Such great questions. Your interviewees legitimately seemed to struggle with the idea of being betrayed by a relative and romantic partner. Keep up the awesome work!
That first girl is so smart and so true it took me 5 years before I could even think about another woman after my divorce I found one 8,000 Mi away and I could not be happier
Lorie, On this video you said "When we were...in Goa. Goa seemed to be peaceful and have very kind people. Have you relocated and what town are you living now? It seems busier, but still peaceful with kind people. Thank you. Steve 😊
Shairah's answers were the most relatable to me. I believe that the only person who can guard my heart is someone who has had hers broken, and who recovered from that by herself. Similarly, having had mine broken and recovered from it by myself, I can guard another person's. There's no "three month rule;" the end of a relationship is the death of a "we." There's a period of mourning and rebuilding whether it's a relationship death or a physical one. People who immediately jump into another relationship (or worse, already have one lined up before ending the one they're in) do not take the time to recover their equilibrium, to figure out what went right, what went wrong, to forgive the other person for their part in what went wrong and to forgive themselves for their own part. This is personal growth. It brings accountability for our own actions and enables us to be accountable to another person for our actions.
I had a rebound when I was much younger, it got rid of the depression fast. She was no good as they all were, but it helped at the time. Been single a long time, and don't regret it , as there are few loyal women here. Dont need to be dipping in pointless loveless encounters,I pass on that. Regarding death, if I knew I was going soon, I would tell my wife to go on and be happy , to pray about any new man in her life before she jumps in, to make sure he doesnt want her for the houses, and that I would still love her of course. I would be in Heaven anyway with my daughter and pets, where there is no hurt or longing ,no depression anymore, only joy and happiness. So I would want my widow to be happy here on Earth too of course. Great interesting interviews guys, Lovely young ladies, intelligent and thoughtful. Take care Family👍👍😊God Bless.
Hi Johnny & Lorie, Hope you are both doing well, thanks for the brilliant vlog. Lorie, you look good in your pantssuit, nice colour too............... Have a wonderful week............ Garrie chan
I came out of a toxic relationship in 2017 and have no inclination to follow my little head, I gave it to God, I don't want to hand out samples and I don't want a sampler platter i will court properly and with intent, I already ha e my eye on the prize❤
Hello Lorie, Great topic, as an older man. Shairah had wonderful answers. I also noticed that many young ladies wear ID cards around their necks. Is this for security to enter their work? Steve 😊
True love or sudden death a total removal of a significant other can take two to three years. It could last a lifetime depending on how long they were together.
It depends...... how long was the relationship, was it a toxic relationship or a traumatic breakup. How much trauma did you experience in the relationship or as a result of the breakup. If it was a long term relationship in which you suffered a lot of trauma then you should take a year or two to process it all. That's my experience. Peace and Love, B Goat
I see many partners here in the Philippines who die after the death of their spouse due to depression. some will go crazy think that they are ready to give everything for the one they love. there are many stories like that here willing to die and kill for love My Pilipina friend here become crazy because of love I know 2 person in my neighborhood take their life after brake up 😅 Scary right But alot of many relationship here are successful
People😂 lessem how this girls think they say heart soul ecc we in the west are so fuked is not even funny if you go lessen to youtube interview in the west 😂
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Thanks for the video
Such great questions. Your interviewees legitimately seemed to struggle with the idea of being betrayed by a relative and romantic partner. Keep up the awesome work!
Thank you Joe!
Whoever captures Shairah’s heart will be a lucky man. She is warm hearted, intelligent and beautiful. She’s an Angel.🤙🏽
Am from the UK...love takes time ❤
That first girl is so smart and so true it took me 5 years before I could even think about another woman after my divorce I found one 8,000 Mi away and I could not be happier
We’re so happy for you Jimbo😊!
Thank you so much!!!
@@jimbohi3648 you’re welcome!
Another awesome video guys 😊John from South Jersey in the US
Thank you John!
Great interviews as always! Shairah; graceful and intelligent!
Lorie, On this video you said "When we were...in Goa. Goa seemed to be peaceful and have very kind people.
Have you relocated and what town are you living now? It seems busier, but still peaceful with kind people. Thank you. Steve 😊
Shairah's answers were the most relatable to me. I believe that the only person who can guard my heart is someone who has had hers broken, and who recovered from that by herself. Similarly, having had mine broken and recovered from it by myself, I can guard another person's. There's no "three month rule;" the end of a relationship is the death of a "we." There's a period of mourning and rebuilding whether it's a relationship death or a physical one. People who immediately jump into another relationship (or worse, already have one lined up before ending the one they're in) do not take the time to recover their equilibrium, to figure out what went right, what went wrong, to forgive the other person for their part in what went wrong and to forgive themselves for their own part. This is personal growth. It brings accountability for our own actions and enables us to be accountable to another person for our actions.
Wow! Thank you Tom for sharing your thoughts and this. We really appreciate it.
I had a rebound when I was much younger, it got rid of the depression fast. She was no good as they all were, but it helped at the time. Been single a long time, and don't regret it , as there are few loyal women here. Dont need to be dipping in pointless loveless encounters,I pass on that. Regarding death, if I knew I was going soon, I would tell my wife to go on and be happy , to pray about any new man in her life before she jumps in, to make sure he doesnt want her for the houses, and that I would still love her of course. I would be in Heaven anyway with my daughter and pets, where there is no hurt or longing ,no depression anymore, only joy and happiness. So I would want my widow to be happy here on Earth too of course. Great interesting interviews guys, Lovely young ladies, intelligent and thoughtful. Take care Family👍👍😊God Bless.
Aww, thank you so much Blue😊! Telling your wife to go and be happy, that’s very brave and very selfless.
Andrea looks quite sophisticated and quite intelligent in answering the question.
How long ? How about how short. 🥳🥳🥳
Shairah very smart and had good answers. She would be a keeper!!
True!
Hi Johnny & Lorie, Hope you are both doing well, thanks for the brilliant vlog. Lorie, you look good in your pantssuit, nice colour too............... Have a wonderful week............ Garrie chan
Hello Garrie! Thank you. We’re doing well, and we hope you are too.
🏀 Like a rebound? why should good people stay alone? Lorie asks the good questions
Thank you Rory!
I came out of a toxic relationship in 2017 and have no inclination to follow my little head, I gave it to God, I don't want to hand out samples and I don't want a sampler platter i will court properly and with intent, I already ha e my eye on the prize❤
Good for you Bud👍🏼.
Many thanks for this video!
You’re very welcome ValHarris! Thank you too for always watching and supporting😊. We really appreciate it.
It's important to keep your eyes open to what God may place in front of you. Sometimes people will come into your life to help you heal.
So so true brother I'm living it
True!
Lorie is the REAL Filipina Oprah for sure.
Thank you Paul😅.
Ewe, Oprah? I'm going to assume you mean good interviewer and not groomer.
Hello Lorie,
Great topic, as an older man.
Shairah had wonderful answers. I also noticed that many young ladies wear ID cards around their necks. Is this for security to enter their work?
Steve 😊
Hi good day
Hello Sol.
Wait at least 1 year before entering a new relationship.
True love or sudden death a total removal of a significant other can take two to three years. It could last a lifetime depending on how long they were together.
It will really take years. Thank you Mark for sharing your opinion.
Depending but at least 6 mths not 1 week lol like a lot of girls do
Imagine it’s not even a week😅.
It depends...... how long was the relationship, was it a toxic relationship or a traumatic breakup. How much trauma did you experience in the relationship or as a result of the breakup. If it was a long term relationship in which you suffered a lot of trauma then you should take a year or two to process it all. That's my experience. Peace and Love, B Goat
Or some might take longer because of the trauma. Hope you’re fine now Billy👍🏼.
I see many partners here in the Philippines who die after the death of their spouse due to depression. some will go crazy think that they are ready to give everything for the one they love.
there are many stories like that here willing to die and kill for love
My Pilipina friend here become crazy because of love
I know 2 person in my neighborhood take their life after brake up 😅
Scary right
But alot of many relationship here are successful
For me it's the rest of my life.
1 month of waiting/ year of marriage= standard waiting time.
- What if your partner dies...
- USUALLY takes a year 😁
I thought Shairah was going to say she would cut off something else if her X dated a family member lol
😂
The 3rd cute woman came across a bit controlling 😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂
Wait until you're legally married, especially if it's with a foreigner!
People😂 lessem how this girls think they say heart soul ecc we in the west are so fuked is not even funny if you go lessen to youtube interview in the west 😂