Who Makes the Final Decision - YOU or HIM?

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  • @joecina559
    @joecina559 2 місяці тому +7

    Another great video!

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      Wow Joe! Thank you so much! That’s very generous and kind of you, thank you.

  • @TheFuentesFamily
    @TheFuentesFamily  2 місяці тому +11

    Please Like and Comment Guys; much appreciated!!! ❤

  • @garrieWalker
    @garrieWalker 2 місяці тому +1

    Hi Dear friends Johnny & Lorie, thanks for a brilliant vlog, it is so nice to see Lorie's lovely smile and great to see you are back and safe as well............. Have a wonderful week.............. Garrie chan

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      Aww, you’re welcome Garrie! Yeah, we are safe. Thank you Garrie and have a wonderful week too😊!

  • @primalpassion
    @primalpassion 2 місяці тому +19

    If a woman loves a man, she will follow his lead. This doesn't mean a man isn't going to let her make decisions, or choices, but that the woman feels safe and secure with her man. Good thing there is still Province girls! I want a stay at home wife who will tend to the house and children, while I build, fix, work and provide for the family. And the best part about this blue-print is the whole family will be together everyday joining in all the fun homestead life-style. cheers from the US!

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому +4

      That’s beautiful Primal! Thank you for sharing that😊.

    • @primalpassion
      @primalpassion 2 місяці тому +3

      @@TheFuentesFamYT NP, thank you for your content.

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому +3

      @@primalpassion you’re welcome!

  • @valharris9346
    @valharris9346 2 місяці тому +1

    Many thanks for this video!

  • @moderndaydrifter4672
    @moderndaydrifter4672 2 місяці тому +2

    Great topic. Thank you for your hard work in bringing these videos to us.

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому +1

      Aww, thank you so much Modern Day Drifter😊. We really appreciate your support and you’re always very kind to us! Hope you’re doing well!

  • @travels129
    @travels129 2 місяці тому +3

    BEST SHOW ON THE TUBE 😊

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      Aww, thank you Travels👍🏼.

    • @Phil4me-p1i
      @Phil4me-p1i 24 дні тому

      Indeed! fresh content well thought out.

  • @bryanlonger8646
    @bryanlonger8646 2 місяці тому +1

    Good job team

  • @amazonseller-yf8vv
    @amazonseller-yf8vv Місяць тому +3

    Very interesting and exciting video as always!!! However I think it's a huge problem when the woman says she wants the relatonship to be 50/50 but still wants the man to 100% financially responsible, it's never fair to give somone responsiblity without autority to make the decions that come with that responsiblity. Women can choose to be modern or traditonal, most western men have absolutely no problem with that, however we have a massive problem with women picking and choosing which only the circumstnaces that suit them best and leaving the man with whatever is left.

    • @TheFuentesFamily
      @TheFuentesFamily  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts amazonseller ☺️!

  • @cedricnash7735
    @cedricnash7735 2 місяці тому +3

    The Fuentes Family Your content is excellent Our relationship should be a 100 a hundoubtedly.Everybody should have a say so.In the relationship with the regards of what the situation is everything should be Disgusted that way everybody has to say so what's going on When you told the girl that she smell expensive You are so funny.I love how you interview.You have mastered the interview process I can't wait to your next video.Cause you always get great video My name is cedric nash i'm your number one fan

    • @jimbohi3648
      @jimbohi3648 2 місяці тому

      As a western guy I was looking for a conservative and traditional wife but not submissive. Whoever has the most knowledge about a situation should make the decision. My wife and I talked about it come to a decision and we both end up laughing and kissing and kissing I love it

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому +1

      Welcome back Cedric! Thank you so much. We really appreciate all the kind words😊. Hopefully you’re doing well 👍🏼.

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      ⁠@@jimbohi3648 OMG Jimbo😳 hahahahaha. We are very happy for you and your wife, very blessed👍🏼.

  • @jm01009
    @jm01009 Місяць тому +1

    A relationship should be a partnership, where both people are equally invested. When one person dominates or tries to control everything, it creates an imbalance. It's important that both individuals share responsibility, and not fall into roles where manipulation or superiority is at play.👍👍

  • @StevieB-123
    @StevieB-123 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello Lorie,
    Another great line of questions. It was very nice to see a couple, even dressed alike. You could feel the love. I wish them the best. I am going to find a map on the internet to see exactly where Goa and Naga City are...close to each other? Glad to see that you and your family are well.
    Steve 😊

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Steve! My family and I are well😊. We have the same thought! They even look very cute together with those outfits. I would say it will take 2 hours to drive from Naga City to Goa.

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      Please email us Steve thefuentesfamilychannel@gmail.com

  • @robbleeker4777
    @robbleeker4777 2 місяці тому +1

    There can only be one captain on a ship, I reckon.

  • @maplesyrupphilosopher6886
    @maplesyrupphilosopher6886 2 місяці тому +1

    You got this poor guy fighting for his relationship out here 🤣

  • @nikumimito3164
    @nikumimito3164 2 місяці тому +3

    Your hands are quick, that wind almost gave up a treat. I think most men from the west that come to places like PH just want women that are more easily approachable and aggreable, they are becoming harder to deal with here.

  • @bluesart7
    @bluesart7 2 місяці тому +1

    Very nice interviews and great subject guys, and you had a nearly proposal too, well sort of😉Very nice young couple, seem very well suited together. Thanks for the hard work you do. Take care and God Bless family😊👍👍

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      OMG you are definitely right Blue HAHAHAAHHAAH. They are the cutest!
      Thank you Blue and take care too😊!

  • @Billy_B_Goat
    @Billy_B_Goat 2 місяці тому +4

    I would only accept a submissive partner. I would also seriously consider her point of view on almost all matters. Particularly regarding financial matters within the country, the Filipina partner would be my family and cultural ambassador, as such I would count on her assessment of things to ensure I have a proper perspective before making any decision. Furthermore, as I make financial investments I would need her to gain full understanding and acquire the necessary skills in order to properly manage the assets when time comes for her to lead due to age. At least that is my vision and intention. But you know what they say: The best laid plans of mice and men.
    Lorie, I have really been enjoying a deep dive of you video catalog recently. You and John have a wonderful Channel. Peace and Love, B Goat

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      Aww, thank you Billy😊. That means a lot to us! You actually just made our morning more beautiful, thank you 😊!

    • @Billy_B_Goat
      @Billy_B_Goat 2 місяці тому +1

      @@TheFuentesFamYT Lorie, I heard Naga City is experiencing flooding from all the storms. How is it trying to get around in the City and Province.... hope you guys made out OK. B Goat

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      @@Billy_B_Goat we’re good, thank you Billy. The flooding in Naga has finally subsided but the dust are crazy! You definitely need to wear face mask, especially if you’re visiting the public market, plaza rizal and other places.

  • @PapemangonéSambe
    @PapemangonéSambe 2 місяці тому +2

    Good morning

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      Good morning! Welcome to the channel😊!

  • @Bill_pierre
    @Bill_pierre 2 місяці тому +2

    Strong, confident women is where it's at. If you want a spouse that's afraid to speak their mind; you need counseling. If it works for both of you, though, then hey, go for it. I want a partner, a teammate, not a slave.

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      You just made me laugh with "counseling"😂.

  • @chrisgoeswest9882
    @chrisgoeswest9882 2 місяці тому +2

    I especially liked the couple interview. Personally I don't think "submissive" is really the right word from what I have observed. Non-confrontational, cooperative, respectful, yes, but "submissive" suggests someone who doesn't have an opinion or contribute to the couple's decision-making. Not only does that seem uncommon, I think any foreign guy who is looking for that is making a big mistake. Most of us arrive without a clue about what's going on or how to do anything. Better to listen carefully to your "better half."

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому +1

      I like the "respectful". Thank you Chris for sharing that👍🏼.

  • @thewaysofnature
    @thewaysofnature Місяць тому +1

    Your videos are really great. But they are so short.

  • @dominicurso691
    @dominicurso691 Місяць тому

    Please let Kristine know…l love her. 😊😂❤

  • @craigschuler7368
    @craigschuler7368 2 місяці тому +5

    I wear the pants in my family...The wife just tells me which pair to wear!

  • @Loigis
    @Loigis 2 місяці тому +1

    MAN🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for stopping by Liam👍🏼.

  • @angryhd2976
    @angryhd2976 2 місяці тому +5

    I’m the man of the house. I will make the final decisions that being said, most of the time I will defer to my wife unless it’s something I feel it’s very serious and impactful to our quality of life.

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts👍🏼.

  • @budphillips8235
    @budphillips8235 2 місяці тому +1

    I believe in 50/50 I don't want to see my Inday stress or struggle so I will make an executive call

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому +1

      Why is every time you say Inday, I’m smiling? That’s like the cutest! Your Inday is very lucky to have you and we are wishing you the best guys!

  • @thegrumchronicles3558
    @thegrumchronicles3558 2 місяці тому +7

    So many western women criticize men who say they want a "traditional" relationship. I can't speak for anyone else but when I say Traditional I am referring to gender roles and whether or not they are conservative. I don't want a submissive woman so much as a woman who respects me, but more importantly she respects herself. Part of respecting yourself is voicing your opinion. Relationships should be 50/50 on decision making , however the partner with the most experience on the decision should have more influence on the outcome.

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      Wow William! Thank you for sharing your opinion 👍🏼.

    • @Dennis_Heaton
      @Dennis_Heaton Місяць тому

      Well put, I think this goes for most men from the west.

  • @jimbohi3648
    @jimbohi3648 2 місяці тому +5

    I am a western guy that wanted a conservative traditional wife but not submissive. When it comes to decisions Whoever has the most knowledge about it should be the one to decide. With my wife we talked about it we end up laughing and kissing I love it

  • @TERMICOBRA
    @TERMICOBRA 2 місяці тому +1

    I wouldn't want a submissive wife but I'm younger (GenX) than the typical baby boomer retiree.

  • @mrknesiah
    @mrknesiah 2 місяці тому

    usually women who are sexually submissive are relationally dominant and vice versa

  • @RT038
    @RT038 2 місяці тому +1

    I like this channel I have been dating a fillipino for over a 1 year now. 50 _50 on the desion

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much😊. That sounds like you can really help both of you feel valued and heard.

  • @kalasatwater2224
    @kalasatwater2224 2 місяці тому +1

    Is teamwork

  • @joecina559
    @joecina559 2 місяці тому +6

    Biblical submission allows a wife to confidently follow her husband’s lead. And Ephesians 5:23 makes it clear that a man does have responsibility for leadership in his home. But again, it’s only as a leader that his wife submits to him - not as a tyrant or her superior.

    • @joecina559
      @joecina559 2 місяці тому +3

      That said, leadership doesn’t give a husband the right to rob his wife of being a unique individual. He doesn’t get to disregard or mock her opinions and feelings. And he should never misuse leadership to get his own way. So when Paul writes “wives submit to your husbands” this is not a permission for husbands to abuse or misuse their role.

    • @TheFuentesFamYT
      @TheFuentesFamYT 2 місяці тому +1

      @@joecina559 this is beautiful Joe. Very informative. Thank you so much for sharing this and God bless you more😊.

  • @ismethoxha6882
    @ismethoxha6882 Місяць тому

    Man should be leader in the house ,cause man pays the bills.