I sacrificed my family for love

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 338

  • @masikaritah9001
    @masikaritah9001 6 місяців тому +262

    Who else is from Tiktok

  • @elvahatugonza8705
    @elvahatugonza8705 6 місяців тому +64

    This is me😢I can't count how many times I have cried in my bed, having one child en the father rejects the baby is the most painful thing on earth, I got so annoyed that I stopped going to church but after seeing many stories I realized mine is even far better, I have a very nice job, my son is on medical insurance meaning we can access the best hospitals in Uganda , I decided to forgive the father of my son for the past, present and future and give my time to my boy, have gone back to God coz am live and still have a purpose, I have faith that I will be a great woman in future and will give the best to my child, May all single mothers and fathers God see you through and you bring up the most responsible children

    • @RaymondProsper
      @RaymondProsper 6 місяців тому

      That's me but less be strong in Jesus christ

    • @ngonzigloria6511
      @ngonzigloria6511 6 місяців тому

      May God bless you dear

    • @nantongoclaire6017
      @nantongoclaire6017 6 місяців тому

      Me too dia u not alone

    • @Mirembe_Nicole
      @Mirembe_Nicole 6 місяців тому +1

      That is a great attitude,keep going ,I was once a single mom too father left but held on to God, He blessed me with a good Husband, God fearing who has loved me and my Child ,Its 5years later God is Faithful

    • @lisaclarasamson1528
      @lisaclarasamson1528 5 місяців тому

      This is me😢

  • @niwagabaabraham4511
    @niwagabaabraham4511 6 місяців тому +15

    Yes, this is my classmate, i can confirm that sylivia was always outstanding and I believe she's still outstanding, Great thanks to fortunate for standing with you.

  • @kemi0495
    @kemi0495 6 місяців тому +79

    Who came here after watching this on TikTok

  • @ssubibrenda4601
    @ssubibrenda4601 6 місяців тому +13

    For every woman going through this, we are sorry that we judged you, only God can help you and strengthen you

  • @norbertpiwang5765
    @norbertpiwang5765 3 місяці тому +1

    From TikTok this touched and and learnt some lesions guess it's not late for me my dear God

  • @kabasinguzisusan9811
    @kabasinguzisusan9811 6 місяців тому +12

    I have cried all through this because God has been there for me and every time you mentioned God being there for you I related with God being there for me .God is love and pure lets keep trusting God

    • @saraibabra131
      @saraibabra131 6 місяців тому

      True me too was like that and God was there for me

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 6 місяців тому +39

    From TikTok to here😢

  • @nahweraangella5706
    @nahweraangella5706 6 місяців тому +21

    I suggest you always put the visistors on the cover page😂😂😂😂.I have suffered scrolling looking for this story coz the cover had u not her.

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  6 місяців тому +6

      Thank you, just sorted it! You’re awesome

    • @miriammonicah
      @miriammonicah 6 місяців тому

      Me too I was failing to get it, but i just typed in the title

    • @kyomugishamoureen3260
      @kyomugishamoureen3260 6 місяців тому

      Same to me been looking for this story on her page ehhh mukama out of the blue it came on my newsfeeds

    • @namarajoy8884
      @namarajoy8884 6 місяців тому

      ​@@BahatiHildayou are an awesome and amazing woman
      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @KansiimeDorothy-bf1mx
      @KansiimeDorothy-bf1mx 6 місяців тому

      I thought I was alone 😂, what an amazing story it is!

  • @nagasharacheal4
    @nagasharacheal4 6 місяців тому +3

    One thing I've realised is that If only we as christians tried to be like God in how we relate with eachother..if we extended even half of the grace we receive from God, church wouldn't lose so many to the den of feeling judged...its so sad.. we've got to do better.we need to extend more grace,more empathy😢let people fall and rise before their maker,He himself has promised to see to it that none falls and remains fallen.It's not our job to scrutinise their journey.Thank you for sharing darling ❤Blessings

  • @candidtalkwithadelle
    @candidtalkwithadelle 6 місяців тому +7

    I have come to learn that God will make you go through struggles that will prepare you for your purpose. To be a great Councillor, you needed this experience to help you understand your clients better. Thank you for the brevity to share your story!

  • @veronicanakanjako5745
    @veronicanakanjako5745 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for standing strong my dear.!!! There can be challenges in life but when you get a chance to trust in GOD He alone makes you flourish 🎉❤🙏

  • @sarahadhiambo7858
    @sarahadhiambo7858 5 місяців тому +2

    I'm from tiktok n I can tell you this sounds like my story 😢 😢 😭 people should never judge

  • @orishabaalbina4671
    @orishabaalbina4671 7 місяців тому +4

    Ooh my dear OG at Trinity, such a strong woman, may the good Lord give you all the blessings and happiness, thanks for sharing.

  • @Shellinahkanyesigye
    @Shellinahkanyesigye 5 місяців тому +3

    From tiktok and I wish l can share my story to becoz what the man did to me is unbelievable 😪.

  • @primafancybirungi
    @primafancybirungi 5 місяців тому +1

    Ooohhh I know her, she was my sweet customer in my saloon back Uganda, she used not to miss st poul church every Sunday mawanda road with her two little girls

  • @sharonnavuga5039
    @sharonnavuga5039 3 місяці тому

    Such a sweet woman. You've been through a lot. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @nansubugashaqiqah1058
    @nansubugashaqiqah1058 4 місяці тому +1

    Oh my God
    my Sylvia noo😢i realy remember the days at campus with you girl..But God is always faithful
    If possible i would like to have your contact again ❤

  • @KisakyeAngela-ql9kg
    @KisakyeAngela-ql9kg 6 місяців тому +4

    Am from TikTok....i wanted the whole story ❤

  • @esthernimah7416
    @esthernimah7416 5 місяців тому +2

    God is so amazing and faithful ❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @randaranow
    @randaranow 7 місяців тому +28

    Something I have learnt in my experience as well is that some men can never love, respect you the moment you can't earn something.
    It's very good for us women to embark on working.

    • @AshaNats-h9q
      @AshaNats-h9q 7 місяців тому +2

      True

    • @kizitonen5576
      @kizitonen5576 6 місяців тому +2

      Full support , it better to first embark on achieving what u expect from a man your self , this reduces on dependence and too much expectations.

    • @randaranow
      @randaranow 6 місяців тому

      @@kizitonen5576 Gotcha

    • @michezo256
      @michezo256 5 місяців тому

      never low your standards for anyone not even love

  • @natukundagrace4903
    @natukundagrace4903 6 місяців тому

    Thank you dear for being bold to share. It's never too late to return to God. He is such a loving and forgiving father

  • @katungirichard
    @katungirichard 4 місяці тому +1

    Brilliant girl, full of courage.

  • @aphiaowatuhaire777
    @aphiaowatuhaire777 4 місяці тому

    so touching and encouraging thanks dearest and more some stories that will motivate and make us grow harder

  • @bexameria9804
    @bexameria9804 6 місяців тому +2

    Wow. What a beautiful message from Arinda ive really learnt from your experience and am not remaining the same. Thanks Mrs Bahati for the show

  • @nabukenyaeron5205
    @nabukenyaeron5205 6 місяців тому +3

    True meaning of "bwoba tonafa tewevuma nsi".God is always great ❤

  • @robertmambo9711
    @robertmambo9711 6 місяців тому +5

    Wanted whole story. From TikTok

  • @aineviq5333
    @aineviq5333 6 місяців тому +5

    I remember this girl at stacon. She was a humble and prayerful girl.

    • @nuwabasaflavia8524
      @nuwabasaflavia8524 5 місяців тому +1

      Yeah sure, very down to earth and indeed outstanding. Sylivia we really believe that you’re indeed destined for the best

  • @SanyuRabecca
    @SanyuRabecca 6 місяців тому +2

    Amen, thanks for the closing prayer.
    But believe me, men aren’t easy 😢. Most of us are survivors from mental illness and trauma

  • @hibumbemoses3440
    @hibumbemoses3440 5 місяців тому

    Thanks Arinda for sharing this story, i have a friend who has a similar story.
    I am grateful to also have been part of KUAYM ministries at campus

  • @saraibabra131
    @saraibabra131 6 місяців тому +1

    One day i will come and give my testimony . Where i am is by the grace of God

  • @sylivianakajubi5870
    @sylivianakajubi5870 3 місяці тому +1

    The devil wanted to kill your star of outstanding and shining in spirit.

  • @oldlaqaaye9931
    @oldlaqaaye9931 5 місяців тому +1

    " If you get a job syia seated at home please connect her." That words they're touched me.😢

  • @nansumbanoeline6440
    @nansumbanoeline6440 6 місяців тому +1

    Eeeh really touching story, thanks for Sharing dear Sylvia.

  • @sumayyahkalyegira106
    @sumayyahkalyegira106 7 місяців тому +1

    Bambi she has a very touching story 😢but i'm happy that whatever she went through she never lose hope,she never gave up and here she's now she stood and now fond her purpose
    This's so amazing 😊😊

  • @ElizabethBalimunsi
    @ElizabethBalimunsi 7 місяців тому +12

    To all men out there, no matter the circumstances, do the best you can to be loving and supportive of a woman that is carrying your child and has had your child. Don't question it, just do it.

  • @simbig8975
    @simbig8975 7 місяців тому +4

    The devil is a big liar. You are a strong woman and God has the best for you.

  • @NinsiimaProssy-d1x
    @NinsiimaProssy-d1x 7 місяців тому +1

    Arinda thanks for being a strong n hardworking lady,this so educative mostly to us young ladies ❤n thanks for sharing 🙏.
    Be blessed 🙏

  • @patiencemagoola101
    @patiencemagoola101 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow . This was mind blowing. God fortified her indeed. Sending love to both of you❤❤❤❤❤

  • @katek4724
    @katek4724 5 місяців тому

    Sad to hear what you went through and I am glad you overcame. Let's educate girls to guard their hearts and bodies. Love is a beautiful thing but baby steps... Godspeed to all facing this.

  • @dorisamooti1204
    @dorisamooti1204 6 місяців тому +3

    You are very honest with yourself.

  • @ayebareannah8975
    @ayebareannah8975 6 місяців тому

    From tiktok to full story 😭 God is great always 🙏

  • @clairekatusiime7913
    @clairekatusiime7913 6 місяців тому

    Arinda thank you for sharing this is so helpful to us mothers. You're indeed a great woman. Thanks Bahati for the show.

  • @kaijukyospecioza5468
    @kaijukyospecioza5468 5 місяців тому

    May God continue protecting us from such hurtful men and how i wish at one time such men go through more than the pain they make innocent souls go through in the name of love.

  • @peacedorothy9108
    @peacedorothy9108 5 місяців тому

    Cried all through watching this. Our God never forsakes us. He is a God of many chances

  • @sandraug7042
    @sandraug7042 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your story Arinda
    I pray God enables me share my story too one day. Who knows how many lives it could touch and change for the better. My son is turning 3 and starting school next year🥰🥰 I pray God uses me to put him in one of the best schools. My dream is seing him become a great man oneday

  • @iyengugladys2824
    @iyengugladys2824 7 місяців тому +2

    Wow this is so heart touching
    Thanks for sharing
    God will surely bring you someone worth it

  • @ainembabazivickievanessa9382
    @ainembabazivickievanessa9382 6 місяців тому +2

    story of my life😢😢but am sure oneday i wil be okay God willing 🙏🙏

  • @kamukamadiana-ko6cp
    @kamukamadiana-ko6cp 6 місяців тому +1

    I love you Hilda❤and thank you always for encouraging us 😭😭😭🙏🙏

  • @yvettetwinomujuni2705
    @yvettetwinomujuni2705 13 днів тому

    We Bless the Lord you overcome 🎉 darling

  • @joanKihembo
    @joanKihembo 7 місяців тому +2

    Another day of cutting onions while watching this story..you are astrong woman..woah

  • @Mwigar
    @Mwigar 6 місяців тому

    Strong woman🙏🏽 God is with you.

  • @WendyNgabire
    @WendyNgabire 6 місяців тому

    This was too emotional to watch. Thank you for sharing

  • @kaijukyospecioza5468
    @kaijukyospecioza5468 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for being a strong woman. We serve a living God who never forsakes us. Greater things a wait you dear

  • @michezo256
    @michezo256 5 місяців тому

    Madam Hilda thanks for this show , do you what i have learnt..? i have learnt that never to lower my standards for anyone not even for love. thanks.

  • @catherineabenaitwe7167
    @catherineabenaitwe7167 6 місяців тому +1

    I think i sat with this lady in a taxi from Mbra to Kla....
    God is a good God, He said that He will never leave us alone... Even when ur own pple leave, He remains.
    You were just being prepared for greater things. Just keep looking up to Him.

  • @funwithnicole3868
    @funwithnicole3868 6 місяців тому +2

    What a story. So many lessons to learn.

  • @mariankamau2493
    @mariankamau2493 5 місяців тому

    I saw this on tik tok am touched by her story 😢

  • @natobolilian
    @natobolilian 6 місяців тому

    Am here from TikTok
    Am proud of you bahat hubby and wifey Hilda

  • @atukunziredoreen7269
    @atukunziredoreen7269 5 місяців тому

    We thank God for life
    God is always having a plan for us
    Thank you for sharing dear

  • @namarajoy8884
    @namarajoy8884 6 місяців тому +2

    God is above every situation, Glory to Him. Dear sons of Pharaoh stand warned, the Lord sees everything

  • @munezaderick1033
    @munezaderick1033 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for being strong and sharing this to us ❤
    Thank you Hilda for edifying us with these powerful testimonies.

  • @nyangomamogranie1795
    @nyangomamogranie1795 6 місяців тому

    We thank God for Arinda and for sharing, the message has taught me alot, to first understand my purpose, and not to give up on life no matter the circumstances

  • @peruthmwenkanya2508
    @peruthmwenkanya2508 7 місяців тому +1

    it was just too much🤦‍♀. We thank God for restoring you.

  • @nantalewinnie
    @nantalewinnie 7 місяців тому +1

    Eye opening 🤦‍♀️thank you so much sharing with us❤

  • @LiniaLynda-rp1of
    @LiniaLynda-rp1of 4 місяці тому

    She experienced Puerperal psychosis, sorry about that dear we thank God He still kept you regardless of what you went through , today's preacher mentioned some important statement which says "man's disappointment is God's appointment" thank you Arinda for sharing your story ,helping and encouraging mothers going through same condition.

    • @majoriebasiima645
      @majoriebasiima645 3 місяці тому

      When ever I feel low and mentally not okay. I run to this channel

  • @birungiricia6841
    @birungiricia6841 6 місяців тому

    What a lovely message.that what happened to me I wish I had viewed this message before

  • @uwasebarbra1425
    @uwasebarbra1425 6 місяців тому +1

    God is so loving and faithful ❤️ he will always come through 🙏

  • @mwizasafaristourvlog8142
    @mwizasafaristourvlog8142 6 місяців тому +1

    Youre a strong woman Arinda, and we have a good good father Jesus Christ

  • @AgnesDorothyAkello
    @AgnesDorothyAkello 5 місяців тому

    Will some of even get 😢
    This real life stories hurt n increase my phobia for marriage 😢
    Bless 🙏 women ooooh God

  • @HopeKomujinya
    @HopeKomujinya 6 місяців тому

    Me ff this..
    Came from tiktok❤..
    Wish her all the best ❤

  • @edwinkamusiimeadvocate
    @edwinkamusiimeadvocate 7 місяців тому +1

    Wao Arinda.
    Thanks Our heaven sent Bahati for the interview alot to learn here

  • @nabaggalaritah4467
    @nabaggalaritah4467 6 місяців тому

    she is going to become a great lady. So hardworking

  • @AmanyaAnnah
    @AmanyaAnnah 5 місяців тому

    May God continue protecting me 🙏🙏

  • @kabaliisachall
    @kabaliisachall 7 місяців тому +2

    Hes a God of restoration. Just keep seeking his will

  • @aphiaowatuhaire777
    @aphiaowatuhaire777 4 місяці тому +1

    i don't know why am crying

  • @NakazibaMercy-nm3je
    @NakazibaMercy-nm3je 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for empowering us Dr Bahati through sharing such uplifting stories. I always learn something new. May God continue using you to touch more lives and nations🙏

  • @carolynmainga
    @carolynmainga 6 місяців тому +10

    Go home don't punish yourself..your family will always love you..God will never leave you.God I pray for the favor from people that this woman has from you.Amen

  • @dorothykyomugisha26
    @dorothykyomugisha26 7 місяців тому

    Thank you coach Hilda and thank you for sharing your story Arinda and being vulnerable with us.

  • @akademaitesther2921
    @akademaitesther2921 6 місяців тому +1

    He is a faithful God 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @nakittopeace
    @nakittopeace 7 місяців тому +3

    Wooow what a story, thanks for sharing Arinda indeed God uses different circumstances to bring the best out of us

  • @ritaariho921
    @ritaariho921 6 місяців тому +1

    Cyber hugs for you dear Arinda, indeed you are destined for greatness, i have experienced postnatal depression, even while my husband was still around.. so i can really imagine what exactly you were going through during that time. People will judge you here , but only a few of us who have through the same can understand you. Am happy that you picked it up yourself again and here you are inspiring others. God surely bless you and one day one time, the first father of your child will regret. Keep shining baby girl.

  • @MargretKambili-ig7yc
    @MargretKambili-ig7yc 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for your encouragement ❤

  • @evelynanyeko1635
    @evelynanyeko1635 6 місяців тому +3

    Mama I remember you at St Kakumba Chapel.

  • @raykye4711
    @raykye4711 6 місяців тому

    Bambi. Thank God who never gives up on us

  • @angel.----
    @angel.---- 6 місяців тому

    Im from TikTok Ijust landed now ❤❤

  • @clarenuwampa8917
    @clarenuwampa8917 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, dear Arinda. Sorry for what happened to you, but remember. God doesn't make mistakes. This happened to you because God wanted you to heal hearts that are broken.
    May the will of God be done.
    Amen

  • @NamawejjeHildah-mo5uw
    @NamawejjeHildah-mo5uw 6 місяців тому

    Wow this is powerful..God is indeed great...

  • @stevosteve1845
    @stevosteve1845 6 місяців тому

    God bless mama Hilda ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nabawanukagorreth2981
    @nabawanukagorreth2981 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your story
    Coach Hilda i will share mine too

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  6 місяців тому

      Send me a WhatsApp 0757117117

  • @KebirungiRobinbah
    @KebirungiRobinbah 6 місяців тому +2

    Beeñ through something similar to this but God is faithful 😂 we go through somethings to learn and help people going through the same stuff we went through

  • @nassangacatherine2506
    @nassangacatherine2506 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for sharing am learning something ❤❤

  • @kiconcogiftmarrie2560
    @kiconcogiftmarrie2560 4 місяці тому

    Every time my mother tells me not to do something l immediately leave it because l have experienced the once

    • @kiconcogiftmarrie2560
      @kiconcogiftmarrie2560 4 місяці тому

      The worst

    • @majoriebasiima645
      @majoriebasiima645 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@kiconcogiftmarrie2560Not only my mother, but also tiktok people be warning us dear . So if i hear a tiktoker saying don't do this before this, i leave immediately 😢. I have seen the hard way ,I have seen girls cry.

    • @kiconcogiftmarrie2560
      @kiconcogiftmarrie2560 3 місяці тому

      @@majoriebasiima645 this is very true though sometimes we tend to ignore them

  • @Shellinahkanyesigye
    @Shellinahkanyesigye 5 місяців тому

    From sheema district waooh 😊 home district to shuuku

  • @LilianNakamatte
    @LilianNakamatte 6 місяців тому

    I luv yo strength & courage Arinda

  • @anitahkansiime1530
    @anitahkansiime1530 6 місяців тому

    This is so touching,thanks for sharing.

  • @janetsematimba2672
    @janetsematimba2672 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for the inspiring stories❤

  • @owomugishasophia7863
    @owomugishasophia7863 6 місяців тому

    Thank God ur still alive and his plans are better

  • @kyarikundacostance5856
    @kyarikundacostance5856 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing

  • @hairanakato6276
    @hairanakato6276 6 місяців тому

    So touching ,indeed it made me shed teats