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3 Different ways to meet a Korean Boyfriend/Girlfriend 😘🇰🇷 | Korean Pizza Club | EP.13
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- Опубліковано 2 лип 2023
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Tinder and bumble
Purely for making friends right? Not a dating app?
I actually enjoy the vids with you, Anna, Soobeanie & Kelsey more than the other random guests ❤😂
totally agree with u. hope Danny can join the OG casts too.
Me too
@@sophiehearthi6998Sadly I feel Danny have had enough of YT 😂 I remember he stated he would like to quit YT because his career here already hit a stagnation and he doesn’t see it getting better in the future. But it will be fun to see all or them together.
Me too lol
same but, maybe add another male's perspective to the group.
37:17 Soobeanie reaction was everything 😆😂😂
Kelsey let people in their thirties have fun too as ahmanchu lol
Great topic David, my understanding is that "JaManChu" kind of came back in vogue as a countercultural movement against "InManChu". During peak InManChu, there were too many stories of f-boys, players, and cheating partners taking advantage of these apps that JaManChu came back with a vengeance. One topic I wish the pizza team would've discussed is "썸" and how that factors into the dating culture at large in addition to meeting phenomenons such as sogaeting, meeting, hunting, matsun, etc.
For future episodes, what would be helpful is a review of Korean dating apps and how they may be similar or different compared to popular apps abroad like Tinder, Coffee Meets Bagel, Hinge, Bumble, etc. in addition to Korean dating etiquette when meeting via apps.
JIA way is the way people should ask how your past relationships were when you meet someone.😂
Not David outing himself....I mean his "friend" 😂
Kelsey the Korean is QUEEN! Her voice is so necessary and refreshing. Please continue to bring her back!
I love and respect her honesty! Her candidness is hilarious.
Yes please 🙌🏻❤
Who watched Crash Landing on You?
A long time ago, and could you pull together a latino table talk soon? 😂
Loved that K-drama!
Crash landing on you altered my tv life forever 😂
Guilty lol
@@chiwantstea
Same! CLOY was my first kdrama. I haven’t watched US TV since! I only watch kdramas now.
I’m so happy Kelsey is on because she’s not afraid to talk about LGBT topics and I really hope they give space to speak on this on podcast
bored about lgbt , the minority 😂
The four Musketeers of UA-cam 👍. Kelsey, Sobeannie, David, and Anna ! Just a little question. Will we have more new guests for the future episodes ?
Of course! We have a diverse group of guests that already filmed!
Interesting. It sounds like Jamanchu is like first getting hungry then finding a meal, while Inmanchu is like going to a restaurant then deciding you're hungry. Ahmanchu seems like getting a bunch of free samples at Costco.
I just found out my marriage is based on 이만주 lol. I never cared about meeting my wife on an app, but I have good korean friends who have constructed entire lies for me to follow about how they met their partner, so I've seen how stigmatized it can be.
And I really enjoy listening to this core group! Ive lived in Korea for almost 8 years now, and its been really interesting listening to you all talk about all things korea.
I am soo hooked on these videos with the four of you, seriously great infotainment. Love it!
Keep going, so I can further dwell in the sweet sweet parasocial illusion of having some cool international friends while listening to you 😅❤️
Also I like how you put english translation for korean words like "Recently". As someone learning Korean this is helpful
Awesome conversation once again. Already looking forward to the next episode! You 4 regulars can easily make the topics interesting and worth thinking about.
9:10 😂😂😂 “ohhh during the Korean War people used to date” 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀 next level guilt trip 😂😂😂
can u guys keep the 4 of u in the podcast 🥹
3 ways to meet George Glass.
1) Look for a glass of water near empty
2) Think of the name George
3) Watch the Brady Bunch
Your videos / podcasts are awesome! love listening to these. Please keep up the good work everyone 🙏🙏🙏
Just come across this channel and really enjoying the down to earth discussions you and your guests have. Some of the parts are really funny, especially when you end up blushing from what the ladies say. Great bunch of people 😂
Thank you!
As I foreigner studying in Korea I find your videos so helpful to understand what I am living, thanks 🤗
Ps. I didn't notice I told my western friends I met my bf in tinder but I told my Korean friends we met while I was teaching him Spanish, and obviously we told our parents the same story since they are other generation 😅
I love watching this panel. Anna & David I love your authenticity. Keep producing more videos.
Xoxo Jacksonville, FL
Can men and women become JUST friends? What do Koreans say? Check it out in the previous episode of KPC | EP.12
ua-cam.com/video/ty6Simcv9qw/v-deo.html
Love this topic!!! Would love a deeper dive into it though, I think not enough was covered in the 40mins
Thx for sharing. 1st time learning more about how u guys label the dating over there. OG team recorded several pods on Anna bday🎆
During the live premiere of this episode people answered in a poll saying:
What type are you?
Jamanchu / JMC (78%)
New Jamanchu / Sleep first (12%)
Ahmanchu / AMC (6%)
Inmanchu / IMC (2%)
I find it super interesting that Korean people as mentioned would pressure you into relationships while they would do the opposite towards their kpop idols 🙈 no shaming, just saying, it’d be interesting to actually see all that in person.
Its so interesting to label how you meet someone. I never would have thought this was a thing😅
Wow Super interesting, thank you! that was another fun episode ❤
I actually met someone in the bus stop, we went on a few dates, but we end up being friends later on.
For some reason I always end up having conversations with random people on public transport lol
I like how everyone has diverse opinions in your vids, and it isn't an echo chamber. Great content keep up the good work guys
Can you bring Danny on one episode?
"I was trying to buy..." "I mean, my friend was trying to buy." HAHAHAHA - David! 🙂
Hi KPC,
I saw Kelsey’s undercover gf service video and it was so funny and good. She is a good actress.
It’s nice when you meet people through friends but it can get weird. I was forced to go on a blind date with my mom’s friend’ son. He was a jerk. He demanded a picture of me first. So I did the same. There was radio silence on his part for 2 weeks. He could have sent a selfie through his phone. So I said No to the whole date. Then he finally sent a picture and it was him in the background of another person’s picture so he was kind of out of focus. Then when I finally met him he was bald. He said he was 30 years old. So that picture was taken 10 years ago. That’s not the worse part. We met for lunch and he was interviewing me and asked about my hobbies. When I asked about his, he kept talking about his sister and other people. He never answered any of my questions. At the end of the lunch, I told him it was nice to meet him and good luck on his dating. He wanted to walk me out but I said No!! But this was not the end. His mom was pisted bc I did not like him. She told my mom there is a 3 date rule and I need to date him 2 more times. I said hell no. Both him and his mom were like pushy and acted like they can control me. I was so mad at my mom who agreed to this….absolute nightmare .
This was so sus on his and his mother’s part. All the shadiness would creep me out. 😮😮
this combination of people is the best
Who think bcs of david we found amazing persons like anna & kelsey the kqueen.
Great topic. Can you do a chat on dating older people?
Not all societies are the same depends alot of these come off as counter culture from that disney type of look on relationships.
I think the difference of the western “double date” and the Korean “group date” is the choices? Like on a double date you are being set up with one specific guy. The other couple is there to help reduce the awkwardness.
But a group date in Korea (correct me if I’m wrong) has a balanced number of men/ women but that’s it. As a girl on the group date you can see which guy there you might be interested in? Does that make sense? I think it’s unique in this way. If I’m correct 😂
You always remember your first…kdrama.
CLOY was my first kdrama ❤️
lol oh David 37:16 :) busted
thumps up bc the 3 regular girls are back
Now David 😂 lol this was a great episode
The best friendship and relationship I ever have is with a Korean. He has all the patience in the world and never tells me "빨리빨리" and I learned Korean from him. He prefers to communicate in Korean rather than in English. As a foreigner the journey wasn't easy but it's worth it. Motivated by "정" I survived and made it. Unexpected friendship/relationship is the best. Is age a factor in how people behave? All I can say to him is "그대를 만나고 다행이다" 😊
I love this so much! Good relationships do t just happen, they evolve thru hard work and give and take. Wishing you all the best in life!
i thought about why they may categorize everything and maybe as "love stories" people like to hear all the details about how two people met, and maybe gives them some hope like, if they can meet on Tinder and get married why can't I?? (or maybe it's just me who is a hopeless romantic hehe)
I love everyone on this panel and the chemistry. I would slide into David dm's and I'm pretty sure I won't get a response back 😅
Christine looking fire this episode!!!
Hii David, I followed the girls advice and sent you a DM hahaha
1. Anna almost didn’t talk. I guess because now she has a boyfriend and didn’t want to get into awkward situations with him later 😇 2. David doesn’t know how to lie 🥹 3. Kelsey is the star of this episode 🙌 4. How is Soobeanie single, when she is this ideal Korean lady 🎁
1. Clever when she speaks, wise when she doesn't. ;)
Anna bf is a beta male 😂 trust me
@@openranks4519 I don’t know him 🤷🏼♀️ I understood that he is in the past now. So…… to the next one 🥂💄
Soobeanie revealed in her latest video that she found a new guy not long after this conversation published 😂
It would be considered rude for a guest to walk through a home with their shoes on, unless the owner has expressly consented. (From Canada)
Ahh.. single shaming is also common here in the Philippines.
Then there are relatives that usually ask..."Do you have a boy/girlfriend?", and if you have one, the follow up question is ..."When are you getting married?" AND if you still have no "partner", and one is in their late 20's and 30's up, it's a totally different set of questions. Hahahaha!
Sometimes...they will go straight to "Are you married?" .... the list of questions go on and on and on.....
Ah...the similarities of some Asian culture. It's fascinating...
KPC, when is the new episode is gonna be ? So much curious who will be your guests this time .
I wish you could bring on guests (cohosts) that are more Korean and less westernized. I’d love to hear their perspectives on these topics
The best team
I loveeeeee this group!!!!!
What’s David’s ideal type I want to know, he seem like the sweet, romantic and genuine type… his personality is dope 😆
- Technology (apps) has decreased the cost of search and increased the availability of information.
- With this, people tend to invest a longer time in picking their partner.
- This, in turn affects (raises in most cases) the age of marriage.
- Finally, this same information availability and the effect of social media of showing you that "the grass is always greener elsewhere" influences people's capacity to endure hardships and as soon as these start to hit, whatever compromise level they had drops and you have divorces (because I wanna try sth else, "I'm empowered", "I don't need a man", "A girl is just one more", "I'm an alpha, I'll find sth better", etc. etc.) and ageing, unhappy populations.
If I understand you correctly I completely disagree with your logic. In the so-called developed countries ppl have been marrying later and having fewer children for a long time. Not having children should be recommended given the overpopulation of the world. And why for christ sake should aging populations be unhappy? There are problems ofc but so are in other types of societies.
I have a question. I met my partner online. That's an artificial way in the sense it was through technology. But the thing is that we met in a groupchat so we didn't know anything about each other. We just started talking, got along well and then met in person. I would say that is pretty organic, so I think based in what you guys are saying it could be considered JMC. I think probably not so my question is:
is it indeed JMC or JMC requires to meet in person for the first time so it's not?
Can u please do an episode on North Koreans in SK…might be a sensitive issue but I’m curious lol
I really want this topic on here too but I imagine finding a North Korean defector who speaks good English is a challenge
My husband and I are 'Inmanchu' then. We were introduced by his grandaunt 😅
Actually if your bf has many girl friends is less threatening than if he had just one or two girl friends. It would likely be just hanging out for fun, but if he had just one or two, that would mean he is close with them and that can potentially turn to be lovers since they know each other so well and compatibility factors in the long term.
Interesting 🤔
Episode 1. Crushing on Kelsey
Episode 13. Soobeanie is ❤
Ha ha ha, I really like this girl on the left, she is so blindly honest and not pretentious. Ha ha ha the host guy does not know what to do!!! Ha ha ha
What type are you?
JMC
IMC
Jamanchu.. I can't do apps. 😂🙈
JMC, had some horror stories with dating apps. Never going back to that again lol 😂
JMC
I prefer General Perkins term for TRADOC win in a complicated world
Wow... Koreans have a hard time meeting other Koreans. I can't imagine how a foreigner can meet Koreans based on this information. LOL. Seriously as a foreigner watching this, as well as being an older person, this doesn't make me feel better about finding Korean people to vibe with. Someone change my mind on this; educate me on the different ways older people can find other older people (and I'm not interested in meeting at church events TBH). Is there hope for a foreigner (who is older) to find friendships (and/or a relationship) with a Korean... or does this not exist? I've heard it said that Koreans believe men and women cannot just "be friends". Is this also true? I love discussions and learning about Korean culture, so I'm interested what others can tell me.
Do you guys speak korean fluently? Such a perfect English
So Ahmanchu couples basically met initially for one night stands, short hookup, etc., but ended up falling in love and became a couple.
Can you guys make an episode about the prudity on kdrama? Luke when the couple FINALLY gets together there are no mixed when getting each other or although they are all of age psex is not even alluded to. Is Korean society really that in real life or is it just portrait like this in screen?
Sorry my keyboard is acting up. I meant that there a only very few kisses. Especially in situations like where I would miss my boyfriend...e.g. getting him after being assist. Holding hands while going on a walk
Greeting not getting😅😅
Would you say that rather than an artificial way of meeting, you could phrase it as a facilitated way of meeting? Just something that came to mind while watching this.
Like that was an awesome episode. Like I love to hear LIKE what you guys have to say concerning LIKE different topics. Sorry, one of pet peeves is listening to people using the word "LIKE" when it's not necessary. Maybe it's an age thing, LIKE I don't know lol......I do love you guys though
6:08 The realest talk
Yes I would like to have Jjamanchu but it only happened three or 4 times. Mostly is the other one
Have some boya too so thier we can hear thier opinion on relationship.
Whenever I see them in the thumbnail.. I click idc about the subject I just know it’ll be good
Kelsey in the US Tinder is looked at as just a hook up app for a lot of people. I know in other countries it is a real dating app but not so much in the US.
It sounds good on paper to live together before marriage. Many people think you try it out like you would try out a car but it doesn’t work… it’s really not the way to go. There’s a difference between living his roommates, and then being married.. being married, is becoming as one. Whereas, if you just live together before you’re married your two separate people.. to many times people have what we call shacked up before married for years then they get married and they get divorced. Because living together and being married are two different things. Being married is much more difficult.. I hope that makes sense. I’m not against marriage I’m just saying, shacking up together does not prevent divorce.
American, 60 yo, married female. It is difficult to meet people and find true/real love. I didn't marry until I was 50. Relationships and love is hard all over the world and cultures
im done at kelsey hahahaha shes a crackup ... idk if shes really interested in a serious relo or not but shes a mood .but always love hearing pearls from anna ,david and soobin.thanks for another great podcast guys.
First of all very intressting Video i really enjoyed watching.
I personally dont get why everything needs to be labled now a days i couldnt care less if somebody i know meet "naturally", "artificial" or "Casual" as long as this person is happy but i also think thats a Problem not only Korean society faces but is everywhere maybe slightly diffrent but its there. People like to pin point on others because it takes away from there doing. Just my 2 Cents :)
Interesting episode!
I prefer meeting in a natural way.
I’ve tried online dating before, but I feel like most people just want to hook up.
It’s hard to meet people where I live.
Where I live, most people around my age are already married or in a serious relationship, so my options are slim.
So for now, I’m just living the single life.
I wonder if Koreans are familiar with Alex Jones/InfoWars or globalism. Perhaps maybe do a show on it? Just a thought.
I agree with David, love transcends all.
35:00 truee...people rush just to regret it, thats not to say you should take your own sweet time too though, its a numbers game. I am late 20s and though i am perfectly fine alone, it's just a wise thing to take the time to start going through some.
I think the calculativeness these days is about the availability of information. I'm 62 and was in Wonju in 1988. I heard about marriage services and family arrangements using the same types of information or at least asking for it.
I think today it seems more calculated because they have more data to use.
I feel like meeting organically is harder nowadays because even if you dress up and go outside. Honestly most people won't notice because they're too busy staring at their phones. And if they do notice, when I lived in Japan, honestly no one makes a move unless they're drunk...
As a westerner listening to all of the conversations, it would seem harder to find someone naturally because the culture is not open to meeting new people and Koreans want to know so much about each other before even getting to know each other. The other issue I see is the strong friendships of guys with guys during that time that they aren’t around women that much and don’t know how to act or talk to a woman. And then they are 30 and have to find a wife! Marriage is about relationship and working together so you have to like each other, you have to learn to be selfless in some circumstances but learn how to work together for the good of your new relationship. Marriage is a give and take and being friends, having similar beliefs and moral character and trying new things together. And you need to laugh together! That’s how I’ve made it 45 years later! I hope you can find someone to make memories with for a lifetime. Don’t give up! Fighting!!❤
Biggest fan from Nigeria 🇳🇬🇳🇬❤
37:18 oh David 😂😂😂
I liked Kelsey already and then she is aware of the Indian caste system and its oppression in society. I mean now I am like I would love to have conversations with her.
Me too 😂
I know Soobeanie is American, but she's really out of touch. In America its not ok for guys to approach random girls anymore and ask them out. If they do most guys will get labeled a creep.
That was another insight to the Korean dating culture👍
But coming back to minors having sex, is such a wrong idea. The reason why they don't get a condom is because the society does not expect them to have sex in the first place. You can check out how it mentally affects the minors. That's exactly why anyone involving a minor is considered to be a paedophile.
soobeanie is so damn cute 😖
yoooo👏
Call me crazy but Soobinea and David Kim could be a couple and they match and Soobinea everytime there is something relatable keeps hitting David Kim. 😂😂😂😂
Lol you guys are fun
I am sliding in David's DM
Great video, can we be friends with you all?❤❤
Walk up to a couple in Korea and say what JIA way did you meet?😊
Just occurred to me. If as a couple you shared what I would call (for lack of a better word) a "higher purpose" (religious or political: fight for freedom, independence, equality etc) you wouldn't have these issues with male/female friendships. Sharing a common goal/ common experience (Kelsey) can be more important than sexual attraction. It's the concentration on individual happiness (love as the only way of being happy), which gives it such enormous importance. On the other hand fighting against (reactionary) collectivism seems to still be a thing in Korea, so extreme individualism is a step "forward"? Then I am waiting for the next step.
Btw I start getting suspicious of you Mr. Kim. Are you taking on a certain believe system/personality for the sake of the discussion?
I think its because she's Young.
@@MinieAnne I might not have made it clear, Kelsey talks about a one to one outing with an old university friend and how his girlfriend reacted to it. The importance of having experienced sth painful together which in a way transcends sexual attraction. I am all for Kelsey and share her position (against heteronormativity, against the couple ideology etc) and I am very old.
Why would anyone gi to any country for a wife or a husband, especially when it's so hard to find a job in korea ? 🧐
Koreans really love their abbreviations huh 😂
as a non Korean audience. this is hilarious!!!
"what if he has a micro penis??!!" "he's not it." 😂😂😂