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  • 16 Myers Briggs Personalities Flirting
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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  4 роки тому +934

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    • @simplyme7821
      @simplyme7821 4 роки тому +6

      Nice to see you're over your anger. Even better when you show your sense of humor. Love it when you say naw man! I hope you're very proud of what you built. Sincerely, Carly

    • @phoenixrobinson1509
      @phoenixrobinson1509 4 роки тому

      How to get out when you feel stuck (I’m really stuck), jelaous on everyone elses life, angry in the same time, and when you compare your life with others?

    • @thesoliloquist1940
      @thesoliloquist1940 4 роки тому +7

      Think of being an actor? Youre developing your range with all these characters heh do a whole one man play..

    • @thesoliloquist1940
      @thesoliloquist1940 4 роки тому

      Also being an i-n-feels-j guy.. did you attract more girls as friends? That was my brother..

    • @nosaizekor8389
      @nosaizekor8389 4 роки тому

      Frank James at the end of the day I don't know if I have one of these personalities and if I fit in one of these I am an animal lover activist and I love compassion towards mother nature creatures and I like a guy that would approach me in those personalities

  • @madsv1240
    @madsv1240 4 роки тому +17121

    i feel it’s INFP tradition to imagine our whole life with someone before even saying hi 🤣

    • @khadijaah90
      @khadijaah90 4 роки тому +211

      Maddi V It totally is 😂

    • @poeticwavez
      @poeticwavez 4 роки тому +91

      Maddi V true.

    • @beatrizlinerocardenas5975
      @beatrizlinerocardenas5975 4 роки тому +625

      Tooootally true lolol Then we realize after analyzing them that they are not the one for us and it's like "well, I'll wait for the next one" lol

    • @sink-napkin489
      @sink-napkin489 4 роки тому +26

      Yep

    • @jckpot9149
      @jckpot9149 4 роки тому +18

      Fact

  • @mikhailsilaev9311
    @mikhailsilaev9311 4 роки тому +5091

    That INTJ is gonna be tortured by that awkward moment at night for years

  • @-...................-
    @-...................- 3 роки тому +1824

    INFJ, thoughts: this person is totally into me
    INFJ: mkay, goodbye

    • @BellesView
      @BellesView 3 роки тому +13

      😂😂😂

    • @shraddhakadam8028
      @shraddhakadam8028 3 роки тому +6

      😂😂🙌

    • @peacejoy3629
      @peacejoy3629 3 роки тому +7

      Hhhh I can't agree moore

    • @peacejoy3629
      @peacejoy3629 3 роки тому +38

      Guys can i ask u bout somthing please cuz i have no one to share that with. Someone that i TRUST !
      I'm still searching for more informations to know if i'm a real INFJ or any other tipe cuz the tests are kind of limited I wanted more options ..
      So , first do you guys don't want to be discovered !
      Like I don't want people to know the real me. my true character, thinking , ideas, my goals, my next move , if I have a lover or not and how I like him to be , don't want to show my 1000% lovely light side ( cuz it would be a waste of energy and they deserve any effort) and don't want to show my weakness I would be dying inside and crying night and the day after I'm a cold rock and all put together . but if someone ask me : something deferent with you today are you okey ? I would explode with tears but I hold my self with cold expressions . but inside i'm like ( yeeeees i'm tireeeeed I wanna reeest and I need a hug and want to be treated like a baby )
      And I be quit most of time enjoying my own company and I hate interacting with people when i find a red flag i get bored so quick I can't keep a conversation loong with a nonsense topic so I run to be alone again but if they ask for help i do help them and lovingly I put my energy and I don't wait for a return then i run . but if they offer to help me I refuse .i don't ask for help from anyone i trust no one even if i be so tired but I keep doing my thing alone till I see the result .
      And I'm tired of being like this .tired of being strong . showing no emotions .bottling them up . I trust no one and I hate it . I have no real friends just classmates . and the list long but those are the most annoying in my personality .
      Wish someone can tell me if this is kind of an INFJ or INTP or other type and ( pardon my English please )

    • @user-jq2wg6vk4p
      @user-jq2wg6vk4p 3 роки тому +10

      When your crush starts talking about their crush 😀

  • @NurarihyonCiel
    @NurarihyonCiel 3 роки тому +2821

    INTJ after an awkward dating just ended : *reconstructing every possible chat with much better answer and regretting every single words that have been spoken*

    • @probablynotasith5355
      @probablynotasith5355 3 роки тому +132

      I generally put a lot of thought into conversations and possible questions/answers beforehand, but assuming something catches me off guard this is definitely accurate.

    • @SchultzDorinda
      @SchultzDorinda 3 роки тому +42

      You know thst does also happens to me as ENTP, although it more me rethinking the arguements and realizing that I could have been even more right 😂

    • @mantecada5660
      @mantecada5660 3 роки тому +32

      Me too - INFJ

    • @icantdecideonaname2748
      @icantdecideonaname2748 3 роки тому +15

      Freaking sameeeeeeeee 😂😂-INTP

    • @arianecazaubon5699
      @arianecazaubon5699 3 роки тому +43

      Me, every time, everywhere - An INTJ

  • @khawlajijo5104
    @khawlajijo5104 4 роки тому +3108

    Infj's know it when someone is flirting with them, while they know nothing about how to flirt 😂😂 we look like crackheads instead

    • @reynasoraten5553
      @reynasoraten5553 4 роки тому +44

      mood.

    • @manager-nim2623
      @manager-nim2623 4 роки тому +229

      I filrt jokingly like an estp with my friends but if it's someone I have the slightest interest in I'm basically a disaster

    • @khawlajijo5104
      @khawlajijo5104 4 роки тому +17

      @@manager-nim2623 😂😂😂 exactly...the same here

    • @knightbrucie
      @knightbrucie 4 роки тому +95

      @@manager-nim2623 Oh yeah I can flirt all day with people I have no interest in. Still cant flirt with my other half..

    • @tehaniaweau-garcia8286
      @tehaniaweau-garcia8286 4 роки тому +70

      😂😂 nooooooo the INFJ stare is sexy!!!! Just sit there and INFJ stare at them and they're putty in your hands, trust me!

  • @vaeporwave
    @vaeporwave 4 роки тому +2203

    "Sorry, was I talking out loud just now?" *1000% accurate*
    -INFP

    • @nabihahramli3368
      @nabihahramli3368 4 роки тому +83

      It is? Cuz me as an infp can only stare at him while im loss at words 😂 i guess that's how im flirting 🤣

    • @vaeporwave
      @vaeporwave 4 роки тому +65

      @@nabihahramli3368 for me yes, because it's either i talk too loud or too soft 😂😂

    • @tonof.c.1397
      @tonof.c.1397 4 роки тому

      Me as well!

    • @nabihahramli3368
      @nabihahramli3368 4 роки тому +9

      @@vaeporwave ah well it's probably bcuz i dont talk to people that much 😂

    • @OdysseyHome-Gaming
      @OdysseyHome-Gaming 4 роки тому +38

      I think the infp script is more "What are your core desires and dreams out of life? Oh really, well those dreams are now my dreams, because my dream was to meet a woman who'd accept me and then let me help them make her dreams come true."
      ...of course I'm not going to poof a uniform into existence but I can write a science fantasy novel where unicorns are created using gene splicing... Gotta compromis 🤣
      Maybe if I just wear a saddle on my back and stab an ice cream cone to my forehead. Use your imagination girl! 😏

  • @leounderseas
    @leounderseas 3 роки тому +1199

    As an INFJ, I know when someone is flirting with me but I pretend I don't because I have no idea how to flirt back and everytime I tried it got really awkward so I just hope they try to make the advances themselves while I just stare at them in a totally non-creepy way

    • @m8832
      @m8832 3 роки тому +23

      same

    • @shriyapalsule4790
      @shriyapalsule4790 3 роки тому +37

      Yea the NON CREEPIEST WAY 😃👍
      😂

    • @Yuri-1907
      @Yuri-1907 3 роки тому +6

      Exactly

    • @ihaveseverefrootsnackism
      @ihaveseverefrootsnackism 2 роки тому +35

      I'm the same but am PETRIFIED of making eye contact with someone who's flirting with me or that I like.

    • @jaz5117
      @jaz5117 2 роки тому +2

      exactly 😭

  • @ShreyaBetjewargi99999
    @ShreyaBetjewargi99999 3 роки тому +698

    Infj's/InfX's: 100% confident about knowing what's going on in the person's mind
    But:Pretend to be chill and know good things bout them.
    Later:Wants to say something nice, but ends up saying something weird.

    • @earljovhancameros2342
      @earljovhancameros2342 3 роки тому +19

      This is soooooo true!

    • @blancadv
      @blancadv 3 роки тому +4

      Mwlfgahsknd meeeeeee🤦‍♀️😫😅

    • @notme1111
      @notme1111 3 роки тому +7

      Accurate af

    • @dawnarussom3061
      @dawnarussom3061 3 роки тому +16

      Nah. It's more like. I already know what's wrong with you I just want to see if you're going to lie so I can know who you really are at the core to me.

    • @mari-ui6ml
      @mari-ui6ml 3 роки тому +1

      yesss i am

  • @thefinalgirlie
    @thefinalgirlie 4 роки тому +3603

    2:14 knew it was INFP before you said it. Where are my fellow infp hopeless romantics at

    • @jrw2319
      @jrw2319 4 роки тому +49

      Aquarius here!

    • @katjas8423
      @katjas8423 4 роки тому +31

      Disk of Prudence ayyyy same Aquarius INFP

    • @dearestkill
      @dearestkill 4 роки тому +26

      IM CRYINF ME TOO I WAS LIKE SHIT ITS ME

    • @Lostirl8
      @Lostirl8 4 роки тому +2

      Same here

    • @luisaz_trash9100
      @luisaz_trash9100 4 роки тому +13

      Aquarius ✌️😭✌️

  • @nicholaslemosdecarvalho5328
    @nicholaslemosdecarvalho5328 4 роки тому +5106

    INFP: hey, do you see that girl?
    Buddy: yeah why?
    INFP: I married her in my thoughts and we had three kids
    Buddy: ...

    • @KeeperOfKeys22
      @KeeperOfKeys22 4 роки тому +329

      If this is from the INFP Male perspective then I guess guy me wouldn't be much different than female me. XD

    • @Fikamar27
      @Fikamar27 4 роки тому +143

      I already had many affairs each day 🤣🤣

    • @ecchinacea
      @ecchinacea 4 роки тому +329

      Well do have this constant scenario generator working in our heads. So I have not only already married this person, we also already broken up or never gotten together because the other person wasn't that nice or maybe they just didn't like me. Actually getting together is just ONE of the many possibilities!

    • @BenefitCounterbench
      @BenefitCounterbench 4 роки тому +117

      @@ecchinacea You just summed up INFPs' auxiliary function, Ne. 😂 As a Ne-blind ISTP, I'm laughing hard about how you guys use that function.

    • @AlextheENTP
      @AlextheENTP 4 роки тому +98

      @@ecchinacea First of all, username checks out!
      But mostly, as an Ne-dom, I find all of these other expressions of Ne so fascinating! Your millions of relationship scenarios is obviously (at least, this is how it seems to me) your Ne under the influence of your Fi. Our Ne (ENTP and ENFP) is under the influence of NO-ONE, it goes wherever, grabs whatever it sees, drops it for the next thing. It's why, at our most stereotypical, we're awful commitmentphobes (maybe ENTP more than ENFP, I don't know), no matter how much we love that special someone.
      It is so strange yet beautiful when I see someone's Ne functioning under a layer of structure (Ti) or values, wants and feelings (Fi).
      Anyway, I've rambled, and probably no-one's even going to read this...

  • @patchi6384
    @patchi6384 3 роки тому +953

    I'm an INFP and I observed that when I like someone, I get especially observant about them, about their likes, feelings, reactions, thoughts, etc. But I dunno how to show I like them instead I get friendly and thoughtful(?) if that is the right word for it. Like I take into consideration his side all the time.

    • @mercykok2635
      @mercykok2635 3 роки тому +31

      I can relate a bit. I mean i can get thoutghfull at almost everything though. But mayby a bit extra

    • @geminievil
      @geminievil 3 роки тому +20

      Yeah, im infp too and i relate a lot to that

    • @roberthipolito1351
      @roberthipolito1351 3 роки тому +107

      Ye INFP in a nutshell right there.
      What sucks is the realization that no one is as considerate for you, as you are for them.

    • @niall2451
      @niall2451 3 роки тому +2

      sayme

    • @Maiiiccc
      @Maiiiccc 3 роки тому +5

      why do i relate so much 😭😭😭

  • @iamikkiv6506
    @iamikkiv6506 3 роки тому +6686

    0:00 ISTJ - Logistician
    0:06 INTP- Logician
    0:25 ESFJ - Consul
    0:32 ISFJ - Defender
    0:48 ENFJ - Protagonist
    01:00 ESFP - Entertainer
    01:11 ISFP - Adventurer
    01:19 ENTJ - Commander
    01:25 ESTP - Entrepreneur
    01:35 ISTP - Virtuoso
    01:40 ESTJ - Executive
    01:50 INFJ - Advocat
    02:02 ENTP - Debater
    02:09 INFP - Mediator
    02:20 INTJ - Architect
    02:25 ENFP - Campaigner
    And hello fellow Protagonists, you are welcome 😇

  • @auroraastarr
    @auroraastarr 4 роки тому +2643

    Me as an INFJ:
    Some random guy texts me:"You are very cute😍"
    Me:Yeah I know you're flirting but I'll pretend I don't know that

  • @christiannataylor2735
    @christiannataylor2735 4 роки тому +5944

    INFP thoughts: I want to take this slow and not freak them out.
    INFP reality: How many kids do you want to have? I'm thinking five.

    • @jeffsjuststoked
      @jeffsjuststoked 4 роки тому +242

      Christianna Taylor ha, my partner is INFP and we were already planning out our wedding and how many kids we wanted the first month or two of dating. As an INTJ, I have my whole life planned out so I already had the answers lol. But it was implied that was only if we worked out. Two years soon and so far so good!

    • @FariaAlex7
      @FariaAlex7 4 роки тому +51

      This is incredibly accurate

    • @F_Du_Sea
      @F_Du_Sea 4 роки тому +10

      @@yannes.531 Then you're not an INTP

    • @njules6428
      @njules6428 4 роки тому +4

      Omg exactly....*facepalm*

    • @njules6428
      @njules6428 4 роки тому +45

      @@yannes.531 When you say opposite, what do you mean?
      Do you ever say something and it just comes out wrong? Like, ugh that's not what I meant... it doesn't sound the way you meant it to. This happens to me all the freaking time....
      Or have difficulty expressing what you really want to say? Like you can think it and feel it but putting it into words is really hard. Thus, the words just come out wrong.
      Curious if you can relate. ✌🏻

  • @seonne7333
    @seonne7333 3 роки тому +379

    2:27 ENFP here and I’m freaking out right now because I ALWAYS bring up cat cafes and karaoke bars when ever somebody asks me what we should do! How did you know? I’m impressed!

    • @nolipsnokiss6776
      @nolipsnokiss6776 3 роки тому +20

      I HAVENT BEEN TO THOSE BEFORE I BET IT WOULD BE FUNN !!

    • @laurenyoung8586
      @laurenyoung8586 3 роки тому +5

      Love karaoke!!

    • @mercykok2635
      @mercykok2635 3 роки тому +4

      I would like karaoke, but not in public. And i think would realy love going to a cat cafe.

    • @floramotta2302
      @floramotta2302 3 роки тому +2

      it would be soooo fun im dying

    • @selena-9841
      @selena-9841 3 роки тому +8

      I LOVE cat cafes I literally try to bring anyone I know there

  • @elaineee1996
    @elaineee1996 3 роки тому +238

    Why do i feel like INFP and INFJ are very rare but are always watching these videos XD

    • @ihaveseverefrootsnackism
      @ihaveseverefrootsnackism 2 роки тому +20

      It took me forever to find out who I was and now that I realize I was wrong the entire time (thought I was INTJ but actually INFJ), I've just been going wild finding tons of new information that relates to me on a super deep level. I feel very misunderstood IRL so when I see these videos get it THIS well, it's impossible not to binge-watch xD
      I think the misunderstandings are common for the INxx types if I remember properly. INTJs (and I assume INTPs as well) get misunderstood a ton too.

    • @kalecia
      @kalecia 2 роки тому +1

      @@ihaveseverefrootsnackism you're the opposite of me 💀 i thought i was an infj but retook the test and got intj.

    • @ihaveseverefrootsnackism
      @ihaveseverefrootsnackism 2 роки тому +3

      @@kalecia Though I know I'm an INFJ for sure now, I never got those results from the test. I just don't really trust the 16p method it uses and base it off functions instead because I find it to be more reliable.
      Ironically, though, in this case, intj and infj share introverted intuition as the primary function, so it becomes a bit more difficult xD Because with a total of 8 functions there's only 2 types with any one function as the main function

    • @chocotortuga_22
      @chocotortuga_22 2 роки тому

      Nooo, estoy haciendo tarea, si, hago tarea justo ahora.

    • @MentalParadox
      @MentalParadox 2 роки тому +1

      *because* they are very rare

  • @kharlaceballos
    @kharlaceballos 4 роки тому +6431

    Internet: INFJ are so rare like just 1% of population.
    All the coments: As an INFJ I FEELT THAT

    • @ajpristine4809
      @ajpristine4809 4 роки тому +589

      We're over 7 billion people in the world.
      1% of that is a lot

    • @EarlyOwOwl
      @EarlyOwOwl 4 роки тому +851

      Also the fact introverts are more likely to be online than extroverts affects the likelihood of finding an infj on here

    • @mauribarua6856
      @mauribarua6856 4 роки тому +196

      That's like 70 mill ppl my man

    • @mars2616
      @mars2616 3 роки тому +75

      That made it feel less especial dude *:/*

    • @lusion5874
      @lusion5874 3 роки тому +134

      Ive taken it the test three times and have gotten the same result. INFJ-T

  • @outpizzathehut6360
    @outpizzathehut6360 4 роки тому +2131

    Random person : * talks to me
    Me,an infj : *uses my infj stare
    Random person : *feels uncomfortable
    Me : *also feels uncomfortable because he feels uncomfortable

    • @destree6348
      @destree6348 4 роки тому +26

      Outpizza The Hut So accurate

    • @jphillips8545
      @jphillips8545 4 роки тому +43

      That’s so accurately hilarious

    • @Lieksels63
      @Lieksels63 4 роки тому +11

      Hahahahah so true

    • @nataliek878
      @nataliek878 4 роки тому +42

      I know this one guy who I don't know if he's an INFJ or ISFJ but dang dude he stares like deep into my soul and it creeps me out. I know it's unintentional but I wish he could like... break the eye contact every... idk, like 5 seconds?

    • @kore808
      @kore808 4 роки тому +12

      Where is the lie

  • @AserGaming
    @AserGaming 3 роки тому +571

    I relate to INTJ way too much

    • @IkanaMaskedMan
      @IkanaMaskedMan 3 роки тому +8

      Lol i laughed because that interpretation happened to me once

    • @lyraserpentine894
      @lyraserpentine894 2 роки тому

      @@IkanaMaskedMan X.) Fantastic name. Y.) I've never experienced this. Probably because I don't date. Z.) It seems efficient & I may adopt it for IF I ever do date.

    • @ciggytwiggy
      @ciggytwiggy 2 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣 and i flirt like this (enfp) with my intj

  • @aaronburdon221
    @aaronburdon221 3 роки тому +292

    ISTP was spot on because that's literally a conversation i've had. lol

    • @elisa7938
      @elisa7938 3 роки тому +23

      Straight to the facts, as always

    • @aaronburdon221
      @aaronburdon221 3 роки тому +79

      @@elisa7938 That's me. Women REALLY hate it though because it "kills the romance". I say long term relationships aren't maintained by romance but rather by commitment and compatibility and similar life goals if not the same life goals. If certain things are romantic then so be it.

    • @diorsknj
      @diorsknj 3 роки тому +3

      saaaame

    • @lucasgoncalves7774
      @lucasgoncalves7774 3 роки тому +71

      @@aaronburdon221 That's the most ISTP thing I've ever read.

    • @kamillaribeiro417
      @kamillaribeiro417 3 роки тому +3

      Same .
      I'm scared ಥ‿ಥ

  • @petetre1013
    @petetre1013 4 роки тому +927

    us INTJ's don't date, we conduct job interviews

    • @nonexistant4260
      @nonexistant4260 4 роки тому +11

      I mean, yeah

    • @izzibizzi
      @izzibizzi 3 роки тому +39

      Yeah. Exactly. Everything must be formal and prepared.

    • @lil_jong-un6668
      @lil_jong-un6668 3 роки тому +8

      Yeah, we don't beat around the bush

    • @Agynessdin
      @Agynessdin 3 роки тому +15

      infj here, i would not mind:)

    • @soundmaven4180
      @soundmaven4180 3 роки тому +29

      Agynessdin I agree. I (INFJ) and my spouse (INTJ) work well this way. Our dating period was a mixture of beautiful dorky awkwardness and intricate planning of everything. It was (and still is) amazing.

  • @yuqie1537
    @yuqie1537 4 роки тому +3004

    I'm INFJ, i'm able to tell when someone is flirting with me and I don't know how to react. It's so awkward

    • @breannamacaluso4836
      @breannamacaluso4836 4 роки тому +204

      Me as an infj *chokes on words and barley makes intelligent sounds, does an awkward double chin single nod and quickly shuffles away*

    • @ines4982
      @ines4982 4 роки тому +45

      Sameee I literally don’t know and it’s the worst I hate it

    • @mishellsilva7348
      @mishellsilva7348 4 роки тому +6

      Same here lol

    • @norabaker4713
      @norabaker4713 4 роки тому +6

      me too i feel that

    • @ashleygray1189
      @ashleygray1189 4 роки тому +26

      *slowly sinks down in school chair*

  • @connorfries8297
    @connorfries8297 3 роки тому +202

    ENFP here. Your thing for people like me is 100% accurate and hilarious. Thank you

    • @mistymane52
      @mistymane52 2 роки тому +21

      As soon as he said cat cafe and karaoke, I was like “ooh that sounds so fun! What an awesome date that would be!”
      So yes! Spot on! 😂👏🏼

    • @cringelord7776
      @cringelord7776 Рік тому +4

      We could go there! Ooooh I haven’t eaten there yet? I wonder what the view is like from there!

    • @Nono3112.
      @Nono3112. 11 місяців тому

      J'ai littéralement déjà proposé un karaoké à quelqu'un qui me plaisait, entre autres ^^ @@mistymane52

  • @karak2113
    @karak2113 2 роки тому +198

    All I can say as an INFP that adores INFJs (no offense to the other MBTIs) my experience with INFJs is they love cuddles, being treated like a baby, and over-analyzing things. And they have amazing poker faces (like INFPs sometimes).
    INFJ secret- inside they are gooey goofballs that are sherlocks at heart. Very intelligent interesting lovely people :)

  • @chiefbogo3282
    @chiefbogo3282 4 роки тому +1989

    INFJ
    Knows when someone is flirting, but at the same time doesn’t know how to flirt
    (potato intensifies)

    • @aaxx9780
      @aaxx9780 4 роки тому +124

      Is it just me or all infj always kinda know when someone is flirting

    • @tatianemartins6615
      @tatianemartins6615 4 роки тому +72

      @@aaxx9780 SAME but we are unable to flirt the same easy that we can realize

    • @trishaseal7782
      @trishaseal7782 4 роки тому +9

      lmao relatable af xD

    • @sohinidutta97
      @sohinidutta97 4 роки тому +32

      Chief Bogo We potate, we don't flirt 😂

    • @tacoqwq1741
      @tacoqwq1741 4 роки тому +3

      Me 24)7

  • @chorvagee
    @chorvagee 4 роки тому +3437

    0:00 ISTJ
    0:06 INTP
    0:25 ESFJ
    0:32 ISFJ
    0:48 ENFJ
    1:01 ESFP
    1:10 ISFP
    1:20 ENTJ
    1:25 ESTP
    1:35 ISTP
    1:40 ESTJ
    1:50 INFJ
    2:02 ENTP
    2:08 INFP
    2:20 INTJ
    2:26 ENFP

  • @bettyravioli7334
    @bettyravioli7334 3 роки тому +107

    Me, an INFP, imagining my whole life with someone I haven’t talked to for 3 years

    • @gwendyrv5525
      @gwendyrv5525 3 роки тому +4

      HAHAHA that's literally me

    • @pistache9772
      @pistache9772 2 роки тому +2

      Oof, it's good not to be alone. xD

  • @Chocorah
    @Chocorah 3 роки тому +135

    I've learned to recognize the fellow ENFP as that one guy who never has their life together. but is still mostly having a good time - and I relate to that vibe so much.

  • @holly7086
    @holly7086 4 роки тому +1015

    as an infj i’m just not sociable enough to know anyone to flirt with lol and i have high standards etc.

    • @blacksheep9772
      @blacksheep9772 4 роки тому +9

      Yep, me too 😊😊
      😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒

    • @emanuelmayer
      @emanuelmayer 4 роки тому +95

      yes, this is my reason, not to flirt ...
      I see their souls... and their possible futures and all of their past lives ... and ..
      hey, why are they gone?

    • @akari3695
      @akari3695 4 роки тому +3

      Hello army, me too

    •  4 роки тому +128

      INFJ can't flirt. We just amplify the usual attention we pay to people.

    • @taylorjade6918
      @taylorjade6918 4 роки тому +16

      @ Oooh I like how you put that 😮

  • @evesolis6133
    @evesolis6133 4 роки тому +2436

    INTJs no matter how attractive they are, just have this talent of creating socially awkward moments.

    • @stingray2044
      @stingray2044 4 роки тому +135

      🤣so true, and I know what I should do but I don’t do it

    • @danicleckley5404
      @danicleckley5404 4 роки тому +187

      It really is a gift I wish I could stop giving.

    • @annakarenina2735
      @annakarenina2735 4 роки тому +19

      @@danicleckley5404 😂😂totally

    • @unknownuser3604
      @unknownuser3604 4 роки тому +86

      Me and my dad are intjs, dude idk why. We create awkward situations at least once a week, sometimes on purpose. Really fun.

    • @constanzas.7541
      @constanzas.7541 4 роки тому +9

      Period. 🙃

  • @kbee8517
    @kbee8517 2 роки тому +94

    As an ENFP, I can confirm we will go on a date anytime, _literally_ anywhere. 3am in a city two hours away? Great! Let's have an impromptu sleepover!!!

    • @Roozyj
      @Roozyj 2 роки тому +14

      also ENFP here. I do have very clear moments where I'm "at home" or "out" in my mental calendar and a hard time switching one to the other. But if I'm "out", a cat café or a karaoke bar both sound very good to me xD

  • @angelaharris53
    @angelaharris53 2 роки тому +43

    INTJ married to INFP. INFP does that, and I'm like, "Oh thank goodness! I am so done with this horrible dating crap! Let's talk brass tacks and plan it out." It was a little more elaborate than that, but very close. We are still married over 20 years later.

    • @srikariabhirami2360
      @srikariabhirami2360 10 місяців тому +3

      omg im dating an infp rn and im an intj and this is so accurate

    • @Interestking
      @Interestking 7 місяців тому +2

      The more of these sketches I watch, the more I realize that I love INTPs, INFJs, and INTJs.
      -an INFP

  • @teacupkoala175
    @teacupkoala175 4 роки тому +1944

    ENFP: acts normal
    Everyone else: Omg he's totally flirting with me
    *but seriously, bring me to that cat café*

    • @amberyaa
      @amberyaa 4 роки тому +12

      😂

    • @sierranicole7643
      @sierranicole7643 4 роки тому +79

      no !! we need to find a cat cafe where they also do karaoke but like weird al style and they change the words to feline appropriate stuff!!!! or we could just sing TOM JONES!!!!!

    • @bella25110
      @bella25110 4 роки тому +31

      - Ok, I can do this. Do you have a cat? I have a cat. I want to have many cats. Or tue are enough. We can go to the walk too. Stars are beautiful. Like you. - ENFP ❤😂 Have a nice day 😊 and sorry for any mistakes 🤷‍♀️

    • @mazmaryam1212
      @mazmaryam1212 4 роки тому +24

      Nahhhh my guysssss a cat cafe at a theme park like thst would be amazing and then pondering the meaning of life afterwards-- now we all know we're ENFPs 💕

    • @saltbending9701
      @saltbending9701 4 роки тому +10

      as an ENTP i can relate, too

  • @OnewBiased
    @OnewBiased 4 роки тому +1084

    Me, an INTP: So.. this is an actual date and you like me? What is wrong with you?

    • @amynopirimidin
      @amynopirimidin 4 роки тому +98

      OnewBiased i love that you know right away that this is going to be the intp, and it gets more and more accurate with every second

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  4 роки тому +47

      true

    • @TopGsBugatti
      @TopGsBugatti 4 роки тому +47

      As an INTP, I knew that was me lol

    • @minhanhnguyen2213
      @minhanhnguyen2213 4 роки тому +31

      The moment i heard the word "practical joke" i like ok it may... "we're gonna stuck in this restaurant for 1 hours" , wow that's exactly i'd been thinking at the last date

    • @hannahsummer22
      @hannahsummer22 4 роки тому

      OnewBiased usually my response as well.

  • @bone_apple_teeth457
    @bone_apple_teeth457 3 роки тому +50

    As an ISTP I totally relate to the detached, unemotive lack of self expression 😂

  • @rimamuryantinahutagalung
    @rimamuryantinahutagalung 3 роки тому +72

    The ISTP is literally my husband when proposing me. And I looked at him with the INFJ stare.

  • @Imptism
    @Imptism 4 роки тому +1536

    me an INTP
    girl flirts with me
    Me says ok
    Me 10 hours later: wait a sec was she filrting with me?

    • @Maaahthew
      @Maaahthew 4 роки тому +207

      I usually wake up at 3am, in a cold sweat, approximately 3 years later, as I suddenly realise they were flirting with me.

    • @rm2915
      @rm2915 4 роки тому +10

      Honestly though...

    • @dradelcra
      @dradelcra 4 роки тому +14

      A bit too close to home 😂

    • @sammywong2074
      @sammywong2074 4 роки тому +34

      Ha! we are like children when it comes to social interactions.

    • @MAF-08
      @MAF-08 4 роки тому +3

      stop being losers, just learn how to do it...use ur logic

  • @sofiereads
    @sofiereads 3 роки тому +63

    The ISFJ literally trying to be prepared for everything and offering his jacket is literally me in a nutshell....after the jacket comes the soul....once we care for someone very deeply we offer our entire lives to them...I know I do this all the time

    • @kikilala8720
      @kikilala8720 2 роки тому +6

      I love ISFJ

    • @sofiereads
      @sofiereads 2 роки тому +4

      @@kikilala8720 me too, they are so sweet

  • @sunshaini7861
    @sunshaini7861 3 роки тому +113

    as an ENFJ, we really do a big and exaggerated compliment to a person that we JUST MET and then try to make it normal when they feel uncomfortable but they're already thinking that we're absolutely weirdos. And we are.

    • @aliaaysha2072
      @aliaaysha2072 3 роки тому +5

      Yessss! I’ve thought this about an ENFj guy

    • @freefreepalestine0107
      @freefreepalestine0107 3 роки тому +4

      so relatable-
      JDJEKFKD i should learn how to tone my compliments down,even my istj bff felt creeped out by me at first-

    • @damecore
      @damecore 2 роки тому +1

      Accurate!

    • @indy_cwxyii5518
      @indy_cwxyii5518 2 роки тому +1

      omggg i felt thattt :((

    • @purplevortex
      @purplevortex 2 роки тому +2

      As an ISFJ, ENFJs are some of my favorite types and I'd love to date one!

  • @lizhe2914
    @lizhe2914 4 роки тому +1505

    Bruh, I'm INTP. I went on a date once and didnt know it was a date until he tried to kiss me. I thought it was just super nice of him to treat me to dinner 😂. Gotta make things clear for us INTP.

  • @mbhero20
    @mbhero20 4 роки тому +860

    That moment as an INTJ when you rehearsed an entire scenario of "flirting", then it happens and none of it goes as planned.

  • @dmsviola1
    @dmsviola1 2 роки тому +29

    Man, there's something about ISTPs that are hilarious to me, but I honestly appreciate how clear cut and straightforward they are. Even if you'd lose out on romance, and least you'd know what's what without the nonsense.
    ~ an INFP

  • @xiexielianlian7150
    @xiexielianlian7150 3 роки тому +45

    Me looking at the title: "INTJs flirt????" Me after watching the video: "nvm"

  • @shali4648
    @shali4648 4 роки тому +1341

    INTJ when flirting: *avoiding eye contact and talking at all cost so that the person won't see that I have feelings and like them*

    • @Angie-xd6ql
      @Angie-xd6ql 4 роки тому +54

      I feel personally attacked 🙄

    • @peachesandcream8753
      @peachesandcream8753 4 роки тому +30

      @@Angie-xd6ql Me too. This happens to me all of the time.

    • @unknownuser3604
      @unknownuser3604 4 роки тому +54

      Actually don't avoid eye contact, this is totally a love thing. Stare at them right in the eyes until they turn their head blushing away.

    • @dilara6499
      @dilara6499 4 роки тому +18

      what if he's an INTJ and doesn't avoid eye contact 0.0

    • @thehillstead
      @thehillstead 4 роки тому +23

      @@dilara6499 hold onto your panties.

  • @beths1909
    @beths1909 4 роки тому +628

    I feel like two INFJs flirting with each other is each of us just doing the soul stare at each other until one of us dies, which honestly, isn’t the worst way to go. I’d at least die probably feeling understood 😐 😅

    • @taylorjade6918
      @taylorjade6918 4 роки тому +21

      Ah 💞 understood.

    • @nilufertalibova
      @nilufertalibova 4 роки тому +10

      Hahaha😂 Yes, no need for words. We can understand other person by soul staring😂

    • @AxisFlowers
      @AxisFlowers 4 роки тому +30

      My boyfriend is INFJ, I'm INFP/J. It took us 4 years to start talking to each other.

    • @janmots2829
      @janmots2829 4 роки тому +9

      It would just be a staring competition until someone breaks eye contact... 😂

    • @rx500android
      @rx500android 4 роки тому

      Honestly I wish

  • @wonyu
    @wonyu 3 роки тому +31

    As an ISTP, I was wondering how this video will potray an ISTP flirting cuz I cant imagine myself flirting. After seeing the vid, i guess it's accurate haha

  • @keythealmiighty
    @keythealmiighty 3 роки тому +25

    I've been binge watching these vieos and I swear ISTP is scarily accurate

  • @TitusCheshire
    @TitusCheshire 4 роки тому +642

    Being an INFP is a life of constant heartbreak.

  • @bradypreston7376
    @bradypreston7376 4 роки тому +196

    As an ISTP, I laughed at how painfully accurate this is.

  • @nataliiaperesada7550
    @nataliiaperesada7550 Рік тому +19

    I'm laughing because as an INTJ it describes my way of thinking about the dates so accurately. They look to me like the job interviews really, like that's a process of hiring a perfect candidate for the role of the relationship partner.

    • @dianeandmark1054
      @dianeandmark1054 8 місяців тому

      Reminder to self: It’s ok to just have fun sometimes and not subtlety (I hope) probe for information.

  • @veyamarie1506
    @veyamarie1506 3 роки тому +35

    as an ENTP i just have to agree with this skit lol, i tend to find myself liking people who are either the polar opposite of me, or extremely similar, no in between.

    • @Lia.kibo_
      @Lia.kibo_ 2 роки тому +1

      I mean like... I kinda agree with that.

    • @elleglenn
      @elleglenn 2 роки тому +5

      I totally disagree ... And I kinda like it 😀

  • @katatara6447
    @katatara6447 4 роки тому +591

    2:24 the INTJ saying awkward things out loud and arguing inside his head is literally me all the time in social situations. Kind of hilarious and miserable

    • @williamharis2467
      @williamharis2467 4 роки тому +4

      I couldn't agree more

    • @user-zh6ii9it9s
      @user-zh6ii9it9s 4 роки тому +3

      Lmao, it's me 😂😭

    • @mariana.b.
      @mariana.b. 4 роки тому +19

      me, always saying the wrong things at the wrong time, trying to say something nice.

    • @jawhi
      @jawhi 4 роки тому +9

      I’m INTJ and can confirm that is exactly what happens all the time

    • @imeandmyself707
      @imeandmyself707 4 роки тому +2

      @@mariana.b. I feel you girl😂😂 I do that a lot

  • @acer.racerr
    @acer.racerr 4 роки тому +1031

    love how theres only infp's and intj's here.

  • @krishasharma402
    @krishasharma402 4 роки тому +31

    I'm an ISTP and 1:35 had me wheezing😂

  • @mayenn2006
    @mayenn2006 3 роки тому +33

    I literally said "awww!" as a smile spread across my face when the ISFJ started listing the things he packed for the walk.
    Preparedness AND snacks - instant turn on for me, we might as well just walk to the alter and get married

    • @carissahill3414
      @carissahill3414 2 роки тому

      🤣

    • @indy_cwxyii5518
      @indy_cwxyii5518 2 роки тому

      wow great :) i'm ENFJ and my crush is ISFJ. uhmm, can you tell me what MBTI that you get? i just want to check the compatibility :')

    • @indy_cwxyii5518
      @indy_cwxyii5518 2 роки тому

      as an ENFJ, idk why but i like ISFJ personality. he's such a kind person and yeah, i really like it. but i'm not sure with his feeling for me :((( maybw ke doesn't like me back :')

  • @mihiyoon4274
    @mihiyoon4274 4 роки тому +676

    As an INFJ, I can't help but stare into people's eyes while they talk and end up getting so engrossed in observing their eyes or lips that I forget what they were even saying, lol.
    Sometimes I try not to be a creep and try to look away every 15 seconds (some site told me it's the max time I should stare, lol) but then I just divert all of my attention to counting the seconds and then staring deep into their eyes or at their teeth (Idk why even)

    • @wanderingintime
      @wanderingintime 4 роки тому +6

      whoah. you are a creep. (I just did what you spoke of yesterday) also, I feel you on being the infp/j mix (another video).

    • @mihiyoon4274
      @mihiyoon4274 4 роки тому +8

      @@wanderingintime lol, I am still confused about my type;;

    • @ayaaly2866
      @ayaaly2866 4 роки тому +5

      Whhhaat?! I thought it is just me 😂

    • @destree6348
      @destree6348 4 роки тому +5

      Dang... that's so me

    • @harseik7354
      @harseik7354 4 роки тому +18

      As an INFP, eye contact is FORBIDDEN.

  • @lindaolof9228
    @lindaolof9228 4 роки тому +1169

    INFP:"I want our corpses to be burried together in the same coffin"

    • @quirogatnonerrat3214
      @quirogatnonerrat3214 4 роки тому +18

      Awwwww, dont worry. I have such expressions as well and thoughts and I am an INFJ

    • @stephw.7874
      @stephw.7874 3 роки тому +2

      Why the same coffin though? Doesn't seem like there would be enough room.

    • @radioactive_baby0706
      @radioactive_baby0706 3 роки тому +18

      @@stephw.7874 I'm stuck on the fact that this person is assuming that they'll die at the same time

    • @BigFanOfCocks
      @BigFanOfCocks 3 роки тому +7

      @@radioactive_baby0706 doesn't have to be at the same time

    • @radioactive_baby0706
      @radioactive_baby0706 3 роки тому +5

      @@BigFanOfCocks So when the other person dies, they are going to dig up the casket and throw them in there?

  • @kayleelomas5598
    @kayleelomas5598 3 роки тому +43

    As an ENTJ, can relate. If I don’t like you, I ain’t going to give it a chance. I’ll be straight up about it, we can still be friends, but I ain’t spending my time waiting for feelings to appear. I’ve got shit to do!

    • @thesharinganknight9859
      @thesharinganknight9859 3 роки тому +18

      Looking for an ENTJ comment, because we're so damn rare.

    • @flyingdart9819
      @flyingdart9819 3 роки тому +3

      U ENTJ are too productive to look at these kind of things for even a small amount of time. I'm surprised i even found you - INFJ.

    • @goldentreefrog18
      @goldentreefrog18 3 роки тому +6

      @@flyingdart9819 we need something to do while we're eating dinner

    • @Natalie-yg5rn
      @Natalie-yg5rn 2 роки тому

      Intj

  • @zacharyharwell351
    @zacharyharwell351 3 роки тому +21

    INTJ here: perfection. Which is saying something coming from an INTJ lol

  • @unistudent3353
    @unistudent3353 4 роки тому +685

    As an INTP I can seriously vouch for how true this is😂😂
    "Are you flirting?...or is this a joke?"
    "You sure about this? Like you sure you like me?"
    "You're serious?"
    "You're going to leave me eventually"

    • @_aiko020
      @_aiko020 3 роки тому +18

      ACCURATEE 😭

    • @Unknownmillie137
      @Unknownmillie137 3 роки тому +40

      True lol when he was saying that I was like “isn’t that me? INTP?” and then I burst out laughing 😂

    • @badcreations9527
      @badcreations9527 3 роки тому +26

      That is so me in a nutshell. And the one time I did accept it they kinda left me for another person. In the end I did say “I told you so!” when they left me for another person.

    • @annaromanesky9603
      @annaromanesky9603 3 роки тому +1

      yaaasss someone else who is INTP

    • @AstroGalRose
      @AstroGalRose 3 роки тому +2

      Omg that’s so me 😂😂

  • @naaitxo
    @naaitxo 4 роки тому +275

    Infp and i provably already fantasized about a life together before even getting there.

    • @pinkrocker61401
      @pinkrocker61401 4 роки тому +24

      Nai “what if he’s my soul mate? When i see him will it be love at first sight? I have to remember this day so I can tell our kids”

    • @VeryTori
      @VeryTori 4 роки тому +2

      I am a mixture of INFP and ENFP, and I totally relate to this.

    • @mavisdom-animeonpiano
      @mavisdom-animeonpiano 4 роки тому

      Nai lol

    • @RandolphCrane
      @RandolphCrane 4 роки тому +3

      My INFP bf was like "you are my soulmate" after the first date.

    • @user-cp9xg1nm3x
      @user-cp9xg1nm3x 4 роки тому +3

      Yeah I fantasized about someone and years later I actually fell in love with him. It was hard but he won my heart completely different from what I expected🙈

  • @Sandy-pm6kk
    @Sandy-pm6kk 3 роки тому +21

    I love how ENFP's r basically always golden retrievers 🤣🤣

    • @sams_enfp
      @sams_enfp 9 місяців тому

      i knowwwww
      AND I WANT ONE 🥰

  • @oppa3522
    @oppa3522 3 роки тому +49

    Cute client at work: Have a lovley wonderful end of shift💖
    Me, an INTJ: Yeah you too. +shies away from embarrassment+

    • @evolili4245
      @evolili4245 3 роки тому +2

      Oh thats so cute😊 I would get only more interested

    • @Concatenate
      @Concatenate 3 роки тому +3

      Lol, like the Socially Awkward Penguin memes.
      Waiter: Enjoy your dinner
      You: Thanks, you too.
      Lol.......

    • @rikawithshotgun
      @rikawithshotgun 3 роки тому +1

      Oh noooo lol I do the same thing!

    • @hacerkiilc
      @hacerkiilc 3 роки тому +1

      I can't even smile

    • @doreenkalolela2195
      @doreenkalolela2195 3 роки тому

      By the way are you an IGot7? Sorry but i just wanted to ask this

  • @Gabriela-bl5py
    @Gabriela-bl5py 4 роки тому +512

    INTP female here... I wouldn't event ask. I would be sure it's just a friends gathering and then pikachu face when they try to kiss me goodbye

  • @countbathory4020
    @countbathory4020 4 роки тому +631

    Me, an INTJ: *smiles, and tries very hard to say something more than ‘hmm’ in varying tones*

  • @anis_n
    @anis_n 3 роки тому +27

    INTP inability to trust the other person is 👌🏻😫
    Someone: hey I’m kinda into you
    Me, an INTP: haha that was a joke right? there’s no way anyone would like me 🙃

  • @raininess
    @raininess 3 роки тому +11

    I really appreciate how well prepared ISFJ guy is for the park since I probably brought a bag with tissues, plasters, an umbrella and snacks/water. Possibly also scissors, sunglasses and deodorant cause you never know. XD
    ENFP had me at cat café, but completely lost me a moment later.

  • @K1nda_Yeh
    @K1nda_Yeh 4 роки тому +145

    As an enfp, the accuracy of this video scares me... I just came back home from karaoke bar wtf

  • @josephhelms2362
    @josephhelms2362 4 роки тому +749

    Everyone Else: 😐
    INFJs: 👁 👁

  • @nicolcacola
    @nicolcacola 3 роки тому +34

    As an INFJ married to an ISTP, I'm the only one that can make him ramble with my soul stares 😂

  • @petyreyvind9963
    @petyreyvind9963 3 роки тому +16

    That INTJ one is just YES.

  • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
    @strivingfornewhorizons9281 4 роки тому +566

    ENFP flirting: *doesn't even realize they're flirting*
    Edit: Damn, I think I never got that many likes, thanks! 😂😁
    Edit 2: Clearly we need a T-shirt that tells other people that what we're doing isn't flirting. The number of people who can relate speaks for itself xD

    • @tenthousanddaysofgratitude
      @tenthousanddaysofgratitude 4 роки тому +29

      Striving for new horizons exactly. But when we do want to flirt, the other person doesn’t stand a chance.

    • @Graggbjkfdx
      @Graggbjkfdx 4 роки тому +30

      So true! they're just like puppies! act like they love you so much at first sight and then do that every each one in the same way

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 4 роки тому +35

      @@Graggbjkfdx That's too true xD.
      I talked to a guy from my college dorm a few weeks ago. We talked for 3h straight and I thought we were just having a cool conversation, so I thought "Yay, I've made a new friend!".
      ...he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend shortly after. He thought I was flirting the entire time. It was awkward af
      It's fine now, we're just friends and he understood that this behavior is normal to me xD

    • @udonfrenzy
      @udonfrenzy 4 роки тому +25

      @@strivingfornewhorizons9281 this is my struggle right now!! I'm trying to make new friends, and I really enjoy talking to people and getting to know them. But this has now translated to having, I kid you not, 8 men who are actively pursuing me. ENFPs how do you successfully let them down but still remain friends?! HELPPPP

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 4 роки тому +16

      @@udonfrenzy I feel you😂😂
      It especially sucks when you're not even looking for a relationship.
      Idk, I told him I needed time and that I wanted to be friends first. Then I didn't see him for a couple of days (which was hard to do, cause we live almost next to another and use the same kitchen xD) and rarely texted back - I was still answering, just wasn't on my phone very much, my uni exams were coming up (I tried to focus on learning all the stuff I would've learned weeks before😅). He eventually got it and acted normal the next time I saw him.
      I can't give you a formula tho, I wish I could^^"
      Other times I used humor.
      Someone asked me for nudes by saying "show your melons" (in my language it sounds a lot less weird) - I sent him a pic of me with two melons I bought in the supermarket. He wasn't amused 😂😂

  • @adryanadiniz8453
    @adryanadiniz8453 4 роки тому +1723

    Me an INTJ
    "I like you and want to be more than friends. You decide what you want to do with that information"
    I honestly said that to a guy when I was 16.
    EDIT: seeing so many likes makes me feel a little more normal! Hahaha I've truly found my people!

    • @MoMo-vo6xw
      @MoMo-vo6xw 4 роки тому +43

      Omg same gal I relate to that so much!!!

    • @hopelessmachine
      @hopelessmachine 4 роки тому +10

      Mood

    • @alexjimenez8413
      @alexjimenez8413 4 роки тому +53

      I see no issue with this

    • @adryanadiniz8453
      @adryanadiniz8453 4 роки тому +40

      @@alexjimenez8413 me neither. But a lot of people have told that it was (I'm) weird hahaha

    • @Ab-ub2ii
      @Ab-ub2ii 4 роки тому +51

      That's the kind of attitude and to the point , precise sentences we like ( an intp)

  • @ammarahismaeltaug3127
    @ammarahismaeltaug3127 3 роки тому +14

    man: Hey... I think I like you.
    INFP: Just... a simple wedding. Okay?

  • @heatherwillis7000
    @heatherwillis7000 3 роки тому +34

    Me, an INFJ: *sees a DM notification*
    DM: Hey. What's up?
    Me: Meh, *deletes*

  • @brittanypage1706
    @brittanypage1706 4 роки тому +478

    INTJ... Having more of a conversation with yourself than the other person.

    • @mariobros7834
      @mariobros7834 4 роки тому +10

      That is true, but the conversation itself is wrong. He got this one wrong.

    • @moontrooper2587
      @moontrooper2587 4 роки тому +50

      I actually once had a conversation about how I talk to myself too often, but that that’s okay.
      ... With myself.

    • @taki0ps230
      @taki0ps230 4 роки тому +4

      @@moontrooper2587 Same here haha

    • @Delimon007
      @Delimon007 4 роки тому +4

      Oh, now I get it. Yea, that's definitely me. . . I have 2 different sides, technically 3 now but still mostly 2 XD

    • @canadacaden3266
      @canadacaden3266 4 роки тому

      That’s me in a nutshell.

  • @aidadenisa8553
    @aidadenisa8553 4 роки тому +124

    "You look average. You look about average right now."
    I'd fall for that

  • @yesindeed4215
    @yesindeed4215 3 роки тому +22

    I’m ENTJ and I’ve got an ISFJ friend who does everything for me even without asking. I’d just like to thank all the ISJFs out there for being the perfect mom friend

  • @imperialchalice
    @imperialchalice 3 роки тому +10

    That INTJ was so accurate. I’ve known my INTJ friend for ten years now and she still sucks at parting ways after a hang out. Love her to death, though, but in general I think INTJs are just so charming.
    Also when did an INFJ even know how to flirt??? Lol My flirting consists of: I like you. We should hang out. You should tell me everything you like. What would you like to do? Let’s go do that, let’s make you happy. *tail wag* *gets tired* can you hug me? :( *sleeps* lol 😂

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 4 роки тому +336

    The INTP one killed me.
    My husband (also an INTP) asked me out by email for our first date. (The email was multiple choice.) I definitley was not 100% sure it was a date until well after the fact.
    It's probably a miracle that we ended up married.

    • @yumekyn6283
      @yumekyn6283 3 роки тому +19

      i'm laughing lol

    • @ceilinh6004
      @ceilinh6004 3 роки тому +4

      @@denizviolet INTP also

    • @eval4495
      @eval4495 3 роки тому +22

      I had a similar experience 😆 I was around 14 or 15. I can't believe I still remember this. He gave me a multiple choice sheet. I guess he might've been an INTP 🤭

    • @finnian5588
      @finnian5588 2 роки тому +6

      I didn't realize we were coupled until my future wife ESFJ played interference between me INTP and another girl who was interested in me. I was just reading in the student center and BAM! there she is. "Hey honey, wanna coffee, I'll get you one, on me!" *She bounces away* The other girl casually approaches me. (My God, how is it that these girls keep playing jokes on me as if they really like me? - I'm thinking) The other girl and I start talking....
      ....the lights flicker.....
      ....the wind picks up....
      ....it's cold, an I feel electricity in the air....
      I see Pilar levitating in the hallway...... ua-cam.com/video/4wGXn2vWVao/v-deo.html
      I never knew what that other girls name was, or what happened to her.

    • @ciggytwiggy
      @ciggytwiggy Рік тому

      HAHHAHAHA

  • @natnuss98
    @natnuss98 4 роки тому +370

    ENFP during a date:
    What is shown in this video
    ENFP after a good date:
    What INFP said in this video

  • @annacherniichuk9110
    @annacherniichuk9110 3 роки тому +15

    as female istp it was like
    bf: i feel like your friends think we're dating
    me: can't we?
    bf: oh...
    me: okay we dating now

    • @AlexG-jm7cd
      @AlexG-jm7cd 3 роки тому +2

      That's honestly adorable.

  • @SEACRUZNY
    @SEACRUZNY 3 роки тому

    Loving the podcast

  • @LineoftheCarols
    @LineoftheCarols 4 роки тому +606

    INTJ here who just went on a date and literally ended it with "I'll be in touch".

    • @DH-ig3bo
      @DH-ig3bo 4 роки тому +20

      Lol omgosh I snorted... that's me af

    • @hoashiachi
      @hoashiachi 4 роки тому +16

      I said to any guy "yeah.. I m gonna send email to ya". But i wont, if he is not smart enuf for me. Lol. I am an INTJ girl.

    • @Lunaliiii
      @Lunaliiii 4 роки тому +25

      Date? What is that?

    • @victorpleyosa4386
      @victorpleyosa4386 4 роки тому +39

      You guys are going on dates?

    • @masteroogway6339
      @masteroogway6339 4 роки тому +3

      IM LAUGHING CUZ ITS TRUE 🤣🤣

  • @bentooh2371
    @bentooh2371 4 роки тому +171

    Person: I genuinely like you
    INTP: *looks around frantically* am I gonna get pranked??!

    • @HSdirectioner5
      @HSdirectioner5 4 роки тому +7

      Literally me in one sentence

    • @anandphulwani5350
      @anandphulwani5350 4 роки тому +2

      I come here and suddenly,out of bloody nowhere......I am not alone😭😭😭(btw on second thoughts I don't really mind being alone that much...

    • @twentysevenand
      @twentysevenand 4 роки тому +4

      I can never believe that someone's into me because I'm such a loner.

    • @idiamondidiamond865
      @idiamondidiamond865 4 роки тому +1

      When someone was hinting it to me and me as a intp just carried the conversation untill they said it was a prank it wasn’t also I used them as a test subject to see how other people would react

    • @HSdirectioner5
      @HSdirectioner5 4 роки тому +2

      Idiamond Idiamond a guy on Instagram was literally using like five laughing emojis per text, and asked if I have a boyfriend, so when I asked him if he was flirting with me, he said no, he was just being friendly. I don’t know what to believe anymore..

  • @Boogernaught
    @Boogernaught 3 роки тому +15

    I never knew I was a creepy infj starer til this one time when I was drunk I was totally convinced that the power of stare magnetism was the way to get a guys attention. It wasn’t working at all but I just kept trying like a psycho.. like Sheldon trying to Vader choke Leonard. All flirting was experiments to entertain myself.

    • @dawnarussom3061
      @dawnarussom3061 3 роки тому

      Lmfaoooo can we be friends? This is fucking awesome! Damn it. Not I'm going to giggle everytime I know I'm doing the stare which will make it soooo much worse.

  • @valerielinares2068
    @valerielinares2068 3 роки тому +8

    INFJ, here. I've taken the MBTI test several times from different websites. I've even taken the Big Five. Every. Single. Time. They describe me as "intense." LOL, I never thought of myself as "intense." lol. But, after seeing this video, I get it. I can think back at conversations where I'm really listening to someone, and I can see how it can seem like I'm "creepily staring into their soul," LOL! Once, a while back, there was this girl I met in one of my classes and she told me I made her feel weird. She's the only one who ever said anything like that to me. But, after seeing this video, I wonder how many people feel that way around me and just never said anything.

  • @febreeze9348
    @febreeze9348 4 роки тому +184

    One time someone told me they liked me. I looked left and right in search of spectators and said, “is this a dare?”
    ~an INTP

    • @manager-nim2623
      @manager-nim2623 4 роки тому +23

      No dumbass it isn't a dare, your smart-ass self is attractive and I like you
      ~ me to my imaginary INTP

    • @febreeze9348
      @febreeze9348 4 роки тому +20

      manager-nim I like how you called me a dumbass and a smart-ass in the same sentence.

    • @Dim2134
      @Dim2134 4 роки тому +13

      @@febreeze9348 Yet it feels so true sometimes, no? Fucking paradoxes.

    • @laurah3791
      @laurah3791 4 роки тому +2

      Febreeze sounds like something i'd do too ~an INFP

    • @robincastle2213
      @robincastle2213 4 роки тому +3

      Someone at my school said i look cute and i literally said "okay thank you." Funny cuz i also thought it was a dare
      ~INTP (A)

  • @nilufertalibova
    @nilufertalibova 4 роки тому +353

    Trying to see everyone's soul results being single forever I think😄Because most people don't care of spiritual things and this hurts INFJs so much

    • @sophiaredwood5825
      @sophiaredwood5825 4 роки тому +14

      Oh my goodness, I’m literally the exact same way! Nobody in my circle or potential relationships really gets that about me, so I guess I’ll just keep on waiting... lol
      ~ENFP

    • @nilufertalibova
      @nilufertalibova 4 роки тому +19

      @@sophiaredwood5825 unfortunately :( Understand you very well. I think NF types are more spiritual people than others. My sister is also ENFP, very spiritual and hypersensitive. Life is difficult for us😄

    • @Julia-LArt
      @Julia-LArt 4 роки тому +2

      So true!

    • @KeeperOfKeys22
      @KeeperOfKeys22 4 роки тому +12

      Im sorry, I can't hear you if I'm lost in your soul. Not only is it intimate but the bad feelings are compounded when I realize that I didn't hear a word you said.
      INFP

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 4 роки тому +6

      Seems like ENFP and INFJ attract each other xD. One of closest friends is an INFJ, she's the most person I've ever met.
      I (ENFP) am nowhere near to being as spiritual as her (I do trust the universe and I believe everything happens for a reason, you attract people because they are meant to teach you something or because you're similar to them -> law of attraction etc. But there's not much more "spiritual" about me and my beliefs). We can chat about her experiences tho and I try my best to make sense of it. I'd never judge her, even if it sounds crazy to me sometimes (I guess it's cause her Fi is much stronger than mine)

  • @sybellegoff5356
    @sybellegoff5356 3 роки тому +15

    I’m an istp he always makes us seem like robots and I find it funny but I’m also just like 🥲

  • @i_the_Spirit
    @i_the_Spirit 3 роки тому +4

    As an ENTJ I took time out of my schedule to watch this and was not disappointed.

  • @niki2037
    @niki2037 4 роки тому +1250

    I’m an INTP with a terrible tendency to fall in love with anyone who is being kind to me and then getting shocked that they were being just friendly and not flirting, which then causes me to suspect everyone of just being friendly and I become painfully oblivious
    edit: as time went by and I had a (fairly short due to my disinterest) relationship, I realized I don't really want to bother with serious committed relationships :'3
    To all the oblivious INTPs out there: you are valid and it's totally OK to be oblivious, there's nothing wrong with it. For me personally, it's not just with relationships, but with all communication in general, I prefer knowing things straight-up, without having to read between the lines. Relationship communication is fickle, and if you're not ready to put in the effort to make a relationship work (like me), that's completely alright too. If there are certain affection needs you want (because, despite being cold and calculated, we are still human.. someone described INTPs as "warmest machines"), make the boundaries clear, because from what I found, some people don't like the wishy-washy uncertainty.

  • @louise19808
    @louise19808 4 роки тому +215

    INFJ and accidentally stared into my crush's soul for a solid 4 seconds before having a heart attack when I realised what was happening.

    • @YVZSTUDIOS
      @YVZSTUDIOS 4 роки тому +20

      Here is a tip I got from someone. Wink 😉 completely changes the mood and 80% of people smile as a response because it's such an unexpected thing. Or you can do an *intense stare competition* where both of you stare at each other until someone gives up 😂

    • @SammySprinkler1207
      @SammySprinkler1207 4 роки тому +10

      @@YVZSTUDIOS you think i have the balls to do that?

    • @user-uu2cj9ct3j
      @user-uu2cj9ct3j 4 роки тому +4

      I sometimes wonder if my crush suspects that I like her...I try not to stare, honestly...

    • @Webs.x
      @Webs.x 4 роки тому +2

      My crush yelled at me for doing the same thing. She doesnt like being looked at

    • @Webs.x
      @Webs.x 4 роки тому +2

      @@SammySprinkler1207 lmao me neither

  • @oxiphy
    @oxiphy 3 роки тому +10

    As an intp, that feeling when you always second guess other people's intentions. I always think people just get close to me to make fun of me, im that paranoid.

  • @solegonz762
    @solegonz762 3 роки тому

    Thank you!!! I needed that laugh

  • @dayzeandconfuze
    @dayzeandconfuze 4 роки тому +316

    As an INFJ I've had past partners tell me when we first met they found me intimidating bc I have this quiet, aloof yet direct exterior, but then they got to know me and realized that facade is how I cover up my acute social anxiety.

    • @rifaatisk1061
      @rifaatisk1061 4 роки тому +9

      Thats so true

    • @kylierosee
      @kylierosee 4 роки тому +32

      Bruh so many people find me intimidating before they get to know me and it’s very strange

    • @rflptrs
      @rflptrs 4 роки тому +11

      As an INFJ I agree to this. I have acute social anxiety as well.

    • @thestrewberry1833
      @thestrewberry1833 4 роки тому +12

      In high school I asked a close teacher why know one likes me, and she said a lot of people do, I just put off confidence and they are intimidated.

    • @dayzeandconfuze
      @dayzeandconfuze 4 роки тому +12

      Tempprince Likes Art confidence is intimidating to people because a lot of people don’t have any. There’s a lot of people who are cocky and self righteous but thats different than true confidence, and those people actually tend to be the most insecure so they’ve developed ways of drawing lots of people in and keeping them close. But the right people will be drawn to your confidence, and it will get you far while being able to keep your own pride and wellbeing intact.

  • @Rainiers
    @Rainiers 4 роки тому +197

    ENTPs really be out there thinking arguing is flirting 😂

    • @licacocosova3662
      @licacocosova3662 4 роки тому +14

      So true, it's like we hadn't outgrown pulling pigtails phase 😂

    • @BurgundyandBlue1111
      @BurgundyandBlue1111 4 роки тому +30

      I can attest to this. My ENTP son loves to debate on almost any subject. That is his idea of a "good talk". I am fine with it as his INTJ mother, but I imagine it would be annoying for the girls he has dated.

    • @averagegirl9108
      @averagegirl9108 4 роки тому +26

      @@BurgundyandBlue1111 for the intp girls, it's like the best date possible

    • @Rainiers
      @Rainiers 4 роки тому +16

      At least they'll never run out of things to talk about though 😂

    • @micahgmiranda
      @micahgmiranda 4 роки тому +4

      It's not? No wonder.

  • @taz9951
    @taz9951 3 роки тому +9

    INTP: As one that feels about right surprisingly.

  • @fF-cj6ds
    @fF-cj6ds 3 роки тому +16

    i... i actually did say "i'll be in touch" at the end of a date... ha no wonder im single now haha