Carl Jung on Overcoming Anxiety Disorders

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    @academyofideas  5 років тому +118

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    • @academyofideas
      @academyofideas  5 років тому +6

      Nope.

    • @CreativeCat333
      @CreativeCat333 5 років тому

      Me too. Lol

    • @edouglaspratt
      @edouglaspratt 5 років тому

      Caution! Why dig again into old theory? We now have Evidence Based Methods that are effective treatments for most anxiety disorders, and for most depressions. Is someone making money from this obfuscation? -E. Douglas Pratt, Board Licensed Psychotherapist, Atlanta, Georgia, USA.

    • @phriesen
      @phriesen 5 років тому

      @@edouglaspratt In what way is this obfuscation?

    • @edouglaspratt
      @edouglaspratt 5 років тому +4

      Joel, good question, "How is reading old theories obfuscation?" In forty years of practice as a Licensed Psychotherapist, I've seen many anxiety patients who avoided treatment for years. Many who want help for their anxiety disorder are, ironically, also especially fearful about getting help. Understandably they fear opening up the underlying pain, such as childhood trauma for example. Instead many obsess about their disorder, and about treatment, to avoid feeling emotions and to avoid treatment; many self-medicate with alcohol and other drugs; many obsessively read countless self-help books to avoid feeling emotions and treatment.
      These anxiety disorder patients had become obsessed with the least threatening possibilities, hoping that insight might cure their disorder. Today Psychotherapists use Evidence Based Practices (EBP) that are scientifically proven to be effective. So, encouraging patients to spend time and money reading old theories enables their avoidance. I chose the word "obfuscation" in my previous post to suggest that promoting the reading of Jungian theory over-complicates things.
      Instead, people with anxiety disorders need to hear our confidence that we offer treatments that are truly effective, and not as invasive as psychoanalysis. I hope this helps. -Douglas Pratt, Atlanta, Georgia, USA

  • @Dragon_Baby-Sudan
    @Dragon_Baby-Sudan 5 років тому +2825

    It's becoming scary the way these videos appear as soon as I need answers...

    • @richard8246
      @richard8246 5 років тому +93

      fate is calling you

    • @GnarlyBroMr
      @GnarlyBroMr 5 років тому +14

      Mampane Family sounds like you always need answers

    • @Dragon_Baby-Sudan
      @Dragon_Baby-Sudan 5 років тому +12

      @@GnarlyBroMr you got me there!

    • @mephala7446
      @mephala7446 5 років тому +22

      This video arrived at a time that was scarily perfect for me too

    • @Eman-wj8gq
      @Eman-wj8gq 5 років тому +45

      You internet searches are feeding you the answers. They know what you are looking for.

  • @thientruong9075
    @thientruong9075 5 років тому +1034

    I realized I have a lot of anxiety when I was in college. This barred me from personal growth. I didn't notice this problem until my senior in college. At that time, I wasn't happy with who I am or where I was, I wanted to change. So I started to raise my hand in class more, and took up leadership position. Of course, my anxiety was sky high, just imagine you raising your hand to ask the professor a question full of 300~400 people, or be a leader. I stuttered a lot when I ask questions, I wasn't a good leader, and you bet ppl made fun of me but ... I didn't mind. I know I wasn't perfect and these opportunities allow me to be better. I'm still struggling with my anxiety but I'm getting better... slowly.

  • @danthemansmail
    @danthemansmail 5 років тому +966

    What I wouldn't give to have found this video forty years ago. I lived this video....lived in hell for most of my life and have come out the other side a better man for it, but with the loss of my youth to middle adulthood. I had to figure it out all on my own...went to doctors...got fed lots of useless and harmful drugs and never once did anyone ever point out the simple truths of Carl Jung in this video.
    It is from living the hell of this neurosis and having to find my own way out, that I can testify to the accuracy and vital information contained within this video. If you are young and experiencing these difficulties I implore you to take this video and it's recommendations to heart. It is your only hope to find your way out of hell and to a meaningful life.
    As the video alludes I am one of the lucky ones...I tried to conform with my society even though I felt totally alien from it. It is only after a life of struggle I realize it was my inability to embrace my true nature and idealist and free thinker that crippled my emotions so. As I finally grew into the self I was meant to be...I did something I never ever thought would happen...I got better. Now I feel a depth of understanding of the world that I believe only few manage to achieve. Perhaps my life wasn't the utter waste I always thought it was. In the end, I found myself and the world.
    To anyone experiencing this life problem do not fall into the doctor trap...be who you are meant to be and damn the risks. No matter the danger it is far less then the pain and hell you will inflict on yourself if you didn't take the risk.

    • @orangeziggy599
      @orangeziggy599 5 років тому +7

      Thanks

    • @lifewasgiventous1614
      @lifewasgiventous1614 5 років тому +4

      What do you mean by the doctor trap?

    • @Gorrano985
      @Gorrano985 4 роки тому +12

      @Life was given to us meds bro...tryed too.Sucks,kills your soul.

    • @carlhammill5774
      @carlhammill5774 4 роки тому +10

      You sound like you made career change. What job did you settle on that gave you peace.

    • @RoboticRebel
      @RoboticRebel 4 роки тому +58

      Reading your experiences at the age of 21 fills me with so much hope, even more than the video itself, It's horrible hearing you lived more than 40 years of your life in this state but to see that even after all that time feeling this way you pulled through and found yourself is honestly nothing short of amazing, thank you for posting this

  • @MrSaemichlaus
    @MrSaemichlaus 5 років тому +274

    Conclusion: don't deny the fear, but move with it. Be bold, get out of your head, spend time imagining (meditating) who we actually wish to be.

    • @thunderlifestudios
      @thunderlifestudios 2 роки тому +1

      I often find I need to 3rd person myself, speak out loud, and tap the first steps into something I'm having trouble doing within myself (even when it's external works).

    • @erikpoephoofd
      @erikpoephoofd 2 роки тому +8

      Careful with imagining the better version of yourself. Don't strain yourself too hard to achieve it, or you will spend a life in continuous dissatisfaction with who you are.
      You are a valuable person the way you are, but try to lovingly strive to overcome your personal obstacles.

    • @aphysique
      @aphysique 2 роки тому +1

      @@erikpoephoofd Pretty powerful bru

    • @genkiferal7178
      @genkiferal7178 Рік тому +2

      I barely left my room, let alone the house, for about 3 years. I'd spped to the store and then spped right back and congratulate myself on having left the house. That happened a few times a week - or sometimes once every 3 weeks. I rarely was out of the house for more than 3 hours a week, though.
      Then my money ran out, so I was forced to get a job. I almost immediately fell for a coworker and it seemed he liked me back. I quit the job after 2 months -without dating him - but if I'd never have left the house, I'd never have met him. 💚
      Now I want to leave the house a lot more.

    • @peterwanker5015
      @peterwanker5015 11 місяців тому

      Your words give me hope i can change. I think i had my first ever panic attack yesterday, i couldnt calm down and seem to have lost all rationality by thinking i was truly about to die somehow. I thought i was fine until yesterday. I too didnt leave the house hardly in 3 years, but i forced myself out today to a year overdue haircut appointment. I was freaking tf out, but i managed to subdue most of my visible symptoms because i didnt want to scare anyone. Hearing the rest of your story gave me a slight glimmer of hope in what seems to be the lowest i have ever been in my life, so thanks for sharing.

  • @MrHayada
    @MrHayada 5 років тому +377

    Am I the only one who finds Jung's words to be the best I've ever heard? Every word, sentence and paragraph is so dense yet so complete. No word is wasted and he sounds like someone who talks about something he touched.

    • @Ronin3453
      @Ronin3453 5 років тому +20

      That's a brilliant way to put it.

    • @gonzo8450
      @gonzo8450 4 роки тому +20

      He's also very straight forward. It's the slap in the face that was needed for me.

    • @MrHayada
      @MrHayada 3 роки тому

      @@Thomas-ui2bd Did Jung say that too?

    • @gualtiero7156
      @gualtiero7156 3 роки тому

      That's exactly what I feel when I hear him

    • @tnijoo5109
      @tnijoo5109 2 роки тому +1

      Wow. Yes. So well said.

  • @Aanwazig
    @Aanwazig 5 років тому +504

    Every time I read or hear something of Jung I am amazed at how well he predicted how my life was gonna be.

    • @SomeoneFarted
      @SomeoneFarted 5 років тому +9

      +Henk Glimlach I mean most of what he explains is universal so of course it would apply to your life.

    • @Beanie-Sandals
      @Beanie-Sandals 4 роки тому +8

      He didn't predict anything, he simply observed human behavior, and lived through it

    • @freakyd5395
      @freakyd5395 4 роки тому

      it's almost like he was one of us a HUman :0

    • @teddayer6523
      @teddayer6523 4 роки тому +4

      The Barnum effect

    • @staceykersting461
      @staceykersting461 3 роки тому +1

      @@Beanie-Sandals One and the same. History predicts...

  • @boibrad
    @boibrad 3 роки тому +280

    This is so spot on. As someone who has struggled with paralyzing anxiety for 7 years now (that seemingly began in an instant) I see that the fall into neurosis was a path I unknowingly manifested. When I was 17 I was extremely depressed for family, and social reasons. I felt alone. My whole identity was invested in trying to be liked by everyone. On top of this I had a nasty case of laziness due to my parents never enforcing homework and still complimenting me on my "achievements." I did nothing. I got a computer in 8th grade and was immediately addicted. I just consumed all day every day. I had no self worth and the tiny image I held of me within myself faded. One day I had the realization I was going to die and quite literally did not know how to handle it. I broke down and disassociated. I didnt tell anyone for years because I was scared I was crazy. This resulted in years of doing nothing. I thought I had to fix my beliefs before I could move forward. I was so unaware that what was causing my lack of belief was the behaviors that lead me to my breaking point. I didn't stand for anything and was completely self absorbed. All I knew were my thoughts. If anyone is struggling with anxiety know you're not alone and healing is possible!! Its not an easy journey and this video hits the nail on the head. Drop the addictive behaviors you run to to keep you sidelined and commit to yourself. Books and videos are great for guidance but they wont heal you. Only you have the power to walk yourself home.

    •  2 роки тому +16

      Thank you buddy for that. I really needed it. Have a great life :)

    • @bradcapricorn5341
      @bradcapricorn5341 2 роки тому +2

      Damn, I have a similar story as you, I am suffering from schizophrenia

    • @kathykaura7219
      @kathykaura7219 2 роки тому

      bravo 🥇

    • @jeanettesdaughter
      @jeanettesdaughter 2 роки тому

      Courageous and well said.

    • @andrewortiz5797
      @andrewortiz5797 2 роки тому +3

      Sounds like you had A Spiritual Awakening! Its A Gift. The Greatest Gift one can receive.

  • @illfaptothis333
    @illfaptothis333 5 років тому +357

    Carl Jung truly cared about people, is the impression I am getting of the man

    • @nyakwarObat
      @nyakwarObat 3 роки тому +44

      Yep. That's why he's not been mentioned in the indoctrination classrooms over the years

    • @miloradlukic9277
      @miloradlukic9277 3 роки тому +29

      Yes, but when i mentioned him to one female psychologist, she called him trickster and other names to discredit his work. They teach you against him, because they want you to live the life of mediocrity so you can be better sheep. I then proceed to debate her and base of her arguments were that she finished school for that. And when i asked why doesn't she help herself being 40 years old, with failed marriage she started calling me names and such. So yes, Jung was really a gift from the universe, and helped me understand a lot about myself and others.

    • @logat1847
      @logat1847 3 роки тому +7

      @@nyakwarObat it must be why they focus on Freud

    • @nyakwarObat
      @nyakwarObat 3 роки тому +8

      @@miloradlukic9277 😆😆😆 shit... you savaged that woman with that help herself and failed marriage

    • @nyakwarObat
      @nyakwarObat 3 роки тому +8

      @@logat1847 yeah you can't be having fully healthy and sane people. Apparently It's bad for business

  • @Attttnnn
    @Attttnnn 3 роки тому +186

    Just turned 23, four days ago. And I cannot be more grateful to finding this videos of Jung. I believe this might have saved my life.
    I was diagnosed with phobia, anxiety and major depressive disorder last year. I even spent a whole year trying to kill myself, which I almost did, ended in the hospital hadn't it been for my friends who dragged me to it. Got checked out, got home, still wanted to stop existing, broke up with my 4 year long girlfriend, created a great conflict with my family, basically felt that life was not for me.
    But I found this series on Jung, and I can't say 'thank you' enough. I'm gonna apply this great man's theories in my life. No matter how painful, I'm going to overcome my problems in life, so that when I grow old and feel death near I'll be able to say that I have lived my life.

    • @pratyushraj2629
      @pratyushraj2629 3 роки тому +5

      Best of luck,friend.

    • @ramnair4402
      @ramnair4402 3 роки тому +2

      any updates buddy?

    • @Shadow77999
      @Shadow77999 3 роки тому

      You have friends who love you and managed to keep a relationship for 4 years, it couldnt be that bad. What was wrong with you?

    • @tnijoo5109
      @tnijoo5109 2 роки тому +4

      This is beautiful and honest and real. So very glad you wrote it. Thank you. Please stay here. The world needs people like you. Special tender soul. I love you through your words and your struggle. 💚

    • @sabibaliaj7187
      @sabibaliaj7187 2 роки тому +3

      Everyone stragel sometimes and on people's head they come strange thoughts...the brains is fool of chemical substances sometimes they go disbanded.
      The Depomin goes low...than people start feeling down and they don't have clue whay..so best thing is always checking with specialists..
      And finding out that why y r suffer..than y will see diferent y life.
      I suffer often like y . But I am Scientist and I manage that.
      Even I am Scientist I pray.. Just pray on in what you believe and that gives you good energy and help to balance the flow of chemicals in y brain.
      It stops negative thoughts.. also exercise ..if y are in bed ...to stop it..
      Pinch y ears...if they distract y thoughts...
      There are many ways...and lots of videos....good luck...
      Y r not alone...

  • @FromPanictoParis
    @FromPanictoParis 3 роки тому +101

    I experienced 10 whole years of a horrible anxiety disorder from the age of 18 to 28 , it tore my life apart in the worst of this disorder i was afraid to walk 2km from my house , i couldn't go on buses or trains , panic attacks were all i knew.
    I am 31 years old now and I'm living in Paris , i recovered from this Anxiety disorder 3 years ago.
    This video makes so much sense to me , it's so perfect so true every word spoke to me.
    My life has changed dramatically , i stopped fearing these symptoms i used to think i was having heart attacks or strokes or some kind of medical emergency , when i lost the fear of this i went into life i went forward into the unknown i told myself id rather die than live like that so what have i got to lose ? This letting go and true acceptance then helped me recover. I started to run/jog far distances , into places i avoided for years , I went on to run the Dublin marathon and Paris marathon , and back travelling again. The man who once feared going 2km from his home , these disorders are so awful, until we truly know how to recover then recovery is straight forward but requires bravery , will power and most importantly self discipline.

    • @NiKo44433
      @NiKo44433 11 місяців тому

      Amazing man, how much better is it today?

    • @10babiscar
      @10babiscar 10 місяців тому +2

      i feel the same, isolated myself for the past year and a half due to ocd. i'm going overseas soon looking to gain some direction but right now life feels pretty hopeless

    • @ganymede...
      @ganymede... 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@10babiscarsame here. I can travel alone and do all kind of activities alone, but inside there's still this fear and feeling of void, because I cannot feel the connection with orher people : even when I'm surrounded, I feel alone. It's like I'm not part of this world.

    • @10babiscar
      @10babiscar 8 місяців тому

      @@ganymede... im in europe now, hopefully things get better, going to see some family. and live here for a bit. wish you good luck

  • @youisstupid2586
    @youisstupid2586 5 років тому +872

    I have a dream that one day I'll be able to do things that I like without having this suffocating fear I don't know how or when but I will try my best

    • @Ozoal
      @Ozoal 5 років тому +22

      Don't dream it. Do it.

    • @youisstupid2586
      @youisstupid2586 5 років тому +82

      @@Ozoal it's harder than that . It's not like I haven't tried, but just thinking about it makes me anxious let alone doing it.

    • @fairwind8676
      @fairwind8676 5 років тому +12

      @@youisstupid2586 that day must be today. Just don't think about it. You fail, you get up and do it again. Maybe it's easier said than done but one day wastes time.

    • @youisstupid2586
      @youisstupid2586 5 років тому +20

      @Goose Wayne I genuinely feel very secure around anxious people like me because I know that they feel what I am going through.

    • @youisstupid2586
      @youisstupid2586 5 років тому +23

      @@fairwind8676 that's true but when you get shot down over and over again it makes it that hard to get up and do it again.

  • @dou9088
    @dou9088 3 роки тому +50

    Adding to the final words of this video: Terence McKenna once said ¨Nature loves courage¨.
    Just a litttle phrase with powerful meaning.

  • @morriemukoda45
    @morriemukoda45 5 років тому +560

    The Laughing Heart by Charles Bukowski
    your life is your life
    don’t let it be clubbed into dank submission.
    be on the watch.
    there are ways out.
    there is light somewhere.
    it may not be much light but
    it beats the darkness.
    be on the watch.
    the gods will offer you chances.
    know them.
    take them.
    you can’t beat death but
    you can beat death in life, sometimes.
    and the more often you learn to do it,
    the more light there will be.
    your life is your life.
    know it while you have it.
    you are marvelous
    the gods wait to delight
    in you.

    • @blissfulpeony
      @blissfulpeony 5 років тому +23

      Thank you. This is beautiful.

    • @burakcimenli
      @burakcimenli 5 років тому +18

      what makes this poem more awesome is that someone like bukowski wrote it

    • @timbrady6473
      @timbrady6473 5 років тому +15

      Morrie Mukoda I am 63 years old , just turned , didn’t find much for education , always stop to read a good story , never saw reasons for poetry , too technical I found most , this Bukowski that you post has caught me here , I thank you , for it has opened a door I think for me to explore . I came back after reading “For Jane” .

    • @mindasriver8408
      @mindasriver8408 4 роки тому +5

      The last three lines are beautiful. Better to become lovely of one's own self than waste time with harming others. Life is meant to be lived

    • @cathhall2015
      @cathhall2015 4 роки тому +1

      Yes soo ♡ him.Thanks for reminding me.

  • @ElNegringoKreyolito
    @ElNegringoKreyolito 5 років тому +575

    This... might be the best and most important video I've ever watched. Diagnosed me to a T. I started moving out of my head today already by dropping of an application for some part time work...now I'll pursue the endeavor with the utmost intensity. I tire greatly of the staleness, I want to really live my life. Thank you for making this video! 🙏

    • @mephala7446
      @mephala7446 5 років тому +19

      @JimmyJam good luck to both of you, I have been going through the same situation as you guys and this video and the comments have helped a great deal. It's good to know you're not alone in this I wish you both the best in this it's not easy

    • @ayiltonpalate9217
      @ayiltonpalate9217 5 років тому +6

      go on man

    • @catmandont100
      @catmandont100 5 років тому +11

      Fight not, the ogre that is clear of your path. Clank softly, scabbard to stone, to remind him, you still can.

    • @LtheMunichG
      @LtheMunichG 5 років тому +7

      Keep going man! Don’t stop now!

    • @donblack1571
      @donblack1571 5 років тому +5

      One step

  • @Gen_Jutsu_Itachi
    @Gen_Jutsu_Itachi 5 років тому +501

    Easily one of the greatest pieces of work you have put together this far

    • @FurtherReading
      @FurtherReading 5 років тому +8

      Khalil Williams yeah, isn’t this extremely good ?! Wow ! I really enjoyed it !

    • @alamooji3716
      @alamooji3716 5 років тому +5

      Amen

    • @joeywantstoplay
      @joeywantstoplay 5 років тому +8

      Jung is a titan of healing, among men. Such an astute & honest assessment of the issues that plague mankind!

    • @akramabushook4800
      @akramabushook4800 5 років тому +3

      thus*

    • @entiretwix1480
      @entiretwix1480 4 роки тому +2

      I think it's "thus far"

  • @Robcab20
    @Robcab20 5 років тому +311

    Finally dude.. Ive been waiting for this to get on with life

    • @JD..........
      @JD.......... 5 років тому +30

      You can do it, too.
      Forthrightly, confronting uncertainty.

    • @gol.d.rogeer
      @gol.d.rogeer 3 роки тому

      @Eddy Germosen i guess not

  • @siobhanrose1680
    @siobhanrose1680 10 місяців тому +7

    I spent most of 15yrs (minus a job here or there, for a year or so etc.) not working, raising my 2 sons. I worked hard before getting pregnant, and then, I had my first at 22. I’m 38 now, and feel like a waste of space, and paralysed. I can’t even fathom getting back into the workforce. I feel I have no skills to offer, and feel I cannot adapt to that lifestyle. I haven’t worked in 8yrs. I have been severely depressed for 6yrs, my anxiety has been debilitating for 2yrs. 2 weeks ago, I signed up to volunteer at an animal shelter. This is my attempt to break the neurosis. I had induction, and now I start next week. Here I go. Breaking the chains of this mental illness. Thank you for this video. It very much helps.

    • @dickmullen3750
      @dickmullen3750 8 місяців тому

      The depression is a sign you are feeling very bad about your way of living, you can do much more, you just need to take action. I strongly advice too start slow and if you fail dont give up, try again.

    • @siobhanrose1680
      @siobhanrose1680 8 місяців тому

      @@dickmullen3750 you’re not wrong. But, I was born into a world where every minute was dangerous, and for my first 20yrs, lived that life. As soon as I was somewhat safe, my brain just couldn’t fathom what safe was. I don’t live a life I should be, I dwell in death. But I have many reasons to have the brain that I do, it’s not as easy as just “changing your thinking.” if it were, I would be a different person, because I don’t want this. I just have, a different brain. Which anyone who lived my upbringing would. Because I see those people, they are dead, they are drug addicts, they are murderers. They are the people who can’t handle what happened to them, me I am handling what happened to me, I just, have a lot of fear and anxiety in my life, because of it.

    • @dickmullen3750
      @dickmullen3750 8 місяців тому

      @@siobhanrose1680 I can totally feel you on that, I grew up in a very hostile and dangerous environment aswell. Lot of aggression and drug use. I always think the whole neighbourhood I grew up in were psychopaths. Im still on high alert when I go outside nowadays, because outside was always dangerous, but Im doing better nowadays. I wont let fear control me anymore, thats no life. When I reached 20 I turned too drugs too cope with all the anxiety and frustration I build up throughout the years, that was a very bad choice, but Im almost out of that nightmare, I take it one day at the time. Do net let your past define who you are and especially do not drown in your own sorrow. You gotta be prepared too fight for your life, or else you will live a life of regret and I already regret far too much. Take care

  • @juliedorman1858
    @juliedorman1858 4 роки тому +33

    I climbed that mountain. It's a beautiful view up here.

    • @siddhantmishra3598
      @siddhantmishra3598 3 роки тому +1

      Plz be there to guide me once I reach there too . Don’t leave the peak abandoned

    • @hummingbird2254
      @hummingbird2254 2 роки тому

      I'm still heading up the slope. Sometimes I lose my footing and slide down a bit, but I'll never stop trying.

    • @irina2633
      @irina2633 16 днів тому

      How’s the climbing going guys?

  • @timrichardson4018
    @timrichardson4018 4 роки тому +53

    So many of Jung's sayings and insights correspond to my own experience. Over the years, I've learned from experience that if I'm in a cycle of anxiety/depression and want to change it, I have to do something different. That sounds so obvious, but it's hard for someone in that position to realize, because they are trapped in a positive feed back loop of symptoms leading to isolating and debilitating behavior which just reinforces the symptoms. If I'm feeling socially isolated, I have to consciously make an effort to interact with people to get free of that feeling. But whatever the different thing is that must be done, it must be done intelligently. And it often doesn't have to be a big change, just a consistent one.

    • @yoya4766
      @yoya4766 2 роки тому +5

      Small consistent changes really help.

    • @forrest5549
      @forrest5549 Рік тому

      @@yoya4766 Wisdom.

  • @titlespree
    @titlespree 5 років тому +290

    Without self-esteem and respect for others, you cannot be true to your own values... Accept responsibility for your actions... Be accountable for your results... Take ownership of your mistakes.

    • @TheKbthakur
      @TheKbthakur 5 років тому +3

      Jon Goat that can't be true as long as you are human and not insane. values are not created they're discovered.

    • @Brigidz
      @Brigidz 5 років тому +4

      These are things one can do when one ISN"T in the depths of despair caused by any psychosis or psychiatric illness. What advice would you have for someone who is so ill they can't get out of bed each day?

    • @baloooification
      @baloooification 5 років тому +7

      What about nothing but respect and courtesy for others, but zero self esteem and respect?
      All others before myself, sounds good on paper, but in actuality is toxic.
      I've tried mental exercises and routines, nothing has helped as of yet.
      I'm worried for myself, any help would be appreciated.
      26yo Male/ "Successful" on paper/ kind, keen, and well adjusted from outside perspective.
      ....asking for help in UA-cam comments smh.

    • @BygoneT
      @BygoneT 5 років тому +3

      @@baloooification Self esteem is a myth. Self confidence is what you need to replace it with. The issue is that literally everyone, for all their lives in the west, think self esteem exists. You do, and you need to understand why it doesn't.
      Self esteem is basically "I like myself based on X". Nonsense. You do not control what you like, you don't control what you don't like. What you can do, is get accustomed to it and hope your body chemistry can be tricked into gaining self confidence.
      As for how exactly to gain self confidence, that's difficult and extremely personal. I don't know you, I can't help you except for a few pointers.
      First of all you need something you at the very least don't mind doing. It doesn't matter what it is, find it. It's better if you like it. It needs to be something you have a basic understanding, or almost basically nothing of. The reason for this, is that there needs to be room for growth. Then you need to get good at it.
      People enjoy and gain confidence in what they do, only if it takes time to do so. If it's too short, the easy feeling distorts your view of reality and can make you depressed (highly intelligent people are often like this). But if it's too long, it feels like no progress has been made, and any self confidence acquired will not be evident to you.
      To make sure you notice your progress, try hard and make it a regular part of your life.
      For the rest, you need a therapist, a good one that understands your problem. You need to feel someone cares about what you're doing, and thinks your efforts are worth it. So do not hold any secrets with a therapist, it's completely useless otherwise.
      Also, read this: www.google.it/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/ironshrink/201208/why-i-dont-care-about-my-daughters-self-esteem%3famp

    • @lynkent677
      @lynkent677 5 років тому

      @@baloooification Google narcissisim .....these are very toxic
      Merdith Miller on Utube is very good...

  • @harrysmyth4540
    @harrysmyth4540 5 років тому +143

    OCD made me neglect any social obligation, including my relationship. Neuroses
    can totally throw your whole life off course without you even noticing it until you have the benefit of hindsight. Regardless of the hell it was, those experiences make you far richer

    • @seahornet100
      @seahornet100 5 років тому +34

      OCD turned me against myself, fighting against myself 24 hours a day. It throws your life off course because you are too busy fighting a battle against your brain. The one thing I greatly learned from my experience is that you can make it out the other side of most things life throws at you. Because there will always be more battles to overcome.

    • @harrysmyth4540
      @harrysmyth4540 5 років тому +16

      @@seahornet100 man, that is accurate beyond description. Constantly warring with yourself from the moment you get up. At the worse points, I vividly remember not wanting to get out of bed just because I knew what was to come

    • @edemont333
      @edemont333 5 років тому +11

      @Jon Goat As someone who struggles with OCD and is in a bad way right now, I hope you're wrong. I'm currently struggling to save my life.

    • @Brigidz
      @Brigidz 5 років тому +11

      @@edemont333 I understand your struggle. Could you try meditation? Even for 30 seconds. Or 15 seconds. Please seek help if you are in danger of hurting yourself. You are a valuable member of society

    • @harrysmyth4540
      @harrysmyth4540 5 років тому +10

      ​@@edemont333 there are at least three examples in this comment thread of people who have lived through it. There's a way out of most things in life; OCD is one of them. What @Brigidz says is so right. Your existence is valuable, regardless of how miserable it is at this point in time. Also, daily Vipassana meditation has helped me and so many others (ones without OCD, ones with etc)

  • @litao3679
    @litao3679 4 роки тому +89

    That is what depression and anxiety does to you, makes you feel like you're partly dead while you're still alive. An insideous illness that robs you of Life/Love. I wish anyone that's reading this much health and happiness on your journey through time and space. 🕉️🙏

    • @user-gz9wt8vj7f
      @user-gz9wt8vj7f 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you, I wish you health and happiness too

    • @litao3679
      @litao3679 2 роки тому

      @@user-gz9wt8vj7f thank you so much 💛🙏

    • @genkiferal7178
      @genkiferal7178 Рік тому +2

      I lived that way for 30+ years and wasted most of my youth. Wish I had a do-over.

    • @litao3679
      @litao3679 Рік тому

      @@genkiferal7178 me too Genki. Me too

    • @channel8-bit433
      @channel8-bit433 10 місяців тому

      Anxiety is a symptom of bartonella and babesia.

  • @lastminutewonder9602
    @lastminutewonder9602 3 роки тому +10

    Carl jung is a genius! I have had anxiety for years now and it only gets better when i accomplish something!

  • @shadyeighty1
    @shadyeighty1 5 років тому +79

    Great video. Neurosis usually pushes people to the side, as Jung said. It makes people become spectators of life, not it's main players. Whenever I feel the neurosis build up, I remind myself that I just won't let it take me out of the game of life & force me to play a secondary role in my own spectacle... It's more useful to plant your feet firmly on the ground and not retreat from the neurosis but rather withstand it and don't let it box you in!!!

    • @echofoxtrot2.051
      @echofoxtrot2.051 2 роки тому

      I was doing better until I got into a 5 year abusive relationship and now I'm finding my way back up.

  • @tahaadarozsoy8766
    @tahaadarozsoy8766 8 місяців тому +4

    Just to think that we have took the first step on Jung's way of beating anxiety and neurocisism just by clicking on this video, is really heartening and comforting. All that's left is to be bold on the real world and then to be healed and stronger.

  • @Veilzlol
    @Veilzlol 5 років тому +35

    That first quote might have had a more profound impact than anything I have ever read. Standing aside to avoid pain is always a choice in favor of death, take control, live life, the pain is worth it.
    This comes from somebody who almost rarely left the house. I have accomplished so much more in two weeks than I have in two years through the change of perspective.

  • @lecramtsourp2801
    @lecramtsourp2801 5 років тому +60

    for me it started when i finally decided to quit smoking .. you just need ONE BIG resolution, go through with it, and the rest will follow
    but i think the key is to take your time : it was not like "today i quit smokin" , it was more like "i KNOW that i WILL quit smoking, i want to"
    take a big decision, make sure that it is what you want, and take your time (be kind to yourself ) : this is my advice

    • @Dreezzable
      @Dreezzable 5 років тому +1

      More power to you.

    • @vibes3626
      @vibes3626 4 роки тому +2

      Try Nofap

    • @gonzo8450
      @gonzo8450 4 роки тому

      I had this weird dream in the middle of the night. I had to watch videos after to be sure what the dream was about. It's been 2 weeks now... No cigarettes, no fap better diet and now this video.... Ooh and the coronas virus help to change habits!

  • @dattagrace
    @dattagrace 5 років тому +55

    You are changing lives! Thank you!!! As I am on the cusp of overcoming a 2-year phase of depression and anxiety, this video just sums up all the core reasons why I reached this state.

  • @DeusEx3
    @DeusEx3 5 років тому +86

    This is so good, thank you so much.
    I think I'm starting to understand this affliction... I'm scared to live but I think I've passed the point where I'm actually more scared of going on not living.
    It's a constant struggle though. One step at a time. I can't see the summit but I can hear the wind, whispering my name, urging me closer. Sometimes I look back and see how far I've come, the obstacles I've overcome, and the times I thought I'd surely die only to find out that the thing I was so afraid of was something I had constructed in my mind; it's so small and harmless in hindsight. Well, I guess sometimes things just plain suck, but that's when you learn the most - once the dust have settled.
    Not once would I have died if I would just done what needed to be done and not waste a thought on the what-ifs, preserving energy for practical matters and enabling rest and recuperation in between trials. Going with it and staying present is what enables you to succeed; if you'd truly care about the odds being in your favor instead of running away you wouldn't be tying yourself in knots just to give birth to this self-fullfilling prophecy of failure and inadequacy.
    I guess you gotta stop being at war with yourself and this life.

    • @wilhelmschroder4929
      @wilhelmschroder4929 5 років тому +5

      Deus Ex nicely put

    • @CreativeCat333
      @CreativeCat333 5 років тому +2

      Thanks!

    • @DeusEx3
      @DeusEx3 5 років тому +5

      @Reerei Dia I just had some sausage stroganoff and a dark chocolate and ginger flapjack, so I'd say I'm doing pretty good 👍

    • @mikeg7307
      @mikeg7307 5 років тому

      Excellent

    • @Dreezzable
      @Dreezzable 5 років тому +1

      Well put. Being conflicted for too long is partial suicide, it's the worst position to be in

  • @Emergingpker
    @Emergingpker 5 років тому +252

    jung was way ahead of time

    • @arch7143
      @arch7143 5 років тому +16

      His parents haven't met yet.

    • @thatnibbafromthechuninexam1831
      @thatnibbafromthechuninexam1831 5 років тому +49

      Not really. He was addressing issues of his time that in reality are problems that have existed in humans since our inception.

    • @Emergingpker
      @Emergingpker 5 років тому +9

      @@thatnibbafromthechuninexam1831 not what im talking about. Im talking about his perceptions and ideas of the human psyche and reality at the core

    • @djangotrane
      @djangotrane 5 років тому +27

      SE9 you two are saying a similar thing but from different vantage points. If anything, folks today are behind the times. There was a lot of brilliance in the early twentieth century which hasn't really been surpassed.

    • @gabykappscomposermariagabr749
      @gabykappscomposermariagabr749 5 років тому +2

      @@djangotrane Totally agree.

  • @jpjanpokorny
    @jpjanpokorny 5 років тому +30

    I love the paintings that you put in your videos, just beautiful

  • @MatthewJohnCrittenden
    @MatthewJohnCrittenden 5 років тому +42

    Everybody Carl Jung Tonight.

  • @Greylin91
    @Greylin91 3 роки тому +36

    This has described my life so perfectly. I live in my head, i constantly worry and fret. I feel anxiety most of the time.
    This has meant I've neglected the typical duties of life which are the difficult and meaningful ones. I feel like i've not developed in the past several years in any aspect, I've actually gotten worse. My bad habits are more plentiful than before, the good noble things are being squeezed out. I have no career or any hope of one, zero prospect of a relationship and my pool of friends dwindles as they move on in life. I am seriously worried that when my friends truly settle down with a long term partner and have children i will be completely isolated.
    I appreciate this video because it clarifies a great deal in an intelligent way.

    • @user-wm1lx9sg2p
      @user-wm1lx9sg2p 11 місяців тому

      Not all ur friends relationships will be smooth, ur friends, the fathers could use a mate to hang out with every once in a while

    • @notoriousosc1669
      @notoriousosc1669 10 місяців тому

      How are you today my friend?

    • @londongirl1321
      @londongirl1321 28 днів тому

      How are you today? I hope your In a more healthy mindframe

  • @HCPairbrush
    @HCPairbrush 4 роки тому +23

    I've been dealing with anxiety for nearly 20 years. I've come to the conclusion that whatever I've been doing, I've been doing it wrong. This video hit at the perfect time. My thanks to Academy of Ideas for putting this out there. This is going to be a rough road ahead, and I'm not even sure how to go about it, but screw it, here goes nothing, right?

    • @diogoribeiro3811
      @diogoribeiro3811 11 місяців тому +2

      be present and embrace whatever happens ,find positive things that mean something to you when you feel weak or defeated , life is what you make of it , be happy and be satisfied with yourself , you have no reasons to not do it when you dig deep

    • @notoriousosc1669
      @notoriousosc1669 10 місяців тому

      How are you today?

    • @inner_zen_peace
      @inner_zen_peace 10 місяців тому +2

      The tide that brings you to become a better person will come...if you do...ride it..be patient...do what what you think is good for you...dont judge yourself to other person...you are who you are..

  • @Kakashi75
    @Kakashi75 5 років тому +66

    You have helped me through the toughest of times with your incredibly timely videos thank you

    • @mephala7446
      @mephala7446 5 років тому +5

      Good luck man it ain't easy but we're not alone!

    • @ivantomic6799
      @ivantomic6799 3 роки тому +2

      What a beautiful thing to hear.God bless you

    • @Kakashi75
      @Kakashi75 3 роки тому +2

      @@ivantomic6799 thank you

  • @Luisa4911
    @Luisa4911 3 роки тому +1

    I love these videos. Everytime I watch them, I feel more stimulated and ready for the day.
    Thank you so much for making them - keep going!

  • @jackwebb3757
    @jackwebb3757 5 років тому +47

    My favourite kind of notification!

    • @fredericmoresmau4303
      @fredericmoresmau4303 5 років тому

      Weil die such nur so mirgegenüber verhalten haben weil die situation es in their favor hergegeben hat

  • @davidr7619
    @davidr7619 5 років тому +11

    I needed to hear this, thanks... I feel like I've got a bit of a way to go at least I feel encouraged to hear that the focus shouldn't be simply waiting for the neurosis to diminish before acting.
    "Only boldness can deliver from fear"

  • @akpakp369
    @akpakp369 4 роки тому +3

    A true genius in the releam of psychology; who defined humen mind without scientific and materialistic prejudice. The picture of archetypes and collective unconscious can be emerged only from a highly motivated and enlightened mind. I realise the world much better in Jungian perspective.

  • @Raapadap
    @Raapadap 5 років тому +8

    The potential of this knowledge to help others is astounding. Thank you so much for putting this together. May we all be able to manifest these lessons within our own lives.

  • @YoChoppa_
    @YoChoppa_ 5 років тому +2

    Your channel is like a blessing on people like us suffering from some form of neurosis. Thank goodness this channel exists. And thanks a lot for making this one too.

  • @joshchapman4753
    @joshchapman4753 4 роки тому +3

    This was just so perfectly articulated, I keep coming back to it.

  • @the.kai.eros.experience
    @the.kai.eros.experience 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this video.
    It hits so deeply.
    I am 34.
    I have lived this way most of my life.
    The last few years i traveled and explored.
    Then a powerful plant medicine experience highlighted the extreme neurosis.
    I was extremely suicidal and bed ridden for months, back at my parents’ home.
    I’ve grown a lot and experienced many things.
    Yet I still feel like I’m not fully participating.
    I venture out then come back to the “safety” of the neurosis.
    It’s the most challenging thing i have ever imagined.
    And yet, there’s no option.
    The suicidal ideation is still there but not one I’ll act upon.
    I cannot go back. I cannot pause time.
    I must embrace the responsibility and growth of really living.

    • @visitorianserg5186
      @visitorianserg5186 3 місяці тому

      I'm 27 and this helps me a lot that the distress has significantly reduced, this is a catalyst for growth and transformation, the distress is a mere signal, an alert message and a sign that there is amiss in our lives

  • @Markhortough
    @Markhortough 5 років тому +1

    The amount of profundity this channel exudes is both mentally stimulating and relaxing. Honestly thank you for all your work.

  • @jagban3921
    @jagban3921 5 років тому +19

    I rarely comment on videos, but i just wanted to thank you, Academy of Ideas, for making such great videos. I loved this one in particular as i could relate to it a lot. So well researched and i love the type of presentation with pictures of paintings in slide format, with the narration in background. And everything is quoted from the philosophophers' works, no opinions, only transmission of previous knowledge. Everything is perfect!

  • @rdalldmaster
    @rdalldmaster 5 років тому +6

    Felt this one in my Soul.
    Once again, Incredible Work.

  • @rye41308
    @rye41308 5 років тому

    I got chills after you read the first paragraph in this video. It went straight to the soul of my condition and I felt understood. Thank you 🙌

  • @pezraya5210
    @pezraya5210 8 місяців тому

    You can't imagine how much you've help me. Right content at the right time. Thank you so much.

  • @Iamfga
    @Iamfga 4 роки тому +16

    Acceptance + Pain = Pain
    Non-Acceptance + Pain = Suffering + Pain
    Choose wisely brothers and sisters. May we climb the mountain and discover our strength.

  • @irishbritt30
    @irishbritt30 3 роки тому +3

    Well. I have a brand new perspective now. And a renewed desire to face my fears instead of avoid them. I needed to hear this.

  • @nibshuggles6008
    @nibshuggles6008 4 роки тому +2

    This video directly addresses me in ways I thought impossible. I am ordering Jung's works mentioned in this video and am going back to further my education this morning.
    Thank you.

  • @emanuelbraga399
    @emanuelbraga399 5 років тому

    i need to thank you. it's like these videos on jung's take of anxiety were made FOR ME. i felt every word. your work here is extremely appreciated. cheers from brazil.

  • @pocketstring3634
    @pocketstring3634 3 роки тому +3

    Suffered from anxiety, alienation, and self control problems, well, all my life, but in high school, it was finally too much. I started therapy trying various therapies and therapist. Finally at 50, I was diagnosed with Aspergers. I want my money back from all that therapy.

  • @itisTHEMUFFINMAN
    @itisTHEMUFFINMAN 5 років тому +6

    This applies to almost anyone. Not just those suffering from anxiety disorders/neuroticism. Give almost anyone a complete representation of who they truly are and they will run from the newly gained knowledge.

  • @caiosanjuanc
    @caiosanjuanc 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for this, it's so relevant to me. Great work, not only for the message but also the paintings you used to accompany it.

  • @SanguineUltima
    @SanguineUltima 4 роки тому +5

    I couldn't stop crying while watching this. I spent my entire 20s hiding from the world. Is there life after 30? I feel like I am an old man with the mind and experiences of a young boy.

    • @northstar5919
      @northstar5919 4 роки тому +1

      Dont count years live day by day. Find something that makes you happy

  • @aisling0880
    @aisling0880 5 років тому +4

    Hoooooly f...Not only do I finally understand what everyone means with you guys perfectly timing your videos with life's hardships, but this one hit home so hard. I have spent the last two years, on-and-off, trying to figure out my personal reasons for falling into neurosis, only to discover that the answer didn't give me too much relief, and the situation persists. This here, feels like the last piece of my puzzle. Now I just have to turn it around and make the picture complete, and hopefully, start doing the right thing.Thank you so much for your work. Please never stop.

    • @dattagrace
      @dattagrace 5 років тому +2

      Exactly the case with me. I dipped into a 2-year phase of anxiety and neurosis. This video summed up some of the realizations I've had on my path to recovery and just added so much more! May we access all of the personal empowerment to turn our ship around!

  • @rymesweet9008
    @rymesweet9008 4 роки тому +7

    We are led to believe something is wrong with us anxiety riddled people when its just our psyche trying to restablize itself by signaling an underlying problem in the form of psychological discomfort.. what an eye opening series thank you Academy of Ideas !

    • @JGalegria
      @JGalegria 10 місяців тому

      That's not what Jung was saying. He never said the anxiety disorder isn't a disorder or that there was nothing underlying it.

  • @raamizeineddine8384
    @raamizeineddine8384 3 роки тому

    This is the most I’ve taken from a video out of all the countless mind numbing ones I’ve watched throughout my life. Thank you.

  • @alohi79
    @alohi79 5 років тому +9

    Thank you for taking the time to make this.

    • @RTWGraphics
      @RTWGraphics 4 роки тому

      This is the best channel of any medium

  • @josetorres3355
    @josetorres3355 5 років тому +25

    Today is going to be a good day!

    • @anthonygarcia3097
      @anthonygarcia3097 4 роки тому +1

      I say that to myself everyday. Guest what it works.

  • @akxnehtgdfbdfb7448
    @akxnehtgdfbdfb7448 4 роки тому +3

    I feel like this video speaks exactly to where I am in my life, avoiding , hiding, but not able to escape my true desires

  • @dingding4898
    @dingding4898 10 місяців тому

    This is it! This is what I've been trying to find on youtube all these years!

  • @patriciaanndemello4652
    @patriciaanndemello4652 2 роки тому +1

    The art is such a compliment to the narrative.

  • @superwokemarketing
    @superwokemarketing 5 років тому +7

    Your content is staggeringly good, thankyou

  • @matty9738
    @matty9738 5 років тому +5

    The art you use is stunning

  • @c.galindo9639
    @c.galindo9639 2 роки тому

    This hits me personally in such a strong sense. It’s like a revelation that is difficult to come to grips with. Thank you for this video

  • @Ozoal
    @Ozoal 5 років тому

    Your work is the very definition of inspiration.
    Waiting patiently for you next video.
    ...
    Thank you

  • @destinedtobedifferent9921
    @destinedtobedifferent9921 5 років тому +22

    I was waiting for this

  • @patrickdaniel7760
    @patrickdaniel7760 5 років тому +3

    Beautiful. Need to hear stuff like this. Jung is changing my life

  • @pma80800
    @pma80800 5 років тому +1

    Thank you very much for these extraordinary videos! In the past I searched and searched for advice on how to live life without feeling so anxious and I didn't find something to satisfy me. Now I have come to the conclusion that there are no final answers that can satisfy me, but your videos do great to give a hint of the road one should pursue in life.
    It seems that the great people from the past: Nietzsche, Jung and many others are the ones who tried the most to elucidate the nature of humans. They are the ones worth studying.

  • @giacasablancas1499
    @giacasablancas1499 4 роки тому

    Thanks YT for listening to my convos with my mom. Dealing with a lot of anxieties and slipping in/out of depression.

  • @aoifemeates3382
    @aoifemeates3382 5 років тому +17

    This may have just changed my life

  • @FRVrecords
    @FRVrecords 4 роки тому +5

    Hands down the beat video I have ever seen on Anxiety. I've seen 1000s...

  • @alaa88888
    @alaa88888 5 років тому +2

    Iam really glad i came across this.. it is trur that when the student is ready the teacher appears.
    Thank you for this 🕯

  • @AnuragKumar-ik1kc
    @AnuragKumar-ik1kc 5 років тому +2

    Amazing video! It's changed my perspective completely. Thank you for bringing this to me

  • @leeorshimhoni8949
    @leeorshimhoni8949 5 років тому +19

    Carl Jung is a genius.
    excellent video. superb.

  • @Emomomotional
    @Emomomotional 2 роки тому +4

    Summarizing points, Carl Jung:
    The neurotic should be cautious of conformity. Some people are neurotic because of an acute sense of the inadequacies inherent in the dominant way of life. So long as they strive for conformity, they will remain trapped in their suffering.
    Those who overcome their neurotic nature are often more capable because of their ability to use their neurotic nature for growth.
    "The energy stored up for the solution of the task flows back into the old riverbeds and the obsolete systems of the past are filled up again" rendering neurotic conditions as a symptom of the mind attempting to right itself rather than the condition itself.

  • @RantTherapist
    @RantTherapist 4 роки тому

    You are awesome. I needed to hear this. Subscribed.
    I am finally ready to be accountable and put in the hard work, to get where I want to go, and to gain my complete self-reliant independence. Thanks brother.

  • @TheFBIorange
    @TheFBIorange 5 років тому

    Been waiting for this one - beautifully done. Your channel is an inspiration to me

  • @OceanSwimmer
    @OceanSwimmer 4 роки тому +5

    Moved me to tears.
    Such a leap of faith required to envision oneself to the life I would like to live!
    If possible, the only cure is movement towards that life!

  • @mooneyes2833
    @mooneyes2833 5 років тому +43

    "Only boldness can deliver from fear"....as an Agoraphobic....this is truth...if im not afraid to die...then I should not be afraid to live! Bravery is key

    • @mariamadongrupa3726
      @mariamadongrupa3726 4 роки тому

      Omg Moon Eyes,hi. I m agoraphobic too. How to you manage your life? How do u cope with it? .
      .

    • @mirtaifiqbal1952
      @mirtaifiqbal1952 2 роки тому

      I am also agoraphobic

    • @robans702
      @robans702 10 місяців тому +1

      what a great line my man!

  • @syzygy4365
    @syzygy4365 Рік тому

    I realized earlier today just how bad my fears have taken over my life. This is seriously just what I needed to push me forward on my path. Thank you soooo much!!! 🥰

  • @iliya-ce4gs
    @iliya-ce4gs 3 роки тому +2

    i keep finding myself watching this channel in the morning at about 5 AM before going to sleep right about when the guilt from the procrastination sinks in after i'd completely wasted my entire day in mindless distractions. i guess it helps me swallow it all up and go to bed in peace

  • @markblanc5993
    @markblanc5993 10 місяців тому +3

    Feel I need to weigh in on this. Lots of abusive family trauma had me in this ring for most of my childhood and 20s and 30s too. For me it was fighting, literally fighting which turned me toward healing. Got some bad scars for momentos but I can pin point the fight and the night I turned it around. After that, I learned to begin accepting what I was and that opened up to replacing fears and negativity with proactive loving for the present and hope for the future.

  • @Nisfornarwhal1990
    @Nisfornarwhal1990 3 роки тому +2

    This is incredible. The part about "what would you do in life if you didn't have neurotic anxiety? Go do that, and bring your anxiety and pain with you" is incredibleamazing advice I will do my best to hold on to

  • @Ironfrog-dm3yf
    @Ironfrog-dm3yf 5 років тому

    AMAZING 2 PART SERIES!! I'm so happy I found your channel today

  • @Lilasun
    @Lilasun 2 роки тому

    This is awesome. And I truly appreciate the masterful works of art that accompany the words. Thank you!

  • @kkly27
    @kkly27 4 роки тому +7

    My god, I needed to hear this! I have spent my life standing on the sidelines and burying my head in the sand in order to avoid situations that make me uncomfortable and/or are potentially embarrassing. Even when it comes to situations that call for me voicing an opinion I tend to sit on the fence. Sad to hear that there seems to be nothing I can do to help except for forcing myself to feel uncomfortable and face my fears.

    • @JGalegria
      @JGalegria 10 місяців тому

      Look up the "window of tolerance" and "exposure therapy" 👍

    • @kkly27
      @kkly27 10 місяців тому

      @@JGalegria thanks! Looked up WoT and mine is obviously very narrow! I’ll look more into these. Thanks again

  • @martinsimbona6145
    @martinsimbona6145 5 років тому +50

    If you stop looking for the definition of NEUROSIS from a dictionary, you will then realize that many people out here are neurotics, each in their respective degrees.
    I, too, badly needed this advice to move with life.

    • @kennethchay1098
      @kennethchay1098 5 років тому +6

      "The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation." Henry David Thoreau (Walden) As true today as it was in 1850.

    • @geoattoronto
      @geoattoronto 4 роки тому

      Most?

  • @rehanjamshed2936
    @rehanjamshed2936 5 років тому

    Can I just take some time to appreciate the work you are doing? It's amazing how much quality your content has and almost all of your videos seem as if they were made for me lol , Just keep doing the good work!

  • @LuisFernandoImperator
    @LuisFernandoImperator 5 років тому +1

    I've studied a lot of philosophy and psycbology. This may be the most impactful video for me I have ever watched, in a long while. Thank you for this.

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 років тому +36

    With hard work we can overcome our anxiety 🔥

    • @adith520
      @adith520 5 років тому +14

      @Jon Goat We may fail, but living a life in which we fight against our illness/anxiety/whatever problem is the best way we can live, rather than living scared and turning our head away from whatever problem we have in front of us. Passivity causes more illness than failing a thousand times or even failing till death.

    • @Shadow77999
      @Shadow77999 3 роки тому

      @@adith520 based

  • @angelagoodwin5758
    @angelagoodwin5758 2 роки тому +2

    The phrase "Feel the fear and do it anyway" applies here. Great video!

  • @damierhess1944
    @damierhess1944 5 років тому +2

    Estaba esperando este video!! Gracias por tu trabajo!

  • @evaoma8879
    @evaoma8879 5 років тому

    I really needed a video like this. Thanks for the upload!

  • @philiplynch6699
    @philiplynch6699 5 років тому +5

    Man I needed that Pep talk !!! Onwards and Upwards !!!

  • @LetsFindOut1
    @LetsFindOut1 5 років тому +263

    "When you're old, you'll be more regretful of the things you didn't do, than the mistakes you made from the things you did." PS: You sound so similar to "What I learned" it's uncanny. lol.

  • @obsidianbutterfly2099
    @obsidianbutterfly2099 4 роки тому +1

    Perfectly done. Just what I need to confront my procrastination. The quotes were like hear my conscience talk back to me.