My engagement ended in the worst heartbreak!
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Bahati Hilda Sabiti is a trendsetter for her generation. She is the Founder and Lead influencer at Hold My Hand.
Hold My Hand is a vibrant growth space that impacts people of all ages, socioeconomic classes, and ethnic backgrounds! Bridging the gap between where they are and where they really want to be.
She holds a Bachelor of Counseling Guidance from Kyambogo University, A masters in Positive Applied Psychology from Capella University and a Doctorate in Human Relationships from Wilfrid Laurier University.
She is married to Tim Sabiti, and they are the proud parents of three children, Ariella Sabiti, Ariel Sabiti, and Asahel Sabiti.
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My baby daddy cancelled our kukyala a week before.. zero notice, zero cheating ,. Only for me to see his kukyala on social media sooner. I was a broken broke single mum.. in despair. God came through in biiiiiiggg ways ... Im currently a regional manager in one of the biggest banks in the world. Who am I! My baby gets everything he wants. Surely..Glory to God . I'm healed
So sad but beautiful ending
So sad, we thank God who enabled to come through this. Me my husband and I were going through fertility treatment, on our 5th anniversary he posted a picture of another woman, when we talked about it he said it’s because I can’t get pregnant, on the day we had to do the ivf he walked out, a month later he calls me to say that the girlfriend is pregnant, they both called me to laugh at me, went on social media explaining to everyone that he left me because of my infertility, how embarrassing!!!! I’m healed from that now, I have now a very amazing partner, waiting for the day the Lord will bless my womb amen 🙏
@@doras6772so sorry to read this. But you are healed, that's what is important my angel. Hubby is not worth crying for....
Look at God my angel. Congratulations on your career success. Love stories like this, of restoration.
Dora, your bundles of joy are coming! Joining my faith to yours
Naye mwe heart break hurts especially when your life was rotating around that person, 😢😢prayers to everyone who is healing.
Mwanagwe you may feel like your heart is going out
Its not easy to heal
Healing is just easy when being said but ah, I have been there and still healing
FROM SELLING SWEETS AND WASHING CLOTHS AROUND HOSTELS AS A STUDENT IN KYU. I AM NOW FINALIZING MY MASTERS LEVEL IN PUBLIC HEALTH. FROM ZERO VISION AS A TENNAGER ABOUT LIFE, NOW I HAVE A GREAT VISION OF ADVOCATING FOR GOOD HEALTH, 6 FIGURE SALARY FROM A JOB ACHIEVED THROUGH FAITH AND HAPPY THAT CHRIST WILL MAKE OTHER THINGS WORK OUT...... CELEBRATED 29 LAST WEEK IN THANKS GIVING.
Wowwwwwww a true champion
Shine your Shine🎉 ✴️🌟✨
God is in control for sure
Go Girllllllll, super proud of you and all your achievements....
Shaming thanks for accepting Christ, He gonna make new wonderful things that your ears have ever heard or your eyes have ever seen 1cor. 2:9
Watching this while abandoned with pregnancy he left saying that i became vulnerable just because of the 1st trimester laziness 😢the Lord shall walk me thru this, thank you ladies for positive stories am encouraged
May God see you through
You are a conqueror . The one in you is greater
That's only a step in life dear God will c u through.
It shall pass.
One day you'll be the one telling your story. Keep your child whatever the situation. God will see you through. Pray, confess, fast (not food because you are pregnant but other things like social media). An opening will surely come
I am admiring this beautiful lady in a red dress, watching from South Africa as a South African Zulu girl... I am left speechless such beauty rare beauty❤❤❤... Umuhle dadewethu🙏🏾🙏🏾
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; each is different. What works for one couple may not work for another. However, I've realized that there's always a way to resolve issues. Five years ago, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of marital difficulties, but we managed to reconcile.
Your words hold great meaning, and I sincerely hope my sentiments are in harmony with yours. Despite our current separation, I cannot picture my life without her; my love for her is profound. I long to have her back, and I'm willing to make any sacrifice to achieve reconciliation. We've explored various paths, including therapy, in our journey to mend our relationship.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
You definitely should.
I sure needed this, been going through a horrible heartbreak, thought of suicide in so many ways, this man throwing away what we built physically and emotionally like it never existed hurt me to the core. a week after i had left he had replaced me already. thank you Hilda for these amazing people you host and we learn from their experiences.
You dont need to throw away yourself. your relationship with God is more important
That part of 'Maama,omutima gunuma.'...The pain must have been beyond resilience
It was really painful but God is faithful all the time and forever 🙏
That word I once mentioned it. Indeed omutima guluma. It happened to me
I found myself with real tears rolling. Is it something unhealed in me? But anyway that part is a real emotional part.
True. Thank God her mother was empathetic AND prayerful
I cried after hearing mum omutima gunuma
Landing on this story reminds of what I went through, the guy cancelled the kukyala two days to the day... Ahhh that day is still a nightmare but this God... And actually the only place I had to cry to was when I would be leading worship... But God had a good plan for me
So sorry dear, same here...he cancelled a week to the wedding. How did you heal dear 😢
@@KyeeyoTalk it was by the grace of God, through prayers and having a dear friend holding me in prayers healed me but when I look back now I praise Jesus that I never got married to him, I was young I don't think we would still be together but now am happily married glory to God
Woow you should be hosted otuwe details banange 😢
WoG, I would never have guessed that you have been through this. Indeed God washed that off your lineage.
Am in such a situation of single mum am couraged God will really heal and provide for me and my son I have faith one day testify
You actually dodged a bullet… that man had a lot of issues
Truuue
Just got on this page ...to look for something to lift my soul because all things around me feel like won't come to pass!
I'm in the same situation. I lost everything in the name of love. Everything. Struggling with suicidal thoughts but I am keeping my faith in God to restore and rebuild me. To everyone going through tough times, I'm praying with you 🙏🏽
I remember on 23rd Jan 2024 I called my pastor and I told him the same statement while broken I told him pastor omutima gunuma…I added on and told him pastor salvation is hard 😢😢😢because I felt I need to get my self drunk till I black out but fear of salvation and God hindered me from doing so 😢😢
Julian this is powerful
May God bless mothers who stand with their daughters no matter what! You never know what would have happened to her...
Bambi mama ye mama that part when she held you close nga omutima gukuluma just made me shade a tear as a mother bambi thanks for sharing your testimony ❤ 😢
Same here... It was the most touching part.... She's an angel
Narcissists r the worst people to be intimate with😢
Worst is an understatement
This guy was a narcissist
is it a preserve of males? cuz i never see any man say he married a narcissist.. oh i forgot. wimin ar always right
“Thank you my love” could even have caused the married friend trouble if his wife found that message
Definitely. She was clearly very young and still trying to figure out herself and life and relationships 🤔
Thank you for the night my love😮 just a few if not none could easily understand. Given his insecurity issues, you couldn't expect less
When the love of your life breaks your heart in the least expected ways, there is a pain in your heart as if it is a HEART ATTACK. We feel actual pain in our chest and body. Others think we are being dramatic but the truth is that there is actual physical pain that we experience. This pain is felt because our brain picks up on intense emotional pain and responds as if it is physical. Though the pain may not be visible the body is so much hurting
Her story is somehow same with me.....fearing to start over when the person u had hopes in has betrayed u....i remember the sleepless nights and tears .... literally i was also dying but i thank God i never received suicidal thoughts becoz of my baby....so God used her to give me a reason for living😢....thank u Jesus.....am still healing...i know one day God will bring in someone in His will.Amen
Sweet heart... Starting again is the biggest fear😢😢😢
That mum hug moment made me so teary
Honestly it got me emotional 😢
Too emotional
I loved that moment
I was missing alot listening to these stories alot is happening in my life but now I can handle every situation! Thankyou lord ❤
Hilda's book saved me "deliberately selfish"i was dating an abuser then & didn't know myself at all.
Where can I get Hildas book and how much
@@maitracy917 please contact her or try uganda book shop.
Wow, what an amazing testimony, indeed God has a way of coming in when the devil thinks he's won, We give God all the glory.
Hello madam bahati thank you so much for hosting madam Stella. Am looking for her I don't know how to get to her . Kindly help me out . God bless you 🙏🥰
Thank you Birungi for sharing your story.
I’ve been going through a healing process of shame.
As the Lord lives God is in control.
God never ends the story until he brings the glory
I actually noted it too so beautiful
Amen and true
I love your show Hilda. For those who do not understand Luganda, please put English sub-titles. Though your show is mostly in English, once in a while you throw in vernacular. A fan from Kenya.
True, cater for your wider audience
Please also from Kenya
Same concern. Your fan from Kenya
me too, from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼, but l love ❤️ the show
The stories we all have to tell,the heart break while 2weeks pregnant,the times I prayed for death to take me and the baby in me and all the times I woke up alive and got angry at God that with all His mighty power He couldn't take me in the night ...this life,i pray I ever get the courage to tell my story. Maybe it will be the start of total healing ...3yrs now and everything is still fresh,the pain is still real and new but I will get there. Amen
I pray that you one day heal
@@basketballdiaries2846 Amen,thank you so much 🙏
Hugs
Guma mukwano
I’m glad I heard this 😢my soul needed it.
I came across this platform today and it has really changed my life. Thank you Hilda.God bless you 🙏 .
God never ends the story until He brings the Glory......deep one right there
Am man who behaves like that doesn't truly love you but rather obsessed and a narcissist
Are you actually happy to be that way????
May the merciful Lord transform you 🙏 cause its not good, the pain you cause to those people might come back to and in abundance 😢
As for mother's, l didn't grow up with her and l was hoping to reconnect by force this time round naye mukama had other plans for her. She's no more and am heart is bleeding. R.I.P my beloved mom Akiiki wange maawu.
Rip
Sorry for your loss dear, Ruhanga Akugumye
i can totally relate its like shes talking my life too guys what God cant do is not there what you ask him he will provide or eeven multiply
This is so beautiful. Found it on tiktok and had to follow through. Amazing journey for sister Birungi. What a journey
Wow! What a story! Very touching. I feel so happy that Stella is out of that heart break. May God bless her new relationship. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I can relate to Stellaz story @100%.I too met a rich guy at campus and even had twins together 😞😞he canceled kukyala three times and he never let me go nor did he commit 😏that’s how I’ve stayed confused for more than 10yrs Now with four babies .Im happy that I finally ended it last year .I pray I find true love one day as I follow my dreams too 🎉🎉
Wow
Banange dear Lady. We thank God
This has really touched me because i am just getting out of it 😢😢😢 heartbreak really hits deep 😢😢😢😢
Let's be strong am also getting out of it
Especially when the lies were alot then come to know the truth
@@shanieTemima and still pretend like he still needs you but in actual sense he knows that he is just wasting your time.
@@NAHAMedia Very true.
Ohhh dear 🫂 . It is well dear
She had very good support system, her friends and family
Falling asleep before taking the poison was a miracle 🙌🏿🙏🏿
Powerful, powerful testimony. Indeed God never ends the story until He gets the Glory! Amen!
I randomly clicked on this video but Stella you spoke directly to my soul... Am grateful to you for sharing your experience with all honesty. Ironically this msg was mine🙏
Wonderful!
Self discovery is the beginning of success in every area of our lives. God is Great! As ladies we are susceptible to narcissists because of ignorance that is why it is important to empower the Girl child.
Thank you Hilda for bringing in guests whose stories are impactful! Thank you Stella too for sharing your story, I believe many young girls will learn from it. Stay blessed
Am praying 🙏 that everyone knows they worth n purpose
N never gets suicidal thoughts
These just carry so much unknown rejection on our lives 😢
He was insecure it would have ended in tears better a broken engagement than a marriage. I hope God helped him also find confidence in God
❤Awesome God
Amen and Amen
Amen
“God never ends the story until he brings the glory to it”wooow wow my God🙏
wow. hope he does my mockery
These ladies are a catch,. Hilda is such an intelligent woman. Thank you ladies. Stella Congratulation to your future blessing. Thank you for your story its very encouraging.
I can listen to her story over and over. the most touching beat, when you told your mom,"omutiima gunuuma" I severely felt that
I know 😊
I think right now am in the same place Stella was in in 2017😢😢😢 l really don't know what to do Hilda 😢. I finished my final year papers yesterday.
Someone should tagg madam Stella birungi for me please 🙏. Thank you so much ❤
The lady is a good narrator, Hilda is also good listener inspiring story I hope to also overcome my storm with God being the center of it all ,much 💝
You will overcome
I believe God brought me here for the reason coz its what have been going through 😢but now am strong and believe that God is with me thru this pain 😢
What a testimony, am so encouraged and thankful to God for His timing is the best. One day i testify also.
You know when pple are telling us their stories there is a lot they don't tell us .but that message u sent to a married man "thank you my love " evenif i was the one ! U can't convince me that nothing was going on
Very true "thank you for the night " those two statements....
But we thank God because she came out stronger
i agree and im a woman. she expected the man to just let it roll over but it doesnt work that way
For sure these episodes are helping me positively.thanks alot
I like it when Hilda says - God never ends the story until he brings the glory.
Awwwww this is really incredible. God is great! Thank u Stella & Hilda for sharing.
You are so welcome
Every heavy heart out their,just know that the Lord is always near to the broken hearted, and He will you succed and most to learn and lean on Him❣️🙏🙏
I watched this story six months ago, and today I find myself in the same situation. I had started getting suicidal ideations then I remembered Birungi z story. I had to come back and rewatch it just to be able to trust God again 😥
A mother's prayer
That statement got me crying.
I miss that prayer and hug.
Am lost without mums' prayer
you can pray for them too. God listens to all. i find that when i pray for mine God does hear the prayers real quick|!
One thing I know is that God will not take you to a place he doesn't want you to be. We humans view disappointments as the end of the world, but years later, you realise God took you out of disaster. Praise God for his goodness towards us. Lol from Ghana 🇬🇭
Her story has bits of mine ..like that dark pit..and the non existent relationship with her mother..this story resonates with me deeply..am in the waiting period..but I know I will testify
Amen. May the Almighty see u thru
I pray i share my story one day. God heal and help me overcome this pain.😭😭 Its too much
"God never ends the story until he gets the glory". Wow. I will meditate on that indeed. Thanks for the testimony. I've learnt something, especially as someone waiting on God for marriage, waiting on God to work on me as I wait.
Hallelujah,this is my coming testimony in Jesus's Name Amen❤
@@akisiimireisabella4132 amen!
Me I have given on life am at zero on everything and am a single mum with so much emotional baggage but this is lessons this is faith this is a blessing I believe God is mighty
what a touching story Birungi, it was really a sad moment you went through. this reminds me of our friends Sister , a neighbor they where so much in love but the boy friend just left for the US with out telling her of any plans of his travel and when she discovered from the boys family, she got so depressed and eventually died of depression after a period of some months, it was really sad
Let me leave this here for me to come and reply to my comment with a testimony before end of 2024
Because indeed the Blessing of God makes one rich and adds no sorrow unto it. Bless you Stella. Thanks Bahati for this.
One day am gonna come back here and sag this testimony made wonders in my life
I am really blessed with ur story Stella n I see myself in u
I learnt a lot. Thks for sharing. I am in that dark point in my life n trusting God to take the lead n settle me in Jesus name amen
I’m weeping 😢😢😢 this is very touching especially when she found herself
you are beautiful inside and out let me tell you I think God wanted to save you from the danger , it takes maturity to walk away from a toxic person and the fact that he did what he paved a way for you to be the version of yourself, look at you such a calm person but very young in. a such a way that you had decided to settle with money not a good man hey thank God for the transition
Me i ran away after 2 weeks when the man told me to sit home
I think I cd do the same. Those things of sitting home🙅🙅🙅🙅🙅🙅
A man to stop me from working Coz of his insecurities, hell no.... But still amidst all, we glorify God for the testimonies
I love Stella's energy, i thank God who was able to take you through that experience and you came out victorious. Congratulations girl, i see the ring 😂. May God bless you always 😊
Am speechless and inspired with love for u our strong fellow ladies thanks much for the blessings please stay blessed too abundance
I resonate with the guest lady, had a terrible depression after compass and a lack of direction. I pulled my self through and am living the best time of life. Never loose hope
We are many!!!
My Testimony is; ..... and so God helped me!
Mum Hildah i thank u for your shows....u helped me even when u didn't know.....i was about to die coz depression due to betrayal but i remember tuning on NTV mwasuze mutya every morning watching Faridah and for the times she hosted u .....u spoke to me and i found a way ....hope one time i will meet you and testify and also to say thank you and how u helped me😢😢😢😢
God never ends the story until He brings the Glory, what a powerful statement 🥺
I recieve my healing. Thank you Stella for sharing your story.
Insecurity is different from true love and care....never be with an insecure person about u...they emotionally break u ...cause your life to rotate around them,make u to loose frnds even families..... that's where Hildah u got me from.....one time i will testify
Thank you so much stella for sharing, your story encorages , restores hope and heals many souls out there. There is always a beautiful story after misery, God will bless the new journey you are on. We love you.
So true!
Thanks Stella for sharing your experience
You have encouraged me to move on.Thanks bahati as well God bless you all.
I stumbled upon this channel just last week n I thank God I did. I love the lessons, the convos are captivating n I love that God is fronted in everything. However I'm requesting pls can we have proper introductions of the guests. Who they are, what they do n let's not assume we know every guest! I'm begging please Bahati 🙏🏾. Thk u for the amazing work dear ❤❤
So true especially since many of us are watching from other countries and continents.
Wat a wounderful testimony, so touching..
Ive really loved dat part of yo mum holding u tight as she was praying 4u,da best feeling sam1 can ever get from a parent
I don't why am crying 😢 thank you for the story 💜
She's a happy soul i have loved her
I love it when Bahati said don't rush us,like we need it all❤
The pit can be so dark oh my word but God calms the storm
This story made so emotional and hopeful , sending love all the way from South Africa ❤❤❤
Good morning , full introduction of the guests is needed , some of us don't know these " celebs " .thanks
Hello,I love your episodes ❤️this story is so encouraging.kindly would you use subtitles where you use your native language 😢some us are from different countries
Stella you have lifted my soul at my age still struggling with everything i pray i be better
Wow Stella this is such a an amazing journey of Resilience. God is real and present ❤
#Faith over Fear
Am here so stuck that I even don't know what is next😭😭😭😭😭😭
Hilda, your channel is so eye opening . You're empowering
Thank you!
Wow! Cant blv you went through that beautiful one. God is powerful, you are healed and happy now.
Yes! Thank you!
Thank you for sharing your story Stella. You have no idea how many people's lives you impact. Blessings
I'm so glad!
We give Glory and honour to God🙏🙏🙏.or this wonderful Testimony
So blessed and glad to hear this.thanks stella for teaching us
34:43 what a testimony ❤God is great indeed, He always makes a way...