When someone leaves you high and dry: what it reveals about that person
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Uncommitted people! When someone leaves you hanging? When someone leaves you high and dry. Fake people.
I had a man leave me high and dry. Then he wanted me back, but I told him to go to Hell, because by then I was engaged to someone else!!! He really regretted that!!! I saw him, and I said, "Hi!, and while I did that I put my hand out, and put it down, like, so he could see my new diamond engagement ring!!! God, that felt good!!! KARMA
Chicago Gyrl
Oh my God!! Best story every sis! I can relate a lil. My son father left me for another woman with more money than me. My son was 5months at that time. I couldn't believe it. He started coming around showing off the shiny things she brought him looking all in my face for an expression. I mean he was so mean & nasty to me. I forgave him for my healing only. Now him and her has left the state to live together.
I really look forward to the day my King comes into my life and marry me. Nit even for bragging rights either, but because I just fucking deserve it. Lol. But your story was everything to me. Thanks for sharing. ✌️🏿🖤💫💍😉
Chicago Gyrl I'M NEXT
Chicago Gyrl wow!I hope It will happen to me too!
Chicago Gyrl That's how it is when you get engaged THEY Try to come back like roaches!! Lol good for you BLESSED AND HIGHLY FAVORED.
deandravr INSPIRATION - JACKIE WILSON AND LaVern TAYLOR "THINK TWICE VERSION X" U TUBE ✌😂🤣😘
It's tough when you're a person who realizes that everyone around you treats you like a non-priority. I've spent years in the past worrying about why this person or that person never has time for me, or disappears for long stretches if not permanently. I cut every single person out of my life who behaved like that, and I can't believe how much stress I let of go of by doing it. People who love and respect you will be there for you. They won't go silent for days or weeks at a time. They won't ignore your messages. They won't disappear on you. People who love and respect you will be there. People who love and respect you don't have to be begged for their company, they show up willingly. They won't act burdened to help you out with minor things, they will be there because they love you and they WANT to be there for you.
Nobody in my life could do that, yet acted as if I was in the wrong for no longer wanting to tolerate that type of relationship. As if part-time love and disappearing acts is an okay thing to do to a person and expect them to be okay with it, smh. Crazy world, crazy folks. I'm so much better off now.
AllPro777 Exactly that's the truth!!! 💯💯💯💯, No Excuses!! I couldn't agreed with you more... People who care, you'll feel they are there for you because, they want to be there for you... 💯💯💯💯👍👍
That's the truth it happened to me in recovery
AllPro777 Hi on youtube there is lady.called Agnes Villarelli. She does.self love meditation and affirmations. It may help you understand why people treat you the way they do. Check it out it has.helped me. Blessings
u just touched me, my ex actually was acting like : two dayz of love and affection n happiness then be like babe something is up talk to u when i can n i love u n think about u '' and goes silent for few dayz, then comes back n we spend time again n then disappear and then comes back n then disappear until she completely ghosted me n ignored me and kept posting stories on sc as if ignoring me is ok as if we never dated, u know? stupid ass bitch
True
I was left high and dry and all I wanted was to talk. No real apology ever was given to me!! I was a fool trusting like a child. No more. Spot on Tyler and thank you very much!!
My soul needed to hear this. I almost cried because the level of understanding. Thank you Tyler. Very healing. And a wake up call.
Me too
Same here family
@@alejandroquinones5331 how is life going so far ?
And the part you talk about how when a person does this then acts like nothing is wrong, SO TRUE!!! I've had people do this and ask me for my number EVERY time they see me but NEVER call, lol. So much fakery out here, I swear, smh! It's crazy how people think they're so much better than you, when you know these people and you KNOW that most of them ain't shit and are living a shitty life! LOL!
DEAD 🤣🤣🤣 I know a guy who I worked with who is fake like that. He see me in street and keep asking for number yet when I see him at our old job he won't speak at all. Last time I saw him outside of the job I ignored him. Lol
@@ladybird491 Yes I totally agree wit you 💯 !! You did the correct thing by walking past him like he was invisible !!! Sometimey people are the worst !! I
So true. No one is perfect. But, honesty comes from a pure heart. But..if they are not real. That mean they playing the game. Facts.
What is no one is perfect? Sounds like deflection.
Truth.100% Truth!
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It's so cruel for someone to just leave without a word..worst feeling in the world..really caused a lot of pain. I know I'm going through this. Thank you Tyler for this message.
My intuition are right
Same here. Discarded thrown away like trash after 2half years &replaced the same week. No warning, no discussion, explanation, nothing. Didn't even get to say goodbye to the kids. Ghosted, blocked, and replaced like I never existed.
my friend did this to me..it's been 8 months since I've heard from her. it breaks my heart. i need all the support i can get. this girl was in my wedding...it feels like a death for sure.
I am here if you want to talk. A girl who was my best friend for almost 20 left me and high dry and never cared to apologize. It took years for me to get over it.
This man knows what he's talking about. I love his passion behind everything he says.
I RATHER be by myself as well!
Same here
He left me high and dry 2 years ago. Never even answered my last text message. He went off to pursue his career/destiny. It sure didn't include me. We could have stayed friends but no...I wasn't important. I don't know why I still give a sh*t.
No longer give a shot.
Shit even. 😂😂😂
Bonnie you can't assume hes busy pursuing something he likes in life.. he focusing on his goals and mission .. if someone trying to achieve something in life you should had been happy for him instead of trying to assume ... You don't know what's going on in his life regardless
Camille Warren either way it’s fuck em haha
Same here
Even though he apologized NO THANK YOU
between 24 hours and 5 days is about the right time frame to wait for someone's explanation. Good call Tyler!
That's what I did
Tyler ive let go off all these types of people even if it means being alone, getting younger everyday all they do is drain your energy, love your work T❤
Good😎
My twin flame (or maybe false idk I just wish I could move past this twin flame bs) left me high and dry! I was the fool who did so much for him!! I’m the female and I flew on planes to see him, I PAID for EVERYTHING, he got so accustomed to it wouldn’t even thank me, just expected me to pay for his meals and everything! And then DUMPED me, updated his dating profile and moved onto someone else so fast!! Sponged me and left! I’m furious and hurt! Exploited my kindness and love! And showed signs of not prioritizing me because he would disappear on me and be at the bar. But the person I should be most furious at is ME for being such a FOOL!! Tough pill to swallow but I better not let myself be a doormat like this again!
LinaMariah100 My current situation. But I get it so I’m gon move on.
She did the same thing I deleted her number already..
Damn you telling the truth. Been through the same exact shit you talking about over and over again for years. Now after leaving me high and dry folks wanna keep coming back into my life just to do the same shit again and they NEVER apologize,, I'm not having that shit!!! Don't want to deal with them anymore. I can't stand fake ass people. Salute!
Than they use their child as excuse why they didn't reply back..
Drew see the promble is we live in the same city . Unfortunately she would like my photos on Instagram without speaking to me . But than she drove in my street stearing at me knowing your not the one who is speaking to me.. I wish her the best I can't do it I am looking for someone who was on my same level energy which I found already. It's I never did anything to this girl.. people play vitum
Thanks Tyler for busting my chops. 😂😂😂
I was the dumb ass who took him back after 2years. Only for him to leave me AGAIN, but this time with a 5month old baby.
I can laugh at this bc me and a lot of other women tend to fall in love with a man's potential, and not the tangible. And I have learned and I will never let this happen to me again. I am woke, and he helped me realize what I do not want in my life. Now, I can see and smell a man's BS 10miles away!! I'm just sorry it took that pain & suffering to get me to wake up. But where I am today, now that I got in touch with my higher self and my truths as a black Queen/goddess, it was worth it.
Thanks for sharing Tyler. I started listening to you right after he left me and u helped a whole lot.
U have no idea who u are growing with these videos. ✌️🏿🖤💫
Zebra West
I'm laughing too! Growth is beautiful. Regardless of what it took to get u there. Good luck to the next unstabled minded chic
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I did the same thing with my x and also ended up pregnant but I had a miscarriage, and afterwards, ran for the hills, and never looked back.
There’s a reason why pride is one of the seven deadly sins.
Yessss..
Tell it, Tyler! 😎♥😎♥
I love how he speaks the TRUTH! Rotflmao when he saids,what I'm thinking in my head.Let's me know I'm not the only one dealing with assholes!😁😂🤗😂
Oh. My. God. Nail on the head. I do believe you just helped me finish healing. You see he died last August so I couldn't get that last "why?" But now I know. Now I know. Thank you Tyler, so much.
Thankyou Tyler. I really apprieciate your no nonsense approach. Your talk about the behaviour of shitty people is spot on. They have no intention of accepting responsibility. They want to mug you off. Thankyou for your strong guidence.
This is why I deleted her number she acts like I did something to her, we never did hang out . I never interdouce her to my family or my kids ....but she would like my photos on Instagram without even trying to speak to me. Unfortunately we live in the same city .. IV been busy in my life really ain't got time for the foolishness games. When knowing the fact she ain't even trying to take in responsibilities
This video just confirmed what I've known for the last past 2 years, although I'm much stronger now and I have moved on.
Gotta Love Tyler messages, and his expressive way of explaining . 🥴
He don't play games though it real facts though
Ever since I decided 2 leave my ex boyfriend, and do my self healing process and treat myself, all of a sudden my ex want me back. I'm like FOH!! I'm at a better space in my life without him. Love this video Tyler
Wasssup girly
Tyler l just love you!!! You keep it 100% real!! Wooo plus you make me laugh so hard with your expressions!! Love it❤️
Yess Tyler is the truth! 💯
Your advice is exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you! I will listen to it everyday till the pain is gone.
Lol . Me too it's so true .. Iv been going through things in my life.. I am allowing myself to push I had to keep watching this too
PREACH CHURRRRCHHH.....TY I FEEL THE SAME WAY..I HAD TO TAKE A WARRANT OUT TO KEEP HIS ASS AWAY FROM ME
Speak on it Tyler!! I’m too old for the BS!!👏🏾👏🏾
Well said Tyler , I’ve always had a re-entry window of around a week, for a person to correct and amend. After that they’ve fucked it with me fo good ! 🤟
This is why you up straight with point. I am going tell why like about you. Because very seriously about your lesson ain't don't play. Honestly Tyler making great advices. Really need excellent reward for good honor. I appreciate your work this my applaud for you👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏Peace and blessings.
Kendrick Celestin thank you so much. I appreciate the work that you so on your channel. Peace and blessings to you.
I totally agree! He is a powerful life coach.
Going through this right now. I’m such a fool for trusting this kind of people. It hurts so much but it’s alright, time will tell. God is with me.
Thank u. I put a stop to the nonsense today! Can’t let anyone waste my time
Same people who say they don’t owe me anything after taking my kindness for weakness I’m gone!
Right on time great video thanks Tyler stay blessed
Stumbled on your channel a few days ago. I’m not sure how I did it but I definitely know and realize Y I did. These msgs are for ME. Raw no chaser straight to the point whether you like what’s bein said or not. The kind of msgs that alot of us need to hear. I found your channel right at a time where everything you’re sayin is happening to me right now. But I get it... if a man doesn’t wanna be bothered clearly you can see the signs. So move on to what God really has waiting for you. You said it best and I believe that quote: Rejection IS God’s Protection🙌💯.... Thank You💕💕💕
Exactly cut them off if he or she can’t apologize and change their behavior. And I can tell you’ve been through this yourself 😂
I always apologize for my action or delay.
every single friend I have ever had and several of my immediate family members, so now I am done. I have had enough.
Preach Tyler!! I refuse to give my energy to these types of insecure people who use others for their positive energy. I’ll give them one chance because I am a good hearted person but after you think you gon play me and waste my time, I’m gone on to my other options.
Same here , ...
I rather be lonely. .
I was left high and dry when I got pregnant. From a man who said he loved me and had been with me over 18 months.
I physically threw my teenage 18 year old daughter out of my house after leaving me high and dry 2 times, and her father for hours sitting in a dak parking lot. I didn't speak to my dead beat dad for 20 years cause he left me high and dry on my 16 birthday and I heard he was looking after another womans child, not his. My best friend of 20 years left me high and dry, after we went out for drinks. She said she would call me, and keep in touch, and I called her and she ignored me, and I didn't hear from her for years, yet I found out she was hanging out with my fam, then one day she just called me out of no where, YEARS LATER, I told her to kiss my ass in so many words, and BAILED. I saw my x boyfriend get attacked by his x for leaving her high and dry about some cash, she had let him burrow and was suppose to meet up with her that day to pay her back but ghosted her. At this point in my life, I am whooping ass and taking names of anyone who leave me high and dry.
Keep speaking truth. They got one job and only one job to do.. respect & integrity is crucial. One I’m done💯✅👍🏾
Great video thanks.. it brought that feeling back of a recent betrayal of what I thought was a friend😟
They only pretended to be.. of course they come back.. But their behavior left a bad taste in my mouth 👄: I choked from the stench! Deuces ✌🏾
I’m better off without that.
Ty
I needed this reminder✅✅✅✅
He ain’t even sorry 😳.
I’m better than good and so are u⭐️.
Great video.
I love your talks. Amen to this.
Preach it Tyler!! Damn right I cared! They are a huge waste of time! They are being fake! Nope not wasting my time. I dont have time for their mess. My mama didn't raise no fool.
You are so ABSOLUTELY RIGHT on point!
Thank you Tyler u are helping me I consider u a real friend you’ll not leave me
Thank you. Relatives are disposables.
There is no excuse in this world to leave someone high and dry and not show up when their suppose to. If there was a big emergency (sometimes it happens) then you should call to tell the person what happened; if they don't do it, then the person or friend is just irresponsible and not worth your time going out with them again. That's why I'm picky about who I choose for friends. Sometimes it's better to have a few friends then to have friends that are unreliable and take your time & friendship for granted.
That's why I stay to myself..
Spot on !!! Tight but right!
You be going off on your video’s, but you be absolutely correct!! I enjoy all of your videos. I subscribed.
Wise words. I knew this back in the day but still would allow these type of people back in my life. Not anymore.
And I'm loving your energy in this video.
This is why I stay to myself period because I feel that I am not no one priority
Camille CE I know the feelin. Currently goin thru a situation such as the one Tyler’s speakin abt. You’ll be fine though. As will I. It takes time to get past this kind of hurt and upset. But you always get past it💯🙌🙏
@@danaglover6801 yeah ...
Camille Warren 🙂🙂🙂
@@danaglover6801 yeah ... I never did anything to her so I am moving forward with my life.. she would like my photos on Instagram without speaking to me .. smh
Camille Warren Same wit me. As you said we just got keep moving forward👍💯
Great vids as always.
deandravr thanks
Well said, totally agree with you.
Thank you REAL TALK REAL DELIVERANCE BLESSINGS
Very real....someone needed to hear 👂 this
Pretty much
Thank God for you I'm new to your channel and I'm here to stay🥳🙌🤝💯❤️
So needed this r n
OMG I ❤ U!!! You ain't said nothing but the truth you my best friend in my head cuz this is exactly what I need to hear! 4 real I love your delivery say it plain No Chaser this is exactly what folks need to hear to shake them out of their delusion!🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏
I love you!!!! Keep these messages coming. I know you are serious and the messages are hitting home for me, but you are funny as hell. Goodness! God bless you ❤
Like really
Damn Tyler, you went in, you had me shouting AMEN. nothing but the damn truth in this video. I almost punched someone in the face for leaving me high and dry. Tyler I agree alot with you, but many people will come back claiming they telling you the truth why, and be lieing. I am sorry that 5 days is long enough for me, to have made a one minute call to tell me what happened.
You obviously went through this before. Thanks for this video 🙏🏾
You are the truth!! This helps so much. Thank you Tyler for your wisdom you are a blessing.
real shit Tyler
Tyler JTI,
You really spoke to me today...as if you are my relative giving me advice. You spoke real 💯talk to me in this video. So much so, I had to Subscribe to your channel☺.
Thank you Tyler
Thanks for the content man, do you have people who are close to you? I hope you do man. I hope you have people who love you my dude.
Tom Cunnington I'm sure he has lots!! He is the bestest!!! 😙☝️
A lot of his subscribers Love him,He is helping people doing his purpose.I truly feel that in my spirit. As long as Tyler has a relationship with God the creator he will be blessed and highly favored.God bless you all🤗♥🤗♥
Good information, Tyler. Thanks.
So true!
Exactly thank you! 🙋🏽♀️🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽!
Great video, thanks!
That’s right brother we don’t put up with that ish no more!
keep it comin bro
Preach!!
I love you Tyler thank you
Yup your sister right brother.
Thank You for this!!!
I have someone reappearing in my social group who I used to attempt to be in a relationship with. (Karmic Soulmate Maybe Twin Flame). He had pulled this for shorter periods of time in the past. But this time, No contact for 10 months. And a girlfriend . He reappears and tries to exchange niceties and I respond and then remove myself from the area he is in.
I have had mutual friends express that I am being childish not to encourage friendly exchanges.
I care deeply for this person. And I really don’t care what comes out of his mouth until he express regret and that he has matured past acting in that manner to anyone.
cbillhill amen to that
He abannded me 35 years and 7 months ago I am very sick over this for so many years I am in in love with him
You need to create a life for YOU FIRST NOW. It took me 22 to finally admit that my husband has never seen me as a priority but as something to do on his list eventually and once I was able to accept it, I realize what I needed to do, now I do not care to make it work or be with him, because I know he will never change. I focus on me most of the time and I have peace now. Start the process by first purging your house and having a room in which nothing of no one else's is in there.
Damn I love you! INEEDED THIS THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!
Sometimes it could be a misunderstanding of communication tho you know I have notice People sit back and wait for you to fuck up to have a problem with you it's almost like it's excuse to have a problem😒 Or keeping score of what you do be mindful
Tyler you right
First 60 seconds of video... Mind reader sir... Thanks, really appreciated. The rest of the video... Aloe Vera... #legit
Wow brother you are so right I am doing this right now in my live,people TYLER is right do it for yourself just saying
Real talk!
You are so right! 😂
great vid. thanks tyler
❤❤❤❤❤ im watching all your videos... and i aint gna put up with that s#!t
exception: law students
Teach bro!!!🔥👏🏾🔥👏🏾🔥
Amen my brother
Yes spot on it happen to me and are kids was married for 13 years with 2 children husband went to London to work but he thought I stand by him after he takes a second wife hell no I'm worth a million times better kearma Will catch up with him in the long run I love the way you say it up front keep the good work up Libra lady from Ireland
What it reveals: THEY CRAZY 🤪
lmao you the shit dropping nothing but facts!!!!! I've been that dumb ass person before but not no damn more, can u be my guidance counselor?
YOU GO GYRLS!!! ROCK ON WITH YOUR BAD SELVES!!! GO OUT AND LET ALL THE PEOPLE KNOW, YOUR BACK TO ROCK THE SHOW!!! AND WHEN YOUR OUT, LET 'EM KNOW!!! HERE IT IS! HOLD ON! INSPIRATION SONG - "RETURN OF THE MACK" U TUBE. NAMASTE!!! ✌😉😘
THANKS YOU GOODNESS 🌟, TYLER ♥️🖤💚 BROWN FAMILY DAPHNE COTTON ALWAYS 💜.
#FACTS
he apologized..but it was MY fault REALLY!!?? he got mad cause i didnt answer his hoovers..boy please u not gonna waste my time
Yessss!!! 👏👏👏
Major major DISRESPECT!!!!!!! A sagittarius ♐️ Man left me for his ex girlfriend & her child . I never had a man act so invested in me spiritually and emotionally 😢just leave...
First I'm sorry to hear that happened to you, how ever I really do think that it's big mistake to make base judgements about people based their astrological sign. There is so much more to a person then what some sweeping generalization like astrological signs. By going off that, you're only looking at things from surface level and not really trying to get to know some one as they truly are. The truth is, that if you really want to get to know some one and be with them and they are showing you the same effort, then pursue with caution. The truth is there is no safe way to date and make friends with out getting hurt even if you're as vigilant as you can possibly be, some people will always be shitty enough to find new ways to hurt you but even then so, i think it's not a fair thing to do to yourself and other to just widdle people down to something that doesn't even account for even a third of who that person is and just slap a label on then that isn't all that accurate to begin with.that type of stuff will only hold you back from making valuable connections.
And another thing you should look at,(and this one might sting) is that I assume you don't have kids with the guy and you're aren't married to him and I assume you guys weren't tied to each other financially, so as shitty as it maybe on how it was done,it was his right to make that choice just as it would have been your right to do something similar. No one owes you a relationship just like you don't owe anyone the same. You are owed basic respect of course but that's about it.the respect of live and let live. And once you accept that you find a new strength in yourself and navigate this world in way that benefits you in so many more ways.
Just my opinion and my advice,take it or leave it.
I've never seen this mad before... calm down Ty