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  • @kallikat719
    @kallikat719 2 місяці тому +2335

    but what if I wished you did watch the entire thing and recount it because I’d rather hear the Swell recap than actually watch the show?

    • @syd5380
      @syd5380 2 місяці тому +39

      I second this

    • @gaerekxenos
      @gaerekxenos 2 місяці тому +27

      Then it would start getting into questionable territory as that starts becoming a potential copyright violation as a 'replacement' for the show. Yes, it could still fall under "fair use," but it's in dodgy territory. And given Amanda's stance with media...? I don't think she really appreciates doing that type of thing where she's infringing on other people's works by too much when people can instead choose to support the works
      Give enough information for talking points for critique, but not enough to mostly or completely replace the content - that's more or less how reviews are supposed to work in order to not violate copyright anyway, iirc

    • @Cheesyenchilady
      @Cheesyenchilady 2 місяці тому +1

      @@ville__still?

    • @benletmepetthatdog4243
      @benletmepetthatdog4243 2 місяці тому +6

      and also not pay for another streaming service oops

    • @carmen2190
      @carmen2190 2 місяці тому +7

      And! Here on México, we dont hace peacok 😅

  • @Unfortunately_Mickey
    @Unfortunately_Mickey 2 місяці тому +2455

    Being a girl who likes girls on tinder feels like being cast for this show

    • @lynhehe
      @lynhehe 2 місяці тому

      @@ville__ hahahahaha you cowardly little shrimp, i know you read what i said.

    • @CalliAMusic
      @CalliAMusic 2 місяці тому +7

      Lmaooo so true

    • @Roblox-jb2vf
      @Roblox-jb2vf 2 місяці тому

      @@ville__chill chaos bringer of humiliation and mockery your annoying youtube comments are not gonna make ppl subscribe Colleen isn't even topical anymore

    • @nobodycaresaja
      @nobodycaresaja 2 місяці тому +2

      @@ville__proof???

    • @nala3055
      @nala3055 2 місяці тому +39

      @@nobodycaresaja it's a bot, it's freaking everywhere

  • @infamousNfamous
    @infamousNfamous 2 місяці тому +756

    As a lesbian i very much appreciate when bi women call out that "use the woman's pics on the profile then only mention the boyfriend in convo" tactic. Thanks for that.

    • @alyssabrown-carleton6173
      @alyssabrown-carleton6173 2 місяці тому +41

      I feel bad for my gay friend because even on the gay dating apps, she still got those people

  • @StellaStars631
    @StellaStars631 2 місяці тому +1730

    “ btw can my boyfriend come?” As a fellow bisexual woman who used to use dating apps that phrase gave me flashbacks 😂

    • @lithium2000
      @lithium2000 2 місяці тому +12

      ​@ville__ you're not a good troll. stop trying

    • @lithium2000
      @lithium2000 2 місяці тому +4

      @@ville__ im shaking in my boots :)

    • @momain5483
      @momain5483 2 місяці тому +38

      Reminder to not feed the troll, just report them ;)

    • @lithium2000
      @lithium2000 2 місяці тому +1

      @momain5483 Yee. Just having some fun myself kdjdjd

    • @ToplessTopics
      @ToplessTopics 2 місяці тому +7

      yeah, I gave up on dating apps pretty much entirely because of this (:

  • @lefton4ya
    @lefton4ya 2 місяці тому +2530

    They should have called it “Unicorn Hunting” as unicorn is a name given to single people willing to join couples as a thruple, as they are rare.

    • @Ozzymandius1
      @Ozzymandius1 2 місяці тому +144

      I had a friend who found a unicorn for her and her WIFE. They are divorced now. I'm also not her friend anymore because she was so messy that she was pulling by extension.

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 2 місяці тому +59

      ​@Ozzymandius1 why was wife capitalized?

    • @kneau
      @kneau 2 місяці тому +41

      It's my experience that "unicorn" can be used separate from any thruple scenario, arrangement or proposition. At least I -- well, maybe I need to reflect on this further.

    • @rebelks88
      @rebelks88 2 місяці тому +43

      @@msjkrameyemphasis on it being all women maybe?

    • @Purplesquigglystripe
      @Purplesquigglystripe 2 місяці тому +92

      Specifically, the couple has such unreasonable requirements and expectations for the unicorn, that this hypothetical third person does not exist.

  • @tthewizard7667
    @tthewizard7667 2 місяці тому +538

    This show must have BAD marketing because this is the first i’m hearing about it. They need to pay you for this video fr.

    • @rennijo
      @rennijo 2 місяці тому +13

      It might just be that not enough crazy sh*t happenned. I usually only hear about these kinds of shows if there's huge fights or stuff that comes out about the cast post-show.

    • @RelatableGirl
      @RelatableGirl 2 місяці тому +6

      @@rennijo idk, I'm about five episodes in and a LOT of ridiculous drama and mess has happened lol

    • @rennijo
      @rennijo 2 місяці тому +1

      @@RelatableGirl Like Love is Blind levels, though? It's gotta be a lot to drag me back to Peacock. There's nothing on that service I wanna see.

  • @mayowhishes
    @mayowhishes 2 місяці тому +1879

    The idea of someone being a "Third" instead of "One of the Three" is driving me CRAZY grah i guess we all have different interests but i long to see polycules being equals

    • @jennifer__e
      @jennifer__e 2 місяці тому +383

      100% cuz the way they treat that third like an Other or more often like a sex toy is so off putting 😭 and then the unicorn hunters wonder why unicorns are hard to find

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 2 місяці тому +167

      I think there's a place for it in some power exchange relationships, but even then, no one wants to feel like an accessory ALL THE TIME

    • @twitchy_bird
      @twitchy_bird 2 місяці тому +77

      Agree with first reply massively, I could be a unicorn but I hide, because of this weird dynamic lol.

    • @htm5814
      @htm5814 2 місяці тому +91

      I notice it’s older couples often going after younger women as well.

    • @elizabuga4337
      @elizabuga4337 2 місяці тому +84

      I’m in a V relationship with myself as the hinge and it’s hard work to make everyone feel seen and loved! I’d feel awful if either of my partners ever felt so… secondary.

  • @whatever9097
    @whatever9097 2 місяці тому +878

    This video has ‘bestie rambling about this new tv show they just watched’ vibes in the best way possible

    • @Chelseabee55
      @Chelseabee55 2 місяці тому +16

      The same vibe as me giving my boyfriend a full breakdown of who the f did I marry while driving to the grocery store, doing the shopping, driving home, and putting everything away

    • @sugasweet435
      @sugasweet435 2 місяці тому +2

      Yes, I freaking love it

    • @AmaraJordanMusic
      @AmaraJordanMusic 2 місяці тому +3

      It reminded me of how I’d tell my mom about my newest tv show or book series, and she’d at least act like she was just eating it up. 😂 We didn’t gossip about people in our lives ever, so it filled a void.
      We had great times. 🤣

    • @ellemarr7234
      @ellemarr7234 2 місяці тому +2

      @@AmaraJordanMusic That sounds lovely ☺️ my mom is the same. I’m an only child with ADHD and enough curiosity for ten kids. Bless her 😂

    • @90111hhhhhhhqib
      @90111hhhhhhhqib 2 місяці тому

      Yes! She should do more of these!

  • @neverstoppedme
    @neverstoppedme 2 місяці тому +367

    As a poly person, this show is FASCINATING to me. Closed triads are probably one of the hardest poly dynamics to make work, and for some reason they're the most common for beginners, so I hope this show teaches healthy communication and maybe convinces some people who watch it not to go unicorn hunting.

    • @elizabethnoneofyourbuisnes2806
      @elizabethnoneofyourbuisnes2806 2 місяці тому +40

      Yeah, I was in a closed triad and it had good and bad experiences. It was new to two of us, and the other person did their best to minimize any issues. The biggest issue with a close triad for me was when a break-up happens. I was broken up with because one of the already established couple didn't want to do it anymore, so the other one broke up with me for both of them. It make it clear that they were a team and I was just a side thing that didn't matter as much. I do still have some positive views on polyamory and I would not be against dating more than one person in the future if I was on my own or my partner wanted to try too, just not as a closed triad clearly. It definitely needs to be in a 'we all have separate connections with each other' type of way. I read about unicorn hunting after the break-up in a way to heal and I realized that was a big part in how it was not healthy with the established couple I dated.

    • @squishmcmuffin
      @squishmcmuffin 2 місяці тому +16

      yeah it seems like since there is a sex therapist on the show and they're doing the test of "can you stomach your partner being intimate with someone else that DOESN'T involve you" and thats something that I had to learn the hard way about and then do more work essentially because I love being in a polyam relationship. in the end I learned the most common thing is dryads and/or hinge aka V. So I am very hopeful that this show is more educational than sensational because the title alone was a redflag for me XD wish that throuple wasn't the focus.

    • @neverstoppedme
      @neverstoppedme 2 місяці тому +19

      For anyone reading this who wants to try poly dating, and I mean relationships, not just being open for casual encounters, I highly highly encourage what is called "kitchen table poly". It involves forming relationships (platonic friendships, romantic relationships, or even just casual acquaintanceships) with the other people your partners date. When everyone knows everyone, communication and trust come more naturally, and it lessens that "without me" feeling. The overwhelming majority of happy poly people I've ever known, including myself, approach relationships this way.

    • @marlyd
      @marlyd 2 місяці тому +6

      ​​@@neverstoppedmelol I'd advise starting with parallel dating and not adding meeting everyone until you're over the first hurdles of knowing your partner is dating others but to each their own.

    • @neverstoppedme
      @neverstoppedme 2 місяці тому +6

      @marlyd Understandable, but I've found that for people newer to poly, jealousy/insecurity and communication are the biggest hurdles, and being able to know your metamour can help with those. But hey, ethical non-monogamy is a big world and different things suit different people.

  • @Ray_Vun
    @Ray_Vun 2 місяці тому +252

    the gay couple sounds like the stereotype of the gay couple that opens a relationship. one wanted to open it, the other didn't but went along because they worried if they didn't it's either result in cheating or a break up, but they very much hate the whole thing and don't like seeing their partner with someone else. and while they might be fine with things like threesomes, anything else touches a nerve. because what i've seen with basically every gay throuple is the original couple ends up splitting up and one of them stays with the 3rd. that's like the biggest "joke" in the gay community about throuples. so it doesn't surprise me at all the gay couple being like that, with one being so put off by the whole thing he's literally pouting and sulking

    • @RelatableGirl
      @RelatableGirl 2 місяці тому +9

      That's exactly what happens!!

    • @marlyd
      @marlyd 2 місяці тому +18

      That's pretty common in hetero couples too from what I've seen.

    • @UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana
      @UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana Місяць тому

      There's that and the stereotype of a relationship where they are basically just best friends who sleep together, so their instinct to want to get their bro laid is stronger than their jealously.

  • @wendyheatherwood
    @wendyheatherwood 2 місяці тому +192

    Is it bad that I want there to be a second season of this show where none of the couples get a third, but all of the potential thirds just end up forming their own thruples off camera? Just throw the whole concept into chaos.

    • @stancharlinow9873
      @stancharlinow9873 2 місяці тому +21

      I want either that, a third getting together with one member of a couple and breaking up with the other member, or two couples ditching their third and getting into a quad. Like let's get messy!

  • @johnhutchinson7343
    @johnhutchinson7343 2 місяці тому +558

    I've been seeing ads for "Couple to Throuple", and I said to myself "I don't want to watch it. I just want someone to tell me about it." And today you posted this video! Awesome.

    • @blurrble5
      @blurrble5 2 місяці тому +1

      Same lol

    • @XaurianQueen
      @XaurianQueen 2 місяці тому +21

      We just need to pray KennieJD watches it lol she's my go to for weird shows but she mostly sticks to what Netflix has I think

    • @shannonceleste5557
      @shannonceleste5557 2 місяці тому

      @XaurianQueen a weird thing to comment on a video actively already covering the thing 😑

    • @ThatCrazyBookWyrm
      @ThatCrazyBookWyrm 2 місяці тому +19

      ​​@@shannonceleste5557I mean my perfect week is when Amanda (Swell), Kennie, and Amanda (the Jedi) all cover the same thing, the more the merrier!
      Bonus if SadBoyz talk about it at the end of the week 😊

    • @cavernsofdarkness
      @cavernsofdarkness 2 місяці тому +12

      @@shannonceleste5557 It's because Amanda said she wasn't going to cover the rest of it and this was likely going to be the only video she would make on it. So, for those of us that want to see coverage of the rest, we would have to find it somewhere else.

  • @jellyfish5611
    @jellyfish5611 2 місяці тому +576

    i truly forgot that peacock is a streaming service so seeing this in my notifs made me think there was a show focusing on peacocks the animals becoming mates

    • @dbagette
      @dbagette 2 місяці тому +12

      Oh, these birds really flock together. Why not?

    • @SummerAlleriaWindrunner
      @SummerAlleriaWindrunner 2 місяці тому +10

      Did the video title used to have 'Peacock' in it?

    • @danielx555
      @danielx555 2 місяці тому

      It's like how swans are monogamous but I'm sure there probably are swan couples that are open to becoming a throuple

  • @ChiefBlueScreen
    @ChiefBlueScreen 2 місяці тому +109

    That gong is *HUGE*! He's also hitting the gong with a felt-covered mallet. I think I can explain why everyone says it's loud, but it sounds quiet on the recording.
    The size of a cymbal influences the frequencies that can come out of it. As you get larger, the higher frequencies start to go away, and the lower frequencies come out more. This is compounded by the fact that his mallet is covered in felt, which further dampens the brighter tones. Additionally, the larger a cymbal is, the longer it's able to ring. When an atonal sound rings for longer, it sounds louder than something instantaneous. Those factors combined, that gong is essentially a giant rave subwoofer. If you give that thing a good hit, it will ring for ages with a booming tone. I've only played gongs half that size and it's still otherworldly to stand next to a ringing gong and hear all the tones that come out of it.
    I can only assume that the producers of the show wanted the biggest gong they could find without considering the challenges of mic'ing the instrument, or how loud it would actually be. Idk I've never seen the show, but I either assume that they just took the audio they captured and tried their best to make it audible, or they added a stock gong sound effect because they realized people couldn't hear it on their phones.

  • @Ghostteethz
    @Ghostteethz 2 місяці тому +24

    I wish there was a show like this but everyone is single and they try to form a polycule instead of unicorn hunting couples trying to find a third 😬

  • @insomniacg
    @insomniacg 2 місяці тому +64

    Anyone who isn't familiar with poly and doesn't understand the dynamics of the relationships they're pursuing should probably google the phrase "So, somebody called you a Unicorn Hunter?"
    As a poly person I wanted to watch this because I do love seeing unicorn hunters suffer but unfortunately my experience makes it way too easy to see all the red flags that the "third" (god that language is dehumanising) is going to be treated like a disposable accessory

  • @Resonance1919
    @Resonance1919 2 місяці тому +408

    I was someone who believed with 100% total conviction that I was happy in my relationship with my partner and we both agreed we wanted to open it up.
    Which is how I learned I wasn't actually happy in my relationship I just really didn't know what I needed lmao

    • @TheTemptress13
      @TheTemptress13 2 місяці тому +7

      ​@@ville__ proof of whatever you are trying to insinuate or stop trolling it's obnoxious af

    • @ames-inthe-grass
      @ames-inthe-grass 2 місяці тому +33

      @@TheTemptress13i think it’s a bot

    • @meifennellysieu7510
      @meifennellysieu7510 2 місяці тому +38

      @@TheTemptress13 All this individual's presence indicates is that a channel has enough popularity to rage-bait on. Don't engage.

    • @UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana
      @UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana Місяць тому +1

      So... it was good, because you learned you needed to be out of a relationship you did not want?

  • @Dantalliumsolarium
    @Dantalliumsolarium 2 місяці тому +278

    Okay first impressions but wilder helping Corie talk to pretty woman is the Cutest Thing

    • @SamFokker
      @SamFokker 2 місяці тому +26

      Loved watching her confidence grow as the show went on :,)

  • @RybatGrimes
    @RybatGrimes 2 місяці тому +46

    The way they constantly “other” the “third” just seems so weird to me. Like I get it’s a dating show and they CAN swap, but the separate picture, and the language they use like calling them the “third” is just odd. It’s not a couple against the single, it should be all 3 of them together as equals.

    • @marlyd
      @marlyd 2 місяці тому +1

      Even within the poly community this seems a huge pitfall so no surprise a dating show falls into that dynamic too. Also not a fan at all.

  • @cokes42
    @cokes42 2 місяці тому +403

    The lighting is pretty dope actually. A relaxing type vibe

  • @kcsb91
    @kcsb91 2 місяці тому +249

    Hadn't heard of this show but now I am interested to see if they portray things in a healthy way or in a unicorn hunter kind of way. Its really rare to see healthy poly stuff portrayed in any media that isn't directly created by someone in the community. But it sounds like they did the best you could expect from a reality TV show.

    • @kcsb91
      @kcsb91 2 місяці тому +12

      @@ville__ Cool story bro why are you yelling that at me?

  • @TulipsToKiss
    @TulipsToKiss 2 місяці тому +73

    begging for a part 2 bc I don't have the mental bandwidth to watch this whole thing but desperately want to hear about what goes on 👀

  • @SamFokker
    @SamFokker 2 місяці тому +198

    Other interviews have said that a lot of them didn't actually know what they were signing up for aside from being "open minded." Johnathan mentioned it in a Spotify podcast I believe

  • @Tink00
    @Tink00 2 місяці тому +96

    My monogamous friends made me (a poly person in a throuple) watch this show with them, and I went on rants like every 3 minutes about how objectifying and cruel this show is lol

    • @invaderliz
      @invaderliz 2 місяці тому +4

      Doing the lord’s work.

  • @princessbablaschmabladingd7451
    @princessbablaschmabladingd7451 2 місяці тому +27

    I actually watched this entire show and found the whole thing riveting. Some of the couples/throuple get SUPER dysfunctional - it was fascinating. Denyse, Wilder, and Cory had the best relationship in my opinion - to the point that they were comfortable enough to leave the show and (according to the finale) are still dating in real life. It was really cool to watch their dynamic grow!

  • @rhiannajd4412
    @rhiannajd4412 2 місяці тому +22

    This whole show gives me, “Hey, we saw you from across the bar and like your vibe.”

  • @miadaly7265
    @miadaly7265 2 місяці тому +47

    the interest in being in throuples recently is so interesting to me. I was in a throuple for a bit and it's a lot of work and, like a lot of people's throuples, it imploded. but I've also known people where it makes so much sense they're all together!! just really interesting.

    • @twobabka
      @twobabka 2 місяці тому +13

      my take is they need to develop naturally an these couples, who were originally pairs and one of them wanted a third, will not usually end up happy. but if everyone going IN wants that then it can work

    • @Docypher
      @Docypher 2 місяці тому +10

      There’s such an imbalance in threes I feel. Unless it develops as all three together, one person is sure to feel left out.

  • @Godzillagirl12
    @Godzillagirl12 2 місяці тому +63

    24:50 I love how you just reference this niche gay meme without showing it and the perpetually online (me 🙋🏿‍♀️) immediately know what picture youre talking about 😭😭

    • @moeezS
      @moeezS 2 місяці тому +3

      I've seen that as the big dom mommy meme, didn't even know the original source!

  • @msjkramey
    @msjkramey 2 місяці тому +117

    When I was 18 or 19, I went on a date with a couple, with my FWB as backup in case it turned weird. I had just gotten out of a 4.5 year relationship so I went a little wild lol. But it didn't go anywhere. The vibes were just off. I didn't know the term "unicorn hunting" at the time, but I definitely felt that exact same sentiment

  • @yoogrldude
    @yoogrldude 2 місяці тому +61

    I would love to see more about this show from you tbh, I really have been craving bi rep on dating shows and I loooove seeing a fellow bi girl break down a show with bi contestants

  • @botboifm
    @botboifm 2 місяці тому +81

    I watched the show as the episodes were uploaded and ohhh man, it kept me at the edge of my seat. Definitely worth watching to the end, they even give a "one year later" update for all the couples and the singles that ended up with them beyond the show!

  • @i0315
    @i0315 2 місяці тому +115

    Honestly loved the vibes of the lighting.

  • @srose1088
    @srose1088 2 місяці тому +8

    Something about the throuple who snuggled the first night warmed my heart lol ♡

  • @dictionarygoat9156
    @dictionarygoat9156 2 місяці тому +6

    I watched this whole show and it just becomes the Rehman, Ashmal and Johnathon drama show by the end, they get SO much screentime and they're all so clearly bad for each other

  • @voodooer92
    @voodooer92 2 місяці тому +11

    I appreciate that you watched this without judging the idea of throuples. I like that the show is focused on the communication and emotional aspect because that is so important if you ever want to add a third in an ethical and equal way.

    • @nenmaster5218
      @nenmaster5218 2 місяці тому

      Ethic is a f-ing lie though. Dont even try to reply to this, im just speakig the turth you choose to overlook
      It should be judged, you just dont realize why its the least mature possible,
      to the point where its called 'Perverse and Pathetic' by even far-left Progressives like me, who pride themselves into Inclusivenss and Openness and have marched with every Ralley. Sorry you got decived so hard; and i hope not only that you lose yourr trust in this ""failure-version of Monogamy"" that sells itself by pretending councaiton is making it great, even thjough that doesnt work with incet, hm, what a mystery

  • @fizzplease6742
    @fizzplease6742 2 місяці тому +58

    ngl the lighting on this video makes you look great I think. Or maybe it's the sweater! Either way, it ended up nice. Now onto learning about this show...

  • @SocarellaDeToussaint
    @SocarellaDeToussaint 2 місяці тому +108

    Could you review the Love Island of Doctor Moreau? One of my fav moments is a woman revealing she is actually part spider and using her venom to liquefy the internal organs of her love interest while Fab Fit Fun sponsors the scene.

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 2 місяці тому +14

      What in the world? Where can I find that?

    • @greenspark101
      @greenspark101 2 місяці тому +25

      Wth 😂 we’re def going to need some more recommendations from your playlist that’s great

    • @ciaociara
      @ciaociara 2 місяці тому +2

      oh thank you for the recommendation

    • @CerealXperimentsLain
      @CerealXperimentsLain 2 місяці тому +1

      Googled it and didn't find it. More info pls?

    • @CerealXperimentsLain
      @CerealXperimentsLain 2 місяці тому +4

      @@ville__ don’t you ever get tired of this ? Ive seen you in multiple comment sections spewing nonsense. Get a liiiifeeee

  • @carolinaazevedo2088
    @carolinaazevedo2088 2 місяці тому +77

    Being in an open relationship that is my most successful and long lasting relationship I've ever had ( the others were monogamous and closed) I am so interested in this show now. i wish I heard of it before.

    • @mynotificationsareoff.400
      @mynotificationsareoff.400 2 місяці тому +17

      Same. Our relationship was closed the first few years and i was always riddled with jealousy. Then we had a bunch of very long talks and turns out my biggest issue was secrets being kept from me like i was a parental figure, not a partner. Now we just do whatever and as long as I’m informed, I’m happy.

  • @spiderside3892
    @spiderside3892 2 місяці тому +86

    saw the title and thought this was a show about peacocks dating. very disappointed

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 2 місяці тому +7

      Ha, that didn't even occur to me, but I'd watch a little nature documentary of that

  • @amandaredd3057
    @amandaredd3057 2 місяці тому +6

    I was just reminded of the Golden Girls eepisode where Rose's old bf visits and she asks the girls "Is it possible to love two men at the same time?" Then Blanche responds "Set the scene. Have we been drinking?" 😂❤

  • @starboardia
    @starboardia 2 місяці тому +33

    I do not watch any dating shows but if I was ever going to, this is the one I would watch I think

  • @boomoperator90
    @boomoperator90 2 місяці тому +40

    I think something unlocked in Swell when she watched this 😂

  • @shanlie3505
    @shanlie3505 2 місяці тому +18

    As someone more on the a-sexual side, this show also fascinates me. The mental gymnastics of juggling more than 1 partner seems even more chaotic and anxiety filed than navigating 1 lol.
    Like the idea of possibly ruining the relationship or starting conflict because me and partner A have consented to kissing but I didn't get consent from partner B to not include them, so that makes them feel left out is so extra.
    I kinda get how ppl who just don't want commitment can float around with multiple partner's separate. But trying to manage 2 or more people equally as ONE unit would feel like I'm babying or mothering one of them and always asking "are you ok with this?" "How r u feeling about me & x?"

  • @patriciaw636
    @patriciaw636 2 місяці тому +13

    Gotta be honest Raymond is relatable, when I'm distressed and triggered like that from insecurity or other things, I shut DOWN. I tell myself to speak but theres just so much spiraling in my brain that none of it can escape

  • @IdkFoxii
    @IdkFoxii 2 місяці тому +7

    I’m Rae’s hair stylist from the ultimatum szn 1 so proud of hers. I was doing her hair a year or two before she got casted.

  • @rae_naissance
    @rae_naissance 2 місяці тому +5

    My partner and I low-key started this show expecting to hate-watch it but something about it was actually really intriguing? I liked the sexologist - the workshops were actually not bad relationship therapy that I think all relationships could benefit from. The drama was great. I’ve been looking for meta-content about this show so I was so happy to watch this and get more opinions about it! No one is talking about it and I don’t understand why!

  • @lizamar356
    @lizamar356 2 місяці тому +23

    As netfilx reality show girl, I fully think this is the same resort they filmed prefect match. Like I might be wrong but they look strikingly similar.

  • @dandy10195
    @dandy10195 2 місяці тому +7

    this show seems really cruel to the "thirds", those people are just an accessory for the couple,

  • @neivilde.1242
    @neivilde.1242 2 місяці тому +44

    finally someone talking about this! i loved that show. i loved this show. my faves had to be corey wilder and denyse, they just had the best communication. i can't really talk about stuff i liked though cuz it's all spoilers lmao, but yeah, super fun.
    i thought tho that it was a bit limiting, because most couples were a straight guy and a bi girl, so all the singles they could choose were girls, so the guy singles there just didn't have much opportunities. like i kept feeling bad for the singles because apart from the few that get picked by the couples, most of them never have screen time or even talk, it's like after the first stay or swap, they barely have a chance. i liked all the couples though, they were all great, but if the show gets more seasons, hopefully they will go more diverse with the couples, like who they are attracted to.

    • @jennifer__e
      @jennifer__e 2 місяці тому +23

      i wish there was even one wlw couple (or bisexual couple) cuz yh there was an imbalance (to be expected) to the point of the male singles being virtually nonexistent

    • @neivilde.1242
      @neivilde.1242 2 місяці тому +13

      @@jennifer__e exactly, like later we get a nb couple who are into both, but they aren't there long enough to explore that much and go with ppl we've been seeing already

  • @spokeinlilac
    @spokeinlilac 2 місяці тому +14

    Aw, I would love for you to update us if possible. If not I totally get it! But I can't afford multiple streaming services anyway so they wouldn't lose a watcher haha

  • @aderz8284
    @aderz8284 2 місяці тому +9

    I dont want to watch the show but I would love for Amanda to do a part 2 and review the rest of it

  • @MrBaskins2010
    @MrBaskins2010 2 місяці тому +8

    this natural light makes the videos look much better

  • @belovedwinter
    @belovedwinter 2 місяці тому +12

    This is my favourite reality show experience - watching someone else be excited about it and tell us all about it, lol
    Hella hope you do another episode on this!!

  • @alineo4615
    @alineo4615 2 місяці тому +12

    My brother is in this show but you didn’t get to his episode so wild to see you talking about it

  • @thelightson
    @thelightson 2 місяці тому +22

    This show hasn’t been recommended, per se, but anytime I finish an ep of like summer house or something, peacock is determined to autoplay ep 1 of this show

  • @jvever4904
    @jvever4904 2 місяці тому +13

    This show looks interesting, but only because Swell talks about it in such a fun way.

  • @Matty002
    @Matty002 2 місяці тому +6

    im a poly person and got 15 min into the first episode and couldnt watch more. i also went through every line of the intro's and none of the couples are even close to being able to handle another person in the relationship. i only heard about the show from other poly people and nobody seems to care for it, unsurprisingly

  • @kaylakoala5054
    @kaylakoala5054 2 місяці тому +13

    I watched this a few weeks back and ive been so desperate to hear someone talk about this and discuss this with people. I'm so over Love is Blind. This is the kind of concept and kind of mess that I enjoy. I want this to get a second season and hopefully improve because there were some discussions about "transparency" that i felt was lacking. Granted it could be how production edited the show but i felt there was never clear conversations with any of the thirds about desires to speak to other people. There was so little check in with thirds in that regard. I would like the show to feature more of that open honest communications that polyamory should be about. Thats why Cory Wilder and Denyse's segments were so good because they're so communicative.

  • @OneImmortalStudios
    @OneImmortalStudios 2 місяці тому +26

    I am never going to watch this kind of show, but watching you talk about it is so entertaining

  • @dusky6484
    @dusky6484 2 місяці тому +4

    poly is an interesting relationship dynamic and it can work really well, it's just important that people get into these relationships for the right reasons (same w/ monogamy).
    this would be a fascinating show to watch

  • @elitettelbach4247
    @elitettelbach4247 2 місяці тому +3

    I heard about this show a few weeks ago and was intrigued by the concept, but then completely forgot about it already whoops. I'm glad you're enjoying it though! I might wait until the whole season is out and then go back and binge.

  • @minikawildflower
    @minikawildflower 2 місяці тому +6

    I love the lighting this feels like a TV expose

  • @WolfoftheDM
    @WolfoftheDM 2 місяці тому +11

    THANK YOU SO MUCH I was dying for you to cover shows like this again!

  • @SaoirseWaddingHayes
    @SaoirseWaddingHayes 2 місяці тому +4

    You've successfully influenced me. I'm gonna watch it.

  • @BasilGab
    @BasilGab 2 місяці тому +1

    I watched this show a few weeks ago. I really love the premise, I'd love to see you do the rest of the series as well. The rest of the season goes crazy

  • @LunaWitcherArt
    @LunaWitcherArt 2 місяці тому +1

    Girl I missed your reality show reviews, these videos are so fun!

  • @TheEighthAct
    @TheEighthAct 2 місяці тому +3

    This was so interesting. I’d love a part 2.

  • @megan1026
    @megan1026 2 місяці тому +29

    i enjoyed this show as something difft but i do think the power dynamic was unfair to the singles, coming in to an established couple. i'm not poly but from what i know there are so many different ways to go about it aside from a throuple, and many of the contestants seemed to want threesomes or just date one person in the couple

  • @jennav2759
    @jennav2759 2 місяці тому +2

    how did you know what I’ve been binge watching the past few days? Amazing timing 😂

  • @user-ep9zv4se3s
    @user-ep9zv4se3s 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for helping me get me work done

  • @muttshouse
    @muttshouse 2 місяці тому +2

    I totally would love to watch this show, but I'm not paying for another streaming service. Thanks for all the recap and tea.

  • @elenakalliste
    @elenakalliste 2 місяці тому +1

    I literally watched this show because I saw your video title and I was intrigued…please review the rest of it 🙏

  • @mammajamma4397
    @mammajamma4397 2 місяці тому +4

    Polyamory is so interesting to me, mostly because I can't stand humans enough to pick even one to be around and the idea of having to deal with multiples to be in a relationship with gives me hives.

  • @thecoolchicks01
    @thecoolchicks01 2 місяці тому

    omfg this is amazing I became hooked on couple ti throuple and now one of my fave youtubers made a video on it ❤️‍🔥

  • @QueestaLoo
    @QueestaLoo 2 місяці тому

    I'd love to see you review the rest of the show!

  • @marigoldkraken5218
    @marigoldkraken5218 2 місяці тому +2

    ooooh please do the rest as well!

  • @k-rynngurl
    @k-rynngurl 2 місяці тому +3

    I would watch more videos on this show!

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 2 місяці тому

      Im sick of misguided progressives pretending polyamory is valid and respectable and not so f-ing problematic its rare af. Like many in even this commentsection do

  • @c.jhamblin5759
    @c.jhamblin5759 2 місяці тому

    PLEASE do the rest of the series im dying for a followup

  • @ToplessTopics
    @ToplessTopics 2 місяці тому +3

    honestly, healthiest demonstration of a swinger couple I've ever seen in media...the mcmurrays, in Letterkenny. As for in real life...in concept I support polyamory, and my husband and I like to say we're poly ourselves, but yeah pretty much every group I've seen try out polyamory usually ended up in cruel chaos. But most couples I know PERIOD end in cruel chaos, so.... (: The worst of it is when they pretend like it's gonna be a thrupple, but then it just ends up being the guy who will sleep with the new person (at least with straight couples, that I've seen) while the woman will never physically want to be with the new person after the initial time, if at all...and yes I speak from experience XD I'm glad you called out the unicorn bait-and-switch at the beginning...that's the main reason I've given up on ever using a dating site, the only women on there who claim to be okay around children (as I already have some and really don't have the free time to hang out child-free) always inevitably end up being part of a straight couple, EVERY SINGLE TIME, and I'm not interested in dating men (:

  • @blittleing
    @blittleing 2 місяці тому

    Great takes❤

  • @sushimew
    @sushimew 2 місяці тому +2

    PLEASEEEEE do more videos on this series.
    its so interesting but i think i'd get so mad watching LOL

  • @sansequanimity5998
    @sansequanimity5998 2 місяці тому +1

    I normally don't watch stuff like this, but you've got me intrigued 😅 I think I might actually watch it.

  • @questswithkyla
    @questswithkyla 2 місяці тому

    We love the transparency!

  • @mbuffalo111
    @mbuffalo111 2 місяці тому +2

    I really like this concept because ive always loved being a third in things. While it didnt end up working out because of communication issues i definitely enjoyed my years in a closed thruple lol not so much in my few months with an open thruple where one person just assumed if i was joning it was just going to be open season. Boundaries are important and communication especially so with three people relationships!

  • @elizabethnoneofyourbuisnes2806
    @elizabethnoneofyourbuisnes2806 2 місяці тому +4

    I think having them interact in a way where two people are getting close and they other person sees makes sense in a way. If you do poly (especially in a closed triad) where you know the other partner or are around them you might see them kiss/be close with the other person. Some people realize it makes them feel jealous and they have to figure out if that is something they can work through our not. It's okay to be poly or mono as long as whatever you are doing makes you happy and everyone is consenting.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 2 місяці тому

      "It's okay to be poly or mono as long as whatever you are doing makes you happy and everyone is consenting"
      Yes, thats a lie. A really blatant, obvious lie. They have to make it sound grounded and have you avoid thinking if any of this makes sense. But beause polyamory/monogamy are not 'matters of tastee', this all falls apart,
      even before anyone mentions: HEY, SINCE WHEN IS CONSENT MAGICCC? I thought that doesnt work like that
      and INCEST sets a PRECEDENCE where Consent in fact DOESNT HELP.
      So isnt the claim "Everyone can do whatever the s-it they want as long
      as everyone is cosenting" absolutely arsenine and fundamntally isunderstands to a sickening degree what consent even issss?
      Why is Incest bad and polyamory good anyway,
      even if we ignore how f-ing similar the things are AND how painfully similar the idmwits like elizbaethnoneofoyurbuisness
      and her non-arguments and errors are??
      Hope you liked this 'getting sense talked into you' - bought to you by
      Progressive like me; by a guy who prides hiself in his inclusivness and prorgessivisness an all that, is baaaaad?

    • @nenmaster5218
      @nenmaster5218 2 місяці тому

      Are you drunk on inclusivnessness juice? Your comment is absolutely ridiculous. It takes reality not into account at all and you seem utterly influenced by the internet. Is all you know about how consent works, an understanding easily debunnked by loturzel, all you got? My god, welcome to the internet by bo burnham is a song literally about you, isnt it? Kids who learne how to be inclusivenss and uturistic for the internet. Babble nonsense so easy to refute. AA Leftist makig leftists gag

  • @pigeontime751
    @pigeontime751 2 місяці тому +2

    I’d be open to a show like that. I’m asexual (and questioning aromantic) and I want to be in a relationship, but I’ve never been in a relationship before. I think that would kinda be an easier way to ease into dating as long as the relationship is healthy

  • @neilan___222
    @neilan___222 2 місяці тому +2

    I actually really like the little mic in the corner, looks cool

  • @gisellereyna7327
    @gisellereyna7327 2 місяці тому

    I love this format

  • @Zapporah85
    @Zapporah85 2 місяці тому +3

    As a perspective unicorn myself, this sounds kinda fun 😅

    • @slevinchannel7589
      @slevinchannel7589 Місяць тому +2

      Get help. If yo utruly cant stay in monogamous relationships, taht is a flaw, no matter how much the internet it celebrates or twists.

    • @_heidi_
      @_heidi_ Місяць тому +1

      I don't blame you! But do take care of yourself and recognize yourself as a whole ass person and not just a couples play thing. Do some research on unicorn hunting and stay safe out there!

  • @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju
    @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju 2 місяці тому +4

    I don’t understand open relationships or whatever lmfao but surely it’s great entertainment lolol

  • @marveludus
    @marveludus 2 місяці тому +2

    just based on the premise this is like the only dating show i would actually join myself, which is… really fun? i might watch this one, did not expect that

  • @thisurldoesnotexist
    @thisurldoesnotexist 2 місяці тому +39

    I saw this while scrolling but I cannot watch it because it's on my parents' peacock account and they are not down for polyamory lol

    • @Melody-ob1sv
      @Melody-ob1sv 2 місяці тому +1

      Can you just clear history ?

    • @rVnsunshine
      @rVnsunshine 2 місяці тому

      Just tell them your roommate was watching it on your tv/laptop

  • @pablo_hns
    @pablo_hns 2 місяці тому

    Need a part 2!

  • @SamuraiSandi
    @SamuraiSandi Місяць тому

    Thank for the Videos Amanda, you make me wanna become a better person

  • @chrissyo.5522
    @chrissyo.5522 2 місяці тому +2

    I watched/binged this whole train wreck while cat sitting. Just wow hahsh. Can't wait to hear your take 😂

  • @LePinkCanary
    @LePinkCanary 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm super interested in this show, but honestly your necklace stole this video. I *love* it.

  • @MSBap237
    @MSBap237 2 місяці тому

    I'm here for your transparency

  • @cynblack
    @cynblack 2 місяці тому

    Please continue making content on this show :D !

  • @victoriaford2066
    @victoriaford2066 2 місяці тому

    Okay I have to watch this show now, lol 😄 thanks for the review.

  • @tianna3024
    @tianna3024 Місяць тому

    the tea on unicorn hunters at 2:52 lmao