'Diaper-Dodging' Professor Arrested After Sex with Disabled Man | Anna Stubblefield Case Analysis
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This is INSANE.
And she’s not required to register as a sex offender?? Because she should be. For life.
I doubt it. She appealed and was let out of prison.
Imagine a man doing this to a severely disabled woman, then getting 22 months and not having to register. Um, yeah ain’t happening.
I believe she does have to register under Megan's Law as part of her plea deal, along with lifetime parole.
@@JRRob3wnyeah, the double standards are outrageous! It’s crazy that male victims are still not taken seriously…..the public outcry would be insane if the roles were reversed & a male educator was the perpetrator.
@@isitoveryet9525 I don’t know if you saw the story from a few months ago about a female teacher molesting a ten year old boy…seems like there is an epidemic of these sick cases out there. Very sad state of affairs in our country all around.
The phrases "loosened diaper" and "oral sex" should never, ever go together.
😂 💀 ikr 😞
Literally made me gag
Talk about gag reflex 😮
😂😂😂🎉 cool
Unless it's two geezers doing consensual shenanigans.
It's wild, she was literally talking to herself during the facilitated communication and lived out some weird fantasy.
frightening
This is obviously someone who's brain is broken. IDK what the deal is, Im only halfway through, but IDC what anyone says, this chick's brain is not working properly.
Exactly! Like in Psycho when Norman Bates talks to his mom.
Exactly she used him to create herself a "perfect" man. Someone intellectual and romantic. She's still delusional to this day.
Yeah, that’s what it seems like.
This is completely fucked up. I love how, in the documentary, her mom and herself insist that she's never hurt anyone. She traumatized Derrick, his family, and HER family. She's a delusional narcissist. She was wrapped up in a fantasy she created in her head and had no problem violating the rights of Derrick, cheating on her husband, destroying her family, and hurting Derrick's family. The fact she can't even pronounce "D-Man" properly just makes it so much worse. She crossed SO MANY boundaries. This woman is twisted and deserves life in prison.
omg yes first sign she was a crazy psycopath was when she kept calling him Daman instead of D-Man
@@malcriadamedina5358 it’s the little signs that our intuition picks up on that just can’t be ignored, our intuition is always right! The “Daman” thing was her way to make him sound more upper-class and “intellectual”, I think
Yeah, when I saw the "D-man" name in the documentary my first thought was there's nothing shocking about the idea that someone might've called him that before. It's not an uncommon premise for a nickname, proving that FC doesn't work. I agree with the boundaries as well. She wasn't just a family friend that wanted to help- she was employed as an educator who as a scholar was his facilitator. Even if anyone believed in her delusions, there's still the power dynamic at play due to her role was to be his facilitator. Her mom and former clients who she's helped wanting to believe the best in her I can understand, as I imagine it can be difficult to come to terms with a loved one being a sex offender. However, at some point you need to face the facts that just because you love someone whose never hurt you/you've never seen hurt anyone doesn't mean they didn't do it. Regardless of their varying levels of denial, those people are also on the traumatized list. As you rightfully said, the woman is twisted and should've received life in prison.
Yeah that was messed up im glad someone else noticed she (and her mom) kept calling him Daman instead of Dee-Man AFTER his mom pronounced it for her. Then they interview the professor at the history class and she pronounced it Dee-Man as well. It was like she was trying to white it up and make it sound sophisticated.
@meowmirrr I thought that too. Like D Man is a little too ghetto for her so she "churched" it up a bit.
Like that scene in Joe Dirt where he's pronouncing his own name with a French accent lol
Anna's position of power over him and his mental disability should have landed her a longer sentence!
She appealed and was released after 2 years.
But i’m sure she will never teach again.
@@couchprincess698 a man would've been in for a decade at least, though
The power difference is the core of this story of abuse😢
@@jr2904 WTF are you talking about? Most crime docs with sex offenders feature guys who had been given shockingly light sentences for prior crimes before they escalated to murder. And those guys are straight up predators while this woman is dazzled by left-logic to the point that Dr Grande considers her beliefs as possibly delusional so at least she has a major mitigator compared to most sex offenders.
The more I look at these types of stories the more it friggen feels like the whole friggen legal system is one big fat joke.
My twin brother has severe cerebral palsy. The fact that some people are on her side and saying it's abeleist is insane. They are vulnerable. She is a predator.
What’s ableist is taking advantage of someone who cannot repel you in any way. Her even saying that he ‘seduced’ her is the same repulsive language pedophiles use.
As someone who is living with cerebral palsy, albeit in a fairly mild form, I find what this woman did to be horrific. People who are genuinely vulnerable need to be protected from people like this. At the same time, I hope that people don't automatically assume that everyone with CP is a potential victim who is incapable of deciding what he/she wants. I know people with cerebral palsy who are lawyers for example, while I have earned a pair of degrees in history and social work. I'm also very capable of telling someone to stop doing something that I don't want them to do. The point is that cases like this need to be judged on an individual level.
In my opinion, the people taking her side and calling this ableism are the real ableists.
While I agree that it would be ableist to assume based on appearances that a person lacks competence, there are no assumptions being made here. His intellectual disability is well documented. And most importantly, his inability to care for himself or understand language does not decrease his value or his personhood. He is a worthy human being regardless and I doubt the people who call this situation “ableist” can see that.
@@lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241 so your saying hes worthy in all ways except intimacy???? What kind of life is that????
It's called yt privilege. In amercian society Caucasians are always given the benefit of the doubt, yet for people of color we're made out to be purposely evil.
There is such a huge disparity between sentencing for male sex offenders and female sex offenders. It's disgusting.
and race
@gerald-uo7ry yeah one particular race does seem to commit a majority of violent crimes
@@gerald-uo7ryIs more about ones socio economic background than race
@@savagehadoken6828 which one?
@@savagehadoken6828One particular race makes up a majority of all sex offenses in prison. They actually commit more sex offenses than every other race combined… bet ya can’t guess which race ;)
I was a student of hers in the spring semester of 2011. I forget the official name of the class but we learned of eugenics and generally how disadvantaged people with disabilities are in society. We watched “Annie’s Coning Out” and learned about FC. She brought Derrick into our class one day to show us FC in action. We got to ask him questions about what it was like to live with his condition. I remember asking him at one point “Do you feel your family still understands and “gets” you even though you haven’t been able to talk to them.” and using FC with Anna’s help “he” responded “No, my family doesn’t really get me.” I was sick to my stomach when this story broke and the truth came out. She came across as the furthest thing from a monster. I liked her. To know what was actually happening . . . smh. Heartbreaking beyond my comprehension. I still can’t wrap my head around it.
If they were obviously messed up they couldn't get away with it
I can't wrap my head around it either! She definitely has some severe psychological problems.
Shes a woke weirdo democrat
Fascinating.
Did she have a white lab coat on? Did she say trust the science?
lets just put the profound disabilities aside, even as a clinician if she had feelings for a patient she's actively assisting she should have stopped being his clinician. She's broke major boundaries. Adding in the disability she rightfully needed to be charged.
that's probably the most sensible differentiated comment compared to all the witch hunters in this comment section.
@@maxmeier532whats up??
@maxmeier532 the most sensible? Give me a break. The commenter is treating his intellectual limitations as if they are an afterthought to the clinician/patient boundary being crossed. One does not even come close to the egregious nature of the other.
Exactly and when I was watching the documentary, this is exactly what I thought when she was those breaking professional boundaries.
@@lazydaisy2292 no I’m not. She obviously needed to be charged because the man was incapable of consenting due to disabilities.
However, I put them aside in my comment to point out that even though she believed him to be understanding and communicating consent, even putting that aside as a clinician she broke a boundary so she was already guilty for that alone.
She feels unfairly prosecuted as she believed him consenting and communicating. So my comment points out that she already broke boundaries long before she even considered his disabilities.
Adding in the fact the man clearly couldn’t consent is the worst part
“She loosened his diaper . . . .” Say no more, Dr. Grande. Seriously, say no more!
That made my mouth drop. SMH
lmao
I’m stuck there too…. The sentence just keeps repeating.
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That sentence and the next one that follows absolutely should never have to be said together
As a mother of a daughter with similar profound disabilities, I was furious, disheartened and utterly disgusted. I could barely listen to her nonsense. She received a slap on the wrist.
What would happen if somehow, a disabled girl/woman and a disabled man, who were together on maybe group therapy, or on some facility, who would they charge if they caught them in the act of sex?
@@hardver8855 Read the room.
May I ask, how common do folks with CP have it this difficult/severely? I know that it can impact all motor functioning, but usually people are okay cognitively? That was always my assumption, but I suppose I shouldn't make assumptions.
Perhaps I need to do some buffing up on this particular topic 😬
@@hardver8855 The facility could possibly be cited, fined, or shut down for neglect
@@hardver8855, something of a sexual nature did happen between a disabled female and a disabled male on my daughter’s special needs school bus. Both were teenagers under the age of 18. CPS became involved. Not sure of the outcome due to privacy laws. My daughter just recently turned 18 but will continue to go to school until she’s 22. She has a one to one Aid/Assistant at school. My husband and I have guardianship over here since she is by law an adult but unable to mentally make decisions for herself.
"I attended a three day workshop." The final words of every great Dr.
Trading gurus attend one day seminars. You're telling me they too are not legit?
For real. I have a whole masters degree in communication science and disorders, which is how I know FC is embarrassing snake oil. This is exactly why you’re supposed to have a professional license to provide clinical services.
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She really expected people to believe he typed out "I feel alive for the first time" by himself?
So much projection going on Freud is spinning in his grave at light speed.
@@babblingalong7689yes, w the prokection. Dunno why that would upset a pseudonscientist like freud tho
@@johnanon658lol true
That was the demon she summoned with the ouiji board speaking
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Absolutely disgusting. Taking advantage of a disabled person this way.
karen stop
😂
@@Jeff.55649Seek help
@@Jeff.55649that's so not a Karen dude get a clue 😅
@@Jeff.55649👈PDFile
I work with a vulnerable population and I CAN’T believe she’s not locked up for life. This is one of the most horrifying stories I’ve heard!!!
No sex offender registration? Such BS!!
Meanwhile a high school kid streaking gets on the sex offender list.
In terms of fairness, it absolutely is. In terms of evidence based lawmaking, offender registration is nonsense that, according to research, doesn't produce any meaningful result.
Good thing this documentary exists. Her true story is a bad look and the more people see it, the more the community can be vigilant about her. She can't be trusted to work with disabled individuals. Especially those who are nonverbal and can't express if she is raping them. It's a sad state of affairs that she was able to appeal even with all that evidence from legit doctors stating her victim in no way could have consented.
she belongs on the registry what the heck
@@KinslayerOfDoom Uh let me tell you, if somebody I meet is on the register, it would matter a great deal.
The fact that she can't even recognize how inappropriate the power imbalance was, regardless of his intellectual capacity, is a huge red flag that she is not committed to the truth. And to be willing to throw her marriage away to make such a foolish choice really is unbelievable.
I wonder if she is still married. A lot of these beta males would just accept this and stay married.
@@snu3877he left her
@@snu3877I doubt she still married. There is actually a documentary called Tell Them That You Love Me, the husband wrote a letter to the court and called her a narcissist and a liar.
she is a blaq lover, not surprising
It's not regardless of his intellectual capacity. It's BECAUSE of his intellectual capacity. You think those with disabilities can't have sexual relationships of they're intellectually competent? Of course they can. It's his intellectual limitations that make it wrong. What you said doesn't even make sense.
I think one the most disturbing elements of this case is that Anna was willing to double down and actually be interviewed by Netflix. She was essentially role playing with herself. I was speechless.
She clearly is an actual narcissist
It was her only chance to gaslight
And the wicked sick woman was working overtime to isolate him from his family members (i.e., mother and brother).
@Melissam..
What she did has nothing to do with narcissism you clearly are not a psychiatrist.
@@gazelledonald714People have turned it into the latest buzzword and it's lost most of its meaning.
This is professional sexual abuse. He can’t be fully consenting due to his vulnerable status. Even if he possessed intelligence and learned to communicate, he was vulnerable to her. In teaching him to communicate she was grooming him.
i am disabled in multiple ways. i find it extremely odd how anna thinks about the disabled people she sees. that they are basically "normal" people which is trapped by their physical limitations. its okay for people to not have a normal intelligence and its so weird how she cant seem to accept that. i think it is a way that she tried to legitimize their relationship and ignore their disability
Her way to legitimize herself.
Bingo 🎯
Very insightful
So can people with disabilities have romantic relationships with “Normal people”?
I think she liked that she could fully & completely control him. Make him hers, make him whoever she wants him to be.
This is actually one of the creepiest cases Dr Grande has covered, and that's saying a lot.
Wow what a sick person. Taking advantage of someone so vulnerable
Definetly has TDS this is a symptom of it
No different than a chomo, in my book
Creepy that she doesn't think she did anything wrong. She's still delusional which makes her dangerous.
The cognitive dissonance is strong. She would be high risk of reoffending if she was still working as a therapist .
In addition to this egregious crime, not once did Anna ever think about how her children and her husband would feel. She was so preoccupied with herself and her grandiosity, that these precious parts of her life were not even considered.
I honestly feel for the father and her children. Could you imagine how hard it would be to have to protect your children from her insanity?
Grandiosity is an apt word
She was married with kids when she committed those unspeakable acts? Wow, you're right, she either didn't think about how it would effect them, or she resents (hates) them.
@@johnanon658 I thought that too. She was so enamoured with herself and how she was helping this man the love she felt was all created by her. Look what she was able to do.
I've used this type of communication with my two cats! I frequently guide their paws along the keyboard of my computer. According to them I'm an awesome human!
..... are your cats safe??? 😂
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@@jamesogden7756 😉
She’s a predator in every sense of the word. In fact, she might be the MOST predator.
lol
Did you see the film? His mom said she said “he’s a man in every sense of the word” 🤢 like WAT the film truly made me completely disgusted how does a woman even get there
Grammatically this dsnt make sense. You mean the WORST predator?
Even IF he would consent, it was a VERY unethical act!
You are one million percent correct!
Idk what this statement implies lol, legal consent extends far beyond willingness
@@NealBurkard-ut1oo The statement implies doctors can't bang their patients because it's unethical.
In that hypothetical, why? No, there wouldn't be a single problem if that was the case as a given hypothetical. It does not seem to be the case here at all, but if it was, what would be the issue
@@NealBurkard-ut1ooI’m guessing it implies that even if he was a typical adult it would still be wrong because therapist having relationships with a client like that (even a fully functioning adult) is unethical. It’s still predatory and honestly just gross.
So Facilitated Communication is basically a Ouija Board.
My thought, too!
My thoughts exactly.
Woah! I totally saw the similarities as well
Nice
Look up "sex surrogate therapy."
She seemed to have little regard to how this will affect her husband and children but as soon as the police came and arrested her she mentions her daughter.
Right??? Like maybe you should have thought of that before 🤷🏼♀️
Her husband wrote a letter condemning her actions, in support of her conviction. That says a lot. He didn't defend her so she must've been very selfish in general, no regard for her family.
@@brianal7143 that absolutely says a lot. Pathological altruism, you have to be careful with those type of folks
This is like a real life horror movie. This lady is deeply, deeply disturbed and its freakin me out 😖
Truly
The woke Left needs to be shut down.
She's just your typical liberal.
I know exactly what you mean
Dr G couldn't have put it better when he referred to her as "extremely creepy" ..... What's worse is that I watched this just after dinner 🤢
I watched this documentary a few days ago, and watching Anna was very disturbing. She has such high levels of education, but it's clear there's something deeply mentally wrong with her. The part that struck me the most was how overjoyed she was to describe in great detail how and where she was intimate with the victim to his mother. She genuinely enjoys talking about what she did to him. She smiles the entire time. Even during her trail and during sentencing she smiled, disturbing. I'm glad that she views people with disabilities as no different than anyone else, but what she did was predatory. Had nothing to do about caring for him. She saw the opportunity and took full advantage of it. And for that she should have never been released from prison.
She is delusional imo plain and simply. She genuinely believes he is a black Stephen hawking and they had a whirlwind forbidden romance, it's a lot of liberal ideology they teach in school, probably midlife crisis and issues in her marriage, but I understand she is simply delusional
Her odd constant smiling was unsettling
I agree with you. She projected her own attributes onto him & was in love with herself.
Her SELF-PERCEIVED attributes.
Yup. Projection is contagious these days
This is it in a nutshell. It was determined that perfectly well-intentioned facilitators were producing the information, much like an Ouija Board. One person was purported to have said, through facilitation, "They ARE your words, but I am choosing them." This kind of magical thinking served only to move us backward in our goals of providing compassionate and competent care for adults living with disabilities.
I just watched "tell them that you love me" last night. I was enraged! I work with adults who have special needs. I can't imagine working with someone to teach and encourage autonomy, to sexually assaulting them and believing that you are in love!!!
There just isn't a bottom for some people
I definitely think she was a bit nuts.
Definitely has a much more insidious evil to it when you love or work with special needs. I have family. I can't say what I'd do to someone who did this because my comment would be banned.
Watched the documentary on Netflix last night. She's a monster. As her husband wrote to the court, she's a narcissistic sociopath. Her smugness is infuriating.
This is a common belief amongst sex offenders.
They believe that they "can just tell".
They believe that what they're doing is consensual and beautiful romance.
We, as a species, typically want to believe we can just tell what's going on around us and that we can read other people. It makes life seem predictable.
This story is disturbing and I have no idea why she isn’t behind bars. It’s sick
I think it was punishment enough being pro black
I was struck by her father facilitating her role playing as a physically handicapped person. I remain deeply disturbed by this woman. She is clearly unwell.
What? That's so weird
I agree. What child plays like they have different disabilities? This was a red flag
Unfortunately there are people who are attracted to people with different types of disabilities. They like the disability-not the person
yes I was too as a person with a disability this disturbed me greatly she fed her own ego and need to for attention with Derek I believe Derek does, in fact, have greater cognition than his family understands HOWEVER that does not give this woman in a position of power to lose her damn mind and take advantage the ethical thing to do would have been to refer him to another facilitator.....unfortunately faking disability or role-playing disability has become popular and there is even a term for it called trans abled and just like her many of these people do not understand just how ableist and how much this abhorrent behavior hurts the disabled community and unfortunately any strides that people have made with the technology as i have seen in my own lived experience will be doubts and not believe but don't even get me started on Derek's mother and brother I have so much to say about this and the intersectionality of race class and the harmful ableism of faith healing pentecostal doctrines ANOTHER discussion entirely
Both her and her parents are walking red flags.
@@MoonWomanStudiosin the documentary tell them you love me, she says she used to try to pretend that she had cerebral palsy, which the victim has. She also liked to pretend that she was blind. Now a lot of kids have played that game, blindfold themselves and pretend that you're blind for a few minutes. But she did it for an entire day!
I’m the caregiver for my Aunt , she’s mentally disabled. This case is both horrifying and infuriating. I’m thankful Anna was so ignorant that she told Derrick’s mother what she had done. Im also thankful they went to law enforcement and Anna was convicted.
yes! the only reason she was found out was bc she told on herself.
😂 ikr. She thought mama bear was going to be okay with that 😢😂😂. I love the way they caught her.
Mama play along 😅 with the detective
How dumb did she have to be? Lol I think she's such a narcissist it didn't phase her. Crazy @@eveheart2876
If you have to remove someone’s diapers to have sex with them, you’re a rapist. I felt sick listening to what this woman did to that poor helpless man. And she claimed to be an advocate. 🙄
The diaper isn't the issue, it's his lack of mental capacity to consent. A mentally normal quadriplegic could absolutely have consensual sex with someone who took off his/her diaper first.
Eh no that doesnt make you a rapist. Without consent makes you a rapist..plenty of disabled people who need diapers and can't remove them themselves can have consensual sex.
The fact that his mother says he masturbates now is so fucking sad. I don’t think it’s sinful the way I suspect the mom does. But like she said, this woman triggered a physiological response that Derrick just has to now add on to his list of bodily challenges. She is a terrible person.
That is not true in all cases. If someone is e.g. paraplegic and they want to have sex with their partner(s) without their diapers on, it is indeed necessary to have their diapers removed by either their caregivers or their partner(s). Since most people like to be alone with their partner(s) when they are intimate, the partner(s) need to do it then.
So my grandfather had numerous strokes leaving him to need diapers. So he doesn't deserve to be with his wife anymore?
Having an attractive non verbal son this shit scares the life out of me. Once they showed the students face, a scared feeling ran through me from head to toe. She knew he couldn't consent she just saw what she saw and projected onto him, she didnt care about reality.
Every mother thinks their son is attractive
@@andyisdead no, my son has no visual symptoms of his mental disability, he is completely neurotypical passing visually, all his teachers love how affectionate and cute he is i hear how cute he is from basically every woman... I know when he's older he'll look like my dad and I, a very handsome look (yes I'm a handsome lady) and seeing the boy who was victimized in this video looking visibly delayed and not as handsome as my own son but still pretty good it scared me extra
@@andyisdead like my son is ONLY mentally handicapped, physically he passes for anyone else... He is strong fit and cute, and his school takes lots of pictures of him for newsletters because of this... You just don't understand where I'm coming from when this nasty POS woman can lie about this young man's abilities to SA him when my son is 5x more neurotypical passing and handsome, I also keep him immaculately clean and good dental. The fact a caretaker could cross that line when they know they can't mentally consent is disgusting
Put cameras in his room.
@@simply_nebulous for who ? No one goes in my house! None of that. It's really schools you need to be careful for! With all students not only non verbal!!
She should be in prison for life. She preyed on him and he was obviously mentally challenged beyond the capability of consent. She is a predator. Plain and simple.
It’s wild that she to this day doesn’t think she commited a crime
She’s insane!
Because she thinks she got consent from facilitated communication
@@lorigbasmajian3843 yes I understand that part, but even if she did (which we all know she didn’t) he was still a student and her a teacher!! Total abuse of power
only narcissists agree to be in a documentary about their own crime lmao
@@alexa3585 Absolutely. The fact she considered this a possible, ethical or viable relationship after working in this capacity with him is unreal. This is never ok, even if he DID consent, which he didn't.
Two painful facts are (1) that woman probably will never understand and therefore admit she's absolutely wrong, and (2) there are people who think she's right.
#2 is scarier
Netflix edited that thing so people would think her story is credible.
Ppl are taking her side because cerebral palsy doesn’t impact your intelligence. Only motor skills. It causes mild to severe muscle weakness and spasm and it can impact most muscles in the body. His is severe hence why he can’t walk or speak. However, almost half of ppl with cerebral palsy have some kind of mental impairment as well due to having other conditions. The chances of him being as intelligent as she claims is slim. It’s about 50/50.
@@Sjejejjsbensj if cerebral palsy is severe enough it absolutely affects your intelligence. The likelihood is 30-50% for the general CP population but for those who actually do have mental impairment like this brother right here, it is not 50/50. It is much higher. There was nothing up until meeting that lady in terms of tests and functionality that indicated that this guy had the intelligence she was attributing to him. She took advantage of that man plain and simple
@@Sjejejjsbensj but the documentary did include a third-party assessment that his brain was at like a 6 month or 6 age level (big jump but i forget which is was, regardless it is r4pe).
Absolutely disgusting. She should be in prison for a very long time and a registered offender.
As soon as i heard, both of her parents were PhD psychologists my brain went, "this isn't ending well."
Edit: the people who cannot process this comment are cracking me up.
Yea that's like a child being taught to grow up inside a world inside another world inside their mind. Children generally are a blank slate so you don't have to analyze their behavior like you would and adult nation but if I were to guess it's hard for two PhD phycologist to resist the temptation to experiment with and analyze rather than raise their kid.
Great comment 👍
Really? I would immediately assume that they would be very fit and highly aware, as well as educated. Social class differences here.
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@@MrSynhairyeah you sound like the type
We have adult children with special needs. This makes me so sick. She should go to prison for life.
The part that got to be was when his brother described finding wounds on Derek's back from Anna dragging him across the floor. That man's emotions said everything. He loves Derek so deeply.
The fact that you’re removing a diaper tells this woman everything she needs to know. That fact that some debate it is insane
Exactly...
I think the president of the USA currently wears diapers. Not sure if he gets lucky, but i do think he had “the button.” 😳
Facilitated communication: look, with my help he just typed “remove this diaper and show me what dat throat do Dr!”
@@Krmyas😂😂😂
@@Krmyas His opponent needs diapers too. Just went on a long rant recently at a rally about everything "Obama" is doing, none of which was Obama. He just can't remember what decade things are. Having straight up hallucinations means you might also hallucinate the living room as being the bathroom, better stay safe with diapers.
The paradox is that no one will ever likely know with any certainty how Derek feels about this whole situation.
That’s because Derek doesn’t even know how he feels about this situation!
@@supernova11711 no he certainly feels some way about it, he just cannot articulate how he feels for others to understand
@@acmhfmggru your mama feels potato when your dad lays on top of her
@@acmhfmggru What a profoundly cruel comment.
@@greenjtI doubt he's even aware of the situation
shit like this is way too common. disabled people are often abused by the very people supposed to care for them, including family
Right, they are a vulnerable group and predators know that. It happens every day, it’s very sad.
Please don’t say attempted to have sex w him. There’s no attempt to consensually have sex with him. It’s assault on every level.
What's so horrible about her no limits narcissism is both her crime of rape and also how she dehumanized him by making him an object a slate she projected herself onto. She was willing to erase him completely for her narcissism. Scary
Absolutely disgusting.
I agree. Her behavior was godawful too.
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I love it when doc whips out the "EXCEEDINGLY creepy" judgement.
Wow, I was going to say the same thing!! It's underused. 😂
Me too!!
I CANNOT BELEIVE SHE ONLY GOT 22 MONTHS!!!!!
This is totally gross to me
Because it literally is. It’s absolutely disgusting.
Race mixers are vile
@@neurosentience5150Yup, makes my stomach churn.
Thank you Captain Obvious.
Just you 😂
In my professional opinion, Anna is a nutcase with no core values.
I second this excellent diagnosis
I worked at a school for kids with autism back in the late 90s, and saw 1st hand that facilitated communication with non-verbal kids seemed about as reliable as a ouiji board. Over eager facilitators were clearly doing the communicating.
Even VERBAL communication with my autistic niece is about as reliable as a ouiji board. She says whatever she thinks we want her to. But she's very young still and that will change. Really interesting learning about this facilitated communication era I missed. I've been in the specials needs world as a nurse for several years and the communication boards and switches are extremely valuable but the user has full autonomy. No one does it for them.
@@laceyl5682 We had 2 therapists in particular who kind of thought they were AMAZING at FC, but the kids only seemed more likely to get agitated with being misunderstood with them.
@laceyl5682 yes, there are people with cerebral palsy that use the boards how people without a disability use speech to text. It's just to speed up the process for them, but they know what they're saying. Not all obviously.
"In a sense Ana was in love, but not with Derrick, she was in love with herself and her own vision of a just society." This is such a well-articulated and, in my opinion, accurate description.
Reminds me of "The Quest for Cosmic Justice" by Thomas Sowell.
In history, so much evil is committed by those who claim to 'care'.
When she said intelligence is a social construct I would guess that she also assumes that so is consent.
Informed consent on a Ouija board you mean, I guess. Did her university IRB approve that in lieu of an oral, written, signed, and dated consent form by the patient and his guardians?
intelligence is by definition a social construct, as dependent on the common ideology in a society of what intelligence is, tests are constructed to measure it. She might be all the proof you need, do you think she's highly intelligent? She might have an IQ that was a lot higher than yours, chances are. What is the consequence regarding the value of IQ tests then.
@@maxmeier532 Intelligence is a social construct that is an idea that has been created, operationalized, and accepted by people in a society as a representation of reality. Because it is a construct, it can be measured and ordinally ranked on the IQ scale.
You gotta love these people who think they are so smart and special and they are here to educate the rest of us ,the plebs 😅.
And these types usually hurt people along the way. Like this woman here.
I was a young PhD student when this situation broke. It was viscerally horrifying to watch academics in email listservs defend this woman. I'm glad that there were those individuals who had a strong sense of morality, and individuals who personally knew this woman, to know that she abused DJ.
There’s a culture of sexualizing black men which I feel played a part in this. Young black men, even minors, are often not seen as young and in need of protection. There is a history of black men being fetishized and sexualized. I’m convinced that both the race and gender of the victim influenced the sentencing. This is horrendous
Play the race card much?
@@tpcreeper2185 Some things never change. The bots will always be trolling
Evil has no skin color. Equally, evil has no gender. Stop playing the Victim Card! People like you are part of "the problem". Yet, there is a grain of truth in what you say. As Old Adams and Old Eves, all of us are inclined to be tribal and, in that state of mind, tend to become hostile, disdainful, or indifferent toward the "other tribes.". The Black Tribe is just as capable of being "evil" as the White Tribe.
As for Anna, she's a Godless (morally self-directed) Atheist. Her Godless (morally self-directed) thoughts turned into Godless (self serving, self indulgent) feelings, which turned into Godless (moralless and self-serving) actions. The trajectory is predictable. Individually and collectively. Collective Godlessness leads to inhumane Marxism. This ideology might first go through "gentle" Socialism, but, trust this truth, it eventually leads to Marxist dominated Communism.
As for the individual Atheists who resist evil, when enough of them gather into Marxism, the good and decent Atheists, who did not indulge thoughts and feelings that misuse and abuse others, who tesist evil, they too shall be hunted down and canceled, silenced, fined, imprisoned, or executed. By Godless inhumane Marxism.
We must never forget the abuses of Religionists, but, let's also remember that inhumane Marxists murders more of their own than even their enemies. Mao and Stalin, both Godless Atheists, killed between them over 100 million of their own citizens! THEIR. OWN. CITIZENS.
Our Creator has a plan for humankind, and He have us, each, aprox 100 years and, collectively, 6000 years to figure things out. Our time is actually up. 2029 - 2033, God returns, to restore law and order, justice and mercy, and prosperity of body, soul and spirit.
While I appreciate the work of good and decent psychology professionals who examine the human soul (psyche means soul) and can be quote helpful to others, still, I think if I'm going to place my soul in someone's care, I'd make it, first, my Creator Savior and, second, flawed fallible and naturally self-serving mortal humans. The second has some merit, yes, but, ultimately, permanent lasting healing (not just behavior modification) comes from the Bible God, Jesus Christ.
May you all be blessed with prosperity... Body, Soul and Spirit. May you all meet Jesus and be completely healed from self interest and the fear and pain that so often assaults us as we try to make sense of the world around us. I once knew nothing but tyranny and bullying from childhood onward. Learning about the man Jesus led me to wonder why He was called God. In time, as I searched for truth (in many wrong places, not unlike how I also looked for love in all the wrong places), Jesus introduced Himself to me. Imagine my astonishment. Today, Jesus commands me... with my permission. And, truthfully, He'd not have it any other way ❤
Many thanks to Todd Grande for tremendous insight into this horrible "hellish" situation. May all involved meet Jesus Christ and be comforted to know that, in spite of "Hell on Earth" increasing, Jesus returns soon. He will, ultimately, settle judgment upon those who went Godlessly their own way.
I mean, it happens but i don't think that was the driving factor here as much as the fetishism of a disabled person or even their disability itself.
@@kristinaishimwe9422 I kind of disagree with you. Intersectionality exists. Yes, obviously him being disable was a factor but I’m saying I also think him being black was a factor. It doesn’t have to be one or the other. I think it was combination of both
The fact that not a single other person could replicate their 'conversations' tells me all I need to know.
I watched this documentary on Netflix last night. To think that she feels she is a victim in all of this and was “in love” is truly disturbing. I felt profoundly sad for Derrick and others like him that don’t get the chance to live out their lives like everyone else. So glad he has a wonderful brother and mother that truly love him. That is the plus in all of this.
It’s safe to say that if the races and genders were reversed, the professor wouldn’t have gotten such a light sentence or a Netflix special.
I had the same exact thought. A man of color doing this to a non-verbal white woman... the level of media coverage and the sentencing would be night and day.
Not true. Nice attempt to stereotype and advance your SJW agenda, but no one is buying it.
My friend has a severely disabled daughter who was molested by a female best friend. She really was her only friend ( but she was a predator) . It was very traumatic for her and the entire family felt so betrayed. Another friend , years later , who also had a disabled daughter ( living in a college dorm) , that was groomed by a female online that convinced her she was a lesbian and the control got so bad that she cut her off from her family. It was horrible for this family. Their hands were tied because of her civil rights and age
Female sexual predators are the worse imo because they get too many passes because no one believes they are predators.
Did i understand correctly that the disabled daughter visited college? In that case, her situation is hardly comparable with that of the man in the video. I have no idea what actually happened. But disabled people can of course explore their sexuality just like others (and are even more likely to care less about negative reactions), and "convinced her she's gay" is such a weird statement. Like how would they know what her actual sexuality is? Might as well be butthurt conservatives. Again, how would we know.
OMG
Exactly how female teachers are trying to turn children into the lgbt community members by brainwashing them, society fails to recognize how predatory women can be
IF SHE WAS IN COLLEGE SHE HAD THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE. ARE YOU SAYING DISABLED PEOPLE CAN NOT HAVE SEX OR CHOOSE TO BE A LESBIAN???
Where the heck did she get her PhD? Wherever, it's time for a recall. How absurd. This woman is truly sick.
WHY are so many college graduates useless and unemployable? Look the subjects they study. .
There's a bunch like that. They are running our country right now.
Let's not forget the one that had sex with dolphin for science.
The field of social work - where most therapists get their start otw to getting their LCSW (licensed clinical social worker) is super easy, they practically give degrees away. I was a SW major years ago, coasted with straight As, all female professors, I was one of 2 male students. An LCSW enables them to sell themselves as "therapist" I call it "the rapist"
And yea, the PhD programs are ridiculously easy. I know some really dumb PhDs in this field. Most have that Dunning Krueger Effect going on. All female. My last therapist tried to sleep with me. She would send me money when I was homeless. March 2020. She was fired. I didn't sleep with her, but she was pretty.
I realized how ridiculous PhD's are, about 5yrs ago went home to OZ to visit fam and at a party met someone doing their PhD and when I asked what is the thesis, her answer was "hip hop influence in Australian youth/society",,,,,
I think the brother said at her sentencing was perfect. Anna was trying to be the "shero", white savior. It was evident watching the whole thing that she was full of herself and she took advantage of the entire family. The whole thing reminded me of the apologist way they did Casey Anthony. Pretending these people are the real victims instead of the monsters they really are.
So many of Anna's exist in disability care
In lieu of payment in a civil suit, they should be allowed to exchange it for jail time. Don't have 4 million dollars? How about $100,000 for one year of your life? 40 years sounds good to me.
An introduction he made and was fine with while his brother was writing papers. If that's the case you to negate it all.
I am familiar with one of these cases from study during my year of Biomedical Ethics in Uni. Abhorrent. An adult woman with severe cognitive and physical disability from birth was forced without her consent nor understanding by her biological parents to undergo surgical modification that invoulved a double-mastectomy, mutilation and remouval of her genitals, and even partial amputative dismemberment. The parents' "reasoning" was to prevent any possibility of sexual abuse and assault by any of her caretakers. My group team and I argued that such an act is a vile and inhumane attempt that disregards the legal, ethical, and moral rights of a human being. It made me sick.
The Ashley treatment or another case? If another, I would like to read it if you reference the name. (One professional to another. Thank you!)
That’s absolutely abhorrent!
Jesus! It's like what the Kennedy's did to Rose 100x
What they did to their own daughter feels like the sexual torture that were afraid of. What awful people!
What doctors agreed to do that? They should be in prison
Just finished the documentary on netflix . i am a special needs mother. my son is severely cognitively impaired. he is 11 and wears diapers. this story hits too close to home 😢 i can’t not comprehend how anyone could do this. i try so hard to protect all my kids and my disabled son. anna and ppl like her need to be under the jail!
She used her power to rape this man. What a sick individual. She is a convicted rapist.
Disabled kids desire to have sex to you know. Not being able to can become a source of depression for many.
Thank you so much for speaking out against FC. I'm on the spectrum and am consistently told that I am a "traitor" to the community because ABA helped me a lot, and I don't believe that it is abusive (even though there can be abusive ABA therapists, just like there can be abusive doctors or abusive teachers).
Many of these people who have bullied me support facilitated communication, which I find to be incredibly ironic. ABA gave me the ability to communicate and advocate for myself and has scientific backing. The "evidence" against the therapy is often incredibly biased (e.g., sampling a bunch of people from a facebook group who hate ABA without even knowing what it is, and then claiming that 80% of people who go through ABA get PTSD from it).
I'm genuinely tired of me and my family being accused of supporting child abuse, when FC has so many cases of abuse that no one wants to talk about. Recently, a family member of mine worked to overturn a bill that would allow FC in elementary schools. The FC "advocates" spun it to claim that the opposing side was "silencing" autistic children and denying them communication.
Whether it's ABA, speech therapy, occupational therapy, etc...there are so many better ways to teach an autistic person how to communicate. And for what it's worth, one of the main proponents of FC (Dr. Bernard Rimland) became a vehement opponent of the practice when he realized there was no evidence behind it. That should tell you a lot about the validity of FC.
Wow you are a great writer! I hope you are in a position to advocate for your community you are very articulate!
What does ABA mean? Thanks.
@@NichelleSullivan Applied Behavior Analysis some people think it's abuse
@@NichelleSullivan Applied behavior analysis. It’s one of the scientifically backed treatments for autism, often combined with speech & occupational therapy. Some opponents believe it is akin to “conversion therapy”, which I find to be an incredibly homophobic comparison. ABA focuses on reducing harmful behaviors (e.g., hitting, self injurious behavior, eloping, etc.) and uses positive reinforcement. ABA didn’t change who I was (which is a common misconception); it simply helped me to navigate the world. Before ABA, I bit my parents and was told I would never talk or live independently. Now I’m a graduate student with my own apartment ☺
@@Poochiepoochie54321 Thank you so much! You have no idea what this means to me. I am more of a “quiet advocate” since I cannot handle the amount of bullying that other advocates receive. I would highly suggest looking into Kaelynn Partlow; she is an AMAZING autistic advocate who also fights for the same causes I do. Eileen Lamb is also a good advocate; she writes a blog about her life as an autistic mom with 2 autistic kids and also hosts a podcast called “Adulting on the Spectrum”
Oh my goodness. I know John Johnson. I went to Rutgers with him as an under graduate. I'VE never heard about this.I have lived in NC for over 20 years. I'm so sorry to hear this happened to his brother. What a sick woman.
So, Anna used Ouija board logic to communicate w/him. That sure is FC (Flippin Crazy)!
Love the pun
exactly ! as for people who doubt the whole FC debate: if you do the research you'll see it has been debunked many times over: it is the facilitator typing, every, single, time. why its still promoted i have no idea, especially when things like teaching people how to use AAC devices , sometimes with adaptive buttons and switch access, , eye gaze, large track ball mouse ; also ASL, makaton signing, along with basic and modified sign language etc. to enable people to communicate spontaneous and autonomously. FC does not work, sorry, but i have seen it in my 21 years working in the adult disability services field and advocacy, it is the facilitator typing; and, you'll notice, with each so called ''facilitator'', the clients ''speech'' or typing patterns and styles fluctuates , the literacy levels vary, and personality is different with each facilitator.
Whacked woman.
Hasn’t gotten whacked woman
Yep. She’s a freak.
Hes in a diaper ffs! Lady, get a grip
The scary thing is there are a lot of people just like her and they all have some kind of professional title
could spell a few words ..like H E L P ....
😅😭💀 no you didn’t 😂
OMG 😂
Or *Stop undoing my diaper during my sessions you nutty professor*
When I was 20, I was introduced to bath salts. After nearly a year of addiction, (the product I was buying changed over time; the last batch I used was much more destructive than anything I had tried before), I lost the ability to communicate. I could barely talk or write. My hands and neck moved uncontrollably like you see in people with severe autism. I couldn't eat or sleep for over a week. I feared I was going to be stuck inside myself for the rest of my life.
People were treating me like a child because I couldn't communicate. I wondered very much if this was what people with autism/cerebral palsy/etc. experience--where full cognition is trapped inside a body that can't express itself. If that's the case, I fully understand why people with those diagnoses often scream for seemingly no reason. It's absolutely infuriating to be trapped like that and to have everyone assume you're not really there when you ARE.
I still wonder to this day if people with severe mental disabilities are stuck inside themselves like I was for, as I call it, my Week of Terror. It was the most horrible experience I've ever lived through, and I am so, so sad for people who have to live like that forever, if that's indeed what's going on.
From that perspective, I want to cry thinking that maybe, just maybe, these two people did form a sort of relationship that he cared about and got fulfillment from. Obviously you can't do what she did, but it's so depressing to think that this person can never have a real life of his own.
All I can do is try to treat disabled people with the utmost respect.
Im glad you survived, friend, and with more empathy too!
@@alexiswsmbuermann1782 Thank you.
What a story. 😢
I was thinking g the same too......
I had a great friend of mine who at 21 fell like 2 feet and broke his neck....He's now a quadriplegic. ..well he fell in love with his nurse ...theyre now married....
I know it's not the same but what if ??????
That's called "locked in" syndrome.
I think she was also interested in him because of his race. She felt superior not only in intellect but in race.
Yeah, she had a race fetish.
White liberal women for you.
Liberals do have a superiority complex - that's why they believe in reparations - they believe that why tes should've know better.
She was literally a pro blm liberal
Which is why you shouldn't listen to people with white guilt
0:46 “She married a black tuba player.” Odd specification.
It's terrifying this person had a position where she was most likely payed a very nice salary despite her absolutely crazy ideas.
Screw the money, it’s terrifying because she likely had many people’s trust and was around *alot* of vulnerable people. Was Derek really the only one? Makes me scared to wonder.
@@desireesmith862 of course. But that was literally addressed in the video itself.
@@desireesmith862That was the commenter's point
That... is a crazy lady.
Evil lady.
Lool!
shouldn't this have been legally classified as rape and be charged as such?
Yes!!!
Consent cannot be established? Guilty as charged.
Batshit crazy does not even begin to explain this lady. Holy COW!!!!!!
Took the words right out of my mouth. I'm trying to figure out the beginning of her pathology. Her mothers profession had significant influence in forming her psyche. She's also quite liberal.
People who are getting fixated on the "diaper" element are missing the point, and showing their ableism. Not everybody who struggles with incontinence is incapable of consenting to intimate relationships. It is possible to be incontinent and still have full cognitive capacity... It's the lack of independent communication (and demonstrated capacity) that makes this so wrong.
Huh, nobody is focused on that, that I've seen, vis-a-vis consent. The man can't substantially communicate with any specificity, the end.
@danielle9074
Um no. The words "removed his diaper" is going to skeez tf out of anyone in this situation. Its not ableist.
You have to understand - the picture was painted of an adult man with the cognitive ability of an infant. So everyone has that mental image. Then followed by "removed his diaper". People are grossed out by the mental image.
Just when you think you have heard it all. How gross and disgusting of this woman.
Do chastity belts need to be passed out at schools now? Are students safe anywhere these days? This case is absolutely sick.
Yes for chastity belts..
…no! Children are not safe in any school these days. Especially public!
Female teacher assaulted a 10 year old boy recently. There’s something very rotten in our society.
At least Derrick's afternoon day care protected him, not letting Anna visit to see him.
youd think a damn diaper would basically act as a modern day chastity belt, i mean, since thats probably the biggest turn off alone for most people, you think it would be at any rate .
@user-bg7km4ij7f
Paranoia isnt going to solve anything.
You do know being afraid makes you easy to control, right?
Her mind was also warped, and she got away with too much. She should still be in prison.
Anna's actions were deplorable & she deserves to be punished more than she was. It's a terrible situation.
Honestly though even if there was reason to believe it was helping him (which I'm not convinced) Anna was commiting such a gross violation of trust and violation of her job...but yeah as somebody who works with people like this, it makes my skin crawl how she doesn't even see problems with what she did
I didn't even get all the way through your video before making this comment, but when you got to the part about her views on race I just started feeling even more sick.
Mommy and Daddy were to busy educating themselves, they overlooked educatng Anna with common sense and critical thinking skills.
This is yet another reason I do not have a lot of respect for the "educated".
Same as thinking you are in love with a child. She needs to get mandatory care and continue to be monitored, for the safety of us all !
I saw the documentary. This poor man's family so deeply loves him. How terribly Anna betrayed all of them! She's delusional and a predator. I pray Derek heals in the love of his family.🙏
Many years ago I volunteered at an assisted living home for adults with cerebral palsy. There was one resident who used a FC device. She was successfully able to communicate. But I could easily see that she was a rare exception. She was only able to communicate basic wants. I can't imagine anyone with that level of disability doing much more than she could do.
Thanks for sharing your experience. I do think there are some levels of nuance to this story.
This is an example of legitimate use of a letterboard for individuals who cannot communicate otherwise. The guiding of the hand(s) of these individuals, however, is where the technique can become paradoxically harmful to the client and the facilitator alike.
@@JCHaywire I could maybe see guiding the hands in the beginning (like for example, to a picture of a cookie, saying the word "cookie," and giving the person a cookie to help build an association in the person's mind. But continuing to be the person to manipulate the person's hands is all kinds of skeevy.
She was using AAC. Not the same as FC
if you do the research you'll see it has been debunked many times over: it is the facilitator typing, every, single, time. why its still promoted i have no idea, especially when things like teaching people how to use AAC devices , sometimes with adaptive buttons and switch access, , eye gaze, large track ball mouse ; also ASL, makaton signing, along with basic and modified sign language etc. to enable people to communicate spontaneous and autonomously. FC does not work, sorry, but i have seen it in my 21 years working in the adult disability services field and advocacy, it is the facilitator typing; and, you'll notice, with each so called ''facilitator'', the clients ''speech'' or typing patterns and styles fluctuates , the literacy levels vary, and personality is different with each facilitator.
Disability aside, she was in a position of power.
There is something very wrong with that woman…I am genuinely disgusted with this woman’s abhorrent behavior and can’t help but wonder what other disturbing things she has done throughout her life
The documentary was the most disgusting and disturbing I have ever seen. The fact that she could look in the camera and said I did nothing wrong was chilling. The poor family had to endure this is beyond comprehension! This is pure evil and an example of a reprobate mind. Totally devoid of any shame! I pray Derrick’s family and her family can heal from this trauma. Poor Derrick!😢🙏🏽 Romans 1
How are there people defending this woman?! This is the most disgusting story. It feels like child abuse in some way. So disturbing.
Because it is. He has the mental development of a young child.
how are people piling on to virtue signal. When was the last time you did something for a person with a disability (and I dont mean anything sexual). You're just here to partake in a witch hunt. you're not a good person.
As someone from NJ, we don't claim her.
As someone, period, we don’t claim her.
We seem to prey on disabled people a lot here.