My engagement ended in the worst heartbreak!
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Bahati Hilda Sabiti is a trendsetter for her generation. She is the Founder and Lead influencer at Hold My Hand.
Hold My Hand is a vibrant growth space that impacts people of all ages, socioeconomic classes, and ethnic backgrounds! Bridging the gap between where they are and where they really want to be.
She holds a Bachelor of Counseling Guidance from Kyambogo University, A masters in Positive Applied Psychology from Capella University and a Doctorate in Human Relationships from Wilfrid Laurier University.
She is married to Tim Sabiti, and they are the proud parents of three children, Ariella Sabiti, Ariel Sabiti, and Asahel Sabiti.
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My baby daddy cancelled our kukyala a week before.. zero notice, zero cheating ,. Only for me to see his kukyala on social media sooner. I was a broken broke single mum.. in despair. God came through in biiiiiiggg ways ... Im currently a regional manager in one of the biggest banks in the world. Who am I! My baby gets everything he wants. Surely..Glory to God . I'm healed
So sad but beautiful ending
So sad, we thank God who enabled to come through this. Me my husband and I were going through fertility treatment, on our 5th anniversary he posted a picture of another woman, when we talked about it he said it’s because I can’t get pregnant, on the day we had to do the ivf he walked out, a month later he calls me to say that the girlfriend is pregnant, they both called me to laugh at me, went on social media explaining to everyone that he left me because of my infertility, how embarrassing!!!! I’m healed from that now, I have now a very amazing partner, waiting for the day the Lord will bless my womb amen 🙏
@@doras6772so sorry to read this. But you are healed, that's what is important my angel. Hubby is not worth crying for....
Look at God my angel. Congratulations on your career success. Love stories like this, of restoration.
Dora, your bundles of joy are coming! Joining my faith to yours
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; each is different. What works for one couple may not work for another. However, I've realized that there's always a way to resolve issues. Five years ago, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of marital difficulties, but we managed to reconcile.
Your words hold great meaning, and I sincerely hope my sentiments are in harmony with yours. Despite our current separation, I cannot picture my life without her; my love for her is profound. I long to have her back, and I'm willing to make any sacrifice to achieve reconciliation. We've explored various paths, including therapy, in our journey to mend our relationship.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
You definitely should.
FROM SELLING SWEETS AND WASHING CLOTHS AROUND HOSTELS AS A STUDENT IN KYU. I AM NOW FINALIZING MY MASTERS LEVEL IN PUBLIC HEALTH. FROM ZERO VISION AS A TENNAGER ABOUT LIFE, NOW I HAVE A GREAT VISION OF ADVOCATING FOR GOOD HEALTH, 6 FIGURE SALARY FROM A JOB ACHIEVED THROUGH FAITH AND HAPPY THAT CHRIST WILL MAKE OTHER THINGS WORK OUT...... CELEBRATED 29 LAST WEEK IN THANKS GIVING.
Wowwwwwww a true champion
Shine your Shine🎉 ✴️🌟✨
God is in control for sure
Go Girllllllll, super proud of you and all your achievements....
Shaming thanks for accepting Christ, He gonna make new wonderful things that your ears have ever heard or your eyes have ever seen 1cor. 2:9
Naye mwe heart break hurts especially when your life was rotating around that person, 😢😢prayers to everyone who is healing.
Mwanagwe you may feel like your heart is going out
Its not easy to heal
I can relate to Stellaz story @100%.I too met a rich guy at campus and even had twins together 😞😞he canceled kukyala three times and he never let me go nor did he commit 😏that’s how I’ve stayed confused for more than 10yrs Now with four babies .Im happy that I finally ended it last year .I pray I find true love one day as I follow my dreams too 🎉🎉
Wow
You actually dodged a bullet… that man had a lot of issues
Narcissists r the worst people to be intimate with😢
Worst is an understatement
I am admiring this beautiful lady in a red dress, watching from South Africa as a South African Zulu girl... I am left speechless such beauty rare beauty❤❤❤... Umuhle dadewethu🙏🏾🙏🏾
Watching this while abandoned with pregnancy he left saying that i became vulnerable just because of the 1st trimester laziness 😢the Lord shall walk me thru this, thank you ladies for positive stories am encouraged
May God see you through
You are a conqueror . The one in you is greater
That's only a step in life dear God will c u through.
It shall pass.
One day you'll be the one telling your story. Keep your child whatever the situation. God will see you through. Pray, confess, fast (not food because you are pregnant but other things like social media). An opening will surely come
That part of 'Maama,omutima gunuma.'...The pain must have been beyond resilience
It was really painful but God is faithful all the time and forever 🙏
That word I once mentioned it. Indeed omutima guluma. It happened to me
I found myself with real tears rolling. Is it something unhealed in me? But anyway that part is a real emotional part.
True. Thank God her mother was empathetic AND prayerful
That mum hug moment made me so teary
Honestly it got me emotional 😢
I remember on 23rd Jan 2024 I called my pastor and I told him the same statement while broken I told him pastor omutima gunuma…I added on and told him pastor salvation is hard 😢😢😢because I felt I need to get my self drunk till I black out but fear of salvation and God hindered me from doing so 😢😢
Julian this is powerful
Landing on this story reminds of what I went through, the guy cancelled the kukyala two days to the day... Ahhh that day is still a nightmare but this God... And actually the only place I had to cry to was when I would be leading worship... But God had a good plan for me
So sorry dear, same here...he cancelled a week to the wedding. How did you heal dear 😢
@@KyeeyoTalk it was by the grace of God, through prayers and having a dear friend holding me in prayers healed me but when I look back now I praise Jesus that I never got married to him, I was young I don't think we would still be together but now am happily married glory to God
Woow you should be hosted otuwe details banange 😢
WoG, I would never have guessed that you have been through this. Indeed God washed that off your lineage.
Am in such a situation of single mum am couraged God will really heal and provide for me and my son I have faith one day testify
God never ends the story until he brings the glory
When the love of your life breaks your heart in the least expected ways, there is a pain in your heart as if it is a HEART ATTACK. We feel actual pain in our chest and body. Others think we are being dramatic but the truth is that there is actual physical pain that we experience. This pain is felt because our brain picks up on intense emotional pain and responds as if it is physical. Though the pain may not be visible the body is so much hurting
May God bless mothers who stand with their daughters no matter what! You never know what would have happened to her...
She had very good support system, her friends and family
Falling asleep before taking the poison was a miracle 🙌🏿🙏🏿
He was insecure it would have ended in tears better a broken engagement than a marriage. I hope God helped him also find confidence in God
❤Awesome God
Amen and Amen
Removing u from ur job bx of alleged men's attention was number one red flag
God is faithful❤
Am still fighting with the man he truly wants me to leave my job
Hilda's book saved me "deliberately selfish"i was dating an abuser then & didn't know myself at all.
Am man who behaves like that doesn't truly love you but rather obsessed and a narcissist
Are you actually happy to be that way????
I sure needed this, been going through a horrible heartbreak, thought of suicide in so many ways, this man throwing away what we built physically and emotionally like it never existed hurt me to the core. a week after i had left he had replaced me already. thank you Hilda for these amazing people you host and we learn from their experiences.
You dont need to throw away yourself. your relationship with God is more important
“God never ends the story until he brings the glory to it”wooow wow my God🙏
I like it when Hilda says - God never ends the story until he brings the glory.
Her story is somehow same with me.....fearing to start over when the person u had hopes in has betrayed u....i remember the sleepless nights and tears .... literally i was also dying but i thank God i never received suicidal thoughts becoz of my baby....so God used her to give me a reason for living😢....thank u Jesus.....am still healing...i know one day God will bring in someone in His will.Amen
Sweet heart... Starting again is the biggest fear😢😢😢
God never ends the story until He brings the Glory......deep one right there
“Thank you my love” could even have caused the married friend trouble if his wife found that message
Definitely. She was clearly very young and still trying to figure out herself and life and relationships 🤔
Thank you for the night my love😮 just a few if not none could easily understand. Given his insecurity issues, you couldn't expect less
Self discovery is the beginning of success in every area of our lives. God is Great! As ladies we are susceptible to narcissists because of ignorance that is why it is important to empower the Girl child.
Thank you Hilda for bringing in guests whose stories are impactful! Thank you Stella too for sharing your story, I believe many young girls will learn from it. Stay blessed
God never ends the story until He brings the Glory, what a powerful statement 🥺
Wooow what a testimony Stella
I needed this !
I was missing alot listening to these stories alot is happening in my life but now I can handle every situation! Thankyou lord ❤
Powerful testimony! Thankyou ladies..
Powerful testimony 🎉❤
I’m glad I heard this 😢my soul needed it.
So blessed and glad to hear this.thanks stella for teaching us
I love your show Hilda. For those who do not understand Luganda, please put English sub-titles. Though your show is mostly in English, once in a while you throw in vernacular. A fan from Kenya.
True, cater for your wider audience
Please also from Kenya
Same concern. Your fan from Kenya
me too, from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼, but l love ❤️ the show
Thanks Bahati.....we testify.
Glory to God. Thank you for sharing dear.
Thanks for sharing your story. Glory to God
Thank you for the show ❤❤❤
Wow wow so amazing. Am encouraged
Stella you have lifted my soul at my age still struggling with everything i pray i be better
You know when pple are telling us their stories there is a lot they don't tell us .but that message u sent to a married man "thank you my love " evenif i was the one ! U can't convince me that nothing was going on
Very true "thank you for the night " those two statements....
But we thank God because she came out stronger
Uplifting story. Thank you for sharing
For sure these episodes are helping me positively.thanks alot
Am praying 🙏 that everyone knows they worth n purpose
N never gets suicidal thoughts
These just carry so much unknown rejection on our lives 😢
Woow God is so faithful
Wow... this actually made me tear up, amazing story bless you.
Wat a wounderful testimony, so touching..
Ive really loved dat part of yo mum holding u tight as she was praying 4u,da best feeling sam1 can ever get from a parent
I believe God brought me here for the reason coz its what have been going through 😢but now am strong and believe that God is with me thru this pain 😢
Thank you so much for this testimony. God is a good God.
The stories we all have to tell,the heart break while 2weeks pregnant,the times I prayed for death to take me and the baby in me and all the times I woke up alive and got angry at God that with all His mighty power He couldn't take me in the night ...this life,i pray I ever get the courage to tell my story. Maybe it will be the start of total healing ...3yrs now and everything is still fresh,the pain is still real and new but I will get there. Amen
I pray that you one day heal
@@basketballdiaries2846 Amen,thank you so much 🙏
Hugs
Ill surely testify one day.inspired thanks Hilds
Very uplifting,am glad you managed to sail throught it all by Gods grace.
Just got on this page ...to look for something to lift my soul because all things around me feel like won't come to pass!
I'm in the same situation. I lost everything in the name of love. Everything. Struggling with suicidal thoughts but I am keeping my faith in God to restore and rebuild me. To everyone going through tough times, I'm praying with you 🙏🏽
i can totally relate its like shes talking my life too guys what God cant do is not there what you ask him he will provide or eeven multiply
Wow. Am inspired by this.
A mother's prayer
That statement got me crying.
I miss that prayer and hug.
Am lost without mums' prayer
I’m weeping 😢😢😢 this is very touching especially when she found herself
We are many!!!
My Testimony is; ..... and so God helped me!
Am speechless and inspired with love for u our strong fellow ladies thanks much for the blessings please stay blessed too abundance
So encouraging ❤❤❤
Beautiful testimony indeed God is faithful
WoW thank you for sharing your story
Powerful, powerful testimony. Indeed God never ends the story until He gets the Glory! Amen!
Me i ran away after 2 weeks when the man told me to sit home
I think I cd do the same. Those things of sitting home🙅🙅🙅🙅🙅🙅
She's a happy soul i have loved her
This is exactly what i needed hear. Thank you for sharing your story with us. God bless you.
I came across this platform today and it has really changed my life. Thank you Hilda.God bless you 🙏 .
Wow Stella this is such a an amazing journey of Resilience. God is real and present ❤
#Faith over Fear
To God be the Glory
Beautiful story. Beautiful people. I enjoy these episodes Hilda.
Because indeed the Blessing of God makes one rich and adds no sorrow unto it. Bless you Stella. Thanks Bahati for this.
Wooow great testimony
Her story has bits of mine ..like that dark pit..and the non existent relationship with her mother..this story resonates with me deeply..am in the waiting period..but I know I will testify
Amen. May the Almighty see u thru
This is such an inspiring story
This story is so touching, thank you ladies for sharing.
Wow, what a story.
For sure God has held you through🙏
Woow such powerful stories❤❤. May God continue using these strong women
Am blessed of this testimony
She is so beautiful
I think right now am in the same place Stella was in in 2017😢😢😢 l really don't know what to do Hilda 😢. I finished my final year papers yesterday.
I love it when Bahati said don't rush us,like we need it all❤
A man who stops you from working coz of insecurity 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
RIGHT?!
Run Baby R.U.N!
That man is a WITCH👌👌👌👌👌
@@julietbbaale879 😅😅😅. True. Evil
And he runs at night without clothes at night a real witch 😂😂😂@@julietbbaale879
Hilda, your channel is so eye opening . You're empowering
Thank you!
This has really touched me because i am just getting out of it 😢😢😢 heartbreak really hits deep 😢😢😢😢
Let's be strong am also getting out of it
Especially when the lies were alot then come to know the truth
@@shanieTemima and still pretend like he still needs you but in actual sense he knows that he is just wasting your time.
@@NAHAMedia Very true.
Ohhh dear 🫂 . It is well dear
WOW Am glad your mum cheers you every moment
Your testimony is an eye-opener to me,be blessed for sharing
Beautiful lady ryt there 😍 Beautiful story at the end! Painful but nice🙏
Thank you so much ,at times such stories are needed in our lives
Wow, what an amazing testimony, indeed God has a way of coming in when the devil thinks he's won, We give God all the glory.
Wow very interesting and worthy to watch thanks bahati
Feeling encouraged by Stella's life story
Thank you Birungi for sharing your story.
I’ve been going through a healing process of shame.
As the Lord lives God is in control.
Thanks Stella for sharing your experience
You have encouraged me to move on.Thanks bahati as well God bless you all.
What a testimony, am so encouraged and thankful to God for His timing is the best. One day i testify also.
I randomly clicked on this video but Stella you spoke directly to my soul... Am grateful to you for sharing your experience with all honesty. Ironically this msg was mine🙏
Wonderful!
This is so beautiful. Found it on tiktok and had to follow through. Amazing journey for sister Birungi. What a journey
Am here so stuck that I even don't know what is next😭😭😭😭😭😭