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  • The body experience significant changes when we stop drinking alcohol, this videos explains exactly what happens when we become sober or take a break from drinking.
    Alcohol impacts almost every part of our mind and body, it significantly increases the risk of cancer, heart problems and liver disease. But what happens when we stop drinking? Does our body heal? Do we return to normal?
    This video explores the changes we experience when we remove alcohol and covers the various aspects of change that happen.
    It also includes before and after photos from when I was drinking alongside a month after I quit alcohol.
    If you enjoy the video, please subscribe to the channel to ensure you don't miss new content.
    If you need more help quitting alcohol join my stop drinking programme at: www.joinbesobe...
    Simon Chapple
    The Quit Alcohol Coach
    www.besober.co.uk
    #stopdrinking #stoppingdrinking #alcoholandbody #alcoholdamage

КОМЕНТАРІ • 636

  • @danielsnathan3821
    @danielsnathan3821 Рік тому +696

    I stopped drinking at the age of 75, after continuous drinking for 55years. I had never touched ever after, without any side effects , even a single day. I used to drink 3/4 of a full bottle , every day, morning to evening. Thanks to My will power . I am 81 now.😀

    • @KingKhan-123
      @KingKhan-123 Рік тому +12

      God bless you sir!

    • @MixedCompany2020
      @MixedCompany2020 Рік тому +19

      A full bottle of what? Whiskey, wine, beer?

    • @visam28
      @visam28 Рік тому +7

      Fantastic! ❤

    • @raymondjunger4742
      @raymondjunger4742 Рік тому +33

      How did you survive that? I‘m 24 and nearly died from alcohol last year. Been dry since

    • @shiftintohigh5564
      @shiftintohigh5564 Рік тому +5

      Going thru about the same thing. Long time coming. Feeling great. Its just not a bad idea. Lol

  • @MG-jj3pn
    @MG-jj3pn Рік тому +333

    I’ve been sober for 1235 days. Everything in my life has improved 100%

  • @TroyGrey
    @TroyGrey Рік тому +429

    I’m two months sober today after decades of drinking myself to sleep. It’s been rough mentally, but it’s all been worth it.

    • @lobstermania4025
      @lobstermania4025 Рік тому +26

      Day 5 of 40 years 10-15 beers a day. It's hell right now

    • @TroyGrey
      @TroyGrey Рік тому

      @@lobstermania4025 Give it two months, no matter what. I went through severe anxiety and panic attacks but they will pass and you will feel so much better. Hang in there!

    • @lobstermania4025
      @lobstermania4025 Рік тому +9

      @@TroyGrey Thank you..Thats what i have now , high anxiety and Heart palpitation along with a murmur that I just went to the cardio for and he said it might be my drinking habits. My plan is to take some time off then only have a few beers 2-3 on the weekends. If I fail at that, I will quit.. I failed two times before trying to moderate but I never tried No beer on weekdays...Thanks for listening.

    • @Meatislife
      @Meatislife Рік тому +12

      @@lobstermania4025 Same here friend. I'm two weeks in after drinking nightly for years. The first week was pretty brutal. Jolting awake all night, heart palpitations, and the reason I drank in the first place was anxiety which was absolutely the worst I've ever had. One thing that helped me massively was only eating one meal a day. For whatever reason eating would give me more anxiety. Hang in there.

    • @happyglock3426
      @happyglock3426 Рік тому +13

      Congrats man! I’m right behind you…..60 days next week, after a pint of bourbon every night for years. I feel great and have lost 24 lbs!

  • @ryanburgess7367
    @ryanburgess7367 11 місяців тому +84

    I'm 12 days sober today after 10 years of 40+ drinks a week. The evenings are still tough for cravings, but drinking sparkling water is surprisingly satiating. I've also become much more productive and sleeping better. I hope I can stick with it!

    • @MM-jf6sh
      @MM-jf6sh 11 місяців тому +4

      Listen to Allen Carr’s easy way to control alcohol audiobook

    • @user-lv1ie5xm2m
      @user-lv1ie5xm2m 10 місяців тому +6

      I'm also 12 days sober. I enjoy drinking flavored, carbonated water. Good luck to you!

    • @ryanburgess7367
      @ryanburgess7367 10 місяців тому

      @user-lv1ie5xm2m Thank you and good luck to you too! At 21 days now and it feels amazing.

    • @Angelove88294
      @Angelove88294 10 місяців тому +4

      🎉stick with it! I’m happy for you. I drank the same way. I’m 4 + years sober now. Life becomes sooo good. 🍀🍀🍀

    • @incremental_failure
      @incremental_failure 9 місяців тому +3

      Substitute with some drugs, the nice kind that don't tax your health much. It's complete insanity that some of the most innocent drugs like mushrooms are illegal in most countries while alcohol is legal and even advertised. The world is upside down.

  • @DarkLouie76
    @DarkLouie76 Рік тому +256

    I drank for 40 years, quit at age as 53, I am close to 2 years sober now. It's tough sometimes feeling life without a crutch, but it's better than it's ever been. Every day is a gift.

    • @theliftexpert
      @theliftexpert Рік тому +6

      Smoke a low dose thc ,high dose of cbd …..indica joint if you need a crutch once in awhile.
      It will help you relax and sleep like a baby.

    • @john2914
      @john2914 Рік тому +4

      Hard stuff. I am 56 and drinking quite a lot
      I don't see any future, and I have a hard time at night. Best wishes to you.

    • @DarkLouie76
      @DarkLouie76 Рік тому +2

      @@john2914 thank you John, and it's tough but try to get to a meeting, gotta start somewhere, you can do it if you want. Life still is tough but better without alcohol in it... Sleep will get better too. I used to have a tough time sleeping, now I don't.

    • @RickCostello
      @RickCostello Рік тому +7

      Get into exercise my friend. It is the only crutch with no catch.

    • @DarkLouie76
      @DarkLouie76 Рік тому +5

      @@RickCostello at the gym right now lol. Usually I would be waking up hung over.

  • @joannesmith3991
    @joannesmith3991 10 місяців тому +26

    18 days today and already i feel so much better , ive lost a little weight , people say i look younger so onwards and upwards never going back to that poison

    • @KatalinHalom
      @KatalinHalom 6 місяців тому +1

      Stand strong! You'll make it!!

  • @racymacy6390
    @racymacy6390 8 місяців тому +32

    This morning I decided to stop drinking. I dumped everything down the drain. Today is day one for me. I am determined to do this. I NEED to do this. I am tired of living like this. Thank you for your video. I know it is going to be a difficult journey but I have confidence in myself to go forward.

    • @chrissie.0864
      @chrissie.0864 5 місяців тому

      How are you doing? ❤

    • @jeffreyskinner7167
      @jeffreyskinner7167 5 місяців тому +1

      Congratulations your mind is a powerful thong! One day at a time .

    • @user-bu1sd1uy8j
      @user-bu1sd1uy8j 5 місяців тому +1

      Pls do this I also decided today we tried of being controlled by unhealthy liquids

    • @jasonspurs
      @jasonspurs 4 місяці тому +2

      I surrendered myself to stop drinking.3 weeks ago i feel better then i have for 30 years of drinking.Well done mate.

    • @user-kg3ps9nj2t
      @user-kg3ps9nj2t 3 місяці тому

      Good for you. Find people doing the same. Recovery is Connection. Connection is Recovery.

  • @Jesusisimaginary
    @Jesusisimaginary Рік тому +18

    I'm going to quit this time for sure, I'm not going to give up

  • @dannydaily20
    @dannydaily20 9 місяців тому +15

    I just made 29.I am a week sober now. Already feel a lot better and determined to go forever.
    Alcohol has done more bad than good to me, I've lost alot and don't wanna lose again.
    Decided to quit some cycles of friends for my own good. I been telling them i can't drink again. I'm determined,may God support me.

  • @anthonysquire1241
    @anthonysquire1241 11 місяців тому +45

    I stopped drinking alcohol nearly 10 years ago, and I can still feel the benefits of not drinking alcohol now.

    • @gileswelham2619
      @gileswelham2619 10 місяців тому

      What are they?

    • @YourHealthisfirst
      @YourHealthisfirst 12 днів тому

      Awesome video! I make health-related videos too, and I'd love for you to check them out. your feedback will be highly appreciated.

  • @lpsglitterpaws8536
    @lpsglitterpaws8536 Рік тому +68

    4 days sober. Thanks for the support

    • @Maximilian0011
      @Maximilian0011 Рік тому

      just try to understand that alcohol is a pure Poison and its intention is to kill you, slowly..., THAT and those behind it made me mad and I did not touch drink again.
      You can do it buddy if I done so!!!!!

    • @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100
      @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100 Рік тому +4

      How’s it going? I’m day 7.

    • @lpsglitterpaws8536
      @lpsglitterpaws8536 Рік тому +4

      @@growsinhouseherbiculturali1100 I have slipped up a couple of times but I keep going back to sober mode. I like the way I feel when I’m sober better and I guess I had to see if it was really better. I need to not see alcohol as a reward and see it for the demon it truly is. Keep going. It only gets better!

    • @abefroman9848
      @abefroman9848 Рік тому

      Me too, mr

    • @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100
      @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100 Рік тому

      @@lpsglitterpaws8536 Yup, it only gets better. I’m day 17 now, this is the longest I have gone in many, many tries! One day at a time.

  • @DJ-vm2zi
    @DJ-vm2zi Рік тому +57

    3 months sober. Feeling good. Blood pressure coming down. Sleeping better. Lost 15 lbs

  • @scottjackson163
    @scottjackson163 Рік тому +77

    Day 358 here. I still want to drink occasionally, but I haven’t, for nearly a year.

    • @scottjackson163
      @scottjackson163 Рік тому +16

      Now almost 15 months without.

    • @DYKWINNING
      @DYKWINNING Рік тому +6

      @@scottjackson163 Great job!
      Just hit 2 years myself, there were heavy cravings around month 21-22. Maybe you'll feel the same. Keep pushing forward!

    • @gary3902
      @gary3902 Рік тому

      Awesome I wish I was close to that👏👍

    • @nanfeliciano5465
      @nanfeliciano5465 Рік тому

      Don't yes will power is everything, you're better then that,you got this...Yay 💪🤞

    • @scottjackson163
      @scottjackson163 Рік тому

      @truthnowtv187 Quitting is so very hard when you are deep into the drinking life. Two factors got me to (now) day 484: (1) A history over several years of “mini-quitting” episodes - somehow the failures weren’t wasted; (2) A major, unexpected life event, the birth of my granddaughter. I became something of an auxiliary parent to my daughter’s little girl. That’s a sober-only privilege/job.
      Here’s a tactical tip. When you are tempted to go to a bar for food and alcohol, see if you can make yourself (at least sometimes) eat at a cafe or restaurant that does not serve alcohol. I found that on any given evening, after I became sated with a nice meal, I no longer wanted alcohol. Good luck!

  • @weezyrunner
    @weezyrunner 10 місяців тому +13

    I've been sober a little over two weeks, and already my asthma systems have improved greatly and my bloat is already gone. 😊

  • @Simon-pl2zi
    @Simon-pl2zi Рік тому +76

    I quit, didn’t journal, life is now so much better in every single way.

    • @nanfeliciano5465
      @nanfeliciano5465 Рік тому +3

      Yay so happy for you 👍 you got this...your life is worth it 👏

    • @kevinmills5293
      @kevinmills5293 Рік тому

      I quit over 2 years ago. Never missed it and haven’t noticed any difference.

  • @derekknight7403
    @derekknight7403 10 місяців тому +22

    Going on 8 days and feel better than I have in 8 years 😊

  • @samwilcockmusic
    @samwilcockmusic Рік тому +65

    Big love to everyone getting control of themselves here with alcohol. I wish you all success and good health.

  • @hayleywarden6315
    @hayleywarden6315 Рік тому +38

    This is a very inspiring video. I stopped drinking 208 days ago after a 40 year habit which began after some shitty childhood experiences. My emotional life has been SO hard since I quit, as the layers stripped off and revealed the memories again. No one tells you this will happen, it’s all about great sleep, etc etc etc. So the unresolved trauma numbed by weed and alcohol now needs dealing with properly. I will never drink again.

  • @28tpi
    @28tpi Рік тому +11

    Ive been on the wagon for 22 yrs. Never looked back. Best decision ever!!!

  • @iandavies1893
    @iandavies1893 Рік тому +44

    I stopped drinking just under 4 weeks ago having drunk too regularly over the years. I feel much better, my brain feels sharper, my weight is coming down and I sleep better. On top of this I have saved a fortune. The main thing other than the health benefits are family members are really pleased too. A very good informative video.

  • @johnathanriojas2530
    @johnathanriojas2530 10 місяців тому +10

    I need this! I cannot keep drinking as much as I do. I'm now 4 days in and I have headaches, irregular sleep cycles, and anxiety 😥

  • @B_2_11
    @B_2_11 Рік тому +20

    I'm 7 days sober. It's a start

    • @fernageer761
      @fernageer761 10 місяців тому

      What drink are replacing alcohol with?

    • @B_2_11
      @B_2_11 10 місяців тому

      @@fernageer761 to begin with it was soft drinks but now I'm just water and focusing on my work 👌👍

    • @fernageer761
      @fernageer761 10 місяців тому

      @kenny1161 I'm trying to find something that is going to taste enough like wine that'll want it...
      Cranberry juice and tonic is good.
      Also upping my water...
      It's hard. Especially in the evenings when I'm enjoying a campfire, reading or TV
      .good luck to you

    • @B_2_11
      @B_2_11 10 місяців тому

      @@fernageer761 oh yes all the best to you also. I was a beer and spirits drinker but now over 2months. It gets easier I promise you that. Like I said I've put all my focus into my trade and my daughter ❤️

  • @yourguidetorights3909
    @yourguidetorights3909 Рік тому +22

    I quit when i was 55 , 73 now. Cold Turkey. Only thing that changed was i lost a ton of weight. Didn't experience anything except weight loss. Ate the same, lost 50 lbs over 6 months

  • @stevesoucy5932
    @stevesoucy5932 Рік тому +48

    I'm on day 8 and feeling amazing!

    • @MG-jj3pn
      @MG-jj3pn Рік тому +2

      Keep it up

    • @gedhuffadine1873
      @gedhuffadine1873 Рік тому +1

      Ime on day 13 can already feel benefits.

    • @NCrdwlf
      @NCrdwlf Рік тому +2

      I just went over 2 months and can tell you that it will continue . Sleeping better too.

    • @stevesoucy5932
      @stevesoucy5932 Рік тому +1

      @Just Greg Congrats on 2 months! And yeah, totally agreed. I'm on day 67 today, and feel like a new man. More energy as a result if better sleep, and my mental focus is a whole lot better. Zero regrets cutting it out of my life.

    • @Maximilian0011
      @Maximilian0011 Рік тому

      look, alcohol is a PURE Poison intended to kill us simple as that, if you get that right you are done with drinking, Amen

  • @mikeshafer
    @mikeshafer Рік тому +19

    I quit drinking tomorrow, on April 1, 2023. I've quit before for a period of one year, just to try it out, but now that I'm 42 I just can't take hangovers anymore, and the recent research just makes it less compelling to drink even a bit. I am hung over as I type this, and it's horrible. I hate hangovers and they just get worse and worse. I will take a photo as you suggest, and I'm also going to schedule a DEXA scan so I can map out my body fat % in highest accuracy. Then I will walk every morning for 10K steps, start my daily yoga routine, and stick to a super clean diet. I think I'll even start reading books again. I can only imagine how my life could change after I quit for good.

    • @Sheila-kh1ez
      @Sheila-kh1ez Рік тому +3

      Hi Michael, hope you're doing well. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, easy does it.

  • @biondna7984
    @biondna7984 Рік тому +109

    January 21, 2003, I said to myself, "That was the last hangover I'll ever have." And it was, 20 years ago, at age 49. The biggest change I anticipated? I respect and trust myself. I feel good in my own skin. I left an abusive marriage three years later, and met the most wonderful, loving man I've ever known. He quit drinking a few years after we met, and then we married. Sadly, Alzheimer's came on and he passed almost two years ago. I'd never have felt worthy of his love and cherishing, if I hadn't stopped drinking. At 69, I'm going for love one more time. And I know I'm a woman of value at last.

    • @VacumOvale
      @VacumOvale Рік тому +4

      69, nice

    • @kevinchaplin3089
      @kevinchaplin3089 Рік тому +4

      You are truly a woman of value, For some lucky someone!!

    • @biondna7984
      @biondna7984 Рік тому +2

      @@kevinchaplin3089 Most kind, Sir.

    • @peterlyons8793
      @peterlyons8793 Рік тому +2

      Good for you. I'm glad you're ❤happy with yourself

    • @alr9967
      @alr9967 Рік тому +3

      I’m showing your comment to my 30 year old daughter. Everyone who loves her believes in her value. sadly she doesn’t I pray for her to see what we see

  • @jesus2400
    @jesus2400 Рік тому +99

    Sober 10 months after drinking for decades. This guy nailed it in this video drinking is a psychological addiction. Never thought I could quit alcohol. No more hangovers emotionally turned my world around.

    • @brandonbell5357
      @brandonbell5357 10 місяців тому

      You got help to quit you can't drink that long and quit you have to be detox by professionals

  • @Jazman342
    @Jazman342 Рік тому +46

    At 70 years old, I'm 35 years sober. My heart goes out to all those new to this who have commented here. The selfie tip is good. they didn't exist 35 years ago but in every photo of me from back then I have a beer in one hand and a cigarette in the other. Yes the most significant effects when giving up drinking are emotional and mental, but both are products of our physical brain. It DOES get better although at first it seems to get worse. It's more just a consequence of removal of the aesthetic though. From my early teenage and emotionally developmental years I used alcohol, and then other drugs, to cope. It was the ONLY coping mechanism I had. I had to learn to deal with life on life's terms. Not my own. In my humble opinion it is not so much a matter of "giving up drinking". That's akin to "giving up hitting your thumb with a hammer". It's all about "learning to live sober". It IS WORTH IT!

    • @ElectronicYouth
      @ElectronicYouth 11 місяців тому +2

      I am 35, quit drinking about a month ago.

  • @test-xn3lm
    @test-xn3lm Рік тому +38

    Alcohol makes you pretty useless after about 5 hours you drained and sluggish.
    I found that after a meal with alcohol I was ready to sleep totally ruined the day with no energy.
    Not to mention the anxiety hitting you the next day which want to make you drink again.
    The worst is the drama which follows the next day.
    You might gone to a party and made a fool of yourself and you can’t remember really what exactly you did and if you insulted someone. The next day you start to try and figure out and peace together last nights events adding even more to the hangover and anxiety.
    Alcohol can be an absolute nightmare.
    It starts with one drink and you think it’s just the one.
    By the time you finish it you think oh it’s okay I have another one and you back in the train wreck.

  • @davestang5454
    @davestang5454 Рік тому +62

    These are great points. I stopped about 900 days ago and, to tell the truth, the "hard" part of quitting was over rapidly. The key is to understand what form of "therapy" the alcohol was giving you and learn to replace it with a healthier alternative. Bad habits can replaced with equally "addictive" healthy habits.

    • @brianpollard4350
      @brianpollard4350 Рік тому +3

      I agree.
      I believe that most people have addictive personalities.
      You're correct in observing that healthy addictive behavior can be substituted for unhealthy addictive behavior.
      Thanks for making this important observation!

  • @mmbell
    @mmbell Рік тому +6

    Saw a documentary about the link between alcohol consumption and breast cancer in female.
    It was a big reason why I quit.

  • @ericjencson9489
    @ericjencson9489 Рік тому +35

    It's a mental compulsion not a craving. Physical craving happens after you take the first drink, not before, and result in the inability to stop drinking once you've started.

    • @astragreen
      @astragreen Рік тому

      Yes and it comes at you it won’t leave you alone, that’s why I always have a few bottles of non- alcoholic beverages in the fridge after one just one I’m okay if that was beer that one would end up being 10 cans, also the longer you abstain the addiction goes down way down, however I always have fake beer at the ready!..

  • @Irishstew6969
    @Irishstew6969 Рік тому +56

    1 month without alcohol and although i wasn't a heavy drinker, definitely not dependent, i was getting into the habit. I feel better psychologically rather than physically.

    • @narn3904
      @narn3904 Рік тому +1

      same here, but for some reason very little weight loss.

    • @tommysherman7155
      @tommysherman7155 11 місяців тому

      6 week and feel worse mentally.
      Drank everything every waking minute apart from horrible lager

  • @johniii8147
    @johniii8147 Рік тому +25

    Very accurate. There was the 3 day period where you felt worse but pretty quickly moved on and I understood that was gonna happen. Definitely didn't sleep well the first days. The biggest challenge I had in the first year was the mental. I was mostly over drinking in boredom and being not being fulfilled in my life. Had to find other things and build a better life. Trust me, particularly the first 3 months were tough on a mental level but I have found other thing and people to fill my life.

    • @paulabutler3506
      @paulabutler3506 Місяць тому

      Same why I drunk bored lonely and blots pain ...
      Never again week one sober

  • @Blondie472
    @Blondie472 Рік тому +6

    3 weeks come Saturday..
    The social aspects have been the hardest.
    All anyone wants to do here is drink. Bars and breweries everywhere i go..

  • @thehylers1021
    @thehylers1021 Рік тому +18

    I chose to fast alcohol for 21 days and decided to continue - it's been 90 days. I feel great and I'm happier. I never drank to get drunk and I won't say that I'll never drink again but I want it to be like a toast here and there.

    • @brucemcguire5324
      @brucemcguire5324 Рік тому +1

      Same here. Im 60 plus days no alcohol and lots of amazing benefits are showing its sign.

    • @thehylers1021
      @thehylers1021 Рік тому +2

      @@brucemcguire5324 congratulations on on taking good care of yourself! I wake up sometimes giggling like I discovered this amazing secret 😄.

    • @lisao6928
      @lisao6928 10 місяців тому

      Who cares if you don't drink then? If you're on this video, I think you're lying to us and yourself.

  • @user-xz3iv6tw2i
    @user-xz3iv6tw2i Рік тому +20

    Day 7,989 here.

  • @Libertas_P77
    @Libertas_P77 Рік тому +50

    I’m one of those who has quit alcohol because of it what it does the human body. I’m happy to join the rest who have had more of a battle to quit, and 50+ days in, I’ve never felt better from completely staying off it.

  • @lisafedele7932
    @lisafedele7932 8 місяців тому +2

    Ive never made it past 2 yrs. Sober. Im coming up on 3 years clean. I realized, this was the first time...i dont wish i can drink. No more bp meds

  • @kylekeen3497
    @kylekeen3497 Рік тому +18

    I'm 3 years sober

  • @MassiveLib
    @MassiveLib 11 місяців тому +6

    It's the 5.30pm psychological bell thats still going off in my body everyday...even after 6 weeks.....

    • @armymarshal13
      @armymarshal13 10 місяців тому +1

      Yep yep, I feel this strong. I swear the routine is more addicting than the alcohol

    • @MassiveLib
      @MassiveLib 10 місяців тому

      @@armymarshal13 it took mine about 8 weeks to stop. Now it's only a Friday or Saturday. The conditioning is strong in this one 😏

  • @hvalenti
    @hvalenti Рік тому +8

    That's the main thing for me, feeling free and not wondering about drinking again. You can just feel good now and with the next breath.

  • @opencurtin
    @opencurtin Рік тому +11

    Drinking was a social lubricant for me as I suffer from social anxiety, I quit in December 2019 at 48 , I’m still sober living now , you have to find new ways to live your life away from alcohol the world doesn’t stop turning because you stop drinking you have to learn to have fun without the booze , good luck to all !

    • @e.t926
      @e.t926 Рік тому +1

      I have social anxiety too so its hard to give up alcohol...

    • @opencurtin
      @opencurtin Рік тому +1

      @@e.t926 depends on your age and circumstances if ur still drinking heavy and single by the time you get into your mods 40s I think quitting is in your best interest health wise .

  • @hughrobertson7242
    @hughrobertson7242 Рік тому +34

    Inspirational no-nonsense advice-thank you. I have started my journey and have embraced sobriety. 4 days in and I feel positive about what I’m gaining in health and mental well-being. Respect to everyone out there who is on the journey and making it work for them 💪👍

    • @DLY0898
      @DLY0898 Рік тому +1

      Good luck! Wishing you success!

    • @sonialoves444
      @sonialoves444 Рік тому +2

      i’m going to quit today

  • @wj8108
    @wj8108 Рік тому +14

    After a bunch of rehab trips. Sober almost 3 years now. Life is so much better. Something was different the last time and it was easier to stop. Now playing m accomplishing life goals. I’m my kid’s little league coach, built my boys a tree fort, saved money, saved tons of vacation and sick days at work. All good stuff!!!

  • @Garda1962
    @Garda1962 Рік тому +7

    I've never felt better. Drank from 17 to 59. Never Again!! Also saved my life!

    • @bella0167
      @bella0167 11 місяців тому +1

      Well Done.👍

  • @raymondlin8728
    @raymondlin8728 Рік тому +24

    Sober since summer 2022. 1 minute at a time, 1 hr, 1 day, 1 week, 1 month , now almost 1 year

    • @bigt4331
      @bigt4331 Рік тому +2

      16 days today!

    • @katiesimpson8517
      @katiesimpson8517 Рік тому +1

      Absolutely!

    • @raymondlin8728
      @raymondlin8728 Рік тому +1

      @Big T fantastic. 16 days your liver is cleaning out , 16 days of your brain cells not dying, 16 days your heart , blood pressure, liver is repairing itself. 16 days you're at peace, hopefully with family too
      16 days becomes 30. Then 2 months, 3, then half a year, 1 year

    • @louisbuzzi869
      @louisbuzzi869 Рік тому +1

      Awesome.

    • @raymondlin8728
      @raymondlin8728 Рік тому +1

      Still not drinking

  • @jorgy1470
    @jorgy1470 Рік тому +32

    Day 33 here

  • @ralphmccawley1554
    @ralphmccawley1554 Рік тому +48

    Hi Simon, thanks for this video. Funnily enough I only started watching videos about the effects of alcohol, and quitting drinking several months after I quit. Into my six month without alcohol after being a moderate to heavy drinker most of my adult life. Although I did start drinking at the age of 14. I'm 72 and have nothing but total respect for anybody that attempts to stop drinking. And for those that have managed it after years and years... Wow!!! Well done to everybody and at every level. And Simon, only saw you this morning, well, of all the people I've recently watched, you made a reinforcing connection with me. Well done mate. Keep up the excellent effort and work.

  • @toddfish1675
    @toddfish1675 Рік тому +32

    I am 62 years old, I’ve lived in Mexico, most of my life, drank like a fish, I am one of the few people that quit for my health or so he says, it’s been seven months, not a drop, it wasn’t hard to quit, but it sure is boring 🙈. Seems like I don’t have friends anymore. I hope he gets better. 🙏

    • @lobstermania4025
      @lobstermania4025 Рік тому +3

      I hear you. Day 5 10-15 beers a day. I'll be 60 next week. I got heart problems

    • @toddfish1675
      @toddfish1675 Рік тому +1

      Good Luck Bro, Stay Strong 💪

    • @marydempsey5985
      @marydempsey5985 Рік тому +3

      Try AA or other sober groups easy way to make sober friends!

    • @toddfish1675
      @toddfish1675 Рік тому +1

      @@marydempsey5985 Thanks

    • @MRussell803
      @MRussell803 Рік тому +3

      Finding a productive hobby that you really enjoy helps with using your time in a wonderful way.

  • @davidnightingale8390
    @davidnightingale8390 Рік тому +36

    Like he said I've only been off alcohol for a month, I sleep far better I am calmer and lost approx 6 pounds.

  • @hughiegreene2991
    @hughiegreene2991 Рік тому +11

    All true, thanks for sharing. Am 12 years in, best move I’ve made.

  • @LindtBunny
    @LindtBunny Рік тому +23

    I quit when I turned 50 just a couple of weeks ago. Best decision I’ll ever make.

  • @michaelquinn8618
    @michaelquinn8618 Рік тому +33

    Four years since I had a beer I feel great I’m now trying to lose weight by dieting

    • @8nakata8
      @8nakata8 Рік тому

      Nothing better than a cold almost frozen beer after a nice productive and sporty day. You know that👺

    • @Artman1
      @Artman1 Рік тому +1

      @@8nakata8 Never did like the first beer. Had to have at least 4 before i started to enjoy the taste.

  • @jamesbyrne9312
    @jamesbyrne9312 Рік тому +27

    I've been beaten up three times this year. I can't do this anymore. I am intelligent well educated and love people but alcohol is freely. I thank god I am still alive.

    • @vincentm.7462
      @vincentm.7462 Рік тому +1

      Oh you’re the asshole drunk that challenges every other guy in the room?

    • @djdoolittle1315
      @djdoolittle1315 Рік тому +2

      Big hug ❤

    • @jamesbyrne9312
      @jamesbyrne9312 Рік тому +1

      @@djdoolittle1315 thanks

    • @melkathleen6460
      @melkathleen6460 Рік тому +6

      Life can be really hard. Honestly I was a big drinker for 19 years, I stopped 8 days ago, two things helped, this book I just read Alan carr’s quit drinking. He teaches you to do it by de programming you says willpower doesn’t work. Second ask Jesus into your heart, the Holy Spirit can take away your cravings.

    • @jamesbyrne9312
      @jamesbyrne9312 Рік тому +1

      @melkathleen6460 I agree on both counts. Thanks. It's an evil thing

  • @stevencaldwell838
    @stevencaldwell838 Рік тому +17

    Day 2 for me… I’ve been drinking off and on for decades… I’ve gone over a year sober, 6 months here and there, a month or two from time to time but always went back to the bottle! With a wife and young daughter now, its time to give it another go🙏

    • @orethe09
      @orethe09 Рік тому +1

      Good luck mate

    • @Mrspeedwell
      @Mrspeedwell Рік тому

      How are you going?

    • @stevencaldwell838
      @stevencaldwell838 Рік тому +2

      @@Mrspeedwell 2 1/2 weeks… feeling great with no desire to drink. The real test is when we go to Mexico for a month long surf trip. I’ll cross that bridge when I get there. Thanks for asking 🙏

    • @DLY0898
      @DLY0898 Рік тому

      Good luck on your surf trip! When you’re tempted, try to remember your “why” - why you’ve chosen the difficult journey to sobriety.

    • @stevencaldwell838
      @stevencaldwell838 Рік тому +1

      @@DLY0898 thanks buddy!

  • @virgilrytaar9083
    @virgilrytaar9083 11 місяців тому +6

    I'm only in day 4, had to resort to the wonderdrug baclofen today. The panic and anxiety was off the map 1st thing this morning. That, combined with the fact that I have a family thing to attend tonight has tipped me over the edge. If I can get through tonight without alcohol it will be a major triumph and a turning point in my life

    • @DianaCarolinaGirl22
      @DianaCarolinaGirl22 5 місяців тому +1

      I hope you made it through?

    • @virgilrytaar9083
      @virgilrytaar9083 5 місяців тому

      @@DianaCarolinaGirl22 amazingly, I did. Thankyou, I'm still going through withdrawal but I'm determined to beat it

  • @Moradude99
    @Moradude99 Рік тому +24

    I stopped drinking at home in the new year but still drink socially, once or twice a month, best decision I’ve ever made but don’t intend to stop completely.

    • @Maynardd
      @Maynardd Рік тому +8

      Same… I stopped drinking at home 12, 15 years ago. I had to because I was drinking at home almost every night. Once I made that decision, I might drink two or three times a month. It’s fun, doesn’t affect anything in my life in a negative way, I think that’s the way to go.

    • @martinhill2583
      @martinhill2583 11 місяців тому +1

      To some of us one drink is not enough and 2 is too many 😢

  • @skipdog9912
    @skipdog9912 11 місяців тому +4

    Week 6 booze free. Was hitting it hard for 12 years, after 12 years of being totally sober. Gave it up temporarily for health, but mainly to lose weight. First 3 nights off, not easy to fall asleep, but after that it gets easier. As much as I liked to booze, I don’t miss it as much as I thought. Life’s not amazing, but it does feel great. Better than I expected. If I can do it (again), anybody can! Unless I was sick, I drank daily for the most part of 12 years, sometimes pretty heavy!

  • @deslow7411
    @deslow7411 10 місяців тому +5

    I stopped drinking for almost 5 months and this channel was a huge help.
    When I relapsed I had a really shitty job and my mind was always of friday and that sixpack. It was a relief and getting drunk on my computer was actually helping in someway. On most Saturdays I also drank from 4 to 8 beers.
    Now I have a great new job and I honestly don't think about drinking that much. For me it's now just a habit. "Well it's weekend so I SHOULD get beer like usually do", but I have noticed that I don't get the same good feeling as I used to. Like after 2-3 beers I don't feel like drinking anymore where as previously I was pretty bummed when I was getting to the end of my sixpack.
    I'm thinking of trying sober life again and leaving alcohol for good. Please ask me updates on my situation I think it motivates me even more if someone asks 3 months or 1 year from now and I can say "Ye still sober" and give you my intake how it has affected my life.

    • @turdfurgason8476
      @turdfurgason8476 8 місяців тому

      You sound kike a super responsible drinker, and then chose sobriety. Most of us would ve kucky to end up where you started. Good for you.👍♥️

  • @MrGuitarshred777
    @MrGuitarshred777 Рік тому +8

    I have 4 years and 5 months clean&sober ✝️🙏 what happened when I tried to quit ? Serious DT’s and then seizures it was BRUTAL of course I had to be hospitalized, my liver was in acute failure and had pancreatitis so damn bad I thought I was going to die

  • @louisesumrell6331
    @louisesumrell6331 Рік тому +10

    Don't forget that the opposite of addiction is connection. When you quit you need to be around others who have successfully quit.-weezi-🙏💖🙏

    • @theliftexpert
      @theliftexpert Рік тому +2

      The opposite of addiction is sobriety.
      Addiction is an attempt to temporarily control the emotional pain and dysfunction you are experiencing .
      Sobriety will force you to learn how to deal properly with the emotional pain and dysfunction you are experiencing.

  • @tqn65
    @tqn65 Рік тому +5

    Wow...What a great communicator....I have cut my drinking down quite a bit over the last 4 years and now I am trying to stop drinking completely....This channel will help.

  • @didierdidier1932
    @didierdidier1932 Рік тому +11

    Day 40 here.

  • @hookywookywithmalarkyman704
    @hookywookywithmalarkyman704 Рік тому +3

    I quit aged 72 now i am hooked on ginger tea !!

  • @christophergregory6940
    @christophergregory6940 Рік тому +6

    6weeks sober,and still feel anxiety at times

  • @sandraweber4336
    @sandraweber4336 Рік тому +5

    I quit 3 weeks ago. So I could quit smoking. I knew I’d get a buzz and light up.

  • @mariefeeney6664
    @mariefeeney6664 Рік тому +12

    Day 20. Thankyou so much for your help Simon❤

  • @NO_OPEC_NO_PROBLEM
    @NO_OPEC_NO_PROBLEM Рік тому +7

    Crazy to think EVERYTHING you said here was true. My sleep is 10000000x better after 2 weeks of no more drinking.

  • @GStewie
    @GStewie 2 роки тому +26

    I stopped drinking Saturday 13th of August 😜

    • @wilf7042
      @wilf7042 Рік тому

      Still on the wagon?

  • @abvincent12
    @abvincent12 7 місяців тому

    I work out 4-5x a week and looking at me you had no idea I drank alcohol every night to sleep. Routine lab work showed I had off the charts cholesterol and tryglerices. My doc basically said "You have the numbers of a really bad diabetic". She did not know how much I was drinking. I realized then it was a turning point - quit and be able to recover from the years of damage and live or continue, destroy my liver, organs and mind and die young. Since that doctors call I have never touched a drop of alcohol. Feels amazing!

  • @rogerhugh177
    @rogerhugh177 2 роки тому +14

    Watch all you videos,your doing great work and helping people Sir

  • @2768231
    @2768231 Рік тому +1

    12 days sober here!!! With the help of a wonderful detox in Richmond Va

  • @maryannechalifoux6458
    @maryannechalifoux6458 20 днів тому

    I have 17 days in, not easy the last few days, but I’m determined to do this for my life and health, I’m tired of hangovers, not knowing what happened before I passed out, embarrassing myself, I was tired of being a disappointment to God, I couldn’t have done any days without him, I can do all things in Christ which strengthens me. Philippians 4:13😊

  • @verity4013
    @verity4013 Рік тому +1

    Thank you.. I need to find my way out of this habit. Triggered tonight after a conversation with my Dad aging and becoming more depressed. Sadly the first thing I did after attending to him was to get a bottle of wine. Already tired but drank a the bottle even though my intention was to have one or two. Your video gives me hope. My intention is to change and soon.

  • @lostboi3974
    @lostboi3974 2 роки тому +12

    Alan carr book how to control alcohol. Read the book and stopped that day 5 days ago.

    • @silatbrothers379
      @silatbrothers379 Рік тому

      how are you doing now? still sober, me 25 days now after reading

    • @lostboi3974
      @lostboi3974 Рік тому +1

      @@silatbrothers379 im doinh good!!!

  • @Anvanho
    @Anvanho 8 місяців тому +1

    Right after I stopped (22 years ago) I experienced drastic improvement to my sleeping. I would say within days I felt it. Scary dreams subsided and quietly faded away for good, as well.
    Other changes include healthy gut behaviour; return of relaxed, confident mind and mood. and physical stamina (I'm a runner).
    Great video.

  • @billgiles3261
    @billgiles3261 Рік тому +2

    I gave up alcohol a while ago as I thought that it was bad for me (after 50 years of excess!). When lockdown came I started again but much less, a couple of bottles of wine a week. After being diagnose with AFib I cut out alcohol completely. I was tempted to have a glass of wine and then two on holiday. I woke in the night with a racing heart so that stopped that sneaky drinking. I still enjoy a small glass of wine on my birthday and at Christmas so I am not TT. But I do now count myself as a ex-habitual drinker. I’ve lost about 30lb and my BP has also reduced over the years since my heavy drinking days. I also feel much better.

  • @incremental_failure
    @incremental_failure 9 місяців тому +2

    My reasons were all health related. I had not many social issues from alcohol. Liver is a big one but heart problems are extremely common and often the cause of death. I had heart arrhythmia at dangerous levels but since I stopped drinking, it has disappeared. Lastly, brain and focus issues are critical if you work with your mind.

  • @calvinbealer7264
    @calvinbealer7264 Рік тому

    When I was Drinking. I Let it get the Best of Me. I've been sober for 5 years. And I don't miss it at all. Once again Thank You Very Much SIR.

  • @Emccgers
    @Emccgers Рік тому +11

    No alcohol for 7 and a half months eating less than I did still no weight loss feeling depressed.

  • @ydel6368
    @ydel6368 Рік тому +7

    8 days now .Still have gut ache and sleeping too much .hope this goes away soon

  • @chriswood7165
    @chriswood7165 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm 12 days in stopped all drinking and Cigars. Its been very interesting watching the fight inside of me.

  • @kennethbrown2193
    @kennethbrown2193 Рік тому +2

    Stopped drinking 10 years ago sometimes feel tempted but will never start again.

  • @davidkeith9015
    @davidkeith9015 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for your great programme 7 days off the drink on the alcohol for over 46 years one of the problems that I experienced was severe constipation and sleep deprivation and my anxiety was very severe but I know that I have to go through cold turkey I have made a pledge to my son that I will never drink again.much appreciated

  • @mrshifter9582
    @mrshifter9582 Рік тому +1

    I signed up yesterday, I want to change my bad habit so much.

  • @annanelson6830
    @annanelson6830 Рік тому +7

    3 days. 4 nights. Nights are the hardest.

  • @eddiestorey9633
    @eddiestorey9633 10 місяців тому +1

    I’m an alcoholic, 25 years everyday due to PTSD. I was a 12-24 beers a day. I finally stopped once I let my work, that was 7 years ago now.

  • @MrPants1970
    @MrPants1970 9 місяців тому

    I quit a week ago, still,feeling a bit rubbish and scared I have left it too late, great video thank you 🙏 ❤ subscribed

  • @josephsnisky1851
    @josephsnisky1851 Рік тому +2

    Your whole body and senses wake back up. Life becomes great again. I'm glad I got sick of the smell of it right on time for the grandkids. Although disappointment and discussed sets in when you see how you and family have been treated and attacked. The way things have gotten are hard to put up with.

  • @damianlopez7630
    @damianlopez7630 Рік тому +4

    Thank You Simon. I went through 3 days of Withdrawals.

  • @susannaughton6063
    @susannaughton6063 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your honesty. I am on the same journey and taking one day at a time. Congratulations! ❤

  • @jeanettesquires4809
    @jeanettesquires4809 2 роки тому +20

    Great content! And uplifting.

  • @HighCountryRambler
    @HighCountryRambler Рік тому +3

    I had the false impression beer wasn't really alcohol, found out the hard way.
    Thanks for the video.

  • @dhlong1697
    @dhlong1697 Рік тому +6

    Day 3, should have been day 6 but didn't wait 72 hours the first try.

  • @RobertMiller-ok3pz
    @RobertMiller-ok3pz Рік тому +1

    6 years been great thank you lord for your blessings Amen 🙏

  • @franreid8203
    @franreid8203 Рік тому

    Stopped smoking and drinking same day, hard slog for awhile but feel great now. Life is good, being alive is a gift.

  • @habitosaldesnudo8611
    @habitosaldesnudo8611 6 місяців тому

    I'm a 48 yo married man with a 19 yo son and a 17 yo daughter. I've been sober for +6 years. So far, the best decisión I've made during my 40's.

  • @rupe53
    @rupe53 Рік тому +2

    for some people "quit drinking" means different things. My father in-law quit 30 years ago and never had another drop. I have "quit" a few times and to me it's a 90% reduction. I never drank a lot and haven't had a hangover in 30 years, but I do find consumption creeps up around the holidays and causes weight gain, plus sleeping issues, even at only 4 beers within an evening. It just adds up. These days we hardly drink at home so a case of beer in the fridge can last 6 weeks. OTOH, we do indulge when eating out, say once a week.

  • @Paul-dv4dr
    @Paul-dv4dr Рік тому +12

    A foreign guy at work told me "You like like smoking is slowly killing you!" and that pissed me off. I first decided to tell him that in our culture you don't make that sort of personal comment to people. Then I decided to think about this comment and stopped drinking and smoking 2 weeks ago. He tells me I look better and stronger - because I stopped smoking. I think it's because I gave up the booze. I'm not going to drink or smoke again. Feeling much much healthier already.

    • @Maynardd
      @Maynardd Рік тому

      Wow! Quit drinking and smoking all at once!? If you can do that you can do anything.

    • @Paul-dv4dr
      @Paul-dv4dr Рік тому +1

      @@Maynardd I didn't mention my age - I'm 58, the body cannot cope like it did when I was younger. But importantly I have a serious hobby/interest now that is more important to me than I could have imagined, and I cannot develop this if hungover or tired. We need to find better things to do, and then yes we can be unstoppable! (and Ok yes I have fallen off the wagon but kicked myself for it and moved on).

    • @Maynardd
      @Maynardd Рік тому

      @@Paul-dv4dr agreed, it is important to occupy your time with something of great interest to yourself.