The rapper baby momma to reality tv star pipeline is just crazy. Their friendship is a business and that’s it. When it’s no longer lucrative for the both of them they will quickly part ways. I think there friendship is only as strong as the NDA’s they signed .
Jayda doesn't trust Ari as a friend and sees her more as a coworker. Ari highkey wants the friendship because Jayda has something that she doesn't have...LIKEABILITY. Jayda is a "hood adjacent" and "art of war" type of baddie. She plays chess not checkers. Ari is a true hood chick and even though she may dress the part of a "soft life baddie" and run in the same circles as Jayda she lacks that ladylike charm that Jayda effortlessly has. Jayda is smart for keeping her at arms length because tbh Ari is TOXIC AF and would probably wind up doing something grimey to her 🤷🏾♀️ Just the fact that Ari refers to both Jayda and Taina as "playing innocent and victim" when they outsmart her by always playing it cool and allowing Ari to look foolish when she acts out aggressively shows that she still thinks immaturely in a lot of ways. Chess not checkers baby. 💁🏾♀️
@@kabreajanae Yupp Jayda is fully tapped into her feminine energy and is similar to Taina in how they handle confrontation and aggressive personality types. They do not engage and handle their business as much as they can behind closed doors. Ari can't relate to that and atp REFUSES to evolve to that type of maturity and considers it fake or "playing victim/innocent" because to her if you don't like someone or something it HAS to be discussed (LOUDLY and PUBLICLY) whereas Jayda will let her actions do the talking and simply distance herself and not engage on a deep level. ❤️
I feel like this is very true. But the thing about Ari is, she’s not even a hood chick. She was born and raised in the suburbs of Chicago. I think she so desperately wanted to identify and align with the hood while growing up because that’s what Chicago is notable for in the black community. She dedicated herself to & emerged herself in that hood aesthetic by dating hood niggas and becoming friends with actual hood chicks to the point that it influenced her thinking, behavior, way of life to the point it became who she was. Eventually she created an identity for herself that she now can’t escape from.
Women can't talk about female empowerment and then choose friends based off of looks, the things they have or the guys they date. You can't have it both ways.
That part like why are you concerned as to how your friend looks? Are they your friend or are you trying to date them🤣? Like I’d be more concerned about how their behavior is
Girl! Thank you for this video! I said on TSR post that this whole friendship circle looks very fake/superficial to me. And I guess their lil fans came for me! I’m like, y’all are really upset about this… why?! It isn’t changing or effecting your life AT ALL. It’s so weird to me when celebs fans act like this
It’s sheep mentality. Very weird and creepy if you ask me to defend someone to death who don’t know you or gaf about you, which none of these “celebs” do
They the most crazy entities you've ever came across in this life the Fans they defend them like they are sisters or brothers or sum which is a complete sick mentality to have because those celebs vibes very low and they are far from perfect js...
@@naimalee1046 yes! Super fandom is at a dangerous level these days. These fans will allow themselves to be manipulated and gaslit and they just keep riding. It’s very frustrating
Yes Ice Spice has a line her Munch song about not wanting to hang around a girl if she isn’t a baddie. Erica Banks was just the scapegoat but a lot of girls think that way.
"Keeping it real" doesn't mean a person is right. These young ladies are all vapid and shallow, they bring nothing of importance to anyone. There lives are plastic and artificial
@@LaiLai.. because it wasn't the public fuckin business lol she doesn't have to "boldly" tell yall anything. 🤣 that's yall problem now. Too entitled to strangers spaces/thoughts/ feelings. That's why the feature exists.
i never liked how people sit here n make “babymamas” famous anyways..we need a better representation for black women without all the surgery, mean girl mentality, entitlement n stereotypes..they fit right into, ik there are other classy black women we jus dont give them as much energy which is not surprising
Representation to look good for white people? Lol yall not good role models for the kids yall close to. It's why they gravitate towards strangers. That is the community's fault. Not an influencer. White girls aren't saying " white girls need better Representation than Kim k" ..... and what is she most famous for? For the men she's fucked. But blk curls can't simply exist ans thrive off their connections. They MUST do "something" to be considered valued. They do it to Lori too.
@@ArriBarbie exactly thats not all we good for at all! its black doctors, lawyers, politicians, teachers, therapists n everything to represent us in another light n seein the way people look up to them wantin to be exactly like them i jus ask why?? take away everything they got they left with nothing no actual talent or skills
I myself was in an aesthetic friendship , the girl sought after me and I thought she’d be someone who’s be a real friend until I noticed I would only be invited out when she wanted to turn up never just a chill hang out day . We were in a modeling group and she’d always hmu before a shoot to see what I’d wear and see how we can almost match . But she did a lot of weird things I realized she didn’t value me as a real friend but only a friend for a certain look. It’s so much more of this in this generation seriously
It’s crazy a women would desire to be your friend solely from jealousy, it’s really scary , they’ll never like you but want to be close to you just enough to suck you energy and essence , that’s psychotic smh
And a lot of those girls are actually jealous and is keeping the “enemy” close instead of actually growing up and out of their insecurities to form real life friendships
@@shakanuhglorie8444 veryyyy psychotic !! Never even thought of it like that until I started seeing little signs . For one she had no friends but was older than me . And anytime she got in the phone with just was always talkin mad shit about someone I’d have to hang up cause the energy was giving low vibrations.
@@bubblesactivated veryyyy true something I’ve come to realize now I’m very mindful of these signs early because once she got all the connections and what she wanted from me she was on to the the next
The gay community is like this too. If you’re not muscular, light skinned/white, rich, and have the “perfect” features, you won’t have friends let alone find love. Which begs the question, are these women looking for lovers or friends? Cause this is giving strong DL vibes. Ladies be cautious, cause if any girl talks/behaves like this it’s most likely they’re either insanely immature or high-key wanna sleep with you. Yes women can be DL too.
It’s interesting that you said this. I saw another commenter on another video say that Jayda and Ari are acting like they have messed around with each other before.🤔
Ok so .... I just have to say this. I can really appreciate watching Chioma’s videos because her grammar, vernacular and the way she chooses her words and talking points are so knowledgeable and educational. I’m older than you Chioma; 40. My eldest Son is your age or close to, in his last year of College, and as an older woman, I really appreciate you. You verbally showcase with every video no matter the topic, that speaking eloquently is still valued with the youth. In a sea where ratchetness, slang, and the overtly usage of profanity is “the thing” now, you make me proud to see that there still exist young women with morals, who value their education and not only respect themselves and what they project onto the world, but also the respect they have for the Parents, is something that young beautiful black ladies, still hold on to. Kudos to you my Dear. You are a class act!
I wholeheartedly agree with you…. Her points are well articulated and she’s just an all round intelligent and confident being. I love that about her and her channel 👏🏾👏🏾
I definitely Agree, she always gave unbiased opinions, her vocabulary, definitions and is very articulate with her words. I grew up watching her in my college years and very happy she continues to make prominent and educated videos on the internet subject to get a deeper understanding of things.
If “imma protect my peace” was a person, It’d be Jayda. She has boundaries when it comes to certain friends, that’s all. She doesn’t have to be best friends with Ari. She can fw her from a far. I don’t blame Jayda for not wanting to fw Ari because she’s petty and childish. Plus, Jayda already has a best friend.
@@chicharon2290 A boyfriend and a friend is completely different. We DON’T know the relationship between her and Baby but I know that what’s understood doesn’t need to be explained.
@@marciaa6125 she don’t owe Ari anything. Not her word, friendship or a dime. If Ari wants to be Jayda friend so bad, she needs to change her attitude and demeanor. Nobody wants to be Ari’s friend 🤣
I think people tend to be attracted to people that look like themselves, have similar experiences, and wealth. Couples can start to look like brother and sister. We see it at all different stages of our life. We cross over have diverse friends but at the end of the day in our comfort zone we fall back with our tribe.
Jayde already has her day’s one with her and don’t want to be friends with Ari!!! Ari low-key is a mean girl. Ari will put them hands on her own friends.. Jayde is not about that life 😮
you don’t know how jayda acts behind closed doors y’all run with this fake image ppl withhold on social media whole time she’s classy, quiet, and positive online bc that’s how she makes her money.
@@SuperBarbarzkingdom she definitely does…ik for a fact if the shoe was on the other foot and ari was the villain in their show jayda wouldn’t be saying anything about it every 2 seconds. she been throwing ari and tae under the bus acting like it’s their fault that the show is painting her out to be weird and fake so now she just revealing her true self.
Thank you for pointing out that it’s possible to not realize that you’re in an aesthetic friendship. My first couple years of college, I kept getting roped into them and, when I saw that all the girls who approached me were pretty, I thought that college girls just glowed up and they were approaching me because we all liked fashion/makeup. After a while, I realized none of them liked each other and that I wasn’t all that interested in their goals either. I bailed once I realized what was up but it was a strange experience for me.
Very true. I see aesthetic friendships often and I’ll say this. If one of the actual IT girls said what Erica banks said, there wouldn’t be as much backlash and more women would agree.
Aesthetic friendship don’t last long just lik the aesthetic their trying to be . The aesthetic friendship die just lik the trend aesthetic 😭 thank u for makin this video it was really good but I’m happy I got my little one Bestfriend since middle school 🤞🏾
I stopped talking to all my friends bc I honestly felt like when I was asking for advice it was bland advice or level surfaced advice I never made them uncomfortable when it comes to telling me what they honestly think what’s best for me I want them to be honest but when I ask for advice it was always “you’ll be okay.” “You’re pretty don’t worry about it.” “You’re so pretty why would you think that” like no especially when I give my all when they ask for an opinion I never talked bad about them and I don’t plan on doing it cuz that’s just sick but I just distant myself until I can figure out what type of friendship I truly want
@t33 ☆ yessss like when I was going to have a fight one of my friends was like calling me and trying to get tea about the fight and her friend who aren’t even my friends were calling me and talking about them come with me like at the time I didn’t realize but I don’t talk to them people and they never contacted me before I tried that and they eat off that drama stuff and I hate it I just had to leave everybody alone
Ari is bad for Jayda’s brand. The loud, out-spoken, ghetto, bangy, hood rad girl works for Ari. I’m not mad at Jayda for drawing the line. Ari has her clique. Jayda has her clique. And sometimes they clique together. It doesn’t have to be FORCED how Ari is forcing it. Like girl we go to the club together, I’m not coming to ur “photo shoot” LOL
And plus Ari was in the midst of being cancelled. Girl I’m not coming around u LMFAO! Tae under that Nicki M cloud (which be drama) Ari got her own BD & MoneybagYoo, and she unfiltered drama. Jayda got her Lil Baby drama. It’s just too much.
Lol you said it best! Jayda has that business woman image to uphold. Being besties with Ari is definitely a bad look. Idc what anybody says. Ari lost a while deal with savage Fenty because she's ghetto and unprofessional. That can rub off off jayda. Lol she not having that!
I feel like once everyone seen the IG girls wearing matching fits in Guswoo the clothing brand people just shipped them as friendship goals cause I remember it was going viral when they linked for his brand and it made his brand very well know the ladies loved to see them in photos and collaborations together
I agree. I hate her head shape, it’s funny looking. She looks like an alien 👽so does ari. Both have pretty faces but too much surgery has made their head disproportionate to their faces. Looks so puffy and out of whack. I noticed that with Cardi too. She didn’t look like that before. Not she just looks weird. Their babies are cute those.
When Jayda did that Cat eye lift surgery it made her eyes looks lazy idk if she ever realize that but aye🤷🏾♀️and she was beautiful but again u can't say shit about them without their lil demons coming for u...
These girls have completelyyyy different personalities. I’m happy I have the same friends since my childhood and didn’t have to worry about fake friendships and getting into sections in the club. If I was in my early 20s in this day in age I wouldn’t make it
There’s competition between them really because Ari ain’t reached Jayda level yet And she’s a lil jealous about it! also They just don’t seem like each other’s cup of tea. Which Is fine, keep it cordial!
Honestly I can't tell any of these young ladies apart!! They are like cookie cutter girls: same weave, same long eyelashes and nails, same bbl, same expensive handbag, etc. They seem to be vapid and shallow. I wonder what type of attitudes will they have when they turn 40?
jayda the only one who actually shows she’s intimidated though….. ari always showed up for her but jayda never returned that gesture she can’t handle not always being in the limelight
@@yanil1567 no she just don’t fool with her like that. We’ve all Had a chance to see how Ari act-I would avoid her too but its just difficult when they get lumped together and I don’t think it’s deep enough to miss a bag💰 over… hence this forced ass show. Jayda is the biggest influencer amongst the two
Love this topic for the simple fact that I feel you about Aesthetic friendships, which are so corny to me. I can only imagine those superficial social interactions being busy just taking filtered selfies and dead gossip, I could only survive 5 mins before I call an Uber lol
Tae could have been unstoppable , instead he has ghetto black clients; idc how famous they are. Even his videos with Nikki. Sometimes you have to play the part to elevate. He could have been on the sets of plenty Hollywood movies doing hair for the girls. He’s talented but it’s wasted with the ppl he’s arnd. SMH
I think if he wanted to be on Hollywood sets at this point in his life, he would be. He has the talent and drive and he’s smart. I think he’s in this era where he wants to be, with the gworls having fun, nothing wrong w/ that. If he ever wants to maneuver into the Hollywood sets, he’ll know what to do to get there. His career ain’t no where near over and he can ALWAYZ rebrand.
I think they’re try to make a friendship based off the fact that they’re both social media famous and “it” girls. It’s not a genuine friendship like Jayda and Dess have. They would be better off just being acquaintances for social media brands and stuff.
They both just the dominant friend , they both got the looks and both heavily influenced the ppl . It’s a struggle of how more popular! I like both my bestfriend a Libra like jayda they like playing victim sometimes but has a heart of gold lol
I feel like ppl in normal lives do this too. This topic crossed my mind the other day but more in regards to normal ppl. I feel with normal ppl the motive is to maintain a popular girl image and get invited to the latest events and stuff.
Ego is also the problem. The whole you ain't speak to me/ you should've came up to me like what lol. They are very different people though. You hit the nail on the head... and if you're not familiar with them, Ari has problems with pretty much everybody Tae likes/ loves lol. It comes in waves but that's ok, they all just have to be mature .. bc in an industry where the line is blurred and life happens quickly, it's easy to get in your feelings when shit happens. I get that.
None of these girls are truly friends unless they were friends before the clout. Like Dess and Jayda for an example. Its giving let’s take pictures for the gram because we’re pretty and go our separate ways 😂.
Yeah after watching the show it’s very clear that Ari is the problem. As we all knew that lol. Ari and Tae are NOT her real friends. But Jayda knows that and acts accordingly . She knows who her real friends are and she keeps Ari and Tae at coworker status.
Just like any other reality show, it's staged. They definitely don't have any chemistry to be real friends. Ari too ghetto and aggressive to be Jayda friend
why ppl keep saying “friendship” when it’s literally a business.. when they’re seen together they make more money. the media keep trying to make them friends and it puts them in a weird position because even though the know they’re not friends they don’t want to seem like they’re hating on the other. it’s really simple.
The #1 thing these type of women have in common is getting where they are by having a semi-famous man’s baby and being continuously, publicly, and shamelessly humiliated by these same men… To each they’re own, but I don’t want fame that way.
i was in one of those ! The girl would love to tell ppl we were related or sisters, would call me before we would go out to see what I was wearing and change. I’m thinking I found whatever “sister friendship” till I realized she just liked how we looked together, and over a guy she decided she hated me while still trying to play my friend. Asking ppl who’s prettier? making everything a competition, I was ab to and ready to beat her ass . Realizing this was her mindset from the beginning, just because we look similar or good together we don’t believe in moving the same way. I’ve never compared myself to a friend and it was crazy to go thru
this new Dr. Heavenly and Coach stormy link up is giving similar energy. I just don't get acquiring potential frienmys at a certain age. just because we are "similar" doesn't mean we are aligned or even healthy for one another.👩🏾🏫 #coachcarra
For Jayda it’s okay to keep it professional she already has her circle if you make a friend cool if not oh well her and Ari are completely different even though they have some of the common interest rapper baby daddy luxury lifestyle and career path … and just because you are cool with Tae you don’t have to be in his circle which I feel like she’s a lil bit of people pleaser to
As a cancer I can honestly say that Ari didn't choose Jayda just because of her looks. We pick people to be friends because we like your vibe. We like who you are as a person. But hey everyone had their own opinions.
@@greatvaluebleach1 I just said that lmfao …. Ari is outspoken and Jayda is not used to those type of friends so they don’t match! Girl don’t read to into it too hard 🤣🤣🤣 you obviously can’t read to understand but great paragraph though
@@greatvaluebleach1 she’s the last to know about boundaries lol she got pregnant by a rapper that she knew would have multiple women then was shocked when he cheated but thats another convo black women can’t stand 🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂😂 good day
I think you missed a reason. Ari has been besties with Tae for years and I think it makes sense for Ari to try and be cool with Jayda too since he was bringing her around, the same with Dreamdoll.
i feel like they could become good friends if they took the time to understand each other and learn about each other but other than that they might need to stop
*they don't have a friendship they have a social media ship people feel they should be bff's because they both are rapper babymamas that's influencers but they have two totally different personalities although both aren't so sweet and innocent*
Atp I think YT needs 2 platforms: One for adults and one for kids!!! And I thought Dess and Jayda were best friends, I never felt like her and Ari were friends but mere associates, imo!!
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The rapper baby momma to reality tv star pipeline is just crazy. Their friendship is a business and that’s it. When it’s no longer lucrative for the both of them they will quickly part ways. I think there friendship is only as strong as the NDA’s they signed .
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Very true!
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This is exactly it! Word for word…
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😂😂😂😂the transition was flawless
I was JUST about to type this 😂😂😂
Took me out 😂😂
A lot of people don't know what a good quality friendship is.
I consider myself a great friend!
The Scent Bird promo transition was cold, I ain’t gon hold you.
No shade ! She did that 😂
Jayda doesn't trust Ari as a friend and sees her more as a coworker. Ari highkey wants the friendship because Jayda has something that she doesn't have...LIKEABILITY. Jayda is a "hood adjacent" and "art of war" type of baddie. She plays chess not checkers. Ari is a true hood chick and even though she may dress the part of a "soft life baddie" and run in the same circles as Jayda she lacks that ladylike charm that Jayda effortlessly has. Jayda is smart for keeping her at arms length because tbh Ari is TOXIC AF and would probably wind up doing something grimey to her 🤷🏾♀️ Just the fact that Ari refers to both Jayda and Taina as "playing innocent and victim" when they outsmart her by always playing it cool and allowing Ari to look foolish when she acts out aggressively shows that she still thinks immaturely in a lot of ways. Chess not checkers baby. 💁🏾♀️
THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT IT IS !
Wow this opened my mind more about the whole thing!
@@kabreajanae Yupp Jayda is fully tapped into her feminine energy and is similar to Taina in how they handle confrontation and aggressive personality types. They do not engage and handle their business as much as they can behind closed doors. Ari can't relate to that and atp REFUSES to evolve to that type of maturity and considers it fake or "playing victim/innocent" because to her if you don't like someone or something it HAS to be discussed (LOUDLY and PUBLICLY) whereas Jayda will let her actions do the talking and simply distance herself and not engage on a deep level. ❤️
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I feel like this is very true. But the thing about Ari is, she’s not even a hood chick. She was born and raised in the suburbs of Chicago. I think she so desperately wanted to identify and align with the hood while growing up because that’s what Chicago is notable for in the black community. She dedicated herself to & emerged herself in that hood aesthetic by dating hood niggas and becoming friends with actual hood chicks to the point that it influenced her thinking, behavior, way of life to the point it became who she was. Eventually she created an identity for herself that she now can’t escape from.
Women can't talk about female empowerment and then choose friends based off of looks, the things they have or the guys they date. You can't have it both ways.
That part like why are you concerned as to how your friend looks? Are they your friend or are you trying to date them🤣? Like I’d be more concerned about how their behavior is
@@chanela.7786 exactly
People can do what they please.
Girl! Thank you for this video! I said on TSR post that this whole friendship circle looks very fake/superficial to me. And I guess their lil fans came for me! I’m like, y’all are really upset about this… why?! It isn’t changing or effecting your life AT ALL. It’s so weird to me when celebs fans act like this
It’s sheep mentality. Very weird and creepy if you ask me to defend someone to death who don’t know you or gaf about you, which none of these “celebs” do
They the most crazy entities you've ever came across in this life the Fans they defend them like they are sisters or brothers or sum which is a complete sick mentality to have because those celebs vibes very low and they are far from perfect js...
@@naimalee1046 yes! Super fandom is at a dangerous level these days. These fans will allow themselves to be manipulated and gaslit and they just keep riding. It’s very frustrating
@@itsalrightitsok929 facts
I feel like what Erica Banks said is how most of the IG chicks feel, she got a lot of hate but atleast she kept it real
Yes Ice Spice has a line her Munch song about not wanting to hang around a girl if she isn’t a baddie. Erica Banks was just the scapegoat but a lot of girls think that way.
"Keeping it real" doesn't mean a person is right. These young ladies are all vapid and shallow, they bring nothing of importance to anyone. There lives are plastic and artificial
Erica was exposed by someone on her close friend list so she didn’t even boldly say it to the public. That’s the funny part.
@@LaiLai.. because it wasn't the public fuckin business lol she doesn't have to "boldly" tell yall anything. 🤣 that's yall problem now. Too entitled to strangers spaces/thoughts/ feelings. That's why the feature exists.
@@Prettynolegirl baddie can mean anything. Erica straight up said she don’t want skinny people around her in a club.
i never liked how people sit here n make “babymamas” famous anyways..we need a better representation for black women without all the surgery, mean girl mentality, entitlement n stereotypes..they fit right into, ik there are other classy black women we jus dont give them as much energy which is not surprising
Representation to look good for white people? Lol yall not good role models for the kids yall close to. It's why they gravitate towards strangers. That is the community's fault. Not an influencer.
White girls aren't saying " white girls need better Representation than Kim k" ..... and what is she most famous for? For the men she's fucked. But blk curls can't simply exist ans thrive off their connections. They MUST do "something" to be considered valued. They do it to Lori too.
It’s like they promoting single black mothers which is not a bad thing but it’s all about the messages it sends to people.. Bc people follow them
@@ArriBarbie exactly thats not all we good for at all! its black doctors, lawyers, politicians, teachers, therapists n everything to represent us in another light n seein the way people look up to them wantin to be exactly like them i jus ask why?? take away everything they got they left with nothing no actual talent or skills
@@samillaa THAT PART! I hate the mass projection like project positivity not mean girls.
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I myself was in an aesthetic friendship , the girl sought after me and I thought she’d be someone who’s be a real friend until I noticed I would only be invited out when she wanted to turn up never just a chill hang out day . We were in a modeling group and she’d always hmu before a shoot to see what I’d wear and see how we can almost match . But she did a lot of weird things I realized she didn’t value me as a real friend but only a friend for a certain look. It’s so much more of this in this generation seriously
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It’s crazy a women would desire to be your friend solely from jealousy, it’s really scary , they’ll never like you but want to be close to you just enough to suck you energy and essence , that’s psychotic smh
And a lot of those girls are actually jealous and is keeping the “enemy” close instead of actually growing up and out of their insecurities to form real life friendships
@@shakanuhglorie8444 veryyyy psychotic !! Never even thought of it like that until I started seeing little signs . For one she had no friends but was older than me . And anytime she got in the phone with just was always talkin mad shit about someone I’d have to hang up cause the energy was giving low vibrations.
@@bubblesactivated veryyyy true something I’ve come to realize now I’m very mindful of these signs early because once she got all the connections and what she wanted from me she was on to the the next
The gay community is like this too. If you’re not muscular, light skinned/white, rich, and have the “perfect” features, you won’t have friends let alone find love. Which begs the question, are these women looking for lovers or friends? Cause this is giving strong DL vibes. Ladies be cautious, cause if any girl talks/behaves like this it’s most likely they’re either insanely immature or high-key wanna sleep with you. Yes women can be DL too.
That’s a good point!!!! I don’t think real friends exist in hollywierd. It’s too superficial!
It’s interesting that you said this. I saw another commenter on another video say that Jayda and Ari are acting like they have messed around with each other before.🤔
@@deedeexo9819 WOW
This comment is probably true
The two of them look like they've done something before
@@luly2369 Crazy, right? 😂 This wasn’t something I picked up on at first. I just thought their personalities just didn’t mesh well🤷🏽♀️
Ok so .... I just have to say this. I can really appreciate watching Chioma’s videos because her grammar, vernacular and the way she chooses her words and talking points are so knowledgeable and educational. I’m older than you Chioma; 40. My eldest Son is your age or close to, in his last year of College, and as an older woman, I really appreciate you. You verbally showcase with every video no matter the topic, that speaking eloquently is still valued with the youth. In a sea where ratchetness, slang, and the overtly usage of profanity is “the thing” now, you make me proud to see that there still exist young women with morals, who value their education and not only respect themselves and what they project onto the world, but also the respect they have for the Parents, is something that young beautiful black ladies, still hold on to. Kudos to you my Dear. You are a class act!
I wholeheartedly agree with you…. Her points are well articulated and she’s just an all round intelligent and confident being. I love that about her and her channel 👏🏾👏🏾
You couldn’t have said it better !!!! Chioma you are phenomenal.
I definitely Agree, she always gave unbiased opinions, her vocabulary, definitions and is very articulate with her words. I grew up watching her in my college years and very happy she continues to make prominent and educated videos on the internet subject to get a deeper understanding of things.
If “imma protect my peace” was a person, It’d be Jayda. She has boundaries when it comes to certain friends, that’s all. She doesn’t have to be best friends with Ari. She can fw her from a far. I don’t blame Jayda for not wanting to fw Ari because she’s petty and childish. Plus, Jayda already has a best friend.
LMFAO the woman who allowed a rapper to dog her out time and time again has boundaries? Lol could’ve fooled me
She should of set those boundaries with her Baby Daddy.....
@@chicharon2290 exactly. This generation teaches girls to be hard af on their friends but accept anything running behind a man, I hate that
@@chicharon2290 A boyfriend and a friend is completely different.
We DON’T know the relationship between her and Baby but I know that what’s understood doesn’t need to be explained.
@@marciaa6125 she don’t owe Ari anything. Not her word, friendship or a dime. If Ari wants to be Jayda friend so bad, she needs to change her attitude and demeanor. Nobody wants to be Ari’s friend 🤣
I think people tend to be attracted to people that look like themselves, have similar experiences, and wealth. Couples can start to look like brother and sister. We see it at all different stages of our life. We cross over have diverse friends but at the end of the day in our comfort zone we fall back with our tribe.
I agree and don’t think there’s anything wrong with it either. Dont we all seek friendships with people who have similar interests/goals as us.
Jayde already has her day’s one with her and don’t want to be friends with Ari!!! Ari low-key is a mean girl. Ari will put them hands on her own friends.. Jayde is not about that life 😮
Lol “low- key” she’s the epitome 💀 that’s the same woman that told someone that she didn’t care about them getting abused by their partner
you don’t know how jayda acts behind closed doors y’all run with this fake image ppl withhold on social media whole time she’s classy, quiet, and positive online bc that’s how she makes her money.
@@yanil1567 she’s throws rock and hidin her hands 🤚 ms Golden told us when she’s come for lil baby 1st born son
@@SuperBarbarzkingdom she definitely does…ik for a fact if the shoe was on the other foot and ari was the villain in their show jayda wouldn’t be saying anything about it every 2 seconds.
she been throwing ari and tae under the bus acting like it’s their fault that the show is painting her out to be weird and fake so now she just revealing her true self.
Nope Jayda will hide and have her sister do it. 😂
Thank you for pointing out that it’s possible to not realize that you’re in an aesthetic friendship. My first couple years of college, I kept getting roped into them and, when I saw that all the girls who approached me were pretty, I thought that college girls just glowed up and they were approaching me because we all liked fashion/makeup. After a while, I realized none of them liked each other and that I wasn’t all that interested in their goals either. I bailed once I realized what was up but it was a strange experience for me.
Very true. I see aesthetic friendships often and I’ll say this. If one of the actual IT girls said what Erica banks said, there wouldn’t be as much backlash and more women would agree.
Ooop 😮
Aesthetic friendship don’t last long just lik the aesthetic their trying to be . The aesthetic friendship die just lik the trend aesthetic 😭 thank u for makin this video it was really good but I’m happy I got my little one Bestfriend since middle school 🤞🏾
Jayda is beautiful asf I swear she just stands out in those group pictures.
🤣🤣🤣
why compare women
I stopped talking to all my friends bc I honestly felt like when I was asking for advice it was bland advice or level surfaced advice I never made them uncomfortable when it comes to telling me what they honestly think what’s best for me I want them to be honest but when I ask for advice it was always “you’ll be okay.” “You’re pretty don’t worry about it.” “You’re so pretty why would you think that” like no especially when I give my all when they ask for an opinion I never talked bad about them and I don’t plan on doing it cuz that’s just sick but I just distant myself until I can figure out what type of friendship I truly want
Girl I can relate!
Unfortunately...join the club. More fakeness out here than realness.
OmG 😂 “You’re pretty don’t worry about it” it’s a crazy thing to say when someone needs help 😂😂😂😂
@t33 ☆ yessss like when I was going to have a fight one of my friends was like calling me and trying to get tea about the fight and her friend who aren’t even my friends were calling me and talking about them come with me like at the time I didn’t realize but I don’t talk to them people and they never contacted me before I tried that and they eat off that drama stuff and I hate it I just had to leave everybody alone
“My moms dying and suffering with anguish😭”
“your pretty dont worry about it🙄”
Huh?
Just while I’m sitting here feeling sad, an upload from QUEEN CHIOMA🙌🏽 this lifted my spirits 🫶🏽
Hope things get better!❤️
Same 🥹
Aww, feel better love. It's cool to see you here. No wonder I vibe with your content. We have similar taste. 😉😉😉
Keep your head up. The sun will shine again. Blessings to you!
@@Nille0212 I just seen this Tennille I’m so glad you like my content thank you so much!!!
It's giving highschool mean girls vibes
Perfect timing Chioma I’m out from classes & soon as I get in the car you post. We love you queen 🫶🏾🤍
Ari is bad for Jayda’s brand. The loud, out-spoken, ghetto, bangy, hood rad girl works for Ari. I’m not mad at Jayda for drawing the line. Ari has her clique. Jayda has her clique. And sometimes they clique together. It doesn’t have to be FORCED how Ari is forcing it. Like girl we go to the club together, I’m not coming to ur “photo shoot” LOL
Exactly
Lol
And plus Ari was in the midst of being cancelled. Girl I’m not coming around u LMFAO! Tae under that Nicki M cloud (which be drama) Ari got her own BD & MoneybagYoo, and she unfiltered drama. Jayda got her Lil Baby drama. It’s just too much.
Lol you said it best! Jayda has that business woman image to uphold. Being besties with Ari is definitely a bad look. Idc what anybody says. Ari lost a while deal with savage Fenty because she's ghetto and unprofessional. That can rub off off jayda. Lol she not having that!
I don’t think any of these girls have real friends tbh and it’s sad
Exactly! I feel like everything is simply transactional and smoke and mirrors
‘AESTHETIC FRIENDSHIP’…love the way you put that.
Omg you posted just in time. Haha I’m at the airport waiting for my man to land and I definitely need some tea to pass the time 🤪
I’m in the airport tryna go back to ny. Why it be so cold in here? Lol
@@KawaiiPrncessBby Nah fr! I was freezing in that airport 😂💀
Iam so profoundly happy I don't know who or what you are talking about....
Good luck to all.
I feel like once everyone seen the IG girls wearing matching fits in Guswoo the clothing brand people just shipped them as friendship goals cause I remember it was going viral when they linked for his brand and it made his brand very well know the ladies loved to see them in photos and collaborations together
Jayda really needs to stop doing stuff to her face
I was thinking the same thing she is already beautiful her and jania but I guess that’s their choice
I agree. I hate her head shape, it’s funny looking. She looks like an alien 👽so does ari. Both have pretty faces but too much surgery has made their head disproportionate to their faces. Looks so puffy and out of whack. I noticed that with Cardi too. She didn’t look like that before. Not she just looks weird. Their babies are cute those.
All of them do! They are young beautiful ladies who are starting to look weird and a lot older than they should
Its looking strong
When Jayda did that Cat eye lift surgery it made her eyes looks lazy idk if she ever realize that but aye🤷🏾♀️and she was beautiful but again u can't say shit about them without their lil demons coming for u...
You killed that promo it looks so pretty and professional, good shit chioma
Lmao the way you slid that Ad in there was so slick 🤣 get yours Chioma 🤌🏾
the scent bird promo has me crying. you’re so clever for slipping that in 😭😭😭😭😭😭
These girls have completelyyyy different personalities. I’m happy I have the same friends since my childhood and didn’t have to worry about fake friendships and getting into sections in the club. If I was in my early 20s in this day in age I wouldn’t make it
There’s competition between them really because Ari ain’t reached Jayda level yet And she’s a lil jealous about it! also They just don’t seem like each other’s cup of tea. Which Is fine, keep it cordial!
Honestly I can't tell any of these young ladies apart!! They are like cookie cutter girls: same weave, same long eyelashes and nails, same bbl, same expensive handbag, etc. They seem to be vapid and shallow. I wonder what type of attitudes will they have when they turn 40?
jayda the only one who actually shows she’s intimidated though….. ari always showed up for her but jayda never returned that gesture she can’t handle not always being in the limelight
@@rucianapollard7098 ain’t no tellin! They better ride this wave before their time is up lol😅
@@yanil1567 no she just don’t fool with her like that. We’ve all Had a chance to see how Ari act-I would avoid her too but its just difficult when they get lumped together and I don’t think it’s deep enough to miss a bag💰 over… hence this forced ass show. Jayda is the biggest influencer amongst the two
They’re both on the same level and ari has more clout actually. She doesn’t need her baby daddy and got more popular than him. Jayda needs lil baby
Love this topic for the simple fact that I feel you about Aesthetic friendships, which are so corny to me. I can only imagine those superficial social interactions being busy just taking filtered selfies and dead gossip, I could only survive 5 mins before I call an Uber lol
Love this the Bible verse the break down this is how I feel about friendship well said
Tae could have been unstoppable , instead he has ghetto black clients; idc how famous they are. Even his videos with Nikki. Sometimes you have to play the part to elevate. He could have been on the sets of plenty Hollywood movies doing hair for the girls. He’s talented but it’s wasted with the ppl he’s arnd. SMH
Another good point! He's talented but just as fake and materialistic as his clientele. Smdh 🤦🏾♀️😭
Ghetto black? You could have just said ghetto. Like all black people are ghetto. 🙄
He ain’t broke though and that’s what it’s about !! he does well for himself being how he he is/wants to be
He supports who supports him!
I think if he wanted to be on Hollywood sets at this point in his life, he would be. He has the talent and drive and he’s smart. I think he’s in this era where he wants to be, with the gworls having fun, nothing wrong w/ that. If he ever wants to maneuver into the Hollywood sets, he’ll know what to do to get there. His career ain’t no where near over and he can ALWAYZ rebrand.
Love the Versace perfume and Light Blue. My favs ❤️
I think they’re try to make a friendship based off the fact that they’re both social media famous and “it” girls. It’s not a genuine friendship like Jayda and Dess have. They would be better off just being acquaintances for social media brands and stuff.
Maybe ari is jealous of jayda and dress friendship
They both just the dominant friend , they both got the looks and both heavily influenced the ppl . It’s a struggle of how more popular! I like both my bestfriend a Libra like jayda they like playing victim sometimes but has a heart of gold lol
I feel like ppl in normal lives do this too. This topic crossed my mind the other day but more in regards to normal ppl. I feel with normal ppl the motive is to maintain a popular girl image and get invited to the latest events and stuff.
Chioma’s song at the end is always a bop 🔥
I think that song of yours at the end is a hit. Keep hustling, you'll make it.
That scentbird plug was brilliant
Lol yes Jada keep your guard up...I love it! A woman's intuition is always the way to go.
Your commentary is really the best and the way you slicked in your promotion was way too smooth "and you know what doesn't stink... scentbird"😂😂
Ego is also the problem. The whole you ain't speak to me/ you should've came up to me like what lol. They are very different people though. You hit the nail on the head... and if you're not familiar with them, Ari has problems with pretty much everybody Tae likes/ loves lol. It comes in waves but that's ok, they all just have to be mature .. bc in an industry where the line is blurred and life happens quickly, it's easy to get in your feelings when shit happens. I get that.
In conclusion “birds of a feather 🪶..” you know the rest 🙃
What happened to hanging out with people you actually like?
Thank you!!! Otherwise what is the point of friendship? 🫠
I’m really sick and tired of hearing chiomas song at the end of her videos and not on the radio 😤😤 like she really ate on that song!!!
None of these girls are truly friends unless they were friends before the clout. Like Dess and Jayda for an example. Its giving let’s take pictures for the gram because we’re pretty and go our separate ways 😂.
I think Jayda and Dess are real friends
@@Jessica.Shawnte yes that’s why I said unless they were friends before the clout which Dess and Jayda were.
My feelings are kind of hurt that I wasn’t getting any of your notifications, but kind of happy I have a lot to binge watch ❤️ I missed you Chioma!!
I’m so sick of hearing “throw rocks and hid their hands” lol can people find another analogy PLEASE! great video btw :)
Yeah after watching the show it’s very clear that Ari is the problem. As we all knew that lol. Ari and Tae are NOT her real friends. But Jayda knows that and acts accordingly . She knows who her real friends are and she keeps Ari and Tae at coworker status.
I feel like Jayda would probably vibe more with India
Tae being a stylist puts Ari in places she’s never be.
Just like any other reality show, it's staged. They definitely don't have any chemistry to be real friends. Ari too ghetto and aggressive to be Jayda friend
I used to to be able to tell these two apart . Kept seeing pics and kept thinking it was the same woman
why ppl keep saying “friendship” when it’s literally a business.. when they’re seen together they make more money. the media keep trying to make them friends and it puts them in a weird position because even though the know they’re not friends they don’t want to seem like they’re hating on the other. it’s really simple.
I cannot get over how big Ari's head is. #appleheadhussy
😂😂😂 not apple head omgg you foul
Mama Payne off Martin 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Lmaooo
You still chucking them peas, big face?😂
The #1 thing these type of women have in common is getting where they are by having a semi-famous man’s baby and being continuously, publicly, and shamelessly humiliated by these same men… To each they’re own, but I don’t want fame that way.
Girl I’m glad u called it bcuz I’m sitting here like man these girls ain’t friends more like frenemies
i was in one of those ! The girl would love to tell ppl we were related or sisters, would call me before we would go out to see what I was wearing and change. I’m thinking I found whatever “sister friendship” till I realized she just liked how we looked together, and over a guy she decided she hated me while still trying to play my friend. Asking ppl who’s prettier? making everything a competition, I was ab to and ready to beat her ass . Realizing this was her mindset from the beginning, just because we look similar or good together we don’t believe in moving the same way. I’ve never compared myself to a friend and it was crazy to go thru
You getting slick af with them ads girl , I can’t even be mad lol I was getting my wallet out
okay cause the song at the end is fire!
“You know what also doesn’t skink? SCENT BIRD” 😂
I’ve been a victim of girls only wanting to be my friend for my looks , things I have or vibe..
this new Dr. Heavenly and Coach stormy link up is giving similar energy. I just don't get acquiring potential frienmys at a certain age. just because we are "similar" doesn't mean we are aligned or even healthy for one another.👩🏾🏫 #coachcarra
Wow ! I literally just did a whole UA-cam video on my channel highlighting this exact topic about aesthetic girls.Love the vid girl ❤✨✨
Ayeeeeeee that song @ the end go craazy, Chioma!
Do ya thanggg sisss😮💨❤️❤️❤️
For Jayda it’s okay to keep it professional she already has her circle if you make a friend cool if not oh well her and Ari are completely different even though they have some of the common interest rapper baby daddy luxury lifestyle and career path … and just because you are cool with Tae you don’t have to be in his circle which I feel like she’s a lil bit of people pleaser to
@Bold&Black MuvA Tae is literally her childhood friend. They came up together.
@@kammyr4082 they met when Tae moved to Atlanta he was on the rise at the time Jayda is from savanna Georgia…now ari and Tae came up together
An underdeveloped libra can be a people pleaser and a high vibrational libra is collaborative and cooperative.
Ari & Jayda is like Karlie and Joseline or MiMi and K Michelle
As a cancer I can honestly say that Ari didn't choose Jayda just because of her looks. We pick people to be friends because we like your vibe. We like who you are as a person. But hey everyone had their own opinions.
Link to conversation in the show, courtesy of The Shade Room. instagram.com/p/CjVfzQOLyUH/?igshid=NjQxMzA2Mjk=
I’m getting scent bird now!!!! Thank you🤍
The thing is that Ari is outspoken and Jayda isn’t used to people telling her about herself…
What does that have to do with anything? If she doesn’t want to be her friend, she doesn’t have to! You can set boundaries with certain people.
@@greatvaluebleach1 I just said that lmfao …. Ari is outspoken and Jayda is not used to those type of friends so they don’t match! Girl don’t read to into it too hard 🤣🤣🤣 you obviously can’t read to understand but great paragraph though
@@greatvaluebleach1 she’s the last to know about boundaries lol she got pregnant by a rapper that she knew would have multiple women then was shocked when he cheated but thats another convo black women can’t stand 🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂😂 good day
lol i like how you threw that promo in there 😹😹😹
“Ari is like a bull” PLS😭😭
LMFAOOOOOOOOO that part made me scream I had to rewind to make sure I heard her right 💀😭
The song at the end 🔥🔥🔥
I only know em through your videos about them .
The music at the end thoooo🙌🏾
I swear all these girls starting to look the same, damn I miss the 90s 🥱
That Versace scent is in my queue for next month 😁
Waw I remember singing about the fruits of the spirit in school!! Thanks so much for the reminder chioma. A great verse to live by.
Nice segue with the ScentBird ad!
I think you missed a reason. Ari has been besties with Tae for years and I think it makes sense for Ari to try and be cool with Jayda too since he was bringing her around, the same with Dreamdoll.
i feel like they could become good friends if they took the time to understand each other and learn about each other but other than that they might need to stop
Not “DNKY” ctfu but I appreciate the reference in Galatians. You implemented that very nicely #truth
*they don't have a friendship they have a social media ship people feel they should be bff's because they both are rapper babymamas that's influencers but they have two totally different personalities although both aren't so sweet and innocent*
YASSSSSSS CHIOMA WITH THE BIBLE VERSE!!!!
Not for nothing, your music is fire. 😮💨😮💨🔥🫶🏽
Love the song
Aye I like that song at the end❤️🔥
Frenemies
Atp I think YT needs 2 platforms: One for adults and one for kids!!! And I thought Dess and Jayda were best friends, I never felt like her and Ari were friends but mere associates, imo!!
Chioma remember we are going to Nigeria for your cousins wedding this Christmas. Please make sure to call grandma and wish her happy birthday
😂😂😂 if this is real why would you tell her on UA-cam? You ain’t got sis number?
@@lisag.4054 I’ve been trying to reach her but she hasn’t been picking my calls. Chioma Chioma Chioma, how many times did I call you ?
I just don’t see how people look up to them .. please tell me what you’re looking up to exactly 🙁
"And you know what else doesn't stink?" bruh😭😭😭😭😭