But they don't need context. 😂 If they want more information, then they'll ask questions. We need to get straight to the point first, and then fill in information around it. XD
My boyfriend is the one who does this. “Are we going to the beach tomorrow?” “Traffic is awful, not gonna lie.” “…sooo are we not going?” “Well yeah obviously we’re going, why else would I be talking about the traffic?” 😓
My husband is the same, never answers directly to a question and never says ok or got it when I tell him something he needs to remember, he always goes on some stupid tangent then of course he forgets what I said
It's a way people communicate to bond and also helps to clarify and provide context to understand. If you notice the character also is communicating what they are feeling. It is important- people communicate in different ways for a reason. Just looking for information from others isnt a great way to connet. @josejh-eb8st
@@piperarcher9706 well obviously they arent bonding bc shes answering every question like a politician does. Idk how talking about everything but what i ask i gonna do anything but annoy me
I made my husband go to the ENT to have his hearing checked because he never hears me. The Dr said he has PERFECT hearing- he just doesn’t LISTEN to ME! 😂 She said this happens all the time. True story!😂
Same thing applies to answering questions from my wife, I give my wife quick yes or no answer 5 seconds into her story about a coworker. Then, I need to confirm the 20 follow up "are you sure?" Questions.
My husband never knew I answered questions like that until we were both retired and at home together all the time. We must have been busy the first 45 years of our marriage!🤣
The wife reminds me of the guy I’ve dated for 1 month. I asked if he’s hungry and wanted Thai food. His answer was a story telling of the famous Thai restaurant nearby. Good luck staying sane with people like them two.
This is my mom. If you ask her for directions to a house in a familiar neighborhood, she will start from your house, then continue to describe the directions in their entirety along with every possible landmark around it. The other day I asked her what OBGYN she goes to and she proceeded to tell me about every doctor she’s ever seen, including the one who delivered me, and the reasons why she left each one, until finally answering the question.
Suddenly paying child support doesn't sound like a very bad idea. It's a lot quieter. 🤫 This is completely opposite in my household. As soon as I hear, "Well, apparently..." I'm already like, "Sir, please get to the point, please!"
As the wife I totally feel this husband. I ask - who wants coffee? Answer - I didn’t make coffee. Is that what I asked?!?! Me: are you ready to go? Answer: what time do we have to leave? Again, NOT an answer!!! Me: can your brother use your switch? Answer: Yeah, my accounts on his switch. NOT WHAT I ASKED!!! I know I can speak Swahili, I just didn’t know they thought I spoke it all the time!!!!
This is me & hisband, but in the reverse. Unfortunately our kids are the same way. Where's your shoes??? Where's your trumpet?? Do you have your lunch? "Yes? Then why don't you have your backpack?!" Etc etc
That’s literally how it is!! My mom is especially like this. When I’ve ever asked her something she goes in about how she got there or did whatever and I’m like did you or did you not?!?!?!?
That's my mom. I ask her when she is free to have lunch with me and she goes "well on Mondays I have my workout so I get to work late so I should leave at..." and tells me her schedule for the entire week without answering the question
😂😂 my mom, when she tells me something that happened, cannot cut to the chase. Sometimes I gently ask her to just tell me the end result and she says, “I’m trying to, but you’re interrupting me.” She can’t skip the details. Even when she started the story in a vaguely ominous way that’s making me nervous. 😂😂😂❤
My husband and I spend all of our time together. We have some things we do a little different because we work together, and play together. I don’t care if he leaves the toilet seat up, spills something. I can talk and all I want is an occasional nod or yeah. If I need active listening I tell him, and then I’m extremely direct. That way I can talk for 30 mins in the truck and he doesn’t need to listen. But if I need him to listen I’ll be quick. That way we both get what we need.
My dad did this. Drove me crazy. I tried to find out if he was answering the question he thought I was asking but he didn't understand that question. It wasn't always yes or no but usually was one that required a short answer.
Gotta love all the comments by women laughing it up about how they can't (or won't) directly answer a simple question in a timely manner. Sometimes, that is really all that is needed; because that is all that has been asked for. Save the stories for story time; just answer the question(s) if you value your man's sanity. We dont want the story, we want the information we specifically requested so we can carry on doing something that is likely demanding our attention elsewhere. Unless you want to hear stories such as researching the difference between several models of attic fans or other stuff you'd probaby find useless, extraneous or frustrating, then by all means continue. For the men reading my comment "Stop it. Answer the question. Thank you."
Trey may be the only person on the planet who has chemistry with HIMSELF 🤣🤣 pure talent 😂
I COULDN'T SAID IT BETTER LMAO
Bistro Huddy
Bistro Huddy
Bis- oh I see, the job’s been done
You think this is chemistry?
We're just giving context for all the questions you didn't ask 🤣
THIS. THANK YOU. I was getting to figure out how to describe why I do this
But they don't need context. 😂 If they want more information, then they'll ask questions. We need to get straight to the point first, and then fill in information around it. XD
@@adventureswithauroraI need to learn this but it’s so hard to turn it off lmao! 🤦🏼♀️🥲😭
@@pdub06 Haha, yes, I totally get it! 😆👍
Other people do this too?? I was the worst at answering student questions in Eng 101.
I can always see the frustration form on my husband’s face 😭😂
My boyfriend is the one who does this. “Are we going to the beach tomorrow?” “Traffic is awful, not gonna lie.” “…sooo are we not going?” “Well yeah obviously we’re going, why else would I be talking about the traffic?” 😓
Right 😂😂😂
Not answering your questions directly should be included in wedding vows
Exactly
You should already know how they will answer. Yes? Or No?
Sir… you really didn’t need to come for me like this.
For real! I had to send it to my husband 😂😂😂
I was gonna say the same thing. 😂
How dare you 😂😂😂
Calm down, dont talk to me that way 😂😂
😂
So accurate
Hubby, if she’s talking she’s not choking. So that’s why we need to talk a lot as women. It’s so you know when something is really wrong. 😂
This is what talking to my husband is like. These are yes or no questions. Lol
Thank you for saying that. It's not always the woman. Lol.
My husband is the same, never answers directly to a question and never says ok or got it when I tell him something he needs to remember, he always goes on some stupid tangent then of course he forgets what I said
Mine too!! 🤣
It’s my husband doing this in our house too 🤷🏾♀️
YES!!!!!
Everything with my husband is maybe or kind of. Yes or goddamn no?!?!?!
Me because let me tell my story that’s unrelated but related 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
If this was also your way of telling us that you're expecting another little one, congratulations!
They are expecting another 🎉🎉
@@angelabirdwell3396Is this a comment stating that they ARE expecting? Or is this a legitimate question asking if they are expecting another?
His wife is pregnant
The choking part had me dead laughing!!! Trey is my idol/hero!! 😂😂😂😂
Um, it's called context and backstory. You're welcome. 😌
😂😂😂😂
Its unnecessary is the point
Ummmm you didnt answer the question
It's a way people communicate to bond and also helps to clarify and provide context to understand. If you notice the character also is communicating what they are feeling. It is important- people communicate in different ways for a reason. Just looking for information from others isnt a great way to connet.
@josejh-eb8st
@@piperarcher9706 well obviously they arent bonding bc shes answering every question like a politician does. Idk how talking about everything but what i ask i gonna do anything but annoy me
Role switch in my house. God the amount of times ive said "just yes or no PLEASE"
Same! My husband is adverse to yes or no answers 🤦🏾♀️
Yep, me too. To get a quick answer from my husband just once would be nice.
YESSSSSS same!
Diddo 😶🫥
Yes, same!
I tell him often that I'm not sure if he's answered my question or not 😂
Mine doesn’t bother to ask bc I tell him everything anyways. 😂
Sometimes he just sighs and then gives me a kiss & a hug.
Omg same!!!!!!!!
Awwww😢
Trey you are literally the funniest person. Me and my mom are ALWAYS quoting almost EVERYTHING you say in your videos 😂😂😂
SAME
I made my husband go to the ENT to have his hearing checked because he never hears me. The Dr said he has PERFECT hearing- he just doesn’t LISTEN to ME! 😂 She said this happens all the time. True story!😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Truer words have never been spoken. So true.
😂😂😂 context is important!!! Lol
Same thing applies to answering questions from my wife, I give my wife quick yes or no answer 5 seconds into her story about a coworker. Then, I need to confirm the 20 follow up "are you sure?" Questions.
I’m actually Surprised how quickly you got a definitive answer.
Me ADHDing 😅 every story has a side story and then about 45 minutes later is when your question will be answered 😂
The part where he asked if he (she) was choking and to just chew his (her) steak caught me laughing 😂😂😂
dead at the chicken ceaser salad part lol
If this is your way of announcing your new bundle of joy, this was GENIUS! If so, congratulations!
My husband never knew I answered questions like that until we were both retired and at home together all the time. We must have been busy the first 45 years of our marriage!🤣
That would drive me insane
Twist the knife why don't you 😂😂 I was attacked every second of this video 😂
The orange cardigan 🔥😂
Ok but sometimes our answers need context...
So true how men and women communicate
The wife reminds me of the guy I’ve dated for 1 month. I asked if he’s hungry and wanted Thai food. His answer was a story telling of the famous Thai restaurant nearby. Good luck staying sane with people like them two.
This is my mom. If you ask her for directions to a house in a familiar neighborhood, she will start from your house, then continue to describe the directions in their entirety along with every possible landmark around it. The other day I asked her what OBGYN she goes to and she proceeded to tell me about every doctor she’s ever seen, including the one who delivered me, and the reasons why she left each one, until finally answering the question.
Suddenly paying child support doesn't sound like a very bad idea. It's a lot quieter. 🤫 This is completely opposite in my household. As soon as I hear, "Well, apparently..." I'm already like, "Sir, please get to the point, please!"
The empty gas tank. Accurate bruh 😆
Oh, that brownish sweater in the last scene is so lovely 🥹
“This. Is. Your. Problem” *three taps* ME
I'm literally sitting here in that orange sweater
Man never wants to have a convo with his woman 😂
"I can't believe I made it home"
As the wife I totally feel this husband.
I ask - who wants coffee?
Answer - I didn’t make coffee.
Is that what I asked?!?!
Me: are you ready to go?
Answer: what time do we have to leave?
Again, NOT an answer!!!
Me: can your brother use your switch?
Answer: Yeah, my accounts on his switch.
NOT WHAT I ASKED!!!
I know I can speak Swahili, I just didn’t know they thought I spoke it all the time!!!!
My husband could use way less words. Yes or no, that's all we wives need.
Yeah, honestly, you are a vibe killer 😂 Your wife sounds fun!
She has a point 💁🏼♀️
My mom speaks this way... As a fellow female it completely and utterly kills me everytime to have to sit through it.
God forbid I try to communicate with my husband😂😂😂 just had Deja Vu LOL😂😂😂
I can’t believe I made it home. Ha ha!
Calm down don’t talk to me that way 😂
This is ACCURATE! LOL! Are you guys expecting again???
Yes they announced!
@@kellystogner100 Wow! I missed it!
I also love a good Caesar salad leave the poor woman alone
Overnight diapers! I hollered!! 😂😂😂
I used to do this. When I started directly responding to his questions with one word answers he said, “Did I do something wrong? Are we okay??”
💀💀💀
This is me & hisband, but in the reverse.
Unfortunately our kids are the same way. Where's your shoes??? Where's your trumpet?? Do you have your lunch? "Yes? Then why don't you have your backpack?!" Etc etc
I do have a habit of trying to explain everything when i answer a question.
Speaking as a woman, this is 100% accurate.😂😂😂
😂😂 Omgosh, I feel his pain 😂😂
Total role reversal in my house. 😂
Other women do this…not me 🤣🤣
Shot this to my hubby before finishing…he feels so seen! 😂🤣🤣 came back to rewatch again!
This is my husband and me but in reverse. I like the shortest, easiest answer and he likes to recite me an epistle every time!!😅
That’s literally how it is!! My mom is especially like this. When I’ve ever asked her something she goes in about how she got there or did whatever and I’m like did you or did you not?!?!?!?
Goodness, I suddenly understand myself better now that I see myself 😂
😂😂😂😂 🙋🏾♀️ The man that will marry me… God bless him! 😂😂😂
My husband does the same thing! He answers every question except the one I actually asked him.
That's my mom. I ask her when she is free to have lunch with me and she goes "well on Mondays I have my workout so I get to work late so I should leave at..." and tells me her schedule for the entire week without answering the question
Im dying!!! Just truth!!!
So relieved to find it’s not just me 😂
😂😂 my mom, when she tells me something that happened, cannot cut to the chase. Sometimes I gently ask her to just tell me the end result and she says, “I’m trying to, but you’re interrupting me.” She can’t skip the details. Even when she started the story in a vaguely ominous way that’s making me nervous. 😂😂😂❤
Omg this is hilarious
This is too funny! It’s the exact same thing but the opposite in my house 🤣 my husband can’t give a yes or no answer 😆 always an essay first hahaha
Lol but if you are actually choking you can't answer
Oh my gosh. Look, it’s me! 🙋🏽♀️ lol
My husband and I spend all of our time together. We have some things we do a little different because we work together, and play together. I don’t care if he leaves the toilet seat up, spills something. I can talk and all I want is an occasional nod or yeah. If I need active listening I tell him, and then I’m extremely direct. That way I can talk for 30 mins in the truck and he doesn’t need to listen. But if I need him to listen I’ll be quick. That way we both get what we need.
Yet again, my husband is the wife in our relationship 😅
If she can verbally answer, she isnt choking
Really? Noone knew that!😮
That's grounds for divorce! 😂
Omg its the other way around for my husband and I 😂
my husband is for sure the "yes or no that's all i need to know" 😂
My mother EXACTLY!
I say the last sentence in this video ALL THE TIME. LOL
Trey always makes me laugh!!
One overexplains one-answer questions, and the other gives one-word answers to complicated questions🤦😂
My dad did this. Drove me crazy. I tried to find out if he was answering the question he thought I was asking but he didn't understand that question.
It wasn't always yes or no but usually was one that required a short answer.
I love how he asks if she's choking as she's choking a little bit 😅
"Cant believe I made it home!"
Man: "do you prefer chili or lasagna for dinner?"
Woman: "I read in the stars that demons attempt to control me, but I won't let them."
Isn’t she amazing though Trey? And giving you so many ideas for standup and video. To be applauded. 💪🙌😁
Maybe if our husband didn't always respond with grunts and uhmms, we'd have less time to elaborate our answers.
Shes right about the gas stations tho. 😮😂
😂😂😂😂😂 I also took this very personal LOL 😆 but it is true
That’s what my mom does 😂😂
This is Mom every time I ask a question, I just wanted yes! or no!
I can't believe I made it home aaahahahha meee that's meeeee
I want the red salmon sweater! Where did you get it? Ahhaha
Lmao as someone with adhd, I can relate
Woman here. My mother is like this and I HATE IT. Just answer the dang question ahhhhhhhhh
I'm the total opposite I hate long winded answers to yes or no questions
Gotta love all the comments by women laughing it up about how they can't (or won't) directly answer a simple question in a timely manner.
Sometimes, that is really all that is needed; because that is all that has been asked for.
Save the stories for story time; just answer the question(s) if you value your man's sanity.
We dont want the story, we want the information we specifically requested so we can carry on doing something that is likely demanding our attention elsewhere.
Unless you want to hear stories such as researching the difference between several models of attic fans or other stuff you'd probaby find useless, extraneous or frustrating, then by all means continue.
For the men reading my comment "Stop it. Answer the question. Thank you."
I mean, we got a finish the thought, man 🤣😂
Yuh know whaaat 😂😂😂😂 leave me alone 😅
Literally talking to my mom. Takes her 10 minutes to answer a yes or no question 😭
Always best around the bush
You get the whole story even if you didn’t ask for it
Thank you so much. Needed that.