If You Want to Raise Your Self-Esteem, This is for You. | Mel Robbins

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  • @ankitisro
    @ankitisro Рік тому +17

    Hey i am first viewer of this video from India 🎉😊

    • @stacyjaye6350
      @stacyjaye6350 Рік тому +5

      Hi and Happy New Year from Tulsa, Oklahoma, USA!☮️💖😘

    • @ankitisro
      @ankitisro Рік тому +3

      @@stacyjaye6350 Happy New Year

    • @RitaLynn444
      @RitaLynn444 Рік тому

      🕊

  • @snuggiemonster6256
    @snuggiemonster6256 Рік тому +15

    I can understand that Mel. Its so sad that you can be in a room full of family or strangers and still fill literally alone inside. I feel invisible all the time.

    • @isabelamacavei8418
      @isabelamacavei8418 Рік тому +3

      You might be in the wrong crowd. Change your environment to something you deserve which should be above what you think you deserve ;) You got this.

    • @jamesschmugge3931
      @jamesschmugge3931 Рік тому

      @CeeJay's CLUB o

  • @rosemarygarza6776
    @rosemarygarza6776 Рік тому +10

    I started high five myself since yesterday and today I feel more confident, kinder, loving to me, and more assured of myself. It’s a process I’m sure, but I’m willing to put the work in, I’m tired of the same old! I’m to young for the same old. Learning to be a cheerleader for myself is different. Thank you Mel.

  • @karlam7253
    @karlam7253 Рік тому +17

    Love, respect, trust, safe.
    Thank you, Mel, I have spent 72 years to try and be enough. I now know how much time I have wasted on people who didn't acknowledge what I did for them because of the love that I had for them. I have learned to love myself instead.

    • @Joel-pg4yi
      @Joel-pg4yi Рік тому +4

      I'm sorry. It's not your fault. It's just we people pleasers choose to love others so much they don't appreciate. We need to start loving the right people who do appreciate which is hard to find.

    • @isabelamacavei8418
      @isabelamacavei8418 Рік тому +3

      Deep down inside, you love yourself because you like to give your best to others; it makes you unique, and you need indeed to love yourself more for being who you are. Those who don't appreciate you, will miss your positive energy because it looks like they take yours for granted.

    • @NikkiGregory
      @NikkiGregory 5 місяців тому +1

  • @Nayz13
    @Nayz13 Рік тому +3

    As an Australian, the high five doesn’t mean much to me as it’s not part of the culture here, instead I smile and kiss the mirror as I would my family who love me unconditionally. I’m finding this works for me.

  • @joycesegers5578
    @joycesegers5578 Рік тому +21

    Just finished my morning routine now time for some inspiration with Mel Robbins!! 🖐️💜Woo Hoo! Happy New Year everyone, make it your best year EVER!! 🎊
    2023 High Fives Baby!! 🥳

  • @racheltagg5347
    @racheltagg5347 Рік тому +4

    I been high five myself for a month now and I actually feel so loved by myself instead of hating what I see. Even my 7 year old has started to do it and she is so more confident as well. Mel your amazing and I love you for helping me change the way my anxiety affects me xx

  • @meehopark8346
    @meehopark8346 Рік тому +2

    Hello~I have been watching your channel almost a year.
    Love ur voice ,speech and you are my best English teacher. Who knows someday I can meet you. From South Korea. Thank you so much for your high five.♡

  • @victoriaalgra3675
    @victoriaalgra3675 Рік тому +5

    Our parents raised us with the “ children will be seen and not heard” motto from the 60,70’s.. Zoom to the future .. it backfired... With therapy and awareness we’ve became exceptional individuals in-spite of our hard childhood and now with our own AWSOME adult children. Our Mother at 82 is still struggling with profound thoughts of delusions , blaming us kids and her unhappiness probably due to undiagnosed mental health issues, smoking, drug use or just plain narcissistic behavior. Oh boy she is extremely difficult and hard.. We’ve never given up. But now I’m done and letting her go for it’s ultimately been up to her all these years I’m really realizing 😢#emotionalhealth

  • @mollytejana
    @mollytejana Рік тому +9

    I'll never be as good as I was (professionally) before two cancers 3 years ago, because of medicines I *have to* take. (P.S. Following Mel got me through those years.) 🤗
    Loved this video. 💕

  • @karinapaez8072
    @karinapaez8072 Рік тому +1

    to be loved and aknowledged.Connection with people .

  • @oliviaarsenie
    @oliviaarsenie Рік тому +1

    Your hair looks so good here Mel! Thanks for all the work you’re putting in to help us 🤍
    Much love friend!🫶

  • @adelalaird6318
    @adelalaird6318 Рік тому

    My love each time I think about him.❤

  • @louferguson7048
    @louferguson7048 Рік тому +2

    My entire childhood and into late 20s I was missing these three things. I always say I felt abandoned and unseen. This was so enlightening.

  • @raesunshine2643
    @raesunshine2643 9 місяців тому

    ❤Love you Mel❤

    • @raesunshine2643
      @raesunshine2643 9 місяців тому +1

      New motto, I see me, I hear me, I celebrate me! High five ✋️ ❤

  • @honesty247
    @honesty247 Рік тому +2

    I have done a good job blending into my surroundings. And the negative self talk is sometimes hard not to listen to. 😕

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Рік тому +1

    long term home covering myself and dressing modestly so everyone can respect me and good food

  • @leannesmith1207
    @leannesmith1207 Рік тому +1

    omg thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you. amazing. exactly what ive been needing to hear for months

  • @tnt4648
    @tnt4648 Рік тому +2

    Loved, Heard, Seen and Acknowledged

  • @ctownmedia
    @ctownmedia Рік тому +1

    My thoughts that bring me down are that I'm not creative enough, I always screw things up, I don't get things done fast enough and I'm not doing enough good for the world and that what I spend the most time in life doing, my job, is not meaningful.

  • @lyndamaewilson3453
    @lyndamaewilson3453 Рік тому +1

    Mel...you rock my world....thankyou

  • @mynaturalrainsound
    @mynaturalrainsound Рік тому +2

    Big thumbs up👍💯 Thanks for sharing 👏😍🤩

  • @user-eh7vm7ry7n
    @user-eh7vm7ry7n Рік тому +1

    Oh Mel, that's amazing! I'm among those High Fives and it really works. Thank you sooo much!

  • @aramotselaw3794
    @aramotselaw3794 Рік тому +2

    I needed this. Bless you Mel 🌸🫶🏼🌸

  • @belmabajraktarevic1257
    @belmabajraktarevic1257 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Mel for a good start of New year. 🎉🎊
    Great news!. Happy New year to you too! 💐

  • @annayoungblood2188
    @annayoungblood2188 Рік тому +1

    I’m ugly is the thought that gets me down

  • @nadalynm.3145
    @nadalynm.3145 Рік тому +1

    Attention, affirmation, appreciation

  • @michaelp8856
    @michaelp8856 Рік тому +1

    Mel...you're credible. something about you. i just look at you and there is something in you that's authentic...

  • @sharonnoble9101
    @sharonnoble9101 Рік тому +1

    Love, Stability & Self Worth

    • @sharonnoble9101
      @sharonnoble9101 Рік тому

      Mel says... To be Seen, To be heard and to be celebrated for the unique person that you are... at your core, you feel loved.
      Thank you for your gift to us Mel 💝💞💖🙏xxx

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Рік тому

    happy new year I'm doing really good excellent

  • @vkq47
    @vkq47 Рік тому

    My dog makes me feel needed and loved

  • @adelalaird6318
    @adelalaird6318 Рік тому

    Love, belong to another human, safety, acceptance

  • @vkq47
    @vkq47 Рік тому

    That’s amazing

  • @evaphillips7193
    @evaphillips7193 Рік тому

    Safe, truly loved, true relationship you can count on.

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Рік тому

    I'm confident

  • @vkq47
    @vkq47 Рік тому

    That is so special

  • @galiavargas763
    @galiavargas763 Рік тому

    love

  • @erikawithee
    @erikawithee Рік тому +1

    Coparenting with respect

  • @karlareyes4688
    @karlareyes4688 Рік тому

    The thought that usually gets me down..."I'm old, I look older than ..." And others but don't want to make this a huge list

  • @galiavargas763
    @galiavargas763 Рік тому

    respect

  • @21HeartSong
    @21HeartSong Рік тому

    The thought that always brings me down? "I'm so stupid. Why did I do that? God, I hate myself!" *head in hands*

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Рік тому

    hello mel robbins

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Рік тому

    I have the freedom to be myself

  • @JR-rg5ob
    @JR-rg5ob Рік тому

    Touch

  • @nidhibhardwaj3437
    @nidhibhardwaj3437 Рік тому

    I don't know how to be seen, loved and heard that's missing in all my relationships

  • @adelalaird6318
    @adelalaird6318 Рік тому

    It’s also has to do mostly with your surrounding and people who are around you in your life being narcissistic personality and always critical of what you are doing and don’t like seeing you being happy or positive or worse trying something new.

  • @joannepereira4548
    @joannepereira4548 2 місяці тому

    limiting thoughts...I am not good enough, I am alone, I have no family here....

  • @isabelamacavei8418
    @isabelamacavei8418 Рік тому

    We learn in the military that the Maslow hierarchy is critical to humans; newly, searching for a mate has been introduced as part of the basic needs (for good reason). I loved listening to your points, Mel. Great episode!

  • @padmapatil11
    @padmapatil11 Рік тому

    40:00 how to make yourself visible in workplace

  • @Mysticals_Mess_Tarot
    @Mysticals_Mess_Tarot Рік тому +1

    You look so familiar

  • @joannepereira4548
    @joannepereira4548 2 місяці тому

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Рік тому

    a lot of places don't allow sleep

  • @vkq47
    @vkq47 Рік тому

    I have done that time and time again I do not fell different why I’d that?

    • @utrnagel9441
      @utrnagel9441 Рік тому

      Maybe you want to forgive yourself first? A 1000times! And say I don't let nothing in what is not Love 🥰

  • @nidhibhardwaj3437
    @nidhibhardwaj3437 Рік тому

    How to cure it

  • @sandrarobinson4464
    @sandrarobinson4464 Рік тому

    People always put me down

  • @manonpelletier6715
    @manonpelletier6715 Рік тому

    #highfive me

  • @padmapatil11
    @padmapatil11 Рік тому

    I used to think...
    I'm fat
    I'm not smart enough..
    I'm not respected
    I always screwed up..
    Nobody loved me...
    I'm not capable..

  • @mehrinoznurmatova383
    @mehrinoznurmatova383 Рік тому +1

    😊😇🥰

  • @nadalynm.3145
    @nadalynm.3145 Рік тому +1

    They’re going to find out that I’m not as good at this as they think I am.

  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Рік тому

    I'm not thinking about that

  • @alyayasser6495
    @alyayasser6495 Рік тому +1

    I am not good enough
    Nobody will listen to me or see me
    I give up on things easily
    I’m not brave enough
    Nobody will get attracted to me something is wrong with me

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  • @shantejames8295
    @shantejames8295 Рік тому

    I'm american

  • @donbiker7966
    @donbiker7966 Рік тому

    I’ll never be happy with the one I’ve been married to for 30 yrs.

  • @cariocajin
    @cariocajin Рік тому

    13:46 "Bananas have 44.1% of genetic makeup in common with humans.” So it's possible...

  • @vkq47
    @vkq47 Рік тому

    I’m not goidcenough

  • @Julie-ch1ue
    @Julie-ch1ue Рік тому

    Nobody truly cares

    • @utrnagel9441
      @utrnagel9441 Рік тому

      You need to care first, Blessings 🥰