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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  8 місяців тому +28

    Watch "16 Personalities CONFESSING their Love" next! 👉 ua-cam.com/video/JojmS9NlFGQ/v-deo.html

    • @m.m.c.9463
      @m.m.c.9463 8 місяців тому +1

      okAY WHY DOES THIS HAVE NO LIKES 😭

  • @psiquenyx8193
    @psiquenyx8193 4 роки тому +14310

    I'm not single, I'm married with a imaginary person that I made because I want a perfect relationship
    -INFP

    • @-x562
      @-x562 4 роки тому +324

      same. ಥ‿ಥ👍🏿

    • @suna7511
      @suna7511 4 роки тому +395

      Bruh im an infp but iv been hung up on a girl for 4 years. I cant even sleep without thinking of her

    • @-x562
      @-x562 4 роки тому +116

      @@suna7511 wow, im happy for you.

    • @kritishrestha7471
      @kritishrestha7471 4 роки тому +170

      @@suna7511 bruhh same!! Hung up on a guy for almost 5 years. Haven't talked for like a year and not seen for 3 years.

    • @psiquenyx8193
      @psiquenyx8193 4 роки тому +30

      @@suna7511 that's so cute

  • @marisacuberi2537
    @marisacuberi2537 4 роки тому +6232

    INFJ: Having hope on people that they will change and get badly dissapointed but tries again. My life in a nutshell

  • @Eepy666
    @Eepy666 4 роки тому +3788

    intp *falls in love
    intp: gotta find a cure for this asap

    • @hollowhoagie6441
      @hollowhoagie6441 4 роки тому +112

      Can relate lol

    • @sansnitizer
      @sansnitizer 4 роки тому +143

      it's just kinda strange for personalities that cognitively depends on thinking more to feel

    • @AskForDoodles
      @AskForDoodles 4 роки тому +128

      ikr I can't afford to be distracted, I got legendaries to craft

    • @readysetfail9194
      @readysetfail9194 4 роки тому +81

      *Proceeds to spend the day in movies searching for answers.

    • @DarthTach
      @DarthTach 4 роки тому +43

      It's funny because I said the exact same thing before I even read the comments.

  • @Ourlifepalette
    @Ourlifepalette 3 роки тому +2237

    As an INFP who’s been bullied and emotionally abused, I didn’t care any more about the “ideal fictional man” in my head. I knew I was screwed up and I didn’t expect any potential man to be any more perfect than I was. I just needed someone to accept me for the train wreck I am and I told myself I’d love him as he is, flaws and all. And I did. Yes, I’m happily married.

    • @samueldeel2696
      @samueldeel2696 3 роки тому +192

      Awww that’s amazing! I’m an infp too, and I’m kind of at that point. I just want someone I can trust

    • @MsRan26
      @MsRan26 3 роки тому +89

      @@samueldeel2696 me too... as infp, trust is my priority

    • @jeinyabad
      @jeinyabad 3 роки тому +67

      so, I guess we INFP can grow to this point, because am also there emotionally

    • @jeinyabad
      @jeinyabad 3 роки тому +19

      so, I guess we INFP can grow to this point, because am also there emotionally

    • @alittleinfppanda
      @alittleinfppanda 3 роки тому +20

      Yeah, me too: I'm also at that point.

  • @linneav1064
    @linneav1064 4 роки тому +3114

    INFP strategy:
    1. Find a cute person
    2. Apply the ideal personality
    3. Fantasize about future together
    4. Get disappointed when he does not meet your ideals.
    Oh yes. I am single.

    • @warriormaiden9829
      @warriormaiden9829 4 роки тому +392

      Better INFP strategy:
      1. Find a cute person with a great personality.
      2. Realize that you will inevitably apply a perfect (in your head) personality to them.
      3. Definitely fantasize about futures together.
      4. Accept that the ideals that you have applied to this person might be ridiculously high, and acknowledge that it's okay.
      5. Realize that you love them despite their quirks and flaws.
      6. Work together and move forward anyway.
      Sincerely,
      An INFP that's been happily married for 6 (almost 7) years. :)

    • @ryo7735
      @ryo7735 4 роки тому +231

      My INFP strategy is like;
      1.Find a cute person
      2. Analyse him/her
      3. Add his good ways to your imaginery boyfriend
      4.Fantasize about future together
      5. Cry cause he is not real

    • @linneav1064
      @linneav1064 4 роки тому +32

      @@ryo7735 BIG MOOD

    • @linneav1064
      @linneav1064 4 роки тому +22

      @@warriormaiden9829 I will try next time I can go out to actually find a crush

    • @warriormaiden9829
      @warriormaiden9829 4 роки тому +5

      @@linneav1064 Good luck! :)

  • @ryanbarker3978
    @ryanbarker3978 4 роки тому +4756

    INFJ and INFP together are pretty much me:
    "Oh I see all of your flaws coming from three miles away, but don't worry as I've already fixed all of them in my head for you."

    • @JonasAnandaKristiansson
      @JonasAnandaKristiansson 4 роки тому +65

      true!

    • @Viktor21771
      @Viktor21771 4 роки тому +46

      So true!

    • @ryanbarker3978
      @ryanbarker3978 4 роки тому +147

      @Ezra Neal Nope, this is a pretty known trait of the "INF" personality types. It comes from the Introverted Intuition (Ni)/Extroverted Feeling (Fe) combination. Fe allows you to see straight into the core of who someone is like x-ray vision, but Ni is extremely creative and loves to start projecting every possible fantasy of what it would be like to be with that person. You can pick up on if someone is bad news or not incredibly quickly, but unfortunately (and usually to detriment), your intuition is usually correct. This makes NiFe's a bit weird by conventional standards and makes it hard for other people to relate their experiences. The good news, though, is that this superpower is one of the most effective dating filters when you can reign control over it. The key is to build up a good extraverted sensing capability so you can start pulling yourself out of your own head when needed.
      NiFe can feel like a curse initially, but it can also put you extremely far ahead in life if you learn how to leverage it correctly. Frank has a lot of content on this very subject.

    • @adoreyou7449
      @adoreyou7449 4 роки тому +6

      I’m an ISTJ and experience this too omg

    • @bunty4179
      @bunty4179 4 роки тому +47

      As an INFP I relate to this and I hate it because of how accurate it is

  • @ficialintelligence1869
    @ficialintelligence1869 4 роки тому +2202

    INFP here. I think you crushed my soul.

    • @spinocario9721
      @spinocario9721 4 роки тому +92

      Same, direct hit.

    • @SNinjaQK
      @SNinjaQK 4 роки тому +44

      @@spinocario9721 super effective

    • @InYourNetwork
      @InYourNetwork 4 роки тому +110

      Honestly, INFPs have been dead inside for years.
      But, pain is still pain and damn that one hurt.

    • @ficialintelligence1869
      @ficialintelligence1869 4 роки тому +95

      @@InYourNetwork Not dead inside. Many of us are in a perpetual state of "dying" inside.

    • @kristinewaithaka2947
      @kristinewaithaka2947 4 роки тому +25

      INFP here too 😂😂 accurate though 🤔

  • @reganw.9588
    @reganw.9588 3 роки тому +855

    "...but she destroyed my argument with facts and logic, I can't let that kind of brain get away from me."
    That's probably one of the sweetest things I've heard. Okay, so where can I get an ENTP?
    - from INTJ me

    • @tticusFinch
      @tticusFinch 3 роки тому +52

      Haha same! I'm looking for someone to fall in love with my mind because they sure won't fall in love based on my body. (Not saying I'm like repulsively ugly, just on the lower side of average.)

    • @joshgomez7522
      @joshgomez7522 3 роки тому +6

      @Oliver Erz ya, he did a personality test and got INTJ

    • @tticusFinch
      @tticusFinch 3 роки тому +17

      @Oliver Erz nah I get you. We (should) know not to judge a book by its cover but the cover is what makes us pick up the book in the first place.

    • @prose729
      @prose729 3 роки тому +9

      Idk if enfp and intj are good match. Recently been talking to this intp guy. He rarely uses social media but approaches and talks to me in insta and has committed to help me w my issue too so what do i make out of this? Does intj do this normally for everyone or sud i take this as a green sign lol. Just asking cus u intj and I'm so confused he says he is nt for relationship and talks rational so yeah fellow intj's insights will be help me lol.

    • @tticusFinch
      @tticusFinch 3 роки тому +13

      @@prose729 it definitely means he likes you but it's hard to know if he just likes you as a friend or something more. But I would NOT shy away from the attention because he is making an effort to spend time with you and he doesn't do that for just anyone.

  • @alexamata7036
    @alexamata7036 4 роки тому +2469

    When an INTJ stop making rational decisions just to make someone happy then he/she is in love
    - An INTJ

    • @NancyGaming64
      @NancyGaming64 4 роки тому +29

      :'D dead.
      .
      .
      .
      Where is the solution? I need solution!! Not what i already knowwww😭😭 sht. I wish I didnt relaize this😞😣
      Everyday I scream internally when it come to mind🙂all i say is; i am okay; I'm gonna be okay; I NeED TO BE Okay. Haha.😅😶

    • @eu.jstone4645
      @eu.jstone4645 4 роки тому +35

      This is my BF buying me chocolates when my TPM strikes my Head.... Even when I have some objectives with Gym xD
      He knows my Plans and Supports me a lot.... But he also knows that I'm needing These F*CKING CHOCOLATS

    • @alexamata7036
      @alexamata7036 4 роки тому +15

      @@eu.jstone4645 That's what BFFs are for

    • @maschinensohn
      @maschinensohn 4 роки тому +70

      Wait what? We usually don't even realise we are in love.

    • @fleetingfootnotes9133
      @fleetingfootnotes9133 3 роки тому +23

      Rational decisions... while having intuition as a hero function. Rational or rationalizing? :P

  • @BridgetCappel
    @BridgetCappel 4 роки тому +6163

    Man the poor INFPs get murdered every time 😂

  • @aryasasidharan7115
    @aryasasidharan7115 4 роки тому +5986

    Dear INFJs, stop ignoring the red flags.

    • @kaylahgreen5080
      @kaylahgreen5080 4 роки тому +335

      But-

    • @aryasasidharan7115
      @aryasasidharan7115 4 роки тому +86

      @Autumn S hehe🤭 I'm an INFJ too😂❤️

    • @redheartsunglasses
      @redheartsunglasses 4 роки тому +406

      Too late, the damage has already been done from too many toxic friendships I thought were normal because they were the only ones I had ever had before. Luckily, now that i know whats toxic, if I see a tiny red flag I AM RUNNING AS F A R AWAY AS POSSIBLE. I am NOT going down that rabbit hole again, I'm still recovering from the last time I went inside. Not to mention that i already have my own issues to deal with before I add another ten.

    • @aryasasidharan7115
      @aryasasidharan7115 4 роки тому +28

      @@kaylahgreen5080 yeah that's tough😂

    • @themightypancake5695
      @themightypancake5695 4 роки тому +137

      Don't worry, the red flags became incredibly apparent when we finally spent time away from each other. I still cringe thinking back on the relationship and regret being in one, but at least I left before anything became too extreme

  • @BaranovPeter
    @BaranovPeter 3 роки тому +703

    As an INTP, I can 100% attest to the accuracy of this portrayal.
    That said I am still genuinely concerned that these "emotions" are a sign of emotional dependence.

    • @Alexandar358
      @Alexandar358 3 роки тому +77

      As a fellow INTP I wanna say that you are wrong, but then I realize I treat my emotions in the same way... Damn it

    • @insanemang9983
      @insanemang9983 3 роки тому +14

      I need to think about this...

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 3 роки тому +11

      Might be. But the dependant aspect depends on your own mental state, healthy or not.

    • @dianalindeman1644
      @dianalindeman1644 3 роки тому +5

      You, too?

    • @dianalindeman1644
      @dianalindeman1644 3 роки тому +48

      As an INTP, I wouldn't think myself sick, but I would've thoroughly investigated the man before I dated him. If I realized I'd fallen in love with him, I'd thoroughly investigate his family.

  • @GMFaraazKhan
    @GMFaraazKhan 4 роки тому +2620

    "I am in love with you. Let's see if if you can stand up to the abnormally perfect imagination of a girlfriend I've had ever since I was a kid."
    ~ Every INFP

    • @andinirifa7854
      @andinirifa7854 4 роки тому +44

      If this ain't the truth 🤭

    • @michaelmcgee5478
      @michaelmcgee5478 4 роки тому +44

      Stop calling us out

    • @adjodaarcher7839
      @adjodaarcher7839 4 роки тому +6

      Ahahahahahahasa

    • @blackstream2572
      @blackstream2572 4 роки тому +126

      Alternatively: Let me fall over myself trying to live up the the absolutely perfect standards I have set for myself while giving you a pass on everything you do so I can avoid conflict and keep everything negative I'm feeling bottled up inside until I hit a breaking point.

    • @mahnoorbhatty5773
      @mahnoorbhatty5773 4 роки тому +39

      @@blackstream2572 what you said is absolutely correct tho, and the moment i explode and start admitting things that i felt badly about, the people in front completely invalidate it cause the reaction is out of time now :') hurts even more :')

  • @moonieri
    @moonieri 4 роки тому +1628

    I'm not even an ENFP (I'm an ENTP), but, my god, ENFP is a mood

    • @g3nijee
      @g3nijee 3 роки тому +21

      same

    • @nadensalih5417
      @nadensalih5417 3 роки тому +103

      I'm an enfp and I reacted this way to my friend in high school when she said the L word im like wait are you serious? Oh no damn it i messed it up lmk if ur serious or not cuz i don't want to say it back and for you to be joking 🤣🤣 it was tragic lol

    • @jaywadsworth563
      @jaywadsworth563 3 роки тому +4

      Is that supposed to be bad

    • @nadensalih5417
      @nadensalih5417 3 роки тому +6

      @@jaywadsworth563 depends how you see it 🤷

    • @AmanSingh-ug6si
      @AmanSingh-ug6si 3 роки тому +19

      Same bro ENTP here

  • @natalijavelickovic4559
    @natalijavelickovic4559 4 роки тому +4246

    00:46 - ESTP
    00:57 - ISFJ
    1:11 - INTP
    1:22 - ENFP (me 😊)
    1:41 - ESFP
    1:53 - ISTJ
    2:07 - ENTP
    2:15 - ISTP
    2:29 - ESFJ
    2:42 - ENFJ
    2:48 - ISFP
    3:04 - INTJ
    3:17 - ENTJ
    3:29 - INFJ
    3:44 - ESTJ
    3:55 - INFP

    • @ersterkommentar2415
      @ersterkommentar2415 3 роки тому +98

      hello fellow enfp, its really weird when someone tells me they love me i dont believe them but i love myself so i dont know where this is coming from XD

    • @aaronsolorio973
      @aaronsolorio973 3 роки тому +27

      Wow is it that the enfp one almost perfectly matched what happened to me a few days ago.

    • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
      @bwingbwinggwiyomi 3 роки тому +15

      @@ersterkommentar2415 if you don't believe them, then do you *truly* love yourself or are you just in denial that you do? - INFJ-T
      xD

    • @picklenut_butter0104
      @picklenut_butter0104 3 роки тому +11

      I'm also an ENFP

    • @augijyotbali2131
      @augijyotbali2131 3 роки тому +9

      I love enfps so much ik an intp lol 😂

  • @duckhongjoong
    @duckhongjoong 3 роки тому +945

    let me add as an INFP that we also second-guess every minute of our feelings whether we really are in love or it's just the idea of it lol and never get to stop thinking about this person for a week or more while visualizing possible future scenarios. can't sleep well thinking what the other person might be thinking too 😂 so we get really happy and stressed when we're in love

    • @joanaborrellsanchez9225
      @joanaborrellsanchez9225 3 роки тому +27

      Absolutely, too much accurate. I'm an introverted ENFP enneagram type 4, so in terms of love I can relate myself with INFP a lot. I'm in love with an INFP girl in my class, and I've made a film in my head, I can't stop idealizing but I don't even know her, so it's really really hard and stressful...
      PD: Sorry if I don't write perfect, I'm from Catalonia...

    • @ForeverFashionGirl21
      @ForeverFashionGirl21 3 роки тому +21

      happy and stressed is a perfect way to describe it lol

    • @phoenixangel5073
      @phoenixangel5073 2 роки тому +32

      Also infp
      I can't do anything when I'm in love except live for that person, that's why I now avoid it like plague it's messing up my schedule and in vain cause people I like don't like me back

    • @Glareflare
      @Glareflare 2 роки тому +7

      Have to agree that happy and stressed sums it up pretty perfectly

    • @dianac113
      @dianac113 2 роки тому +9

      Yeah, the feelings are so intense and uncomfortable too.

  • @coffeee9031
    @coffeee9031 4 роки тому +1692

    INFP that tends to fall in love with fictional characters

    • @pphg5625
      @pphg5625 4 роки тому +94

      I can attest to that, yes, INFP and I've totally done that

    • @emmagreen6120
      @emmagreen6120 4 роки тому +22

      Haha yeah, exactly

    • @Teudlanif
      @Teudlanif 4 роки тому +27

      ENFP that also tends to fall in love with fictional characters

    • @luiiiandmovieee
      @luiiiandmovieee 4 роки тому +11

      Every time!

    • @erika89765
      @erika89765 4 роки тому +13

      ENFP, and me too 👏👏

  • @ebe_fritz
    @ebe_fritz 4 роки тому +4104

    Me as an INFP: Has imagined (and is mentally dating) their dream partner, but is *still* waiting for them to appear in physical form. *Is still waiting*
    Edit: Update! I now have a boyfriend❤️
    Edit 2: New update! We broke up after 9 months, and he was an utter douchebag the entire time :( I always end up picking the rotten apple damnit😭
    And holy shit! Thanks for the likes! I really appreciate it!!

    • @Tooezz333
      @Tooezz333 4 роки тому +84

      Thanks to LOA gurus cuz they named that "MANIFESTION" and "VISUALIZATION". So, now, I am not crazy, Im just manifesting, bitch.

    • @k.o.8279
      @k.o.8279 4 роки тому +95

      This is so accurate it hurts. But lets have faith son.

    • @alex.mp3125
      @alex.mp3125 4 роки тому +33

      @@Tooezz333 SAME LMAO 😩😂💀

    • @bunnygutz7884
      @bunnygutz7884 4 роки тому +100

      @@Tooezz333 they always say “visualize” and I’m like 👁👄👁
      Sis I’ve been doing this since I was 10

    • @wingeddaydreamer3486
      @wingeddaydreamer3486 4 роки тому +41

      PLEASE stop calling me out-

  • @dennypazos5873
    @dennypazos5873 4 роки тому +1746

    INFJ: immediately thinking how to give a really good advice to every other personality in this specific situations ignoring their own actual problems....

  • @CaveyMoth
    @CaveyMoth 3 роки тому +497

    I think my ex was an INFJ. He understood me so deeply, and he wanted to help me fix my flaws. But I failed him big time, and he slammed the door on me. That was the deepest relationship I'll ever have.

    • @jasonchou7289
      @jasonchou7289 2 роки тому +99

      Don't hurt INFJ....we will have trauma...we are sensitive, loyal...

    • @izack222
      @izack222 2 роки тому +45

      i feel like i was in a similar position, but i was the infj guy trying to save her XD got betrayed, so many lies, so many red flags, you live and learn XD

    • @anestiaan6389
      @anestiaan6389 2 роки тому +31

      Me an INFJ tried to be as transparent as a lover couple should and then got my ex upset because I'm being kinda clingy, then he went back to gaming with his friends even though I asked to join them, he refused
      Aaaaand I don't want to be with him anymore, I mean, he showed me that he doesn't need someone who asks "How's your day at the office?" or trying to give everything I have even though it's something that he could get by his own
      It's kinda weird, but that's my sacrifice for my loved one, but I'm moving out of it.

    • @anka6356
      @anka6356 2 роки тому +6

      sucks to be you-intj

    • @itzbuv_sin
      @itzbuv_sin 2 роки тому

      ​@@izack222 it's common

  • @cagecorndrawings7818
    @cagecorndrawings7818 4 роки тому +1357

    Infj : I like this one.
    Red flags : hi
    Infj : Sold.

  • @Moustache_Mysteries
    @Moustache_Mysteries 4 роки тому +2288

    0:46 ESTP
    0:56 ISFJ
    1:11 INTP
    1:22 ENFP
    1:42 ESFP
    1:53 ISTJ
    2:07 ENTP
    2:16 ISTP
    2:28 ESFJ
    2:42 ENFJ
    2:48 ISFP
    3:04 INTJ
    3:17 ENTJ ❤️
    3:29 INFJ
    3:44 ESTJ
    3:55 INFP
    First time doing dis, I wanted 2 try :))
    Also, no one cares but tysmmm for da likes and comments I'll try to like all da replies
    edit- hi so i wrote this when i was nine cut me some slack 😭 i remember they were accurate at the time but now they are definitely not so don't listen to them LOL im just keeping this up for memories and btw im actually an ENTP 🌝

  • @ellybean7354
    @ellybean7354 4 роки тому +935

    Oough. The INFP was too accurate. Why are you calling me out like that??

    • @KingcoleIIV
      @KingcoleIIV 4 роки тому +26

      We always get targeted 😭😭🤣😂

    • @spinocario9721
      @spinocario9721 4 роки тому +26

      "...and I took that personally"

    • @superstellarhere
      @superstellarhere 4 роки тому +11

      But that was so accurate, I had an ideal partner in mind since I was twelve and Frank just called me out

    • @fatemakhanpurwala1473
      @fatemakhanpurwala1473 4 роки тому +1

      His name is Jordan

    • @TheQwuilleran
      @TheQwuilleran 4 роки тому +1

      Curious, How do you pronounce "oough"?
      Oof, auck, owww, offf...

  • @macheathers1861
    @macheathers1861 2 роки тому +139

    The ISTP bit is very accurate. In those rare moments I'm actually willing to go out of my way to get someone to like me, I'll find out everything I can about their interests, their favourite food, things they like, etc. And then I'll invite them to some obscure place to do some obscure activity that I'm sure they will love and bring along their favourite snacks.
    Mission completed.

    • @brip4256
      @brip4256 2 роки тому +3

      Same

    • @zoeorchid
      @zoeorchid Рік тому +4

      ENTJ here. That warms my heart so much! Maybe that's out of character, but I would want someone to do that for me.

    • @xscrvnchie3474
      @xscrvnchie3474 Рік тому

      fr

    • @ortezac.5339
      @ortezac.5339 6 місяців тому +5

      ISTP here. I feel you on that level. I suck at verbalizing emotions but the moment the person I love says a word about what he'd like to do or like to have, heaven help me if I don't get it achieved.
      Shark plushie? I will find out your favorite species of shark and look for its stuffed version. You want a quiet place to do art? I gotchu covered with art supplies and a roadtrip to a mountainside meadow with a cafe resto and a playlist of your favorite artists. You want to decorate your windows with potted plants? I have spare coltsfoot and lavender and I would paint your favorite animals on the pots. You want help writing stories? My JSTOR pdfs and 100+ unclosed tabs and the recesses of my brain are all set for lore research. You want to spend the rest of your life with me, I'm making an architectural plate for our future home together. Hell, you have a taste for a videogame I don't know or don't like, I WILL spoil myself and read everything about it if it means holding a conversation. Sad and about to break down? Spare pillows and coffee and a little game of Cards Against Humanity, I'll go talk to your friends for you.
      But I'd chuck myself off a cliff than say "I love you."

    • @angelar9759
      @angelar9759 5 місяців тому

      That’s ambitious

  • @gigispace
    @gigispace 4 роки тому +707

    INFJ: 3:35 "there are some major red flags that i'm ignoring, but i see the potential" lmao why we do this to ourselves 💀

  • @Nuggetmonk
    @Nuggetmonk 4 роки тому +1240

    INTP has a crush
    "nice. now my brain is flooded with drugs and i cant think straight. maybe i avoid that person now." XD

    • @tendatonda1634
      @tendatonda1634 4 роки тому +30

      post nut clarity is the cure my friend. helped wayy more than it should for me.

    • @vs-ej1qc
      @vs-ej1qc 4 роки тому +39

      this is so scarily accurate

    • @patypus555
      @patypus555 4 роки тому +8

      i'll be damned and i have done this. not this time perhaps...gotta give the isfj wedding planner a chance.

    • @rufusneumann9703
      @rufusneumann9703 4 роки тому +35

      i feel mildly offended being an INTP-T

    • @itsangelinapeople
      @itsangelinapeople 4 роки тому +9

      If it ain’t me

  • @paulinargz7703
    @paulinargz7703 4 роки тому +2852

    TIMESTAMPS:
    Extroverts:
    -ESTP: 0:46
    -ENFP: 1:22
    -ESFP: 1:41
    -ENTP: 2:06
    -ESFJ: 2:28
    -ENFJ: 2:42
    -ENTJ : 3:17
    -ESTJ: 3:44
    Introverts:
    -ISFJ: 0:56
    -INTP: 1:11
    -ISTJ: 1:52
    -ISTP: 2:15
    -ISFP: 2:48
    -INTJ: 3:04
    -INFJ: 3:29
    -INFP: 3:56
    (like this comment, so others can see it too. only if u want ofc. also, I spent quite some time on this. but I guess I did this to myself.)

  • @melaniegonzalezart8506
    @melaniegonzalezart8506 3 роки тому +186

    As a female INTJ for some reason I would have fallen in love with the guy in the ISTP scenario. I said "Aw" out loud. Lol.

    • @wenkachan6180
      @wenkachan6180 2 роки тому +25

      I would totally go with him to the opera (an INTJ girl) cause that's a great gift.

    • @Xereszone
      @Xereszone Рік тому +4

      @@wenkachan6180 intj girl I agreeeeee

    • @nathydj5308
      @nathydj5308 Рік тому +4

      As an ENFP girl I would had just follow him till the end of world, was way too cute 🥺

    • @lilyisalwaysbored
      @lilyisalwaysbored 9 місяців тому +1

      I would also go with him to the opera - intp

  • @lairyfights
    @lairyfights 4 роки тому +847

    Me, an INTJ, when I like someone: pretends to hate them so that my feelings are not obvious
    Them: hates me back
    Me: shocked pikachu face

    • @Raindancer221
      @Raindancer221 4 роки тому +40

      I think i have a potencial intj in my life :D i wanted to kiss him despite of that but.. i'm a little scared he doesn't want me to.. plus he is so tall, so if if he moves away, what, am i gonna end up kissing his collar bone or something

    • @리시나몬
      @리시나몬 4 роки тому +30

      @@Raindancer221 that was weirdly cute to read, and idk enough about your relationship to give advice or anything but I hope stuff works out :D

    • @nunyabiznes33
      @nunyabiznes33 4 роки тому +25

      I simply ignore them and suffer silently in a corner...

    • @Raindancer221
      @Raindancer221 4 роки тому +3

      @1420 thanks :D hwell.. i don't know
      I can't very well wait for him forever, so, anytime he wants to stop sendig me those mixed signals, he knows where to find me

    • @callmcr4654
      @callmcr4654 4 роки тому +10

      Same but i really hate that i keep doing that. Im never gonna get into a relationship like this Lmao.

  • @sapphire2140
    @sapphire2140 4 роки тому +761

    As an INFJ who is obsessed with the toxic “villain” characters with family trauma and thinks that I could change them...I’m gonna need you to lower the volume

    • @latiie
      @latiie 4 роки тому +31

      Jokes aside, do you want to talk about it?🥺 -INFJ

    • @glow2500
      @glow2500 4 роки тому +18

      AHAHAH BUT.... (*cries*) I relate
      -INFJ

    • @malina7524
      @malina7524 4 роки тому +4

      Never thought anything relatable...
      Uk u can talk about it right?! ;D

    • @haveyouever4489
      @haveyouever4489 4 роки тому +12

      relateeeeee. I met someone last year that in my opinion I could save him from his deepest trauma and yesss I just hurt myself without realize it.

    • @sapphire2140
      @sapphire2140 4 роки тому +9

      Not y’all making me feel like I need therapy 😃

  • @elysezebeast
    @elysezebeast 4 роки тому +418

    INFP here: I need some ice for that slap of reality.
    The truth stings.

  • @alealiaga4110
    @alealiaga4110 3 роки тому +78

    INFP is so accurate. I've been struggling to face reality and take off some of the huge pressure I've put into my partner.
    Don't do this to a person you really appreciate, they might try harder than normal to keep up to your expectations and that's pretty rough.

    • @aurograce2983
      @aurograce2983 2 роки тому +2

      At one point we had a conversation about what I actually want in a relationship and I keep putting tremendous standards on him like I want him to be my protector and best friend and the perfect version of a Christian man which is completely unreasonable. I’m content though because he loves me and understands me and puts effort into our relationship and fixes things when they’re wrong. I also have crazy standards for myself so I’m not sure if this is all from INFP or just pushing myself too hard and he’s helped me by loving me no matter where I’m at.

  • @maolruanaidhh9153
    @maolruanaidhh9153 4 роки тому +1242

    Everyone: *complying with the topic and discussing their relationship*
    INTJ: *hating themselves for acting irrationally*

    • @auraeaurorum1177
      @auraeaurorum1177 4 роки тому +12

      That's so me😅

    • @rufusneumann9703
      @rufusneumann9703 4 роки тому +22

      'T' stands for Thinking, 'F' for Feeling, but I also call it Rational and Emotional. The 'F' species are the irrational ones, mate.

    • @alpha9wolf671
      @alpha9wolf671 4 роки тому +5

      Honestly, the description had me gutted. XD

    • @ssaturnine13
      @ssaturnine13 4 роки тому +1

      asldfjdk a yeah-

    • @klarathebat5619
      @klarathebat5619 4 роки тому +11

      * Notices red flag * imma ignore that

  • @ericpang0721
    @ericpang0721 4 роки тому +506

    ENFJ to INFP: Do you feel I am In love with you, cause I'm not sure.
    INFP to ENFJ: Wait so you've been flirting with me this whole time? I thought you were just being nice.

    • @1xTheDarkKnightx1
      @1xTheDarkKnightx1 4 роки тому +24

      *Suprised Pikachu face*

    • @kikaes5894
      @kikaes5894 4 роки тому +53

      Infp here: yes I am always clueless when being flirted or courted

    • @Abliviaaa
      @Abliviaaa 4 роки тому +7

      Literally didn’t know my current girlfriend liked me for the longest time 😂

    • @arv7074
      @arv7074 4 роки тому +8

      Omg, I need to meet an ENFJ 😍

    • @graceelizabeth8284
      @graceelizabeth8284 4 роки тому +7

      Lol ugh me and my boyfriend. He's the ENFJ and I'm the INFP. He loves me thoooo

  • @____Liv____
    @____Liv____ 4 роки тому +224

    I am an INTP and my husband is an ENTP. We are both still amazed to this day we found each other. All 4 of us are very happy. (He and I & both of our brains)

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 4 роки тому +32

      Get a room, you four!

    • @debdras
      @debdras 4 роки тому +33

      "All 4 of us" lol
      They had us on the first half, not gonna lie.

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 4 роки тому +3

      @@debdras i know.

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 4 роки тому +2

      @@debdras what is your thumbnail from?

    • @debdras
      @debdras 4 роки тому +2

      @@blackoceancreativeuniverse Maaaan, I have no clue. I think I googled elven ranger, or half-elf archer, or something like that and found this image. That was yeeears ago. I even forgot I had it lol Sorry, maybe if you use the color tool in google search (set it to brown, maybe?), and use similar key words, you may find it. Good luck!! :)

  • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
    @bwingbwinggwiyomi 3 роки тому +961

    as an INFJ, seeing all these people clawing for us just worries me that we're only being wanted/desired just so we're used as their psychiatrist.
    lmao listen, we love helping and healing people, but we are not your emotional pillow to cry into, especially without giving back to us too. give and take is needed in a healthy relationship. most likely, us INFJs will have scars and trauma too, so pls be gentle and listen to us just as much as we listen to you then, we're golden :3
    learnt this many times the hard way #sorrynotsorry

    • @shriyapalsule4790
      @shriyapalsule4790 3 роки тому +36

      This is so true my friend so true I understand you

    • @unknown66orbit
      @unknown66orbit 3 роки тому +21

      yes! Someone needed to say this

    • @viletbue1518
      @viletbue1518 3 роки тому +69

      as an INFJ i can relate to this, ive been treated like a pillow to cry on but when they are done they just leave me ;w;

    • @milal3685
      @milal3685 3 роки тому +3

      yesss pls this is so accurate

    • @shriyapalsule4790
      @shriyapalsule4790 3 роки тому +20

      @@viletbue1518 same.... we always listen to their problems but what about us.... we deserve listening too 😔 they just let their problems to us and just...just go away without thinking that we also need support and listening... we totally need to co operate with each other. Other personalities who r reading this plz acnolage that we need support too
      #support
      #understand

  • @jeremiahthelion
    @jeremiahthelion 4 роки тому +234

    No joke, I am an ENFP and my INTJ husband asked me out by saying "we don't work as just friends, so we should probably either get married or never talk again" and I assumed he wanted to never talk again and was pranking me. 🤷 13 years and 4 kids later, I still worry about coming on too strong 😂 but it works

    • @leenbee17
      @leenbee17 4 роки тому +25

      Wow, that's cute!

    • @kailanGoreng
      @kailanGoreng 4 роки тому +36

      lol this had me rolling! i'm also an ENFP and my husband is also an INTJ. he never actually proposed. we had a long distant relationship for a few years before he said, so let's get this over with. i'm sick of being apart. so either we get married or this is over. so here we are, over 8 years later with our little boy whos almost two years old. the only thing i wish he'd do more is hugs. he avoids them but i still force hugs him sometimes lol

    • @nanaandig
      @nanaandig 4 роки тому +14

      @@kailanGoreng for some reason we intjs hate hugs... or at least just me

    • @dacksonflux
      @dacksonflux 4 роки тому +22

      @@nanaandig no no, the National INTJ Council will let you speak for us all just this once.
      We voted. It was unanimous.

    • @Bbg2324
      @Bbg2324 4 роки тому +2

      Super cute

  • @NaturallyWit
    @NaturallyWit 4 роки тому +525

    My Dad is an INTP and let me tell you, this was ACCURATE 😂😂 he does NOT like/care about people. Loves his alone time, but he will let me and my mom take up all his time and energy 🥰 that's how I know he loves us.

    • @Alexandar358
      @Alexandar358 3 роки тому +32

      Ahh, the fierce loyalty of the INTP... Rarely you see it.

    • @shikhasuman871
      @shikhasuman871 3 роки тому +23

      That's why I love INTPs. 😌💜 ~INFJ

    • @reneecoons5057
      @reneecoons5057 2 роки тому +6

      That is my son 🙂

    • @TimeG37
      @TimeG37 2 роки тому +8

      @@shikhasuman871 Thank u :) -INTP

  • @victoriasmith9527
    @victoriasmith9527 4 роки тому +671

    I love ENFP's happy energy
    Sincerely, an ENTP

    • @PsychoBatcave
      @PsychoBatcave 4 роки тому +29

      thank you

    • @kira-py8gt
      @kira-py8gt 4 роки тому +55

      thank u thank u the internal chaos is tiring :D

    • @Teudlanif
      @Teudlanif 4 роки тому +35

      Awe thank you!
      Sincerely, me (an ENFP)

    • @esiee935
      @esiee935 4 роки тому +60

      Okay, aaah.. is this a joke? This is one of those time where it's like if I'm suddenly sincere and say 🤲 I love youu, back. BUT you're joking..

    • @AnnikaJoy
      @AnnikaJoy 4 роки тому +11

      @@esiee935 😂😂😂

  • @anna_b360
    @anna_b360 3 роки тому +39

    When I got to Entj I literally had to pause the video because I almost cried over how beautiful it was and how much I can see myself in that character

  • @dadevi
    @dadevi 4 роки тому +446

    Coming from an INFJ who is going to be divorced soon, this is accurate. Run away from unstable people. Your partner should not be someone who you have to rescue.

    • @ifyouknowyouknow7292
      @ifyouknowyouknow7292 4 роки тому +2

      Yes💗

    • @aidanmontmeny502
      @aidanmontmeny502 4 роки тому

      I concure

    • @alleashawatson4648
      @alleashawatson4648 4 роки тому +1

      Why do I want to rescue? 😬

    • @mrsgrayscale
      @mrsgrayscale 4 роки тому

      AMEN!

    • @fifi7367
      @fifi7367 4 роки тому +7

      You shouldnt run away from them but knowing that marriage/relationship goes both ways. It can't be heavy on one side only. So if the relationship rely on one party too much its a sign of bad one... helping is fine but don't let it bring us down too cause our energy is important to help more people.

  • @TriKittah
    @TriKittah 4 роки тому +289

    Dear INFJ, We have to stop doing this to ourselves. We are more than just an emotional doormat. Love, INFJ

    • @keilamoral5965
      @keilamoral5965 4 роки тому +8

      *hugs back* fellow INFJ

    • @meisamay1328
      @meisamay1328 4 роки тому +6

      @@keilamoral5965 group hugs 🤗 😭

    • @oparaangel09
      @oparaangel09 4 роки тому +1

      😩😩😩😩

    • @mrssmayberry
      @mrssmayberry 4 роки тому +12

      You, an INFJ, trying to save all the INFJs from their INFJness, lol

    • @TheodoraKimmelHello
      @TheodoraKimmelHello 4 роки тому +1

      Literally handed my crying ex boyfriend because he, yet again, freaked out about us being in a relationship, a container of milk to help him stop crying. “It’s going to be ok, do you want some milk?” “Yes, please.”

  • @briannastevenson7744
    @briannastevenson7744 4 роки тому +218

    The INFP ones are always so accurate that it hurts lmao, another addition to it is catching feelings then psyching yourself out so much that you lose them :D

    • @adelinasarkisyan1935
      @adelinasarkisyan1935 4 роки тому +5

      OMG this is so accurate :''''(

    • @yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983
      @yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983 4 роки тому +8

      Do y'all ghost people too?
      Most INFPs that I know, ghost me more than they talk to me. I don't lnow why.
      No one else ghosts me 😂
      I mean, I'm an INFJ, so I understand needing alone time, but damn lol
      Have a good day 💛✨

    • @ashleychristopher7780
      @ashleychristopher7780 4 роки тому +1

      lol yeah I felt that

    • @briannastevenson7744
      @briannastevenson7744 4 роки тому +10

      @@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983 I mean sometimes and I hate myself for it lmaoo

    • @bromeo6530
      @bromeo6530 4 роки тому +13

      @@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983 yeah Im an infp and I tend to ghost people because I psych myself out or I wasn't in the socializing mood but then I feel really guilty about it later

  • @kaleandseeweed
    @kaleandseeweed 3 роки тому +164

    As an ISTP this is waaay too accurate than it should be 😭

    • @sunwashedsoda
      @sunwashedsoda 2 роки тому +22

      I'll never fall in love (I'm only falling in love with fictional characters) but that's what I'll do. Be an ISTP-T and fall in love with Genshin characters.

    • @frozenyogurtz2939
      @frozenyogurtz2939 2 роки тому +9

      i never fell inlove so idrk

    • @hjl2854
      @hjl2854 2 роки тому +9

      I’m an istp and I would be to afraid and to antisocial and introverted to ask out my crush

    • @jadewethere8292
      @jadewethere8292 2 роки тому +5

      So I guess my Istp boyfriend is not really in love with me. That confirms it.

    • @g30r_g1a
      @g30r_g1a Рік тому +5

      @@jadewethere8292 not all istps are like that I don’t think, I’m an istp and I’m not like that, I don’t know if I’ve ever been entirely in love tho, but not all istps are the same! So ur boyfriend might have different flaws but that doesn’t mean he’s not an istp

  • @naomif3293
    @naomif3293 4 роки тому +460

    "Time to watch people scream for 3 hours in a foreign language."
    Wow that is a perfect explanation. Like PERFECT

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 4 роки тому +16

      Opera is better in Klingon.

    • @recoveringsoul755
      @recoveringsoul755 4 роки тому +8

      my mother loved opera, but would normally only play it when no one else was home. I've been to an actual Opera in the theatre and it's pretty interesting.

    • @naomif3293
      @naomif3293 4 роки тому +2

      @@recoveringsoul755 Ya I want to go to one sometime in my life

    • @Mrs.Silversmith
      @Mrs.Silversmith 4 роки тому +11

      Opera was developed in a time before microphones.... that really explains a lot.

    • @SeraphimGoose
      @SeraphimGoose 4 роки тому +2

      I love opera, but I'm an INFJ...

  • @flapjackalopis711
    @flapjackalopis711 4 роки тому +494

    ENFP: just assume any emotions shown towards you is a game you play along with unless proven otherwise

    • @tiffytiffamanda1217
      @tiffytiffamanda1217 4 роки тому +42

      OMG ITS SO SCARY HOW ACCURATE THIS IS!! That’s exactly what I think and I am currently going through. One of my nightmares 😂😂😂
      But seriously, how do we get over it?? Because eventually it won’t be a game.

    • @Axooll16
      @Axooll16 4 роки тому +28

      I'm an ENFP, and there was this one time when I **really** liked this girl and I thought she liked me too.
      She rejected me twice and I still like her....
      Someone send help lmao 🤣

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 4 роки тому +16

      Yep....and I wonder why I need so long to actually form real bonds 😂😅

    • @catchingstars7
      @catchingstars7 4 роки тому +17

      ENFP exterior and INFP inner thoughts is such a disbalance that it's easy to assume other people have this inner voice too.

    • @bofdikhanm3611
      @bofdikhanm3611 4 роки тому +12

      ​@@Axooll16 Poor you but sadly I understand u very well. I harrassed my crush and her gf with not believing they are in love and think he loves me (cuz im irresistible in my sickly mind !?) and jumped over them like all of us were friends. And tried to crush her openly. Oh god, I feel so ashamed.

  • @Default_Rain
    @Default_Rain 4 роки тому +644

    INFP: Whatever ENFP was, but internalized

    • @susannemoseidbryhni9898
      @susannemoseidbryhni9898 4 роки тому +34

      I'm an enfp and the ENFP one was inaccurate lol. Maybe it fits infp better

    • @gfdgdf2016
      @gfdgdf2016 4 роки тому +26

      Same here. I always thought this. When I was younger I was INFP but after some years the "I" changed into an "E". That's why I agree.

    • @sakura5sango6
      @sakura5sango6 4 роки тому

      Y e s

    • @catchingstars7
      @catchingstars7 4 роки тому +14

      ^^^THIS. Do you love the exterior ENFP? Get the interior INFP for free! Best deal.

    • @gfdgdf2016
      @gfdgdf2016 4 роки тому +2

      @@catchingstars7 Yes! LOL

  • @danishqusairi420
    @danishqusairi420 3 роки тому +41

    I'm an INFP and this is so accurate. I don't think I'll easily fall in love with someone who don't fit my ideal type ;-;

  • @rheakim2344
    @rheakim2344 4 роки тому +369

    Infj: and this is how I ended up in the most toxic relationship previously, continuously seeing red flags and ignoring it because I wanted to save him from himself and I saw the potential in the rs hence I kept trying but ended up highly disappointed and hurt from the toxic rs and finally decided to give up after 2 years..and it took me another year plus to recover. Dear infjs, please do not ignore the red flags and listen to urself too, smetimes we have to also care and think abt ourself

    • @senayazici4535
      @senayazici4535 4 роки тому +8

      lol it’s almost like we’ve been through the same thing ugh

    • @rheakim2344
      @rheakim2344 4 роки тому +4

      @@senayazici4535 I hope u will nvr go through that anymore, u deserve happiness

    • @riverajanaeuxine8183
      @riverajanaeuxine8183 4 роки тому +4

      Same bruh. Infj here too. Currently in a 2 yr relationship hahaha still being an infj that I am

    • @rheakim2344
      @rheakim2344 4 роки тому +7

      @@riverajanaeuxine8183 oh man... Smetimes being an infj rly sucks tbh.. I hope u will figure it out soon, I would say try to leave before u get too hurt because that happened to me and it rly broken me too much to a point whr I got rly depressed for a long period.. I don't want that to happen to u too, please don't ignore those red signs and think for urself for once, maybe it'd be better to leave than to stay. But whichever it is, the choice is urs and I just hope u won't be hurt or regret it.. Stay healthy and happy💜

    • @meisamay1328
      @meisamay1328 4 роки тому +4

      What are the red flags that I should aware of?? Like what should be the deal breaker??
      I’m confused because at the same time I couldn’t really see it but the “he just need someone to save him from himself” does pinpoint where the relationship lies.
      But he is an amazing person and I love him so much 😭

  • @Melisa-cj3zj
    @Melisa-cj3zj 4 роки тому +437

    When you said “flaws” and “red flags” i was screaming INFJ 😭😭😭

    • @mrs.g8055
      @mrs.g8055 4 роки тому +3

      me too!😭

    • @Melisa-cj3zj
      @Melisa-cj3zj 4 роки тому +6

      @@mrs.g8055 why are we INFJs like this omg

    • @NatureLover-pj2qe
      @NatureLover-pj2qe 4 роки тому

      Same

    • @shionrad3122
      @shionrad3122 4 роки тому

      Your profile pic is Shion 😍 I love him aloooot, no.6 means a lot to me, all my foreign friends call me Shion, and it is my pen name 😁 also you are an INFJ 😍 I don't know why but I am so excited to see someone with the same personality knows Shion 😭

    • @livingandthriving
      @livingandthriving 4 роки тому +2

      Yeah, that was PAINFULLY familiar.

  • @KoShot
    @KoShot 4 роки тому +741

    INTJ: likes a girl. Furiously thinks of rationale on why I shouldn't

    • @LizzySkater13
      @LizzySkater13 4 роки тому +16

      me rn except guy

    • @lezlune
      @lezlune 4 роки тому +24

      I like a guy and I haven't found a reason to not like him, yet.

    • @fayssal7655
      @fayssal7655 4 роки тому +1

      It's too normal for me that i'm thinking, wait, it should be another meaning and i didn't get it

    • @amberr3662
      @amberr3662 4 роки тому +1

      Me, but with guys as well

    • @Aled7_21
      @Aled7_21 4 роки тому +11

      Same dude, same... We auto sabotage our love lives

  • @annmowatt7547
    @annmowatt7547 3 роки тому +19

    INFJ spot -on. Felt the exact same when I met my husband and 47 years on, still together and still in love....... It does work but you have to "know". We got engaged on our second date!

  • @karen_n
    @karen_n 4 роки тому +576

    "She's só amazing!" Me: That already sounds like me. INFJ?
    "Sure, there are some deep character flaws and red flags, but.." Me: Yep, definitely INFJ...

  • @YaneMarieSleppy
    @YaneMarieSleppy 4 роки тому +419

    INFJ... 19 years later, the red flags are saturating the landscape...

    • @YaneMarieSleppy
      @YaneMarieSleppy 4 роки тому +14

      @Benede_Kenobi Thanks. It does, but forgiveness and patience are highly practiced around here.

    • @evas.2587
      @evas.2587 4 роки тому +26

      @@YaneMarieSleppy Forgiveness and patience are important, but so is your well-being. So please take care of your needs too. -your friendly cousin the INFP 🤗

    • @71LibraryGal
      @71LibraryGal 4 роки тому +2

      @Yané Marie Sleppy, - Same for me, but I’ve finally worked up the courage to walk away.

    • @jelkafabianova2801
      @jelkafabianova2801 4 роки тому +4

      but now you have also kids and a fucked up life

    • @condotiero860
      @condotiero860 4 роки тому +1

      Maybe you tend to bring that out on people : -)

  • @ellybean7354
    @ellybean7354 4 роки тому +517

    The chicken was....RAW? That's not love your feeling, that's food poisoning.

    • @memyselfni4466
      @memyselfni4466 4 роки тому +74

      XD the butterflies he feels when she's around is just salmonella from the raw chicken

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 4 роки тому +39

      @Ella Anderson ENTJ forgot to mention that this is also THE ONLY MEAL anyone has ever cooked for him. Suckerpunched him square in the unconscious FE.

    • @alonsocastro1412
      @alonsocastro1412 4 роки тому +47

      @@blackoceancreativeuniverse story time. As an ENTJ, I was nearly moved to tears (Very strange) when my girlfriend made me some quesadillas using the microwave. The worst quesadillas ever and I fell hard for her.

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 4 роки тому +15

      @@alonsocastro1412 Exactly. a suckerpunch right to the soft spot. Beautiful story!

    • @mantecada5660
      @mantecada5660 4 роки тому +7

      @@alonsocastro1412 dear ENTJ's...
      My INFP friend is crying in the floor for something you said, Can you please apologize with her?
      (Sorry for my grammar, english is not my first language)

  • @culturecoroner
    @culturecoroner 2 роки тому +9

    The breaking down of the whole external and internal situation verbally so that the interlocutor can know exactly where things stand and respond authentically is what makes the ENFP bit so spot-on. Allowing one’s self to be vulnerable in the moment-so as to put the other on the most solid ground and make them comfortable by using good communication…SO ENFP. We may be imaginative and out there, but we are deep, well-grounded, and we genuinely care about you.

  • @AlexBlank
    @AlexBlank 4 роки тому +791

    INFJs just can't help but add a layer of psychological examination to everything ;)

    • @TheOrangeHelium
      @TheOrangeHelium 4 роки тому +86

      Shut up. 😂😂😂 Even before we got together with my boyfriend and now that we finally got together, I kept researching his personality type and annalyzing his behaviour so I could know how to interact with him.

    • @mariek.474
      @mariek.474 4 роки тому +26

      Sure things happen and people say/do things but ~what does it mean~ 👏

    • @alashea2974
      @alashea2974 4 роки тому +12

      @@TheOrangeHelium I can relate.😂

    • @alashea2974
      @alashea2974 4 роки тому +32

      @@TheOrangeHelium Oh...and just to make sure I also look up astrology, numerology, love languages and whatever means of measure I can find...INFJ

    • @venelprince6889
      @venelprince6889 4 роки тому +23

      The more questions you ask, the more answers you get. 🔎🔐

  • @lucaferlisi2486
    @lucaferlisi2486 4 роки тому +218

    Me, INTP: happens to feel something and thinks that maybe he's falling for a person
    Also me: "wtf gotta get rid of this", yet still trying with all possible effort to suppress the never-going-to-exist idealistic scenarios inside my head, then ending up tired for all the effort and falling crushed beneath the emotional turmoil telling the entire world to f*ck off.

    • @Blaze-kf5pp
      @Blaze-kf5pp 4 роки тому +10

      As an intp i actually do not care about relationship i legit one time got a heart break cos my old "crush" is with someone and i thought i had a heart attack

    • @quantum_leaf
      @quantum_leaf 4 роки тому +17

      also INTP here, I value romantic relationships, that is if i want one...or will ever get one. Strangely enough I haven’t got one since i was a small child. I only had one and that lasted like a week cuz I immediately did not care and forgot. Maybe one day I’ll learn this feeling.

    • @connorgrynol9021
      @connorgrynol9021 3 роки тому +8

      Personal experience (only happened once tho), get your feeling out there. It took me three years to work up the courage to tell my crush how I feel and that was because I thought I might never see her again, I also thought that she had a boyfriend. I was expecting to get rejected and the 3 days she held off on a response were torture BUT when she did reject me it felt like a weight off my chest. It also wasn’t to bad. That might have been because she was gay so resuming our old relationship was relatively easy and I cannot, for the life of me, get jealous of a girl.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 роки тому +6

      @@Blaze-kf5pp whoa, I almost feel for the INTP that got into analysis paralysis when I expressed my interest before..

    • @alme4898
      @alme4898 3 роки тому +4

      Hmm sounds tiring
      I'll keep thinking of myself as aro ace until proved wrong

  • @tamarh2026
    @tamarh2026 4 роки тому +402

    The doom of INFPs perfectionist pensive expectations....
    "Never, never, never enough..." 🎶

    • @aevanoparaiso7429
      @aevanoparaiso7429 4 роки тому +5

      I am married to one, and yes...

    • @yasminewells8045
      @yasminewells8045 4 роки тому

      Was the never enough song reference One Direction by any chance??

    • @tamarh2026
      @tamarh2026 4 роки тому +11

      @@yasminewells8045
      Unfortunately not.... It was referring to The Greatest Showman movie

    • @yasminewells8045
      @yasminewells8045 4 роки тому +1

      @Tamar H lol no worries, I had to at least ask 😇

    • @viletmckinstry7935
      @viletmckinstry7935 4 роки тому +2

      HAHAHA THATS MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE INCLUDING THE WHOLE SONG THAT WHICH IVE FRICKIN MEMORISED!

  • @HTFWSFWWE
    @HTFWSFWWE 2 роки тому +42

    As an INTP with an ESTP husband I can confirm the accuracy of both skits. My husband said that he knew he wanted to marry me because no matter how much time passed he never got tired of being around me, and I knew I wanted to be with him because I got so used to playing video games together that I actually got bored if I had to play them alone again and I was like "if I can't even imagine playing a video game without him, how can I be expected to live my life without him too?"

  • @ceciliaplanz9330
    @ceciliaplanz9330 4 роки тому +216

    Actually as an INFJ that has a well developed problem with perfectionism, meaning I’m not only seeking perfection in myself but other people as well, I tend to push people away from me that don’t fit my idea of ✨perfect✨

    • @shamayahuyahsarahl1707
      @shamayahuyahsarahl1707 3 роки тому +20

      That's what ends up happening once we've gone through enough terrible relationships ignoring the red flags.

    • @boruverse1774
      @boruverse1774 3 роки тому +2

      So accurate!

    • @Nurichiri
      @Nurichiri 3 роки тому +3

      For me it's "oh, you're paying attention to me and you clearly need help! Me to the rescue!"

  • @bobomonkey9367
    @bobomonkey9367 4 роки тому +85

    INFP- it’s all the books I’ve read. No one can ever compare 😭

  • @CloudHopper789
    @CloudHopper789 4 роки тому +266

    Guyssssss!!!!! I did it! I, an ENFP, have found my INFJ. I’m so happy!! let’s GO! 🥳🥳

    • @AlexTheFox2001
      @AlexTheFox2001 4 роки тому +18

      I'm an INFJ am in love with an ENFP and told her.
      Now she is nearly ignoring me since then....I mean she never really wrote much on WhatsApp because she hates technology and took long times to answer my messages or call me back.
      But she did not call me back for a week now even so I called her nearly everyday and wrote her that she can call me when she has time. That was three days ago now...
      I am really scared that I have ruined our friend ship...though I made very clear that I do not want our friemdship to continue how it was even if she doesn't likes me bacj....I don't know what to do. I NEED to talk to her to make it all up. I can't just write her what I think and feel, because that's allways misunderstood.....help!😟😭

    • @aidanmontmeny502
      @aidanmontmeny502 4 роки тому +23

      @@AlexTheFox2001 that's unfortunate I'm sorry, idk what to tell u tho, she's probably just mulling it over internally cuz that's what ENFP's do.

    • @AlexTheFox2001
      @AlexTheFox2001 4 роки тому +5

      @@aidanmontmeny502 That is what I thought to...but it hurts nevertheless. And I can't stop overthinking this whole situation
      But thanks for your compassion. I didn't believe that anyone would answer😅

    • @aidanmontmeny502
      @aidanmontmeny502 4 роки тому +11

      @@AlexTheFox2001 hey, I'm an ENFJ, ur friendly neighborhood therapist, I have to answer sad stories like that 😉 hope everything works out between u 2

    • @AlexTheFox2001
      @AlexTheFox2001 4 роки тому +2

      @@aidanmontmeny502 Thanks😊
      I'm sure it will once she finally answers the phone. I just hope that I won't go crazy till then😅

  • @crystalDM96
    @crystalDM96 2 роки тому +19

    As an INFJ I'm face palming so much xD this is so accurate and I really need to stop ignoring the major red flags I'm sensing. Sometimes (nearly always), people can't change and can't be fixed

  • @Thegrimreaper4lyfe
    @Thegrimreaper4lyfe 4 роки тому +263

    The war between ESTJ and Timmy rages on

    • @chiara9767
      @chiara9767 4 роки тому +34

      I wonder what type Timmy has. Because well- I've had some experiences with ESTJ's and I could vividly imagine myself in Timmy's position...
      -Sincerely, INFP

    • @recoveringsoul755
      @recoveringsoul755 4 роки тому +17

      I miss the old Timmy, little happy go lucky kid. now poor thing is the punching bag

    • @flyingspacebrainedidiot
      @flyingspacebrainedidiot 4 роки тому +3

      @Autumn S I didn't know that thanks for telling me about FJ lore!

  • @Luxe_22
    @Luxe_22 4 роки тому +79

    0:46 - ESTP
    0:57 - ISFJ
    1:11 - INTP
    1:21 - ENFP
    1:41 -ESFP
    1:53 - ISTJ
    2:07 - ENTP
    2:15 - ISTP
    2:28 - ESFJ
    2:43 - ENFJ
    2:48 - ISFP
    3:04 - INTJ
    3:17 - ENTJ
    3:30 - INFJ
    3:44 - ESTJ
    3:56 - INFP

  • @ArtistIntuiting
    @ArtistIntuiting 4 роки тому +125

    ''…but I see the potential'' …sitting here quietly in pain with how accurate that is 😂

    • @danibowen7982
      @danibowen7982 4 роки тому

      I fucking felt that when I saw that JJAJA the best part is that it's actually true xD

  • @apollo_ai
    @apollo_ai Рік тому +26

    Oh my gosh
    As an ENFP, you guessed EXACTLY how I feel whenever somebody says something nice about me. I generally consider myself a monster, mostly because I don't get many cincere compliments, so whenever somebody says something nice about me I'm like: "Are you joking, yeah? Haha, real fun :)"

  • @Teudlanif
    @Teudlanif 4 роки тому +116

    I'm an ENFP, and that's how I react to almost everything along those lines of intimate. 😂

    • @gkgk6439
      @gkgk6439 4 роки тому +7

      Same :’) we fall in love too soon too intende

    • @gabrielam.7681
      @gabrielam.7681 4 роки тому +5

      I'm INFP, 8% away from ENFP, and this is EXACTLY how I feel

    • @mariananytzynerincon116
      @mariananytzynerincon116 4 роки тому +5

      I really feel that give me a hug all the ENFP Like me :')

    • @zonkeypanda7646
      @zonkeypanda7646 4 роки тому +4

      I always instantly assume it is a joke. ~INTJ

  • @AfalseNotfalseQueen
    @AfalseNotfalseQueen 4 роки тому +203

    As an ENFP I can really really like/love someone but if that person tells me they like/love me back I immediately start having doubts and try to analyze if the person is lying or not, even if it's a friend 😅

    • @jakey4052
      @jakey4052 2 роки тому +4

      100% true

    • @asmur7945
      @asmur7945 2 роки тому +12

      You are lucky. Me being an ENFP and never ever having been declared to, kind of makes it difficult to know how to spot when someone is being genuine in that manner.
      Basically means I'll never understand love and its tactics... _yey..._

    • @AfalseNotfalseQueen
      @AfalseNotfalseQueen 2 роки тому +4

      @@asmur7945 I've never been declared to either or been in a relationship 😅 I guess the closest I've ever been is someone showing potential real interest into dating me but never actually saying it. But again I'm not 100% sure bc I keep doubting 🤣

    • @asmur7945
      @asmur7945 2 роки тому +2

      @@AfalseNotfalseQueen shit is too real man... too real

  • @Kim-rw6tz
    @Kim-rw6tz 4 роки тому +52

    enfp so accurate. so straightforward and explained whatever he/she is thinking that moment.

  • @Alexandar358
    @Alexandar358 3 роки тому +92

    Steps to INTP falling in love
    Step 1: Fall in love.
    Step 2: Decide to lean in to it and do something spontaneous and romantic, fueled by the Seratonin in their inferior Fe.
    Step 3: Epic fail of said act for a number of reasons. (Rejection, Crush is in a relationship, or sometimes just out of sheer awkwardness)
    Step 4: Pout for a few days.
    Step 5: Letting it go forever.

    • @beaolayon7344
      @beaolayon7344 3 роки тому +18

      I dont even know if i actually fall in love to that person or am i just attracted to him because of these hormones? 🤔😕
      I mean hormones does plays a role in the process but how do you actually know if that love is true? I think im just secretly afraid that i keep malfunctioning in this person and my heart beats faster than normal and its concerning, i dont know maybe im just not used in having people around and socializing that makes me feel like these things are still new to me... Sgkcbdudkfhdid ahhhh its hard to explain 😖

    • @A____B
      @A____B 3 роки тому +2

      Moldovan? If yes, same here and also an INTP here

    • @funtimeLJ6789
      @funtimeLJ6789 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah I feel that

    • @SugarandSarcasm
      @SugarandSarcasm 2 роки тому +1

      Same steps, different personality lol

    • @pal.
      @pal. 2 роки тому +2

      U really explained my whole cycled romance life

  • @CL-tv6tz
    @CL-tv6tz 4 роки тому +84

    i literally have an imaginary boyfriend and friends that literally just came up for some reason and it's probably a problem but i honestly like living like this- INFP

  • @currwhibble3565
    @currwhibble3565 4 роки тому +121

    enfp; both extremely outgoing and socially anxious

    • @Lily77717
      @Lily77717 4 роки тому +15

      I have never seen a comment so true.

    • @vgcc9723
      @vgcc9723 4 роки тому +12

      A fun combination

    • @nisashiras6309
      @nisashiras6309 4 роки тому +3

      Yea..like me..🤗🤗

    • @leeschelly8384
      @leeschelly8384 4 роки тому

      Thank you, someone said it!

    • @camillepct6813
      @camillepct6813 4 роки тому +1

      You describe us well : i always though that because ma social anxiety i was half introvert half extrovert

  • @Alyssav90
    @Alyssav90 4 роки тому +123

    Signs of being an INFJ: "You ignore all the red flags due to what they could be and you want (to help) them to reach their true potential"
    i don't even wanna be infj but every time it's just exactly my life how it really, really is. every darn time i see someone's core and not how they are now
    goddamn i died
    update: i'm enfj xd

    • @rufusneumann9703
      @rufusneumann9703 4 роки тому +5

      you must be an INFP then, INFJ would be pragmatic enough to not ignore the flags

    • @saskiemis3397
      @saskiemis3397 4 роки тому +8

      I'm a INFJ and also ignoring all the red flags. Always wanna help people no matter how dark they are or hurting me.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 роки тому +3

      😅😅😅

    • @monikagawlik3881
      @monikagawlik3881 3 роки тому +4

      @@saskiemis3397 me too, unfortunately. Helping, trying to rescue them, teach, change them and they hurting me is price I pay for having them in my life. And I am ISFJ

    • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
      @bwingbwinggwiyomi 3 роки тому +1

      are you sure? cause you kinda sound INFJ here breh

  • @oceane_vie
    @oceane_vie 2 роки тому +50

    I'm an INFJ and this is SOOOO TRUE !! I tend to ignore the redflags even when I notice them and even if everyone around me is telling me to stop looking the other way. I recently fell in love with someone who does not really seems to care about me when it comes to texting and I am suffering from this BUT : when we get to see eachother things are going well so I tend to stay attached to these good moments, and not to care about the bad ones, even if they keep on hurting me sooo much...

    • @pidulade
      @pidulade Рік тому +2

      That's exact what I'm going trough at the moment too.

    • @IsaFaust-vt4qp
      @IsaFaust-vt4qp Рік тому +2

      I (INFP) relate to the INFJ sketch and often wonder why we ignore red flags even though we identify them. Sometimes I think that INFPs and INFJs love too much to fix problems for others, so that a normal but healthy relationship seems boring to us :(

    • @angelar9759
      @angelar9759 5 місяців тому

      Atleast you talked to them 💔

  • @Nina21_
    @Nina21_ 4 роки тому +227

    ignoring red flags , seeing potential and the need to save the person yep sounds like a typical INFJ to me 😂 this is what keeps screwing us Advocate squad 😶

    • @xPrincessxPeachxLove
      @xPrincessxPeachxLove 4 роки тому +6

      YES! I'm working on trying to lessen that from happening but for the most part, in my case at least, it's just who I'll always end up being deep down within my core, haha

    • @Nina21_
      @Nina21_ 4 роки тому +7

      @@xPrincessxPeachxLove we really need to change that pattern , it causes us a lot of hurt everytime..

    • @farrex0
      @farrex0 4 роки тому +4

      You just need an ENTP, I mean we are still red flags but at least we will be upfront about it.

    • @xPrincessxPeachxLove
      @xPrincessxPeachxLove 4 роки тому +5

      @@farrex0 Though on the other hand we prefer an individual we can connect with rather than a collective or a specific type

    • @Nina21_
      @Nina21_ 4 роки тому +5

      @@farrex0 i would never get along with an ENTP 😂 from my personal experience , i get along best with NF types (or at least a feeler type)

  • @mrssmayberry
    @mrssmayberry 4 роки тому +198

    Me, an INTJ: Wait, I care about this human. Oh no, I care a lot about this human. Okay, let's not panic, I probably don't love them. **in denial for months** OH NO, I'M IN LOVE WITH THEM

    • @GeorgianaOnline
      @GeorgianaOnline 4 роки тому +10

      God, that’s so sadly accurate.

    • @jellyfish0311
      @jellyfish0311 3 роки тому +4

      I'm in this comment and I don't like it

    • @midnightmafias-shadow3324
      @midnightmafias-shadow3324 3 роки тому +3

      Im infj but i relate

    • @mrssmayberry
      @mrssmayberry 3 роки тому +10

      Update, me and this aforementioned human have been dating for several months now and he's an INTJ as well and it's actually awesome 😎

    • @jeanettepan5520
      @jeanettepan5520 3 роки тому +5

      pushes someone away because I'm scared of feelings...

  • @noahwright4444
    @noahwright4444 4 роки тому +324

    Me an ISTP scrolling through the comments looking for ISTPs but not leaving a comment. Other ISTPs doing the same thing.

    • @rebekahharris2738
      @rebekahharris2738 4 роки тому +6

      Yep! Lol!

    • @creispy_chu
      @creispy_chu 4 роки тому +13

      for real lmaoo all i see are intuitives in the comment section

    • @noahwright4444
      @noahwright4444 4 роки тому +14

      @@creispy_chu we should start a revolution

    • @yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983
      @yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983 4 роки тому +10

      @@noahwright4444 I'm not an ISTP (Sadly, I'm an INFJ), but I highly encourage you to start that revolution 👁👄👁💛

    • @noahwright4444
      @noahwright4444 4 роки тому +26

      @@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983 that sounds like it would require organizations... and socializing. 😐

  • @imdal2271
    @imdal2271 4 роки тому +100

    As a single ENFP, that have been confessed and rejected and rejecting i relate to this video because im afraid being treated as a joke cause my whole existence is a joke. let's have a good laugh of our heartbreaks and love stories

    • @prose729
      @prose729 3 роки тому +5

      Fellow enfp-t sending you love n best wishes✨ we got thissss

    • @hadia5558
      @hadia5558 3 роки тому +3

      Yes and that feeling where we think we are actually not being taken seriously just cz we are funny. Thus doubting the relationship and trying to maintain a distance. And then in the end, brushing it off n being back agn beaming.
      This is for anyyy relationship

  • @christianbh
    @christianbh 4 роки тому +117

    As an INTJ I agree with the ENFP and ISTJ ones.

  • @lorettagrey7383
    @lorettagrey7383 4 роки тому +227

    Me, an ENFP having said the exact same words before: 👁️👄👁️

  • @luvfromnilla
    @luvfromnilla Рік тому +8

    ISTJ, the type to analyze the situation from a statistical point of view. Definitely relatable for me, I do this all the time. ♡

  • @Mikasks
    @Mikasks 4 роки тому +620

    INTJ: likes a girl
    Also INTJ: wait why do I even like this girl. She has above average looks, but not pretty. Her personality has some major red flags. Her financial situation is pretty dreadful which indicates someone who can’t organize their finances, she even asked me to lend her quite a lot of money the other day, of course I gave it her. Wait, I GAVE IT TO HER? WHY? Well, this girl clearly indicates a red flag of doom that will lead me to making irrational decisions and fucking up my future. Rationally thinking, I should not like this person. Wait who am I kidding, even if I do want her, I’m not even confident I can get her lmfao. I’ll just bury this feeling and not tell anyone forever.

    • @marianavarro6316
      @marianavarro6316 4 роки тому +40

      Lol you just described an ENFP girl 👧

    • @edfxcekj1357
      @edfxcekj1357 4 роки тому +103

      As INTJ girl: I like a guy
      Same as you, first I try to know why I like him!!! And then consider all the facts that I shouldn't like him. But I do really like him it's emotion out of my control, so I tried to analysie if we had future, sadly find No. Then I gave it up....never start.

    • @kaisaj2823
      @kaisaj2823 4 роки тому +36

      Same here. Usually when a guy is making even a tiny mistake I decide Im better off alone anyway and lose all the feelings which were imaginary in the first place.

    • @PPNanaHime
      @PPNanaHime 4 роки тому +19

      @@edfxcekj1357 Same here. And the guy I like is an ENTJ. He has everything, but if I can't find flaw, then is this a conspiracy again? What if's are hurting my head, and don't know if I want this or should I just leave before it gets deeper, but what if I will end up alone in the future because I can't even decide on this one thing. Too much to analyze, too much possibilities and scenarios. Am I really ready for all this...? Probably no and never will...

    • @akodaah13-e32
      @akodaah13-e32 4 роки тому +10

      For me (intj) when i show interest in a person:
      -opproach
      -make my like 200 questions and more about him/her
      -ask if they want to be my friends
      And that's all :D
      (I have never been in love)

  • @Martick05545
    @Martick05545 4 роки тому +76

    INFJ is so accurate it hurts. I feel like I’m simultaneously being my girlfriend’s boyfriend, therapist, and father. 😅

    • @ksorangeeee840
      @ksorangeeee840 4 роки тому +3

      jeez same! I became his girlfriend and his mother. Though I do not bother being his therapist since the last time I did, it seems fruitless. Sometimes it's painful and frustrating that I can't make him feel better about his problems. All I could offer are my ears only. And he would just give me no response in return :((((((

    • @AmberRaven11
      @AmberRaven11 4 роки тому +6

      INFJ girl here. don't forget that you're a person too.. what you sense other people need for support, you're gonna need it too, even if you don't feel it. I find we're not nearly as good at recognizing our own needs as we are at recognizing others. try to keep yourself a priority for yourself too :) just some humble advice ^-^

    • @AmberRaven11
      @AmberRaven11 4 роки тому +4

      @@ksorangeeee840 similar situation. i drew the line when i started becoming his mother.. it got kinda gross feeling and not fulfilling for me at all. just taxing and i was giving so much emotional support to him i had none left for myself. we INFJ's gotta keep ourselves a priority too.. i find i have to make a literal conscious effort cuz it doesn't come naturally haha. but how are we gonna truly, effectively help support others if we never support ourselves?

    • @ksorangeeee840
      @ksorangeeee840 4 роки тому

      @@AmberRaven11 awee thank you!! After the resentment that I bottled for too long broke, I already made a call to break up with him. I just got out of the relationship. I hope you will be fine. That is so true! I feel you. I was losing myself from loving him and taking care of him. I have no place to run and decided to steel my heart to break this guy who thought of me as a perfect lover to marry. It is time to take care and stop lying to myself. He keeps crossing the lines that I drew anyway. Thank you Ashley!

    • @Martick05545
      @Martick05545 4 роки тому +1

      @@AmberRaven11 Don’t worry! I’ve learned my lessons and have found a good balance of prioritizing myself and compromising for the relationship!

  • @GeorgianaOnline
    @GeorgianaOnline 4 роки тому +91

    My partner, the ENFP, sometimes says that I, the INTJ, talk too much. Seriously? Do you KNOW how amazing it is that I talk to anyone at all? FEEL SPECIAL.

    • @prose729
      @prose729 3 роки тому +2

      Idk if enfp and intj are good match. Recently been talking to this intp guy. He rarely uses social media but approaches and talks to me in insta and has committed to help me w my issue too so what do i make out of this? Does intj do this normally for everyone or sud i take this as a green sign lol. Just asking cus u intj and I'm so confused he says he is nt for relationship and talks rational so yeah fellow intj's insights will be help me lol.

    • @Columbus-j6q
      @Columbus-j6q 3 роки тому +4

      @@prose729 is that intp a typo? well as intj i usually dont care about people, unless they're my people. but when i decide to help you, that means i really care because i'm willing to give you my precious times and energy.

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah, I too can be talkative when I finally find someone who really listens.
      I've been getting better, though.

  • @SubhamGurung67
    @SubhamGurung67 2 роки тому +42

    As an ISFP, I can totally relate to it. I was in a relationship for the first time and I felt love flowing through my veins day and night. But after few months we broke up. So do my feelings too, though it was hard at first but i moved on with life. I guess its all about going with the flow of life for ISFPs. Like i you ISFPs agrees. 🙂

    • @godandsarah1306
      @godandsarah1306 Рік тому +2

      I'm sorry

    • @JYSongJY
      @JYSongJY 3 місяці тому +1

      (I HAVE BEEN SCROLLING WAITING FOR ANOTHER ISFP)... I'm also extremely sorry that happened to you.🫂

  • @Kayla-me3ct
    @Kayla-me3ct 4 роки тому +72

    Problem with being INFJ is we show love by trying to help “fix” you, so if you got nothing to fix we feel like we have nothing to give :’)

    • @srs1659
      @srs1659 4 роки тому +16

      I left that phase. I stopped fixing people. I am trying to fix the world’s problems now. Much healthier and rewarding.

    • @zoegranville7607
      @zoegranville7607 4 роки тому +4

      @@srs1659 that's some incredible self-development and growth! love it :)

    • @vedangarekar1390
      @vedangarekar1390 4 роки тому +1

      @@zoegranville7607 That's how a healthy person should be

    • @studywithme-z
      @studywithme-z 4 роки тому +2

      @@srs1659 same dude same ! But I've also left the phase of changing the world now - the part of the world which would never accept changes ...

    • @srs1659
      @srs1659 4 роки тому +1

      @@studywithme-z Ha ha that’s right. I aim to change where I believe I can make a little difference.

  • @bebelmuniz
    @bebelmuniz 4 роки тому +157

    ENFPs bad self asteem: "I'd better check if that's a joke cause it's too good to be real" 😂

  • @nuggettss
    @nuggettss 4 роки тому +29

    I found out I'm an INFJ and I've been watching different videos and reading books and websites for the past few days and I just realized I'll probably be alone forever if one of these people that I'm trying to help to see through themselves doesn't wake up and see what I am actually doing here! :)

  • @---xu8gk
    @---xu8gk 3 роки тому +9

    the fact that INFP is always so accurate :')
    - an INFP looking for the perfect ideal partner I'll never find

  • @rielyederson2440
    @rielyederson2440 4 роки тому +200

    Me, an INTJ: rationality over emotions

    • @rufusneumann9703
      @rufusneumann9703 4 роки тому +8

      Me, an INTP: Let's check every edge case first

    • @JM-cr3bh
      @JM-cr3bh 4 роки тому +3

      Would an INTJ and INFJ be a fit ?

    • @Jeg898
      @Jeg898 4 роки тому +7

      @@JM-cr3bh Yep. My dad is an INTJ-A and my mom is an INFJ-T. I'm still surprised they haven't ripped each other's heads off. haha

    • @starscreamslouboutinheels4070
      @starscreamslouboutinheels4070 4 роки тому +6

      @@JM-cr3bh It depends on the person because relationship is a test of character. 'Golden pair' at times feel more like a generalisation of a dynamic between two people... and it doesn't mean much. I'm an INTJ dating an ESFJ. We're two different people and it has helped me develop my Fi and become more warm of a person in general. I've also met nice INFJs and insufferable INFJs, so...

    • @melaniegonzalezart8506
      @melaniegonzalezart8506 3 роки тому

      @@starscreamslouboutinheels4070 What is Fi? How can you tell what other people's personalities are?

  • @auraliax1323
    @auraliax1323 4 роки тому +299

    INTJs, LOVES u so much but never shows it

    • @AnnikaJoy
      @AnnikaJoy 4 роки тому +14

      Takes a while for us ESTJs to know how to show it too

    • @jokertarian
      @jokertarian 4 роки тому +46

      The way I show it is by drawing them often. I gift him some of the things I do inspired by him. (lol I’m a creative INTJ.)

    • @auraliax1323
      @auraliax1323 4 роки тому +20

      @@jokertarian That's cute♥️♥️

    • @Michael59197
      @Michael59197 4 роки тому +14

      Yeah, keep telling yourself that, it's better than the truth. I mean love is just another biochemical reaction that pushes us to reproduce, and the only rational thing is to pick a suitable life partner using your brain, after you come to the conclusion that living with a partner benefits you, but yeah, it's "love". We're just not good showing it.

    • @perspicace
      @perspicace 4 роки тому +56

      For real. My husband is always saying I (INTJ) don't show my love enough but I don't even know what that means. I thought marrying him, having a child, and literally spending all of my free time with him made it pretty obvious.

  • @moonlight.z6543
    @moonlight.z6543 4 роки тому +170

    When INTJ falls in love, their brain doesn't hand over the reigns to their heart.
    They lose their brain entirely.

    • @danicleckley5404
      @danicleckley5404 4 роки тому +49

      Yeah. It's like, "Hey, I just spent $300 on this teddy bear for you. I don't know why I'd ever spend so much on something that does nothing to improve either one of our lives financially or technology. I have bills to pay and definitely can't afford it. But it made me think of you, so I bought it."

    • @ayannalopez3308
      @ayannalopez3308 4 роки тому +23

      @@danicleckley5404 This is me 🥲 I bought a whole stuffed Zebra for my bf (he’s ENFP) that was really expensive and I know it was irresponsible, but he looked so happy with it, I just might buy five others.

    • @Porcelina-eq3ui
      @Porcelina-eq3ui 4 роки тому +7

      100%

    • @jackieocean3511
      @jackieocean3511 4 роки тому +33

      I can confirm this 100%. I gave a Valentine's card to an INTJ once and his reaction was so extreme you would have thought I bought him a Ferrari. He stared at the card and told me the 'gift' was beautiful. I had to gently remind him it was a card and that he should open it. It actually was quite endearing ~ 💖 ESFJ

    • @Porcelina-eq3ui
      @Porcelina-eq3ui 4 роки тому +10

      @@jackieocean3511 lol That's so amazing.

  • @demonsta8016
    @demonsta8016 3 роки тому +29

    2:07 I... I actually tried this with every partner I had just to see how they would react and if they would try to destroy my argument... until now just one has won.... the current one... an INTP who saw that I was messing with them and purposely failed, then said "jk, lol" and gave a frick ton reasons why our relationship couldn't be over yet... I'm in effing LOVE... I'M NOT KIDDING

    • @Sophie-vw5ol
      @Sophie-vw5ol 3 роки тому +5

      Emotionally that sounds awful to play with someones heart and lost so much

  • @triscardenas5382
    @triscardenas5382 4 роки тому +287

    When is 16 personalities with their ideal pairings coming out? 😭😭😭😭😭😪

    • @MaelisaMcCaffrey
      @MaelisaMcCaffrey 4 роки тому +19

      Oh, this would be a good one to poke fun at!!!

    • @NoraTheCreator117
      @NoraTheCreator117 4 роки тому +26

      Unpopular opinion about "golden pairs:" the first letter (I/E) does not matter, the second letters (N/S) must match, the last two letters (T/F; J/P) must differ

    • @zleem2873
      @zleem2873 4 роки тому +16

      @@NoraTheCreator117 I 100% agree with you on the N/S thing. I’m an INTJ and my parents refuse to take the test, but I have concluded that they are ESTPs and we tend to argue a lot, even if it’s short lived. Also two of my friends are ISFJ’s and I always have to try really hard to not say the wrong thing to them. For everything else I feel like it could actually go either way.

    • @MaelisaMcCaffrey
      @MaelisaMcCaffrey 4 роки тому +2

      @@NoraTheCreator117 I'm with another F right now, for the first time, and I actually really LOVE it!

    • @NoraTheCreator117
      @NoraTheCreator117 4 роки тому +5

      @@MaelisaMcCaffrey beware, beware, be skeptical...

  • @lilygee7530
    @lilygee7530 4 роки тому +60

    THE INFP ONE HURT IT'S SO ACCURATE NOO

  • @333invitado
    @333invitado 4 роки тому +95

    I just fell in love with your channel. You are such a great, charismatic performer and you get it right on point ALL. THE. TIME! As an INFJ, I never felt more understood than watching your videos. Great content ^^

    • @zaiikim01
      @zaiikim01 Рік тому

      Do you know his personality type?

  • @lilygrace298
    @lilygrace298 3 роки тому +13

    The ENFJ one is very true, I had an ENFJ friend and she told me her mom talked to her about her boyfriend and her mom said “Awww you’re in love with him.” And it wasn’t until then that she decided she was.