This is the best podcast conversation I have ever watched. I cried, I made notes, I reflected, I healed certain parts of me. I am so inlove with mam’ Ayanda. So so amazing. I can’t wait to get my hands on her book 🙌🏾
I watched this episode while going through what i call a rock bottom and what stuck with me is “this time, next year, things will be different” and i am holding onto this. i have faith and hope to come back to this with a testimony.
“When I lost my father I lost both parents because my mother was emotionally unavailable because of the weight she carried “ very relatable to me… and the fact that I am 44 years and I am still dealing with those scars too. Your transparency sis Ayanda keeps on liberating me and making me understand myself better and better ❤ right from obtaining your book in 2019 when you personally signed it for me 😍to this day amazwi akho ayangakha 🙏🏽🌺
This was a beautiful watch. I love how she said that when a marriage fails, the woman is the one that is given the bigger responsibility of that failure. I just wish that the conversation would’ve also expressly highlighted how warped that is considering that convention dictates that the man is the head of the household. This was worth the time I spent watching it - I could watch this conversation all day. This podcast is the one. Bab’ Mashabela is brilliant. He was truly anointed for this. And so was she. Ayanda is a gift for black women, girls and families.
I played this interview for 5 minutes and had to pause it due to some distractions. I paused it for 2 weeks, and something kept saying don't close the page. You need to go back and watch the interview. Now I understand why. Thank you, Ayanda. You spoke to me in more than many ways. I learned a lot about how to be okay about telling your story.
Bra Dave is such a brilliant Interviewer. Sis Ayanda actually raises her voice from time to time when she tells her stories because she can see how interested bra Dave is. That’s amazing.
This conversation is envoking so much emotion for me as the first grandchild who is the only one who grew up in the home of all the grandchildren and now I now hardly even go there. I guess the assumption that men will take a home is the first fallacy of our times. The girl child definitely cares more about the family home. The only time i see the family home thriving is when it is anchored by a strong makoti or mafungashe.
Just finished reading her book last week and I’m in awe of everything about her. A complete page turner and gentle yet thought provoking awakening. For 1 to truly appreciate her book, you need to be honest with yourself and hold the bull by the horns.
Wayichana Ayanda injalo you may be the first born yet not be annointed to carry certain tasks and only the anointed one can because he or she is the chosen one🙌🏾👏🏾
I've always felt that i was misunderstood, because the power that i carry didn't allow me to take things as they are and run with them. I always question 'why' it's unfortunate that our parents didn't know most of the things. You become the voice and you brought back our power. I believe if we can see that power we can definitely change alot. Thank you once again Mama Ayanda and KingDavid what a refreshing conversation.
David asks the most invasive (personal) questions in the most respectful and humble way. I like it for us.
To all of you, thank you for your kind comments. 🙏🏽
I am beginning to love my Tsonga Culture. A girl child is called by her father's name even if married. You dont lose your identify by marriage.
This is the best podcast conversation I have ever watched. I cried, I made notes, I reflected, I healed certain parts of me. I am so inlove with mam’ Ayanda. So so amazing. I can’t wait to get my hands on her book 🙌🏾
I watched this episode while going through what i call a rock bottom and what stuck with me is “this time, next year, things will be different” and i am holding onto this. i have faith and hope to come back to this with a testimony.
“When I lost my father I lost both parents because my mother was emotionally unavailable because of the weight she carried “ very relatable to me… and the fact that I am 44 years and I am still dealing with those scars too. Your transparency sis Ayanda keeps on liberating me and making me understand myself better and better ❤ right from obtaining your book in 2019 when you personally signed it for me 😍to this day amazwi akho ayangakha 🙏🏽🌺
This was a beautiful watch. I love how she said that when a marriage fails, the woman is the one that is given the bigger responsibility of that failure. I just wish that the conversation would’ve also expressly highlighted how warped that is considering that convention dictates that the man is the head of the household. This was worth the time I spent watching it - I could watch this conversation all day. This podcast is the one. Bab’ Mashabela is brilliant. He was truly anointed for this. And so was she. Ayanda is a gift for black women, girls and families.
MaNgubane, You need your own podcast. Every week we go into allll the things you've touched on here and in your book ❤
I played this interview for 5 minutes and had to pause it due to some distractions. I paused it for 2 weeks, and something kept saying don't close the page. You need to go back and watch the interview. Now I understand why. Thank you, Ayanda. You spoke to me in more than many ways. I learned a lot about how to be okay about telling your story.
Bra Dave is such a brilliant Interviewer. Sis Ayanda actually raises her voice from time to time when she tells her stories because she can see how interested bra Dave is. That’s amazing.
This conversation is envoking so much emotion for me as the first grandchild who is the only one who grew up in the home of all the grandchildren and now I now hardly even go there. I guess the assumption that men will take a home is the first fallacy of our times. The girl child definitely cares more about the family home. The only time i see the family home thriving is when it is anchored by a strong makoti or mafungashe.
Just finished reading her book last week and I’m in awe of everything about her. A complete page turner and gentle yet thought provoking awakening. For 1 to truly appreciate her book, you need to be honest with yourself and hold the bull by the horns.
After reading her book 2 years ago I was never the same. Unbecoming to become is a life changing book.
David is so good at this is heart warming , he is HIM . The Messi of Podcast🙌
My dad used to compliment me even for simple things. I miss him, may his soul rest in peace 🕊️
This woman is solid and sober minded... Within 15min , we need to hear from her more!
Wayichana Ayanda injalo you may be the first born yet not be annointed to carry certain tasks and only the anointed one can because he or she is the chosen one🙌🏾👏🏾
Mdeza is a master when he comes to interview his guest. He exel to a point that the whole process becomes communication.
Wow wow...."Ubuhle bendoda zinkomo zakhe" - i didnt kow that it means responsibility. Indeed we are learning everyday.
I've always felt that i was misunderstood, because the power that i carry didn't allow me to take things as they are and run with them. I always question 'why' it's unfortunate that our parents didn't know most of the things. You become the voice and you brought back our power. I believe if we can see that power we can definitely change alot. Thank you once again Mama Ayanda and KingDavid what a refreshing conversation.