The Manosphere Ruined Stoicism, But We Can Save It
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
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In this video, we explore how the manosphere, an online community, has negatively affected the ancient philosophy of stoicism.
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"...behaving rationally does't mean ignoring your emotions. It means feeling them fully, and deciding whether or not to act upon them." Brilliant, and very eloquently put.
It’s crazy bc that’s one of the core fundamentals of Stoicism. One of the most misunderstood aspects of Stoicism is that we’re not suppressing our emotions but not letting it control us.
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I have always considered my dad to be stoic. He is almost 70, always been quiet, listens more than speaks, he chooses his words wisely, never has a bad thing to say about anyone. very kind and gentle, and always level-headed. Nothing flusters or angers him. It's quite a contrast to his appearance, as he is a very tall, strong builder and carpenter, but the complete opposite in personality to the stereotypical builder. He spends lots of time doing zen activities like tending to his flowers, planting seeds & growing vegetables. He also says that working with wood is very calming.
If he had a DnD class, he would be a druid. 😂
That's something to aspire to indeed.
Your dad sounds awesome.
@@sparklesparklesparkle6318 I get my lungs coated with tar under the UK’s National Health Service. Each year I get a new coating. I also wear a those old deep sea diver helmets whenever I chop wood or when I need to swing my axe at the owners of properties I’ve trespassed.
That would be so nice if I didn't live in a Soviet esque apartment block with not a single blade of grass, and can't afford a piece of sandpaper and a stick of wood.
Your Dad is basically Caduceus Clay from Critical Role.
"ignoring one's emotions entirely allows us to... ignore the suffering that other people go through"
dude, you hit the nail on the head with that one
Unless that "suffering" is made up. A tool in a power play to use you. People are corrupt.
And the ability to navigate people's dirty tricks, intrigues, backstabs and status games, - is a
superpower in itself. Yes, right there in the same row with flight, super-strength and super-speed.
Except this one is real. And i always admired the few who can.
@@HexenStar as is discernment-can't give out empathy to those who dont deserve it
most of the manosphere is the complete opposite of stoicism. stoicism teaches you to be humble and live a happy life regardless of what you have while the manosphere insists the path to happiness is the pursuit in material wealth, social validation and an extra large ego
Let’s be honest tho. nowadays as a man in the 1st world you do need to have a good amount of money for so many reasons. To me that part is just understanding the current way society is less than praising material wealth. I need that shit 😂
My point is, a true stoic would reject decadence even if nobody else did@@calebbb3103
@@calebbb3103 cringe. Go back to your club
@@BorninFlames237 ok bornininflames with a edgy sigma wolf pfp, I guess I’m cringier than you for saying money is important
@@calebbb3103money is indeed significant but it's should not be everything we strive for
I remember, 3 years ago, I got super into Stoicism. It really helped at the time to get me heading in a healthy way.. until everyone else jumped on the Stoic train and kind of derailed it's intentions.
It felt like it was taken from being about how to be more resilient to.. toxic positivity and how-to guide on being delusional.
You dont need to identify as stoic, or be part of online stoic communities. Is this just an attempt to boast "i did it before it was cool"?
@@jeseAudiobro thinks hes marcus
The irony in your comment.
If you got the message of stoicism, you would realize that other people actions and opinions shouldn't be able to take from your experience. If you allow that, they become your master.
The manosphere in my opinion scares me. I practice stoicism myself, I did it so that I can change my emotions and kinda change my life, not become some "alpha male" or Andrew Tate or Sneako 2.11. I'm myself. I don't want a fancy lifestyle or be an asshole, I just want to be a better version of myself like everyone else that practices stoicism. Thanks for this video sir.
You sir have voiced my grievances with this section of the internet perfectly.
@@Eli-cb7tk I forgot to add this: isn’t stoicism all about accepting the things that’s out of your power, being virtuous and accepting your fate? Other than something else?
Andrew Tate does not preach to hide your emotions, he even said it himself "Don't be a stoic dork". He preaches controlling your emotions and guiding your actions using your emotions to achieve greatness.
@@cyr6110 Good point
@@cyr6110it’s not achieved off the backs of someone else’s suffering. That’s not changing the narrative or even the narrator-all of this is simply a large scale reaction (very reactive and emotional one at that) to feminism gone too far. The pendulum naturally will swing back to the right after being swung too hard to the left before hitting an equilibrium in the middle. The mind set of stoicism can be achieved by both genders without taking from the other and without dismissing our biological tendencies.
Common sense: Express your emotions to help you avoid acting on them
Broicism: Act on your emotions to help you avoid expressing them
This was such a good video.
I like to recommend that people always read the source material, because the online hype around Stoicism really misrepresents it. Epictetus, another famous Stoic, was a Roman slave, and he found great comfort in Stoic teachings. I highly recommend his works!
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This is such a gem of a channel. I love your videos so much, man. You’re at a level of knowledge and understanding that very few people on the internet are. Easily worth a million subs!
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It feels kinda weird how redpillism is so huge on the internet, yet I am yet to find an actual primal masculine redpill man in real life. It almost feels like all the redpilled men, become redpilled precisely because they don't live in reality. They live in instagram and onlyfans, and the only women they see are instagram and onlyfans models, which they could never afford to be with. That's why they're angry at women all the time.
Red pill fans irl tend to be losers
Lovely way to put it
Why does this remind me of incells?
@@sparklesparklesparkle6318the true redpilled man understands that the redpill is just a meme
@@sparklesparklesparkle6318 A bit inconsistent with the og post but ok.
Dude, the amount of empathy you approach these subjects with is so refreshing. Loved the video, take care.
For me, Stoicism was a gateway to more complex schools of philosophy. I started out by reading quotes from Seneca that led to the other notable stoics and later existentialism, pragmatism, Plus some Eastern philosophy like Buddhism and Confucianism. Philosophy is for making people think and challenge their own reasoning, not acquiring material wealth. Something the majority of philosophers thought to be unnecessary after a certain level.
What are some interesting underrated philosophers you discovered on your journey ? Can you recommend me some ?
@@Mr.Coffee576 Well Tagore would be the first one, His thoughts on death, purpose, and meaning really were life-changing. and others would be Rumi and Saadi it's a shame that their works are not appreciated in the English-speaking world
. I'd also like to mention Hojja he was a Morrocan comedian/ jester but there is a philosophical easter egg in every single one of his jokes and little stories.
Just don't be way too rigid in your interpretations and you'll find every single long-dead man has written or said something that applies to your reality.
Have a good day/night.
@@avidhossanmansur9830 I'll check them out. Appreciate it. :)
To be honest, most people who are interested in philosophy tend to have the realisation about wealth when they’re confronted with being a philosophy student at university. At which point, your most viable means of making money is being a philosophy lecturer
As someone with anxiety I do find some of the principles of Stoicism to be very helpful and calming. I look at it as being pragmatic. You use your inner self to determine where you can best help others and make change. It isn't about the idea that all you must do is change your mindset, but that trying ti find clarity can help you find the best thing to *do*
@@sparklesparklesparkle6318I find that very, very hard to believe.
I’ve always said stoicism is not about not feeling emotions but about identifying them and making sure they are truthful and appropriate for the situation. That said, philosophy has evolved significantly past stoicism and it hasn’t been taken seriously for some time even under its most faithful interpretation.
I think the most practical aspect of Stoicism that’s survived into the modern world is the “mindfulness” self-help technique - or at the very least, the way that it’s helped develop mindfulness. This is because fundamentally you “meditate” through rumination (meditation through writing) and learn how to identify your emotions and quell anger and unrest by identifying your triggers. I’ve seen it be very useful for so many young men who struggle with anger issues - it’s much more helpful than the raging testosterone junkies on the internet
Stoicism does not equal sociopathy. That's what the red pill doesn't understand.
The red pill has nothing to do with sociopathy. It's YOU that doesn't understand what you're talking about.
Manosphere is masquerading as a form of stoicism, when in fact it is hedonism.
I remember learning about Stoicism in an ethics class and thinking it was so interesting, but slowly realizing it was just confirming a bunch of things that are already built into our society in kind of a toxic way.
So many traits of Stoicism are used like an ethical map for psycho billionaires, and then they skip over the empathetic parts.
Also, loved the end lol
Just because something's toxic doesn't mean it's wrong. I've only dipped my toe in stoicism, but the reason I have is because I feel like I've been lied to by all the forward thinking ideologues out there telling me I can just be myself and people will accept me. Life has just shown that to be a lie. That's not how people really act.
I watched a video today interviewing a man on the street in Palestine, they ask him do you have hope for peace?: "If you want to say the truth, there is no justice in the world. If you are strong everybody afraid from you. If you are not? *smashing hand gesture* everybody kill you."
That's the truth. That's what I think stoicism taps into. People respond to strength. The current social line about being "vulnerable, honest, and communicative," that's a lie. People hate that.
@@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat do you want to base your worldview on strength and dominance? passivity and docileness? or choose the middle way? as always, the answer is the last one.
@@safir2241 Sounds like a false choice to begin with.
@jamesonknott Firstly, you're assuming that the truth of the world is based on your experiences alone. Secondly, you're mistaking rejection for toxicity. And if I am correct about the sort of rejection you're facing, you weren't immediately accepted and therefore you were immediately rejected, rather than realizing that you have a lot of work to do. This is not an uncommon feeling, especially among young men and especially among young men with social difficulties.
Thirdly, you are mistaking what you called truth for destiny. Because you feel rejected you feel you will always be rejected, and so you call the world toxic and that this is the real truth of the world and that this is the way it always has been and will be. Nothing will change because you don't understand how it could. This is not Stoicism, is it surrender. Resigning yourself to the vicissitudes of fate and calling it manliness.
These assumptions are incorrect. The world is not merely your experiences of it and it can and does change all the time. Whether you change as well will determine if you continue to feel rejected or not. Perhaps by adapting your approach to the world will help you, provided your goal is to deal with those feelings of rejection rather than giving up and letting the toxicity swallow you whole.
@@LawnPygmy You are the person making assumptions. You clearly have *no idea* what kind of acceptance I'm talking about. I did not say "I got rejected", I said "like people will accept me." I'm talking about emotional/social acceptance, not dating. Things like people I've known closely for a decade growing distant because I was frank and honest about how I felt regarding something they said about someone else.
I don't have "a lot of work to do" to get them to "accept" me expressing my feelings honestly.
Your entire comment is assumptions.
It sounds like you're talking to yourself, not me.
I was at a funeral for a lady I admired in life, who treated me like her grandson despite us being unrelated and who always seemed reasonably pleased to have me in her life. During her eulogy her stoic character was remarked upon several times, with appropriately positive examples. It's interesting to me that when we do that we are perhaps thinking of it in terms of a virtue that we are reasonably okay not to possess, as though we secretly value our inability to exhibit the key traits, that somehow it might signify that we are more frail and therefore more human.
I came across this post a while ago with this mindset of "not caring" as a way to be cool or solve these "grievances". It's a solution which makes you devoid of all emotions by suppressing and ignoring them. It doesn't work. Everything that you suppress either lingers or comes back 10x worse. I commented something along the lines or "this doesn't work" and someone told me I didn't try hard enough. What does getting rid of emotions give us more power to do? We don't need to dominate and control others and ourselves in order to solve emotional pain. It's kind of like the "villain arc" that was trending for a while. There is more control in letting yourself feel emotions than in restraining yourself for the sake of revenge or power.
I like these videos. Been waiting for the next one for a while. They make me think.
The idea of accumulation of wealth beyond what we need in our projected lives is in itself a sign of greed and low self worth. It amuses me how many self help programmes simply feed this greed.
TERRIFIC video. As an old guy who took several Philosophy classes in college a hundred years ago I see a lot of appeal in Stoicism but I ALSO see how it’s been co-opted by ugly manosphere types. Thanks for this concise, thoughtful examination of the path to reclaim it for everyone.
Your delivery is so calming :) also thanks for pointing to the philosophy tube video on stoicism! Abigail’s video are so much fun and thought provoking. I’ve been learning about stoicism and other Ancient Greek philosophy since Ali Abdaal made his first video on Stoicism. Recently, I’ve found myself more inclined towards Epicureanism, which also has been misinterpreted by its modern day use of the lower case word ‘epicurean’.
Bravo 👏🏻 such important gems in this video!!! Thank you Fads!!!
I find your personality and way of presenting information to be so calming and comforting. That’s a hard thing to accomplish, considering this stuff is heavy. Your amazing, just subscribed.
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stoicism isn't about going it alone, it's about requiring anything from another, because that's when they can enslave us, and that's when we can be made to do evil and suffer. It's not about giving up power or claiming power, it's about knowing what you do and don't have power over and holding back emotional judgement for the things we can't control. (do not mix up the words "don't" and "can't"). Stoicism isn't about having a fancy car and lots of women, it's moreso about how worthless those things are in actuality(not that they can't be used for worth while things, a car can be used to transport people to a hospital, but the car itself is worthless without a worthwhile end).
TL;DR: Stoicism is the idea that everything that's truly valuable to you is within your power already, the ability to act virtuously by being just, wise, tempered, and courageous. No man can take your ability to act virtuously, and so no man can threaten you, enslave you, destroy what you love, and you can be free for however long you live. "but the man who is a slave will live longer!" does he really live?
nuh uh
Seneca said "Show me a man who is not a slave; one is a slave to lust, another to greed, another to ambition, and all men are slaves to fear." Stoicism is misunderstood by the majority, thinking it to be an “unemotional dedication to the hustle”. That’s just capitalistic 21st century, not stoicism. A true stoic recognizes the cost of ambition and any other vice for that matter, and constantly checks himself. Is this what I truly need? Or is this my ambition? Seneca the younger would frequently and voluntarily live on the streets to remind himself that his ambition only fed his ego, not his true needs or wants. Though we need not live on the streets as Seneca did, we should meditate on what’s truly important and live in the present moment.
I can't believe I'm only just discovering your channel, what great content. It's sad the way Stoicism seems to have turned into a way to justify isolation or a lack of emotional awareness rather than a way of connecting with your own emotional experience and improving your overall self-awareness.
I just wanted to take a moment to express my appreciation for your thought-provoking videos. I find myself eagerly awaiting each new video, as they always leave me with a fresh perspective on the topic. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and passion with us. Keep up the fantastic work!
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It's nice to as someone online that has an understanding that one thing isn't dying your life. You have a nuanced perspective on things and I love it.
Dude, this channel is so underrated... Keep up the great work!
The book "Meditations" actually helped me during the worst of 2020. I am a *very* anxious person, and I knew the year was gonna be an ugly one, which is why I opted to read it. It was one of the most beautiful books I have ever read in my life, that showed the importance of emotion management, the understanding of what life is like and has been like, counting your blessings, and working for your family and the people you love as part of your nature.
It's been disturbing to see how a philosophy of community and emotional management turned into a tool for grifters, telling others to "man up" and bury emotions.
only 3 minutes in but the manner in which you present yourself really calms and enlightens me at the same time. thank you for having such a healthy way of approaching the world and hope youre having a wonderful day :)
I don’t know why but I’m not able to talk how I used to. I used to be able to talk to girls, and basically talk my way into their life and eventually with almost any girl I could have fall in love with me. Then there was a two year gap of no dating, and then a serious relationship happened. It went through its spell, grand beginning, weeded out in the middle, and crashed at the end. That was Nov 11 2023 for me. When everything ended. Now, the only thing I have is imposter syndrome. No matter what situation I’m in, I don’t feel like I belong in my family anymore, around friends, I do not feel like I belong anywhere. Something serious has changed for me, I’m unable to be how I used to be. I was a lot more outgoing, but something changed and it’s made it really hard for me to comfortable. Why? I did feel like for the entire year and a half I lived with my girlfriend that I was nothing more than an imposter with sexual needs. Eventually, I lost myself to that syndrome and slowly drove her away. It’s maddening. Why must I change? Why do I feel like this all the time? Like I don’t belong? I’m slowly healing and starting to feel like I belong in my own room and my own house. I don’t feel like I was created for a job, school, money, or anything the US has made. It’s a depressing reality. If I could’ve chosen where I was
Born, id want to have been born into a tribe, or some offgrid family. Because that’s the way a human is meant to live, nothing but relationships, worrying about what you’ll eat, etc. that’s the simple life I feel like I was created for. So now, no matter where I am I always feel like an imposter because of how much stimulation is in the modern life. It’s sickening and makes me depressed. But as I said, I’m healing and I’m slowly adjusting. But I don’t want to feel this way anymore. I look around, everyone is able to function like they aren’t aware of how strange the world is right now. They just live, with almost no ability to question themselves, others, or anything. How? I can do nothing but question and be so excruciatingly aware of everything that just, wouldn’t exist if I had just been born into a life a human was meant to live in, which is a simple life, full of relationships, connections, and perhaps something much more simple than SOFTWARE ENGINEERING. Like being a carpenter, and artist, etc. it’s sad too because I am an artist. I’ve been drawing my whole life. But I’m not going to chase that just because that skill is so useless in comparison to the competitiveness of the field. Please, how does one feel better about all of this? It locks me up. Makes me shutdown. Nearly had to go to a mental hospital. But like I said, I’m barely picking up the things I need to keep going. When another push comes to shove, I may break all the way back down. And that’s what I always do, it’s the same cycle I’ve had since I was 13 when I had all of these realizations and started becoming more and more unstable.
I relate to what you're going through, but I can tell you, it will get better. You're not the imposter; the sheep around you are the imposters, playing at living but only existing. You'll find more people like yourself as you get older. I've been an artist all my life, but when home computers became more available, I quit my corporate job and started a design/copy editing business at home when I was 37 so that I could paint in my studio (almost) anytime I wanted. I was already good at copy editing, but I taught myself Photoshop and Illustrator and was on my way. Absolute best decision I made in my life. I'm 64 now, and sometimes I still shudder to think what would have happened to me if, after I graduated art college and got a corporate job, I had continued on that path. Don't waste your life! Put yourself in situations where you can find like-minded people. You'll get there. Good luck!
The way you explain things is so easy to digest I haven’t seen you in my feed in a while glad to catch a new video 😊
Hey man you're doing great video I love listening to you. The videos often cut right when I want to hear you speak more about a subject. You should make longer videos.
I’m so happy this guy is popping off. Such wholesome and informative content.
Just yesterday i thought about this channel. I was starting to miss your videos. And today i saw that you posted a video. Keep up the good work. It's always nice to see you.
I really love watching your channel, not just because of the really high-quality, interesting content, but also because you seem like a really reflected, genuine person. ik one doesn't know anyone on the internet and everyone's presenting themselves a specific way but still, I hope I can be more like you someday
ur gonna make me cry fella
Great video , thank you for the well put together presentation. You sir gained a follower today. Looking forward to the next videos
Love your message and how it is presented. So many folks need to discover these ideas and apply them in their own way to their lives. Hope for the best in your future!
As I'm sure many people have said already, for anyone serious about Stoicism, reading the source material is essential. Seneca's letters are brilliant (a channel called Vox Stoica has audio recordings of most, and they start only 5-10 minutes long). Marcus Aurelius' meditations and the Enchiridion are also great places to start.
My one piece of advice would be to pay attention to the translations. Some are better than others, and the older ones (like the George Long translation for Meditations) can be a little archaic and less reader friendly.
Omg this video is so well made. Love the way you talk and the calm aesthetic of this video. You earned yourself a sub frfr
"Stoicism is not the solution against a systemic problem"
"The realization that the consequence of what i say would cause offense, - would not stop me from saying it"
Not only this is beautifully worded, but it sounds noble and heroic. I can easily imagine Julius Caesar saying that.
Not bad, not bad...
The sheer hilarity of you being interrupted mid-sentence by a Tony Robbins advert just perfectly illustrated your point. Great video on Stoicism!
Just discovered you with other videos, and I love whay you do, I feel I am on the same intellectual lines as yours, it's quite enjoyable ahah. I'll keep watching your videos !
i think hearing "cbt is effective, its been described as the gold standard of therapy", then taking the quote completely out of context and interpreting it that way was honestly the most fun i've had today.
good video too. thanks fads.
Really good video! Please keep making these
Cool video. Pleased to see people talking about this with some understanding.
I've certainly built a lot of Stoicisim into how I live my life and it continually amazes me how people can claim to adopt it yet display no virtue.
it’s ironic. In the upper classes, connections determine more than skills do, so pop-stoicism is counterproductive for the average wealthy person who depend on connections for make investment profits rather than poor and middle classes who have to develop personal skills to sell on the labor market. For the latter, being workers and not owners, no class solidarity is necessary while for the really rich, who rely on the pooling of assets to create banks, corporations, venture capital firms & nonprofits etc. people skills are absolutely essential. Stoicism truly is just a repackaged Prosperity Gospel.
Thanks for the wonderful content! (As a tip, I think you can definitely turn up the background music a notch)
Your videos are always a breath of fresh air in the noise. Thank you Fads.
I want to create a new philosophy of Broicism that doesn’t suck cause it’s such a great word.
I feel bad for Marcus Aurelius. Manosphere took 10% of his Meditations and turned them into an egotic and individualistic thing. It has nothing to do with stoicisim.
Emotions are information about your and your surrounding reality. In order to be able to rule your reaction upon your emotions, you need to feel your emotions, so you can understand them, so they can serve you well.
Great shoutout to Philosophy Tube. Such an awesome channel!
If only more people were like you Fads!
Im studying psychology and hav had the pleasure to do internships to gwt real experience.
Something i always told my students (i was an intern at a school) is that whatever feelings and emotions you have are ok, you have the right to feel however you feel. You cant control them afterall and they are signs your body gives you to help you decide what to do. But we live in complex environments and to truly grow, we need to develop a healthy relashionship where we listen to our bodies and they listen to us. Feeling something is never wrong, what could be wrong or right is what you do with that feeling.
I find it funny that people like Tate are seen as “traditional” too.
Finaly someone speaking about this trends affects on real and good masculanity.
Let me guess, your idea of "good masculanity" is whatever feminists say masculinity should be. And it involves things that don't necessarily help your life at all, but will make women's lives easier?
@@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat this is a pretty random attack like what prompted this. you just made a random assumption to attack someone which is kind of cringy, you need to chill out. Plus you seem to have something against women. if you see Any comment starting with "let me guess", that's how you know it's about to be the most baseless accusation, made from someone who hasnt gone outside in two months. Plus masculinity is a shitty concept, being brave and kind doesn't have to be centred around being a guy, just be brave and kind no matter what you are.
@@gitgudlol8816 So... that's a hard emphatic "YES."
It's such a hard "yes" you actually backpedaled from "only good masculinity" to "masculinity itself is wholly shitty." Really just confirming what I said. Note how you didn't say "masculinity and feminity are a shitty concept" which would actually be somewhat defensible. It's just the one you have a problem with, really. Almost like the people who planted this idea in the society just have a problem with the one...
@@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat yea i agree with that; gender roles are all made up and we should act and build our society on the fact that theyre not so serious... oops i just did an existentialism
@@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat ok genius, i said masculinity because it was the main topic. This is my problem with the internet. Every asshole with a keyboard and an opinion who thinks they're unique thinks there a genius for pointing out things that should have been inferred. See, when someone says "masculinity is a shitty concept" you assume they also mean femininity is included. Maybe if you could actually make an actual logical argument then you wouldn't have to point out a wording error to try to prove someone wrong
Thak you for this video, may your wisdom and your humbleness be inspiring for lost young people on the web!
amazing cut, clear communication, entertaining script - awesome guy
Fantastic vid! I saw your dopamine detox vid a while back and forgot to subscribe, thankful the algorithm showed me this video. And at a perfect time in my life!
I discovered Stoicism a few days ago and realized I had been attempting to practice it for some time now, without ever putting a name to it. I always assumed Stoicism was stoicism and had been dominated by the manosphere, so I never gave it a second thought. So a few days ago, when I discovered what it really meant, I felt cheated that I let these grifters drive me away from a truly incredible philosophy. Oh well, I'm excited to deep dive into it now.
This video really resonated with me. There is so much kindness in your eyes! Cant wait to binge your channel
Easily the most balanced (and wise) channel on youtube. I'll be binging your videos soon. Thank you for your perspective!
Love the content love the vibe!! Maximally pleasant keep it up
I just recently found this channel. Its absolutely amazing how much knowledge you have on psychology. where do you learn it? and keep on making this awesome content :)
thanks!! I have a degree in psychology + neuroscience and I like to do some aggressive googling lol
@@Fads Keep it up. I watch a lot of content, you make excellent stuff. I imagine you'll only get more interesting as you get older. Sooner or later the algorithm will realize what it's missing.
"it's very often intertwined with wealth, whether it's through articles linking billionaires with stoic ideals." Poor Marcus Aurelius' having his philosophy associated with wealth.
This video made me feel warm
I’ve read that the Victorian notion of the “Stiff upper lip” came from their classical education of looking at how the Spartans behaved. I think this expression of Stoicism is one of battle hardened resolve, and has carried through into our modern age of the manosphere. As opposed to the more philosophical and introspective approach of Stoicism that as you rightly pointed out doesn’t deny the validity of such emotions as empathy.
Values and principles still have an emotional underpinning, and work in synergy with logic and structure, rather than this idea of logic vs (all?) emotions.
Love this video by the way man! 😁
Hey, great video! I'll have to check out more of your stuff!
Because stoicism don't require much change and can be somehow perceived as doubling down on what men already believe. It is mostly choosing what to not do?
this guy is so good. i'll be here when you reach 1 million in no time bro.
9:39 is such a powerful line. Really good stuff.
You put words on the feeling I had regarding stoicism. And that was really helpful in a way.
Great vidéo.
9:12 I completely disagree with the idea that we are "more connected than ever"
the neglect and active destruction of public transport, walkable spaces, and their increased expense (along with the difficulties of car ownership) in many parts of the world actually has made us less physically connected. It's why I have friends that I could have seen in under an hour that now have to spend more than 3 hours travelling to see.
Good job man. Great research and very unbiased opinion, I appreciate. You earned a new sub mate! :)
That was easily the smoothest transition into a sponsor I’ve ever seen👏👏 Also I loved the video❤️
great video. Though, I will say just kind of as an aside, CBT is really no longer considered the gold standard of treatment for depression like, at all. At all at all.
These people would be completely hated by someone like Marcus Aurelius. Why must people take over definitions to fit their needs.
honestly in a lot of cases the appeal of stoicism is that it "looks cool" and is an appealing male power fantasy, which is why you see a huge audience for such content is young boys (most who have never worked a day in their lives)
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Thank you for this! Really appreciated your breakdown between classical, philosophical stoicism versus the modern manosphere’s take. Stoicism has a lot to offer as a philosophy and it’s unfortunate to see it depicted as so repressive.
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Your channel is fantastic and you seem like a really intelligent and kind dude. Upload more!
Thanks, I admire your discernment
I’ve been trying to condense my feelings on this sub genre of “philosophy” and you did it in one title.
Great video!
In a cyber-eco-system that fetishises and projects binary thinking thank you for being a nuanced, thoughtful communicator.
We don't necessarily have to name every way a person feels like behaving at the moment. Because that doesn't make them a certain kind of person. It could just mean, thats how they felt at the moment. It is all theory. Yes. people who live by a principle can call themselves stoic though.
I love this post! Nailed it!
My hat’s off to you mate. Bravo 🙌🏼
I really like your content. You seem like a very sensible dude!
Very interesting video. Thank you
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This channel SHOULD HAVE MORE VIEWS !
helpful video, thanks for making it
Excited for this one