Dating Apps in Korea are DIFFERENT: BE PRETTY OR RICH | Korean Pizza Club | EP.28
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You're likely familiar with Tinder and Bumble, but have you ever come across HelloTalk, Amanda, or Gold Spoon? These are dating platforms in Korea that break the mold or take things to the next level. To join, you must pass screening by existing users and maintain an average rating above 3.0, or provide proof of substantial wealth with legal documentation. Ironically, these apps thrive in Korea's dating scene. What's the dating app landscape like in South Korea? Which apps should you consider using, and what experiences have our guests-Sebomi (a dating app expert), Nalu, and Anna Lee-encountered? Let's delve in and find out!
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Autogenerated Chapters (may not be accurate):
Chapters:
00:00:00 - Gender Inequality in University Admissions
00:03:31 - Experiences with Dating Apps in Korea
00:07:13 - Popular Dating Apps and Gender Ratios
00:10:39 - The Ocean of Dating Apps
00:14:05 - Korean Army Guys on Bumble
00:17:25 - Dating Apps in Korea and Creepy Encounters
00:20:42 - The Gold Spoon App
00:23:57 - Evaluating Dating Apps in Korea
00:27:11 - The App's Potential in the Western Market
00:30:02 - Dating Apps in Korea: Meeting Westernized Korean Men
00:33:29 - Cultural Nuances in Korean Dating Apps
00:36:40 - The use of body profiles in dating apps
00:40:02 - Cultural Differences in Dating Apps
00:43:05 - Conversational and Cultural Differences
00:46:12 - The Choice between Coffee and Cocktails
00:49:16 - Setting Non-Negotiables and Boundaries in Dating
00:52:32 - Approaching Different Cultures
00:55:42 - Setting Boundaries and Deal Breakers on Dates
00:58:54 - Awkward Date with Cultural Stereotypes
01:02:08 - Funny Date Stories
01:05:14 - Train Station Disappearing Act
01:08:06 - The Perception of Dating Apps in Korea
01:11:13 - The Evolution of Dating Apps
01:14:23 - Travel Content Creator - Розваги
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As a 39yo korean, for all foreiner in korea, PLEASE stop using dating apps for meet someone in korea.
if u wanna meet someone, plz go to gym, cafe, library or join some local group of activities like cycling, running, hiking group.
I know young generations (like 20-25 yrs old) go to 헌팅포차 (idk how I translate this) or club for meet someone.
but actually, real ordinary guys don't go somewhere like those place. they r busy to improve their abilities.
so real ordinary guys go to library for studying, go to cafe for researching things, go to mountain for hiking.
u can get some times for knowing each other through these kind of place. if u find someone for one night stand things, it's fair. but if u not, turn off ur phone and go to cafes, plz!
yes I know I'm old enough and also know everyone call me 꼰대 or something, but pls just stop going to club and stop using dating apps.
sorry for my bad bad english.
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Hmm yes you sound like 꼰대.
@@Dunderkim 네 꼰대 맞습니다.
what will you do in cafe?
Thank you Sebomi, Nalu and Anna for joining the podcast~
This would have been even more interesting if there were a couple of guys to get their perspectives and experiences on dating apps.
Yeah they should do one video about the same with guys because danny doesn't give their opinion
David, you should create a dating app where at the sign up a person talks to AI, AI summarizes their worldview and then matches people based on their worldview. Make AI ask everyone about capitalism😂 It might be more popular in the west though.. but better for you, you could earn more
Isn't it so sad though, that we as a people have resorted to needing apps to sort things like dating out for us ?
Oh no, not the Latinaboo 🤣🤣🤣
So nice to see Nalu again in UA-cam 🎉
The reason girls percentage on dating apps is low is because most of us associate dating apps with weirdos or being desperate i guess that is why also HelloTalk has a bigger percentage because it does not have the dating app image from outside so people are comfortable there. Also most of them are genuinely just there to learn a language
Never knew about those applications, u tempted me to look at them
This is going to be an interesting episode.
very entertaining episode, keep it up!
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Never knew hello talk was used as a dating app 😂
I genuinely subscribed it to learn and teach languages
Very fun episode!
David is always surrounded by beautiful girls 😊. It is going to be interesting !!
Funny as hell xD
David, you got the advices you're kinda (not) asking !
Fun episode as usual :) Nice group of guests
It's so sad that a man or woman in Korea can not be judged for their personality, education, potential and other intrinsic values. Looks and money seems to be the priority. There are men who are not super rich but have a pretty good job, college educated and hardworking with potential, so that should be OK. There are also women who may not be drop dead gorgeous but pleasant and cute looking. Lots of people are in this middle ground. I'm sure this is the majority of people using these dating apps. After all, don't we just want to meet someone that we can spend our lives together and be loved and have a family with a couple aspiring for the same goals whether it be financial or social?
Aren't the guys also expected to be tall and have handsome faces in addition to being well of financially?
this episode was so fresh, and the interview and women talked perfectly of the subject ! I can't wait to see a guys point of view, and maybe a live with both sides 🤗
I just came back from Seoul yesterday! There’s two things I found from Tinder in Korea, almost every guy has a pet in his profile pic, either a dog or a cat, they don't even want meet u first, grab a drink or have small talk, after say hi, they straight to the point want to come to your hotel or u come to their house 😅
Suggestion: have a podcast about dating apps with guy guests!
Thank you David! 🍕😘
When are Kelsey and Soobinie coming back on the podcast??. I need to watch another interesting episode of them again. I mean the whole gang with you right there David like how you started with episode one. Watching you all the time from Uganda the pearl of Africa.
Would they say that the high quality apps in Korea like Amanda or Golden Spoon are only for Koreans or are there international people accepted into the apps as well?
Not sure but probs if you can verify ID and speak Korean shouldnt be an issue..
I have friends when they travel and use Tinder to meet people to practice language on and that is usually what they do, so perhaps it is not just for hook ups
David and Anna can you talk about the fake profiles that exist on dating apps? Because there are a lot of creeps out there trying to traffic people and/or take their money.
I have used Tinder in Seoul and have only had good experiences. Only difference is that guys don't waste their time. Very straight forward questions like if I look for marriage and kids, which is not that normal in the west. I only matched with guys that had Long term partner as goals and I only met them for a coffee the first time. All of them were incredibly nice! Like way nicer than in Europe and asked loads of good questions. I think if you want to meet through an app you have to sort out what you look for (not based on looks at all) and try to match with people that have a great profile text, photos and overall serious feel of their approach to dating.
Great to hear you only had positive experiences
Rich guys don't need an app
There are dating sites for people from ivy league and equivalent colleges in the United States.
Dating apps are filled with catfish or people who use old pictures. There are also people meet other people with the intention to gain followers. They will say that they didn’t feel a romantic attraction but share IG. Kind of surprised people will go that far for followers. Dating apps that are free became accessible for all kinds of people with different intentions
David really is a true ARMY 💜
Hia confusion about Army was so cute 😂
@@anairam1247 Right and I don’t blame him 😂
I've never used a dating app but I have a friend who did and she's never met anyone decent in terms of character/morals, just guys who pretended to be good guys to play/use her. She was heartbroken each and every time.
We all have an unconscious bias about what we like and don’t like……Anna’s just might be hot guys with $$$$….and I’d laugh if they offered her a coffee date first (because they are busy). This was a great episode Team KPC. Wishing u all well in your dating journeys
Hi KPC, amazing info
After reading about and watching this type of media like your chanel, it seems to me that lookism and sheer materialism is very much a Korean thing (or perhaps an east-asian thing?) isn't it and it also feels like it's a pretty real social trend no less.
The way I see it in western people's behavior in this day and time , in Europe at least, first and foremost they need to feel attracted to a potential partner. And that means the whole package, which is way more than their faces/bodies and wallets. It's how you talk, the way you think and the values you share, how you treat the other, how you smile, the sound of your voice, your demeanor and such stuff that makes you attractive. You'll see a lot of western couples of very pretty women and average or even plain-looking men or handsome men and plain-looking women ... because they like each other just the way they are and what they mean for each other. I'd say that western mentality is way past measuring their partner's worth solely in looks and money. It's not that there are no such people, rich guys and beautiful women, etc... but that hasn't been the western mainstream for maybe a century or so now. And it's such so very different mindsets that make your society all the more fascinating.
Agreed. Lookism is perpetuated because Korea is a very homogeneous society where there seem to be rigid beauty standards that people adhere to and if you veer from this standard you are no longer considered good looking or thin enough. That won't change unless we have celebrities and people of importance that people look up to that start some kind of trend to look and act different. This takes time since these celebrities and important people do not want to be cancelled either so it takes brave people to start a trend outside the box
So your point is Koreans should adopt more Westernized values/priorities? Then how do you explain greater overall divorce rates in Western societies even w their "Holier than thou" values? Even if true, Koreans want to prioritize lookism/materialism above personalities, interests why does that bother you so much and so judgey? Its their culture and society! Your language and tone reek reductionism, superiority, low key Western cultural imperialism.
@@kimckawa woah, woah, take it easy!
If you're going to react, use logic and facts. Don't react with emotions and spew out info that has no basis in facts, or numbers for that matter.
Do you know/realise that the divorce rate in Korea is rising? And, probably more couples in Korea would divorce if they could if it weren't for the fact that they, specifically the women, would be stigmatised by the society?
I have 2 Korean guy friends who are divorced. I have one Korean lady friend who wants to divorce but knows that she may lose custody of her child and will also be stigmatised so she has chosen to remain unhappy in her marriage and is waiting until her child goes to university before leaving her husband.
We aren't judging the obsession with lookism and materialism but we're pointing out that both of those things are not healthy for society and contrary to the idea that it makes people feel good about themselves, actually, it doesn't. If anything it places so much pressure on people to be who they aren't or who they are not able to be.
It also leads to mental health issues and it comes as no surprise that the suicide rate in Korea is by far higher than it is anywhere else in the world.
I assume that you're Korean and you're sensitive about what people say about your country. That's understandable, but you know what? Most Westerners are critical of their own countries so we don't get offended or upset when people point out the wrongs within our own societies. We agree with them because it's true.
I think you need to take a step back, take a deep breath and really understand the Korean society and the things like lookism and materialism that affect Korean people themselves.
@@Abena1709 Again you’re spewing Western cultural superiority/imperialism by infantilizing Korean people. Yes I am Korean but grew up in the States. You’re anecdotal situation means nothing cuz Koreans do get divorce in mass numbers but not comparable to western societies. But somehow your western superiority/bias will still interpret that as negative/Koreans still being more unhappy. You see how the mind works? You squeeze and twist facts to fit your biases and narrative. You mention greater suicide rate, but what about greater homicide, crime rates in the West? Do your biases also interpret these stats as being western people being happier w their lives? If you combine suicide +homicide rates, West is far unhappier place difference being how western people express their unhappiness by mass shootings, hate crimes, femicides etc. toward others. Koreans are very self critical, so don’t know what you’re talking about. As a society it’s most vibrant democratic society w demonstrations, protests nonstop . They’ve thrown so many past presidents in jail on corruptions, elected first female President unlike so many supposedly “progressive “ western countries. When is US going to jail past presidents on corruption/war crimes or get female president? You make it seem Korea is some repressed regime women requiring w head covers in public..?? You need to get out more and break from social media
@@Abena1709 Very well said, kudos.
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Physical appearance is important for men too LOL. An attractive man has the upper hand over an unattractive man and physical attraction is important for both genders. A tall, handsome and wealthy man is the dream for many women.
Exactly
I don't get why people try to act like only women are judged on looks. Especially with height men probably get it worse while womens height doesn't have as big of an impact on their desirability
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David gives off “cheap” energy that’s why lol
He seems like the kind of guy who would resent a stay at home wife who depended on him for an allowance, etc.
I’ve noticed that a lot of Korean women on chat forums discuss that they’re either going to date a man that will provide for them
or rather not be with men at all.
That's mad. 99% of households across the world can't live and have kids on 1 salary only.
I love how the moment "Army" was mentioned, David immediately referenced and tied it to BTS Army. It's such an Army thing to do that only other Armys can relate. LOL 😂💜
The U.S. does have elitist dating apps, including ones that cater to Ivy League level graduates.
All guys should just get off of dating apps. From a guy’s perspective, most of them don’t even take it seriously anyways
Thank you corean
Lots of apps, but people aren't getting married. Interesting. Thanks for the chat session. Always GREAT!!!
Because lots of people don't want to get married doesn't mean that they're not in long serious relationship and even have kids they just don't see the purpose of marriage and that's perfectly fine.
I’m 24, never dated and kinda pressure to date but ive never used any dating apps in my entire life. thanks for this episode I might download one now from your suggestions🤣
Hi can I have your Instagram
“180?…….You like tall woman???” 😂
David is so funny 😂
its interesting to know about those apps but I would never use them. It's just scary how most of the crime come from those dating apps. So be cautious guys, specially girls.
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Anna seems t be so detailed about everything. She has good dating experience from these apps.
More latinos guest,,,please! its more enjoyable 👍
swiping right on everybody is literally every dude's strategy. Not mine though bc I don't use dating apps ahem.
Quick example David, I like Melomance ARMY. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's sad because you'll never meet a quality person this way. What's the point of dating someone rich if they're vapid, have bad habits, not possible of caring for you deeply, and just not that nice, what would be the point?? Be creative, up your game, get that verbal rizz going, it's possible.
Thought on why women have better luck on apps/get more interaction from men: this is a phenomenon in nature, too. (I’m by no means an animal behavioral expert, but 😂) Male animals typically approach female animals and compete with other males by flaunting whatever their species’s attributes are to gain the female’s attention. I hadn’t thought too deeply into this parallel, and I’m not saying that this is how it should be for us as humans, but this is essentially what happens in the dating app experience, too.
EDIT: that Amanda app sounds brutal ☠️
i think David is very cute to me, like a teddy bear 😁😁
I can be your taddy bear too 😂 can I have your Instagram
Back when I was on the apps, they would say "ethically non monogamous". Translation FWB or DTF
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I hope more guys don’t go to hellotalk.😂
I can already imagine every guy who saw this video and is in South Korea creating an account. 🤣🤣
Mission impossible. 🤣🤣
Yo TRUTH
Keep them away from 😂
This was an excellent watch. I will say to Anna, I am a fan but please don't categorize all US serviceman like that. 90% of those men are honorable men. Still a fan though Anna. Just something to think about. David this was really good. Thanks
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lol almost all the Koreans girls on hellotalk put in their profile “No dating” 😓 which I don’t blame them but no need to be so uptight about it
Well it probably mean that they had lot of experience of men talking with them only for that ...😑
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In my opinion, the Korean girl on the far right is the life of your podcast. Her energy and charm is off the charts. I can listen to her talk all day. Nothing bad to say about the other two girls except I didn't find them interesting at all. Overall, you have an easy to listen to podcast discussing good topics. ✌️
I met my boyfriend on hellotalk😂
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omg meeff is so bad you find all kinds of guys there i've had bad experience there. A long time ago it was a bit normal but nowadays is so perverted.
Yeah sorry… in US army guy is super red flag. In my opinion 😄
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And I was wondering why Koreans flex so much on the language learning app... they're getting dates, apparently!
Where do you live? Do you live alone? 😂😂
Whoa. People are submitting their financials to be on a dating app? LMAO.
Wtf!
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Korea needs a MGTOW movement like the US
Yeah because that’s definitely going to fix their fertility rate 🤦♂️. Did you not look at the statistics of political belief between men and women in South Korea? Why would you need a MGTOW movement when they have clearly shot beyond that?
Why would you want that for any country
@@ttothek5367fr
Views for hate content on social media is not only korea.
I'm sure hate content in general.
These two racist content creator ( serpentza and laowhy 86 ) use to do normal videos about China.
Then they started going hate China videos. And they have more views and subscribers. I don't know if it's just the American people or the world.
But mainly their viewers are English readers so 🤷
lol they’re not racist. They hate the ccp government not Chinese people.
The woman in the purple shirt on the left looks old. As in her 40’s. The sun is really not our friend.
I think is the hair and makeup
Are you hopping on that trend of telling young people that they look old? She looks nowhere near forty. You had the chance to be one of the first commenters, watched the video and wrote this? That's weird.
@@MajoCardona I think her hair style and makeup add to her looking older overall for sure.
@@ttothek5367 Is it a trend? And yes, she looks quite a lot older than the other guests. You seem offended by my comment?
@@ttothek5367 yeah she seemed late twenties to me. She looks the same age as Anna
Only the low quality women use the dating apps 😊
Wtf
I do prefer kakaotalk to whatsapp at least no phone number to leave. Good idea. I will ask now for Instagram or messenger in Europe
Can I have your insta 😂
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