you've been married to for years and know extremely well. You aren't counting all the psychopaths you don't have a clue about, which is almost all of them. There are too many cases of men who outwardly lived normal, often mundane lives by day but who stalked raped tortured and murdered people for fun when the mood struck or an opportunity presented itself. Then they return hone and cook dinner with the wife and help the kids with homework and not a single person who knew them had the slightest idea who they really were. Try to find anyone who knew BTK or Israel Keyes personally who has a single negatve word to say about either of these prolific serial killers. There aren't any, every single person the police interviewed once their crimes were discovered spoke of them in glowing terms. No one had a clue
11:00 There is something about the predatory gaze that does communicate the nature of the individual. I completely agree that it is difficult to spot the predator in the charming, charismatic "con man", but once you catch a glimpse of the predatory gaze, your soul knows what you're dealing with.
A lot of India based tech companies are rife with these personalities. AVOID. AVOID. AVOID.
Ted Bundy had those eyes.
Black 🖤
True
“The Mask Of Sanity” 🎭
Great book.
fabulously presented - such a visually appealing documentary...
And sexy language
Best two-parter on YT on this subject. It tackles the subject without glorifying serial killers.
Thanks so much, it means a lot!
Once you’ve been around one…you can spot them easily. You can definitely see it in their eyes
I have a neighbor who is 50 lives next to his mother on corner . HE YELLS AT HER CUSSING HER ALOT his father has already died from a heart attack. His mother is terrified of his behaviors well a uber driver didnt take it lighty hearing him cussing his mother. THAT GUY JUMPED OUT HIS CAR . AND BEAT HIS ASS .. 😮
Please don't insult snakes comparing them to psychopaths
We use snake referring to bad people like psycos because if you read the bible in genesis snake tricked adem and eve to eat the forbidden fruit
Snakes are babies ❤
@@StemNoodlesnakes can feel love
Also psychopaths can be good people it’s just like a 35% chance and those people are so good at hiding it to the point that you can’t even tell
insult a snake ? are you nuts ?
@@robertlee3756Yes, I am, like you
It's always interesting seeing Dr. Fallon, a sociopath, on these docs. Takes 1 to know 1 I guess.
I don’t care what anybody says. Psychopaths are more than one percent I would say if there’s three people two of them are a psychopath.
which country do you live ?
😂😂@@CengizOrhanAlper
Yes, someday we will treat these people... as opposed to electing them. Love that you called him out.
Fine line between a psychopath and a narcissist
When you married with a “combo”…. Narcisist/ psicopat. You RUN!
VERY fine. Sometimes a narcissist will have a phase of primary psychopathy after narcissistic injury.
I love how every single comment claims to know or have lived with a psychopath. Despite the fact that they are less than 1% of society 🙄
If 1% of society are psychopaths and this video has to date 196000 views then it is likely that 1960 of those viewers have had some kind of relationship with a psychopath at some point. 'Every single comment' isn't claiming such a relationship. I would argue that the amount of comments claiming this are proportional to the amount of psychopaths in society.
@@STORMDAME good math. It's astonishing how many the 1% is. I'm currently dealing with one, he fits 90% of the attributes descrbed on this program. And he is able to gaslight the police, the Court, friends and family. It's scarry to be next to him. You feel the proximity of 'evil' with him.
Who's reporting the percentage on this? A psychopath? Lol But, seriously, the population u can guess is probably over 50%. We live in a predator - prey world. It has always been this way.
@@STORMDAMEaccurate assessment 👏
So if you know 100 people, you’ve met one. I just left one, which is why I’m watching videos about psychopaths.
Old saying. The eyes are the window of the soul. Even the bluest eyes can be the darkest.
Who said blue eyes are pure
Talk about the psychopath in a high positions in businesses and politics. They make great bosses because they think about getting ahead and not killing.
Yep........So if you know a young psychopathic type....steer him toward a business education.
@@djtyner6232no, because they can still do great damage there.
They make terrible bosses, you mean. Unscrupulous, empathy-less.
@i.ehrenfest349 depends on what side your on I guess
But make sure they haven't just been rejected from an art school 😂
19:32 I remember when that researcher found out he had the brain of a psychopath. As we know today it is nature AND nurture that is necessary to create a monster. That man was fine, but had he been abused as a child, he might have been a danger to society. Many people are abused as children, I was one of them, but people like this are not a danger to society because we do not have the nature, or the DNA to create a psychopath.
Especially without the proper help to navigate life's lessons and losses. We have become more insulated and isolated with the influx of technology, but now the algorithm knows and watches what makes people tick.
Thats what I think too. Nobody is born this way. They can have a genetic condition leaning towards it but lack of nurture has to do the final damage.
Sociopaths and psychopaths are different
Psychopaths ARE born that way. Sociopaths are created by nature and nurture.
@@lindafarwell3408 based on what? What evidence? When you study these personalities almost all of them were abused. I’d like to know how many cases there are of a psychopath that had zero trauma in childhood. I bet you can’t find one.
Psychopaths have dead hearts
There are so many red flags but I only see who I"m working wirh now. Very enlightening.
I also believe that certain people have a certain look in their eyes, it's difficult to explain but it's there
It's not
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Nah some people really can’t help how their eyes may appear, for example some people just have some sorta lazy eye to an extent.
A brilliant documentary. Really interesting and also a bit worrying!
34:32 How the hell was Paulo Shaker allowed out in order to commit all these offences? After rape and kidnapping, he should have been put away for a very long time!
Habitual offender says it all. Why let out people who don't change?
Royalty and super rich people are similar too...no empathy, shallow, dark, narcissistic...you feel their darkest energies.
Trust no one and stay away from everyone
How I find the World 🎯
Including governments.
Best background view possible.
Great stuff, creator!
In order to catch a criminal, you have to think like one, is the hardest thing to deal with and it takes a personal form of decompression to get back to your normal self. Worked in law enforcement.
Having an appreciation for solitude keeps one sucker free of such individuals. They are more common than they appear to be.
I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder about two years ago. I have alot of psychopathic tendencies. don't mistake this comment as me bragging or seeking attention, please. the past few years I've been trying to figure out if I'm a psychopath. I'm completely self aware. I lie, steal, manipulate, cheat. I've done horrible things, even as a child. I sometimes think of even worse things, and in detail. I don't always regret these actions though. i don't know if this is a calling out for help, or a rant. I just feel really confused right now. I want help, but I feel so far beyond that point, plus it has protected me for so long. I don't know what to do
Do you feel like capable of love something or someone? For example even your pet?
@NatureofDi yes absolutely, and i have a long term partner as well. I always have had alot of love towards my pets. i killed two of my pets when i was younger. they were guinea pigs. they were already dying, and i felt like it was the right thing to do to end their suffering. but i didnt feel anything when doing so. I used to not be able to maintain relationships, but I've been doing much better now. I'm just scared in like 30 years from now I'll do something dangerous because I never got help for it. I feel like people have really overlooked my mental health. It can get really dangerous, but I don't think people believe what I say when I try to explain what's really on my mind
@@gmercado7298 I think you can go to a psychiatrist to get a diagnosis about it. Simply share your thoughts and claim to be tested. I think having a diagnosis will make you feel better on the point of uncertainity. Otherwise, you can learn more about how to deal with some feelings for the future by reading, informing yourself about coping and control mechanisms. Meanwhile surrender yourself with people who care about you and love you! I think love and value can be a cure for many disturbances or conditions. On the opposite side, try to stay away from environements that trigger you and undermine your value. These people and toxic environments can get the worst side out of you. Other than that, I wish you the best in life. 🍀
@@gmercado7298You not alone brother,I'm one as well,As a self aware and healed one,I must say is to accept who you are,and use your evil for good 💪🏿
You are so self-aware and have obviously sought help as you are recently diagnosed. I don't have any answers for you, but may I express confidence in you controlling your worst and most damaging urges as you seek answers.🎉😊
This documentation comes far too mixed, attention grabbing, lacking of both structure and content. Some examples before I stopped watching:
- From 12:00 on it is spoken of a psychopathy test and traits typically high on a psychopath, but the test is never explained, the traits are never listet, neither explained.
- From 17:00 on brain scan pictures are shown, as if the psychopath would be simply identifiable by anyone looking at such pictures through having less brain activity (during what action?). Thats simply misleading. The only scientifically affirmed knowledge here is: More intelligent brains allways show less activity when solving a problem than the less intelligent brains. The regions of the brain specifically involved for psychopathy are not explained/mentioned, here. So no distinction can be made...
- Why is Donald Trump frequently shown as if he was a textbook example of a psychopath? His behavior is so bizarre in allmost every aspect, that he cannot be seen as a good example for anything specific!
I agree. Anybody would think that Biden was a saint. I think most successful politicians are psychopaths. Also Fauci and Bill Gates.
agreed. Trump is a narcissist idiot, not a psychopath by any means.
The maker of the video puts Trump in it to try to give their piece into discrediting him and the great shape the country was in while he was in office. There’s clearly an agenda for the creator by adding Trump in the video. It’s for them to hopefully sway voters thoughts by associating Trump as a psychopath.
Sounds like Donald Trump paid you to say this...or told you the Mexicans would pay you to say this.
Does the psychopath actually derive pleasure AKA get off on other people's suffering or does he or she just not care?
Great question
Well....as for me personally, I just don't care. I think for most, it's a total lack of empathy for other living creatures. Had I been born in the pre DNA Era of forensics, I'd have been one of the worst, guaranteed. Not because I'm a pervert or a sexpest, I have alot of what I assume is respect and admiration for women in general. But I have a very very strong, deep, immense hatred for pdfiles and bullies. Now those types, Id get pleasure in listening to them cry for their lives. I'd very much be a Dexter type
@@ShitterMcGavinI think a lot of people would. Most of us don't care about the feelings of violent offenders. Psychopaths just don't care about anyone period.
BOTH 🤔a+b=c
the act of not caring fuels their passive aggressive disguise and allows them to be anti-social and into their own damn selves, this in turn🔄👹🔃satiates their non human condition. AN ACTUAL DIFFERENT SPECIES
🗣🚽hurl
They are energized by the reaction they get. You'll see it happen if you respond to one.
I think a lot of things Trump has said have been taken out of context. Trump is certainly no great orator but he's also not a psychopath cause he cares too much for others. He has helped many people without ever saying a word about it, nor does he like showing that side. I agree with Jordan Peterson, Trump is more of an extreme extrovert than what you are trying to paint him as.
YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT SOMEBODY's REALLY THINKING
Everything in the superficial USA is about dollars, from people to institutions, such as prisons. In Europe it's much more about the people, not possessions, which also goes into the prison system, which is about rehabilitating the criminals back into the society.
Something what we are definitely lacking from you, is death sentence.
I did clinical psychiatry rotation when I was in nursing school in the early 80s. There was a patient who had the scariest eyes I've ever seen. She was an heiress to a fortune and I couldn't understand why she was in a state institution. Apparently, her family tried to place her in a private, upscale mental institution, but she wanted to go back and live in a dorm with 4 other women. She thought she was Cinderella. She spent the day making and remaking her bed, brushing her waist length silver hair and taking to herself. Her voice was low and cultured, she introduced herself as Cinderella and asked me if I was in love. She said she was waiting for Prince Charming. She was always happy, but those eyes were scary
These documentaries are gold 😮
Not sure if the ppl. I have in mind from my past were psychopath or sociopaths, but when you are friends or dating one, it’s not easy to see the traits o warning bc you get blind by wanting them in your lives and like them. So bc of Ruiz, many don’t see tyecwaening signs. Even when I tried to warm others about these ppl. they felt uncomfortable with my truth and didn’t believe me bc it made no sense to them that our mutual friend was a psychopath. So that’s in the psychopaths plans and this is how they set it up and how they pull off the hurt and manipulation. Then if ever the ppl. you know has figured it out, they are too ashamed to admit they were also fooled and was so wrong about a person.
Even if they are family you don't know what they are thinking.
Best way to protect yourself is pursue spirituality and do good deeds intentionally.
Love all these comments from women claiming their Ex’s were psychopaths who obviously didn’t pay attention to the documentary. If they havnt been evaluated, YOU CANT KNOW! It’s way more likely that your ex has BPD or NPD. Or even more likely that YOU have BPD or NPD and are projecting it to your partner to avoid looking at your part in the relationship. Relationships are a 2-way street and no one is without fault.
Typical for a man to say that 🤔
My ex killed all my 8 year old son's homing pigeons in front of him, the night I asked him to leave. He also killed his new girlfriend's dog. He's a manager, high in career, drives a brand new range Rover, everyone thinks he's just a shy kind guy.
How would you diagnose him?
@@audbod4140 that sounds wild. He could be be a psychopath. Or he could just have severe anger management issues with zero psychopathy.
@@audbod4140 he is a psychopath!
@@cherylween4973 I would sway in that direction too x
I can sometimes spot a psychopath by looking in their eyes. It's amazing how they become pissed off for a split second when they know I know!!! They're quick to cover it up, but I've made an instant enemy, especially in the workplace! They are afraid of true goodness as they have no power over it. I remember meeting one for the first time and as soon as I looked at him, he freaked out screaming that I was looking inside of him. The weird part was that I knew I didn't see all the way inside, so what was he hiding? He immediately left the bar we were at. The people who knew him said they never saw him act that way before. So don't say that some can't see a psychopath through their eyes. I'm an INFJ and I think we often have great ability to 'read' people. It's a double-edged sword: I know what I'm up against, but that raises his/her wrath!!!
DJT is not a psychopath
Trump is a fine example of one ‼️👍
Yes he is. Don't be a sucker.
I bet he would score 40 on the Hare Psycopathy test!
He has some traits but that is not a bad thing as it made him very successful in business & a good politician. Most people within politics are psychopaths. Biden is a very good example.
@@NanaBren So would Biden
Why just TRUMP ???... Let's explore the DEMS TOOO.
Did they pay for this production? Seems very 'TIMELY' and glaringly odd.
I'm an INDEPENDENT.
I once said to my mother, you know if i was hanging off a cliff i wouldnt trust ( her husband, stepfather) to pull me back up. she replied, to be quite honest i now realize i wouldnt trust him to pull me back up either .
Sounds like a great guy
@@i.ehrenfest349 that's him just mother knew when she married him
In 1984. Its
Been 40 years of gaslighting lies it's not uncommon
The Hare Psychopathy Checklist is a well documented and validated instrument for diagnosing psychopathy. ❤
A big proportion of them are in political leadership... This is the issue in the world today.
Wonderfull documentary thank you🎉🎉🎉
OK I'm outta here when DT is a focus of attention
That's because DT IS A PYSCHO!
trump is a psychopath
You should have stayed. You might have been able to see him more clearly.
I'm not quite finished, and it's been slightly touched on re careers, but being a psychopath and having psychopaths in society is not necessarily a bad thing. Very few psychopaths go out and kill.
The types of careers smart psychopaths go into may utilise their psychopathic traits. Lack of empathy can be an advantage. If as a surgeon you are operating on a small child - the same age and sex of your own child say - is it not better to have no emotions to distract you, and instead the psychopath can logically provide the best care?
I see the majority of psychopaths as just another neurodiversity.
Are you done?
@@albertoarmendariz1827you will be, medium rare
You dont have to be psycho to provide good quality certain job. Normal people can do too ,every surgeon is logic ofherwise they would not be surgeons.
@@albertoarmendariz1827done? I'm not sitting in an oven.
@@user-ye1mq7lk7cno you don't, normal people do great things - but it's very adventageous in many cases.
psychopaths simply do what they CAN do without getting caught. However what fear does to a completely normal person a million times more scary.