I think we all have to unlock Abel Mutua's level of not having any expectations. I was listening to a video post today that says one of our greatest heartbreak especially when your intentions are pure is expecting the same. It's like being an ocean and expecting a cup of water to fill you up. I think genuine love should have no expectations, that's the true meaning of unconditional love as the bible states. I think Judy is lucky...
Gurllllll 🤣🤣🤣I think most of us haven't gotten to that level of self awareness yet🤣🤣for me if it's not reciprocated,,I'm done done.. working on getting there thou
@@edinahkendi9871 Don’t get it twisted though this doesn’t mean that you accept to be treated badly. Just that you should know your worth and do good not expecting but then also it’s easy for you to walk out of situations you are not respected
Nice episode, gentlemen! Please don’t lie to Maina about long-distance relationships. Kagwe said the truth 100%. Long distance works when you have definite time periods before you’re back together physically, in one place
When it comes to gender roles, I believe the trick is to find a balance, and also acknowledge that not all couples are created equal. Rather than base marital responsibilities solely on gender, it would be more ideal to base them on each individual's strengths and weaknesses.
It's how kagwe have said 'when I was single I used to bring girls to my house "😮😮 😂😂 ladies sikizeni kwa makini you are with him in his house him he knows he is single
When you like a video before you listen only because the lineup is 🔥🔥🔥 fire! Abel, said something...he has zero expectations...I was also told that and at the time, I didn't understand...
I'll answer you the first question.....when a man releases an orgasm, he releases a burning hormone oxytocin,,women do the same as well but men do it 400% more...the skin to skin contact is what creats deep connection of a man to woman.....and it's crazy because God wired his body like that....men emotionally bond with women through sex,,,
God bless i love this show and i want more. something thats been on my mind lately is; when u get married , u r not just married to your wife but also married to her family, and some of the hardest challenges is taking up ur wife's/man's family baggage. we need a master class on this one 😅😄
Y’all need to acknowledge how that show on Netflix ended tho. The couple’s relationship was repaired and they both ended up seeing each other’s worth. Esp in countries where childcare is super expensive, one/both spouse(s) definitely will have to take on primary childcare duties. And as long as you both agree, either should be able to comfortably be the primary childcarer.
Ben,ebu jaribuni mulete mse mgenge,alafu mse hajakafunga vipoa,akupee a diff perspective ya rshp when you dont hv cash as it is,or u aint like famous cz kuna that aspect that isnt addressed..as it is😊
Kwanza mi I have a personal story with abel when he was Freddy. Had beef with him gor a minute until i realized what women do when it comes to celebs. But I'll one day look for him tucheke iyo story
27:22 @ Kifee, usiogope but Abel, expectations can also matter, obviousily in a rlsp u need trust some emotional support u need to be compatible and also some good communications for without this nothing gonna go on, everything will be death for without expectation everything will be like a meeting without an agenda.
The only yardstick for a mans value is ability to provide..Mwenda tezi na omo, marejeo ni ngamani..its the default. I think women in marriages that dont upset that balance are happier...incase the man procides and does the extras..even better..
I think we all have to unlock Abel Mutua's level of not having any expectations. I was listening to a video post today that says one of our greatest heartbreak especially when your intentions are pure is expecting the same. It's like being an ocean and expecting a cup of water to fill you up. I think genuine love should have no expectations, that's the true meaning of unconditional love as the bible states. I think Judy is lucky...
Gurllllll 🤣🤣🤣I think most of us haven't gotten to that level of self awareness yet🤣🤣for me if it's not reciprocated,,I'm done done.. working on getting there thou
@@edinahkendi9871 Don’t get it twisted though this doesn’t mean that you accept to be treated badly. Just that you should know your worth and do good not expecting but then also it’s easy for you to walk out of situations you are not respected
💯💯💯oh yes!!😊
@@edinahkendi9871 we are many, not u alone
When Abel Mutua said,”Bado namupenda deadly.” 😮 I felt that. Judy deserves this man ❤
😊😊
Can I just say how much of a lovergirl I am for JoyRide? Now we have the Den? With the OG's? I'm sold. I love The Joyride so so much
Me too
Thank you so much ❤
I loved this....but then again, anything with Mkuru I would love. It would be great seeing Bien, Shiv, and Khaligraph on the same set😊
We’ve heard you 😊
Your primary source of happiness should be you 🔥🔥🔥🔥✨.
-Abel Mkuru
The den is just what the doctor prescribed🔥🔥can’t wait to hear you hosting Benjamin Zulu,Burale and Mike Wachira.
Kwanza Mike am all waiting
💯
We hear you 😊
Hey Joyride hosts. Please put subtitles I'm a south African and I feel so left out when you speak Swahili. 😅 Pls include us as well.
This was a really sober conversation. I did miss Wanjiru laughing to Ben's jokes though 🥺
Thank you ❤ missed her too 😊
Nice episode, gentlemen!
Please don’t lie to Maina about long-distance relationships. Kagwe said the truth 100%. Long distance works when you have definite time periods before you’re back together physically, in one place
Life in a relationship, is meant to be done together as a couple, else you run the risk of drifting apart, among other risks
Thank you 🙏🏽
This generation will MOVE the world.
Great stuff 🙌
This is the shortest 1 hr I have ever felt. Great show. In this wierd world, am glad we still have a generation of great men .
'people do grow apart coz their interests change"wuuuuuuuuh i felt that. wow
Hope Wanjiru also hosts some ladies on the side....can't wait❤
I second this😄.
‘the den’ I think is purposely geared towards men ...
Kesho kesho is the ladies 😊
When it comes to gender roles, I believe the trick is to find a balance, and also acknowledge that not all couples are created equal. Rather than base marital responsibilities solely on gender, it would be more ideal to base them on each individual's strengths and weaknesses.
Well said 😊
It's how kagwe have said 'when I was single I used to bring girls to my house "😮😮
😂😂 ladies sikizeni kwa makini you are with him in his house him he knows he is single
Wueeh!!! I've heard 😃
😂
Kagwe is right, as a woman I lose respect for a man that I dominate or provide for.
When you like a video before you listen only because the lineup is 🔥🔥🔥 fire!
Abel, said something...he has zero expectations...I was also told that and at the time, I didn't understand...
Hope you understand now 😊
Kagwe hio ya Men are emotional women are Sensitive so trueee actually
I'm glad My ex😂😂introduced me to this❤ tudu🎉🎉
Abel Mutua... dropping wisdom
When Ben said application imefungwa,I literally felt for my bestfriend,she loves kagwe so much 😂😂😂sasaa hii podcast mnataka she unsubscribe ama 😅😅
Kuna ma bachelor tutaleta asiloose hope 😃
@@TheJoyridepod 😂😂😂surely
It's Abel Mutua's thinking about marriage having less expectations from your partner
Loving the conversations with the gentleman. Good job Joyride team
Thank you so much 😊
I'll answer you the first question.....when a man releases an orgasm, he releases a burning hormone oxytocin,,women do the same as well but men do it 400% more...the skin to skin contact is what creats deep connection of a man to woman.....and it's crazy because God wired his body like that....men emotionally bond with women through sex,,,
Wait what men can get like sexual ties weuh coz explains so much in my life ...... Daamn
Oh our joyride is growing everyday❤i love this already
We are! And we are so excited🥳
The part where Mkuru says the useless guys are Xtreme useless... I totally relate 😊😅
😅😂
So true.... women really influence us.... I'm here juu my girlfriend Ruth suggested me to... shes a great fan.
interesting eye opening Conversation , looking forward to more episodes of the den
Coming through 😊
Finally we have gotten to hear from men themselves. Thank you Ben for this show. I have learnt a lot .
Wooow this is a version of from Glory to Glory ✨✨ this is another banger 💯...to more grace...in Iove with the progress
Nice episode and now Imagine the den with njugush and curtis in same episode😉 and topic being on marriage
Uwiiii yes please, that will be amazing
Weuhhh fireworks 💯napenda
God bless i love this show and i want more.
something thats been on my mind lately is; when u get married , u r not just married to your wife but also married to her family, and some of the hardest challenges is taking up ur wife's/man's family baggage. we need a master class on this one 😅😄
Makofi kwa yule aliandika hizo maswali😅👌🏾. This was amazing premiere🔥🔥, great stuff Joyride👏🏾. Enjoyed this one❤.
Thank you ❤
This was a good conversation.... so chill and reasonable discussions!👌
Lakini that audio...mehn.... nilikuwa nashinda Niki adjust volume!🫤
Pole sana will work on it
As a lady I just love how men think but when you say men are emotional I don't get it kindly explain
Love to see it!!!!😍👏🏾
Eli Mwenda should be invited too!
Definitely 😌
As a lady I really loved this episode 😍😍😍✨🔥.
Thank you ☺️
My new favorite segment 😍 also guys are very wise hapa 👌🏾 brilliant choice Benard 😀
Thank you!
This is officially my fav. Channel... Conversation and conversation join the talk . Great work great work. Hii imeenda
Y’all need to acknowledge how that show on Netflix ended tho. The couple’s relationship was repaired and they both ended up seeing each other’s worth. Esp in countries where childcare is super expensive, one/both spouse(s) definitely will have to take on primary childcare duties. And as long as you both agree, either should be able to comfortably be the primary childcarer.
this convo was an eye opener for something have been struggling to find answers. Thank you guys more of this please
Most welcome 🤗
Woow i love the show next time Include YY to join the group
This conversation is just on another levol 🔥🔥.
I cant wait to listen to this till the end ❤❤👌
mr. Maina in da building‽ Who'd have expected this day to come!😅
And it came 😆😆😃
That variation in the intro ... 🔥
😊😊
We love it for you guys🎉
Thank you girl ❤
Abel ooozes wisdom man. Zero expectations, that's it🌸
Not "are we pen pals?"😂😂😂😂 then Mainamind goes ahead to say he's in one😅 really enjoyed this
😂😂💀
what a bunch of amazing guys! loved both episodes.
Love to see it!!! I have enjoyed this episode, good job guys❤
Im here just to hear mkurugenzi talk💯💯💯
I loved the conversation anything with mkuru😂
Couldn't miss watching this episode for anything😂😂❤️❤️
❤❤
All Green flags 💚💚💚💚💚
Great 1st episode. Keep em coming.
Would like to see @Phil Director the Wise.Eli Mwenda the sweet boy, Oscar D Koome the guy from South C Massive
We’ve heard you ❤
Great podcasts guys I really enjoyed when is the next one coming it is been a month now I miss you guys
I truly love this show,,,you brings the best people, beneficial knowledge one would harvest from them....great minds in there🔥🔥
Thank you so much ❤
@@TheJoyridepod welcome
🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤ absolutely 💯 amazing conversation.
The authenticity 🔥🔥🔥
Well done joyride for this brilliant segment can't wait for more of this
Thank you so much 😊
Anything with Mkuru, I'm in! This guy is the 🐐
I agreed with just every point Kagwe shot. Great men on panel
Ben,ebu jaribuni mulete mse mgenge,alafu mse hajakafunga vipoa,akupee a diff perspective ya rshp when you dont hv cash as it is,or u aint like famous cz kuna that aspect that isnt addressed..as it is😊
Wooow just wooow, i love it cant wait to see what the ladies hot seat would be about🎉🎉🎉
Kwanza mi I have a personal story with abel when he was Freddy. Had beef with him gor a minute until i realized what women do when it comes to celebs. But I'll one day look for him tucheke iyo story
27:22 @ Kifee, usiogope
but Abel, expectations can also matter, obviousily in a rlsp u need trust some emotional support u need to be compatible and also some good communications for without this nothing gonna go on, everything will be death for without expectation everything will be like a meeting without an agenda.
I'm enjoying this for sure!Sober conversations
The den 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥love it
😂😂😂 it's the way Abel is concentrating banaaa
I enjoyed watching this.
Glad you did 😊
Exciteddddddd🎉
The first podcast with men only and i didn't hear any misogynistic comments and ideas
Amazing show ,, hope this generation can get tips
We hope so too 😊
Love you guys would like to hear a lot of Godly content though
I think the men who are having this conversation are just really woke and self aware. I wish all men took a moment to do that meehhnnn.
Can you grow apart after ten years of being together?
Boychurld served right!!
Thank you Ben for the DEN!!... Indeed invite Daniel next time😅😅😅😅
Abel dated one womanz for too long that he doe'snt have much story experience 😅 NICE PODCAST
what an enlighting show wow......this is good
I love this Episode❤.
Glad you do❤
Wow. So smooth. Loving The Den
Thank you! Cheers!
Me am like abel. Expectations are the worst kind of emotions
This is dope Ben 👏👏👏
Thank you 😊
The thing is, right after she would say yes, we would go on as bf gf, my big bruhs, I would wonder what to do next.😂😂😂😂😂😊
always lit🔥
Love love love it here😭😭😍😍
Am soo mad at that Abels story.Ati mtoi can wait
Anything with Mkuru is a MUST Watch
Kazi yako ni kuwa useless😂😂am done with Abel😂❤
Wanjiru please hear this Gents' First ladies..we are waiting.
Ben part 2 enhe...😅
The only yardstick for a mans value is ability to provide..Mwenda tezi na omo, marejeo ni ngamani..its the default. I think women in marriages that dont upset that balance are happier...incase the man procides and does the extras..even better..
This was calmly hoot 🔥🤝
can we have burale next
This is so sweet and I love it daamnnn
Kuamka na kungara 😂😂😂 hio imepita akina Ben 😂😂😂
Wonderful ❤
Thank you! Cheers!