Has this ever happened to anyone else? Lots of people have told me this before!
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Hadley Vlahos resides outside of New Orleans with her husband and three children. With eight years of experience as a registered nurse, including six years devoted to hospice care, she has gained profound insights into the field of healthcare. Online, she is affectionately known as "Nurse Hadley," where she shares heartfelt stories from her experiences as a hospice nurse.
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About two weeks before my dad died very suddenly and unexpectedly, I got this overwhelming feeling that somebody was going to die. I was waking up several times a night to check on my husband and our dog, but they were both fine. I had that feeling during the daytime too, but it was bad enough to interrupt my sleep too. I've never had anything like that happen before or after, but unfortunately I did get that call late one evening. About a year and a half later, I woke up one night to a very clear voice that sounded like it was right next to me saying, "He's in Heaven now." I never believed that things like this were real, and if I hadn't experienced it myself, I still wouldn't believe it.
I’m so sorry.
I’m sorry for your loss ❤🕊️ R.I.P. your father
RIP
I’m sorry for your loss.
❤
I am adopted and I felt the time my father passed away. I was at work and just felt it. Called my mom and it had been just a few minutes. Blood and biology doesn’t matter when there is a connection of love and affection ❤️ Still miss you dad
Blood has connections, but souls have connections too.
Wow.. read my comment..
R.I.P your dad 🙏🏻🩷
that's incredible
Love is eternal.
My grandfather was on hospice and one night I got this feeling that I needed to go visit him. I was young so I begged my mom to go despite it being a school night. He passed a short while after we got there and I got to tell him I love him ❤
Aw R.I.P your grandfather sorry for your loss 🩷🩷🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I'm honestly truly happy you had that opportunity. Cherish that gift forever.
From hospice nurses everywhere, old, new, or retired, thank you.
About 2 weeks before my grandpa died I had this overwhelming feeling that I absolutely HAD to visit him. I called my whole family and begged them to pitch in for a plane ticket. They all thought I was overreacting and being dramatic. I got the plane ticket for the following Friday. I visited him Saturday morning, and by Saturday night he was gone. They never said a thing about my gut feeling after that.
He waited on you luv! Being able to see you he was good/okay to go. I had a VERY similar experience / story with my grandpa. Pop needed to see you, then was able to let go. He'll always be with you. Blessings, love, light and lots of positive energy from the Netherlands 🙏💚🌷🇳🇱
@@Anti_NWO-WEFa very sweet comment, loved reading it😊♥️
I had this feeling two weeks before my grandpa (mom side) passed away, I was 9 years old and I just tried to escape it. 13 years later, the same happened with my grandpa (dad side) two days before he passed. My mom was taking care of him, he seemed like he was doing a little better and he had finally accepted to be admitted to the hospital (he was too strong to admit he needed help) the night before they took him to the hospital, he told her « please be strong, you know I’m leaving soon right? » and had told this to one else but her. He passed away the next day at 4am, in his sleep on the hospital bed.. May all our loved ones who have left us Rest In Peace, I hope we’ll meet again in heaven ❤️🩹
He waited. ... to see YOU
People thought and still think my gut instincts are me being dramatic. I know how you feel. So glad you got there before he passed.
I spent many years working in nursing homes and although most people think that a loved one should not die alone, I personally witnessed many people who waited until they were alone to die. 😢
Hi, I’m in congestive heart failure my heart working at 20%. I have pills to prevent or help me not having a heart attack I just got out of Hospital day before Thanksgiving and there were three instances in hospital that I couldn’t catch my breath and panic sets in. I had nothing but the rail to hold onto. I don’t want my son upset when I go, but I don’t want to be alone. That was the scariest part of not being able to breathe, so much so that I’m sorry to say my bowels moved on their own each time. Maybe I’ll send him out but the thought of being alone scares me and I’ve never been that kind of person. Scared. I usually just carry on. Only time will tell for me I suppose. But I think you may be right. When it comes down to it, alone may be what works.❤
@@meloniestull5292You are never really alone...we are all here on this giant spinning globe together. I wish you the best, and I want you to know that you are in for a wild experience when your soul leaves your broken, failing body.
@@meloniestull5292my big brother lived and worked for 3 years @ 7% he was a walking miracle and was able to give his life to THE MOST HIGH GOD IN JESUS CHRIST NAME 🙏🏾
Alexander Josie Spurgeon Dames
💙January 19, 1972- February 15,2020💙
@@meloniestull5292sending hugs ❤️❤️❤️
My grandmother waited til I left. And my mother in law wasn't alone in the house but in her room. I checked on her she smiled and I went to get my kids off the bus. Something made me go back in and she was gone. It was less than 10 minutes.
When my wife passed away i felt a warm flow of peace i was holding her hand and told her it was ok to go she opened her eyes and looked at me and thats when her soul left her body ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Mine was a warm wash of sadness, but peaceful.
Yes! My mother died last month. I could feel her and she felt at peace. I miss her so so so much and im so broken. My only comfort is that shes in a good place where ever that may be.
My mom has been gone for almost 3 years, and it gets easier. You'll always miss her & feel that void, but you won't hurt quite so much. ❤ *hugs*
My grandfather had a brain aneurism, happened in front of me. I had this overwhelming feeling he wasn't going to make it. I told everyone that he wasn't coming back...I had chills up and down my spine. We got the phone call he didn't make it. When my grandmother was in the hospital, my father and family members took turns being with her, so she was never alone. Came to relieve my father, and as I sat down I got those overwhelming chills again up and down my spine. I knew it would be soon. On my shift that day, she said, "oh look (her face lit up!), your grandfather is here!!! I looked to where she was pointing, and felt a presence, but didn't see him. She just said...don't you see him, he's right here...her smile was unforgettable. She passed about 45 min later. My grandparents raised me...I miss them so much, but am happy I was able to witness Grandma being escorted by her love, mi abuelo.❤❤❤
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This is so beautiful I'm crying 🥲
I love that so much ❤
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Were they religious ?
About an hour before I found out my dad had passed, I could smell his cologne and could feel him leaving this world
OMG..my Dad passed in 84 and I still from time to time smell old spice in places you never would. I know people's spirits who have passed are definitely with us checking in.💖
I still smell my dad on occasion too... Sawdust and wood stain mixed with cigarette smoke and Hawaiian Punch 🥰
I knew when my dad passed and I could smell him in the days that followed. Checking on me.
the women in my family smell my great grandmothers very prominent perfume on occasion
rest inkee
I was with my dad when he passed and I felt his soul leave his body minutes before the doctor came in and said he had officially passed. I’ve been missing him extra hard this morning ❤🕊️
What did it feel like when his soul left his body?
@@Thelilichannel6907 Have you ever felt the TV turn on from another room? Like static that almost makes a loud pitched noise? I was rubbing his head and felt that static feeling in my finger tips and it was making me shake and I said “it’s happening” and I felt like he was hovering over us for a split second, then in another split second I *felt* this bright green energy sprout out of him in the form of a man and pass through me and up to the sky and it felt like a “YIPPIEEE”. I can’t explain it any other way. I didn’t see anything but felt everything and saw it in my minds eye. I said “he’s passed” but he hadn’t stopped breathing just yet but it was super spaced out, and then within a minute or so a nurse walked in and said he was gone. It was very peaceful, I was playing forest sounds on my phone because he loved the woods 💚
As a prior hospice nurse, yes, I’ve had this experience with a few patients. Thank you for your kind service dear nurse Hadley. You are an Angel ❤
I was on my way to Mexico because my dad was really sick. As I waited to get on my flight in TJ I saw the most beautiful sunset. I felt a sudden warmth throughout my body and I just began to cry, and I knew it was my dad telling me everything will be alright. It’s something that is hard to believe but I knew what I felt was REAL.
Yes the warmth was tangible too❤
The exact same thing happened to me. I was on my way to my hometown in flight as my mother was sick. I felt really sad looking at the sunset through the window. And she died.
I was set to fly off on my first time in an airplane with my now ex husband to a trip to the Bahamas and my grandfather was dying of cancer when I was 23.
I was anxious about the plane ride and new my grandfather would have wanted me to go for the life experience. The last thing he would want to do is hold me back.
At 8 am when that plane took off was when he died.
My mom didn’t tell me until after the trip but I knew he had to have passed. November 6, 2000.
I’m 46 now and it’s nearing the end of November 2023. I can’t believe he passed away half a lifetime ago.
@@lauramalizia9636 I hope you continue to do things that are new experiences to you in your life that would make him happy.
That gave me chills
When my Grandma passed in Germany (I was in US) I woke up startled and crying and the words I heard in my head was “it’s too late” (I had been considering flying over there but with 3 little kids it was going to be tough to do.
A few minutes later my dad called and told me she had just passed, right when I had woken from a sound sleep with that knowing.
There is so much more to us than we know!
My experience was similar, see above ❤️❤️
I started tò cry out of the Blue ehile washing dishes and the words comming into my mind were Why Why and I was crying desperately...I dindn't even know my sweet mother in law was clinicaly dead in that moment
I love how you accept this phenomenon! Most people would call the family member crazy or psychotic!
Yes. Many times, I have had this feeling. It is strange, especially when you don't know who it is for because no one's sick.
When my mom died I was volunteering at a small animal shelter! When I got in the car a whole set of songs that she would have picked to comfort me hit on my Spotify. When the doctor called later it all made perfect sense. They do say bye in their own way.
I agree but it's not a "phenomenon." It's God. She didn't pick those songs, God picked them for her bc He knows us well enough to, and He has the miraculous spiritual power to do so ❤
@liveyourlifeextra4576 you can call it God I can call it mom's soul visiting on the way to the next life. For me it would cheapen the experience to call it some divine power outside of my mom and it's pretty sick of you to assign your views to others experiences. Learn that your views are not everyone's and stop trying to force your thoughts on others it's a mental illness that becomes abusive.
@@LMFuquaEVERYTHING good, true and beautiful comes from God, including your mom and her soul ... and you. It's not abusive to share the truth about the Truth. God loves you and your mom. Allow Him to love you and He'll help you let go of that anger ... and rest in His peace.
My uncle called my dad’s, his identical twin, wife (my mom lol) at 4 AM. She was in ambulance because he coded after a severe prolonged asthma attack. My uncle said to her frantically “Is (name) okay? I think something is wrong”. My aunt said he shot up out of his sleep and said he needed to call him. I think he felt the other half of him flickering
Edited to add: My dad is totally okay. Everyone please keep an emergency nebulizer by your bed, even if it’s been years since an attack
My goodness, that's incredible.
Also, good advice regarding emergency supplies. Thank you!
@@Elvenboadicea Twin connections are spooky! He called when my brother was sick as a baby and asked him why he was so upset too. Before social media and everything. And YES!! My papa hadn’t had an attack in over a decade.
And emergency medication with it and continually check that ots not expired
A lot of stores now sell epinephrine inhalers over the counter, in the allergy section with the nasal spray, Zyrtec, and decongestants. I snagged one for $30. They're marketed for asthma attacks but can act like an EpiPen (not as effective but can get you breathing). My sister has asthma and I have an allergy to a common air pollutant (pot smoke) that is probably going to get bad enough to cause anaphylaxis, but I don't yet qualify for an EpiPen. So it might save one of our lives, one day. If someone doesn't have access to a prescription inhaler or EpiPen, I highly suggest they drop $30 on one of those. I know Target and Fred Meyer carry them.
this is so interesting. im so glad youre dads okay! my boyfriend is a twin and ive always wondered if they would feel if something happened to the other.
When my Grandparents passed away, we had to clean out their house. I had such a great time that day. We all knew what was going on until I actually said it. "They're still here." That's all I needed to say. Their love and caring was so strong, that feeling never went away.
My great-grandmother and I were extremely close. She was a very old lady, but was sharp as a tack. We were so close. Before anyone in the family had received the news of her passing, what the video depicts happened to me. I felt so much peace and in my thoughts I knew she was gone but was okay. I knew she had departed this life. Hours later, when we all learned of her passing, I lost it. . .I cried and cried. I was 12 years old then and still miss her dearly at 30. I pray to God we see each other again someday.
All of these stories make me appreciate how unbelievably interconnected we are. As someone that has felt quite alone in this world, this knowing gives me joy. I feel like I matter. I've started to wonder how much our well-being affects those closest to us. It's wonderful to see magic in life. ✨ Thanks for the stories all of you are sharing. 🙏
You do matter. You are so very important to so many people you haven't even met yet. Your happiness, joy, fear, and pain do effect everything and everyone you touch. Your smile alone can change someone's whole world.
Our well being affects those around us, more than we realize!
@@MsBELLE7 Beautiful words, thank you. 🥺💞 I guess I'm just starting to realize that. Up until this point I've felt it would be better just... not to be here. Thankfully that's changing now, having learned some key things about the Universe. You gave me the warmest hug. Thanks for that, friend. 💝
@@MsBELLE7 i love the internet sometimes.❤
Hey. You matter. I obviously don't know you and some people have had harder lives than others. We have to wake up and say thank you for letting me breathe another day. Some people don't have shelter , food or clothing. We have to realize that we all bleed the same and no matter if you y rich or poor ,we are all alike. Wake Up and do a pep talk. Tell yourself you are awesome , beautiful honest and Matter. Smile even when you don't want to. Fake it until you make it ( me too). Oh Take care. 💕✌️ Eastern USA
My Daddy passed away unexpectedly while on vacation almost three years ago at the young age of 58. The entire day of I had anxiety so bad & just felt that something was wrong! I called him at 1030 that night to see if he was okay & to tell him I love him. He kept telling me he was okay & kept reassuring me that I would be okay. It was almost like he knew something was going to happen, he was just so at peace & soft spoken.
He collapsed dead around 1AM that same evening. 😭 He was my best friend & I still have a hard time believing he's really gone sometimes!
Hugs
@@zacgallenlover911 thank you so much! 🖤
So very sorry about your dad!
I'm glad you got to talk to him one last time and to tell him you love him. God bless you and your family.
I got quite tearful after reading your comment. 🥺 I can’t imagine how hard that must have been for you. The connection you had with your dad was amazing. Thank you for sharing your experience. Sending you much love and a hug 🫂❤️
I am so sorry for your loss.
Thank you for all that you have done and continue to do. You are a gift to anyone that you care for. I love your stories. I am a nurse and a reiki practitioner and I have been blessed that many people have passed in my presence and felt they were in a comfortable place in order to let go.
It takes a very special person to do this kind of work. You’re beautiful.
When my daughter passed, we were in the NICU and she was on a vent. She had coded a few times early that morning and we knew it was time to let her go. We didn’t take her off the vent, we just held her and sang to her. The staff turned off all the monitors. I remember holding her and knowing…feeling the moment she passed-even though nothing had changed physically. I called her nurse and said “she’s gone isn’t she?” She stepped out and looked at the external monitor and nodded. Obviously not the same as not being with the loved one and feeling it, but I think with those you are close to you know.
Awe . My condolences. What an incredible way for her to be able to let you know she passed away. 💕
I’m so sorry for your loss, no parent should EVER have to go through that. At the very least, though, it’s so good that you got to hold her and be there for her in her final moments to let her know that she wasn’t alone. I pray you find peace and comfort in knowing that she isn’t in pain. 💙 sending love to you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss
I held my son as he went off to whatever comes next, as well. He wasn’t on any machines because I had told the infant palliative care team that if it looked like he wasn’t going to make it, to not hurt him anymore trying to save him, to let him go and hand him over. Those teams of people at the children’s hospital I had him in did so much to ensure that I had a few peaceful minutes with my son as he let go. I’ll be forever grateful to them all.
rest in peaveooe
When my grandfather passed I was sitting on a school bus and all of a sudden felt a warmth rush over me. I recognized the feelings I felt when he hugged me as a preschooler. I cried happier because I knew he was suffering before that. I cannot wait to reintroduce the women I have become to grandfather someday. 😢❤
He already knows you, sweetheart!
I had the very same thing happen to me as an adult. When my Pop Pop passed away. I wasn't sure if I had lost my mind or what exactly had happened. Because I never had that feeling (for lack of a better word) come over me like that before. About 3 hrs.later at work I got the phone call. A little later at the funeral home (which is owned by a long time family friend). We are in the middle of an unrelated conversation (about deer season) and I happen to glance down at a piece of paper that was laying on a workshop table in his(funeral home owner's) garage. And the very first thing that my eyes focus on is a line on about the middle of that paper. That line read, Time of death: 1:17 PM. That paper happened to be the coroner's report for my Pop Pop. And the time of death on his report was the same exact time I had this strange feeling (for lack of a better word) come over me while I was getting ready to leave my house for work that day! Needless to say, I'm not a believer,I'm a knower!!! 🙏
Yes, It starts as a warm wind and feels like a warm blanket that envelops you, that he is hugging you, and the overwhelming feeling of his love for you, that everything is going to be ok..
I had a very similar experience. It’s incredible
I knew when my grandma died. I took a walk, thinking about her, and got the phone call. I miss her so much...
I had an experience similar. I had visited my great grandma during Christmas and had a very distinct feeling and thought that that was the last time I'd see her in person.
It was indeed, she passed the following April
I felt heavy and sad this Thanksgiving.. I called everyone that wasn't here with me,including my mom.. I couldn't make the feeling go away.. I spoke to my mom just minutes before she passed away..😢😢
So so sorry for your loss❤
@@beautifuljacarandaa ,Thank you..
I’m so sorry for your loss. 🙏❤️
I'm so sorry 😞 I can't help but feel it was a blessing you got to talk to her one last time before she passed ❤️💔
@samanthahansford8361 ,It was.. I'm greatful I got to talk to her no matter how brief it was..
a day before my grandad died, both me and my little sister suddenly felt this overwhelming feeling that could not stop us from crying at school, at home, etc. my mum felt it too, and on the day of his death, me and my sister felt so peaceful, and my mum and all 4 of her brothers felt the same.
we are all connected. so happy people are becoming aware of life via universal energy ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You’re an angel I’m convinced!❤❤
This has also happened to me, the morning my grandmother passed away (before I heard the news) I woke up, took off the charms on my necklace and wore the necklace with the charm she gave me. I knew that that morning was the time I needed to honor her. A few hours later I got the news that she had passed. The crazy thing is, I knew that when the ambulance took her this time, she wouldn’t come back. We truly are connected with each other, more than we can imagine. ❤
The day my father died, I was sitting crying and alone. I felt alone. The phone rang, it lit up, I picked it up but no number showed. My Dad whispered “I’m here” and then he went. No number, no evidence just a call. My late father was an electrical engineer and it doesn’t surprise me rang me. It meant the world. Miss him even now
❤ love this
❤ hugs, he is there ❤
Woah! Very cool!
Omg!
Hadley thank you for sharing these stories of life.
Happened to me when my father died. ❤ We go on. Thank you for sharing this!
Yes, this happens all the time. This happened to me with my Mother. I am so grateful for this UA-cam channel, this young lady (nurse) has been a blessing to me. My parents both passed away in the 1990's. I was their in home care provider. I am not a nurse but I was their daughter who promised my Mother I would care for them and not "put them away" in a rest home. This channel is helping with my "stuffed away" grief. Thank you !!! ❤️
Back in 1997, I was sitting at college waiting for my next class. Out of nowhere, it started to rain. I had this overwhelming feeling that I needed to leave and go to the nursing home where she was. I got there and went in a different entrance than usual. I went to the nurses' station, and they were shocked a family member was there so soon. They had just tried to call my father. She passed very peacfully. I will never forget that overwhelming feeling I got. I'm looking forward to seeing her again.
Sounds like a natural conversation two normal people would have, 10/10, academy award material.
You must have quite a notebook full of these stories. Thanks for sharing them!
I could feel when every patient of mine was going to cross over and even stayed with them sometimes so they weren’t alone because staff might be short. I also have know when every family member was going to pass. Everyone should have someone to sit with them. No one should die alone. It’s remarkable how some people actually feel when someone is going to die. I was blessed with that knowledge. ❤
This happened to my husband, my father was very ill and we were told that he didnt have that much timme left. The night my father in law passed away and my husband wasnt notified, but he felt that his dad had passed away. He just knew. Also the next day, God gave me a vision that my father in law got up from his bed and had so much joy. Then my husband called me right after that vision that his dad passed away in the middle of the night. The Lord showed us that my father in law was with the Lord. ❤
I believe they are not alone...God is with them.
Definitely 💜💜💜⭐💜💜
hope this is not a rude question but what do you mean when you say god gave you a vision? did you physically see something?? i’m not religious so just wondering. sorry for your loss❤️
I felt it when my grandma passed, I feel it when any of my pets pass. It’s a distinct feeling and it’s sad but calm and happy. There is no good way to describe it you have to feel it to know
Absolutely, I felt the passing of both of my parents.❤💔
I got this feeling when my dad passed away. My stomach felt weird, so I went to try and go to the restroom, but nothing came. Something said brace yourself, it's going to be ok. My mom came to the door and said we had to go because my dad went into cardiac arrest. She said they were trying to get him back, but I felt he wasn't coming back. About the time he passed, I said he is gone. My aunt, who was with him, called, and he was. I felt his presence just be absent from the world. I will never forget that feeling. 😢
My husband (then boyfriend) joined the marines and went to boot camp shortly after we graduated highschool. The only communication we had was through letters, it was rough! One day I was at work and just got this terrible, overwhelming feeling that he was not okay.
I got so upset I had to go to our break room and calm down.
A few days later I got a letter in the mail from him, it had shards of teeth in it.
They had blindfolded him, strapped him to a chair and numbed him up. They put a block in his mouth and chiseled out his wisdom teeth.
Turns out it was the same day I had the bad feeling.
Even worse, on august 9th, 2018 my husband, Dad and I were at the Tecumseh play in Ohio. There’s a scene where a woman’s brother dies, and she is weeping over his body.
I suddenly became ill, I almost had to go to the bathroom but ended up sucking it up and staying in my seat so I didn’t have to bother those around me.
On the way home from the play my
Mom called us.
My brother had taken his life, about five minutes after that scene occurred.
More recently, a few months ago I told my husband something was wrong. Not even a minute later, my brother in law called to tell us he was just in a wreck.
Ill forever trust my gut!!!
I’m sorry for your loss. ❤🕊️ R.I.P. your brother
I got chills reading this, sorry for your loss
Why in heck was your husband brutalized to get wisdom teeth out?
I'm sorry for the loss of your brother.
“Chiseled out his wisdom teeth“. The military has dentists, so …??
We love what you do and you have a heart of gold I say this a lot but your amazing and I love why you do for people keep this up
I don’t think I’ve managed to get through a single one of your videos without at least one tear
Had the same feeling with my mom who was not on hospice. She and my unborn baby crossed over together. It was the saddest and most happiest I’ve ever been.
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I used to work in a nursing home when I was around 19. We constantly had stories like this. I often would become really close with certain patients. Sometimes, I would just know before leaving that day that they would pass. I felt when my Great-Uncle passed, my Great-Grandmother, and my Uncle as well. The closer I was to the person, the stronger the feeling. This has been happening with me since I was about 8 years old.
That's a strong feeling you have, may they rest in peace. I also really wonder how did you start working in a nursing home around 19? I also want to try and work. But must there be some job experience?
I’m sorry for your losses ❤🕊️ R.I.P. your Uncle, Great-Uncle, and Great-Grandmother
@@exp-io853 I was a CNA. I didn’t do it for long…about a year. I just couldn’t handle experiencing all the death.
@@whats_up123 thank you
@@exp-io853 It depends where you live & what kind of job you want in a nursing home, but in most states to work in a nursing home with the patients all you need is your CNA license. A lot of the time nursing homes will hire you on without your license then actually help pay for/send you off to training so long as you agree to work for them for a set amount of time once you’ve completed your CNA course. Sometimes if you’ve been an employee at a nursing home a long time as a CNA they’ve even help pay further your nursing degree. I would look into your state laws, some allow you to work while going to school. Or you can become a social worker & get a job at one doing that. They’re always looking for kitchen staff too. All just depends what you want to do in that setting. If you don’t want to be a CNA then you’ll need to go to school to become a LPN/RN before you can work in a nursing home.
I had this feeling with my grandparents especially my granny.
When my mom died I was in the room with her. I felt an overwhelming emptiness as she passed. I can't explain the feeling other than saying a piece of my heart was pulled out as she left. I felt her leave. So this makes perfect sense to me. Thank you for sharing these stories.
About a month before my Mom died was my last time visiting her and i just knew that would be the last..she also hadnt known me for a few years but that day she just has this look in her eyes like she knew me. When i pulled my hand away she reached out and took my hand and held it for a while. I think she knew too. ❤😭
She absolutely did ❤
When my great gran passed 2 years ago an hour before we got the call I started singing a song …out of the blue and it was rise up which in my eyes symbolises their spirits rising up to heaven .still to this day I will always remember that
Yes I get this every time someone dies that I know well.
Yes definitely, and more than once in my life!.
I felt when my sister died. We were only 1 year apart and were always very close. I moved to TN and she lived in FL. Out of nowhere, I got a feeling that took my breath away around 8pm and I immediately started calling around to try and find my sister. I was up until after 3am until I finally dozed off. My phone rang at 6 a.m and I had a horrible sinking feeling in my gut and when I answered it was "the call". I didn't believe it (denial?) so I called the hospital and police who confirmed. She had OD'd the night before. 😢 We were like twins our whole life and this was the first time we lived states apart. I truly believe I felt when she died.
I’m so sorry for your loss 😢. I too had a feeling when my brother passed. He was one year older than me. Our relationship wasn’t that great at the time, he was dealing with his own issues, and I was trying to put myself together after a breakup. One night out of the blue (after at least a year of not talking to him) I had a strong urge to call him to see how he was doing. He didn’t answer my call, which was unusual but I didn’t think much of it at the time. Two weeks later, I get a call from my mom telling me they found my brother’s body. He’d taken his life at a family farm. The dates my aunts gave for when he went missing was literally around the exact day I had the urge to call him. I know that strong feeling I had to call my brother out of the blues was me sensing somehow that something had happened to him.
Im so sorry, i had the same situation well kind of my brother my closest, i grew up with him even though we were 15 years apart, he passed of a accidental OD, he was battling addiction and was clean for 6 months, my mom didnt want for me to find out before her breaking the news but like 2 days before she told me (the same day he passed) i had a physical heart broken feeling, like something broke in me physically in my chest and kinda like a unplug like something was snatched from my heart there is no physical way that i can compare this feeling to to describe it better the best way is saying i felt my heart literally break, it was around the time my brother was found dead i knew it but i didnt want to believe it, when my mom told me with my family members i still didnt want to believe it but i knew it was real. I never felt that feeling again i had a strong connection with him. I hope your doing okay❤
I woke up a minute before my mom passed, I suddenly had this feeling of her all around me. Then my dad was calling, I knew what he was going to say. I could feel that she was free and it gave me peace, which allowed me the composure to endure all of the calls I would need to make. Im grateful that she made sure I would know she wasnt really gone.
I got an OVERWHELMING feeling about an hour ago…………AND instead of calling to check on her I just cuddled up with a good book!!!!!!!! HEARTLESS MUCH ?
Yes and it surprised me as mom and I were estranged. Glad to have seen her in the nursing home before she passed.
You are the nicest nurse ever! Caring for your patients the way you do, even at end of life. I hope you keep doing this incredible work!❤❤❤
I have had many experiences similar to this,... working as a nurse-aid, Nurse, Family member and friend. The veil is thin, they can see us, but, we can't see them. They are around us to guide us...only if we are open to listen.
It's cool how the spirit just tells us these things sometimes.
God bless you and everyone like you because he has a special place in heaven for you guys my grandfathers hospice nurse told me to tell him goodbye and I’m so thankful for it because I was able to tell him goodbye while he was still alive and I can never ever be as appreciative as I truly was then because I told him by what he was still alive and thank God for that woman
The doctor who delivered me when I was born stayed in touch with me. He sent cards at Christmas and my birthdays. One year, as I made out Christmas cards, I suddenly felt that he had died, although I hadn't heard any news about it. That feeling stayed with me all day, and it grew stronger. Finally, after dinner, I called my parents' home and my stepmother told me that the doctor had died the night before, in his office and in the arms of a patient of his.
My aunt promised that she would come see me when she passed. She kept that promise. ❤
Yes, this happened to me when my Dad died. Thank you Daddy!❤️❤️❤️
I think that this is a beautiful manifestation of the magic that people all around the world experience, intuition is real and this is one of the deepest interactions with it that most people will experience, love is magic. Love to you my friend 🧡
I believe whole heartedly that we get these feelings/signs. I have experienced many of these over a period of 40 years. Never skip a chance to tell people that you love them and hug them a little longer.
After all the abuse I've endured - and all the abuse the people I know/meet have endured, I don't understand WHY people still choose to be so mean and cruel. I don't get why they want to hurt others if they themselves know what that feels like.
Being grateful, patient, understanding and appreciating the time we get with our loved ones (and being nice to strangers) just seems like the only option. It feels instinctual for me. I always kiss my kids when I buckle them up in the car, I always say I love you and give hugs to my family when we leave.
I had this experience last Wednesday November 1st. When my 100 year old Daddy passed peacefully in his sleep. We buried him on Saturday November 4th. Our family came from as far away as Maryland, Florida, Georgia. A friend even drove in from Washington DC., we live in Alabama.
I’m truly so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Oh, I hope he is very happy on the other side and had a good life on this earth!! 100yrs is something to be proud of.
Oh to live one hundred years and pass peacefully in your sleep! What a good long life! A sad loss yes, but not a tragedy! A life like that is a such a great blessing!
God bless you.
Yep, a couple of times. I am grateful for that feeling. I at least know they are in peace now.
Wow, such a new discovery!
Yes. Told father was rushed to hospital after suffering heart attack Took plane from NYC to Boston As I journeyed in plane, getting rental car at airport, driving to hospital, going up elevator, arriving at entrance to ICU- I knew he was already dead. I’d been a hospice nurse for several years before, and witnessed many things. I’m grateful for that gift & sense of “ knowing” he was gone before I walked into the Unit and nurses confirmed what my mind, heart, and soul already knew
I had a great uncle with dementia and one of his daughters passed away several towns away. When the family showed up at the nursing home to see him and attempt to tell him; the staff reported how he started grieving earlier in the day. He kept telling the staff didn’t know what was wrong, he couldn’t stop crying, and that he felt heartbroken. This one of the saddest and beautiful stories about our connection to loved ones.
I did this with my uncle and 45 years later for two weeks before my son died. I've always been able to tell. 😢
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Oh God
.. even with dementia he knew. How awful for him. :(
Felt the same when my grandpa died. I woke up in the middle of the night and just felt it.
I did too! I took a 2 hour nap after staying up by my dad’s bedside for over 34 hours.
I woke up, went into the living room by his hospital bed, sat down and literally watched his carotid artery beat until it stopped. Maybe 10 minutes. I felt a void around me when it happened. He was gone. I miss him but so glad his suffering is over. He is watching over me. He woke me up about a year later, saying “Good Morning, LouLou!” Beautiful! ❣️
The day before my grandma died I just knew I had to go see her. I dreaded seeing her at the end but I know I needed to.
I woke up when my, then husband's, grandmother passed away. I had a dream that she was saying good bye and to take care. It was a very peaceful feeling as well. Comforting hug energy.
Happened to me when my mom passed on. Miracleous experience!
Story of my life honestly.
This made me cry. God told me i was going to lose a parent. Weeks before i left home for a job, my dad passed but the grace is when the feeling urgent hit, i had already called my dad and told him i loved him. He was a kind hearted man but didnt like showing affection sometimes. It was a blessing i treasure.
My grandma knew when my grandpa had passed in the middle of the night. She quietly woke up my aunt about an hour before the nursing home called to inform her. She was crying and all she said to my aunt was, "Daddy's gone". I got the call from my dad soon after. We all got to go say goodbye before they took him to the funeral home. It was the most awful, relieving, sad, yet peaceful moment in time.
I’m sorry for your loss ❤🕊️ R.I.P. your grandfather
I’ve experienced this before when I was in high school. It’s definitely a feeling I never wanna feel ever again.
I will pray !
I know that God loves us so much that we are given these tender little moments when those we love are promoted back to His presence.
I once had an overwhelming feeling that my Mom was about to die. She was in Missouri, and I was in Virginia (United States) about a 14 hour car ride away, 780 miles. I immediately got on my knees and begged God not to take my Mom from this life.
Later, we were talking. Right as I had been praying, my Mom had been driving a car I had wrecked once. She was at a stop sign, and had started to go when she suddenly felt she needed to stop. No sooner than she did, a huge construction dump truck going about 80 mph barreled past her! Turns out, that car had a massive blind spot, and my Mom immediately forgave me finally for the accident when I had almost totaled it (thanks, Dodge Stratus!). But she said she was so shocked she hadn't seen that truck at all, she sat there with her hand over her racing heart, feeling like she could have died.
I think God wants to speak to us more through the power of His Holy Spirit. But people get scared or traumatized by religion, and they harden or rationalize away those quiet prompts. If we lean into spirituality and trying to listen more, we get more experiences like that. I have witnessed so many miracles in my life!! And if I didn't write them down, I'm sure I'd forget them or rationalize them away. But I make the choice to value the miracles, and they stay with me.
Your comment really spoke to my heart. 🥺 I am going to save it and refer back to it as a reminder to slow down and listen for the Holy Spirit. I wish I could hear about more of the miracles God has done in your life. You have such a wonderful way of writing. Thank you so much for sharing. ❤🙏
Amen
Hallelujah 🙌🏼
Thank you so much❤
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Years before i was a nurse, a 19 y/o girl asked me to look after her baby for a bit. She died from suicide that day, and when the investigator called her family the next day, they stated that they knew why he was calling as Erin’s grandmother told them that she had passed away. Grandma just knew…
Thank you for being there in her home of need. It's unfortunate that the young lady took her own life. We'll never know why; but, she had someone in that moment that cared. ❤
This happened to me with my aunt. It happened to my brother with my dad. Sending love to all who have lost someone they love ❤
Yes. Definitely. When I was young I had a dream that a friend of mine visited me. It was clearly not part of the dream. He smiled and waved. A day later I got a call telling me he had passed that night.
Instincts. Connection. We all tend to ignore them, but they're real.
I got that exact feeling when my grandma died and again when my dad died. I was sad but also relieved they weren't in pain anymore.
This made me tear up
This happened to me. My grandma passed away last year bc of COVID. She was hospitalised for weeks, and we knew she probably wasn't going to recover but she was stable. I was at work, around 2:20pm, and I just knew. I messaged my mom and asked her if the hospital had called (we weren't allowed to be there). She said "no, why?", and I told her to be ready to receive the call. At 3:30pm she received the call, my grandma died exactly at 2:20pm (started in her death certificate) but they waited until they took care of everything before calling my mom. There are things we just don't understand but exists... And this gives me so much hope, to know I'll be with my loved ones again ❤
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This happened to me, my mom was in hospice and I had this feeling she was dying, my father called me a short time later and said my mom was near death, I felt it,I knew the moment she was gone. In life my mother and I always had this connection, calling each other at the same time, knowing when the other was sad or scared. Now she is gone 😢 I miss her everyday. ❤
I also witnessed this many times in my work as a hospice nurse. There is definitely a connection between loved ones and family members. Many patient's family members knew that it it was peaceful and surprisingly accepting of the situation. I believe that providing the family and the patient with early interventions and an explanation of the process of dying is very helpful. Allowing the family to become involved and included should be encouraged.
I felt that. As my grandmother was passing I couldn't sleep at all but the moment she passed I was able to go to sleep. I ended up finding out the times and putting it together the next morning.
I was 7 when my grandma died and my dad lived in the apartment above hers. I slept on the couch right above where she was sleeping. I had a dream that a candle had gone out and I woke up late in the night. My dad went to check on her in the morning and she was gone. Still gives me chills to think about, I really hope she went out peacefully in her sleep.
dang, that's deep
Literally happened to me last Sunday. RIP mama! You'll live on in my memories
I’m so sorry to hear that you lost your Mama my thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time, even though we don’t know each other. God bless you and your family. Reading your message really brought me to tears.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
I’m sorry for your loss ❤
I love you ❤
I'm sorry 😔❤
A true conetion ❤
I was very connected to my mom this way.
When my Mom was in hospice, my sister and I were at her bedside when I got an overwhelming feeling of my Dad (who passed a few years earlier) being present with us. My sister probably thought I was a weirdo but it made her passing a few days later, more peaceful in my heart. She's with our loved ones. ❤