These people are so sick. Damn.. to think what I dealt with in my 10 year marriage, thinking we could fix the problems. It was just abuse. These people are so sick.
@@leonrwalkerjrappreciate your new found humility as i know old Leon would have possibly let him/her have it. But honestly you were nuts not "are." It takes courage to admit our actions were wrong and seek help to gain corrections. Thanks you Sir. Listening as strength me, and i am no contact now. What the devil meant for evil in you God has taken it and use it for good. Keep sharing...the road is tough, the lesson hard but joy comes in the morning to those who wait and submit to God. Blessings my brother...
Wow!! Thank you for that!!! I truly appreciate those words. Yes, I “was” a true nut case…not anymore. You’re right. I understand the insults too-like you said..joy in the morning overall!! 🙏🏾❤️💯💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
That’s exactly what been happening for nine years until I put an end to it Jan 14th this was the best thing that could’ve happened to me! He discarded me said he needed rest he was tired smh when he just needed time to go cheat he’s 56 and childish! I’m getting blessed left and right look better and finally got my LIFE BACK!!! God is good I give him all the praise 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I’m free from that merry go round and he’s still trying to Hoover me back I ain’t going 😂😂😂😂 leave those cheap people alone they are deeply insecure and miserable inside!!!
Wow, same age same crap, same amount of time. Amazing. He is my neighbor, to never go the hell away. And moving isnt an option. It's terrible and I'm tough. Inescapable
Hun I just got disgarded after 9yrs he is 45, it has been 6 months and now he is married to one of the people he was cheating on me with she is 25 from over seas. It is strange to feel hurt but not want the person back and also know that this girl is in for a horrible life. He isolates you first then gets you pregnant next that is when he just doesn't care what he does because your trapped. He never stopped cheating. When he broke up with me for this other person he was already talking to multiple other people so it isn't like he left for true love if he was already cheating on them. Just found someone without a history that was as gullible as I was in the beginning who will believe the fake fantasy.
They run games, he looked at you like it was a game, they have no empathy at all, manipulation, love bombing, devaluation, hoovering, playing games after the discard and waste your time , smile 😃 move on I will never waste a single tear on these narrasits again, God is great, check mate to the narrasits
@@leonrwalkerjr oh am I I’m living and thriving all the wild he’s still out there doing the scandalous b.s he do smh I told the person calling me about him LOOK I DON’T care what his a** is DOING I don’t f*** with the devil anymore 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The cycle is just g-r-o-s-s! But, Leon, got it right. "You are the best thing that ever happened" to that narcissist but he or she was the worst thing that ever happened to you. So, don't look back and always remember who you are and who's you are. ☝️☦🙌🙏❤
He really is! I have a wife that I have finally come to the realization that after 2 kids and her cheating on me several times and acting like it's all my fault.. she is in fact the epitome of what Leon speaks about here.
OUUU 💯 I remember the narcissist I was with . Whenever he'd do something WRONG in public and I'd be very upset with him I'd just get quiet and then he'd take off running away from me 🏃a grown middle aged man !!! So Greatful God helped me get out of that toxic, dangerous relationship. 🚓 🚨 ended up going to the police to make him stop stalking me when I broke up with him, sick man !!! Even snatched my 📱 outta my hand twice and broke it on purpose throughout that relationship so I had to get 2 new one's. He was a nightmare !!!
Im sorry but I snorted laughing. My narc did the same crap. That's why I'm laughing. Reading someone else type out what I lived through adds to the hilarity of it all 😂😂😂😂😂
I dealt with this in 2 different relationships the first one I couldn’t bare to let go and stayed 10 yrs (all my twenties💔) and somehow was attracted to tht personality and fell for another man who was so similar- 3:55 charming, handsome, confident and successful to match this time so I gave it a whirl and he started to change after 3months little by little until he one day left over the smallest argument we had ever had never replied to my txt/call from tht day or returned my belongings from his house. He literally vanished like we never knew each other and w/o a valid reason. Case and point same spirit different body and I had to learn to not feed the flesh but feed the soul.
Sounds about right. Except my ex narc learned that saying sorry would get his foot in the door sooner than later. He never meant it. Just saying sorry to see what response he would get. Sorry is supposed to come with changed behaviors.
You left out one big thing. You do not have any feeling invested, so even your sorry there’s nothing behind it. You’re making it look like the Narcissist cares. Getting your man in therapy is not your job. Feelings is not something the narcissist has. The empath was never invited into the relationship. Don’t tell these women that there is a chance with them. The only thing that saves the empath is to forget about any understanding on your part and end it completely. Understanding and staying with a narc is your death sentence.
Perhaps you have not experienced all types of Narcs because my ex Narc had feelings.. I can share countless events and moments but some of them really do feel deeply depending on the connection they have with you
My covert narc started with real love because I was his first real love, then he got comfortable and later discarded me. He was hoping I would beg him to come back to me, but I hit the road and never looked back, relocated to a new continent. He shortly impregnated his other supply and started a family. I was never jealous, I had my whole future ahead of me and a new exciting life. 12 yrs later on he comes back to love bombing me. He displayed these narc characteristics on his tried and failed mission to woo me back to him. I flipped the script and devalued him at every opportunity. He was lying that he was doing well but I got info of his financial struggles. I laughed at his broke, broken behind, he was so ashamed and came clean and said he needed my help to turn his life around. I told him he is not my kid but grown man and he should man up and find his damn feet.
This is EXACTLY what happened to me in almost the same sequence of events! FCKNG uncanny but true. SO SAD! But, I'm glad that it only took 18 months of this hell instead of years. And, I'm even more thankful now that we did not get married, as we were engaged. I dodged a land mine, forget a bullet. Thank TMH and Living G-d❣🙏
It’s my opinion: agreed ~I’ve noticed The Narcissist Spirit is not authentic at all…it mirrors it’s supply and it’s a predictable spirit if one has Narcissist awareness~
Thanks for explaining, Leon. I thought you narcs are happy once you moved on to the new supply. Good to know the Grade A or primary supply leaves a mark in your heart and that you suffer in silence. I was the best thing that happened to my narc but he wouldn't apologize.
I literally went through this whole series of events. Thank you for educating and being real. I am sure this this is helping so many to feel validated with their experiences and start healing and discover themselves again.
FACTS. Facts. Facts. My situation he NEVER apologized. Still to this day, marrying one is the WORSE. I seen it and ignored. It’s so hard to forgive myself when I knew it, even told my mom and still I Ignored it! Discernment was there, went against it 😩
Thanks Leon for telling us about NPD and the fact your are recovering and took accountability and exposing these Narcs .I commend you for all you do I got rid of the narc husband I’m gonna file my divorce papers asap and move away as soon as I can I went no contact everything is blocked I have a iPhone and a galaxy S21 I use for work a strange # called me twice I didn’t pick up I believe it was one of those scamming #s .
And then the cycle restarts when you take them back, you devolve for love, and they do it again, then come back sobbing again and you devolve again... till eventually you have no soul left, no values or standards left either because your values and standards shapeshift at the narcissist's whim and you inevitably become them... that's a narcissist ultimate goal isn't it? To snatch something that often proved to have more soul than they did... use it, abuse it, and pummel it till it becomes "an extension" of them and repeats their cycle long after they are gone. Happens with spouses and even more so with children they subject to repeated rejection and abandonment... the kids often never get closure from a narcissistic parent, they have to make closure for themselves or carry that baggage with them the rest of their lives, possibly damaging a few along the way.😢
Your videos are informative, remembering that Wether it be a friend , a family member, a associate, a relationship, they are never real, no empathy, no real feelings except for themselves, it's one big game, my step father that passed was a complete narrsit even right up till his last breath , their level of games never stops its a disease, and in their mind a game, you want to have a life block 🚫 walk away, checkmate to the narcissist , no contact ever, smile 😁move on to a real life , Thank Jesus when they remove them from your life Amen
Your hurt are the food they eat... Most of them are not even goid sexual partners as they think they are... Many of them are broke and have lots if goals but no plan to execute it... They are empty until you cry or mad at them.They crave that level of control... Mess them up by paying them no mind... Move on and do you!!!
This is so spot on!! Every, single word. I am going to write a book about my experience because it's been a heck of a rollercoaster for the past 12 years off and on. I am finally free and have decided to put my focus into myself and God for the first time since I can remember.
So true. When some say "when they aoplogize". . Well all I have to say about that is two things, first of all I detest labels and second, if someone said sorry? That behoves me. Sorry? I NEVER heard that word once. I would have to ask are you sure you were dealing with this type of "creature"? As for all else in this video all I can say is that "my heart broke, because I wanted so much to believe you were not a "shy" very subtle, stealth, quiet, curel, and deceptive "being". Whatever one wants to call this, it really does not matter as the behaviour was so much disrespect, chronic lying, ghosting, silence, and not EVER an answer to even the most simple but "deeper" question. All a very cruel game. The mask cracked and my gut told me. I gave the benefit of the doubt. My bad. "When God whispers, LISTEN". Out for just over four months now. Still sad sometimes but "adelante" (carry on forward at all times. Stay strong. And once again, God bless Leon as he is a straight up honest and NO BS truth talker about this topic. I have been accused of being brutelly honest and I do not apologize for that. I do not judge but I do not sugar coat anything. Growing up in a very violent and dysfunction "code talk" family, I have no time for too many words. Say it like it is, or get lost. Deceivers.
Y'all NPD folks love you some birds & those for the streets.😬😂😂It bothered me for years until I realized my own value & uniqueness, and that I lacked nothing. Respectfully
My ex who is in fact a narcissist and the father of my kids has popped up at my gym. Me and my daughters were approached by him as we were leaving and he played so dumb asking if we could be “cordial” and I simply replied your actions have consequences and these are the consequences for your actions and he asked why I was “still acting like this after all the time that has passed by” I walked away and I haven’t seen him at my gym for the past week. I don’t want to see him ever again in life but I go to this gym because it’s the only one in my area with a daycare. Since I rejected his request to be “cordial” will he go way!!???? Is showing up where I regularly go considered a “hoover” ?? I just want him to leave me alone for good.
He's going to do it again bcuz they don't give up that easily and according to his temperament you might need some mase or a restraining order bcuz they can resort to getting violent!! 😒
@@shabreidavis7790 I have a restraining order but that doesn’t seem to matter to him! His exact words to me one time was “you think a restraining order can save you” which I told the police and they did nothing because he didn’t “physically harm me” or “threaten my life” when if you ask me that is a threat to my life
@@iamtiffanymarrie omg be very careful some of them can be dangerous. They always feel like time passing is an apology after they’ve done you wrong. He’s just going to find a different approach probably send you flowers with a note or some of things. Just know I fell for the BS and they NEVER change.
Ok you're doing a good job and because I'm still healing from my 7 yr Addictionship it's difficult for me to tell you how I feel . My emotions are suppressed from bitterness. .I..... like.... you.....a little
LAAAAWRD HAVE MERRCY!! EXAAAACTLY Happening to me at this present time. Fucker pulled the rug out from me blind sided me and found a new supply and now he's got too much pride to say his stance but his friends have no problem talking...smh. Karma
This stuff is so sick. I didn’t have it as bad as he just described, but my ex whom I dumped and told him what a liar he is, was absolutely a narc. The confusion the games the chaos the deflection. I have been involved with anything like this in my life before. They are evil and karma will serve them the recipe they deserve. Trust me on that! When I ended it after 1 year…the look in his eyes validated the fact I knew GOD delivered me from this entity. Never look back. ❤
I dealt with all of that at first until I left for good. He has a new supply now and engaged and tells people she has money. So I don't believe I have to worry about him coming back to me. He was engaged to me as well buy I didn't have any money lol. Narc also love money
Yep just like that step for step, you made my stomach start hurting!!!! Was that so bad to say? You know you the one that messed up!!! But don't tell me you sorry if you just gonna do it again that's even worse. Just saying Leon
I got completely sabotaged by my ex, and she's making me out as the mentally unwell one, even though she cheated, gaslighted me, came back three times when she was cheating, which I didn't know, and she called the cops on me when I messaged her, this was after her manipulating me for months for sex, ghosting me, and she plays victim constantly, I was assertively standing up for.myself and that was the last straw for her, also coming into my work, triangulating with my family, isolating me from.exposing her, and because I called her.out she gagged ordered me via the state. It's impossible for men to fight female psychos or borderlines they play victim like no other, but behind closed doors they were planning it all along, playing your emotions cause they have none.
@@charlesgolden5612 yeah and they still have rights to do this, even though they are psychopaths and the state loves their liberal agenda nowadays, the state will restrict them murdering babies via abortion, but won't write new laws to combat fraudulently tantalizing gaslighting as abuse.
I seat here laughing by myself. What are you ever going to do, IF you ever want to marry or have a long term partner ?, you will have to be the epitome of perfection ..not a Steve Harvey show 😂😂😂✌️✌️✌️✌️peace !..I know I am irritating, but the narvicicists made me do it 🤭🤭🤗🖖
They also start playing music that they're 'new to liking.' I notied the whole different genra, style, or even a recent passed popular song that he should've been liking before it became quite common, or even played-out by then (they weren't truly down with that song any earlier, like true fans). Thats another sign he's getting to know/like some other person. Cuz its like, "Since When?!!" 😢😅😂 Fine! Nope! Bye!! Should be your reply. (Bars..haha).
@@karriesaunders8597 he doesn't use scripture and stuff though to justify his actions like I've heard the religious narcissist does, he just goes to Church and prays and stuff. He was delivered from alcoholism and I know he believes in Jesus but doesn't use scripture to manipulate just other things.
They’re the ones that will have MANY excuses and just as many “Flying Monkeys”-people in church that believe in them and don’t think they can do no wrong. This is where they get their motivation, energy, and multiple masks!!!
I have a question for you. What happens if all of what you’re saying, which is true you are very true and you’re validating exactly what I went through, but there’s been no pop-up snow and I have no contact and don’t wanna talk to him at all like you said, I built that up to go to be the new supplyand now he’s taking all of what I built and put him on game because he was dumb as fuck. Excuse my language I’m still real irritated but what you’re saying is true but no pop-ups no calls but he is blocked on every platform that I have.
@@nilastewart7537 that’s when he knows that you REALLY don’t like him anymore and he knows that he has lost. He won’t stop forever…there will still be a time where he might pop up. But…he LOST!!!!
He is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways. (James 1:8)
That’s true
This
These people are so sick. Damn.. to think what I dealt with in my 10 year marriage, thinking we could fix the problems. It was just abuse. These people are so sick.
Yup, very disturbing !
He's amazing in describing these nut jobs! 🙏❤🙏
Because he is one… lol
Nut job for sure.
@@KP144ooo 😂 exactly
@@leonrwalkerjrappreciate your new found humility as i know old Leon would have possibly let him/her have it. But honestly you were nuts not "are." It takes courage to admit our actions were wrong and seek help to gain corrections. Thanks you Sir. Listening as strength me, and i am no contact now. What the devil meant for evil in you God has taken it and use it for good. Keep sharing...the road is tough, the lesson hard but joy comes in the morning to those who wait and submit to God. Blessings my brother...
Wow!! Thank you for that!!! I truly appreciate those words. Yes, I “was” a true nut case…not anymore. You’re right. I understand the insults too-like you said..joy in the morning overall!! 🙏🏾❤️💯💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
That’s exactly what been happening for nine years until I put an end to it Jan 14th this was the best thing that could’ve happened to me! He discarded me said he needed rest he was tired smh when he just needed time to go cheat he’s 56 and childish! I’m getting blessed left and right look better and finally got my LIFE BACK!!! God is good I give him all the praise 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I’m free from that merry go round and he’s still trying to Hoover me back I ain’t going 😂😂😂😂 leave those cheap people alone they are deeply insecure and miserable inside!!!
You got away and can now live a healthy life!!!
Wow, same age same crap, same amount of time. Amazing. He is my neighbor, to never go the hell away. And moving isnt an option. It's terrible and I'm tough. Inescapable
Hun I just got disgarded after 9yrs he is 45, it has been 6 months and now he is married to one of the people he was cheating on me with she is 25 from over seas. It is strange to feel hurt but not want the person back and also know that this girl is in for a horrible life. He isolates you first then gets you pregnant next that is when he just doesn't care what he does because your trapped. He never stopped cheating. When he broke up with me for this other person he was already talking to multiple other people so it isn't like he left for true love if he was already cheating on them. Just found someone without a history that was as gullible as I was in the beginning who will believe the fake fantasy.
They run games, he looked at you like it was a game, they have no empathy at all, manipulation, love bombing, devaluation, hoovering, playing games after the discard and waste your time , smile 😃 move on I will never waste a single tear on these narrasits again, God is great, check mate to the narrasits
@@leonrwalkerjr oh am I I’m living and thriving all the wild he’s still out there doing the scandalous b.s he do smh I told the person calling me about him LOOK I DON’T care what his a** is DOING I don’t f*** with the devil anymore 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The cycle is just g-r-o-s-s! But, Leon, got it right. "You are the best thing that ever happened" to that narcissist but he or she was the worst thing that ever happened to you. So, don't look back and always remember who you are and who's you are. ☝️☦🙌🙏❤
Exactly
Exactly how you describe it!!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I appreciate that
And round and round we go! And when they have no supply they come back and get mad cause you won’t take them back”. The nerve!
Spot on! Keep dropping these precious jewels on us, Leon! 💯
Thank you. I will for sure
He really is! I have a wife that I have finally come to the realization that after 2 kids and her cheating on me several times and acting like it's all my fault.. she is in fact the epitome of what Leon speaks about here.
@@dendrobialbright7616💔🙏🏾
OUUU 💯 I remember the narcissist I was with . Whenever he'd do something WRONG in public and I'd be very upset with him I'd just get quiet and then he'd take off running away from me 🏃a grown middle aged man !!! So Greatful God helped me get out of that toxic, dangerous relationship. 🚓 🚨 ended up going to the police to make him stop stalking me when I broke up with him, sick man !!! Even snatched my 📱 outta my hand twice and broke it on purpose throughout that relationship so I had to get 2 new one's. He was a nightmare !!!
Im sorry but I snorted laughing. My narc did the same crap. That's why I'm laughing. Reading someone else type out what I lived through adds to the hilarity of it all 😂😂😂😂😂
@@unchaineDLife 😂 thank God we can laugh NOW!! Going through it was unbelievably painful like, THIS DAMN NUTTY SCARY 🤬
@@donnajeffreys8252 😆😆😆
I dealt with this in 2 different relationships the first one I couldn’t bare to let go and stayed 10 yrs (all my twenties💔) and somehow was attracted to tht personality and fell for another man who was so similar- 3:55 charming, handsome, confident and successful to match this time so I gave it a whirl and he started to change after 3months little by little until he one day left over the smallest argument we had ever had never replied to my txt/call from tht day or returned my belongings from his house. He literally vanished like we never knew each other and w/o a valid reason. Case and point same spirit different body and I had to learn to not feed the flesh but feed the soul.
Yes my friend!! Right there with you
That’s awful 😢
You nailed it!!!!💯💯💯💯💯
@@Nina2598-k5x it is
Look how you only liked him for superficial stuff tho lol
Leon, you describe these events so vividly and with accuracy.
HOT DAMN😂😂😂 I felt like I was back in that bs cycle. Thank God it was just a video
Lol 😂 I thought that same thing to I hope this cigarette calms down my nerves!!!! 😂
Sounds about right. Except my ex narc learned that saying sorry would get his foot in the door sooner than later. He never meant it. Just saying sorry to see what response he would get. Sorry is supposed to come with changed behaviors.
You left out one big thing. You do not have any feeling invested, so even your sorry there’s nothing behind it. You’re making it look like the Narcissist cares. Getting your man in therapy is not your job. Feelings is not something the narcissist has. The empath was never invited into the relationship. Don’t tell these women that there is a chance with them. The only thing that saves the empath is to forget about any understanding on your part and end it completely. Understanding and staying with a narc is your death sentence.
Thank you 🤲
Perhaps you have not experienced all types of Narcs because my ex Narc had feelings.. I can share countless events and moments but some of them really do feel deeply depending on the connection they have with you
I Just made a A+Listening to Mr.Leon again today Stay in Prayer Everyone 🙏 💯✝️
My covert narc started with real love because I was his first real love, then he got comfortable and later discarded me.
He was hoping I would beg him to come back to me, but I hit the road and never looked back, relocated to a new continent. He shortly impregnated his other supply and started a family. I was never jealous, I had my whole future ahead of me and a new exciting life.
12 yrs later on he comes back to love bombing me. He displayed these narc characteristics on his tried and failed mission to woo me back to him.
I flipped the script and devalued him at every opportunity. He was lying that he was doing well but I got info of his financial struggles. I laughed at his broke, broken behind, he was so ashamed and came clean and said he needed my help to turn his life around. I told him he is not my kid but grown man and he should man up and find his damn feet.
This is EXACTLY what happened to me in almost the same sequence of events! FCKNG uncanny but true. SO SAD! But, I'm glad that it only took 18 months of this hell instead of years. And, I'm even more thankful now that we did not get married, as we were engaged. I dodged a land mine, forget a bullet. Thank TMH and Living G-d❣🙏
It’s my opinion: agreed
~I’ve noticed The Narcissist Spirit is not authentic at all…it mirrors it’s supply and it’s a predictable spirit if one has Narcissist awareness~
Thanks for explaining, Leon. I thought you narcs are happy once you moved on to the new supply. Good to know the Grade A or primary supply leaves a mark in your heart and that you suffer in silence.
I was the best thing that happened to my narc but he wouldn't apologize.
I literally went through this whole series of events. Thank you for educating and being real. I am sure this this is helping so many to feel validated with their experiences and start healing and discover themselves again.
Wow! If I had only known …. I would have left immediately! Never Going Back
I say that all the time!!! 😆
FACTS. Facts. Facts. My situation he NEVER apologized. Still to this day, marrying one is the WORSE. I seen it and ignored. It’s so hard to forgive myself when I knew it, even told my mom and still I Ignored it! Discernment was there, went against it 😩
Thanks Leon for telling us about NPD and the fact your are recovering and took accountability and exposing these Narcs .I commend you for all you do I got rid of the narc husband I’m gonna file my divorce papers asap and move away as soon as I can I went no contact everything is blocked I have a iPhone and a galaxy S21 I use for work a strange # called me twice I didn’t pick up I believe it was one of those scamming #s .
And then the cycle restarts when you take them back, you devolve for love, and they do it again, then come back sobbing again and you devolve again... till eventually you have no soul left, no values or standards left either because your values and standards shapeshift at the narcissist's whim and you inevitably become them... that's a narcissist ultimate goal isn't it? To snatch something that often proved to have more soul than they did... use it, abuse it, and pummel it till it becomes "an extension" of them and repeats their cycle long after they are gone. Happens with spouses and even more so with children they subject to repeated rejection and abandonment... the kids often never get closure from a narcissistic parent, they have to make closure for themselves or carry that baggage with them the rest of their lives, possibly damaging a few along the way.😢
Knowledge is Power I do appreciate what you do for us Empaths
Wow ... thank you !!!
Your videos are informative, remembering that Wether it be a friend , a family member, a associate, a relationship, they are never real, no empathy, no real feelings except for themselves, it's one big game, my step father that passed was a complete narrsit even right up till his last breath , their level of games never stops its a disease, and in their mind a game, you want to have a life block 🚫 walk away, checkmate to the narcissist , no contact ever, smile 😁move on to a real life , Thank Jesus when they remove them from your life Amen
That's a pimp! First stage is to own your mind!
Your hurt are the food they eat... Most of them are not even goid sexual partners as they think they are... Many of them are broke and have lots if goals but no plan to execute it... They are empty until you cry or mad at them.They crave that level of control... Mess them up by paying them no mind... Move on and do you!!!
This is so spot on!! Every, single word. I am going to write a book about my experience because it's been a heck of a rollercoaster for the past 12 years off and on. I am finally free and have decided to put my focus into myself and God for the first time since I can remember.
Keep helping me and I will try to not be so Damn Bitter!
Yeah I’m just like him , so now he can’t take it, he’s mad now 😢
Yup .. I got HOoD Winked 40 yrs I thought he was bi polar ….Leon silly me 😵💫
Wow, 40 years ago? Geez!!! Hope you’re ok now?
So true. When some say "when they aoplogize". . Well all I have to say about that is two things, first of all I detest labels and second, if someone said sorry? That behoves me. Sorry? I NEVER heard that word once. I would have to ask are you sure you were dealing with this type of "creature"? As for all else in this video all I can say is that "my heart broke, because I wanted so much to believe you were not a "shy" very subtle, stealth, quiet, curel, and deceptive "being". Whatever one wants to call this, it really does not matter as the behaviour was so much disrespect, chronic lying, ghosting, silence, and not EVER an answer to even the most simple but "deeper" question. All a very cruel game. The mask cracked and my gut told me. I gave the benefit of the doubt. My bad. "When God whispers, LISTEN". Out for just over four months now. Still sad sometimes but "adelante" (carry on forward at all times. Stay strong. And once again, God bless Leon as he is a straight up honest and NO BS truth talker about this topic. I have been accused of being brutelly honest and I do not apologize for that. I do not judge but I do not sugar coat anything. Growing up in a very violent and dysfunction "code talk" family, I have no time for too many words. Say it like it is, or get lost. Deceivers.
Y'all NPD folks love you some birds & those for the streets.😬😂😂It bothered me for years until I realized my own value & uniqueness, and that I lacked nothing. Respectfully
My ex who is in fact a narcissist and the father of my kids has popped up at my gym. Me and my daughters were approached by him as we were leaving and he played so dumb asking if we could be “cordial” and I simply replied your actions have consequences and these are the consequences for your actions and he asked why I was “still acting like this after all the time that has passed by” I walked away and I haven’t seen him at my gym for the past week. I don’t want to see him ever again in life but I go to this gym because it’s the only one in my area with a daycare. Since I rejected his request to be “cordial” will he go way!!???? Is showing up where I regularly go considered a “hoover” ?? I just want him to leave me alone for good.
He's going to do it again bcuz they don't give up that easily and according to his temperament you might need some mase or a restraining order bcuz they can resort to getting violent!! 😒
@@shabreidavis7790 I have a restraining order but that doesn’t seem to matter to him! His exact words to me one time was “you think a restraining order can save you” which I told the police and they did nothing because he didn’t “physically harm me” or “threaten my life” when if you ask me that is a threat to my life
@@iamtiffanymarrie Wooooooow!!! 😔
So proud of you 💕
@@iamtiffanymarrie omg be very careful some of them can be dangerous. They always feel like time passing is an apology after they’ve done you wrong. He’s just going to find a different approach probably send you flowers with a note or some of things. Just know I fell for the BS and they NEVER change.
Ok you're doing a good job and because I'm still healing from my 7 yr Addictionship it's difficult for me to tell you how I feel . My emotions are suppressed from bitterness. .I..... like.... you.....a little
LAAAAWRD HAVE MERRCY!! EXAAAACTLY Happening to me at this present time. Fucker pulled the rug out from me blind sided me and found a new supply and now he's got too much pride to say his stance but his friends have no problem talking...smh. Karma
This stuff is so sick. I didn’t have it as bad as he just described, but my ex whom I dumped and told him what a liar he is, was absolutely a narc. The confusion the games the chaos the deflection. I have been involved with anything like this in my life before. They are evil and karma will serve them the recipe they deserve. Trust me on that! When I ended it after 1 year…the look in his eyes validated the fact I knew GOD delivered me from this entity. Never look back. ❤
Yep. That karma will take over
I agree with you!!!
This 💯💯
Thank you for this insight. ❤️
Exactly what I went through with my daughter's father
Yup! Just came outta that 😢
Yup that’s exactly what’s happening
Your videos are helping me. I’m watching everyday. August can’t come quick enough🎉 I’m moving and blocking🎉
Wow that’s what he did to me then he pops up last night again I still have no contact with him so I can continue to heal❤❤❤❤ thanks so much
I realized what was going on my last birthday. 3 years in.
Exactly what is playing out here, except I’m still waiting to be told about the new supply.. he doesn’t know that I know 🤣 loser
How do your forgive yourself for being fooled by these fools? Its a fake relationship from the start.
I dealt with all of that at first until I left for good. He has a new supply now and engaged and tells people she has money. So I don't believe I have to worry about him coming back to me. He was engaged to me as well buy I didn't have any money lol. Narc also love money
You are so right about them loving money. Let them go to who wants to give them theirs
I could kick mu own ass for being so nieve at 48 yrs old!
He said they "gotcha gotcha" 😂😂
This helped me 😊
In that order!!💯💯
This is exactly what I suspected. Boy oh boy, I gotta story to tell...
OMG WORD FOR WORD 🎯🎯🎯
Thank you Leon. You are great.
I knew something was wrong cause it didn't feel right.... he gave me nice things but my gut told me something different
Yesterday I told him this what you speak on today,he's grooming another supply.
Exactly what happened 😕
You nailed it!!!
This is exactly what I experienced with my ex~fiancé .
Yep spot on; in that order!
I swear og man you are right
what happens when the supply doesn’t come back
Thank You !
Yep just like that step for step, you made my stomach start hurting!!!! Was that so bad to say? You know you the one that messed up!!! But don't tell me you sorry if you just gonna do it again that's even worse. Just saying Leon
Thank you so much
Too true. 😩
What I say to myself. “Oppsie”
I got completely sabotaged by my ex, and she's making me out as the mentally unwell one, even though she cheated, gaslighted me, came back three times when she was cheating, which I didn't know, and she called the cops on me when I messaged her, this was after her manipulating me for months for sex, ghosting me, and she plays victim constantly, I was assertively standing up for.myself and that was the last straw for her, also coming into my work, triangulating with my family, isolating me from.exposing her, and because I called her.out she gagged ordered me via the state. It's impossible for men to fight female psychos or borderlines they play victim like no other, but behind closed doors they were planning it all along, playing your emotions cause they have none.
Same here happened to me and I’m sorry you had to go through this. I’m just trying to take out day by day
@@charlesgolden5612 yeah and they still have rights to do this, even though they are psychopaths and the state loves their liberal agenda nowadays, the state will restrict them murdering babies via abortion, but won't write new laws to combat fraudulently tantalizing gaslighting as abuse.
Man you're describing ex wife to the T
DANG!!!.. I Felt like he was talking to me I would of took him back OK IM WATCH OUT NOW ...I would of took u back Leon ..lmao
I seat here laughing by myself. What are you ever going to do, IF you ever want to marry or have a long term partner ?, you will have to be the epitome of perfection ..not a Steve Harvey show 😂😂😂✌️✌️✌️✌️peace !..I know I am irritating, but the narvicicists made me do it 🤭🤭🤗🖖
Thank you starved maybe I'm happy to see doing a good thing
They also start playing music that they're 'new to liking.' I notied the whole different genra, style, or even a recent passed popular song that he should've been liking before it became quite common, or even played-out by then (they weren't truly down with that song any earlier, like true fans). Thats another sign he's getting to know/like some other person. Cuz its like, "Since When?!!" 😢😅😂 Fine! Nope! Bye!! Should be your reply. (Bars..haha).
You are right about that too-good catch!!!
Can a narcissist think they know God and serving God and still treat you horrible. Like is their being Christian all an act?
The religious narcissist
@@karriesaunders8597 he doesn't use scripture and stuff though to justify his actions like I've heard the religious narcissist does, he just goes to Church and prays and stuff. He was delivered from alcoholism and I know he believes in Jesus but doesn't use scripture to manipulate just other things.
Yes. They use “repenting” and “God loves all”, etc, as many excuses!!!! Highly dangerous like ALL narcissists!
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They’re the ones that will have MANY excuses and just as many “Flying Monkeys”-people in church that believe in them and don’t think they can do no wrong. This is where they get their motivation, energy, and multiple masks!!!
I have a question for you. What happens if all of what you’re saying, which is true you are very true and you’re validating exactly what I went through, but there’s been no pop-up snow and I have no contact and don’t wanna talk to him at all like you said, I built that up to go to be the new supplyand now he’s taking all of what I built and put him on game because he was dumb as fuck. Excuse my language I’m still real irritated but what you’re saying is true but no pop-ups no calls but he is blocked on every platform that I have.
@@nilastewart7537 that’s when he knows that you REALLY don’t like him anymore and he knows that he has lost. He won’t stop forever…there will still be a time where he might pop up. But…he LOST!!!!
Earth Disturbers 🌎
Not .. pop up pop up pop up😂
What do you mean by 'double mind'?
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My long distance relationship narcissist is in the hospital today,now am is support system.
Why this video sounds a lil personal & "confessional-ish"???..maybe its just me😊
Wow. Thank you❤