My first born son was a full term stillborn at 37 weeks. When roe Vs wade got over turned as a bereaved mother my heart sank.. I knew more women would have to go through unnecessary and unbelievable grief, heartbreak, and trauma. My condolences Momma. 🙏🏽 Fly high baby Laila 👼🏽🦋🤍🧿
@@victoriaarizpe3008 if I was to experience this i would hold that baby and give them the proper burial they deserve and be happy I at least got to see my babies face that I carried
So let me get this straight. Politicians are NOT ok with terminating a pregnancy when there is no chance of life but are totally fine with letting an innocent baby starve and suffocate for nearly two days??
imagine how many more women are going through a similar situation right now… I still can’t believe that this is real, that this is something lawmakers didn’t feel they had to consider when putting this law back into place.
The circumstances that this woman is having to endure are horrific. And somehow in America we have convinced women that the solution is to have their baby murdered. This will never and could never make the pain go away. It just adds another layer of trauma. Abortion is disguised as compassion. Dems support it because abortion costs a lot less than the delivery and care of the child and mother.
Do you know how many animals are killed every year just for meat? That's not even including the animals that are forced to reproduce so we can separate them from their mothers and kill the ones we don't need right away while others are imprisoned and used until they are no longer of use and are also killed. Animals have always had and continue to have harder lives than any human ever will. Don't forget that. They are the only ones who truly have zero rights.
I’m currently pregnant and I’m due around September as well. This made me cry so much. I can’t even imagine what I would do in this situation. I’m sorry for her loss and I really do hope she’s able to heal in time.
These people dont give a shit once that baby is out of the womb. As someone who had a nonviable pregnancy and wanted my baby, this is pure torture! Its torture for a woman to have to continue with a pregnancy knowing damn well that they're going to have to watch thier baby suffer as the inevitably die in their arms. 😥 I feel for this woman and all the others going thru similar situations. I hope she finds peace and healing. I know its hard.
I'm truly sorry for your loss Daisy. You've nailed it on the head... they really don't give a crap about babies once they are born at all, it's sickening.
This is soooo wrong. Like wtf people!?? These politicians are essentially saying that the unborn child who’s not compatible with life is MORE important than Mom?? This is crazy. You can see and feel her pain. I’m so upset by this that I can’t even find the right words to express my anger. I’m sorry for anyone who has been forced into this situation. It’s NOT fair Mama. 🩷
@@katiem4539 really ? How bad does it physically hurt ? 0. Its all emotinal ppl recover she be fine , she should just remmber she wanted to kill her sooner so its not like she matter to her in the 1st place .
@@paloma_lopez what are you smoking? She wanted this baby very much, only when she found out the child had no chance at life, and FELT her having seizures in utero, did she want to end her suffering. It is the most selfish thing to do, to keep alive a child that has no chance of living, and is already suffering, and who will continue to suffer until the point in which she dies. This poor mother will grieve for her baby no matter what. And now because she was forced to carry to term, there is the additional possibility of her being unable to have children in the future, as some women are learning now. I’m sure if she could have, this mother would have given her life for her baby to survive.
@tommygirl6659 I'm not trying to be argumentative, but I'm honestly curious. I'm an RN and I don't understand why you say she wouldn't be able to carry another baby...? Abortions are far more likely to damage the mother's reproductive system than giving birth to the child. Unless there's something I'm not understanding?
@PinkyJean Designs a woman who is half way through their pregnancy and finds out their baby is incompatible with life, doesn't get an abortion, it's called termination for medical reasons. There are two options, you can opt for a needle that goes into the babies heart and makes the baby fall asleep in the mother's womb. At that gestation, they don't have the cellular sofistifcation to feel any pain so it is essential the most humane way for a baby with medical complications to die. The Woman still has to be induced, they still have to labour and give birth to their child and not have to watch them die. The second option is you can not have the needle and birth the baby alive and it will die in 30 minutes to a few hours as their lungs are not developed. Difficult to watch but again, more humane than letting a baby go to full term. If you were an RN you should know that? It literally doesn't affect a woman's fertility to have a termination. Total misinformation that abortions and terminations affect future fertility, which again, you should know because you're an RN right?!?! Maybe not a good one. I suggest educating yourself before speaking on specialist medical issues. Just because you are an RN, does not mean you know anything about Maternal Fetal Medicine.
What people fail to understand is not being able to terminate a failed pregnancy can lead to fertility issues in the future. Politics getting in the way of health care always leads human suffering. This shouldn’t be like this. I’m trying to get pregnant and when Roe v Wade overturned I cried because this could happen to any woman for all sorts of complications. Forced pregnancy is abuse, that’s all it comes down to.
They don't care. That happened to the Texan woman, who was forced to keep carrying a failed pregnancy until it turned septic, before she could finally have it terminated. She had developed so much scarring of her reproductive organs, that she will now no longer be able to conceive naturally.
@@didimarcus277 I'm glad that where I live, euthanasia is permitted in tragic cases like this, both before and after birth. Newborn babies eyes can't even focus properly, so forcing the child to live while suffering in order 'to see mamma's face', is both cruel and ridiculous. And whatever the case, the decision should not be made by politicians and so called pro life activists who don't even know the family, but by the parents and their doctor.
@@didimarcus277 the baby was suffering, why would you want to put them through that? So you’re gonna force someone to stay alive even though they are in pain and was not compatible with life to begin with? That’s not compassion, that is cruel!
I’ll probably catch hate for this from someone but here goes anyways. It is disturbing at the amount of people out there willing to allow a baby to suffer by choice.
But then people will aboard babies that are healthy. But that's okay??? I had a baby with birth defects he was a month early. Yes it was hard but I would not have changed holding him he was my boy. He was a gift.
You’re absolutely right. Politicians should not be making medical decisions. Americas is going to find itself in the same predicament as other countries and have women who don’t want to have children at all. This country is making it a miserable experience.
Thank you for your courage in sharing your heartbreaking story. I am so sorry you had to go through the entire pregnancy only to watch you beautiful baby suffer and die. No one should have to go through what you've been through. I hope your story will reach women and men who may not understand what torture you endured and perhaps change their minds about their own positions. We need to enshrine a woman's right to terminate legally as it has been since 1973. Yours was a wanted baby and for that they punished you and Laila. Shame on them.
You stole the words from my mouth. I'm writing this on Mother's Day, and I'm crying about all of those just like this woman who are suffering, as she said, for no reason. This is not a political issue, and I'm sick at what has happened in just a year. Absolute chaos, heartbreak, violence, fear, pain, loss of life, loss of freedom, loss of safety. Loss of humanity, really. For half of humanity, that is.
The baby is a separate person from the mother. Politicians should care about all people, including little people. You don't have to be a doctor to care for people, and with the doctors ignoring their hippocratic oath, it might be better to NOT be a doctor if you are a politician. First, do no harm. As for mothers, when you have sex, you take the risk that you might get pregnant. That's when the decision-making occurs. Once you house a baby in your womb, it's wrong to then take it and rip it to shreds because you can't bear to see it die after a short life of suffering. The baby has no other viable home to go to. What gives a woman the right to take away that home? Charlotte, your heart needs to be heavy for the life that would be taken. Why do you not place a value on the relationship between mother and child as well? A mother sometimes has to bear suffering for her children.
@@AG-re5vw ALL this poor baby knew was suffering and pain. Even while she was in the womb, she was suffering. She was having seizures every day. How can you think that that is ok, and of any benefit at all to the child, who has ZERO chance at living. She won't know happiness, she won't know the sun on her face, she will never know anything positive. Her entire existence will consist of suffering. I don't see how anyone as a parent, or even as a human being, could force a child to suffer, both while in the womb, and the brief time, minutes, hours, days, that they are alive. I'm sure this mother would trade places with her child if she could save her, but it doesn't work like that. So she wanted to be able to give her a peaceful passage, not having to continue on for months suffering seizure after seizure, with no relief but death in sight
Honestly, if it's not the immediate then there's no say. (This is directed at those who think it is okay to say deny access to abortions for those who need it. It's not you, it's not your wife, it's not your daughter. If that's your wife/daughter, then fine. If they are okay with you controlling them then that's honestly on them and a whole separate conversation.) Just cause Roe v Wade got overturned doesn't mean those no-brained pro-lifers have won. It just means we're going to see an uptick on back alley abortions and DIY abortions being done. Congratulations to the pro-lifers, they created a world where it has become even more dangerous.
All woman of childbearing age who are and plan on being pregnant aren’t safe in these conservative states with strict abortion rules. We never really know what can happen during a preagnancy. My heart goes out to all the moms that had to go through this 😢💜.
@@paloma_lopez ah yes... Rape victims are completely in control of the situation 🙄🤦♀️ They just woke up and decided getting assaulted sounded like an amazing thing to do that day. Shut tf up.
This is why it’s imperative that we continue to fight for our reproductive rights. We cannot allow a group individuals that are narrow minded to dictate what we as women should do with our bodies. If these individuals feel so strongly how precious life is then they should consider gun control laws.
@@sobreinakentish8164 So? You're lumping all of these together. That is wrong. And you know what? If you don't want to have a baby, maybe you shouldn't have one.
@@sobreinakentish8164 Where are you getting your statistics? I beg to differ. Why do you think sperm and egg donors are higher than ever before. Most girls don't want to have sex without being married. Most young girls think of marriage or a career not having a baby. You also must remember it take two people to have sex that will create another human being in most cases. In America boys and men are taught that all girls are ok with sexual harassment which can mostly create a baby. You have Trump making an example on how a lot of men think. You had a man in Georgia running for Senate against abortion but paid for women he created lives to have an abortion. Like I said before. I don't agree with abortion but my views should not be forced on anyone. Each person has a right to choose what they want to do with their bodies along with their doctors decision.
@@sobreinakentish8164 No one should be forced to use their body to keep something else alive. Doesn't matter if that something else is an embryo or your grandmother. We cannot give a right to the unborn that no breathing human has. Furthermore, the Constitution grants rights to people BORN in America. Not one word is mentioned about the unborn. It does say that citizens have the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Every pregnancy can endanger life, every pregnancy takes away liberty, and forcing people to give birth is robbing women of the right to pursue happiness. Your personal feeling about "accountability" are irrelevant.
@@sobreinakentish8164 yeah, we just go out and have abortions for the fun of it. Abortions are so much cheaper than birth control, right? Get real. If you don't want to have an abortion, don't have one.
This should be illegal, no woman ought to go through this kind of torture. This is why we need the right to our own body. Thank you for sharing your story and pain with us, there is nothing any of us can do to help you with this pain.
The only thing that is sick and wrong are the people who are not open minded as to why she wanted the abortion. Not to kill but to save her baby from anymore suffering. A real mom will let her beloved child go when they know it’s for the best.
@@didimarcus277 so you think the child wanted to starve to death? Wanted to have seizures and struggle to breath for 44 hours until it finally died? You think god wanted that for the child? Wow you’re an idiot
@@didimarcus277 You think the child would prefer to suffer irrevocably, with no chance of survival? The child is going to die, regardless, either she can let the child go at 23 weeks gestation, or she can carry her to term, the entire time the child is suffering with seizures etc, and then dies within 2 days of birth. I don't know anyone that would choose an entire existence of suffering, just to be "born"..... zero quality of life
@@didimarcus277 how do you not get how fuc**d up it is to make some one deliver a baby that won’t survive? Also she has to pay for all those medical bills from giving birth and the care of the non viable baby… that isn’t free at all and is actually extremely messed up. On top of giving birth and healing going home without a baby. I had a premie and it was hell leaving my baby behind at the hospital, but at least she got to come home eventually. That mom is going to have 6 weeks of healing and pain reminding her she gave birth and baby is not there. That is traumatic and very sad. The only thing that makes child birth worth it is the baby at the end, no body wants to be split open for nothing…. Sad all around for mom, the family and doctors/ nurses. It’s all an unnecessary evil.
She did such a wonderful job honoring and loving her baby for the short time that she was here with us. Such precious photos and I love all the pics with the dad and big brother. I can't imagine how she could be so strong to put herself together to take such amazing pics at such a difficult time. Hope she gets to have more kids because she is an amazing mom!
She was forced by politicians to watch her child suffer for 44 hours. There is no wonder in that. There is no joy. Just pain and suffering to appease a bunch of religious zealots. It is shameful.
you're glamorizing infant death and I hate that. "take such amazing pics at such a difficult time." "Hope she gets to have more kids because she is an amazing mom" She doesn't want to have kids and is seriously considering not having more because this experience was very traumatic. You hope she has more kids? So if they have a fatal abnormality you can make another self serving comment online. Psycho🤮
@@kristin6338Would it have been better for her baby to be born dead at her own hand and at the hand of doctors and nurses? Would she have grieved less if she knew she had been responsible for deciding the day of the baby's death? Does earlier abortion prevent the pain of her daughter’s diagnosis. Would she not have been depressed if she had a termination?
So they think mothers going through so much pain and suffering is more humane? If the doctor states the pregnancy is nonviable, why make the mother go through full pregnancy? You’re only delaying her from trying again. And risking not able to get pregnant if complications arises from the delay. Wow, that makes a lot of sense! So it’s okay for the baby to die in their parents arms and have the parents feel attached, then hours later say bye to that baby forever?
That has to be EXTREMELY AGONIZING FOR A MOTHER AND A FATHER BUT MOSTLY FOR THE MOTHER SHE IS THE ONE WHO HAS TO CARRY THE CHILD KNOWING THAT HER BABY WILL NEVER GET TO BE SOMEONE AWESOME 😢💔
She was someone , She was unique and valuble . at least than can give her proper burial . Not just like a piece of trash throwned away . Human life even if it was short she felt love and that matters . Her life mattered. # Stop glamorizing abortion
@paloma_lopez Who said they'd "throw her away"? She wanted to save her from suffering and, apparently, you relish in it. She may well have had a service. The thought of short-sighted numbskulls patting themselves on the back while putting this poor family through literal mental torture makes me sick.
@@paloma_lopezOh shut up troll. You can still have a burial after an abortion. All that’s missing is the pain and suffering of both parties and the mother risking death or sterility. So please shut up.
I was 21 weeks pregnant with my daughter when she was diagnosed with a severe neurological abnormality. I live in Australia. Following the diagnosis my obstetrician encouraged me to have a termination. I refused because my daughter had a right to be born. No one knew what to expect apart from significant to severe disability if my daughter survived her birth. From 21 weeks to 38 weeks of pregnancy, l was terrified, anxious, depressed and sorrowful. I can relate to all of those emotions. My daughter lived for 4.5 years with severe multiple and progressive disabilities and for the last year of her life constant pain. But l don't regret her birth because she brought love into my life and she felt all the love around her. I couldn't throw her away because she wasn't normal. Just as l could'nt neglect or abandon a child born healthy but through disease or accident became disabled later in life. Be proud to say that you are a mother of 2 children. You have been tested in the most agonised way as a mother. In time the short life of your daughter will bless you because you loved her to the end of her life. You are a bereaved parent. You are now a Vilomah, meaning a loss against the natural order of life. (Children are expected to outlive parents not the other way around). If you had terminated the pregnancy, you would feel just as much guilt and sorrow. Your baby deserved to be born and given her beautiful name. She will bring you grace throughout the rest of your life. I am sincerely sorry for your loss. Your heart is broken but it will heal slowly. Your heart in time will expand so much more with empathy and appreciation of life. You cannot feel it right now but it will come.
@@copperhopperwarren4788 l remarked that l can relate to the mother's fears and sorrow. Our stories have similar strands. There wasn't any judgement. The parents in the video are still in the beginning stages of grief, l'm wishing her comfort and wellness.
Maria, what a beautiful comment. I found out my baby had died in uterus at 20 weeks and I went on to deliver her. It was awful. I miss her everyday. The birth was emotionally the worst experience I've ever been through. But on the other hand I was able to hold and meet my baby girl. I did not want to leave her at the hospital.
So... let me get this straight. Both baby AND mother had to suffer, the baby especially with struggling to breathe for 44 minutes, and somehow a very quick and painless abortion would have been....WORSE? WTF is wrong with people who don't support reproductive choice. They claim to have superior morals but I'd never, ever choose for a child to suffer this way if it were up to me.
44 hours, which makes it all the more horrifying. Some people’s reasoning skills are pretty lacking if they think that’s better than allowing a doctor to prevent the baby’s suffering before it began.
We're forced to carry all pregnancy now, even if it'll kill the mother and the child is nonviable. Thanks to America. I am glad she had her time with her baby though
@Jules Wick agreed. This country only wants us sick and mentally unwell so they can profit off of us. Put us in debt and financial struggles. All stemming from medical bills. Fuck America, but I'm stuck for now
@Freyja and what exactly should us women do, when they tell us our child isn't developing a brain but because of abortion laws, we can't terminate even when medically necessary. So excuse any woman for "watching their kid suffer" in their only moments of life. Get fucked, and may the universe teach you the hard way.
Do they not understand that all these unwanted children are going to cost a fortune!! How can you force a woman to have a baby she can't afford and take away her Medicaid at the same time? There are going to be more problems than just this story. So many heartbreaks.
It’s absolutely sickening that we don’t have the right to make decisions about our OWN BODY !!!! The Pro life group is only worried about the baby and not the woman who could ( and HAVE ) died due to multiple complications they didn’t ask for and never wanted ! They think every baby is an unwanted child produced by a self centered careless idiot and that is not the case of every person seeking to terminate a pregnancy . This story is heartbreaking and unnecessary.
This isn't the case with most abortions I'd say. something like 90% of women who have abortions go on to have other children, so they do WANT children it's likely the wrong time, they're in an abusive relationship, or can't financially support them. Agree most people tend to think the opposite and it's really gross when people just assume the women are selfish and the child is unwanted! :(
What if it was an unwanted child produced by a self centered careless idiot? What kind of life do they think that child would have? There are enough damaged children in the foster care system already.
This is heart breaking. This happens way more often than people think. Expecting parents who want their baby realize their baby has health issues and need to terminate the pregnancy. Abortion isn't always used for "birth control", my younger sister had an ectopic pregnancy in 2020 and was dying, she had to have the pregnancy terminated because there was no way she would have survived. Shortly after she became pregnant with twins and she had a miscarriage and had the procedure to clean up the remnants of the baby and the other baby was unharmed and my niece is now a beautiful 3 year old. I hate how people blame the women who have abortions and say idiotic things like they should have kept their legs shut. 😡😡 It's not just the woman who gets pregnant by themselves, also the women and girls who are raped had no choice.
So if you have health issues the government can just terminate you, right? As long as no one can see you or hear you scream, it's okay. If life isn't sacred from conception then no life is sacred, period. Don't be a hypocrite.
Knowing a baby isn't viable and letting it suffer considered child abuse? That poor baby basically starved to death. This was so emotionally abusive to the mother and her family. Plus look at all the added expenses. Hospital, NICU if any, funeral etc. All of this was completely uncalled for.
Incredibly heartbreaking 💔. Especially, to know. Definitely know, & there wasn’t a damn thing she could really do. My condolences 💐 go out to her, and I hope you can find happiness & some peace again in your life. Very inhumane to all involved.
Drs and family convinced my sister it would be better for her to keep going woth her pregnancy even non viable. It was the worst experience of my sisters life. Ive never seen her the way she was. She didnt want to see her dead daughter. She didnt want her to be forced to be birthed and die. Sje didnt want any more mental or physical pain. She still goes to therapy. She struggled with an alcohol addiction. Spent two months in a facility to help her mental health. My sister still has nightmares. She has ptsd. No one should be making these decisions for any women or family its absolutely disgusting strangers are able to force these things on people! Absolutely wrong others think this pain is nothing it will be fine. Its no big deal. They did just fine. When its not their life. Family or even friend they have to watch suffer.
I think it would, I don't think bringing a child for 9 months just to watch it suffer the breathe then die in your arms is good. The doctor told her months before delivery that the baby won't even make it, that's suffering to lay in bed each second and months to know what your nurturing won't even see their first birthday.
Jasmin but she was offered an abortion at 23 weeks. An abortion that late is giving the baby an injection to stop the heart and then delivering a dead baby. In both scenarios you are giving birth.
I’ve heard that abortion should be left for the states to decide, but here’s a thought: make it protected healthcare and leave it for the patient to decide for themselves. My goodness we think for ourselves--or rather, we should--on what we do with regards to our healthcare.
I'm pro-life, but in this case, I do think abortion should be legal, along with cases of rape. It's heartbreaking for the mother and she has the right to choose if she wants to continue to bear the pain and trauma. It's up to her, not politicians.
People say they are against (other people's) abortion because they claim the fetus can feel pain and they dont want the fetus to feel pain , so can someone please explain to me how it makes sense to cause a fetus to continue to suffer in pain for months so that the fetus can be born and suffer in pain even more and literally starving because the baby is not capable or able to eat AT ALL and is just forced to suffer in pain and agony for the entire 44 hours of "life" until that baby dies , after spending the entire existence in constant pain and suffering all while starving ? SMFH
I am currently pregnant right now. I'm 40 going on 41. I have a 21 year old and 12 year old. Of course, we were excited and everything. My husband and I were trying for years. Finally, it happened, and now one of my fears is what if something is wrong? Roe vs. Wade was overturned. Because of my age, I know I am at high risk. I think of other women who have to go through this, and I'm not gonna. This is heartbreaking and scary. I feel for my sisters in this country. 😢 I hope this gets fixed for the sake of our women.
I’m so very sorry for what you and your daughter have had to endure. Inhuman, unnecessary and mentally and physical torture. Your suffering was totally politically motivated. Thank you for sharing this incredibly painful event which will hopefully lead to positive forward change. I wish you and your family peace.
My youngest is just days older than her daughter. That poor woman didn't deserve the extra pain she went through, we live in a sick sad world here in the US.
This is where the abortion ban becomes too much. This woman wants her baby. Her baby cannot live. How is this situation not excluded from the ban? This is not a woman using an abortion as birth control. This is beyond anything I can imagine especially being a mother myself. I am so sorry she had to endure this situation. If these laws must exist then there needs to be more details that allow women to seek abortions when medically necessary.
These abortion bans should not need to exist at all, for the simple reason that NO one should be forced to use their body to keep something else alive. Doesn't matter if it's an embryo or your grandmother. The government has no business giving a right to the unborn that no breathing human has.
Such a beautiful little girl. I love her lips puckered up for kisses like little babies do. I’m so sorry for your loss and pray that you and your family will receive comfort, love, and compassion so that you may move forward in life.
chloe, you did everything for her. you are so loved and so is your baby laila. you say she will always be in your heart and that is so true. you are a beautiful mother. i am so sorry for your suffering and i thank you for your bravery in sharing your story.
Land of the free, but we're not really free when someone can tell us what to do with our own body. As a mother of 2 adult women, now I still struggle every day, wanting them to be ok in this cruel world. As a mother, I worry constantly, and I never want them to feel pain. I always tell my girls I would die for them, and I couldn't imagine having to watch my baby suffer like this 😢 A mother would take it all so her child didn't have to.
@@AG-re5vw8 months late, but in what world is letting a baby continue to have seizures (which can be extremely painful post-seizure even for adults, much less a literal BABY that's still developing in the womb) before they've even taken their first breath, and then have them go through the hugely traumatic process of being birthed (our heads literally have to be underdeveloped so that we can survive being pushed through the birth canal) which can take anywhere from 1 to 72 hours; and then after all of that trauma your body is trying to breathe in air, but because of your deformities you are actually slowly suffocating (know that feeling when you've either held your breathe for too long or had a coughing episode from saliva going down the wrong pipe? That's your body screaming at you that you desperately need more air than you're getting, and that also sends really bad pain and panic signals throughout your body). All of that takes any joy from finally having your bundle of joy in your arms long before you have the moment to hold them. "Natural death" is such a disgusting excuse to use because you refuse to acknowledge the horror of the situation you're attempting to glorify for ANY reason. God is love, and the free will this woman was supposed to have to protect her child from one of the most painful ways to die was stripped away by politicians that don't care about the consequences of their actions on innocent lives they have chosen to force suffering upon for their own power gains in government. If you truly believe that this baby deserved to be born to be filled with pain and suffering, or that somehow feeling the love her parents have for her before she was physically exposed to air outside her mother's body wasn't meeting her "quota" of life experience before death, then you and anybody that shares your specific opinion/belief on this matter need to look inside yourself and find whatever sliver of compassion for a human life you still retain and really ask yourself why you believe this child deserved to be tortured both in the womb and outside the womb. If Jesus walked the earth right now, do you really think he wouldn't try to take this baby's pain and suffering away? He fought for everyone's right for forgiveness so people specifically wouldn't be subject to suffering just because their ancestors sinned against God. I truly hope that you've been able to heal the hurt parts within yourself since you made this comment because it screams from the mountain top that it was a comment based in pain within oneself.
Aww, sweetheart! I pray for your heart to heal! If they knew how many of us have endured pain and traumatic miscarriages, stillbirths, and etc. all on our own… some including their wives, mothers, sisters, and even their own daughters! Those representatives that are making those decisions have daughters who have endured the same traumatic experiences yet they don’t see the bigger picture! It’s about more than just abortion because we don’t want to be pregnant, make the men who have tons of children get fixed! We are women & we literally birth a nation! The fact is that we can get pregnant on pills, using a condom, and even on an implant. I’m a witness to it! The part that the “law makers” 👀don’t understand is that there are life saving factors to the same procedure and they messed up because they don’t think like women think & truthfully they don’t have the mental capacity to fathom the complexity of an intellectual thought out rebottle in response of why they feel so strongly on their stance yet we have provided a multitude of proven responses with evidence on our stance! Allow women to be women and make their own decisions! You don’t own US! The
She had to watch her baby die. If she was allowed abortion she would have had to grief but it would have been a different grieving process. Now she has to bury her daughter & to know her daughter died in so much pain & suffering. Her baby was so hungry but couldn't eat bc if the abnormalities that she was forced to be born into the world. She suffered in the womb too by having seizures. That is inhumane for everyone involved.
@Crystal Slattery So far, based on the comments I’ve read up to this point, you’re the only one who seems to get it. Thank you for acknowledging this baby’s value, despite her deformities.
@@paloma_lopez oh okay, so it was necessary for her to suffer. Next time this happens, I'd like to see you try to console a dying, pained baby. You and your god are evil and you have lost your humanity
How unbelievably cruel. That baby couldn’t even eat or drink! Her life was ONLY pain. Does that make you all happy, a newborn baby knowing nothing but suffering? Are we excited to fill heaven with the souls of tortured babies, is that what our era is going to be known for? Because I know where that’s going to reroute us all, straight to hell 🤷🏽♀️ we should be ashamed. Another woman in Texas not only went through something similar, her baby was born DEAD and she’ll never be able to conceive again because her state forced her to carry a rotting corpse for nine months. DESPICABLE.
I feel so bad for this women. I don't believe in abortions for myself. However, I do believe in cases like this or similar, it should be up to the parents or person who's carrying. I wish her luck through such a hard grieving process. So sad!...
These issues among more could be identified early in pregnancy if woman could have ultrasounds every 4 weeks. Its no more than $100 or $700 more for a pregnancy per person and would save so many lives to know of complications earlier on, as well find out if a baby was viable well before 20 weeks or even 15. I lost twins at 23 weeks. If i had had regular ultrasounds my babies may still be alive.
I’m pregnant now with a baby girl, and I’m sure your daughter felt so loved while you carried her in your womb and during her first breaths of life. Even if it wasn’t your decision, you held your daughter and had a chance to be with her which a lot of women would never have had a chance. May God be with you as you go through this experience but know your baby is in Heaven.
Can't she sue the US government or even here state for the harm they caused her? I think she has a case. It's inhumane to force a woman to go through what she went through.
Although i would never do an abortion myself i do understand women should have that decision for themselves i definitely feel if the baby isnt going to make it or the mom could be at risk they should be able to make a decision to not have to carry full term everyone should choose themselves you should have that right.
That what the each state wants. They think every child is going to be born healthy. They don't think about the what ifs or what could go wrong during the pregnancies.
I think the sick reality is that they actually don't think about weather babies are healthy or not, because they don't care! They care about their ratings and control, that's it! I'm glad I'm Canadian and don't have to live in any of these states that are going back to neanderthal ages.
My heart bleeds for your as a mother of three and having complications with two of them. I want you to know you're not alone in your grief you must endure the rest of your life. I'm so sorry for your loss
There are still places that a woman can terminate a pregnancy if the baby isn't going to survive or it will harm her. It is NOT outlawed to have abortions.
It is clear that woman is in pain and anyone who would take away her choices and then stand up to tell the world that they believe yes she should be forced to deliver that baby is truly sick and enjoys doing this to people
I SERIOUSLY hope these politicians take a real hard look at what THEIR decisions that they get to make for US women do and for the long term. This is so sad and terrible and angers me more than I could put into words.
Im so sorry she had to go through this 😔🙏 I lost my baby girl at 13 weeks in 2021 , my dr said i could carry her to full term or she may pass away on her own 😭 I would cry myself to sleep at night 😭 No one will ever understand this until you've went through it and hopefully you never do....I was told the same thing that if she lived it would only be a few hours 😔
It's cruel to force these women to carry a baby who isn't going to make it. It's cruel to make her go through labor and hold this little tiny baby that's gonna die. These poor woman and babies are being tortured. Do the old men calling the shots like seeing very sick little babies suffer before dying? Do they like seeing broken hearted parents?
Every Republican should be forced to watch her story. I am so sorry sweetie. I lost my little girl too. Before birth though. It's hard but I plan to have another child. Please find your joy again. (((HUGS)))❤
@@rosesweetcharlotte trust me we saw it too . And u kn what her life matter even if she lived a few hours . She can get a decent burial not just get throwend away in the dump. We pro life care for both their lives not just one of them .
@@paloma_lopez She could have had a burial if she was aborted. And they aren't thrown in a dump. They can be cremated, often times they will be sent away to be dissected to understand why they were sick. And I don't think her mother thought her life didn't matter even if she was aborted. In fact, I imagine abortion was wanted because her mother didn't want her to spend her first and only hours of life slowly suffocating over a period of hours. My friend, all things come from God, the good and the bad. Sometimes God allows babies to be born healthy and happy. Sometimes God allows them to slowly suffocate over a period of days. That is why abortion exists, because God wants mothers to have control over His mistakes.
My first born son was a full term stillborn at 37 weeks. When roe Vs wade got over turned as a bereaved mother my heart sank.. I knew more women would have to go through unnecessary and unbelievable grief, heartbreak, and trauma. My condolences Momma. 🙏🏽 Fly high baby Laila 👼🏽🦋🤍🧿
I’m so sorry for your loss
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@@aprilm1866 disgusting your way of thinking !!! I really hope you never experience what these moms had to go thru
@@aprilm1866 thank u for saying this! These mothers should want to hold their baby and bury them properly and see them !
@@victoriaarizpe3008 if I was to experience this i would hold that baby and give them the proper burial they deserve and be happy I at least got to see my babies face that I carried
So let me get this straight. Politicians are NOT ok with terminating a pregnancy when there is no chance of life but are totally fine with letting an innocent baby starve and suffocate for nearly two days??
Sounds accurate:(
She is human and should die naturally. You think babies dont feel anything when they are medically forced to die?
Yeah, our government sucks
That’s what happens when staunch Republican old men are in charge
As long as the mother suffers as much as possible, they are totally fine with that.
The mental pain that this poor woman had to endure is unspeakable. This is inhumane. 😔
imagine how many more women are going through a similar situation right now… I still can’t believe that this is real, that this is something lawmakers didn’t feel they had to consider when putting this law back into place.
@@kendrascott6085 They don't care.
Totally disagree
@@hutchiea1 I bet you do.
The circumstances that this woman is having to endure are horrific. And somehow in America we have convinced women that the solution is to have their baby murdered. This will never and could never make the pain go away. It just adds another layer of trauma. Abortion is disguised as compassion. Dems support it because abortion costs a lot less than the delivery and care of the child and mother.
The fact we treat animals with more compassion and do things to prevent their suffering but not our own. Absolutely heartbreaking 💔
Do you know how many animals are killed every year just for meat? That's not even including the animals that are forced to reproduce so we can separate them from their mothers and kill the ones we don't need right away while others are imprisoned and used until they are no longer of use and are also killed. Animals have always had and continue to have harder lives than any human ever will. Don't forget that. They are the only ones who truly have zero rights.
The abortion execution is suffering for the baby. Y’all celebrate murder.
You contradict yourself
@@Bloom2Grow ?
@@Bloom2Grow No she doesn't. Troll.
I’m currently pregnant and I’m due around September as well. This made me cry so much. I can’t even imagine what I would do in this situation. I’m sorry for her loss and I really do hope she’s able to heal in time.
Hi, due in September too🤘
I wish you a safe pregnancy and labor, friend. Just had my baby in March. First two weeks are the toughest, you got this!
You shouldn't watch things like this while you're pregnant, it will affect you much more than us ❤
I'm so sorry.....
Congratulations! Yes, I agree with the person who said to not read things like this now. Be happy and healthy !!
These people dont give a shit once that baby is out of the womb. As someone who had a nonviable pregnancy and wanted my baby, this is pure torture! Its torture for a woman to have to continue with a pregnancy knowing damn well that they're going to have to watch thier baby suffer as the inevitably die in their arms. 😥 I feel for this woman and all the others going thru similar situations. I hope she finds peace and healing. I know its hard.
I'm truly sorry for your loss Daisy. You've nailed it on the head... they really don't give a crap about babies once they are born at all, it's sickening.
This is soooo wrong. Like wtf people!?? These politicians are essentially saying that the unborn child who’s not compatible with life is MORE important than Mom?? This is crazy. You can see and feel her pain. I’m so upset by this that I can’t even find the right words to express my anger. I’m sorry for anyone who has been forced into this situation. It’s NOT fair Mama. 🩷
@@kristenashton7505 thank you for your kind words, and I agree with you it's sickening
@@juleswick absolutely!
I'm sorry 😞
I could not imagine. Chloe you’re so strong & I admire you’re fearlessness for speaking out. ❤
If anyone who thinks this is how you let a baby live is beyond evil.
Poor baby. She was suffering. Prayers to the family 🙏🙏🙏
The MOTHER WAS SUFFERING
@@katiem4539 really ?
How bad does it physically hurt ?
0. Its all emotinal ppl recover she be fine , she should just remmber she wanted to kill her sooner so its not like she matter to her in the 1st place .
@@paloma_lopez what are you smoking? She wanted this baby very much, only when she found out the child had no chance at life, and FELT her having seizures in utero, did she want to end her suffering. It is the most selfish thing to do, to keep alive a child that has no chance of living, and is already suffering, and who will continue to suffer until the point in which she dies. This poor mother will grieve for her baby no matter what. And now because she was forced to carry to term, there is the additional possibility of her being unable to have children in the future, as some women are learning now. I’m sure if she could have, this mother would have given her life for her baby to survive.
@tommygirl6659 I'm not trying to be argumentative, but I'm honestly curious. I'm an RN and I don't understand why you say she wouldn't be able to carry another baby...? Abortions are far more likely to damage the mother's reproductive system than giving birth to the child. Unless there's something I'm not understanding?
@PinkyJean Designs a woman who is half way through their pregnancy and finds out their baby is incompatible with life, doesn't get an abortion, it's called termination for medical reasons. There are two options, you can opt for a needle that goes into the babies heart and makes the baby fall asleep in the mother's womb. At that gestation, they don't have the cellular sofistifcation to feel any pain so it is essential the most humane way for a baby with medical complications to die. The Woman still has to be induced, they still have to labour and give birth to their child and not have to watch them die.
The second option is you can not have the needle and birth the baby alive and it will die in 30 minutes to a few hours as their lungs are not developed. Difficult to watch but again, more humane than letting a baby go to full term.
If you were an RN you should know that? It literally doesn't affect a woman's fertility to have a termination. Total misinformation that abortions and terminations affect future fertility, which again, you should know because you're an RN right?!?! Maybe not a good one. I suggest educating yourself before speaking on specialist medical issues. Just because you are an RN, does not mean you know anything about Maternal Fetal Medicine.
What people fail to understand is not being able to terminate a failed pregnancy can lead to fertility issues in the future. Politics getting in the way of health care always leads human suffering. This shouldn’t be like this. I’m trying to get pregnant and when Roe v Wade overturned I cried because this could happen to any woman for all sorts of complications. Forced pregnancy is abuse, that’s all it comes down to.
They don't care. That happened to the Texan woman, who was forced to keep carrying a failed pregnancy until it turned septic, before she could finally have it terminated. She had developed so much scarring of her reproductive organs, that she will now no longer be able to conceive naturally.
Do you know if that baby wanted to see mama's face before saying goodbye? As long as that baby is breathing, no one has the right to take her life.
@@didimarcus277 I'm glad that where I live, euthanasia is permitted in tragic cases like this, both before and after birth.
Newborn babies eyes can't even focus properly, so forcing the child to live while suffering in order 'to see mamma's face', is both cruel and ridiculous.
And whatever the case, the decision should not be made by politicians and so called pro life activists who don't even know the family, but by the parents and their doctor.
@@didimarcus277 the baby was suffering, why would you want to put them through that? So you’re gonna force someone to stay alive even though they are in pain and was not compatible with life to begin with? That’s not compassion, that is cruel!
@@didimarcus277 STFU. You have no say. Go away.
I’m so sorry this poor women and baby had to go through 💔 This pain is unimaginable
I’ll probably catch hate for this from someone but here goes anyways. It is disturbing at the amount of people out there willing to allow a baby to suffer by choice.
But then people will aboard babies that are healthy. But that's okay??? I had a baby with birth defects he was a month early. Yes it was hard but I would not have changed holding him he was my boy. He was a gift.
You’re absolutely right. Politicians should not be making medical decisions. Americas is going to find itself in the same predicament as other countries and have women who don’t want to have children at all. This country is making it a miserable experience.
@@sonnyangel1 You had a choice in how you handled your situation. This woman did not. That is the difference.
@@sonnyangel1 That was your choice, though. Not everyone wants such a thing.
She didn’t choose this. Politicians chose this. The mother was suffering from being forced the carry a non viable pregnancy because of evil pro lifers
Thank you for your courage in sharing your heartbreaking story. I am so sorry you had to go through the entire pregnancy only to watch you beautiful baby suffer and die. No one should have to go through what you've been through. I hope your story will reach women and men who may not understand what torture you endured and perhaps change their minds about their own positions.
We need to enshrine a woman's right to terminate legally as it has been since 1973. Yours was a wanted baby and for that they punished you and Laila. Shame on them.
This was so sad. This shows that our politicians has no right to be making decisions on any woman bodies. They are not doctors. My heart is heavy.
That the baby dies naturally or was killed in the womb, either way the baby will feel pain but it's better she dies naturally.
You stole the words from my mouth. I'm writing this on Mother's Day, and I'm crying about all of those just like this woman who are suffering, as she said, for no reason. This is not a political issue, and I'm sick at what has happened in just a year. Absolute chaos, heartbreak, violence, fear, pain, loss of life, loss of freedom, loss of safety. Loss of humanity, really. For half of humanity, that is.
The baby is a separate person from the mother. Politicians should care about all people, including little people. You don't have to be a doctor to care for people, and with the doctors ignoring their hippocratic oath, it might be better to NOT be a doctor if you are a politician. First, do no harm.
As for mothers, when you have sex, you take the risk that you might get pregnant. That's when the decision-making occurs. Once you house a baby in your womb, it's wrong to then take it and rip it to shreds because you can't bear to see it die after a short life of suffering. The baby has no other viable home to go to. What gives a woman the right to take away that home? Charlotte, your heart needs to be heavy for the life that would be taken. Why do you not place a value on the relationship between mother and child as well? A mother sometimes has to bear suffering for her children.
@@AG-re5vw ALL this poor baby knew was suffering and pain. Even while she was in the womb, she was suffering. She was having seizures every day. How can you think that that is ok, and of any benefit at all to the child, who has ZERO chance at living. She won't know happiness, she won't know the sun on her face, she will never know anything positive. Her entire existence will consist of suffering. I don't see how anyone as a parent, or even as a human being, could force a child to suffer, both while in the womb, and the brief time, minutes, hours, days, that they are alive. I'm sure this mother would trade places with her child if she could save her, but it doesn't work like that. So she wanted to be able to give her a peaceful passage, not having to continue on for months suffering seizure after seizure, with no relief but death in sight
Honestly, if it's not the immediate then there's no say. (This is directed at those who think it is okay to say deny access to abortions for those who need it. It's not you, it's not your wife, it's not your daughter. If that's your wife/daughter, then fine. If they are okay with you controlling them then that's honestly on them and a whole separate conversation.) Just cause Roe v Wade got overturned doesn't mean those no-brained pro-lifers have won. It just means we're going to see an uptick on back alley abortions and DIY abortions being done. Congratulations to the pro-lifers, they created a world where it has become even more dangerous.
All woman of childbearing age who are and plan on being pregnant aren’t safe in these conservative states with strict abortion rules. We never really know what can happen during a preagnancy. My heart goes out to all the moms that had to go through this 😢💜.
Thats why their contraceptives , really your in control u decide when .
@@paloma_lopez ah yes... Rape victims are completely in control of the situation 🙄🤦♀️ They just woke up and decided getting assaulted sounded like an amazing thing to do that day. Shut tf up.
@@paloma_lopezand “your” an idiot. These are PLANNED PREGNANCIES.
So sorry. Emotional torture shouldn't happen to anyone.😢
what a strong woman. I'm sorry you and your baby had to go through that.
This is why it’s imperative that we continue to fight for our reproductive rights. We cannot allow a group individuals that are narrow minded to dictate what we as women should do with our bodies. If these individuals feel so strongly how precious life is then they should consider gun control laws.
@@sobreinakentish8164 So? You're lumping all of these together. That is wrong. And you know what? If you don't want to have a baby, maybe you shouldn't have one.
@@sobreinakentish8164 Where are you getting your statistics? I beg to differ. Why do you think sperm and egg donors are higher than ever before. Most girls don't want to have sex without being married. Most young girls think of marriage or a career not having a baby. You also must remember it take two people to have sex that will create another human being in most cases. In America boys and men are taught that all girls are ok with sexual harassment which can mostly create a baby. You have Trump making an example on how a lot of men think. You had a man in Georgia running for Senate against abortion but paid for women he created lives to have an abortion. Like I said before. I don't agree with abortion but my views should not be forced on anyone. Each person has a right to choose what they want to do with their bodies along with their doctors decision.
@@sobreinakentish8164 No one should be forced to use their body to keep something else alive. Doesn't matter if that something else is an embryo or your grandmother. We cannot give a right to the unborn that no breathing human has. Furthermore, the Constitution grants rights to people BORN in America. Not one word is mentioned about the unborn. It does say that citizens have the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Every pregnancy can endanger life, every pregnancy takes away liberty, and forcing people to give birth is robbing women of the right to pursue happiness. Your personal feeling about "accountability" are irrelevant.
@@sobreinakentish8164 yeah, we just go out and have abortions for the fun of it. Abortions are so much cheaper than birth control, right? Get real. If you don't want to have an abortion, don't have one.
@@sobreinakentish8164 Humans have sex, and contraceptives don’t always work. Sorry, but those are facts, and it’s too bad you don’t like them.
I am so sorry mama. This angers me so much. I am sending you so much love ❤️
Rest in peace babygirl 💕🕊️
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Wow. The insane people that said she should leave the child to suffer and seize
It infuriates me that decisions are made by others, and not the woman, herself.
This should be illegal, no woman ought to go through this kind of torture. This is why we need the right to our own body. Thank you for sharing your story and pain with us, there is nothing any of us can do to help you with this pain.
What about the baby's body that is murdered???
The only thing that is sick and wrong are the people who are not open minded as to why she wanted the abortion. Not to kill but to save her baby from anymore suffering. A real mom will let her beloved child go when they know it’s for the best.
What makes you think that the child will like to die through abortion? Are you God that knows everything?
@@didimarcus277 so you think the child wanted to starve to death? Wanted to have seizures and struggle to breath for 44 hours until it finally died? You think god wanted that for the child? Wow you’re an idiot
@@didimarcus277 You think the child would prefer to suffer irrevocably, with no chance of survival? The child is going to die, regardless, either she can let the child go at 23 weeks gestation, or she can carry her to term, the entire time the child is suffering with seizures etc, and then dies within 2 days of birth. I don't know anyone that would choose an entire existence of suffering, just to be "born"..... zero quality of life
@@didimarcus277 how do you not get how fuc**d up it is to make some one deliver a baby that won’t survive? Also she has to pay for all those medical bills from giving birth and the care of the non viable baby… that isn’t free at all and is actually extremely messed up. On top of giving birth and healing going home without a baby. I had a premie and it was hell leaving my baby behind at the hospital, but at least she got to come home eventually. That mom is going to have 6 weeks of healing and pain reminding her she gave birth and baby is not there. That is traumatic and very sad. The only thing that makes child birth worth it is the baby at the end, no body wants to be split open for nothing…. Sad all around for mom, the family and doctors/ nurses. It’s all an unnecessary evil.
May she find the strength and courage to move forward in ger life. Blessings to her always 🙏
She did such a wonderful job honoring and loving her baby for the short time that she was here with us. Such precious photos and I love all the pics with the dad and big brother. I can't imagine how she could be so strong to put herself together to take such amazing pics at such a difficult time. Hope she gets to have more kids because she is an amazing mom!
She was forced by politicians to watch her child suffer for 44 hours. There is no wonder in that. There is no joy. Just pain and suffering to appease a bunch of religious zealots. It is shameful.
you're glamorizing infant death and I hate that. "take such amazing pics at such a difficult time." "Hope she gets to have more kids because she is an amazing mom" She doesn't want to have kids and is seriously considering not having more because this experience was very traumatic. You hope she has more kids? So if they have a fatal abnormality you can make another self serving comment online. Psycho🤮
@@kristin6338Would it have been better for her baby to be born dead at her own hand and at the hand of doctors and nurses? Would she have grieved less if she knew she had been responsible for deciding the day of the baby's death? Does earlier abortion prevent the pain of her daughter’s diagnosis. Would she not have been depressed if she had a termination?
So they think mothers going through so much pain and suffering is more humane? If the doctor states the pregnancy is nonviable, why make the mother go through full pregnancy? You’re only delaying her from trying again. And risking not able to get pregnant if complications arises from the delay. Wow, that makes a lot of sense! So it’s okay for the baby to die in their parents arms and have the parents feel attached, then hours later say bye to that baby forever?
I’m so sorry for her loss. In cases like this why should the Mother and child suffer? They are in my heart and prayers 💕
That has to be EXTREMELY AGONIZING FOR A MOTHER AND A FATHER BUT MOSTLY FOR THE MOTHER SHE IS THE ONE WHO HAS TO CARRY THE CHILD KNOWING THAT HER BABY WILL NEVER GET TO BE SOMEONE AWESOME 😢💔
She was someone ,
She was unique and valuble . at least than can give her proper burial . Not just like a piece of trash throwned away . Human life even if it was short she felt love and that matters . Her life mattered.
# Stop glamorizing abortion
@paloma_lopez Who said they'd "throw her away"? She wanted to save her from suffering and, apparently, you relish in it. She may well have had a service. The thought of short-sighted numbskulls patting themselves on the back while putting this poor family through literal mental torture makes me sick.
@@paloma_lopezOh shut up troll. You can still have a burial after an abortion. All that’s missing is the pain and suffering of both parties and the mother risking death or sterility. So please shut up.
I was 21 weeks pregnant with my daughter when she was diagnosed with a severe neurological abnormality.
I live in Australia. Following the diagnosis my obstetrician encouraged me to have a termination.
I refused because my daughter had a right to be born. No one knew what to expect apart from significant to severe disability if my daughter survived her birth.
From 21 weeks to 38 weeks of pregnancy, l was terrified, anxious, depressed and sorrowful.
I can relate to all of those emotions.
My daughter lived for 4.5 years with severe multiple and progressive disabilities and for the last year of her life constant pain.
But l don't regret her birth because she brought love into my life and she felt all the love around her.
I couldn't throw her away because she wasn't normal. Just as l could'nt neglect or abandon a child born healthy but through disease or accident became disabled later in life.
Be proud to say that you are a mother of 2 children.
You have been tested in the most agonised way as a mother. In time the short life of your daughter will bless you because you loved her to the end of her life.
You are a bereaved parent. You are now a Vilomah, meaning a loss against the natural order of life.
(Children are expected to outlive parents not the other way around).
If you had terminated the pregnancy, you would feel just as much guilt and sorrow. Your baby deserved to be born and given her beautiful name. She will bring you grace throughout the rest of your life.
I am sincerely sorry for your loss.
Your heart is broken but it will heal slowly. Your heart in time will expand so much more with empathy and appreciation of life.
You cannot feel it right now but it will come.
Your past does NOT give you the right to tell her how she is/will be feeling.
@@copperhopperwarren4788 l remarked that l can relate to the mother's fears and sorrow.
Our stories have similar strands.
There wasn't any judgement.
The parents in the video are still in the beginning stages of grief, l'm wishing her comfort and wellness.
Maria, what a beautiful comment. I found out my baby had died in uterus at 20 weeks and I went on to deliver her. It was awful. I miss her everyday. The birth was emotionally the worst experience I've ever been through. But on the other hand I was able to hold and meet my baby girl. I did not want to leave her at the hospital.
@@stayathomemarine l am sorry for your loss Sarah. I believe your daughter knows and feels your love for her.
@@copperhopperwarren4788 Wow, your very judgmental...demonic.
This story broke me. I’m 17 weeks pregnant this women is so strong. I don’t know if I could live through this
So... let me get this straight. Both baby AND mother had to suffer, the baby especially with struggling to breathe for 44 minutes, and somehow a very quick and painless abortion would have been....WORSE? WTF is wrong with people who don't support reproductive choice. They claim to have superior morals but I'd never, ever choose for a child to suffer this way if it were up to me.
44 hours, which makes it all the more horrifying. Some people’s reasoning skills are pretty lacking if they think that’s better than allowing a doctor to prevent the baby’s suffering before it began.
abortion is not painless to the baby, and yes, it would have been worse.
This reality is very cruel! We have to fight to get our rights back !
F your rights and F you women
We're forced to carry all pregnancy now, even if it'll kill the mother and the child is nonviable. Thanks to America. I am glad she had her time with her baby though
It’s soooo wrong. Makes my blood boil!
@Jules Wick agreed. This country only wants us sick and mentally unwell so they can profit off of us. Put us in debt and financial struggles. All stemming from medical bills. Fuck America, but I'm stuck for now
Watching your baby suffering and dying is nothing to be glad about.
@Freyja and what exactly should us women do, when they tell us our child isn't developing a brain but because of abortion laws, we can't terminate even when medically necessary. So excuse any woman for "watching their kid suffer" in their only moments of life. Get fucked, and may the universe teach you the hard way.
Do they not understand that all these unwanted children are going to cost a fortune!! How can you force a woman to have a baby she can't afford and take away her Medicaid at the same time? There are going to be more problems than just this story. So many heartbreaks.
This is so devastating. I’m so sorry.
I'm so sorry this happen, poor baby . 🙏🕊
It’s absolutely sickening that we don’t have the right to make decisions about our OWN BODY !!!! The Pro life group is only worried about the baby and not the woman who could ( and HAVE ) died due to multiple complications they didn’t ask for and never wanted ! They think every baby is an unwanted child produced by a self centered careless idiot and that is not the case of every person seeking to terminate a pregnancy .
This story is heartbreaking and unnecessary.
This isn't the case with most abortions I'd say. something like 90% of women who have abortions go on to have other children, so they do WANT children it's likely the wrong time, they're in an abusive relationship, or can't financially support them. Agree most people tend to think the opposite and it's really gross when people just assume the women are selfish and the child is unwanted! :(
@@healinghashis Aborting a baby because it isn't the right time is not an excuse
What if it was an unwanted child produced by a self centered careless idiot? What kind of life do they think that child would have?
There are enough damaged children in the foster care system already.
its actually the babies body, and the majority of babies aborted are killed because they dont want a baby
@@Katie-ij3zc I didn't know people from the Middle Ages could use the internet. What's that like, Katie?
My heart goes out to you and what you had to endure. Praying God will give you strength and grant you peace 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Rest in paradise lil angel Laila❤
This is heart breaking. This happens way more often than people think. Expecting parents who want their baby realize their baby has health issues and need to terminate the pregnancy. Abortion isn't always used for "birth control", my younger sister had an ectopic pregnancy in 2020 and was dying, she had to have the pregnancy terminated because there was no way she would have survived. Shortly after she became pregnant with twins and she had a miscarriage and had the procedure to clean up the remnants of the baby and the other baby was unharmed and my niece is now a beautiful 3 year old.
I hate how people blame the women who have abortions and say idiotic things like they should have kept their legs shut. 😡😡 It's not just the woman who gets pregnant by themselves, also the women and girls who are raped had no choice.
ectopic pregnancy threatens the life of the mother and is allowed to be terminated post June 24, 2022. be careful not to mix things up.
also, having a miscarriage removed has nothing to do with killing a living baby??
So if you have health issues the government can just terminate you, right? As long as no one can see you or hear you scream, it's okay. If life isn't sacred from conception then no life is sacred, period. Don't be a hypocrite.
Thank you for sharing this story. You are a good mother. God bless you.
Good mothers put their children first you know.
@@didimarcus277 thank God
@@didimarcus277 which is exactly what she was trying to do...
Pregnancy is not a joke it’s very dangerous and that was a huge risk to her health. That poor baby suffered at the end of her life. This is not right.
i hope every person who is anti-abortion sees this and shame on all of them for this mom and child's sufferering.
Knowing a baby isn't viable and letting it suffer considered child abuse? That poor baby basically starved to death.
This was so emotionally abusive to the mother and her family.
Plus look at all the added expenses. Hospital, NICU if any, funeral etc.
All of this was completely uncalled for.
Incredibly heartbreaking 💔. Especially, to know. Definitely know, & there wasn’t a damn thing she could really do. My condolences 💐 go out to her, and I hope you can find happiness & some peace again in your life. Very inhumane to all involved.
Thank you all you pro life people . This is what you did .
Drs and family convinced my sister it would be better for her to keep going woth her pregnancy even non viable. It was the worst experience of my sisters life. Ive never seen her the way she was. She didnt want to see her dead daughter. She didnt want her to be forced to be birthed and die. Sje didnt want any more mental or physical pain. She still goes to therapy. She struggled with an alcohol addiction. Spent two months in a facility to help her mental health. My sister still has nightmares. She has ptsd. No one should be making these decisions for any women or family its absolutely disgusting strangers are able to force these things on people! Absolutely wrong others think this pain is nothing it will be fine. Its no big deal. They did just fine. When its not their life. Family or even friend they have to watch suffer.
Does she think an abortion would have removed the pain?
I think it would, I don't think bringing a child for 9 months just to watch it suffer the breathe then die in your arms is good. The doctor told her months before delivery that the baby won't even make it, that's suffering to lay in bed each second and months to know what your nurturing won't even see their first birthday.
Jasmin but she was offered an abortion at 23 weeks. An abortion that late is giving the baby an injection to stop the heart and then delivering a dead baby. In both scenarios you are giving birth.
Thank you for sharing your story because of your courage to spend the time with your daughter is an inspiration to us all.
I’ve heard that abortion should be left for the states to decide, but here’s a thought: make it protected healthcare and leave it for the patient to decide for themselves. My goodness we think for ourselves--or rather, we should--on what we do with regards to our healthcare.
Heartbreaking. God bless this family
youre saying God bless this family but you support abortion? God doesnt
@@wrtpbd How do you know that? The bible doesn’t mention abortion at all.
Thou shall not murder 🙄
@@wrtpbd um When did they say support abortion???
I'm pro-life, but in this case, I do think abortion should be legal, along with cases of rape. It's heartbreaking for the mother and she has the right to choose if she wants to continue to bear the pain and trauma. It's up to her, not politicians.
People say they are against (other people's) abortion because they claim the fetus can feel pain and they dont want the fetus to feel pain , so can someone please explain to me how it makes sense to cause a fetus to continue to suffer in pain for months so that the fetus can be born and suffer in pain even more and literally starving because the baby is not capable or able to eat AT ALL and is just forced to suffer in pain and agony for the entire 44 hours of "life" until that baby dies , after spending the entire existence in constant pain and suffering all while starving ?
SMFH
Heart breaking.
This is so heartbreaking i am so sorry for your loss
I am currently pregnant right now. I'm 40 going on 41. I have a 21 year old and 12 year old. Of course, we were excited and everything. My husband and I were trying for years. Finally, it happened, and now one of my fears is what if something is wrong? Roe vs. Wade was overturned. Because of my age, I know I am at high risk. I think of other women who have to go through this, and I'm not gonna. This is heartbreaking and scary. I feel for my sisters in this country. 😢 I hope this gets fixed for the sake of our women.
I’m so very sorry for what you and your daughter have had to endure. Inhuman, unnecessary and mentally and physical torture. Your suffering was totally politically motivated.
Thank you for sharing this incredibly painful event which will hopefully lead to positive forward change.
I wish you and your family peace.
You have my support. I am sorry and appalled that you were forced to go thru this.
whtever clinic that denied you after scheduling you, has no balls. for shame
This is absolutely heartbreaking 💔 I’m crying as I’m watching this. The only person who should have a choice on one’s body is that person- themself.
You're right, but how could unborn, Laila, tell them what she wanted?
@@melissapadbury28 stop
My youngest is just days older than her daughter. That poor woman didn't deserve the extra pain she went through, we live in a sick sad world here in the US.
This is where the abortion ban becomes too much. This woman wants her baby. Her baby cannot live. How is this situation not excluded from the ban? This is not a woman using an abortion as birth control. This is beyond anything I can imagine especially being a mother myself. I am so sorry she had to endure this situation. If these laws must exist then there needs to be more details that allow women to seek abortions when medically necessary.
These abortion bans should not need to exist at all, for the simple reason that NO one should be forced to use their body to keep something else alive. Doesn't matter if it's an embryo or your grandmother. The government has no business giving a right to the unborn that no breathing human has.
This is such a sad story. I am so sorry you and your precious baby had to go through this
Oh, but these anti-choice people feel women should be grateful for those hours….
Such a beautiful little girl. I love her lips puckered up for kisses like little babies do. I’m so sorry for your loss and pray that you and your family will receive comfort, love, and compassion so that you may move forward in life.
This is heartbreaking. I’m so sorry you had to go through this ❤❤❤❤
chloe, you did everything for her. you are so loved and so is your baby laila. you say she will always be in your heart and that is so true. you are a beautiful mother. i am so sorry for your suffering and i thank you for your bravery in sharing your story.
Thank you for sharing your story.
Land of the free, but we're not really free when someone can tell us what to do with our own body. As a mother of 2 adult women, now I still struggle every day, wanting them to be ok in this cruel world. As a mother, I worry constantly, and I never want them to feel pain. I always tell my girls I would die for them, and I couldn't imagine having to watch my baby suffer like this 😢 A mother would take it all so her child didn't have to.
This is literally torture and for people to be ok with that is scary. I hope she finds healing. Fly high 🕊️
What is scary is the people who would kill a baby to prevent it from experiencing a natural death and then try to justify murder.
@@AG-re5vw8 months late, but in what world is letting a baby continue to have seizures (which can be extremely painful post-seizure even for adults, much less a literal BABY that's still developing in the womb) before they've even taken their first breath, and then have them go through the hugely traumatic process of being birthed (our heads literally have to be underdeveloped so that we can survive being pushed through the birth canal) which can take anywhere from 1 to 72 hours; and then after all of that trauma your body is trying to breathe in air, but because of your deformities you are actually slowly suffocating (know that feeling when you've either held your breathe for too long or had a coughing episode from saliva going down the wrong pipe? That's your body screaming at you that you desperately need more air than you're getting, and that also sends really bad pain and panic signals throughout your body). All of that takes any joy from finally having your bundle of joy in your arms long before you have the moment to hold them. "Natural death" is such a disgusting excuse to use because you refuse to acknowledge the horror of the situation you're attempting to glorify for ANY reason. God is love, and the free will this woman was supposed to have to protect her child from one of the most painful ways to die was stripped away by politicians that don't care about the consequences of their actions on innocent lives they have chosen to force suffering upon for their own power gains in government.
If you truly believe that this baby deserved to be born to be filled with pain and suffering, or that somehow feeling the love her parents have for her before she was physically exposed to air outside her mother's body wasn't meeting her "quota" of life experience before death, then you and anybody that shares your specific opinion/belief on this matter need to look inside yourself and find whatever sliver of compassion for a human life you still retain and really ask yourself why you believe this child deserved to be tortured both in the womb and outside the womb.
If Jesus walked the earth right now, do you really think he wouldn't try to take this baby's pain and suffering away? He fought for everyone's right for forgiveness so people specifically wouldn't be subject to suffering just because their ancestors sinned against God.
I truly hope that you've been able to heal the hurt parts within yourself since you made this comment because it screams from the mountain top that it was a comment based in pain within oneself.
I’m sorry for this mom’s loss. Just to clarify, so abortions for medical reasons, such as mother’s life or baby’s life are outlawed in America?
Aww, sweetheart! I pray for your heart to heal!
If they knew how many of us have endured pain and traumatic miscarriages, stillbirths, and etc. all on our own… some including their wives, mothers, sisters, and even their own daughters! Those representatives that are making those decisions have daughters who have endured the same traumatic experiences yet they don’t see the bigger picture! It’s about more than just abortion because we don’t want to be pregnant, make the men who have tons of children get fixed! We are women & we literally birth a nation! The fact is that we can get pregnant on pills, using a condom, and even on an implant. I’m a witness to it! The part that the “law makers” 👀don’t understand is that there are life saving factors to the same procedure and they messed up because they don’t think like women think & truthfully they don’t have the mental capacity to fathom the complexity of an intellectual thought out rebottle in response of why they feel so strongly on their stance yet we have provided a multitude of proven responses with evidence on our stance! Allow women to be women and make their own decisions! You don’t own US! The
She got to hold the baby instead of it be tested into many pieces and sent to a lab to be used in experiment
She had to watch her baby die. If she was allowed abortion she would have had to grief but it would have been a different grieving process. Now she has to bury her daughter & to know her daughter died in so much pain & suffering. Her baby was so hungry but couldn't eat bc if the abnormalities that she was forced to be born into the world. She suffered in the womb too by having seizures. That is inhumane for everyone involved.
We are not cockroaches or mice to mandate us to have kids!!! How horrible, shame on these politicians for letting her go through this!
Embryos and fetuses aren’t cockroaches either.
Shame on you for thinking mothers have rights but babies don't have rights.
Even in the case of famine and war children will be put to consideration first before mothers.
She deserved to know love and to feel loved.
Yes she did. Her life matter even if it was for a few hours .
@Crystal Slattery So far, based on the comments I’ve read up to this point, you’re the only one who seems to get it. Thank you for acknowledging this baby’s value, despite her deformities.
@@paloma_lopez oh okay, so it was necessary for her to suffer. Next time this happens, I'd like to see you try to console a dying, pained baby. You and your god are evil and you have lost your humanity
She deserved to suffer for 44 minutes? To agonize through every breath? You people are evil
@@Psalm_27.4 Literal f*cking DOGS are given better treatment than what you are advocating for that baby, absolute monster behavior.
I am so heart broken for her.
This is heartbreaking. Just, honestly.
I really hoped she sent her bill after giving birth to the state to pay for it seeing how they forced her to carry a lifeless fetus.
How unbelievably cruel. That baby couldn’t even eat or drink! Her life was ONLY pain. Does that make you all happy, a newborn baby knowing nothing but suffering? Are we excited to fill heaven with the souls of tortured babies, is that what our era is going to be known for? Because I know where that’s going to reroute us all, straight to hell 🤷🏽♀️ we should be ashamed. Another woman in Texas not only went through something similar, her baby was born DEAD and she’ll never be able to conceive again because her state forced her to carry a rotting corpse for nine months. DESPICABLE.
This is disgusting and so wrong in every way. Women are suffering .
Supreme Court should be tried for crimes against humanity
This is so ridiculous. So inhumane for all involved.
I feel so bad for this women. I don't believe in abortions for myself. However, I do believe in cases like this or similar, it should be up to the parents or person who's carrying. I wish her luck through such a hard grieving process. So sad!...
These issues among more could be identified early in pregnancy if woman could have ultrasounds every 4 weeks. Its no more than $100 or $700 more for a pregnancy per person and would save so many lives to know of complications earlier on, as well find out if a baby was viable well before 20 weeks or even 15. I lost twins at 23 weeks. If i had had regular ultrasounds my babies may still be alive.
Oh my goodness! Bless you and your family..................🙏❤❤❤
Thanks for airing this story
I’m pregnant now with a baby girl, and I’m sure your daughter felt so loved while you carried her in your womb and during her first breaths of life. Even if it wasn’t your decision, you held your daughter and had a chance to be with her which a lot of women would never have had a chance. May God be with you as you go through this experience but know your baby is in Heaven.
Can't she sue the US government or even here state for the harm they caused her? I think she has a case. It's inhumane to force a woman to go through what she went through.
I sure would if I were her
Although i would never do an abortion myself i do understand women should have that decision for themselves i definitely feel if the baby isnt going to make it or the mom could be at risk they should be able to make a decision to not have to carry full term everyone should choose themselves you should have that right.
Thank you for this story.
That what the each state wants. They think every child is going to be born healthy. They don't think about the what ifs or what could go wrong during the pregnancies.
I think the sick reality is that they actually don't think about weather babies are healthy or not, because they don't care! They care about their ratings and control, that's it! I'm glad I'm Canadian and don't have to live in any of these states that are going back to neanderthal ages.
My heart bleeds for your as a mother of three and having complications with two of them. I want you to know you're not alone in your grief you must endure the rest of your life. I'm so sorry for your loss
There are still places that a woman can terminate a pregnancy if the baby isn't going to survive or it will harm her. It is NOT outlawed to have abortions.
It is clear that woman is in pain and anyone who would take away her choices and then stand up to tell the world that they believe yes she should be forced to deliver that baby is truly sick and enjoys doing this to people
The baby died in your arms, rather then being cut into little pieces!
I SERIOUSLY hope these politicians take a real hard look at what THEIR decisions that they get to make for US women do and for the long term. This is so sad and terrible and angers me more than I could put into words.
This is so sad. I'm so sorry. Our bodies our decision!
Im so sorry she had to go through this 😔🙏 I lost my baby girl at 13 weeks in 2021 , my dr said i could carry her to full term or she may pass away on her own 😭 I would cry myself to sleep at night 😭 No one will ever understand this until you've went through it and hopefully you never do....I was told the same thing that if she lived it would only be a few hours 😔
It's cruel to force these women to carry a baby who isn't going to make it. It's cruel to make her go through labor and hold this little tiny baby that's gonna die. These poor woman and babies are being tortured. Do the old men calling the shots like seeing very sick little babies suffer before dying? Do they like seeing broken hearted parents?
Every Republican should be forced to watch her story. I am so sorry sweetie. I lost my little girl too. Before birth though. It's hard but I plan to have another child. Please find your joy again. (((HUGS)))❤
It's funny how for videos like this, there are so few pro-life people in the comments
@@rosesweetcharlotte trust me we saw it too . And u kn what her life matter even if she lived a few hours .
She can get a decent burial not just get throwend away in the dump. We pro life care for both their lives not just one of them .
@@paloma_lopez She could have had a burial if she was aborted. And they aren't thrown in a dump. They can be cremated, often times they will be sent away to be dissected to understand why they were sick.
And I don't think her mother thought her life didn't matter even if she was aborted. In fact, I imagine abortion was wanted because her mother didn't want her to spend her first and only hours of life slowly suffocating over a period of hours.
My friend, all things come from God, the good and the bad. Sometimes God allows babies to be born healthy and happy. Sometimes God allows them to slowly suffocate over a period of days. That is why abortion exists, because God wants mothers to have control over His mistakes.
Yes, and what a glorious two hours they were, full of suffering and starvation/ j
Pro life folks don't give a damn about anything but their agenda