Ability to commit tested on 'Married at First Sight Mzansi'

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  • Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
  • The American award-winning series, Married at First Sight, now has a South African version. This series is based on a group of singles agreeing to marry partners chosen for them by a team of relationship experts. They only get to meet their partners at the altar. A lot can be asked about the feasibility of these marriages.
    One of the contestants, Zithobile Sibaya as well as a community psychologist with a focus on marriage and family therapy, Bakhe Dlamini speak to Newzroom Afrika's Masechaba Khumalo.
    Tune into Newzroom Afrika DStv channel 405 for more.

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  • @auditingtaxmadeeasy5414
    @auditingtaxmadeeasy5414 25 днів тому +94

    I absolutely love her. She's a beautiful and mature lady. But the experts did her dirty by pairing her with that man. He's such a bully.

    • @InfoHubZA
      @InfoHubZA 25 днів тому +2

      Yeah they just didn't click.

    • @theriebank
      @theriebank 25 днів тому +8

      She also has her own floors, can't even pretend nje

    • @FikileMatla
      @FikileMatla 24 дні тому +3

      Nami i dont think they're compatible

    • @khutsomonareng177
      @khutsomonareng177 24 дні тому

      @@theriebank I chuckled at the malaprop

    • @kedibonethatelo9809
      @kedibonethatelo9809 20 днів тому

      Bro I couldn't stand that man at all.i felt like I could get into a TV and moer him.

  • @user-xb5xv2wu2t
    @user-xb5xv2wu2t 23 дні тому +29

    Thami will never find a modern working woman, that can handle him and his ways. He better just go find himself someone from ekhaya who is ready and willing to be a man's literal maid and submissive to the core.

  • @zamavekhuluvekhulu3068
    @zamavekhuluvekhulu3068 14 днів тому +14

    Lets not judge Thami even Zee has her flaws bandla she's not an angel

  • @lomasikomavuso5188
    @lomasikomavuso5188 25 днів тому +29

    I feel like this couple are true to themselves and their feelings, they are real than the others.

  • @fedalanga
    @fedalanga 23 дні тому +13

    The ring is still blinking there. May come as not compatible but they are so true to eachother.❤❤ All the best for their future endeavours. Well spoken Bakhe Dlamini

    • @FindingNeli
      @FindingNeli 21 день тому +3

      It’s TV. For the show’s sake it will stay on so we can’t be sure.

  • @snemthimkhulu1572
    @snemthimkhulu1572 22 дні тому +16

    Unfortunately she had no other match with other 3 males, i suspect they were matched by default. I don’t blame the team.

  • @LifelessspyesFedex
    @LifelessspyesFedex 24 дні тому +14

    She is so humble and respectful. I so blame the match makers here. They did an innocent soul dirty as they are not compatible as per their initial requirements. She will get her rib when the time is right. God's time is the best. Wish her to be granted her heart desires

  • @tho88315
    @tho88315 25 днів тому +35

    It's not a first of its kind in SA, this is the second season of the show.

    • @letushilaalina
      @letushilaalina 25 днів тому +2

      Really? Please share the link to the first one? 😳

    • @juliatanyaradzwamugadzawet
      @juliatanyaradzwamugadzawet 25 днів тому

      @@letushilaalina there is no link, but I watched it also before, one of the couples is actually still together today, you can google it

    • @palesapotele9986
      @palesapotele9986 24 дні тому +1

      ​@letushilaalina the show has had many seasons in the US. SA has had 2 seasons in the past

    • @thandekadikane6188
      @thandekadikane6188 24 дні тому +4

      I think it was in 2016, but yeah, this is not the first MAFS in South Africa.

    • @tibanisilimela530
      @tibanisilimela530 24 дні тому

      It is season 1

  • @jabulanindhove997
    @jabulanindhove997 25 днів тому +16

    Great interview Bakhe keep inspiring us as married men we need men like you who will guide us through this journey of marriage keep it that way

  • @InfoHubZA
    @InfoHubZA 25 днів тому +18

    Zithobile and her man went south from the onset.

    • @yolisamrso9827
      @yolisamrso9827 25 днів тому +8

      Such couples last....not those who put everything under the carpet

    • @InfoHubZA
      @InfoHubZA 25 днів тому +8

      @@yolisamrso9827 that's true. What can be tricky in this case is the hubby. He comes across as a bit controlling.

  • @leroymntungwa4227
    @leroymntungwa4227 15 днів тому +10

    Crazy that Thami was so hated?! Damn - I feel like that it’s not easy for both of them. But to alienate someone isn’t fair

    • @pulanemolotsi6998
      @pulanemolotsi6998 14 днів тому +8

      If anything I feel like Thami was the most genuine person there amongst the men. Zithobile was the problem here. She has unresolved issues that she hasn't worked through and it clearly keeps coming through her behaviour in relationships

    • @leroymntungwa4227
      @leroymntungwa4227 14 днів тому +4

      @@pulanemolotsi6998 nobody is ready for that conversation! The fact is she wants marriage but no the work, many times she said she’s tired it’s a lot of work. Marriage is too much work!?
      Thami wanted acts of service and physical touch. Example she said I’m not into intimacy I do it because he likes it. Imagine having to be intimate with someone who has no desire to be. 😅
      I’m all for her commitment to herself but don’t make someone else take the blame alone.

    • @pulanemolotsi6998
      @pulanemolotsi6998 14 днів тому +2

      @@leroymntungwa4227 exactly. Accusations about marital rape come about like this too. Thami deserves better and I hope he chose himself after this experiment

    • @khayakazincalo7104
      @khayakazincalo7104 9 днів тому

      ​@@leroymntungwa4227true maybe she doesn't want to be with Tammy

  • @metsamokgonyana1529
    @metsamokgonyana1529 8 днів тому +5

    Why did you pair her with Thami. He is there for fame and he is childish, I don't think that he knows what he want in life. With others he said She is big and doesn't like her body. How do u even say that about Ur wife?

  • @shokiramotlhale7627
    @shokiramotlhale7627 22 дні тому +5

    Love Zithobile she lives by her name.

  • @user-ci4dz9uk6i
    @user-ci4dz9uk6i 25 днів тому +14

    BAKHE is a powerful men❤❤❤

  • @buhlenkomo3225
    @buhlenkomo3225 23 дні тому +6

    I feel like this goes against Bakhe's values.

  • @pertuniakhuzwayo9530
    @pertuniakhuzwayo9530 День тому +1

    They should also have married at first site for older people as well 36 and older because there comes a point in time where we also feel we tired of relationships as well .. and as well for divorced people who are willing to give it a try again with new love

  • @thandananindlovu6460
    @thandananindlovu6460 23 дні тому +4

    You are marriage material my dear😊

  • @hleziphidhlamini1012
    @hleziphidhlamini1012 24 дні тому +1

    They did amazing with two couples 💜💙

  • @siphosihlemthethwa
    @siphosihlemthethwa 10 днів тому +6

    I love Zithobile and Thami together ❤

  • @tasneembashir4880
    @tasneembashir4880 24 дні тому +13

    It's not the first of It's kind in South Africa. The show was once done before.

    • @Zee_82
      @Zee_82 23 дні тому +1

      That one on SABC 3 was a complete flop

    • @user-xb5xv2wu2t
      @user-xb5xv2wu2t 23 дні тому

      @@Zee_82 We even forgot about that mess

  • @loyisoluyandavoyiya8266
    @loyisoluyandavoyiya8266 18 днів тому

    Love this ❤

  • @luckymahlangu8619
    @luckymahlangu8619 25 днів тому +23

    I think this interview came too early for the participants,at least they should have let all episodes go through...
    To the marriage councillor what is their plan B if any of their matches choose not to stay or the couples feel no compatibility
    Already some of the comments are that the lady was mismatched.but no one knows what might happen later as the weeks go by with this man .SOuth Africans we rush to get interviews..

    • @xiluvamitileni3004
      @xiluvamitileni3004 24 дні тому +5

      Yes they are spoiling it for us

    • @ziyab775
      @ziyab775 24 дні тому

      The mere fact that she said “I thought” meaning she thought wrong about the longevity of the marriage so now this is ruined for me 🤷🏽‍♀️ you are so right why rush for interviews.

    • @msmgiba6407
      @msmgiba6407 24 дні тому +6

      Agreed we are still in ep3 but this is already giving it away that she didn't make it to the finish line with her chosen husband. It would be better if the interview was with the marriage counselor only

  • @MinacheeMalatji
    @MinacheeMalatji 22 дні тому +5

    Yoh i hate Zithobile's husband shem!!! He's so annoying

  • @pridemakoko9498
    @pridemakoko9498 9 днів тому

    Imagine if Zithobile's partner Thami was matched with Khomo Yooooo.......the hotel room their slept in first day would be on fire 🔥 practically on 🔥🔥🔥

  • @user-cs2wb6ee9j
    @user-cs2wb6ee9j 9 днів тому +2

    Thami will suffer the rest of his life with this woman ..sometimes I feel like she doe not know what she wants ...lots of emotional burdens.,she is always crying ND that is dragging fo Thami

  • @ongeziwesiboyana7176
    @ongeziwesiboyana7176 10 днів тому +1

    She's still wearing the ring, nyb she's still merried

  • @SleepyDalmatianPuppies-dz3el
    @SleepyDalmatianPuppies-dz3el 21 день тому +1

    Can someone tell me how I can write for this show I wanna be there get married

  • @samueltsoai2418
    @samueltsoai2418 2 дні тому

    SK is doing well

  • @mafusilephoto7244
    @mafusilephoto7244 5 днів тому

    There were two seasons before this one though

  • @ayabongabuhle9446
    @ayabongabuhle9446 14 днів тому +5

    Mina I love u Thami I don't see anything wrong ayenzyo his a.human being naye u cc she's to emotional 😢but they both good if I was single I definitely date u Thami but unfortunately I'm not single 😢

    • @victoriamaimela3264
      @victoriamaimela3264 14 днів тому

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @Thatombonani31
      @Thatombonani31 10 днів тому

      I love Thami. He behave as all the men will do meeting a woman in bed for the first time. Thami didn't get what he asked for it was a favor what Thami did. Even Tho Ole will see when they tried to counsel them. Thami is a good man clean and ready to have a wife. Marriage goes with sex first day. That is why there's honeymoon

  • @dipuomanyike194
    @dipuomanyike194 9 днів тому

    He said you remove make up and go straight to pyjamas and he distance himself from you i bed joooooo ka makala

  • @melo2821
    @melo2821 19 днів тому

    Zithobile was failed by the council, she was no match for Thami…. It was clear from the onset they were not gonna last, it was wrong match…..