"If an INTP becomes too overwhelmed with stress, he may stop making any risks and fail to gain expertise and mastery he *needs*" The struggle is real, man .... Been years since I'm trapped in this endless loop of inadequacy and restlessness.
Same...it's very frustrating when people saw me as incompetent and criticize my tendency to become an expert in something just because I am usually very careful of doing something so I take my time and my approach in completing a new task to become an expert is very unique and most of the time I create a new method to overcome the task. They would think I am some sort of people who againsts the rule and rebellious so they would say harsh things to me and make me lose motivation eventually due to the stress😭
Thoughts of Mediocrity has trapped me too. I keep telling myself You have to improve, but I cant get myself to improve making the feelings of inadequacy blossom. Like you said. a relentless loop. I hate the fact that I cant control myself and give into primal and habitual instincts like an animal that has no consciousness. In those moments after indulgence I feel most disgusted with myself. I know it have to work but I'm too lazy, too much of a piece of shit to get my ass working. Distracting myself with a myriad of other things that are not related to the goal. All it must be is self discipline, but that is something that is not easily tamed
Yeah, I get it. Ive been like this for a couple years. i think its finally starting to end but Im not sure. I get so bogged down by this constant need for perfection in my work. Its so difficult to communicate that to people.
@@darklight898 Fe desire becomes strong, inferior Fe is non-confrontational so it's just a load of strong emotions tearing you apart, especially when you're attempting to tell them. It can last very long, it "might" be short but as long as that Fe desire is there, you will be glued to wanting them when in their presence and not die but rather getting crushed by a boulder and survive while it slowly rolls on and off yoour chest. And for a second it may stop, only for another boulder to drop on top of the boulder on top of you already hammering down at you. The Si will keep you super glued to that Fe desire. The Ne will be repressed. The Ti is just off or used ongoingly negative after the Fe cool-down. While on cool down it simply stays building up untill the explosion again. Si keeps you in the state. Keeps you from doing anything different. Just stuck. Fe keeps you non-confrontational and exploding your bleeding heart while the pieces slither back to collect itself and blow up again Ne is repressed due to restrictive Si
This happens to me. When my sister passed a year ago I didn't want to be bothered at work but my manager kept coming and standing over me asking me what I was working on. I could not think I was quiet and he kept trying to talk even though I told him I couldn't think clearly. Btw I'm a computer programmer so I have to think and I prefer silence when I'm coding. Anyways I finally snapped on him to the point I could see fear in his eyes. He called me in a meeting with another manager telling me I have to learn to deal with my emotions. Also this was after he didn't want to give me the entire week off the day after she died because the department was hurting without me. I'm quiet but when I'm pushed I scare myself.
I know you posted this a year ago...but I feel your pain. So much! I'm not a computer programmer, but I used to have a job building quite a large website from scratch, and I had to do it in a small office with 2-4 other people. I would get interrupted every hour or so by people wanting to use the computer (as there was only two). It drove me absolutely NUTS!
@the tinker. No no no. When I am upset or sad I just want to work. Preferably alone. She said she could not think. That is very clear indication talking wont help. He just denied her a week of and then starys to hassle. Number if hints 1 her sister died. 2 she cant think. That means she cant talk. 3 he denied her time of. 4 Starting to ask stupid questions. 5 Work can be a good distration if you get of an intp s tail. INTPs Ti is strongests if even that function is out Fe is a viscious guard dog because you were stomping into her yard when she was most vulnerable. The manager was an idiot and missied a verbal cue and probaly a lot of non verbal cues to let her be. Manager making things easier. He can by gtfo. The are a lot of managers that lower employee productivity. They should not be paid salery. They should pay a fine and damages to their subbordinates.
i know this is fictional but i can’t be the only one who totally “AWWWW’ed” when he was defending the girl he loved and explaining why he loved her? sooooo sweet T^T
yep - sometimes I have my notebooks spread out so I can refer to each one as I move forward in thought process. each thought is important to the momentum so when I'm suddenly distracted it's like glass shattering. I notice that arguments still brew in our heads after we had them and we have more to say to further our point or add to something they said- so it's funny in the video when Einstein was talking to his dad, he still wanted to say something to his mother from a distance because the argument is still happening in his brain.
That barging in thing is the Se blind spot. Random things happening and loud noises, bright lights, etc. Is an intp's greatest weakness. We do worse in a night club than in a social gathering.
Same...I went to the library to study alone but later one by one of my friends started to barging in my personal space😂 It's really annoying... It got more annoying when they treated me like some sort of counsellor, telling me their problems although I ignored them completely
Tell me about it enlighten me about it~ Right now I'm apparently a lovematcher and a mediator between an intj and xnfx. I wouldn't have to spend so much effort set up time and place while being badgered by intj w questions about the significant other and xnfx rejecting my setup if the intj would shut the fuck up open his eyes and approach her himself. Fuck am I frustrated af I have my own problems to deal with. Anyone would think why the fuck I would do all that shit for this friend, I have been so fucking straightforward but this guy have to choose to be oblivious and love blind.
Sara MBTI I don't mind my friends and family joining me when I cook. It can be quite nice to talk and I can get great ideas to incorporate. But just, let me know they're coming in so I can be more accommodating and feel less frazzled.
David Roberson . Yeah. I have this problem living in a corner house. Whatever happened to neighborhood pedestrians saying "Hey, neighbor. Lovely day!" tip of the hat and move along? I'm fine with that. But what I get is stopped spectators who want who lodge suggestions about what I'm doing after 20 nosy questions and digressing chit chat. I like weeding and edging by hand. It's thinking time. But out of the woodwork come do-gooders offering their power tools, listing days they can come over to help (despite my protests, no thank you). It makes me scatter back inside neglecting the rest of my jobs outside making the problem worse.
I'm an INTP and I've been very stressed out lately for lots of reasons, mostly pertaining to a new job I got. The other night I very uncharacteristically shouted at my brother, scolding him for something I believe he did wrong and slammed doors. I haven't had an outburst like that in a long time and I don't want to again.
Yeah Fe presents itself as a stubborn need for justice. To seek balance between people. It goes against my principled understanding of things if an important ethical concept like justice goes unchecked.
Myztyrio ... Fe? Or Fi... I understood Fe as focusing on group harmony, while Fi is focused on strong internal values, and ensuring the self acts in ways consistant with those internal values, as well as reacting strongly against when the world breaks those values. Re, in contrast, being able to see all sides of an issue, and suppressing conflict in order to achieve harmony in the group. Thoughts?
breakingthemasks I've had a lot of internal debate about whether I lead with Ti, Fi, Ni, Ne. But after all my research I still conclude myself as an INTP even though I tested initially and even agreed with the results of INFP. From my perspective, Ti and Fi are very similar in how they ultimately work as processes and the sort of values they often hold. They're both often concerned on the principle or essence of an idea, action, etc. trying to understand the reasoning behind it. This contrasts the introvered judging functions with the extroverted ones which are mainly concerned with results. I would suggest that Ti and Fi in the dominant position are similarly based on values and principles, but assess things slightly differently. My brains shutting down a bit now, but I'd be happy to continue talking about it together.
Hi Myztyrio... I think the best lead I can give you in assessing your type is to read Paul James' intp profile description. webdocs.cs.ualberta.ca/~darse/Stuff/intprofile.html If this feels almost like an invasion of privacy in how accurately it describes your internal processes, then the odds are good you are in fact an intp. If not, it might be worth checking out other type descriptions. I kind of see where you are coming from comparing Ti and Fi, but I don't see them as that similar. Certainly they are both personalized in that the important part of them both is that the structure of the model (Ti) and the resonance of the value (Fi) are specific to the person using the function, and may not be universal to other humans. But from what I have gathered, Fi is a value system judging function. i.e. this or that is WRONG to me (hence my reaction to the sentence... "Fe presents itself as a stubborn need for justice") this is the function used to guard against corruption in a value system. Fe, in contrast is about communing with other humans... seeking peace and shared understanding. This is the function that causes empathy, where you can step into another person's shoes and "feel" what they feel, and try to make their life better by "feeling" what they would need. For me this shows up in weird places, like massaging someone. I can "feel" how I would want to be touched, and so I can give that to they without needing much direction. Meanwhile, Ti is a organizing or scaffolding function used to extrapolate a system of thought based on multiple data points gathered. So, in a sense it is concerned with the essence of knowledge... while Fi is concerned with the essence of value. Lastly, keep in mind that you don't just have 4 functions... you have one set of 4 that you use more than the other set of 4. So you may have a greater development of Fi than the intp profile indicates, and this can come from childhood experiences. cheers
@@MyztyrioI have several INFP friends and an INFP cousin. When I talked to them about why, their reason is always revolving about what feels right to them. As an INTP, I don't share such standpoint. Plus, I don't understand my own feelings.
I'm an ENTP and I hate being barged in on too, but mainly if it's an ESFJ or one of the other annoying 'let me tell you in detail about every boring thing I did today' types.
As an INFP This happens to me too, when I'm deep in thought and something interrupts my flow I just go crazy and lose interest. I think because we both have a trickster "Se". We're so engrossed in our minds and theories that we don't want to deal with the concrete world.
"Se" is not one of the functions within the INTP or INFP function stack (both types use "Si"). I'm just assuming here, but I believe you might be basing your judgments off of the Myers briggs system (which is a "cute science," as I call it). You should look into a UA-cam channel called Objective Personality for more accurate information.
@@Kaylasm-oz4zy se is the trickster/Blindspot function of inxp. It is not a conscious/valued and it is the weakest function for the type. In fact, it is so weak that, unlike the fourth function, which is weak but the person knows it, the person does not know their trickster is weak. You should check out the eight function model
@@memeswereablessingfromthel3942 I am an Enfj Enneagram type 4 and I certainly do that. Not every Enfj will give you space but they usually avoid people during their life time.
@@memeswereablessingfromthel3942 I’m an INTP and yes ENFJ gives space… they always want to be outside… (except if they have a depression because they are too much outside wanting to help everyone…)
As an INFP who is a brother to an INTP, I feel bad everytime I knock on the door to his room. If he gets angry about it, I hardly see it. I'm guessing he's just learned to be patient with me in particular (he used to be a lot worse).
I sit quietly when I hear a knock or bell. Then I peek to see them going away. It's a relief to hear a rustling at the door handle to realize it was only a Jehovah's Witness or political canvasser I won't have to talk to again later. If it's someone I do know, the agitation doesn't go away because then they'll call and expect a return call.
C Ch Yes - I always justify it to myself "If they don't call before they come, how can they possibly expect me to be home?" Of course, the problem is exacerbated by the fact I practically never answer phone calls lol. I _do_ answer every text, though, so there's that....
Tomi Adewole . I'm the same in not answering. My mom will call ahead when she's already on her way, so that is frustrating. And she has a key, so that's triple anxiety. But usually she'll just stand outside calling out my name in a sweet sing-song voice carried by the wind and audible at least 3 houses away. Then she'll go around hack, knock and say it all over again. "It's meeee.... mo-o-om." It's emotional terrorism because we don't have a good relationship (she is ISTJ and assumes everything I do is about violating her sensibilitelies to punish her, which is just an illustration that she hasn't bothered to really know me or appreciate who I am, hence my lack of excitement when she shows up with 5 to 10 minutes notice).
Hmn. Perhaps you might, if time permits, introduce your mother to MBTI. Gather a pamphlet or something with the most descriptive aspects of both the INTP and the ISTJ to foster better understanding - or at least open the road to it. Perhaps compile a UA-cam playlist of the types and email it to her. And you, yourself, might benefit from learning more about the ISTJ - assuming you haven't absorbed the most salient aspects of that type already.
"she's wonderful, intelligent and when we work together my Ideas come to life" sounds like she brings out his intuition so maybe she is an infj/enfj or whatever you think (haven't watched the movie) and sacrificing herself to support someone she admires? Love your vids appreciate your efforts to show real examples xx
1:44 This is exactly how I argue with my mom. She isn't an xSxJ, an INFP, so we get along very well. But when her inferior Te rules collide with my Ti outbursts, it can cause chaos. She likes to talk about how "I need to follow the rules," but I usually am always the one to blurt out "why" over and over again just to try and deflate her argument. I love my mom to death, but she can get really paranoid and neurotic when her Te gets a hold of her. Not like I'm any better on Fe, I become self-righteous and over-emotional, as well.
@i .candy I'm not saying INFPs never explain their reasoning. Heck, Fi is a rational function. But it's based off of a feeling-based codec instead of a logic based one. Her thinking function, despite being a very smart and nice person, isn't very well developed.
I’ve done enough work to say, I don’t specifically need a certain personality type. What I need is someone with an attention span longer than 5 minutes and a capacity for really listening longer than 40 seconds.
You should watch the national geographic series on him that came out last year, it's called genius. The acting and historical accuracy are phenomenal. Season 2 is on Picasso and it's airing now and Antonio banderas is playing Picasso.
It gets a little embarrassing to keep using Einstein as a reference (only because I know non-INTP likely see it as self-aggrandizement), but yes, this is me. I had my math papers spread out all over the floor in a study room I was borrowing and 2 staff people came in to check something in therr interrupting me. It took all the social training I developed to not outburst. But another time my water heater broke. I foolishly told the landlords who are my mom and sister's dad (aka idiot) at a dinner. But I said I needed to study for an important exam in a few days time, please let's not do anything until the weekend. "I can shower at the gym." The VERY NEXT NIGHT returning home from work/school there was a truck in my driveway, my dogs barking inside, and men were doing the water heater (which is outside) and they were not going to be done for another hour, making noise. And working among my personal property out there I would have cleaned up on the weekend. My anxiety shot up, I was infuriated as my study night was shot and my space invaded. My mom was angry, too, because this was idiot's fault who wouldn't listen since "the guys said they can do it right away". The next day I found that the water heater was slanted. Idiot came over (still taking up my study time) to "inspect" and call the men: "Well I'm being told the water heater is crooked, uhhh". What a louse, can't even admit to the men it's not "complaints he's hearing" but that he paid for a botched job. I insisted, no work until the weekend.... OK.... *THAT SAME NIGHT* I returned home and the men were back, my dogs barking again, and they used my personal pavers to even out the floor and used my items and had crap around my stuff. Bark bark bark. TWO NIGHTS of study ruined! I got a bad grade on the exam affecting my overall semester grade and I have never forgiven idiot. School is hard enough.
And because of experiences like this, many INTPs avoid contact with people and prefer to solve their problems by their own. At least, that happened to me. I had problems like that several times and when I told to people, they made the situation worst or began to criticize me for "not doing an obviously stupid thing that won't solve nothing" and being very harshly about it. So now, I keep things to myself as much as possible. I realize that that attitude is neither healthy, but gosh, the biggest obstacle to trust people is the people itself.
Nice. My cousin is an intp. Btw... I think the cat had the best performance out of all the actors. Which might surprise a lot of people because cats are usually more reserved. If I had to type him I'd guess esfp.
Jamie Dorsey I’ve been trying to solve this one for the longest time. The best I came up with is: make an effort to stay involved in the lives of your loved ones, but from a well-justified distance. E.g. if in the same vicinity with loved ones, choose a known-to-be busy career choice, or physically moving away for a better job...etc. I think this way helps keeping poor Fe alive :D without limiting the dual cruel mistress that is, TiNe ;)
Ohhhh then that's it! They called it low frustration tolerance, made me feel incompetent for not being able to control that part of me, and entered my beliefs as kings and that made me even more eager to throw a punch in the face. I'm not calm until you leave my workspace and leave me alone
That girl he is with, is probably an infj Also if she did that to me kiss me on the cheek and stuff while am angry like that, I would've pushed her away. LOL
@Hana G that's nice, but do you think this is going to make someone feel better? Dont you think they might need some time alone? Also what's your mbti type.
Whenever I'm coding in my room and anybody walks idc who you are I'll get a little irritated because I'll lose track of whatever focus I had (and my mind goes on tangent and mental blocks at the slightest exposure outside of my head)
Get all settled into my deep work routine then someone calls me with something they swear is important (It usually is not). Rage. Takes me 20 minuets to get back in my zone. Another phone call. wtf
It's quite interesting these analysis you make on movie scenes...As an INTP I would like to recommend the movie Adaptation for the huge identification I feel for the INTPness of two of the main characters(Charlie Kaufman and John Laroche)...It would be great to have one analysis of yours on this...Cheers, Ricardo
The caracter has big ideas, procastinates as hell, don't know what to do with such energy and end up finding relief in the ejaculation...This is a path found for dealing with the feeling of being blocked, as throughout the movie there is a creeping sense in the screenwriter(Charlie Kaufman) that people around him is stupid and his ideal of making an usual movie without the industry's cliches would wind up being a great failure... So, it's all about an adaptation for the public, of how to translate a book rich in nuances and the screenwriter's refined perception of the it, on the flat experience that is "popcorn cinema session"
I tend to look moderate, but when I don't want to be interrupted or when something pisses me off in a very bad way, I react furiously and it even scares myself.
@i .candy I’m an infp and can totally relate to being annoyed when people barge in when I’m focusing. I guess we are pretty similar lol other than the feeling and thinking part.
what to do about lack of autonomy and feeling controlled? or is this something you treat as a whole? not sure how it works: can you get in it momentarily and that'd be alright or is it only chronic?
Oh my god i relate to this so much especially when i feel people are trying to control me i can be so edgy then i feel bad and go talk to them and say sry i hate this
I'm an INTP. My inferior Fe grip became too strong to the point where i developed over-sensitivity leading to a high case of emotionality. I'm currently stuck in these thoughts of uselessness, stopped doing anything. Its not going away. At this point i may've as well disintegrated to my demon slot Fi where i place too much pressure on myself to find what my interests are while having 0 access to my emotions.
What movie is this?? And yeah, I've recently accepted the fact that I'm an introvert (after trying to fit in with my extraverted friends) and I hate being pushed about my feelings when I'm upset. I also tend to have less respect for those I deem "illogical".
Yup something breaaking your flow. Intrutions on autonomy. Even if it is my mother 0% acceptable. I had sucha moment with my family on holiday. I went of the island and went home barely saying a word. My family was shocked. When I know I am right I very rarely make a compromise. My way or the highway. I never make a mistake when I am that resolute.
Awe c'mon. We can be oblivious and what not but in my experience, the INFJ/INTP combo truly is the golden pair. I am an INTP and INFJs always bring out the best in me and we get along great. It is a very complimentary combo. Only found one that was "bad" and we just rubbed each other the wrong way. But what do I know, I haven't experienced the same thing you have. I am also a fairly well developed INTP which is undoubtedly a significant factor.
My parents forced me into a career in medicine and man I am fucked up, I am a physics person wtf even, not to mention they are highly illogical, boils my blood, I think i have lost my mind at this point.one week ago my mom barged into my room, yes my room is a total mess but it is an organized mess in my brain, when she started to pick shit up, I got so frustrated and angry, I couldn’t even understand myself
Absolutly hate it when people barge in on you, all noisy, and then drop the "why are you so quiet"
Hudson Lee
:)))))))
So very understandable!
Chuckle...or they barge in and announce: "Are you busy!?"
To which I always reply "Does it matter?"
Ssssssh I'm thinking!!!!!
As an INFJ this is why I hated freshman in college
This video give me anxiety on so many level as INTP.
Ani Chen
Hahaa 💕
"If an INTP becomes too overwhelmed with stress, he may stop making any risks and fail to gain expertise and mastery he *needs*"
The struggle is real, man .... Been years since I'm trapped in this endless loop of inadequacy and restlessness.
senndbx ..
Truth. I must feel "I'm control" if I am to push my boundaries and master new skills.
Same...it's very frustrating when people saw me as incompetent and criticize my tendency to become an expert in something just because I am usually very careful of doing something so I take my time and my approach in completing a new task to become an expert is very unique and most of the time I create a new method to overcome the task. They would think I am some sort of people who againsts the rule and rebellious so they would say harsh things to me and make me lose motivation eventually due to the stress😭
Thoughts of Mediocrity has trapped me too. I keep telling myself You have to improve, but I cant get myself to improve making the feelings of inadequacy blossom. Like you said. a relentless loop.
I hate the fact that I cant control myself and give into primal and habitual instincts like an animal that has no consciousness.
In those moments after indulgence I feel most disgusted with myself. I know it have to work but I'm too lazy, too much of a piece of shit to get my ass working. Distracting myself with a myriad of other things that are not related to the goal. All it must be is self discipline, but that is something that is not easily tamed
Yeah, I get it. Ive been like this for a couple years. i think its finally starting to end but Im not sure. I get so bogged down by this constant need for perfection in my work. Its so difficult to communicate that to people.
Yup, truth
I laughed when the cat appeared because it's clear they threw the cat into the scene. If the cat jumped I bet it wouldn't slide like that.
LMAOOO
And how it screamed 😂
woww
When INTP fall in love, that Fe grip is a disaster
Tu edes malo no vueno xddxd
Haha i get it but how.a little more detail :)
@@darklight898 Fe desire becomes strong, inferior Fe is non-confrontational so it's just a load of strong emotions tearing you apart, especially when you're attempting to tell them. It can last very long, it "might" be short but as long as that Fe desire is there, you will be glued to wanting them when in their presence and not die but rather getting crushed by a boulder and survive while it slowly rolls on and off yoour chest. And for a second it may stop, only for another boulder to drop on top of the boulder on top of you already hammering down at you. The Si will keep you super glued to that Fe desire. The Ne will be repressed. The Ti is just off or used ongoingly negative after the Fe cool-down. While on cool down it simply stays building up untill the explosion again.
Si keeps you in the state. Keeps you from doing anything different. Just stuck.
Fe keeps you non-confrontational and exploding your bleeding heart while the pieces slither back to collect itself and blow up again
Ne is repressed due to restrictive Si
:((
Indeed.
This happens to me. When my sister passed a year ago I didn't want to be bothered at work but my manager kept coming and standing over me asking me what I was working on. I could not think I was quiet and he kept trying to talk even though I told him I couldn't think clearly. Btw I'm a computer programmer so I have to think and I prefer silence when I'm coding. Anyways I finally snapped on him to the point I could see fear in his eyes. He called me in a meeting with another manager telling me I have to learn to deal with my emotions. Also this was after he didn't want to give me the entire week off the day after she died because the department was hurting without me. I'm quiet but when I'm pushed I scare myself.
I know you posted this a year ago...but I feel your pain. So much! I'm not a computer programmer, but I used to have a job building quite a large website from scratch, and I had to do it in a small office with 2-4 other people. I would get interrupted every hour or so by people wanting to use the computer (as there was only two). It drove me absolutely NUTS!
I'm sorry for your loss, I hope you're still doing well in spite of insensitive idiots.
@the tinker. No no no. When I am upset or sad I just want to work. Preferably alone. She said she could not think. That is very clear indication talking wont help.
He just denied her a week of and then starys to hassle.
Number if hints
1 her sister died.
2 she cant think. That means she cant talk.
3 he denied her time of.
4 Starting to ask stupid questions.
5 Work can be a good distration if you get of an intp s tail.
INTPs Ti is strongests if even that function is out Fe is a viscious guard dog because you were stomping into her yard when she was most vulnerable.
The manager was an idiot and missied a verbal cue and probaly a lot of non verbal cues to let her be.
Manager making things easier.
He can by gtfo.
The are a lot of managers that lower employee productivity.
They should not be paid salery. They should pay a fine and damages to their subbordinates.
People are evil. Disgusting.
@@julianannebor919 you are definitely INFP then haha
Being surrounded by individuals he perceives as "illogical and incompetent" stress him out. Truer words have never been spoken
fr. its the polite way to say being surrounded by idiots (idiots)
i know this is fictional but i can’t be the only one who totally “AWWWW’ed” when he was defending the girl he loved and explaining why he loved her? sooooo sweet T^T
Grace Kim
So Intp ,,I love her because she is inteligent" 😂
Sara MBTI “she makes
my ideas a reality.”
theres that blind Se
ong
yep - sometimes I have my notebooks spread out so I can refer to each one as I move forward in thought process. each thought is important to the momentum so when I'm suddenly distracted it's like glass shattering. I notice that arguments still brew in our heads after we had them and we have more to say to further our point or add to something they said- so it's funny in the video when Einstein was talking to his dad, he still wanted to say something to his mother from a distance because the argument is still happening in his brain.
I did that when writing a very fine essay when I was 13 yrs old. I had forgotten about that.
My first crush was a INTP.😄 I liked his awkward smile and sense of fashion, charming smile and wonderful mind. To this day I still find him charming.😄
Lol Albert is oddly reminiscent of Tommy Wiseau here. I guess what they say is true, "Genius and Insanity are two sides of the same coin."
That barging in thing is the Se blind spot.
Random things happening and loud noises, bright lights, etc. Is an intp's greatest weakness.
We do worse in a night club than in a social gathering.
comment would have been helpful years ago...
Not really, that's expected at a nightclub
Same...I went to the library to study alone but later one by one of my friends started to barging in my personal space😂 It's really annoying... It got more annoying when they treated me like some sort of counsellor, telling me their problems although I ignored them completely
Cik Pessimist Introvert
Tell them what you don't like 😊 They are going to change their behaviour maybe.. Some people don't get it until it's said:D 😃😃
Tell me about it enlighten me about it~ Right now I'm apparently a lovematcher and a mediator between an intj and xnfx. I wouldn't have to spend so much effort set up time and place while being badgered by intj w questions about the significant other and xnfx rejecting my setup if the intj would shut the fuck up open his eyes and approach her himself. Fuck am I frustrated af I have my own problems to deal with. Anyone would think why the fuck I would do all that shit for this friend, I have been so fucking straightforward but this guy have to choose to be oblivious and love blind.
One of the many reasons i dont wanna go to college lack of privacy.
@@jakobsmith4046 I don't regret not going
Lol the beginning part with the papers all spread out is so me.
And the parents coming in was so relatable
I know when I'm busy in the kitchen I hate being barged in on. If you announce your presence fine, that works but I hate being crowded.
David Roberson
People should respect privacy more, def ;))
Sara MBTI I don't mind my friends and family joining me when I cook. It can be quite nice to talk and I can get great ideas to incorporate. But just, let me know they're coming in so I can be more accommodating and feel less frazzled.
David Roberson
My Intp friend is just like that. As an Enfj (and very private person) I respect people like that very much :)
David Roberson . Yeah. I have this problem living in a corner house. Whatever happened to neighborhood pedestrians saying "Hey, neighbor. Lovely day!" tip of the hat and move along? I'm fine with that. But what I get is stopped spectators who want who lodge suggestions about what I'm doing after 20 nosy questions and digressing chit chat. I like weeding and edging by hand. It's thinking time. But out of the woodwork come do-gooders offering their power tools, listing days they can come over to help (despite my protests, no thank you). It makes me scatter back inside neglecting the rest of my jobs outside making the problem worse.
I'm an INTP and I've been very stressed out lately for lots of reasons, mostly pertaining to a new job I got. The other night I very uncharacteristically shouted at my brother, scolding him for something I believe he did wrong and slammed doors. I haven't had an outburst like that in a long time and I don't want to again.
KINGJADEX
Take care of yourself 🙏😃
Sara MBTI Probably one of the things I'm worst at.
Me everyday
Yeah Fe presents itself as a stubborn need for justice. To seek balance between people. It goes against my principled understanding of things if an important ethical concept like justice goes unchecked.
Myztyrio ... Fe? Or Fi...
I understood Fe as focusing on group harmony, while Fi is focused on strong internal values, and ensuring the self acts in ways consistant with those internal values, as well as reacting strongly against when the world breaks those values.
Re, in contrast, being able to see all sides of an issue, and suppressing conflict in order to achieve harmony in the group.
Thoughts?
breakingthemasks I've had a lot of internal debate about whether I lead with Ti, Fi, Ni, Ne. But after all my research I still conclude myself as an INTP even though I tested initially and even agreed with the results of INFP.
From my perspective, Ti and Fi are very similar in how they ultimately work as processes and the sort of values they often hold. They're both often concerned on the principle or essence of an idea, action, etc. trying to understand the reasoning behind it. This contrasts the introvered judging functions with the extroverted ones which are mainly concerned with results. I would suggest that Ti and Fi in the dominant position are similarly based on values and principles, but assess things slightly differently. My brains shutting down a bit now, but I'd be happy to continue talking about it together.
Hi Myztyrio... I think the best lead I can give you in assessing your type is to read Paul James' intp profile description.
webdocs.cs.ualberta.ca/~darse/Stuff/intprofile.html
If this feels almost like an invasion of privacy in how accurately it describes your internal processes, then the odds are good you are in fact an intp.
If not, it might be worth checking out other type descriptions.
I kind of see where you are coming from comparing Ti and Fi, but I don't see them as that similar. Certainly they are both personalized in that the important part of them both is that the structure of the model (Ti) and the resonance of the value (Fi) are specific to the person using the function, and may not be universal to other humans.
But from what I have gathered, Fi is a value system judging function. i.e. this or that is WRONG to me (hence my reaction to the sentence... "Fe presents itself as a stubborn need for justice") this is the function used to guard against corruption in a value system.
Fe, in contrast is about communing with other humans... seeking peace and shared understanding. This is the function that causes empathy, where you can step into another person's shoes and "feel" what they feel, and try to make their life better by "feeling" what they would need.
For me this shows up in weird places, like massaging someone. I can "feel" how I would want to be touched, and so I can give that to they without needing much direction.
Meanwhile, Ti is a organizing or scaffolding function used to extrapolate a system of thought based on multiple data points gathered. So, in a sense it is concerned with the essence of knowledge... while Fi is concerned with the essence of value.
Lastly, keep in mind that you don't just have 4 functions... you have one set of 4 that you use more than the other set of 4. So you may have a greater development of Fi than the intp profile indicates, and this can come from childhood experiences.
cheers
I'd say Fe is despising dictatorship and unfairness, but I "feel" like ISTP don't share such standpoint.
@@MyztyrioI have several INFP friends and an INFP cousin. When I talked to them about why, their reason is always revolving about what feels right to them. As an INTP, I don't share such standpoint. Plus, I don't understand my own feelings.
Anybody think of "The Room" while watching this?
I did not hit her! I did NOOOT!
... Oh hi Mark
Jonathan Kolbinsky just what I thought
omg lol same here. flat boring acting
No, but I see it now. Heh.
Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂
I'm an ENTP and I hate being barged in on too, but mainly if it's an ESFJ or one of the other annoying 'let me tell you in detail about every boring thing I did today' types.
@i .candy They also have no empathy
As an INFP This happens to me too, when I'm deep in thought and something interrupts my flow I just go crazy and lose interest. I think because we both have a trickster "Se". We're so engrossed in our minds and theories that we don't want to deal with the concrete world.
"Se" is not one of the functions within the INTP or INFP function stack (both types use "Si"). I'm just assuming here, but I believe you might be basing your judgments off of the Myers briggs system (which is a "cute science," as I call it). You should look into a UA-cam channel called Objective Personality for more accurate information.
@@Kaylasm-oz4zy I watch the "Objective personality" UA-cam channel and yes MBTI is more like Pseudoscience
@@Kaylasm-oz4zy se is the trickster/Blindspot function of inxp. It is not a conscious/valued and it is the weakest function for the type. In fact, it is so weak that, unlike the fourth function, which is weak but the person knows it, the person does not know their trickster is weak. You should check out the eight function model
I've being living this my entire life, I just want to be alone!! is it really that hard to understand I need my space to think and be?!
Nubia Delgado
Hang out with: Istjs, Infps, Enfjs, Isfps and other Intps.
They will give you space
@@SaraMBTI Sounds counter productive to hang out with people in order to not hang out with people...
@@SaraMBTI Did you just use ENFJ as an example of somebody that gives space?
@@memeswereablessingfromthel3942
I am an Enfj Enneagram type 4 and I certainly do that.
Not every Enfj will give you space but they usually avoid people during their life time.
@@memeswereablessingfromthel3942 I’m an INTP and yes ENFJ gives space… they always want to be outside… (except if they have a depression because they are too much outside wanting to help everyone…)
I love these inferior functions videos! Keep up the good work :-)
thank you so much
As an INFP who is a brother to an INTP, I feel bad everytime I knock on the door to his room. If he gets angry about it, I hardly see it. I'm guessing he's just learned to be patient with me in particular (he used to be a lot worse).
I'm an INTP with an INFP brother, he understand me, and I have adapted somewhat as well.
I just came back from my Fe taking my brain for a joyride...
It went surprisingly well despite all logic saying otherwise
Ha! This was very interesting. The unexpected chime of the doorbell elicits many of these same feelings. Great work, Sara!
thank you, Intp
I sit quietly when I hear a knock or bell. Then I peek to see them going away. It's a relief to hear a rustling at the door handle to realize it was only a Jehovah's Witness or political canvasser I won't have to talk to again later. If it's someone I do know, the agitation doesn't go away because then they'll call and expect a return call.
C Ch Yes - I always justify it to myself "If they don't call before they come, how can they possibly expect me to be home?" Of course, the problem is exacerbated by the fact I practically never answer phone calls lol. I _do_ answer every text, though, so there's that....
Tomi Adewole . I'm the same in not answering. My mom will call ahead when she's already on her way, so that is frustrating. And she has a key, so that's triple anxiety. But usually she'll just stand outside calling out my name in a sweet sing-song voice carried by the wind and audible at least 3 houses away. Then she'll go around hack, knock and say it all over again. "It's meeee.... mo-o-om." It's emotional terrorism because we don't have a good relationship (she is ISTJ and assumes everything I do is about violating her sensibilitelies to punish her, which is just an illustration that she hasn't bothered to really know me or appreciate who I am, hence my lack of excitement when she shows up with 5 to 10 minutes notice).
Hmn. Perhaps you might, if time permits, introduce your mother to MBTI. Gather a pamphlet or something with the most descriptive aspects of both the INTP and the ISTJ to foster better understanding - or at least open the road to it. Perhaps compile a UA-cam playlist of the types and email it to her. And you, yourself, might benefit from learning more about the ISTJ - assuming you haven't absorbed the most salient aspects of that type already.
These types of analyses encourage me to write better characters into my stories.
That is so true we hate illogical reason because we know when someone made illogical reason they just want to protect themselves from TRUTH
Good.
But I think an example from the recent film LINCOLN would be a better fit.
Funny that INTP men always seem to be paired to ISFJ women... :)
I thought of Lincoln too... I choose this one, Idk why, I liked it more somehow:))
Yes, women from this clip have Isfj vibe 😃
Mileva wasn't an ISFJ at all
Because it really works that way. Only ISFJ can handle us 🤗
Greenishiara
In this movie, director portraided her as an Isfj, I agree she wasn't one :)
"she's wonderful, intelligent and when we work together my Ideas come to life" sounds like she brings out his intuition so maybe she is an infj/enfj or whatever you think (haven't watched the movie) and sacrificing herself to support someone she admires?
Love your vids appreciate your efforts to show real examples xx
1:44 This is exactly how I argue with my mom. She isn't an xSxJ, an INFP, so we get along very well. But when her inferior Te rules collide with my Ti outbursts, it can cause chaos. She likes to talk about how "I need to follow the rules," but I usually am always the one to blurt out "why" over and over again just to try and deflate her argument. I love my mom to death, but she can get really paranoid and neurotic when her Te gets a hold of her. Not like I'm any better on Fe, I become self-righteous and over-emotional, as well.
@i .candy I'm not saying INFPs never explain their reasoning. Heck, Fi is a rational function. But it's based off of a feeling-based codec instead of a logic based one. Her thinking function, despite being a very smart and nice person, isn't very well developed.
Infp have fi not Fe ✨ just for clear
He use Fe cause he was under stress so normal Fe come out ✨
Damn, what a spot on video. I went through a very stressful year and people around me complained exactly about all of this.
I hope you're doing fine now :)))
Sara MBTI I am! Thank you :) I still feel sorry for those who had to cope with me, though, but I'll try my best to be chill and nice again.
This is brilliant. This whole thing made me feel stressed because I can relate to all of it.
*get this cat out of here*
Siham Noor 😂😂
LMAO
the cat was probs an Se dom xD
Its funny, cause intp's really need entj's to make amazing things happen, but God knows thats like a shark meeting a dog😂
I’ve done enough work to say, I don’t specifically need a certain personality type. What I need is someone with an attention span longer than 5 minutes and a capacity for really listening longer than 40 seconds.
Lol
Izbiski Gaming so not me then. i‘m an esfp btw
Who is the dog
whos the shark and whos the dog..
You should watch the national geographic series on him that came out last year, it's called genius.
The acting and historical accuracy are phenomenal. Season 2 is on Picasso and it's airing now and Antonio banderas is playing Picasso.
I have watched that already and I loved it :)))
I'm glad I found your channel and, specifically, this series. Well done.
Ismael Rivera
Thank you so much 💕
People's presence during work s such a nuisance isn't it?
It gets a little embarrassing to keep using Einstein as a reference (only because I know non-INTP likely see it as self-aggrandizement), but yes, this is me.
I had my math papers spread out all over the floor in a study room I was borrowing and 2 staff people came in to check something in therr interrupting me. It took all the social training I developed to not outburst. But another time my water heater broke. I foolishly told the landlords who are my mom and sister's dad (aka idiot) at a dinner. But I said I needed to study for an important exam in a few days time, please let's not do anything until the weekend. "I can shower at the gym." The VERY NEXT NIGHT returning home from work/school there was a truck in my driveway, my dogs barking inside, and men were doing the water heater (which is outside) and they were not going to be done for another hour, making noise. And working among my personal property out there I would have cleaned up on the weekend. My anxiety shot up, I was infuriated as my study night was shot and my space invaded. My mom was angry, too, because this was idiot's fault who wouldn't listen since "the guys said they can do it right away". The next day I found that the water heater was slanted. Idiot came over (still taking up my study time) to "inspect" and call the men: "Well I'm being told the water heater is crooked, uhhh". What a louse, can't even admit to the men it's not "complaints he's hearing" but that he paid for a botched job. I insisted, no work until the weekend.... OK.... *THAT SAME NIGHT* I returned home and the men were back, my dogs barking again, and they used my personal pavers to even out the floor and used my items and had crap around my stuff. Bark bark bark. TWO NIGHTS of study ruined! I got a bad grade on the exam affecting my overall semester grade and I have never forgiven idiot. School is hard enough.
Never study the few days before the exam then. Spread it out over the semester.
And because of experiences like this, many INTPs avoid contact with people and prefer to solve their problems by their own. At least, that happened to me.
I had problems like that several times and when I told to people, they made the situation worst or began to criticize me for "not doing an obviously stupid thing that won't solve nothing" and being very harshly about it.
So now, I keep things to myself as much as possible. I realize that that attitude is neither healthy, but gosh, the biggest obstacle to trust people is the people itself.
@@alphaexpress6881 Oh yes, that was the problem, definitely.
Nice. My cousin is an intp.
Btw... I think the cat had the best performance out of all the actors.
Which might surprise a lot of people because cats are usually more reserved. If I had to type him I'd guess esfp.
Close enough. INTPs become unhealthy ESFJs when we are in the grip of Fe. ESFJs have a few things in common with ESFPs.
How to deal with the need for autonomy when you have to rely on others for support?
Jamie Dorsey I’ve been trying to solve this one for the longest time. The best I came up with is: make an effort to stay involved in the lives of your loved ones, but from a well-justified distance. E.g. if in the same vicinity with loved ones, choose a known-to-be busy career choice, or physically moving away for a better job...etc.
I think this way helps keeping poor Fe alive :D without limiting the dual cruel mistress that is, TiNe ;)
Constantly moving works for me.
Make connections with people and when you start to feel trapped move somewhere else.
@@cockycookie1 switch jobs every few years, the gig economy is great! Always getting new blood.
For a lot of cases, if I’m overwhelmed and having a breakdown, I don’t want any affection.
Ohhhh then that's it! They called it low frustration tolerance, made me feel incompetent for not being able to control that part of me, and entered my beliefs as kings and that made me even more eager to throw a punch in the face. I'm not calm until you leave my workspace and leave me alone
I feel for INTPs because they were bullied growing up. I was bullied growing up as an ISFP.
You don’t have to feel bad 😃😃 I didn’t realized I was bullied until 4 years later.
@@thelaurelwreathismine4805 being oblivious sometimes works out for us huh
Geez, I've been around a few people like this. I'll be more aware of my actions next time.
You've made me want to watch this movie now. seems very interesting
That girl he is with, is probably an infj
Also if she did that to me kiss me on the cheek and stuff while am angry like that, I would've pushed her away. LOL
@Hana G I wonder why you're asking.. But yes.
@Hana G that's nice, but do you think this is going to make someone feel better? Dont you think they might need some time alone?
Also what's your mbti type.
@Hana G hm what do you mean?
This basically describes my relationship with my family
I bet there are some great ENTP examples out there, too! 😁
Entp is next ;))
This frustrated me in so many levels as an INTP.
Whenever I'm coding in my room and anybody walks idc who you are I'll get a little irritated because I'll lose track of whatever focus I had (and my mind goes on tangent and mental blocks at the slightest exposure outside of my head)
Get all settled into my deep work routine then someone calls me with something they swear is important (It usually is not).
Rage. Takes me 20 minuets to get back in my zone. Another phone call. wtf
As an infp I also get annoyed when someone barges in on me when I’m focusing on something
It's quite interesting these analysis you make on movie scenes...As an INTP I would like to recommend the movie Adaptation for the huge identification I feel for the INTPness of two of the main characters(Charlie Kaufman and John Laroche)...It would be great to have one analysis of yours on this...Cheers, Ricardo
The caracter has big ideas, procastinates as hell, don't know what to do with such energy and end up finding relief in the ejaculation...This is a path found for dealing with the feeling of being blocked, as throughout the movie there is a creeping sense in the screenwriter(Charlie Kaufman) that people around him is stupid and his ideal of making an usual movie without the industry's cliches would wind up being a great failure... So, it's all about an adaptation for the public, of how to translate a book rich in nuances and the screenwriter's refined perception of the it, on the flat experience that is "popcorn cinema session"
Sara MBTI, exciting series. please find a video on ISTPs, but not the Clint Eastwood Western.
INTJ/ IXTP
Don't worry ;)
0:50 I noticed I repeat the phrase “I don’t understand anything.” whenever I struggle with schoolwork.
This is pretty friken accurate holy cow.
Your videos are so relatable
I didn’t know borat was an INTP
I hate the feeling of love man...i can't understand it...im an intp...i seriously need some help with this...i don't know how to process love
I have the same problem as well.
The same reaction though I'm ENTP, it is strange... Who I am eh
This is the moment you know you are an intp when you can relate to this
I tend to look moderate, but when I don't want to be interrupted or when something pisses me off in a very bad way, I react furiously and it even scares myself.
After watching this i can't decide if i'm INFP or INTP
@i .candy I’m an infp and can totally relate to being annoyed when people barge in when I’m focusing. I guess we are pretty similar lol other than the feeling and thinking part.
"What did you see in her?" I would hate to have to talk to him ever again. Despicable.
Urge to kill rising... Urge to kill RISING...
The name of the movie should’ve been in the description ,
So I want the name of the movie!?
EINSTEIN, it's Italian production movie
Sara MBTI thanks
what to do about lack of autonomy and feeling controlled? or is this something you treat as a whole? not sure how it works: can you get in it momentarily and that'd be alright or is it only chronic?
Oh my god i relate to this so much especially when i feel people are trying to control me i can be so edgy then i feel bad and go talk to them and say sry i hate this
I'm an INTP. My inferior Fe grip became too strong to the point where i developed over-sensitivity leading to a high case of emotionality. I'm currently stuck in these thoughts of uselessness, stopped doing anything. Its not going away. At this point i may've as well disintegrated to my demon slot Fi where i place too much pressure on myself to find what my interests are while having 0 access to my emotions.
Ayo! Delivered as promised. Thanks for that
Thank YOU for watching ;) :))
What movie is this??
And yeah, I've recently accepted the fact that I'm an introvert (after trying to fit in with my extraverted friends) and I hate being pushed about my feelings when I'm upset. I also tend to have less respect for those I deem "illogical".
This is how I know I'm not an INTP even though 16personalities give me that result fairly often I have no idea what this situation is
look up the type grid and watch some of cs josephs videos.
Do you know what you are
What is that marvelous thingy he is using to hold the sheets
I'm on the edge of this experience.
xNTP here, watched the ENTP video, couldn't relate at all, definitely relate to this one more, maybe I'm an INTP after all 🤔
I feel this so much as an INTP
Oh wow this was surprisingly accurate
I feel this way at school and when people say idc
milena was such a lovely women she never deserved albert
Yup something breaaking your flow.
Intrutions on autonomy. Even if it is my mother 0% acceptable. I had sucha moment with my family on holiday. I went of the island and went home barely saying a word. My family was shocked.
When I know I am right I very rarely make a compromise. My way or the highway.
I never make a mistake when I am that resolute.
Intps don't feel like wearing suits that may attract attention
Dale John Caballero
This is the period before I World War :)
Sara MBTI sorry I just notice it and it nothing relevant. But I love ur videos
Dale John Caballero
Thank you so much :))
Sara MBTI please continue making some because it gives insights to everyone
Dale John Caballero
I am going to, thank you so much for this once again💕
yup, that confirms i'm an INTP
Definitely my son. It triggers me that he won't let anyone in
I gave up on INTPs ... INFJ
Awe c'mon. We can be oblivious and what not but in my experience, the INFJ/INTP combo truly is the golden pair. I am an INTP and INFJs always bring out the best in me and we get along great. It is a very complimentary combo. Only found one that was "bad" and we just rubbed each other the wrong way. But what do I know, I haven't experienced the same thing you have. I am also a fairly well developed INTP which is undoubtedly a significant factor.
The first sequence is why I hate school the second is why I hate people (except friend and girlfriend)
Accurate as fuck tho
My parents forced me into a career in medicine and man I am fucked up, I am a physics person wtf even, not to mention they are highly illogical, boils my blood, I think i have lost my mind at this point.one week ago my mom barged into my room, yes my room is a total mess but it is an organized mess in my brain, when she started to pick shit up, I got so frustrated and angry, I couldn’t even understand myself
I wonder if this is what happens to our thinking style, is it because of lack of sleep or just general feeling of lost?
L0gicWülf Schulman
Fe starts to lead you which is not natural for you..
Inferior function starts to lead you in case of chronic stress :)
I have paperwork all over my house right now...
Is it possible to be in between being an INTP and INTJ?
Purrrfection
Probably not because they don't share the same cognitive function.
Check out cognitive functions and see which ,,fits you" better :)))
I don't think he was overreacting.
How do you find all of these clips?! Your channel is so wonderful
Can you explain functions? And thank you for this video!!
You're welcome :)
What do you mean by explaining functions? Making videos about functions?
I didn't know Borat was INTP!
Sounds just like my girlfriend! haha, also I can't find an ENFP in the grip video on your channel :'(
Which movie is this?
Where is this clip from?
are we just supposed to know the name this movie by intuition or something
From INTP
He COULD look godly if u give him a INTJ beard and have his hair long brush back certain way and little more musle .
what's the name of this movie?
Mattias Camacho
,,Einstein" :)
This is relatable, but I am ISTP.
Is that einstein