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  • @Gnabrynajoli
    @Gnabrynajoli 2 місяці тому +288

    The realest and authentic UA-cam couples in Kenya, was trying to imagine them doing scripted pranks, anga sijui stocking fridge, 10 things you will not believe about our marriage, labour room video. These two have set the bar high for authenticity. MAD RESPECT TO BEN AND WANJIRU🤑

    • @KidjoK
      @KidjoK 2 місяці тому +43

      You honestly don't have to dim other people's light for others to shine. Let people shine in what's theirs respectively and respectfully. You can applaud Ben and Wanjiru without condescending what others do. That's how the joyriders roll.

    • @Gnabrynajoli
      @Gnabrynajoli 2 місяці тому +11

      @@KidjoK I didn't mention anyone. My comment is purely abot their authentcity

    • @theclangwilimi1485
      @theclangwilimi1485 2 місяці тому +7

      @@KidjoKhe didn't mention any names. And it wasn't condescending

    • @Simbaress247
      @Simbaress247 2 місяці тому +1

      They are not fake at all and no sugar coating stuff. Love them

    • @jabbz9316
      @jabbz9316 2 місяці тому

      Facts💯

  • @connie7192
    @connie7192 2 місяці тому +108

    This was the most coded conversation but those who get it get it. 😂😂😂😂😂
    Loved it.

  • @deborahnjeri1504
    @deborahnjeri1504 2 місяці тому +23

    It's a season it will pass, I remember in my postpartum my partner once said he didn't imagine how he would miss his wife yet he sees her everyday, and it hit me that he could be going through something since I was busy with baby and baby and I were getting all the care and support from everyone and he kinda felt left out.
    Communication does help in such a season

  • @hinesightmind
    @hinesightmind 2 місяці тому +45

    Curtis and soila would be good guests for this season as well.

  • @judyjepchumba8619
    @judyjepchumba8619 2 місяці тому +9

    The most mature couple that I know and in these streets I have realized People love your content when you have a bit of privacy and know what the internet needs to see and hear .This family has mastered that and I love them for this ❤❤❤

  • @achiegift1794
    @achiegift1794 2 місяці тому +21

    Watching all ads so Tawa never lacks😄

  • @gladysmuthoni8700
    @gladysmuthoni8700 2 місяці тому +28

    Ben and Wanjiru are very authentic about themselves...that part of being over touched is real....having a baby who's with you most of the time plus breastfeeding leaves one feeling that way so she's validated

  • @monicawanjikumwaura6689
    @monicawanjikumwaura6689 2 місяці тому +28

    You guys, this season 6 is so helpful for people anticipating to get married in the near future. Thank you! My highlight is definitely your vulnerability on both ends and it is evident that you both are instrumental in each other's growth. Friends and lovers.

    • @faithkasyoki3923
      @faithkasyoki3923 6 днів тому

      i feel like i have subscribed to free therapy after marriage.

  • @surveyorofkenya
    @surveyorofkenya 2 місяці тому +16

    Getting Tawa must be the proudest moment for you guys. The love can be felt on this side.

  • @joymutiga3219
    @joymutiga3219 2 місяці тому +3

    Motherhood looks so good on Wanjiru..... ❤❤❤ being touched out is a true and a valid feeling

  • @gailfibi1229
    @gailfibi1229 2 місяці тому +3

    I feel so understood after this... the "touched out" part😭😭 soo reeeaaall and no one can get it unless you've been there thank you for this episode

  • @LieByOmmission
    @LieByOmmission 2 місяці тому +16

    😂😂😂I mean what's your right leg doing😂😂Ben is absolutely beyond petty but very relatable

  • @MollyAgnes1
    @MollyAgnes1 2 місяці тому +6

    Being touched out is a real thing, i don't think men will ever understand it because they'll never go through it

  • @juligamineofficial734
    @juligamineofficial734 2 місяці тому +5

    Been a fan from day one and as a content creator am learning alot the road to joy is the way to go

  • @sylivierondora1233
    @sylivierondora1233 2 місяці тому +93

    I know you guys said this season will be all about 1+1=3,but I really want Michelle ngonje and her husband Ian to come ,,I said this last season but you were going on break😢,,both Ian and Ben will make us laugh because of their pettiness 😂😂😅,,,please ,,anyway love you guys and I see the transition is taking you well ❤❤❤🎉

  • @sarahndungu238
    @sarahndungu238 2 місяці тому +4

    This couple is so real..... kudos!

  • @shonamoraa
    @shonamoraa 2 місяці тому +6

    Ben is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂2 minutes in and I’m crying

  • @gakiimugambi
    @gakiimugambi 2 місяці тому +14

    That 2 seconds to honor K.U ,asante sana😂😂

  • @totallyjenny143
    @totallyjenny143 2 місяці тому +1

    I truly love this season they're in. I'm learning a lot. I'm praying that they get through it successfully. It's amazing to see the growth. Love the pod💗

  • @RK-iz2zq
    @RK-iz2zq 2 місяці тому +2

    As a new mum, I loved this. Thank you for your vulnerability ❤

  • @LynnSingoei
    @LynnSingoei 2 місяці тому +5

    You make life more wholesome ❤

  • @98Patrobas
    @98Patrobas 2 місяці тому +24

    Napenda vile you guys invite us to your therapy session. Because hii ni therapy poa sana for you guys✅

  • @maryngina-020
    @maryngina-020 2 місяці тому +6

    The more i listen to the joyride the more i learn that i am soo wanjiru coded😂❤

  • @marya50
    @marya50 2 місяці тому +8

    I loved the conversation❤. The authenticity 👌.

  • @mercymungai9532
    @mercymungai9532 2 місяці тому +8

    Ati wanjiru can't be attacked by mosquitoes coz of her shoes 😂😂😂😂ben is hilarious l can't aki realise jokes jokes don't realise me l love love you guys

  • @waihiga124
    @waihiga124 2 місяці тому +2

    👏👏👏👏👏 this conversation was the GOAT.

  • @joynyokabi3053
    @joynyokabi3053 2 місяці тому +1

    Omgee.. at the beginning they talked about chemistry being gone... but this is the cuuuutest episode I've watched of them 😍😍😍 loving the desire😉

  • @rosanamondi
    @rosanamondi 2 місяці тому +4

    Ben, I get you . Leaving the door open is a big pet peave for me too!

  • @JoanWKubai
    @JoanWKubai 2 місяці тому +1

    I hear Wanjiru on the fog - I had the same feeling till around 8 or 9 months. It just felt like I am a shadow of myself especially when it came to social engagements. I was so tired I just wanted to be by myself yet not miss out on life. But one day I woke up with a clarity that made me realise I had been in a state of fogginess

  • @patriciangunjiri5824
    @patriciangunjiri5824 2 місяці тому +5

    This is not fog, hii ni teargas has me wheeeezingggg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kellygrace-ei6wm
    @kellygrace-ei6wm 11 днів тому

    This is not fog, this is teargas, my eyes are burning😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @PhyllisKiritu
    @PhyllisKiritu 2 місяці тому +2

    This podcast is food for the soul!✨

  • @blessedkevin
    @blessedkevin 2 місяці тому +28

    A 2013 survey by the U.S. Travel Association found that 63% of couples felt that traveling together helped them stay more connected, and 77% reported that traveling improved their relationship by enhancing romance.
    In summary, travel can be an important tool for maintaining or deepening intimacy in relationships due to the combination of quality time, shared memories, and the reduction of everyday stress.

  • @sheexndirangu
    @sheexndirangu 2 місяці тому +6

    This episode was heavy, kept pausing to re-read and understand the questions lol but we LOOOVE it here 😊😊😊

  • @theepaulette
    @theepaulette 2 місяці тому +2

    To all new parents,it really gets better but the relationship between the two needs much more effort to rebuild than prior parenthood

  • @becomingpodcast_ke
    @becomingpodcast_ke 2 місяці тому +15

    😂😂😂😂fish net to catch a catfish and she can't get malaria 😅😅

  • @judyjepchumba8619
    @judyjepchumba8619 2 місяці тому +5

    Next season bring on Curtis and Soila ,Mich and Ian,Julie and pet gichuri

  • @michiganmelanie4467
    @michiganmelanie4467 2 місяці тому +6

    I'm siding with Wanjiru on the door issue ,I mean she's just from birthing a whole human being that she still has to take care of whilst healing from the entire birthing process .Some grace was due there 😂😂

  • @jungleafreeca1111
    @jungleafreeca1111 2 місяці тому +1

    Not the "Kuna mandamano Leo kwetu" 😂😂😂😂😂 YOU GUYS MADE MY EVENING 😂😂😂😂

  • @HarrietKorir-k7e
    @HarrietKorir-k7e 2 місяці тому +25

    Can't be the only one who got the 'turns on' comment by Ben in the last minute and then leg crossing 😂😂😂

    • @kusajoy
      @kusajoy 2 місяці тому +1

      I've blushed a lot this episode 😅

  • @Joyce_Kui
    @Joyce_Kui 2 місяці тому +7

    Oh Ben, being touched out is real...
    And does not end mpaka past 2 years, when tou get home and the baby does not want to leave your arms, or is jumping all over mommy, or is so clingy etc...

  • @eddahwambui4596
    @eddahwambui4596 2 місяці тому

    Y'all look so lovely! Enjoy this season guys❤

  • @nkamau4411
    @nkamau4411 2 місяці тому +4

    What is that lipstick? I absolutely love it

  • @myvideodiary5919
    @myvideodiary5919 2 місяці тому +1

    I can't find your recent episodes on Spotify...I like listening to you guys from Spotify..can you please update?

  • @priscillaangwenyi8574
    @priscillaangwenyi8574 2 місяці тому +6

    Love it. No guests this season please!

  • @chelseaojiah5781
    @chelseaojiah5781 2 місяці тому +1

    l desired the thumbnail i clicked and i fell in love with this conversation as always,please have Just Ivy on i would love to hear from her esp on of course finances but mostly her experience in parenting twins

  • @tanianjeri1210
    @tanianjeri1210 2 місяці тому +5

    This episode was so niceeee!! Only wish Barack will add kina Ben more questions ikuwe like an hour long cause munabamba!!🎉🎉

  • @wairimunjuguna9460
    @wairimunjuguna9460 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Guys for taking us with you in every season of your lives, Its really helpful to some of us who are looking to walk on the same path. Baraka tele

  • @carolsarah8372
    @carolsarah8372 2 місяці тому +2

    I also have an issue with the door being left open😂😂😂I can relate with Ben asking you to use your leg😂

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 2 місяці тому

    I really loved this episode. It's interesting to hear a man speak about the Postpartum stage of childbirth.
    Someone needs to burst Ben's bubble about pregnancy hormones and how long it takes for a woman to feel like herself again after even an easy delivery. Should we tell him or not?
    I hear you Wanjiru about being over-touched. The baby can overstimulate you and as much as you love the people around you.... One more touch can be too much.
    But you guys are doing well. That you are even having these conversations is a PLUS. You got this 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @tesst7649
    @tesst7649 2 місяці тому +2

    We understand Wanjiru about the after birth body feelings,she can watch vlogs and movies for new mums to boost her emotional support and with time she will love the changes in her body,also pls understand Ben most men dnt even realize body changes especially if they love us,they tend to continue loving us as before,it's us who overthink and get insecure for no reason,just dnt let it get to your brain to a point that you get lonely coz it will now start affecting the man him wondering what he is doing wrong yet he is not wrong ❤

  • @clairekakuru9460
    @clairekakuru9460 2 місяці тому

    Well done guys. Love the episodes. Please put subtitles whenever you switch to Kiswahili for us who don’t understand Kiswahili

  • @W3577
    @W3577 2 місяці тому +1

    When baby is under 2yrs they take up most of the connection spouses have.But it gets better when both are intentional to make it work.Always remember baby will grow and move on the parents will only have the connection that they developed.

  • @TesmondWorld
    @TesmondWorld 2 місяці тому +15

    Liking before watching

  • @tcuguh
    @tcuguh 2 місяці тому

    someone tell Cyco that the scar on the outside might be *healed but the layers under are still fresh! OMG Ben Wanjiru still need to only carry her baby weight only...Postpartum sio jokes esp with CS...❤❤❤❤ Ben I'm loving how involved you are as Baba

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 2 місяці тому +4

    Joyriders hoyee🎉🎉. Maandamano kila mahali😂😂.

  • @faithchelimo8294
    @faithchelimo8294 2 місяці тому +2

    Bennn 😂😂Ati i thought you just heal and we are back 😂

  • @mugurehnjorogeh9775
    @mugurehnjorogeh9775 2 місяці тому +1

    The drip tho!!!

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 2 місяці тому +3

    Everytime i see a notification on joyride, am always smiling 😊 coz i know am gonna laugh n have a good time ❤❤

  • @Don_Pierre_K
    @Don_Pierre_K 2 місяці тому

    One way of showing love is throwing a bit of shade on your partner 😆😆😆

  • @millicentminayokilinga9655
    @millicentminayokilinga9655 2 місяці тому +1

    Ben is on the other side of kimende😅😅😅

  • @towettlynn6124
    @towettlynn6124 2 місяці тому +6

    Not Ben talking about closing doors and I live in a bedsitter 😭😂 might be the solution to that 😂

  • @waihiga124
    @waihiga124 2 місяці тому +1

    Over-touched? Very touchy topic. Speed bumps ahead. Kijana jikaze.

  • @nellylaboso3865
    @nellylaboso3865 2 місяці тому +7

    I now see how a kid changes the dynamic of a marriage.. been in one for a month now and through this I can see how waiting a year before a kid would benefit our marriage long term…

  • @faithwacheke7601
    @faithwacheke7601 2 місяці тому +3

    This episode describes my current situation 😂😂😂 housemate phase uweeee

    • @lilywhite8029
      @lilywhite8029 2 місяці тому

      I know this sounds bad. I like it when it's more of a housemate thing because fights zinapungua. We both play roles so efficiently bila hustle. When we are spouses we kinda fight alot on some petty stuff and that's so draining for me. I like the roommate thing

  • @cynetykwamboka1333
    @cynetykwamboka1333 2 місяці тому +5

    Nimeleta tent , nacamp huku 🎉🎉🎉

  • @jeniferaswine4370
    @jeniferaswine4370 2 місяці тому +2

    So real and authentic💯🔥....a wholesome convo and yall I love it here❤❤

  • @roselynsally248
    @roselynsally248 2 місяці тому

    I had missed you all so much❤❤❤
    Congratulations once again❤❤❤
    Much love❤❤❤❤
    Inlove with your intro video❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hildaalividza3461
    @hildaalividza3461 2 місяці тому

    I totally understand what Wanjiru was saying about being over touched, breastfeeding is not natural .... And Yes honestly it's something that you have to experience to understand

  • @Anchorlou
    @Anchorlou 2 місяці тому +5

    This door should just join the chat 😂😂😂

  • @joanwaithera7485
    @joanwaithera7485 2 місяці тому

    The hands-on comment 😂😂😂

  • @carolinesalei5403
    @carolinesalei5403 2 місяці тому

    It's takes a lady after birth atleast 1yr to completely get healed physically and mentally.

  • @Rose-t5o5h
    @Rose-t5o5h 2 місяці тому

    I love love your content...Motherhood looks so good on Wanjiru. Is that your hair? plug please

  • @GillyGithae
    @GillyGithae 2 місяці тому

    I love it here !!! Such a safe space ❤.

  • @SO-xi6vm
    @SO-xi6vm 2 місяці тому +1

    Umeng’ang’ana ukanunua viatu mango 😭😭😭Ben: ukiingiza mguu kwa lake Victoria unatoka na Nile perch …

  • @SO-xi6vm
    @SO-xi6vm 2 місяці тому +1

    Okay if the door disturbs you when she is carrying the baby and wants to leave a room akuamshe akusho ufunge…..😂😂😂😂

  • @marthakagoma3136
    @marthakagoma3136 2 місяці тому

    I've loved loved this episode

  • @joynasaka1627
    @joynasaka1627 2 місяці тому +2

    Love is unconditional desire conditional

  • @estherchibutia3283
    @estherchibutia3283 2 місяці тому

    Welcome ❤back

  • @evelynmbithe
    @evelynmbithe 2 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 the shoes comment 😂😂😂😂

  • @MissyLaurianne
    @MissyLaurianne 2 місяці тому

    This was lovely watching👏👏💗

  • @InternalLifeCrisis
    @InternalLifeCrisis 2 місяці тому

    As a person who has really made peace to just figure myself and trust God's timing for a right partner,, am so moved by your authenticity 💯🙌..May God continue to bless your marriage 13:36

  • @carennyamweya-v6c
    @carennyamweya-v6c 2 місяці тому

    I can relate,but it's for a season❤

  • @natashaapondi1253
    @natashaapondi1253 2 місяці тому

    Nimekuuwa nikiwangoja eeh😂😂😂

  • @evelynnjoroge3859
    @evelynnjoroge3859 2 місяці тому

    Wow .that was a good one ❤

  • @carolinembugua9425
    @carolinembugua9425 2 місяці тому +1

    I haven't given birth, and sometimes I feel uncomfortable when hubby touches me.

  • @SO-xi6vm
    @SO-xi6vm 2 місяці тому

    House mates season comes and goes ….just relax

  • @AfricanPundit
    @AfricanPundit 2 місяці тому

    Ben wanjiru wants you to go deeper.

  • @millicentminayokilinga9655
    @millicentminayokilinga9655 2 місяці тому

    Ben😂😂😂😂😂 eti anti malaria shoes lol..complete treated nets

  • @nancywangari6847
    @nancywangari6847 2 місяці тому

    Woow this was beautiful

  • @ruthnthenya8133
    @ruthnthenya8133 2 місяці тому

    We missed you guys

  • @VeronicahKariuki-ey7rp
    @VeronicahKariuki-ey7rp 2 місяці тому

    Viatu zinaka chomoka twende😂❤

  • @TheCoolMum-j5p
    @TheCoolMum-j5p 2 місяці тому +1

    Feels good to watch content that I can relate to. Wanjiru, I completely understand you that some of the things we feel as mums cannot be understood by men and I don't mean to sound harsh but motherhood can take a toll on us.

  • @njugunabee.9076
    @njugunabee.9076 2 місяці тому

    ❤🎉❤🎉( when I lack words)

  • @_Cl.ar.e
    @_Cl.ar.e 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ChemutaiJuma
    @ChemutaiJuma 2 місяці тому

    Okay, I really love this Joyride season ❤

  • @nicholastoo858
    @nicholastoo858 2 місяці тому

    Today I discovered that you guys have a kid.

  • @caroldancy2718
    @caroldancy2718 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤

  • @susannjeri675
    @susannjeri675 2 місяці тому +1

    Wanjiru no one including your husband will understand whatever we go through during birth and even postpartum. It's a personal expereince

  • @ruthwambui6000
    @ruthwambui6000 2 місяці тому +1

    Kwani all celebrities had decided to name their babies all starting with letter T. Tawa, Tugi, Taji, Tanasha and the list can go on and on😂😂😂