Why I've Been So Inconsistent **SENSITIVE TOPICS TRIGGER WARNING**
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- This is the hardest video I've ever made - so thank you for taking the time to watch. I forgot to add in the photos of my injuries, but you can see them in the GoFundMe linked below.
GoFundMe Link: gofund.me/debf...
The first 2 weeks after February 28th were a whirlwind of me staying between friends' places and some free nights at the hotel I work part time for (a big thank you to all of them!) as there was no protective order in place then, but, thankfully, I was granted my order last Monday, the 18th and am now safe to be in my parents' house as he is not allowed back for one year.
I am currently on a temporary leave of absence from my full time job due to dealing with court proceedings, doctors' visits, and the brunt of the mental trauma. It is, however, extremely difficult to try and heal from all he's done while still living in his home.
That's why I have started the GoFundMe to help me both move out and to help my mom with bills that have fallen severely behind due to my "dad's" drug habit.
The breakdown of what the funds will be used for include:
- Application Fees
- Rent
- Utilities
- Furnishings
- Unpaid Bills
Here's the link again: gofund.me/debf...
Anything you can donate would be a huge blessing even if that's simply sharing this video to help reach my goal or leaving a kind, encouraging comment (I can use all of them I can get).
If you are someone who's went through or currently is going through a similar situation, I am so sorry and please GET HELP. Below are resources I've used the past month to help me:
911 - Report What's Happened to You - You Matter!
Safe Alliance (Saves Women & Children from Assault, Abuse & Homelessness) - www.safeallian...
Take Back the Night (Movement against Sexual Violence) - takebackthenig...
Friends, Family, Coworkers, and Supervisors - Tell whoever you trust, needs to know, and who will support you.
Thank you so much for being my community - I will keep you updated
To anyone who isn’t able to give, there are other things you can do to help:
Watching the commercials
Leaving the video on loop in the background
Liking
Sharing
Subscribing
Commenting
Anything that could boost this video/channel in the algorithm, get more eyes on it, get more people who can give the opportunity to see it.
All of that should also help increase AdSense.
I'm sad I can't give more, but I am sending positivity to you, Francis. You are in my thoughts ❤
Thank you so much @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers!! Yes, these are all excellent ways to help with the AdSense on the video and to help bring more visibility to the GoFundMe.
I’m so sorry you went through this. This is wrong on every level. I’m sorry.
Thank you so much. It has not been easy at all, but your kind comments and support are helping to make things easier. I appreciate you
Sometimes it’s good to take a break decompress get back at it wen u have the strength
Thank you @Yawna-kr6ni ! While I feel like I need to constantly push through and be productive, you're so right and I'm understanding the importance of that more and more
u r very strong for coming out here to tell us this
Thank you so much for taking out the time to watch and leave a kind comment 💖
Praying for you, sis; for your healing and for you to be free from that house. You deserve so much more than this ❤️🩹
Thank you Jayla 💕
You shouldn't feel dumb. It may seem so clear in retrospect, but this is not a situation anyone is trained for. The desire to return to an equilibrium is human. Instinctive. The fact you didn’t stay silent and told the people around you is good. You did good. Getting out of this situation is imperative. I'm so disturbed that someone who is supposed to be safe and protective hurt you in this way. I will give what i can.
Thank you so much 💕🙏🏾 I really appreciate your support and you’re absolutely right. I’m trying to remember to give myself grace and try to handle things with grace because it’s not anything anyone would be prepared to go through.
Its insane in-despicable what you had to go through this was hard to watch Im with you and behind you 100% Love you ❤️ Continue to walk your path unapologetic & use the truth as your sword.
Thank you so much Trey ♥️ I love you too and plan to do just that
It's very important to give yourself some me time! ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you @luwanabennett1054 💖 I took some time off from work so that’s what I’m trying to do now
Wow college curls! Never k ew you was going thru this. I've Ben thru some similar situations an the best thing I can tell you is seek God to help you heal an forgive so you can move on internally as well as physical move. It's gonna take time n it's gonna take a life time to work thru. You got this tho. We are strong over here 🙏🏿
Thank you @OTMaraH 🙏🏾💕 I’ve definitely been seeking God and have thankfully been able to move with His help! Just taking it all day by day
Sending you lots of love and healing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Im so sorry for you, much strength