Dark Psychology "FACTS" Are Definitely Not Toxic

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  • @vennox_3
    @vennox_3 7 місяців тому +2055

    Dark Psychology 101 :
    - gaslight
    - that's it babe

    • @vennox_3
      @vennox_3 7 місяців тому +6

      @ville__ I hope he sees it 😂

    • @MushBunny
      @MushBunny 7 місяців тому +1

      Gaslighting’s not real, you’re just crazy

    • @eKko0
      @eKko0 7 місяців тому +5

      i dont think thats it at all

    • @emilybriones8003
      @emilybriones8003 6 місяців тому +3

      Me with a voice recorder: 👁👄👁

  • @reflectedpuddle
    @reflectedpuddle 7 місяців тому +2268

    dark psychology tiktok kinda just feels like the girl equivalent of alpha tiktoks

    • @loganmorningstar9122
      @loganmorningstar9122 7 місяців тому +74

      Please help, this is making me laugh.

    • @neff6185
      @neff6185 7 місяців тому +122

      no fr the alpha dating coaches talk about the exact same psychological manipulation tactics but with different wording 😭🙏

    • @kyatonic1
      @kyatonic1 2 місяці тому +7

      That’s wild I didn’t even think of it that way but that’s spot on

  • @imnotlelo
    @imnotlelo 7 місяців тому +1192

    Dark psychology sounds like it should be the name of a metal band

    • @Ich-Existiere-Nicht
      @Ich-Existiere-Nicht 7 місяців тому +104

      Can't wait for their new album. "Gaslight" and "Girlboss girlfriend" are my favorite songs

    • @imnotlelo
      @imnotlelo 7 місяців тому +52

      @@Ich-Existiere-Nicht I personally love “gatekeep”

    • @Ich-Existiere-Nicht
      @Ich-Existiere-Nicht 7 місяців тому +35

      @@imnotlelo Sorry but I have to respectfully disagree. The lyrics could have been written by a 3 year old.

    • @imnotlelo
      @imnotlelo 7 місяців тому +41

      @@Ich-Existiere-Nicht that’s an insane take, you’re clearly unwell, hope you recover

    • @Sweetie.pie13
      @Sweetie.pie13 7 місяців тому +5

      😂😂

  • @ifrahuwu2720
    @ifrahuwu2720 7 місяців тому +587

    as someone who studies psychology, this is just venturing deep into delulu land

    • @teeth789
      @teeth789 7 місяців тому +33

      as someone who also studies psychology, using actual delusions as a funny lol internet word is disrespectful tbh

    • @labyrinth4799
      @labyrinth4799 7 місяців тому +69

      ​@@teeth789 as someone else who studies psychology
      Lighten the f'ck up bro

    • @LesbianArgenti
      @LesbianArgenti 7 місяців тому

      @@labyrinth4799watering down delusions to some silly quirk is just … kinda odd

    • @lecapitaineisonyoutoob
      @lecapitaineisonyoutoob 7 місяців тому +11

      As someone who doesn't study psychology, "stop using your speech to criticise speech" is, well, LMAO.

    • @doodlebugwahoo
      @doodlebugwahoo 7 місяців тому +31

      @@labyrinth4799 as someone who experiences delusions, people saying "delulu" has made it increasingly more difficult to explain to others what goes on when all they can imagine is "delusional = madly in love with somebody" or something similar. /lh

  • @Gwenpoolthegoat
    @Gwenpoolthegoat 7 місяців тому +1452

    When tiktok gets banned ray will be the happiest man alive.

    • @Louca-pv9ne
      @Louca-pv9ne 7 місяців тому +48

      he wouldnt have any content anymore

    • @Gwenpoolthegoat
      @Gwenpoolthegoat 7 місяців тому +53

      @@Louca-pv9ne I'm sure there's a lot more things he can commentate on

    • @imnotlelo
      @imnotlelo 7 місяців тому +25

      @@Louca-pv9nehe could always go on tumblr

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +430

      instagram reels will be even more trauma

    • @Gwenpoolthegoat
      @Gwenpoolthegoat 7 місяців тому +21

      @@RayLikeSunshine well it's just kids calling eachother slurs better than Adults manulpating eachother

  • @s4ltenj0y3r
    @s4ltenj0y3r 7 місяців тому +628

    when I say im into psychology this isn't what I mean

    • @Treehome_95
      @Treehome_95 7 місяців тому +24

      its sad that theres people out there that would probably assune thats what you mean

    • @Widdekuu91
      @Widdekuu91 7 місяців тому +13

      My exboyfriend told me he was into psychology and taught me everything he knew from pickup-douchebaggery.
      And then proceeded to gaslight me with the same 'psychology' methods, which every now and then, I recognised and called him out for.
      It was weird...at some point I didn't even know who he was anymore. It was like he was turning 180 degrees every day, suddenly deciding on new hobby's, new characteristics, always played devil's advocate but became furious and paranoid whenever I politely disagreed on something, telling me I was 'not supporting him' and accusing me of thinking he was a disappointment.
      I've started learning more about Alcohol Fetal Syndrome and recognised his mannerisms, which makes sense, since he was accidentally conceived while his mother was excessively drinking in a loveless marriage, so I understand he was troubled and all.
      But this whole experience messed me up as well. Luckily I shedded most of the 'psychology' knowledge and I recognise the pickupartists now, so I can call them out the moment they enter the room and tell me my dress is lovely but if I lost 2 kg it would fit me beautifully.

    • @Thealmightysanchez
      @Thealmightysanchez 7 місяців тому

      You’re into Pyschology too? You keep your hands off her, she’s mine!

    • @CandyThePuppy
      @CandyThePuppy 6 місяців тому

      Same.

    • @CandyThePuppy
      @CandyThePuppy 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Widdekuu91 wow.. glad you were able to dodge that bullet before it got too serious

  • @peachy_lili
    @peachy_lili 7 місяців тому +742

    yeah idk who needs to hear this but "dark empaths" are not a f*cking thing.
    you either have a sense of empathy and social awareness, or you don't. what you choose to do with it may make you a jerk but it doesn't make you a "dark" anything. ppl need to stop giving cute names to every new a-hole behavior like it's some special personality quirk.

    • @theresidentialrat
      @theresidentialrat 7 місяців тому +63

      exactly! also important to know some autistic people may struggle with social awareness and empathy but they’re not trying to be an ass about it, it’s how their brain works

    • @catsncrows
      @catsncrows 7 місяців тому +49

      The minute I hear someone describe themselves as an empath I gtfo as fast as I can. I've met a few who did so and they were toxic as all get out.

    • @neff6185
      @neff6185 7 місяців тому +27

      I feel like if you need to advertise yourself with names like that I’m not to going to take it at face value unlike people who are just genuinely empathetic. It’s like people who go around saying “I’m so nice blah blah” if you were I don’t think you’d have to go around telling people all the time bro 😭

    • @KM-ld9ln
      @KM-ld9ln 7 місяців тому +31

      @@catsncrowsI hate how much the word has changed in the past 5-10 years. I used to be proud of how empathetic I was & related to the term empath, but now it’s seen as cringe and toxic. I’m still proud to be empathetic but I’ll never say I’m an empath 😀

    • @_StrayKidsForever_
      @_StrayKidsForever_ 6 місяців тому

      It’s not quirky, seriously my brother has it and it’s scary sometimes. And I don’t feel any empathy either

  • @Dixiedingo_LBB
    @Dixiedingo_LBB 7 місяців тому +334

    The cringiest part is easily the fact that humans aren't uniform. That's why body language can't really be "studied," as different people display or subdue dominance in different ways. So none of these facts are as universal as they make themselves out to be.

    • @SoManyRandomRamblings
      @SoManyRandomRamblings 7 місяців тому +32

      Exactly and anyone who wants their bidy langue reading to be accurate needs to already know the normal patterns of that person to note significant deviations...so without a well informed baseline it is all just guessing.

    • @jewels3846
      @jewels3846 5 місяців тому +19

      As a neurodivergent person so often the "body language" people demonize is also just neurodivergent behaviour which has terrified the eff out of me of being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Especially those channels that analyze true crime stuff and interrogations. It feels so diagusting and just furthers stigma when like you said a proper analysis would need a larger time period and more in-depth knowledge of the person to tell if their body language actually is telling of anything.

    • @Saje3D
      @Saje3D 24 дні тому +1

      @@jewels3846Yeah. I don’t like armchair telepaths trying to tell me how I feel.

  • @NightWingtheF-22
    @NightWingtheF-22 7 місяців тому +1838

    You left the light side of the internet a looong time ago.
    Edit: Thank you all for the likes.

    • @luckymellon7812
      @luckymellon7812 7 місяців тому +19

      @ville__boo tomatoes

    • @Lana_Bo_Bana
      @Lana_Bo_Bana 7 місяців тому +20

      @ville__ oh god, the bots have found ray

    • @5ome5tranger
      @5ome5tranger 7 місяців тому

      pinterest!!

    • @stephe1506
      @stephe1506 7 місяців тому +7

      ​@@Lana_Bo_BanaI miss five seconds ago when I hadn't looked at your profile picture 😂

    • @unfunnyducky
      @unfunnyducky 7 місяців тому

      @ville__Are you really so bored that you feel the need to associate yourself with these brainless "UTTP" people? Please, for the love of whatever created the universe, go outside, and touch a vegetation consisting of typically short plants with long, narrow leaves, growing wild or cultivated on lawns and pasture, and as a fodder crop.

  • @chronicallyunsupervised
    @chronicallyunsupervised 7 місяців тому +584

    I die every time someone uses Dazai as a background for these cringey aah facts as if he wouldnt laugh at them

    • @chansfeet2500
      @chansfeet2500 7 місяців тому +83

      Fr, bro would probably be watching brainrot on TikTok, and if he saw "Dark Psychology" he'd simply be amused.

    • @JayCarraway
      @JayCarraway 7 місяців тому +18

      REAL

    • @Crxmsxnn
      @Crxmsxnn 7 місяців тому +10

      lmao same

    • @Shiyumi7
      @Shiyumi7 6 місяців тому +14

      Bsd fandom is the death of me

    • @akshatharao5688
      @akshatharao5688 4 місяці тому +6

      Frr😭😭

  • @artzistired
    @artzistired 7 місяців тому +222

    some of these are actual psychology tricks just turned into stupid “dark” “manipulative” shit, like the “pretend you’re a friend giving yourself advice” thing can be applied when you have issues with self deprecating thoughts. example, instead of beating yourself up over a problem, pretend your friend has that same problem and act like you’re giving them advice. as someone really interested in psychology it is PAINFUL to watch people spread all of these ideas and give psychology a bad name 😭

  • @karakask5488
    @karakask5488 7 місяців тому +233

    TikTok ban sounding better everyday

    • @muwuriel8231
      @muwuriel8231 7 місяців тому +14

      I saw most of these on pinterest like 5 years ago when there’s a will there’s a way with these people

    • @BrrmBrrmm
      @BrrmBrrmm 7 місяців тому

      @@muwuriel8231I keep seeing you everywhere I swear like once in a blue moon

  • @yeti_rex07
    @yeti_rex07 5 місяців тому +42

    Dark psychology is basically just the adult equivalent of "if he's mean to you that means he likes you"

  • @themensoguidetowar
    @themensoguidetowar 7 місяців тому +225

    My future self doesn't have advice. He just complains about back pain.

    • @CandyThePuppy
      @CandyThePuppy 6 місяців тому +2

      Has your future self tried stretching daily?

  • @orsolyaagoston1425
    @orsolyaagoston1425 7 місяців тому +215

    "for those who are still taking finals, go study. why are you still here??" that was a bit TOO personal, ray

  • @ginger167
    @ginger167 7 місяців тому +162

    Bro trying to Pavlov's dog us😭

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +48

      BING BONG

    • @SoManyRandomRamblings
      @SoManyRandomRamblings 7 місяців тому +6

      Skinner was the zap the rat to teach something is negative.

    • @lVlegabyte
      @lVlegabyte 7 місяців тому +16

      Hey do you think that Pavlov felt an urge to feed his dogs when he heard a bell ring?

    • @SoManyRandomRamblings
      @SoManyRandomRamblings 7 місяців тому +3

      @@lVlegabyte that would be hilarious if he also programmed himself. Lol

    • @crocodillian9486
      @crocodillian9486 21 день тому

      😭😭

  • @Aej_o
    @Aej_o 7 місяців тому +276

    Bro thanks for the manipulation tips dawg. Gonna manipulate my crush into liking me

    • @justaghostinthesea
      @justaghostinthesea 7 місяців тому

      You fool. I'm going to manipulate the stock market into my bank account

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +107

      surprise, i'm your crush

    • @Jasmitha-dq1fh
      @Jasmitha-dq1fh 7 місяців тому +36

      ​@@RayLikeSunshinenow that's just gaslighting, sunshine.

    • @rissak919
      @rissak919 7 місяців тому +34

      Misread as “manipulate my couch to like me” and honestly that made just as much sense

    • @never_360
      @never_360 7 місяців тому

      i hope you know that most of these won’t work…?

  • @starlesspaw
    @starlesspaw 7 місяців тому +93

    fun fact the line “wherefore art thou romeo” actually translates to something closer to “why/for what reason are you romeo?” not relating to location, but to the fact that he’s someone she’s not supposed to be with

    • @conspiracypanda1200
      @conspiracypanda1200 7 місяців тому +22

      To translate to current taste, it would be: "Damn bro, y u gotta be related to thos guys?? I just wanna love you without problems!!! 😭😭😭"

    • @susanfalco4252
      @susanfalco4252 4 місяці тому +1

      Gold star! ⭐️ thx for the faith in humanity.

  • @thatcrazyallycookie6118
    @thatcrazyallycookie6118 7 місяців тому +125

    But Ray, if I can't gaslight how can I gatekeep or girlboss?

  • @AwkwarddFoxx
    @AwkwarddFoxx 7 місяців тому +47

    true dark psychology is when you go see a psychologist at nighttime

  • @cookiethethird572
    @cookiethethird572 7 місяців тому +46

    Btw, even if I already had a raging crush on you, the moment I hear you say "I'm not looking for a relationship right now" is the moment where I'll resign myself to eternal pining because for me that's putting up boundaries and if I care about you then I will do my best to respect those boundaries. So saying that when you want to seduce someone is like shooting yourself in the foot.

    • @worm2976
      @worm2976 7 місяців тому

      It's the revival of the "if u wanna get laid play hard to get" 😅

    • @BrrmBrrmm
      @BrrmBrrmm 7 місяців тому +10

      Dude seriously. Anyone that’s a basic human being shouldn’t feel the need to persist beyond that. I’ve never understood all the rage of “the chase” bro just leave them alone💀💀💀💀

    • @-Est3lle-
      @-Est3lle- 6 місяців тому +2

      I agree.

    • @rebeccahicks2392
      @rebeccahicks2392 5 місяців тому +3

      Yeah, there's two possible scenarios. Either (1) I'm interested in/have a crush on/am into you, or (2) I'm not. If it's 1, no manipulation was needed, just ask me out. If it's 2, saying you're not interested will do nothing, my response will just be "ok."

  • @Fruitflavoredtea
    @Fruitflavoredtea 7 місяців тому +59

    The whole "future self" insanity was just telling you to step away from the situation with more steps

  • @Silly_35
    @Silly_35 2 місяці тому +6

    8:17 this isn’t how I wanted to see bsd mentioned In my favorite UA-camr’s video, but here we are

  • @studywithselene5490
    @studywithselene5490 7 місяців тому +92

    Ah, yes "psychologist said" 😌 as a psychology major I can confirm these are what we learn after 4 years of education 🤭

    • @ashabrook9846
      @ashabrook9846 7 місяців тому +5

      yes clearly i will be failing my degree as i do not remember these modules

    • @champiggyfrm_pig5271
      @champiggyfrm_pig5271 4 дні тому

      If you don't even remember about dark empaths then I hope you both failed your degree

  • @EnzymeEnder
    @EnzymeEnder 7 місяців тому +28

    The thing with the "give yourself advice like as you were your friend" isnt that bad though and helped me a lot in the past. Especially if its a head and heart conflict it can really help to think about it from an outside perspective for a while.

  • @BLUEISBAAACK
    @BLUEISBAAACK 7 місяців тому +54

    "Welcome to The light side of the internet". Ray, are you sure about That? 💀

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +19

      everyday we stray futher from the light

  • @themindelectrified
    @themindelectrified 7 місяців тому +59

    the chat gpt tiktok being like “distance yourself from your actions” doesn’t experience DPDR or cognitive dissonance between their actions and themselves has absolutely like no idea how Scary it is because sure after at some point you’re like “oh yeah that was just me” but it’s genuinely horrifying to go back home from a social function and feel like you don’t know who was talking like horrible advice even if it was AI generated

    • @daybreak_ofc
      @daybreak_ofc 7 місяців тому +2

      no literally, i was in a year long episode of derealization before and it was terrifying. i didn't know if i was dead, alive, in limbo, if i was even me, like-

    • @l.u.n.e
      @l.u.n.e 7 місяців тому +5

      whats dpdr? my brain keeps reading it as dupaul dragrace 😢

    • @fadeuhhway
      @fadeuhhway 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@l.u.n.e its depersonalization/derealization. It's dissociative disorders that affect how you feel in relation to your surroundings and your body: i.e, I experience depersonalization and constantly feel like I'm dreaming/not awake, which can be very confusing and hard to stay grounded. It can literally feel like you're floating outside yourself, and that's only one part of it

    • @l.u.n.e
      @l.u.n.e 7 місяців тому

      @@fadeuhhway oh i see! tysm for the explanation, have a good day 🤠

  • @onlyanuli
    @onlyanuli 7 місяців тому +79

    HOW TO WIN YOUR EX BACK
    -block them

    • @neff6185
      @neff6185 7 місяців тому +17

      how to make you ex jealous
      - move on and be happy in your life without obsessing over them

  • @puttingmyphoneoncharge
    @puttingmyphoneoncharge 7 місяців тому +28

    that girl said a whole lot of words just to essentially say play hard to get like how is this "dark psychology"? and to a stranger? your boss? has anyone told her this is real life and not AO3

    • @-Est3lle-
      @-Est3lle- 6 місяців тому +3

      Nah not even ao3. It's Wattpad.

  • @Pepper-sg5rc
    @Pepper-sg5rc 7 місяців тому +51

    8:50 if people on the internet are talking about journaling, i’m not gonna critique anything lol. we need to make journaling in private more popular than word vomiting online

    • @andiskene7346
      @andiskene7346 7 місяців тому +3

      I just started reading the intro to Meditations by Marcus Aurelius and according to the translator Meditations was just a journal of advice from Marcus Aurelius to Marcus Aurelius...

  • @frankie9373
    @frankie9373 7 місяців тому +40

    I remember around 2012 when stuff like those tips were on youtube and all of us 12 yos thought it was legit and were the absolutely most toxic people to each other for like half a year
    seeing young adults spout this shit is something else tho

  • @yourluckynumber7
    @yourluckynumber7 7 місяців тому +43

    the teams sound effect at the end was so evil 💀💀💀💀💀

  • @mintkira
    @mintkira 7 місяців тому +16

    appreciated the pavlov joke, i'm always amazing by how humorous your scriptwriting is lol

  • @kateemma22
    @kateemma22 7 місяців тому +10

    Great, I just spent 14 minutes being emotionally blackmailed and slowly turned into Pavlov's dog! THIS ISN'T LIGHT AT ALL, RAY! RAY, I'M SCARED.

  • @advocacynaccountablity
    @advocacynaccountablity 7 місяців тому +28

    "Dark Psychology" = "How to be an idiot"

  • @hollyshackzalez3449
    @hollyshackzalez3449 7 місяців тому +8

    “Find another girlfriend, settle down, have kids, grow old… to get back with your ex”
    It worked for Ted Mosby

  • @susanfalco4252
    @susanfalco4252 4 місяці тому +5

    “The best way to solve a problem is to get an objective opinion” = that’s literally what therapy is. Because you’re you. Objective opinion = from the perspective of someone who is not you. Literally any other person. Your imaginary friend, so sorry, is still you. Because you imagined them.

  • @miraachraf5692
    @miraachraf5692 2 місяці тому +3

    5:51 in Kdrama « you’re not my type » and they will end up together at the end 😅

  • @Coffee4Life117
    @Coffee4Life117 7 місяців тому +11

    I had to check multiple times throughout this video just to see if already had liked it, cause man this is some good sht right here

  • @Myprettybackyard
    @Myprettybackyard 7 місяців тому +20

    I don’t share videos often but yours I have multiple times you’re so underrated love them ray

  • @S_Kirahhh
    @S_Kirahhh 7 місяців тому +16

    12:02 LANDO NORRISSSSSSSSSS
    I had to ok (gotta love him).

  • @adudeandhisdog23
    @adudeandhisdog23 Місяць тому +3

    8:06 Pavlov's dogs and classical conditioning

  • @iiiiitsaurum
    @iiiiitsaurum 2 місяці тому +1

    3:01 THAT’S LITERALLY JUST THE PLOT OF ANY DRAMA SHOW ABOUT HIGH SCHOOL! OR JUST ANY DRAMA!!

  • @hsimah5921
    @hsimah5921 7 місяців тому +7

    almost 100K Ray. good on you dude!

  • @lauscrazylife
    @lauscrazylife 7 місяців тому +6

    I've been literally binge watching all of your videos, keep up the good work!

  • @inogyuii
    @inogyuii 7 місяців тому +31

    RAY ABOUT TO HIT 100K?!?!

  • @jnicasio
    @jnicasio 7 місяців тому +5

    Wao such psychology. These people should get published in academic journals!

  • @CelesteMinerva
    @CelesteMinerva 7 місяців тому +4

    Yassss Ray to help me make it through my mountain of backed up chores!

  • @akirahyrule2157
    @akirahyrule2157 3 місяці тому +2

    You referenced Pavlov’s dogs! His experiment involved ringing a bell before feeding dogs. Eventually they were conditioned to get hungry whenever they heard the bell ringing.
    Plus, half of these traits I have. Because I’m probably just autistic. They’re stupid. Every human brain functions differently, so these are mostly inapplicable. Like, case in point-my bosses are over ten years older than me and I’m a minor. That’s illegal.

  • @novibesclub
    @novibesclub 7 місяців тому +3

    I don't usually comment on a lot of videos, but watching you has inspired me to become a youtuber more and more. Congratulations on hitting 100k. I hope you have many more people watching your videos. You're also funny as hell and keep up the good work. Lots of love from Africa

  • @Philbrey
    @Philbrey 7 місяців тому +4

    Absolutely loving this channel!

  • @kavya12kohli
    @kavya12kohli 7 місяців тому +6

    7:20 Thumbs are a symbol of domination? What? How? Why? Am I just too dumb to understand this?

  • @the_spanish_inquisition_monty
    @the_spanish_inquisition_monty 6 місяців тому +3

    6:31 Jason grace Frfr (I’m losing my sanity)

  • @Chuuxa.
    @Chuuxa. Місяць тому +2

    8:17 THEY GOT DAZAI..

  • @carolrampasso1813
    @carolrampasso1813 7 місяців тому +4

    I always love when gringos use our Nazaré Tedesco meme ❤ great vid as always Ray

  • @bropoke6799
    @bropoke6799 Місяць тому +1

    Anytime someone says they know a, "psychology trick," just assume theyre talking out of their ass. Psychologists dont recommend manipulation or assuming things about people based only on body language. The "dark psychology" shit feels like a fashion magazine article

  • @brookesstuffz3111
    @brookesstuffz3111 7 місяців тому +13

    More like the GASlight side of the internet

  • @Ebiru2387
    @Ebiru2387 4 місяці тому

    Lol i love the blunt humor. Something about your delivery makes it unique. I love it.

  • @aria_3810
    @aria_3810 7 місяців тому +9

    8:17 NOT DAZAI OH GOD PLEASE NO 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @iyasuvalentine
    @iyasuvalentine 22 дні тому +1

    8:17 WHY US DAZAI THERE HELPPPPPPPP

  • @GodofPainBelial
    @GodofPainBelial 2 місяці тому +1

    You just got yourself a new subscriber because you are fucking hilarious. literally laughing out loud.

  • @MikiNataka
    @MikiNataka 4 місяці тому +2

    That teams message sound at the end was so upsetting and I will never forgive you 😂

  • @tiktoksfromkenna
    @tiktoksfromkenna 7 місяців тому +11

    the dark manipulative facts are scary…

  • @gn4rpz-the-c4t
    @gn4rpz-the-c4t 3 місяці тому +3

    the "you might be a dark empath" shit just seems like a cuter and prettier way to demonise people with mental illnesses than outright saying "this undesirable behaviour means youre a narcissist :)

  • @EdrickBluebeard
    @EdrickBluebeard 5 місяців тому +1

    ...this reminds me of books on "spells" from the 90s Wicca crowd- "spells to get back at your ex," and all that.

  • @justme-qd6qb
    @justme-qd6qb 7 місяців тому +2

    The weird thing is is that even if some of these tips would work, that most would only work on people who are... Questionable in the first place.
    Like if telling someone youre not interested in them makes them actively persue you, that means theyre someone who doesnt respect boundaries. Not a great partner choice if you tell me.
    If ignoring your ex (yk like healthy self respecting behaviour) would make them want you more and get back with you that means that your attention is more important to them than you as a person (besides, it totally ignores the reason you broke up in the first place) which again is not a great long time partner.

  • @MayMOOn-ns5ed
    @MayMOOn-ns5ed Місяць тому +3

    8:17! BSD!

  • @bonbons71
    @bonbons71 7 місяців тому +3

    DUDE YOURE GONNA HIT 100K SOON OMG THATS CRAZY

  • @clau83938
    @clau83938 7 місяців тому +2

    Dang you’re growing so fast! Definitely deserve it 🎉

  • @rushdude90
    @rushdude90 Місяць тому

    Man, kudos on the Teams pings. I'm not at work, but each time it happened, I felt my blood pressure spike.

  • @VTPPGLVR
    @VTPPGLVR 6 місяців тому +1

    9:03
    That *is* something my parents would do when I would be in depression/anxiety spirals and I would voice negative self-talk.
    “what if *one of my BFFs* said that? What would you tell her?”
    Taking a step back, even mentally, can be useful sometimes

  • @PerihelionmQQn
    @PerihelionmQQn 2 місяці тому +1

    This reminds me of this friend I briefly had in 2018 who was into neo-paganism witchcraft kinda shit and thought he was ✨mysterious✨ and briefly added me to this group he was in on FB called "Red Witchcraft" which was just a group of people doing these gaslighting/manipulation tactics plus "spells" to try to obtain a partner for love/money. I remember him telling me the group was "super secret." LMAO

  • @soliferi
    @soliferi 7 місяців тому +1

    "correct button mash combo" is the most accurate way to describe manipulation ive ever heard.

  • @loveflamingos721
    @loveflamingos721 6 місяців тому +1

    Lando standing there in the hospital room at 12:01 😂😂

  • @oscarguzman3017
    @oscarguzman3017 7 місяців тому +9

    I personally like to let people interrupt so that they can know it's okay to do with me so that I might be able to make a point in the middle of something they were talking about. I think it's an important thing to do because I don't think people can really feel invested in a conversation if they never get to speak. When I don't get to participate in a conversation (if it's 3 or more people), I just go on my phone. Unless I don't know everyone very well, where I'm fine to just spectate. 😅

  • @Whimsical_Gnome
    @Whimsical_Gnome 7 місяців тому +2

    Almost at 100k! Happy to be here from the beginning

  • @gulgul877
    @gulgul877 7 місяців тому

    i love that all of your characters are always holding a microphone no matter what they are doing

  • @NebbyTheProtogen
    @NebbyTheProtogen 7 місяців тому +19

    like how thwy're talking about it like it's some dark and forbidden majjgyickcs

    • @francescobanchini4281
      @francescobanchini4281 4 місяці тому +1

      Yeah you know magic...science...whatever ahahah
      I was expecting a voodoo doll at least

  • @xanatharstudios
    @xanatharstudios 7 місяців тому +5

    I love this channel

  • @0-Sweet-Cloud-0
    @0-Sweet-Cloud-0 7 місяців тому +3

    13:33 you didn't have to call me out like that😅😅

  • @patrickcarney6171
    @patrickcarney6171 2 місяці тому

    Oooh that end of video teams ding got me God damn you

  • @just.agirlllll
    @just.agirlllll 7 місяців тому +4

    ray please come save me from this situation you engineered (wait a minute)

  • @willshifley2982
    @willshifley2982 7 місяців тому +2

    "If they can't cry they are weak," that can't be emotionally healthy

  • @andiskene7346
    @andiskene7346 7 місяців тому +3

    I appreciate the panning to the plants in the intro😂❤

  • @reinapiratayquepaha
    @reinapiratayquepaha 7 місяців тому +5

    As a psychologist, I hate these with a passion

  • @tr.ns_overlord3798
    @tr.ns_overlord3798 7 місяців тому +14

    Dude I was waiting for you to post and in the meanwhile I was trying to find other good male youtubers to watch cause I have noticed I watch only women youtubers and I got ptsd wtf is the male youtube space? Where have you been? I almost lost faith in MANkind ... Anyway happy to see you again love your energy

    • @michellearzu1265
      @michellearzu1265 6 місяців тому

      Uh, now that you mention it, I don't follow many guys either 🤔 There's a guy who does "red flags / green flags" while reading from reddit who's new.
      Cinema Therapy also has guys I like... in case that's useful!

  • @nishithashekar4363
    @nishithashekar4363 7 місяців тому +8

    Wake up bae!!! Raylikesunshine is back!!! 🎉

  • @Harpretedanea
    @Harpretedanea 6 місяців тому

    My new favorite channel!!!

  • @pure.innocence
    @pure.innocence 4 місяці тому

    8:04 ; The experience he's referencing is called the "Pavlov" Theory/Experiment. In which for example, Pavlov showed that dogs could be conditioned to salivate at the sound of a bell if that sound was repeatedly presented at the same time that they were given food.

  • @h6llxw66n
    @h6llxw66n 7 місяців тому +7

    Life lesson:
    Don't take life lessons from TikTok

  • @annegrey3780
    @annegrey3780 7 місяців тому

    Your wit levels are off the charts

  • @madgoat2125
    @madgoat2125 5 місяців тому +2

    Osamu Dazai BSD jumpscare

  • @yourfavoritecurse
    @yourfavoritecurse 2 місяці тому

    Just got spoilers for a show that I like and I'm about to cry perfect time to watch a video I've already watched 5 times 😍🙏

  • @Ayakalyashafira
    @Ayakalyashafira 7 місяців тому +3

    My parents did a lot of dark psychology on me!

  • @MzzDee
    @MzzDee 7 місяців тому

    Ray, you are my ambassador for 'the younger', summarising what's going through the brains of a younger generation, in a way that also redeems my impression your generation 😂

  • @noel3030
    @noel3030 7 місяців тому

    ray you're so close to 100k subscribers!! congrats, love your videos

  • @maauabaio8546
    @maauabaio8546 7 місяців тому +2

    Just came here to say, you are almost at 100 k subscribers!!!!!!!! Congratsssssssssssssss

  • @Skai-f3n
    @Skai-f3n 6 місяців тому +2

    8:17 lol was that dazai???? Mf would 100% create that , he manipulated the whole fandom for a whole ass season ☠️

  • @reagan2797
    @reagan2797 5 місяців тому +1

    "hire someone to attack them and step in to defend them". Fellah If it didn't work for nacho libre it's not going to work for you.

  • @Ahsia_aloo
    @Ahsia_aloo 7 місяців тому +1

    YESSSS U POSTEDDDS