I want to give the ISTJ a hug, ISTJs are so cool they are so responsible and they will give their all for their duty, I feel sad that he berates himself that much. 🥺
ISTJs are Workers of the society and without them society will collapse , they want simple things A wife /A Gf ,A family ,A peaceful workspace, school space etc...but modern society has failed them in school istj kids are bullied and laughed at ,, they have extreme bad luck with women and no respect in society...no wonder they are destroying themselves by video games and what not .But AI will replace them ....life is horrifying for them for sure.
As an ISTJ I can confirm... Feeling like you failed at your Si... having the situation you were used to fall apart, not knowing what the future is going to look like and not being able to prepare. That's the feeling of grip in the ISTJ
As an isfj I can relate to inferior ne taking over during grip stress and causing me to worry about all that can possibly go wrong. I enjoyed this video very much! Thank you!
As you pointed this out as an isfj, how does this coping with stress point more to istj's over isfj's who become withdrawn and hopeless in their inferior function Ne?
ISTJs' are the most likely to prefer to be alone, huh? This relates to me as all throughout my life I have been asocial to an extreme degree. Are there any other universally shared personality traits that all ISTJs possess? I ask mainly because this could be my personality type and I would really like to know more about myself.
INTJ here but I can relate to this sometimes. I keep trying to always be perfect and competitive in a situation and wonder what could I have done differently that would have made it better.
Me as an INFP, i also tend to beat myself up for many situations and then Im stuck in the past and always am like „i could have done better...“ is that tert Si?
Si is annoying sometimes. I have to go super saiyan to do laundry properly. And I fear of using my energy in new ways because it might give something less satisfactory. I have Ne, so my ideas end as... thoughts most of the time.
I know how this feels too well. I had a career that went badly from my former employer betraying me and ripping me off financially despite my hard work and loyalty. I put a lot of my time and energy into helping the company and that betrayal struck me hard. I'm changing careers and I'm nervous about it.
cool! am an istj. v accurate depiction of being dramatic alone.(lol) since u love movies do u know where I can watch Before Sunrise(in your other video)? Dailymotion has but in case it lags, need a back up
I have an idea. You can do all 16 types and next you can create useful playlist and then you can spread your playlist wherever you want. Interior functions are cool.
Remains of the day was a such a sad book. Another perfect example of an ISTJ (albeit an unhealthy one) is Soames Forsyte from The Forsyte Saga, one of my favourite books. There is a black and white tv series made in the late sixties that is well worth viewing, even if some of the acting is a little hammy.
I have idea. You can do all 16 types and next you can create useful playlist and then you can spread your playlist wherever you want. Interior functions are cool.
Oddly enough, I'm intp but this has been me this past week or so. I feel thorn between things I love and whether or no they are problematic. It disturbs my sleep and makes it hard to enjoy my day. I lose motivation for school, and I'm 15 so its worse. I just feel lonely. Not wanting to let go of my childhood but knowing I might have. Mentally, I feel so done.
Infp here, well Ne is our secondary function so I find myself better to just embrace generating all the possibilities of what can go wrong as long as we can still "fuck it, letss gooo" at the end of our 'thinking session'. Much love from fellow intuitive perceiver, good luck!
if the situation is new and never been in before it gives me this anxiety of not knowing what to do about it which makes me nervous and can’t handle the thoughts of not getting it done and I be in a rush of needing to finish that certain task and if I didn’t I will feel even more responsible about it that will have me leaking some of my emotions before fully suppressing them in the worst thing ever
For those who're familiar with Wildbow's Worm/Ward, I'd say that, while she often gets typed as an ISTJ, I'd say Amy Dallon is more of an ISFJ because of how different her grip stress is to most ISTJs. There are plenty of similarities to this, especially the need to not be judged or patronized to, but unlike an ISTJ, the last thing Amy ever needed was to be left to cope completely alone. While she sought out and demanded solitude, she only spiraled even deeper into self-delusion and impulsivity when she was truly isolated. She may think of herself as an ISTJ because she always saw herself as an arbiter of black-and-white truth, the reality is that when left to her own devices every neurosis and anxiety was only magnified tenfold. Without spoiling anything, the consequences were unspeakable.
I also don't like the type I am assuming to be my type because I have this thought that it set me up for failure. But there are successful people of all types. Maybe you just need to learn to develop your type into a more healthy version of it? I don't know you though so I can only make guesses.
Gotta say this is unlike most istjs I know. They're usually incredibly bottled up and show no emotion. They actually belittle others for showing emotion.
Nada True but this is in the grip of Ne :) They are different when this happens. My boyfriend is an Istj and before I posted this, I asked him to see if this is accurate :)) What type are you?
Sara MBTI Oddly enough, I’ve been leaning on INFP for quite a while now, I was also leaning on ISFP as well. I also got one ISFJ answers, but I’m not even sure about that type. INFP seems to fit with me the most as far as I’m concerned.
hey! i LOVE your videos. i was wondering if you maybe do typing help? like, for your subscribers? i've been questioning my type a lot lately and your input would be very helpful:)
I thought I was INFJ but this is what I do to myself a lot of the time. Now I’m really confused because they aren’t similar so how could I be this far off?
There are ESTPs out there who have been so long in their grip that they seem like unhealthy INFJs. When ESTPs are in their ni-grip they are similar. They are also very pessimistic in that state (I think...)
1:24 "seeing nothing but all the potential of what could go wrong"
Armuotas
Yes! I made a mistake for not making that sentence longer!
Tnx a lot 👍😊
No worries.
This is fun and interesting series, keep it up. :)
Armuotas
Are you an Istj? :D
INTP ^^
@@Armuotas what do you think of ISTJs?
I want to give the ISTJ a hug, ISTJs are so cool they are so responsible and they will give their all for their duty, I feel sad that he berates himself that much. 🥺
You are probably INFP lol
@@kakashiomar5067 because she's cute?
@@Grimilliana, because they make me hesitate.
On a ‘higher’ level such a statement is invigorating against my pessimism of humanity. 🤗
ISTJs are Workers of the society and without them society will collapse , they want simple things A wife /A Gf ,A family ,A peaceful workspace, school space etc...but modern society has failed them in school istj kids are bullied and laughed at ,, they have extreme bad luck with women and no respect in society...no wonder they are destroying themselves by video games and what not .But AI will replace them ....life is horrifying for them for sure.
As an ISTJ I can confirm... Feeling like you failed at your Si... having the situation you were used to fall apart, not knowing what the future is going to look like and not being able to prepare. That's the feeling of grip in the ISTJ
Yup, falling on my but isn’t as painful as the self imposed gravitas that comes crashing down simultaneously.
"ISTJS need plenty of space and alone time when they are in this grip" - this is so very accurate
I like this series. This shows how the types are like and does not explain in detail. That’s the basic rule of things. Show, don’t tell.
What movie?
Remains of the Day . Anthony Hopkins and Emma Thompson.
Many think INTJs prefer being alone the most, just because they spend do, but ISTJs actually enjoy their own company the most
As an isfj I can relate to inferior ne taking over during grip stress and causing me to worry about all that can possibly go wrong. I enjoyed this video very much! Thank you!
Jessica Gneiding
Thank you, Isfj! :)
I am going to make one for your type too :)
Sara MBTI Awesome! I'll be looking forward to it!
As you pointed this out as an isfj, how does this coping with stress point more to istj's over isfj's who become withdrawn and hopeless in their inferior function Ne?
These videos are an excellent way to show how MBTI works in life. I am an INFJ but know a few ISTJs.
ISTJs' are the most likely to prefer to be alone, huh? This relates to me as all throughout my life I have been asocial to an extreme degree. Are there any other universally shared personality traits that all ISTJs possess? I ask mainly because this could be my personality type and I would really like to know more about myself.
His friend looks like an ESFJ. ESFJs are amazing friends and perfect people to have around when you're down and out!
This hit a little too closer to home than I care to admit.
INTJ here but I can relate to this sometimes. I keep trying to always be perfect and competitive in a situation and wonder what could I have done differently that would have made it better.
Remember. The INTJs shadow is ENTP. It cpuld be ypur opposing Ne comming out in stress.
It's odd how well I can relate to this
The Remains of the Day - magnificent film and the novel by Kazuo Ishiguro provides wonderful insight into the mind of an ISTJ
bruh, the guy talking to him, was very sweet
Me as an INFP, i also tend to beat myself up for many situations and then Im stuck in the past and always am like „i could have done better...“ is that tert Si?
Crysales
Yes, I would say that's Si :)
This...I relate to that so much. It comes to me in pangs, I'll be painting or writing, and suddenly, I think: "Why the HELL did I do ***?"
Saame
Si is annoying sometimes. I have to go super saiyan to do laundry properly. And I fear of using my energy in new ways because it might give something less satisfactory. I have Ne, so my ideas end as... thoughts most of the time.
Sounds like Fi Si loop
I know how this feels too well. I had a career that went badly from my former employer betraying me and ripping me off financially despite my hard work and loyalty. I put a lot of my time and energy into helping the company and that betrayal struck me hard. I'm changing careers and I'm nervous about it.
What I find most interesting is that a south eastern European has such an extensive viewing of English language films.
:)) Interesting comment! Maybe you have a point.
I love movies 😊 all my friends too...
Sara MBTI have you seen Lawrence of Arabia? Great showcase of infj in my opinion
qtpie Yess! I saw that movie this summer with my Intp friend :) I loved it
Last summer*
cool! am an istj. v accurate depiction of being dramatic alone.(lol) since u love movies do u know where I can watch Before Sunrise(in your other video)? Dailymotion has but in case it lags, need a back up
I have never met anyone like this before. How curious
Hello J K. Nice to meet you hahaha.
@masakasama More like, Japan beat people up for anyone not pretending to be behaviorally ISxJ
Yeah they go through that from time to time such hard workers very supportive
I related Mikasa Ackerman to ur videos.
She is an ISTJ too.
I have an idea. You can do all 16 types and next you can create useful playlist and then you can spread your playlist wherever you want. Interior functions are cool.
Very good! More INTP (and INFJ) videos, please!
Abdus Samad
Thank you :)))
I am going to do my best
Abdus Samad
INTPs are over represented in MBTI video discussions. More ENTPs!!
Remains of the day was a such a sad book. Another perfect example of an ISTJ (albeit an unhealthy one) is Soames Forsyte from The Forsyte Saga, one of my favourite books. There is a black and white tv series made in the late sixties that is well worth viewing, even if some of the acting is a little hammy.
klj788986sbb
Tnx for this comment 😊
For those who are wondering: This is a (deleted) scene from the 1993 movie The Remains of the Day.
I've never seen anything so accurate. I came to this point recently..
ISTJ here and this is exactly me.
I have idea. You can do all 16 types and next you can create useful playlist and then you can spread your playlist wherever you want. Interior functions are cool.
Karo
I am about to do this for 16 types :))
Do you have reddit profile?
Sara MBTI
Karo
I don't have :)
Oddly enough, I'm intp but this has been me this past week or so. I feel thorn between things I love and whether or no they are problematic. It disturbs my sleep and makes it hard to enjoy my day. I lose motivation for school, and I'm 15 so its worse. I just feel lonely. Not wanting to let go of my childhood but knowing I might have. Mentally, I feel so done.
Infp here, well Ne is our secondary function so I find myself better to just embrace generating all the possibilities of what can go wrong as long as we can still "fuck it, letss gooo" at the end of our 'thinking session'. Much love from fellow intuitive perceiver, good luck!
@@letsreadtextbook1687 I think I do too! Thx for the reply
if the situation is new and never been in before it gives me this anxiety of not knowing what to do about it which makes me nervous and can’t handle the thoughts of not getting it done and I be in a rush of needing to finish that certain task and if I didn’t I will feel even more responsible about it that will have me leaking some of my emotions before fully suppressing them in the worst thing ever
For those who're familiar with Wildbow's Worm/Ward, I'd say that, while she often gets typed as an ISTJ, I'd say Amy Dallon is more of an ISFJ because of how different her grip stress is to most ISTJs. There are plenty of similarities to this, especially the need to not be judged or patronized to, but unlike an ISTJ, the last thing Amy ever needed was to be left to cope completely alone. While she sought out and demanded solitude, she only spiraled even deeper into self-delusion and impulsivity when she was truly isolated. She may think of herself as an ISTJ because she always saw herself as an arbiter of black-and-white truth, the reality is that when left to her own devices every neurosis and anxiety was only magnified tenfold. Without spoiling anything, the consequences were unspeakable.
Although boring and triggering sometimes I respect istj for their organisation skills and strength
Reminds me of Tenzin when he was trapped in the spirit world (although isfj). He unnaturally second guessing himself and being extremely pessimistic.
What about the grip for isfj
For me, It's the most depressing type ever!!
I'm also the same!! 😕
I also don't like the type I am assuming to be my type because I have this thought that it set me up for failure. But there are successful people of all types. Maybe you just need to learn to develop your type into a more healthy version of it? I don't know you though so I can only make guesses.
Seems like he is also using Fi in an unhealthy way
Gotta say this is unlike most istjs I know. They're usually incredibly bottled up and show no emotion. They actually belittle others for showing emotion.
Nada
True but this is in the grip of Ne :) They are different when this happens. My boyfriend is an Istj and before I posted this, I asked him to see if this is accurate :))
What type are you?
I have a couple ISTJ friends.... they experience this, but only in private, with SOs.
Sara MBTI fair enough. I'm infp.
What like your boyfriend istj about you? (I’m enfj like u)
Can you make one with enfp? I’m so curious to see how people perceive enfps
Ofc :)
I am going to try to make this for each type :)
Sara MBTI oh thank you 💕 I’m looking forward 😃
FBI PINK BUBBLE ♡♥
Wow, this is definitely my dad
Make a video about INFJ ..PLEASE
Spot on .. i love you sara ♡
:))
They are both lovely people, where is this from? :O
Someone Random
,,The remains of the day''
This is a deleted scene from that movie :)
Sara MBTI That explains it! I recognized the character, but not the scene!
Do you plan to do one for every type or just do one grip example for certain ones? This is all interesting to me, btw.
Dan Klein
I am going to try to make this for each type :)
Thank you so much😃
What type are you?
Sara MBTI Not too sure, still finding it, but a good amount of people on Reddit, Personality Cafe, and Typology Central say that I am an INFP.
Dan Klein
How do you feel about it?
What type do you think fits you the most? :)
Sara MBTI Oddly enough, I’ve been leaning on INFP for quite a while now, I was also leaning on ISFP as well. I also got one ISFJ answers, but I’m not even sure about that type. INFP seems to fit with me the most as far as I’m concerned.
I do this or i find myself seeking comfort in the future like disappearing into what could be later why i should keep going
hey! i LOVE your videos. i was wondering if you maybe do typing help? like, for your subscribers? i've been questioning my type a lot lately and your input would be very helpful:)
anonymousvideostar
Maybe could help you :)
Be free to ask anything :)
What type is he? Not the istj guy
Are you a film student?
Timothy O
No :))) I just love movies very much
What does "grip" mean in personality terms.
oh unfortunate, I hate some istj
why just istj to told how to help?
What’s the name of this film?
lady_luck ,,The remains of the day''
This is a deleted scene from that movie :)
I thought I was INFJ but this is what I do to myself a lot of the time. Now I’m really confused because they aren’t similar so how could I be this far off?
Wendy French
Take a look on cognitive functions :)) see what fits you the most 😃
There are ESTPs out there who have been so long in their grip that they seem like unhealthy INFJs. When ESTPs are in their ni-grip they are similar. They are also very pessimistic in that state (I think...)
can you do some about ESFJs?
Kaiser Solar
Yes :)
I am going to make this for each type
What movie?
Some more ISFP videos? :)
Soon :)
This is 100 %me
may 19
What movie is this?
Howard’s End
Wow, this is so depressing for me to watch. My SE grip is more fun than this.
Prefer alone even than INFPs?
Yes
What movie?