Conservative Dating Gurus Must Be Stopped

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
  • my ig: / itsraylikesunshine
    I wonder how many of these dating gurus actually are in relationships....
    Chapters:
    01:37 : Conservative AND Alpha Male Podcaster
    07:41 : NonLibTake
    10:13 : DateRightStuff

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  • @Ren0ten1
    @Ren0ten1 7 місяців тому +2619

    the chad chad reference was on point

    • @randomstranger9849
      @randomstranger9849 7 місяців тому +83

      7:24

    • @haileysmith3523
      @haileysmith3523 7 місяців тому +64

      Fr I had to rewind to make sure I heard it right

    • @Jadeddoxy
      @Jadeddoxy 7 місяців тому

      Real ​@@haileysmith3523

    • @imliterallynoonelol
      @imliterallynoonelol 7 місяців тому +42

      i got to this part exactly as i was reading your comment 10/10

    • @jacobpedersen8661
      @jacobpedersen8661 6 місяців тому +23

      I had to stop for a second, my brain had to see if I slipped into the wrong video for a second!

  • @emzetkin1100
    @emzetkin1100 7 місяців тому +2878

    Here's actual dating advice: Find yourself before dating. Be kind, passionate and honest to your partner and yourself. Know what you want out of a relationship before getting into one.

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +292

      factual

    • @Soreniglio
      @Soreniglio 7 місяців тому +252

      I agree with the comment, but please, do not get stuck in a loop of "wanting to improve" because you'll virtually never get to the best shape ever, be it phisically or mentally, relationships work around complementing each other and accepting each other's flaws as well, it's great to try to be the best version of yourself but do not work yourselves too hard either!

    • @eaglestown4609
      @eaglestown4609 7 місяців тому +75

      @@SoreniglioI’d say let’s try to be the best company for ourselves then there can be a relationship
      To enjoy one’s own company before starting to date opens many doors and lets us avoid toxic relationships

    • @avelione
      @avelione 7 місяців тому +26

      and like.... you need to like the other person(and the other person like you), because you probably will spend a lot of time with them (you first need to be friends, heh ;))

    • @jimmymac2292
      @jimmymac2292 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@RayLikeSunshine you should make a follow up after having gone through family court

  • @spontaneouslycombusted7664
    @spontaneouslycombusted7664 7 місяців тому +348

    "Women are liabilities" date men then? 🤨
    Edit: Didn't realize you made this same joke woopsies

  • @espeondiary
    @espeondiary 7 місяців тому +461

    can i just say, i feel like your youtube channel is CRIMINALLY underrated. i enjoy watching your videos so much and more people need to know about it

    • @likelipstickonapig
      @likelipstickonapig 7 місяців тому +4

      fr

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +30

      thank you so much :) we're slowly but surely getting there!

    • @ihitamodi6792
      @ihitamodi6792 7 місяців тому

      @@RayLikeSunshine i just found out your channel recently and binged watched every video! Love the work❤

  • @saldiven2009
    @saldiven2009 7 місяців тому +424

    I have an innate distrust of anyone, male or female, who wears tinted glasses indoors.

    • @HazZzel-
      @HazZzel- 7 місяців тому +40

      If it's black shades I agree but if its pink shades then I'm instantly interested, especially if its a dude

    • @maz33que
      @maz33que 7 місяців тому +2

      Except for battinson

    • @burningsnow9870
      @burningsnow9870 7 місяців тому +2

      Naah, aviator mirrored glasses or those weird like half sunglasses half ski goggles glasses

    • @TheWhiteCloud2000
      @TheWhiteCloud2000 7 місяців тому +24

      I once took medication that made me extremely sensitive to light. I had to wear shades everywhere and people probably thought the same of me but the truth is we don't know what's going on with people and it's really none of our business. Didn't stop people from looking at me weird which I thought was weird. That's when I realized judging someone for wearing shades indoors was the dumbest thing ever.

    • @kiraflash4596
      @kiraflash4596 7 місяців тому +9

      Many people have to do that for medical reasons, they simply have light sensitivity. You’re being ignorant. That’s like saying you distrust people who walk with a cane. 🤨

  • @nerdoftheatre
    @nerdoftheatre 7 місяців тому +127

    8:58 Lady. I live rurally. Literally everyone wears that. Do I live in a conservative area, yeah. But nobody wears that because they're a CONSERVATIVE. It's because they like fishing. Hell, I know at least four people with either one of those things that aren't conservative.

    • @madlie2452
      @madlie2452 7 місяців тому +15

      I go to college in the Southwest and literally no one wear those things bc they’re conservative. I’ve met so many mostly left leaning ppl who wear bass pro shop stuff just bc they like that aesthetic.

    • @nessie-from-earthbound1601
      @nessie-from-earthbound1601 5 місяців тому

      The conservatives are trying to take Bass Pro Shop and fishing from us, they must be stopped

  • @hestia191
    @hestia191 7 місяців тому +51

    i'm blinded by the light side of the internet

  • @shannond1511
    @shannond1511 7 місяців тому +34

    “We’re all items on a balance sheet”
    I felt that.

  • @madisongracemusic
    @madisongracemusic 5 місяців тому +11

    Real dating advice: trust your gut, not your trauma response. Love your self first, treat people with respect and kindness, don’t put up with stuff that doesn’t meet your needs, don’t over exert yourself for someone who wouldn’t do the same. Relationships are give and take. Don’t always give and don’t always take. It should be balanced. Someone is falling, you help them back you. You’re falling they help you back up, you’re both falling, you do for each other everything you can. And if it’s not working, don’t stay. It’s not worth it.

  • @jennasyoutube
    @jennasyoutube 7 місяців тому +12

    I’m an accountant. I’m so glad you’re representing accountants in some way. If I wasn’t already a subscriber I’d subscribe again

  • @francescahill5538
    @francescahill5538 7 місяців тому +24

    Do men also need to get rid of their single friends when they get married?....Just asking

  • @rhiannn3416
    @rhiannn3416 7 місяців тому +10

    I feel like people who genuinely acy like this unironically are either one of the following, ir all of them:
    1. Have never been in a healthy, mature, stable relationship (or their partners left them because they realised they were little man-children)
    2. Have egos far too large and far too fragile for their itty bitty boots
    3. Incredily narcissitic and self-absorbed.

  • @coricognitions
    @coricognitions 5 місяців тому +7

    The only good dating advice is that if you're "trying to get women" you're doing it wrong. You should be trying to find *your* partner.

  • @Toast_edd
    @Toast_edd 7 місяців тому +19

    7:23 the not really made me crack up frrr 😭😭

  • @Madison-fl4lq
    @Madison-fl4lq 7 місяців тому +24

    As a center- right person, I hate those people….

    • @Erintii
      @Erintii 7 місяців тому

      Same as center left

  • @smithhickenlooper5477
    @smithhickenlooper5477 5 місяців тому +3

    Six foot, millionaire, six pack having, acrylic painters are punching the air

  • @cacameleon
    @cacameleon 7 місяців тому +9

    Found this channel like yesterday subscribed nd been binging all the videos bc having a bad day but i nees to study rn 😭😭

  • @strawberryynoodlesauce
    @strawberryynoodlesauce 4 місяці тому +4

    I don't think it's bad to be conservative but some of these ppl love to push their beliefs on others

  • @Lavender.lemonn
    @Lavender.lemonn 7 місяців тому +4

    I just watched your entire channel in one sitting, never subscribed so fast! Keep it up❤

  • @fluffyskies7405
    @fluffyskies7405 7 місяців тому +5

    haven't watched the video yet but i just wanna say i'm happy at how your channel is growing. your content and editing is really nice. love u ray!

  • @CCCC-fj3kf
    @CCCC-fj3kf 7 місяців тому +2

    I recognise nothing as conservative in this. Maybe it’s because I’m not in the USA, but all it’s giving to me is hyper-douchey. What normal man acts like that at all? Every so-called “alpha” I’ve ever known has ended up lonely or badly closeted and desperate. It’s gross.

  • @THEmargie-k
    @THEmargie-k 7 місяців тому +20

    4+4=ate.

  • @heinzelmadchen7896
    @heinzelmadchen7896 7 місяців тому +4

    I'm a conservative woman and I watch your content (without rage) 👁️👄👁️

  • @Ace-ace-baby
    @Ace-ace-baby 7 місяців тому +4

    I love the oversimplified refrence😂😂

  • @afroprince5262
    @afroprince5262 3 місяці тому +2

    6:54 I suspect men don’t have to follow these rules

  • @Theblondandtheblind
    @Theblondandtheblind 7 місяців тому +6

    Tbh I just discovered you today but im gonna say that you are amazing :0
    As a German i can say, you my guy, have a good sense of humor xD
    *German approved*

  • @wanderingsoul4104
    @wanderingsoul4104 6 місяців тому +1

    The voting question is valid though and I prefer it to the decoding game for sure. "Who did you vote for in x election?" "How did you vote on y referendum?" Indeed, that woman isn't "wasting (her) time."... or the time of sensible men.
    Also, loved the OverSimplified reference.

  • @Rainylia
    @Rainylia 7 місяців тому +5

    9:47 bold of you to assume I didn’t subscribe after your first videos

  • @Yusheesan
    @Yusheesan 7 місяців тому +2

    This is not liberal v. conservative dating. This is manosphere/red pill dating content creators spouting the same unattainable schit to lonely and depressed men.

  • @maarekstele2998
    @maarekstele2998 2 місяці тому

    9:54 you could almost call it a "invisible empire"

  • @andwithtthat
    @andwithtthat 5 місяців тому +1

    It’s so hilarious hearing dating advice from people who are still single. Like homegirl saying she’s been asking *FOR A DECADE* who guys would vote for before going on a date with them. Girl… the question clearly isn’t getting you any closer to finding a man. And it might actually be time to consider that you might actually be looking for a liberal man. 🤣

  • @miukitty100
    @miukitty100 5 місяців тому +3

    1:08 Ray, I don't believe for a second a man as attractive as you has any trouble dating hahah

  • @MultiSmartass1
    @MultiSmartass1 3 місяці тому +1

    Never heard of Nonlib before seeing this.
    After hearing her rant here, it's clear why she is single...

  • @Devon686
    @Devon686 7 місяців тому +1

    I don't care much about the topic but even then, I always enjoy watching your videos. Keep up the great work!

  • @advocacynaccountablity
    @advocacynaccountablity 7 місяців тому +1

    "So you can burn down a precinct in Minneapolis and not face any charges." - the "DateRight" clown ...
    I'm guessing he's either blithely unaware of what went down here in Minneapolis and who was recorded, tried and charged with arson... or he's lying through his teeth.

    • @Greenplanet949
      @Greenplanet949 7 місяців тому

      My vote goes to “lying through his teeth!”

  • @lexycameron9074
    @lexycameron9074 5 місяців тому +1

    “ we just call them red flags “ yeah , fooling no one lol

  • @decKyo
    @decKyo 2 місяці тому +1

    7:23 love the chad chad reference

  • @bunni3492
    @bunni3492 7 місяців тому

    so incredibly happy to have found your channel , the editing and content is always so entertaining ! can't wait to see the channel grow

  • @jenniferfoster3585
    @jenniferfoster3585 7 місяців тому +1

    The accounting reference just killed me

  • @sappypunz
    @sappypunz Місяць тому

    i noticed the chad chad inspiration right away

  • @annonone93
    @annonone93 3 місяці тому

    lol that chad chad callout was perfect

  • @mizukisluvr
    @mizukisluvr 2 місяці тому

    THE CHAD CHAD REF I GIGGLEDD

  • @XxLadyxGaladrielxX
    @XxLadyxGaladrielxX 5 місяців тому

    The use of Union Dixie was ON POINT

  • @wanderer6048
    @wanderer6048 6 місяців тому

    7:23 oh my god I loved that whispered "not really" 😂😂

  • @rsmith6425
    @rsmith6425 3 місяці тому

    "I have been going to a lot more community events. We meet every Wednesday night in a park and they gave me this cool pointy hat. Apparently I'm some sort of magician now." ...so this could describe larpers or racists

  • @MatiMuffin
    @MatiMuffin 3 місяці тому

    2:15 "born in wrong generation"head-ass, my boy looking like he would squabble with dinos in his free time

  • @dishak2540
    @dishak2540 6 місяців тому

    the "chad chad.... not really" sneak was soo good 👍🤪

  • @NerdEmoji1067
    @NerdEmoji1067 5 місяців тому

    8:40ish
    Basing who you want to date mainly off of politics is just so stupid

  • @its_lazy_river
    @its_lazy_river 3 місяці тому

    The chad chad reference 😭 instant sub

  • @Justanotherpersonontheinternet
    @Justanotherpersonontheinternet 6 місяців тому +1

    12:02 ay, nice Oversimplified reference

  • @Chief_Fou
    @Chief_Fou 3 місяці тому

    Coming in fast from the "dark side" where wet work and manual labor is respected this is some funny ass content 😅😂😂

  • @TheFreshPrinceOfSaiyans
    @TheFreshPrinceOfSaiyans 2 місяці тому +1

    I enjoyed the Chad Chad reference.

  • @benjamintheophilus5610
    @benjamintheophilus5610 5 місяців тому

    10:39 Anne and Frog are some of my favorite UA-camrs

  • @amandaford8730
    @amandaford8730 7 місяців тому +2

    8:45 Conservatives call it "the quiet code" while others simply call it "dog whistling." 🤪

  • @fairybliss7772
    @fairybliss7772 7 місяців тому

    UA-cam activity is a total red flag for dating. I test them right away

  • @Your_local_bandaid._.
    @Your_local_bandaid._. 7 місяців тому +2

    Back on the light side:3

  • @ljohnson1908
    @ljohnson1908 7 місяців тому

    “sweating out their morning steroids while having a triple digit resting heart rate.” 😅😅😅 Gold.

  • @Bretthandsnunber1fan
    @Bretthandsnunber1fan 3 місяці тому

    THE CHAD CHAD REFERENCE OMG

  • @cassidymalott225
    @cassidymalott225 7 місяців тому +1

    Commenting for the algorithm gods

  • @jimmyroach1269
    @jimmyroach1269 7 місяців тому +3

    Not all conservatives think this way just as not all liberals think the same way.

  • @LisaSoulLevelHealing
    @LisaSoulLevelHealing 7 місяців тому +1

    So correct that other men made this the standard..its like they want to create their oen reasons to be single...
    I say let them

    • @Greenplanet949
      @Greenplanet949 7 місяців тому +1

      What was the saying “When your enemy is destroying himself, just get out of the way.”

  • @Mplsgurl
    @Mplsgurl 7 місяців тому

    First time viewer and a new sub❤ you funny

  • @fuseman4554
    @fuseman4554 5 місяців тому +1

    11:32 well do you know how else likes to sing to songs from 10 years ago

  • @kangjhha
    @kangjhha 7 місяців тому +1

    is pearl like a former quaker .. she dressed as little house on the prairie😅

    • @Greenplanet949
      @Greenplanet949 7 місяців тому

      I’m from Philly. We have a very large Quaker community here and in our suburb Plymouth Meeting. Trust me, the women don’t dress like that. Pearl looks closer to those polygamous communities (just a little bit longer on the skirt)

  • @taylorma959
    @taylorma959 7 місяців тому

    You are doing great!!

  • @goutamighosh1396
    @goutamighosh1396 7 місяців тому +1483

    As a woman i have always loathed this type of alpha "men are superior" content..but after i watched my sister have a baby...to think the pain and paitence their mothers under went to give birth to them and raise them only for them to grow up and disrespect women like this..its astounding

    • @alexoceanmeow
      @alexoceanmeow 7 місяців тому +160

      This is gonna make me sound terrible but a big reason I don't want to birth a child is bc I don't want birth a son and because of this exact reason. I don't want to birth some kid that turns on me and other women deciding were not human and not worth humanity. I don't want to birth a male.

    • @ChillingTales12
      @ChillingTales12 7 місяців тому +60

      ​@@alexoceanmeowThere are women who honestly have really shifty views of men and call them monsters and I think your one of them and that's sad and honestly good your not having kids because the way your talking already about your future son is truly heartbreaking. Imagine saying this about this about a future daughter. Hey maybe if you raise your kid right he or she won't turn out shitty

    • @alexoceanmeow
      @alexoceanmeow 7 місяців тому +177

      @@ChillingTales12 please watch videos of fathers storming out of gender reveals when they find out its a daughter. Go ahead have the day you actually deserve.

    • @ChillingTales12
      @ChillingTales12 7 місяців тому

      @@alexoceanmeow Alright so there are women and men who don't like having either boys or girls what's new? Thought that was some gotcha. Thankfully I'm not like you or those men. Because those men and women are projecting their biases and sexism on their kids. I don't care what gender my kid is because I don't have that toxic mentality of all men are bad or all women are bad.

    • @b.sbobbyshaw
      @b.sbobbyshaw 7 місяців тому +24

      @@alexoceanmeow So therefore, the other billions of Men must be the same? The issue is dense generalisation.

  • @CanopusLux
    @CanopusLux 7 місяців тому +701

    Lmao Pearls parents are millionaires, her mother and father have a whole bussines. Her mother has her own business and pearl talks about women shouldn't work and vote, let that sink in. Her house is massive! She would NEVER EVER accept a man making 40-50k,NEVER.

    • @Greenplanet949
      @Greenplanet949 7 місяців тому +109

      That’s her audience. She can’t insult them

    • @user_7239
      @user_7239 7 місяців тому +83

      I honestly think she is trolling them..and us..and herself..lots of layers of trolling there. She def hates herself tho

    • @Saranda4787
      @Saranda4787 5 місяців тому +3

      business

    • @Brc-kg1mg
      @Brc-kg1mg 5 місяців тому

      The average woman in general will NEVER accept a man thats making 40 to 50k . Who cares.?

    • @VashTheDamnFiend
      @VashTheDamnFiend 5 місяців тому +2

      how are those two things related?

  • @That0neCrow
    @That0neCrow 7 місяців тому +1987

    Always a pleasure to be on the light side of the entertainment

  • @WeTwoAlone
    @WeTwoAlone 7 місяців тому +1399

    “There’s a whole conservative world that liberals don’t even realize”
    No girl, we definitely notice.

    • @CharlieApples
      @CharlieApples 7 місяців тому

      Actually this is true, most liberals don’t realize the truly massive drug problem that many conservative men are just barely concealing.

    • @OZKitchen
      @OZKitchen 6 місяців тому +132

      Seeing as they never stfu about it...

    • @TheLizardKing752
      @TheLizardKing752 6 місяців тому

      Your dog whistling is so subtle, how will my libtard brain ever pick up on it? I got a like on Hinge awhile back from a girl who had a photo of herself with Dennis Prager, so clearly they're not picking up on mine.

    • @str8ballinSA
      @str8ballinSA 6 місяців тому +87

      @@OZKitchenConservatives are strong and silent men.
      That never stop crying.

    • @AdaireKrickets
      @AdaireKrickets 5 місяців тому +28

      Why would a man lying about his political views make him a keeper?
      He clearly is just looking to sleep with someone or isn't confident in his viewpoints. Both are bad vibes, imo if you think hook up culture is bad.

  • @disneyprincessintraining2725
    @disneyprincessintraining2725 7 місяців тому +497

    So I am married and we are expecting a child. It’s a very happy marriage at that too. We’ve only been married five years so I don’t feel like I have any magical advice, but what worked for me so far was dating people I would want as friends. I also looked at how they treated everyone around them. I want the person who’s kind to others and goes out of their way to be good.

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +82

      CONGRATULATIONS SO EXCITED FOR YOU!!

    • @yangene
      @yangene 4 місяці тому +14

      CONGRATULATIONS!!

  • @rainbowwigglecactus6605
    @rainbowwigglecactus6605 5 місяців тому +187

    "Serial entrepreneur" is quite the fancy way of saying "I have several failed companies"

  • @AmandaMerkel
    @AmandaMerkel 7 місяців тому +656

    I will never assume again. I was in Appalachia and parked texted to this dude at the gas pump. He had a big beat up pick up truck, a long grey beard like one of those dudes from duck dynasty and a stereotypical fisherman baseball cap. Thickest southern accent you ever heard and wearing flannel. He steps out the truck and the bottom half was a very short rainbow kilt with pride flag stuff, thigh high socks with a garter you could see and heels. It was the wildest thing I ever saw. Top half screamed conservative but the bottom half screamed lefty. A true moderate I guess 😂

    • @maxgucciardi4507
      @maxgucciardi4507 7 місяців тому +36

      Hes probably got a rainbow gadson flag and Im here for it

    • @OZKitchen
      @OZKitchen 6 місяців тому +51

      He's the final boss of gay

    • @awkwardukulele6077
      @awkwardukulele6077 6 місяців тому +72

      Some people are moderate because they’re not left or right-leaning. That guy was moderate because he leaned so far in both directions he managed to multi-lane drift his way through the political spectrum! 😂 /j
      Or, y’know, southern people can be gay leftists, and conservatives don’t have a monopoly on the trucker/outdoorsman style lol /srs

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 5 місяців тому +18

      That’s hilarious and my type of guy. He gonna look cute while we chop wood together.

    • @SearaChar
      @SearaChar 5 місяців тому +11

      Radical centrism

  • @Iamagoblingivemeyourstuff
    @Iamagoblingivemeyourstuff 7 місяців тому +749

    Hang on… so women should get rid of… all their single ladies? All the single ladies?

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +170

      duhduhduhhh duhduhduhhh

    • @rockmangurlx4973
      @rockmangurlx4973 7 місяців тому +112

      Put your hands up!

    • @MJMdr8
      @MJMdr8 7 місяців тому +44

      ​@@rockmangurlx4973 don't shoot!

    • @daniellenelson5300
      @daniellenelson5300 7 місяців тому

      But I'm willing to bet men should hangout with whoever they want. They aim to isolate, that's what narcissistic abusive people do

    • @solomoon3083
      @solomoon3083 7 місяців тому +6

      I like where this is going.

  • @lilfilth5622
    @lilfilth5622 7 місяців тому +274

    Pearl saying 40-50k was actually super interesting. It’s in contradiction with her own worldview. Usually they will bring on unsuspecting women to ask them questions like that then berate them for having any standards. Pearl has to triangulate her fanbase bc they see her as “one of the good ones” without outright contradicting what she usually says about all women being materialistic. She got so uncomfortable and had no way to respond.

    • @CanopusLux
      @CanopusLux 7 місяців тому +1

      She's rich af. Her parents have two businesses, her house is huge. She's capping to the core of earth. She would never date such men.

    • @daniellenelson5300
      @daniellenelson5300 7 місяців тому

      She's also the definition of the women she shit talks and gives dating advice yet she can't keep a dude

    • @ms.x1669
      @ms.x1669 5 місяців тому +19

      It's been so many years since she started this grift, haven't seen her with a man ONCE. 🤭💀☠️

    • @Lassoducky
      @Lassoducky 5 місяців тому +2

      40k-50k per year is closer to $20-$30 an hour. Not that much in Canada where minimum wage is $19😅

    • @Brc-kg1mg
      @Brc-kg1mg 5 місяців тому

      @@Lassoducky 50k usd is like 75k CAD.

  • @brandonwhite562
    @brandonwhite562 7 місяців тому +327

    The "conservatives have secret code" woman was naming off the most obvious stuff as "secret code", but the more annoying aspect is she is probably the same type of person who think that dog whistles are fake.

  • @nerdoftheatre
    @nerdoftheatre 7 місяців тому +804

    As someone who grew up rural, lives rural, and works in a place that is in a rural town.... I can tell you that conservatives don't talk in code.
    They will just assume you are conservative and say the most vile stuff imaginable. I literally had a guy come into work while HOLDING HIS CHILD. And he was talking about how he wanted other children dead. Like. In plain words. Exactly what he said.
    After the third guy came in sharing that horrible message (all in that same day) my boss had to put up signs about how hate isn't tolerated, and if you couldn't share love, then stay silent.

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +115

      holy shit

    • @nerdoftheatre
      @nerdoftheatre 7 місяців тому +117

      @@RayLikeSunshine I wish I were kidding. Unfortunately, it's all too common here. Some guy came in wanting a donation for a church - which we will often donate stuff for. Only difference was that this guy started saying so many bigoted things about the people around him. He assumed my boss would agree with him. Guy didn't like it when my boss started reciting passages of the Bible at him.
      I thought that church had stopped working with us anyway whenever we put up rainbow lights for June and started carrying a small pride collection. But, I guess not.

    • @malum9478
      @malum9478 7 місяців тому +46

      always good to see another non-psycho southerner(tho i'm cheating cuz i live in libby-ass urban central texas)

    • @nerdoftheatre
      @nerdoftheatre 7 місяців тому +21

      @@malum9478 Oh, I'm not in the south, actually. I'm in the Midwest. But I know a lot of people from northern in the state ask if we're from the south.

    • @StarryWaters-gq1oj
      @StarryWaters-gq1oj 7 місяців тому +91

      I saw a guy at work (I live in a conservative area) crow about how he was teaching his 5 year old son how to flirt with women (like literal pickup techniques) then ten minutes later got really mad about a story of a local 14 year old girl who got pregnant in a school bathroom. He was yelling "Where were her parents?"....after talking about how he was parenting his very young son to seduce women. And entirely failed to see the hypocrisy

  • @autumnmusic22
    @autumnmusic22 7 місяців тому +127

    It's concerning that this guy suggested women only have coupled friends and getting rid of their single lady friends because it's most likely about preventing people from seeing the red flags in the relationship coming from HIM. It's a control thing.

  • @jordanmcgrory2171
    @jordanmcgrory2171 7 місяців тому +171

    A partner trying to get you to break off other connections in your life is precursor to domestic abuse. Once you're isolated and reliant on them for all your social life, you've got fewer or no means to resist them.

    • @emilyjgreenfield
      @emilyjgreenfield 6 місяців тому +25

      100%...your friends, especially the singles ones, are the ones who will pull you out of bad situations and be there for you when you finally leave him. He knows exactly what he's doing demanding that women ditch their girlfriends!

    • @lestatsluv317
      @lestatsluv317 6 місяців тому +12

      Absolutely right. It usually starts with your friends and then they move on to getting you to break off contact with your family (if you have family you were close to to begin with because abusers love targeting people without many close family ties) so when you want out, you instead believe them when they tell you you have no one but them and there's no where for you to go....

    • @Chuck_EL
      @Chuck_EL 2 місяці тому

      ​@@lestatsluv317 my friend unfortunately did that with her gf (who's extremely abusive)she's done it before and lost many friends over it

  • @Strega_del_Corvo
    @Strega_del_Corvo 6 місяців тому +462

    “As soon as you’re 18, you have value.” This line disgusts me SO MUCH.

    • @dustyragdollz
      @dustyragdollz 5 місяців тому +16

      Literally!

    • @Brc-kg1mg
      @Brc-kg1mg 5 місяців тому +2

      You look exactly what I expect someone with that comment to look like lmfao.

    • @RandomBoi848
      @RandomBoi848 5 місяців тому +42

      ⁠@@Brc-kg1mgBruh you can’t say anything lmao, you clicked on this video.

    • @Brc-kg1mg
      @Brc-kg1mg 5 місяців тому +2

      @@RandomBoi848 I bet that pfp of yours gets all the girls

    • @RandomBoi848
      @RandomBoi848 5 місяців тому

      @@Brc-kg1mg Bruh it’s a video game character, insulting people’s interests adds no value to your reply and just makes you look like a manchild.

  • @renn8916
    @renn8916 7 місяців тому +160

    Manifesting a ray and chad chad collab

  • @dorkchops
    @dorkchops 7 місяців тому +297

    you cant spell TradWife without *Rad!!!*
    now please release me from your basement
    i miss my family

  • @malcolmchashi6783
    @malcolmchashi6783 7 місяців тому +202

    Finally, I’m back on the light side of the internet.

  • @Authorthings
    @Authorthings 7 місяців тому +246

    "pick me pearl?!?!?"
    "Triple digit resting heart rate" 😂😂😂

    • @sidneyboo9704
      @sidneyboo9704 7 місяців тому

      lol Pickmepearl is the perfect guest for a douche bag guy

  • @terrencelockett4072
    @terrencelockett4072 7 місяців тому +87

    Exactly, it's crazy how much these folks complain about problems in the dating world, but also want to uphold so many of those same issues. They claim women only want to date a certain type of man, but also say men SHOULD be that certain type of man, and if not you aren't a real man.

    • @daniellenelson5300
      @daniellenelson5300 7 місяців тому

      And men should have asinine standards but women should have non

    • @asskayzac
      @asskayzac 5 місяців тому +2

      Yes! The hypocrisy

    • @Bean-hz8jo
      @Bean-hz8jo 4 місяці тому +1

      It's weird, because they posture themselves as if they're these tough guys that don't give a fuck about other peoples opinion of them, especially women's opinions because women are stupid and worthless, amirite? But then, all their content is: "So this is exactly what you need you do and who you need to pretend to be so that women will like you. Don't offer yourself the basic human experiences you deserve, such as expressing a variety of emotions, because enjoying your life is completely worthless if a subset of women don't like you." Like, nothing matters more to them than womens opinions and at the same time, the minds of women bore them to complete death. Podcast Alpha males will say, on a hot mic, *on their podcast which is completely centred around keeping the attention of women* (and gaining the adoration of other "alphas", lets be honest), *gaining validation from women, and making sure everything they do is likeable to women --- and then without irony, say* "I don't have female friends, because women bore me."
      *!???!?!??!?!*

  • @chibicheri
    @chibicheri 7 місяців тому +259

    I thoroughly enjoyed the breakdown of his tiktoks that you did around the 13 minute mark. I was adopted by conservative parents, but always felt at odds with them on my values. They had this steadfast and unshakable belief that only their values were true and just, and all others were immoral and wrong. But when I pressed them, asking why questions, asking for details, they would always pivot. In ways much like your breakdown. I enjoy that you can show such depth of others, in humorous ways!

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +43

      had to draw a fine line between criticizing the content and not playing into the obvious ragebait lol. You know what they say, if you start wrestling a pig you'll just get muddy and the pig will have fun. Glad you thought that I toed the line well :)

    • @Bean-hz8jo
      @Bean-hz8jo 4 місяці тому +1

      @DASO_MILITIA I say that, as of today because thats an amazing saying

    • @ghoultooth
      @ghoultooth 4 місяці тому

      @DASO_MILITIA I’ve heard it before, it isn’t a common saying though

  • @annegrey3780
    @annegrey3780 6 місяців тому +34

    The Pearl thing is wild. I am a woman who makes fairly good money, and I've dated a couple men who I made way more than or who were unemployed. Honestly, while some women *absolutely* do date men in part for their money, most women (especially those who are doing financially fine) don't.
    That said, in my experience, women *are* nervous to date men who make less than them - but it's not about the money, it's about that we live in a society that expects men to be the main breadwinner and where many men expect to be the main breadwinner in the relationship - and not all men handle the reversal of income brackets well. I don't give two shits what my partner makes - I make enough for us to both happily live on even if he makes nothing - but I do want a partner - someone who respects me and wants to work with me to build a life. I don't expect a man to be a "stay at home husband" if he works just because he works less - if he likes his job and wants to keep doing that I support it (and that income is still adding to the partnership) - hell, even if it's volunteer - if it's his passion I still support it, so this isn't about "if I am the main breadwinner I want him to be in the kitchen". But around 50% of the time when I date men who make less than me what I get is a partner who doesn't help with the cleaning, cooking, or laundry at all then complains to me about how me making more makes him feel but who has no space to listen to how the situation makes me feel - or who tries to sabotage my job so that I make less or get fired. They still want to talk like they are making $50 mill per year and like I'm some gold-digger (including talking *to me* like that), they still want to sit on the couch drinking beer and not lifting a finger when they come home from work - it's not that they don't give up their own financial independence or passions to be a stay at home husband (I don't want that) it's that they completely refuse to give up an Andrew Tate worldview - but now I'm footing the bill for it. Most women don't want to risk that, and are going to be nervous to date a guy who makes less until they make sure you're not that sort of guy.
    but Pearl's entire audience *is* that sort of guy, she's a pick me for that sort of guy...so it's fascinating that she set a price point on that. So she's basically saying how much you would need to pay her to listen to Andrew Tate quotes at 3am about how she contributes nothing to the house she paid for. And she only picked 40-50k per year? Damn girl I wouldn't do that for less than 50mil.

    • @chaitanyagupta6668
      @chaitanyagupta6668 6 місяців тому +1

      This is simply not true. If we see most women marrying up(in every statistics), you've come to the conclusion that's because men do not seem to take being low in anything than a woman well. This simply means majority men are like that. But by that logic, men worrying about getting a gold digger for a spouse means women are gold diggers. You don't see how you've generalised doing exactly what you shame men for. You or most marrying up is just that, you and most women marrying up. If anything it's to do with how women view the worth of a man and nothing to do with how "forced" by the circumstances (created by men, you can never be blamed) you all are to deliberately choose men earning more than you

    • @lexycameron9074
      @lexycameron9074 5 місяців тому +4

      Underrated comment 😂

    • @joywagner979
      @joywagner979 2 місяці тому +3

      Kind of like how I love "short" men! (Quotes because what they think is short, is not what I think is short. I'm 5'5" and have dated guys who were my height, even slightly shorter, but even dudes who are 5'9" think they are "short.")
      The man's height is not a problem for me! Unless it's a problem for him, and it frequently is.
      If a dude is 5'6", doesn't care, and has a great personality, that's awesome and he will probably get a lot of dates. Possibly even with me when I was single, if we were compatible!
      But if he's 5'8" with a chip on his shoulder and goes on and on about women only wanting men who are 6'+, that's not going to work out so well for him. But he's going to blame his lack of success on his height, not his own attitude, and there will be no way to tell him because he will not hear it.

  • @hectorabrambeltrandomingue3902
    @hectorabrambeltrandomingue3902 7 місяців тому +59

    5:37 THIS EXACTLY like the whole hipergamy argument talks about how women are the ones who date this guys because they put the standards BUT it is MEN who do that. It os US who say "yeah if you dont have/make x, y and z youre NOT worthy" and thats on us. I use to think that women were always looking for the bad goodlooking guy, but that was when I was in middle and highschool, when I got in uni I realized...it was ME who they didnt like not what I didnt have phisically but personality wise

    • @vibhorejaiswal2997
      @vibhorejaiswal2997 7 місяців тому

      U mean to say even in this age where most women are proud girl bosses and will not settle for anything less then also they make the most vital decision of getting married according to the qualities which the so called patriarchy has established 😂🤣
      U know how u sound right??
      And the point remains the fact that most men are single and most women are not is not bcoz every other man has a bad personality but bcoz of the hypergamy as women choose men who are good looking, dominant, assertive (not violent).
      In fact good looking men many times get free passes even if they're sexist and mysogynist many times.
      All those coloured flags are for those who are average or not liked by women.

  • @m0nk1r4
    @m0nk1r4 7 місяців тому +140

    if u and chad chad had a collab i would actually cry tears of joy

    • @MxMarlow13
      @MxMarlow13 7 місяців тому +9

      I will cry real tears ❤

  • @hobisdimples94
    @hobisdimples94 4 місяці тому +26

    As someone who is currently in love for the first time in my 26 years of life, it is BLATANTLY obvious that all of these people have never had true, unconditional love. It's just sad 😮‍💨🤦‍♀️

    • @MonsDez.
      @MonsDez. 4 місяці тому +12

      Yeah now that I'm getting away from that community, I find it crazy that I didn't noticed how much they decrease the value of a person to just money and sex, they make it like you shouldn't find a person that you can connect with to create a life together, they want you to find a person that check every box in your checklist just to brag about having them, ignoring that there is another complex person just like you on the other side.

  • @cathare4909
    @cathare4909 5 місяців тому +22

    I would ask him "so women have an easy time dating...but they also lose their value as they age. So how would you reconcile that? Wouldn't that make it harder for women as well?"
    He would probably answer "well there's always gonna be a guy desperate enough to settle for any woman."
    Which i would then reply "could men not also settle for low value women? Wouldn't that mean they also have an easy time dating?"
    It's so easy to point out the flaws in their "logic".

  • @sammymua9888
    @sammymua9888 3 місяці тому +12

    As someone who comes from a conservative family, none of the men are remotely like this. Don’t confuse red pills with progressive conservatives.

    • @Pyrrhonian
      @Pyrrhonian 3 місяці тому +6

      I think in general no one is like this in real life, most of the red pill guys never try to date, and anytime we see these gurus doing demos with women they seem really awkward and weird

    • @matttheradartechnician4308
      @matttheradartechnician4308 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank god someone said it. Liberals are strawmanning conservatives onto Redhill guys and then act like we are the problem. Like you know they don't understand the ideology when they equate conservatism to materialism and lust while also being rooted in Christianity

  • @KevNpton
    @KevNpton 7 місяців тому +71

    My wife came with debt, not a lot, but a little bit, she had a car, but I had a house (you don’t need a car in London, I just rented a car when I needed one) on the plus side, she was smart, funny, cute and sane and we’ve been married over 30 years. I now give my son one piece of advice when it comes to girls, sanity is an extremely underrated quality. My second hand experience tells me stress and drama, shortens your life and empties your wallet no matter how much you had to start. So sanity first, then smart, funny, cute, money, etc, etc, are bonus qualities. Also, having money is not a quality in a person, because you don’t sleep, cuddle or chat with money, unless there’s something wrong with you.

    • @atnguyenthanh4603
      @atnguyenthanh4603 6 місяців тому +7

      You are very lucky man 😊😊

    • @KRYMauL
      @KRYMauL 6 місяців тому

      Also, it helps to not have a girl make out with a Winsor while riding on you, and get stuck with some other guy because of the amount of stuff she did trying to figure you out. I mean seriously we spent 1.5 years running in circles because both of us thought the other would cheat, even though the guy who was actually cheating was seen by everyone as her boyfriend.
      Oh, and yes I actually do mean a Winsor, just not a legitimate one.

  • @Drageisha
    @Drageisha 7 місяців тому +33

    The dream is a man that I find attractive, earns as much as I do, isn't lousy with baby mommas, won't cheat & doesn't ghost to avoid emotional confrontation AKA a fucking unicorn.

    • @vibhorejaiswal2997
      @vibhorejaiswal2997 7 місяців тому +4

      And what u provide ?
      Nothing.😂

    • @susanrichardson631
      @susanrichardson631 7 місяців тому +26

      ​@@vibhorejaiswal2997and you don't even know her to ask. She said someone that matches her income by the way not a gold digger like the guys who think like yourself seem to think we all are. But I'm pretty sure you only read the parts of her comment that you wanted to and ignored the good parts. Please crawl back under your rock.

    • @Theescapist_87
      @Theescapist_87 7 місяців тому +1

      I hope you're young cause with each passing year in age the dating market seems to get worse and worse for everyone. Or at least that's what my single friends have told me. Finding a man with no kids past the age of 25 seems to be near impossible these days.

    • @Theescapist_87
      @Theescapist_87 7 місяців тому +4

      @wowzersfyi Huh? I'm a woman and have been married for nearly a decade. Thankfully I don't have to swim in the dating pool anymore cause frankly it was full of shit ten years ago and I doubt it's gotten any better by now. The best thing anyone can do is find your life partner when you are still reasonably young (aka sub 25) because after that the baggage seems to start adding up real quick with baby mama drama, unrequited love for exes, dudes that can't commit because they been a player all their young adult lives, hobosexuals, etc.

    • @ngarcia103
      @ngarcia103 6 місяців тому

      ​@@Theescapist_87 Sadly they're not wrong. I'm in my early 30s and it feels like every woman is either already taken or not interested in being in a relationship.
      I can't stop thinking my time has run out...

  • @eq2092
    @eq2092 7 місяців тому +34

    Former Conservative here and this is hilarious 😂.
    Actually, my views have changed much just that American Conservatives have lost their minds. I think they have alot of Incel Energy that needs an outlet.

  • @anna-fx6ok
    @anna-fx6ok 7 місяців тому +76

    HOW are you able to pack this much content into a 14 minute video? Your talent is crazy!!

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  7 місяців тому +26

      unmedicated adhd really helps ngl

    • @chaitanyagupta6668
      @chaitanyagupta6668 6 місяців тому

      This is low effort content. He just needs to find content to react on.

    • @anna-fx6ok
      @anna-fx6ok 6 місяців тому +2

      @@chaitanyagupta6668 That is not true tho. I don't wanna know how much time he spends alone with thinking about his skits, setting up the scenes and green screen each time and the editing everything in post production. There are so many people on this platform who simply just react to content but his videos fell like a breath of fresh air tbh. Also I love how he is self aware about his form of content, always credits others and clearly states that it is just his spin on topics that have already been discussed by other great creators (e.g. funkyfrogbait)

  • @Montesama314
    @Montesama314 6 місяців тому +18

    A partner who says to get rid of your friends is a future abuser who is afraid those friends will help you notice the abuser's flaws.

  • @teacup8186
    @teacup8186 7 місяців тому +36

    "welcome back to the light side of the internet" feels so welcoming

  • @truthseeker8139
    @truthseeker8139 7 місяців тому +22

    Just went on a date with a girl taller than me. Been told by manosphere for the last two years that women only date taller men.

    • @ollievendor7413
      @ollievendor7413 7 місяців тому +22

      Yup. And none of those guys would ever "date" a woman taller than them. They would avoid tall women and only want short, small women who look and act a very specific way.

    • @pats8219
      @pats8219 7 місяців тому +9

      @@ollievendor7413agree, why aren’t they all fighting to get with tall, sporty Pearl. So sad to see her align with them but none want to date her.

    • @pats8219
      @pats8219 7 місяців тому +3

      @@ollievendor7413agree, why aren’t they all fighting to get with Pearl. So sad to see her align with them but none want to date her.

    • @ollievendor7413
      @ollievendor7413 7 місяців тому +2

      @pats8219 who's Pearl?

    • @TheCoralie87
      @TheCoralie87 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ollievendor7413 Hannah Pearl Davis has a UA-cam channel called Pearly Things.

  • @tr-st_me_bro
    @tr-st_me_bro 7 місяців тому +74

    I literally discovered your videos today, and OH MY GOD, YOU ARE SO UNDERRATED-

  • @maloydonedidit2903
    @maloydonedidit2903 7 місяців тому +8

    Until 2015... I've never given 2 sh!ts whether you have an had an American flag on your house or car or anything. Since trump it makes me cringe to even look at the American flag. The ONE plus to it is being able to weed out the conservatives.