When someone plays mind games with you: what to do

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    BlackHawk 66
    4 hours ago
    Like the gap band song! You can't keep running in & out of my life!! If I am correct!! Old school!! Song! Someone help ! If I am off! Thanks..
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    Tags: People who play mind games with you! Folks who play mind games! People who play on your emotions! My ex plays mind games! My boyfriend plays mind games! My girlfriend plays mind games! My friend play mind games! My husband play mind games! My wife plays mind games!

КОМЕНТАРІ • 307

  • @MillennialKeshia
    @MillennialKeshia 6 років тому +209

    You absolutely cut them out of your life... Too mature for mind-games.

    • @youngstunner67
      @youngstunner67 5 років тому +11

      Keshia K yeah only immature people move like that and mature people Don’t Tolerate It

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 5 років тому +7

      @@youngstunner67 period simple as that

  • @ChristieAnnMusic
    @ChristieAnnMusic 5 років тому +111

    Remember what Aretha said...
    "People walking around everyday
    Playing games, taking scores
    Trying to make other people lose their minds
    Ah, be careful you don't lose yours, oh!"

    • @GalaxyGyrl8888
      @GalaxyGyrl8888 4 роки тому +1

      lol 😂 what’s the name of that song?😆👍

    • @Heymonda8794
      @Heymonda8794 3 роки тому +4

      @@GalaxyGyrl8888 Respect

  • @oya_the_goddess8854
    @oya_the_goddess8854 5 років тому +93

    It’s too many manipulators right now in these days . I ride solo . Genuine souls don’t carry fucked up intentions and always ends up hurt.

  • @KiKiCarr
    @KiKiCarr 5 років тому +63

    I don’t allow anyone to walk in and out of my life

  • @AriesBleu
    @AriesBleu 6 років тому +149

    I always move in silence when I'm done. I dont even want to give the manipulators the opportunity to manipulate me because I do care for them. So. I go cold Turkey.

    • @Shay4YourMind81
      @Shay4YourMind81 5 років тому +24

      Same here! I will not give them the opportunity to try to spin their bad behavior onto me. They simply get cut off.

    • @user-dj8dx7ro1r
      @user-dj8dx7ro1r 3 роки тому +2

      That's what they want. Cold turkey.until i get serious they be scared to leave the house after saying so much bs..

    • @tiffanydennis4227
      @tiffanydennis4227 2 роки тому +9

      I love the action of moving in silence! You cannot go wrong there

    • @AZDC99
      @AZDC99 2 роки тому +2

      @@tiffanydennis4227 Tyler is right! I used to try to move with protest... I tried moving in semi-silence.. I tried to move in silence EVEN... only later breaking that silence...it doesn't work! Moving in silence totally IS sort of new to me at 50 almost.. but no more drama! They used up their last chances with me and I'm done with them.. finally!! (They'll have to find another source of entertainment!)

    • @tiffanydennis4227
      @tiffanydennis4227 2 роки тому +1

      @@AZDC99 hi. That’s true. At least we learn from trial and error. We have a better peace of mind when moving in silence and the narcs seeing how far we prevailed. It catches them off guard and they are intimidated at the same time. Too scared to disrespect you.

  • @11elevenCherry111
    @11elevenCherry111 6 років тому +147

    111% accurate GO 👍
    no contact ... Silent treatment..
    No response... Move on... Block...delete everything... 🔥🔥🔥
    Less is more and powerful ... 🎯

  • @shinebrightlikeadiamond5329
    @shinebrightlikeadiamond5329 5 років тому +66

    People Are Suffering. In Silence. U have people walking Around. Here. Mentally unstable. They get A kick out of. Playing / mind blowing other people due to there. Lack of. Childhood.

    • @tpquest6959
      @tpquest6959 5 років тому +10

      I totally believe this is his issue.

    • @user-dj8dx7ro1r
      @user-dj8dx7ro1r 3 роки тому +6

      No they dont want see a freaking smile on your face

  • @BlueUKLouis
    @BlueUKLouis 6 років тому +77

    “but you move in silence” I’m cracking up but that’s right!!

    • @kasiahroy2082
      @kasiahroy2082 5 років тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @ugi976
      @ugi976 3 роки тому

      I love him

    • @JuliahFL
      @JuliahFL 3 роки тому +2

      😅 Moving in silence over here 👊

  • @patriciarussell6945
    @patriciarussell6945 6 років тому +116

    Very true ive decided to cut toxic individuals out of my life taking care of myself spiritually at present keep up the good work❤❤

  • @patrickmeeks1060
    @patrickmeeks1060 2 роки тому +7

    It's hard to do but it's best to stay alone and too you're self

  • @shinebrightlikeadiamond5329
    @shinebrightlikeadiamond5329 5 років тому +27

    I’m so happy. I separated myself. He mentally unstable. I ran Got in church. He got mad. God Told me. Don’t go back to this guy. He mentally unstable. Not A good relationship. Let him walk away. Don’t chase him

    • @carmenneal532
      @carmenneal532 5 років тому

      True

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 5 років тому +3

      I don't even know why I email my ex. People just can't leave the past where the past is when I try to email him all i said is hi and how are you and how's life so far. When I ask him this no reply back.. but I understand I already move on ..I hate the fact humans be treating other humans wrong

    • @jonathanlavis7447
      @jonathanlavis7447 4 роки тому

      Camille cw u sound like the narc

  • @jamesbreeden2669
    @jamesbreeden2669 5 років тому +16

    Love is not what you do to another person. If I love you and you don't love me. That love means nothing to you. Love is a personal state of being.

  • @edwardmayfield9394
    @edwardmayfield9394 5 років тому +11

    Every time they resurface, they coming with some shit

  • @zirconiadude7453
    @zirconiadude7453 3 роки тому +11

    Becareful of one thing people . The manipulator after you expose him will cry and tell you to forgive him or her but sooner he will come back to his games. Just don,t believe him or if you believe him just take care . Don,t give him anything .

  • @terriali645
    @terriali645 6 років тому +59

    Yes!! Tylor great advice! Some rotten people has no regard at all for others and how they feel. But what goes around comes around. Thank you Tylor for this video.

  • @someone3.2007
    @someone3.2007 9 місяців тому +2

    Set mind games and let them know that you aren't fooled by their gaslighting. Also, if they're asking you to do something they're perfectly cable of doing, that's manipulation and you tell them to DO IT YOURSELF. They're just trying to see what they can manipulate you with.

  • @annalopez9395
    @annalopez9395 6 років тому +43

    This is some good advice, these people are draining . I am in an anxious state some days. Now i understand the meaning of fake friends! Thank you JT

  • @traceyowenhughes9223
    @traceyowenhughes9223 6 років тому +45

    THANK you so much Tyler for this video. Unfortunately, I AM extremely friendly and TRUSTING. I ATTRACT the WRONG people. Something I AM working on. GREAT ADVICE. GOD BLESS YOU.

    • @michellefarria3757
      @michellefarria3757 2 роки тому

      From now on you will only attract good people. You deserve it! Claim it!!!!

  • @patriciafulwood2325
    @patriciafulwood2325 5 років тому +11

    Full family cut offffff bye , i relocated without a forwarding address. 🥂😂🤣🤣

  • @Uneek1980
    @Uneek1980 5 років тому +18

    I love your demeanor. You mean exactly what you say.

  • @wiseoldcatfromdallas.4078
    @wiseoldcatfromdallas.4078 6 років тому +40

    Great video, I give them time and rope and let them dig they own grave, you reap what you sow!!!

  • @joybrailsford3840
    @joybrailsford3840 5 років тому +15

    He's right, shut that person down ....enough is enough!🤔😖🤬🧐🤥👹🤚👇

  • @cherylmcleod6088
    @cherylmcleod6088 6 років тому +32

    PREACH CHURRRRCHHH TY....STOP THE BS...STOP FEELING AND BEING LONELY...GET OUT AND ENJOY LIFE...U WILL MEET SOMEONE BUT DISCERN FIRST BEFORE GIVING UP UR HEART

    • @tpquest6959
      @tpquest6959 5 років тому

      I wish i did this ...discern..i fell hard and fast

  • @swatbadge
    @swatbadge 6 років тому +18

    Totally true, even if it's your own family.... Thank you for sharing.

    • @superiorvessel8496
      @superiorvessel8496 5 років тому +2

      Yes!!

    • @AZDC99
      @AZDC99 2 роки тому

      Especially! Family was the worst for me at the end of the day in my 48 years. Proudly NO CONTACT with all my siblings. Good riddance to EX-family of origin!

  • @carolloraine223
    @carolloraine223 6 років тому +38

    Yes!
    Go No Contact!!!

  • @ShayCostello
    @ShayCostello 4 роки тому +11

    This is my go to video when I’m accepting less than I deserve. Thanks Tyler! The tone and message is much needed.

  • @ChainsTheChef888
    @ChainsTheChef888 2 роки тому +5

    Even if I reconcile and forgive that person it is over, I can forgive that person so i don’t keep so much bitterness inside me but it is done, no going back and while doing this you will be feeling better, it’s crazy how good you can feel about never seeing a toxic person again or involving them in your life, I feel that it’s something like releasing an energy blockage that didn’t allow you to grow and evolve to be better and happier, so releasing those people from your life will make space for better things and the creator of the universe will provide that once you start taking action to get rid of those people which represent spiritual blockages that can’t let you grow and get better!

  • @gabbygarcia8412
    @gabbygarcia8412 5 років тому +13

    Tyler start your own Coaching business!! You’re very gifted

  • @ChilledWhite
    @ChilledWhite 3 роки тому +5

    you are a genius and a real warrior spirit too, not enough people like you in this world, you definitely know that words and truth are the greatest weapons of all.

  • @jaredthetrain5309
    @jaredthetrain5309 Рік тому +1

    Very much needed video for us!

  • @nickstevensmartialarts8914
    @nickstevensmartialarts8914 6 років тому +26

    Another great message. I can relate to this. This is so true and I wish my brother would listen to this because he has a manipulative girl friend who’s just using him. Unfortunately my brother is also very manipulative towards me and our family. It’s to the point that we don’t want anything to do with him. Thanks for sharing this video Tyler. I pressed the like button. Peace and blessings to you sir.

    • @AllPro777
      @AllPro777 6 років тому +8

      Sounds like the brother I just had to cut off. Manipulates you into thinking he's there for you, but when you need him you can never count on him. No more time for that. No person can be half-way in your life. Either they're in or they're out.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  6 років тому +6

      Nick Stevens Martial Arts your brother needs to listen to you must about his girlfriend. I guess your brother will have to learn the hard way. Peace and blessings to you nick.

    • @nickstevensmartialarts8914
      @nickstevensmartialarts8914 6 років тому +1

      Tyler JTI
      Thank you and I agree. He’s the type of guy who doesn’t take advice so you’re right, I guess he will just have to find out the hard way.

    • @nickstevensmartialarts8914
      @nickstevensmartialarts8914 6 років тому

      AllPro777
      Exactly. I agree. I hope things work out for you. My brother also keeps robbing us and now he’s on the run. I’m done trying to help him man. I always regret it. My parents don’t deserve the stress he causes them. But the good news is we have officially decided to cut our ties with him and I’m really relieved 😅 Today is a great day. I hope you have a good one. Peace.

  • @brunasg2188
    @brunasg2188 6 років тому +15

    Love love love! You nailed it 👍brother

  • @YAHREIGNS7
    @YAHREIGNS7 5 років тому +14

    True....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he doesn't give a damn about me.....but he thinks I don't know but ehhhh.......I know hahahahahahhahahahahhahahahhah......

  • @levetteingram5277
    @levetteingram5277 5 років тому +4

    Preach.... Great video.
    Like open and close door.
    { trend} No point of presentation of lies. Mind Games/devil.
    Wasting time.
    These type of people blame others.
    Lesson learn.
    Thank you

  • @KingCajete
    @KingCajete 3 роки тому +12

    Lol 3 hour presentation on why they should be allowed back in my life. Lmfao that's too damn funny
    Love these videos great stuff

    • @tiffanydennis4227
      @tiffanydennis4227 2 роки тому +2

      Right! Lol I’m a victim of that crap as well smh

  • @stefeno372
    @stefeno372 5 років тому +19

    People are disgusting

  • @ci.ci.1998
    @ci.ci.1998 5 років тому +22

    Dealing with this at college it’s so energy draining! I can’t wait until I get the hell away from this school! These deans and counseling and some these teacher are demons soul suckers!🤦🏼‍♀️😒🧐

  • @ElJadaahMisshen-Luvv
    @ElJadaahMisshen-Luvv 6 місяців тому +1

    new sub here thank you I needed THIS!!! such a wakeup call 👏

  • @dionnehorn2158
    @dionnehorn2158 6 років тому +10

    This message was super helpful thank you for the video

  • @bellaluce7322
    @bellaluce7322 5 років тому +5

    Omg Tyler I love your words! Preach! Just what I needed!!!!!!🌹💎

  • @dezicherise1907
    @dezicherise1907 6 років тому +17

    Yes,shut their ass down, Immediately! Show them through your ACTIONS that you demand RESPECT! Glory to GOD,I know the God that I serve, don't want nobody to take advantage of his children.It doesn't matter if they're FAMILY! Those be the first ones to jelly roll you with their foolery.🚫🚯🚫🙅

  • @wendyv52
    @wendyv52 6 років тому +12

    You are really great!! Like you very much You say what i need to hear not what i want to hear ♥

  • @Shadow-jf3tr
    @Shadow-jf3tr 6 років тому +7

    Hate friends like that dealt with it for a year and people can walk over you. Even lovers do it my ex was manipulative for whole year. I was oblivious like a idiot but I learned

  • @jayeaglevision8596
    @jayeaglevision8596 5 років тому +7

    Just wanna say I appreciate your videos so much. I don’t know how often you hear it, but your content has helped reshape my life so much. I’m now in a better place mentally, physically, & spiritually. Elevation requires separation.

  • @marylynch951
    @marylynch951 5 років тому +5

    Tyler
    You make my day
    So honest so raw
    But so so true
    I love you for your fire
    Omg you are so right
    God bless you and protect you always

  • @shirleymadiva6886
    @shirleymadiva6886 5 років тому +4

    Tyler said shut the mother down!! Move On!! No Contact!! Get the hell On!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @Giovanni-01
    @Giovanni-01 Рік тому +2

    I can be very cut throat...not because I want to be ,but have to be . Otherwise ppl don't learn. Maybe because they're used to OTHER people constantly giving them what they want. I'm not rude about it,I just stop contacting or interacting with them the same way. Especially as a introverted person, its not easy for us to let ppl in ,so when we do ,and someone takes advantage of that, it's never the same afterwards

  • @robinmartin7835
    @robinmartin7835 5 років тому +3

    Thank you, Tyler. You’re awesome. ❤️

  • @shannonprice5187
    @shannonprice5187 5 років тому +11

    There trying to escape from THERE karma! I got out the way!!! I've learned THIS lesson the hard way every time my soon to be ex husband left me and the kiddos. No more of that bullshit! They only bring heartache and grief pain and suffering hardships!!

  • @Jagdeep-r3i
    @Jagdeep-r3i Рік тому

    First things first - I found you , you did not find me. Secondly you just changed my life in a fantastic way, So God Bless you (!) Noticed the exclamation mark in brackets for sign of positive emotion. I just watched this video and found it absolutely helpful. You were so defined in what you said and meant. I would not recommend anyone to seek mental health care advice, but I do recommend people suffering from mental health; is to watch this video specifically, Mind games can be lethal - to the extent where one individual can not cope with mind games and end up committing suicide. I know of four individuals to do that. I personally love it when people play mind games with me as it gives me a challenge to conquer in coming out the best out of the situation. I spent my precious time in listening to every word you said, and found you very helpful. Thank you for changing my life , God bless you , God bless America, Stephen Patpal - Bristol , England.

  • @1coco317
    @1coco317 5 років тому +5

    Love you Tyler!! Speak the truth !! Needed some restoration for the 2019

  • @Shaun49ers
    @Shaun49ers 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you! I’ve truly enjoyed watching your videos and they have been helpful in dealing with a situation I’m currently in with a negative person and I know it was the right thing to do to cut them off. God bless.

  • @schoolshow94
    @schoolshow94 6 років тому +11

    Great advice

    • @schoolshow94
      @schoolshow94 6 років тому +1

      I would dump the person even if they did those 3 things ha ha

  • @lakeishahawkins2263
    @lakeishahawkins2263 6 років тому +6

    OK thanks Tyler, god bless u brother

  • @misstery5942
    @misstery5942 5 років тому +4

    Play back!!!... boggle their mind says they don't know wtf is going on

  • @PRETTYGIRLSWAGG918
    @PRETTYGIRLSWAGG918 3 роки тому +9

    Psychopaths do this LOL

  • @debbiedeb1138
    @debbiedeb1138 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you .....your on it I'm tired of mind games .... DONE ! NOT WORTH IT NO MORE!! SLAMMING THAT DOOR

  • @atreja324
    @atreja324 6 років тому +8

    need this message. thank you!

  • @PunkMartyr
    @PunkMartyr 2 роки тому +3

    Its because they have given in to sin. They don’t even notice they are consumed by sin and suffering anymore. You can explain Jesus to them as a last resort.

  • @paperchaser416
    @paperchaser416 5 років тому +5

    Damn it Tyler u r absolutely right it's time to lock that door for good and relocate 👍.

  • @sharonanderson6926
    @sharonanderson6926 4 роки тому +5

    That's not love.

  • @lakeishahawkins2263
    @lakeishahawkins2263 6 років тому +25

    Do a topic on rejection

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  6 років тому +8

      Lakeisha Hawkins go back into my achieves. Already did that. Peace and blessings to you.

  • @maria12501
    @maria12501 6 років тому +9

    OMG Tyler! you just described a covert narcissist which is he worst type of human being. My friend is married to one, he is the sweetest person in the world the wife is evil to the core. How do I pull him away from that evil witch. Thank you!

  • @jacquelinehartfield529
    @jacquelinehartfield529 5 років тому +1

    I THANK YOU FOR BEING A PERSON THAT'S 💯%!!! 😀👍🏾 I'M SURLY TIRED OF ALL OF THE SHIT FOR DECADES JUST BECAUSE I COULD ONLY BE HUMBLE FOR A SEASON BUT THAT SEASON IS GONE. SO THE NEXT SEASON I WOULD NOT CALL MYSELF A BITCH BECAUSE MY DOG IS A BITCH. BUT A PART OF A PERSON THAT I AM A PART OF, A PERSON THAT I HAVEN'T LET OUT YET BUT HAS BEEN HELD BACK FOR DECADES, NOW IT'S ON!!!! 🙂👍🏾

  • @queennkee3749
    @queennkee3749 6 років тому +6

    Great video

  • @kendraheard9100
    @kendraheard9100 5 років тому +3

    Man I swear u make my day..lol u be so serious..but great info much love and God bless you!

  • @nevilleboone8
    @nevilleboone8 4 роки тому +1

    Damn your speaking the truth! Thank you Brother! Master Manipulators are the worse.

  • @UdayGaneshHalarnkar
    @UdayGaneshHalarnkar 19 днів тому

    You r a real man.

  • @kasiahroy2082
    @kasiahroy2082 5 років тому +7

    3 hr presentation?!! 😂😂😂 3 uncomfortable actions?!!!

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 3 роки тому +2

    You described my husband, which is why we are separated, most likely for good. He would keep saying words he think I will believe but go right back the same hot and cold behavior to make me upset so he can bail and then try to blame it on my reaction which wasnt even as it should have been. He just kept cycling us with his toxic games and mind games.

    • @user-dj8dx7ro1r
      @user-dj8dx7ro1r 3 роки тому

      What if its like 30 ppl and 4 close too u.fighting

    • @user-dj8dx7ro1r
      @user-dj8dx7ro1r 3 роки тому

      I can write a book itll blow your mind evil.mind games from 30 something ppl.not playing make u book physco who have u pegged but 1 mind sharp observers this shit evil ass shit.

    • @nae_thehighpriestessllj6108
      @nae_thehighpriestessllj6108 3 роки тому

      Same here I’m done

  • @diamonddeyah9353
    @diamonddeyah9353 5 років тому +2

    I hear you loud and clear ❤️🔥

  • @aprilmartin1060
    @aprilmartin1060 5 років тому +3

    THANK YOU ! :) AMEN !

  • @girlfriendnextdoor
    @girlfriendnextdoor 5 років тому +2

    Such a classic!!!

  • @Fiveandime
    @Fiveandime 6 років тому +8

    Facts

  • @YAHREIGNS7
    @YAHREIGNS7 5 років тому +6

    That "friend" ain't coming back ehhhh nahhhhhh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 🙌

  • @priscilladreaver7208
    @priscilladreaver7208 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for such a powerful advice!!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @miaheranandez8257
    @miaheranandez8257 5 років тому +2

    Thank you Tyler 😘

  • @Passiion_Fruiit
    @Passiion_Fruiit 5 років тому +1

    I’m tired but not fed up smh, you right

  • @digitaldanny7752
    @digitaldanny7752 5 років тому +2

    Good stuff ..

  • @marylynch951
    @marylynch951 5 років тому

    Thank you Tyler
    As always spot on
    God bless you always

  • @christinehaigh9807
    @christinehaigh9807 6 років тому +1

    I love your videos, thank you for sharing this knowdge.

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 3 роки тому +1

    Tyler it almost drove me insane, so I had to get away.

  • @kendrickjohnson8762
    @kendrickjohnson8762 6 років тому +1

    Thank you Tyler, I know God help me find you.

  • @quincybrown5381
    @quincybrown5381 3 роки тому

    Nailed it... currant and accurate asf no cap 🧢

  • @annefraser6908
    @annefraser6908 6 років тому +4

    Thankyou

  • @sherrytennyson5951
    @sherrytennyson5951 5 років тому

    Yes I was right that's why I sent a letter saying I hope you have good health and are spiritual. I hope he is happily married

  • @JuliahFL
    @JuliahFL 3 роки тому +1

    The coming and going is real! I finally cut those people out and so glad I did.

  • @paulalietke888
    @paulalietke888 5 років тому +2

    Well said

  • @Aaiza_Saud
    @Aaiza_Saud 5 років тому

    Another great video..... So true. .

  • @daphnerodriguez9980
    @daphnerodriguez9980 5 років тому +2

    TYLER GREAT ADVICE CUT THEM CLEAN OFF.❤️🖤💚 BROWN FAMILY. DAPHNE COTTON ALWAYS 💜.

  • @molliemk3477
    @molliemk3477 5 років тому

    just found ur channel and subscribed. keep up the good work xx :)

  • @maritza2016
    @maritza2016 5 років тому +4

    I dnt care no more I let them come and go I never reach out., I dnt invest my feelings or dnt answer back u right

    • @user-dj8dx7ro1r
      @user-dj8dx7ro1r 3 роки тому +1

      Energetic positve charge smile they hate

  • @JK-ly6wu
    @JK-ly6wu 6 років тому +7

    💯.

  • @vee6394
    @vee6394 6 років тому +5

    love this :)

  • @GoldQueen-i4j
    @GoldQueen-i4j Місяць тому

    10 yrs of this yup and it hurts

  • @preciousperez7324
    @preciousperez7324 4 роки тому +1

    Wow this is perfect for me right now!

  • @jaapjongbloed1994
    @jaapjongbloed1994 2 роки тому

    I am not coming back..never!!! I love myself❤️🙏🌍

  • @justinekana8953
    @justinekana8953 3 роки тому

    Thank you. Fantastic

  • @Lsa2023
    @Lsa2023 4 роки тому

    Great Advice!

  • @looslaura1
    @looslaura1 6 років тому +3

    I definitely dont throw that L word around