Gambling Over Paternity
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2024
- The plaintiff dated the defendant, and the two have a child together. The plaintiff says he gained full custody of their child after the defendant left their son in her car while she went to a casino to gamble. He’s suing for day care expenses and emotional distress, and he also petitioned for a paternity test. The defendant admits to leaving her son alone in the car. She claims the plaintiff assaulted her and she hasn’t seen her son in several months, so she’s countersuing for emotional distress.
How dare he leave the child with his mother when he could have just left him in the car at the casino like she did
"concerned" about who is around her son but leaves him in a car unattended to gamble. Strps. Girl go on.
"Girl bye"🤣🤣...talking about the defendant.😁😁
I’m saying!!!!
Im beyond disgusted
Right, she sounds dumb as hell
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She’s concerned he have a new woman around their child but she left him in a car to gamble. Girl please 😩
Yep nothing but crazy
This is exactly why you should be very careful who you have kids with. Don’t ignore red flags 🚩
Possibly, but I find it hard to believe that she didn't display red flags during the dating process. He intimated that he knew when he mentioned "she showed her true colors". This woman is unbalanced.
He gave himself no time to look for red flags... she was knocked up within a month 🤦🏾♀️
Absolutely! She doesn't need children. She seems off to me
I don't think they knew each other long enough to see any red flags before she became pregnant
@@urluvizmyluv1999 dam that’s even worse
She committed child endangerment…foolishly leaving a baby in parking lot smh. The audacity to imply he is a bad father for leaving the child with the grandmother is astonishing.
Exactly like us mothers don't do the same sometimes with our own parents
This case is so sad on so many levels. I pray for the child and that the parents can work on proper co-parenting!! ⚖️
Right! Talking about he’s always with the grandma. Idc if he dropped his son off with the grandma all day, everyday…that’s 1000x better than leaving him alone in a car in a casino parking lot.
The women is something else
@@isiahwarner3087 In this case, proper co-parenting could only be possible after intensive long-term mental health therapy for the mother, IMO
Exactly what happens when you carelessly make babies. My heart goes out to the children who are born in these messes. 😢
Thank you. That's the whole and most important point. THE CHILDREN.
Right! Knew this girl for a month smh
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@@sereneamani1713 85,000 missing children from the border in the last year. Stop voting Democrat, for the children
@@sereneamani1713You missed the point.
Crying about who's around the kid but she leaves him alone in car..wow
Best comment
@@teegreen3909 Totally agree!
It's a lifetime of pain if you have children by the wrong person.
Yup he’s covert in his tactics and she was broken before he even met her.
@@opulence_prime Narcs can sense out needy or people who are empathetic
Moreso, a lifetime of pain for the child.
Yeah he straight used her for a baby. A Weak minded out of control young woman with intent to probably get custody. He kno she can’t control her emotions. He even admitted that he called her over there. I hope the baby isn’t his
Dang Adrian, I never thought I would agree with you. He shouldn’t have had a baby by her.
I’m glad the judge laid into her. There are just as many unfit mothers as there are unfit fathers. Her crocodile tears didn’t me the judge note me tbh.
Right
Exactly!!
Very true
P.S All the real chicken heads like her are killing me in the comment section for comments similar to yours too and it's sad asf to me..
I applaud her for doing what MOST people do not do- TELL THE TRUTH AND TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY! She admitted what she did without an excuse where her son is concerned. It's not the mistakes we make but ownership of them.
There would be no pass given if the dad left the child in the car. Stop trying to give this woman an excuse for her behavior.
She shouldn't see her son EVER AGAIN!!!
Exactly
These so called independent, strong B women in here are doing it too and they wonder why nobody wants to deal with them like that but other B women ..
@@jasonallen3678 , FACTS 👍
Exactly 💯 he would be the worst person ever. I'm glad Judge Mathis shut her down cause after hearing about her leaving her son in a car for the casino, I didn't want to hear anything else from her.
The only victim in this case is their child... 😢😢😢
A mother should never leave her child unattended - especially to go to a casino. Shame on her. I hope she gets help with a therapist and attends parenting classes. I feel so sorry for their child - that poor kid. God help them all.
The MOTHER....YOU MEAN A PARENT...
@America Love The Mother was having her visitation time with her child, and She was the parent who decided to go to the casino and leave her child in the car while she went in to the casino to gamble instead of doing the responsible thing and either staying at home with her child, or getting a babysitter to stay with her child at home. The Mother left the child unattended sitting in the car By Himself. That was totally inappropriate and wholly irresponsible on her part. The father was not part of that visitation scenario - he was having his time off from his child. He didn't leave the child unattended - the Mother did. Shame on her.
And yes, agreed that No parent should ever leave a child unattended in a car or at home...
...but this case was about the mother's stupid decision to put her desires (gambling in a casino) above her child's needs. Shame on Her.
You spelled "parent" wrong
@@bhornannawindeedeigh5007
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@Tiffy Wms If you're referring to my spelling, I used parent and a derivative of that - parenting - both used correctly. Possibly, you're referring to another person's comment because I used both words correctly. 🙂
His lady friend was supposed to leave the house because she was coming to get the kid, NO she can be mature , pick her kid up and take her ass home.
Word.
Thank you Judge Mathis!
You said what NEEDED to be said FOR that man!
We as a society haven’t recognized and uplifted strong Fathers enough.
Especially in these type of situations when a selfish woman attempts to demonize the man instead of supporting him.
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Dear Black People,
Holding another Black person accountable isn't a form of hate, jealousy, putting on blast, wrongdoing, etc. It's actually a form of love to help one self correct and mature. We can't get better, as a people, if we can never hold each other accountable.
Thanks,
A black person
Tell that truth
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Actually we're brown not black
@@theredwhoop9372 ok and white pol aren’t white they are Olive they still called white ppl.
I applaud her for doing what MOST people do not do- TELL THE TRUTH AND TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY! She admitted what she did without an excuse where her son is concerned. It's not the mistakes we make but ownership of them.
She is a mess and is lacking maternal instincts however... I don't think he's completely innocent in this debacle
Perfectly stated
Exactly what I was thinking, something in the milk isn’t clean with him either but he did what a parent is supposed to
A man can't do no good deed without you bitter creatures unnecessarily dissing him in these forums..
@@Hotwingzlover84B.s
@@jasonallen3678 exactly, they just have to find something wrong with him…she just a shitty mother
If you're going to be the parent with full custody, stop doing petty shit to the other parent.
Right . Like grown ass man
That man is protecting his child from his dangerous mother
@@rambojordan1 nah he was also being very petty. 8 month of denying the mother and child time together.
@@moniclayshe left the child for dead to go into a casino…u can’t be serious she don’t love that child
She is emotionally damaged so why would he trust her around the kid unless she got parenting classes and therapy i would’ve never let her around my son neither there is unfit mothers too not jus fathers
wait... how did he "come across" HER emails a couple months ago if they're not together?!?! why are you still checking her stuff? 😩🧐
EDIT: Yes, what she did was horrible - the judge chewed her out as he should but it's obvious he's still dealing with her if he still has access to her emails.
Thank you !!! I was thinking the same thing
He gives me narc vibes
@@Bih1stOfAll most definitely. he just wants to look good on paper
@@vanessapicott7185 he's a piece of work. I bet he goes out of his way to make her look bad and give her hell. Yes, she messed up but he seems to dangle that over her head.
Wait.....Out of everything that "SHE" did. Your only concern is, how does he still have access to her emails ? Y'all (Sista's) are completely ridiculous. Accountability is like Kryptonite to the (Sista's).
She said when I got there I was calm but, on the inside I was upset.
Hello..... She already knew that he was going on a date. He didnt set her up. She just was still in love.
She may have known he was going on a date but may not have thought the young lady would be at the house when she picked up the baby.
@@mzfancy4767 ....he told her to come get the child he was going on a date ....she knew...and she is upset that he has moved on....
I can't even wrap my brain around why a non impaired, mentally stable person, could leave their child in a car unsupervised... To gamble at that. So something is off with her.
Yet, I find it crazy how men can do the same thing they accuse women of i.e. Withholding the child and bringing strange women in the home around their child etc 😏
Who is non-impaired and mentally stable? I try not to take sides based on gender, but it would take a lot for me to let my child be around someone with the kind of judgment that the mother demonstrated. Also, how was the woman strange? Strange to whom, her?
1st, She's definitely "NOT" mentally stable. 2nd, You have "NO" idea if 95% of the time, she either drunk or high on narcotics. Stop making excuses for her bad behavior. I highly doubt, if the tables were turned. You would have the same empathy for HIM.
@@sereneamani1713 that's why I mentioned something is off with her. Clearly no mentally stable or persons not under the influence would do such a thing.
He’s probably keeping the child from her because it’s healthier for the child to be away from her completely
Clearly she has demons and is mentally disturbed
Great decision to send them to the local child support courts.
Once the relationship ends you cannot control who the other parent romantically brings around their child.
They should be stopping themselves from bringing new people around but they don’t know self control. If a woman was bringing a new man around, all hell would break loose
Most women love holding a man accountable, but will deflect, dodge and reverse it when she commits same offense. Justify even. And this is...
Give me the provable statistics about what MOST women do?
They learnt from the best...you men. Lol.
@@Renrens-LionessofJudah stop blaming men for your actions..you a grown ass women that make choices....
@@gunsdown4497as if men haven’t been blaming women for their actions or lack thereof. I can’t see my child because she… I haven’t provided for my child because she…. I don’t come around because she always…. It’s not a gender thing, it’s a person/individual thing. Grow up! People are so bias for whatever cause they resonate with. And the children endures the repercussions of adults behaviors. She left their child in a car. He must obviously think she is now better than that, to ask her to pick up the child unsupervised. Trying to make this a tit for tat is ludicrous. They both are fcking up as it relates to the child. If not having another person visible after calling the other parent is all it takes to keep the peace; that child is worth that. If they actually had an agreement not to do that, then why renig, record, search emails, but never get a court ordered child support contract. More effort put in pettiness, than applying legal boundaries for the well being of the child.
@@Renrens-LionessofJudahthe irony of that comment…
How he get the email? 😂
I don’t blame him for not having the child around her. She’s mentally unstable and he’s being nice not putting her on child support
Facts
Everyone who's on the defendant's side must not have any kids! This woman is completely out of pocket for leaving that child in the car!
Word. I'm with you.
Anyone who’s on the defendant side has probably done the same thing the defendant has done.
@macktastic3534....Well said!! 💯%!!
She should be afraid to go back to her neighborhood. Im glad I don't know her lol how u leave ur bby in the car smh
Facts
She was trying her hardest to squeeze the tears out. 😩
She's an endangerment to that child. Im not glossing over the fact she left the child alone in a car while she gambled. He is entitled to move on with his life. However, she should be allowed to see her son.
No way she should have any contact with the child. She's a selfish vile woman.
She has all excuses and zero accountability. When the man doesn’t want you just move and be the best mother you can. Sheesh, it’s not that hard.
She still has not worked through how wrong it was to leave her child in that car, she couldnt even explain why after all that time
Word.
....she blamed it on HIM.....she was feeling some sort of way about him...but the judge did not ask the obvious question....WAS SHE ON DRUGS WHEN SHE DID IT....
@@CuirPhotodotNetit wasn't an obvious question. She did not portray herself to be a drug addict in court, and no mention of drug use was involved regarding her negligence in leaving the child in the car. Asking her if she was using drugs at the time would almost certainly end in a denial by her so as not to look worse than she already did. Furthermore, police probably would have noted her appearance and possible drug influence in a police report if anything was notable.
You'd be surprised how many sober women do this during the day when they run into stores to run errands and Dont "feel like" unbuckling, removing and carrying a small child just to go into a store to get things, then lose track of time shopping or talking. Most of the time, passerbys will report seeing a child in a car to police, but the mother will return and drive off before police arrive.
@@odog76543 .....she left her 3 year old in the car by himself to gamble....when questioned ....twice...she said she had no excuse or idea why she did it except to say she was in a bad place....it would have been more understandable if she said she was impaired and she would have gotten empathy....the way it stands ..and the judge questioned her and then mocked her...is the fact that she is off mentally...everything she has been doing...and not doing has been at the expense of the child....which is why the dad has custody of the child...and she resents him for that....even the judge had to check her for that.....
She literally said “I didn’t feel like I had support and he was in the Dominican Republic.” So she essentially like the judge said punishes the child because she can’t have that man.
Why would he specifically call her over to get her son when theirs another woman there.I believe he set her up for a recorded reaction to use in court. She wrong but he wrong too with the petty ah ha I'm in control type of behavior. She needs alot of help,counseling support and so on before getting the child back or joint custody for the child's safety.
He should’ve dropped him off, or ole’ girl should’ve stayed out of sight 😒 knowing that this would her her feelings. But hey she created this problem 🙄
And the fact that no one is mentioning the dad bringing a random woman around the child when they’d be all over her for it
I agree
That’s his business he can have anyone he wants around his kid. He has full custody.
100%
Keeping a son away from his mom is just pure evil. IDC about none of that courtshit. He should at least grant her supervised visit.
He's bad father because he takes the child to his mom's house to visit? Lady, you left your 3 year old in a car unattended to go gambling...
She should be in prison leaving her baby in a car to gamble..
This version of JM is the 1 that makes the show enjoyable. He acted like a real judge, taught law, asked great probing questions of both parties. He didn't let his *opinion* of the litigants *influence or bias his judgment.* It's an unfortunate case because they are both young, attractive & seemingly intelligent. They both have parental support & hopefully can find their way back to a union w/effective mentoring or at least a way to effectively co-parent. So tragic, for their son.
Exactly
whoo i was nervous for the child. I am so glad he is the father!!!
I’m confused why he’s denying visitation when it’s supervised. If the child stays with the grandmother often, let her monitor them and it’ll be in a comfortable environment for the child.
If she’s that unpredictable (which sounds very possible), get the law-appointed person to do it.
....if the law got involved further they probably would have ordered her to some kind of counseling or classes and as you can see she is pretty messed up she was not about to deal with anymore scrutiny....
It sounded like his reason for refusing was because the child is usually with him when she attempts visitation and many times she will be dramatic and refuse to leave just like she showed in the recording. It seems to me that she is one of these women who is more concerned about what the ex is doing than her own child. And her lack of concern for her own child is already proven by her child endangerment conviction, leaving a 3 year old unattended in a vehicle in order to gamble while admittedly going thru financial issues. Someone like that should hardly be trusted to be civil and reasonable.
She lost all trust when she left that baby in the car.
She’s salty and still wants him. Oooooh the burn to see another woman with your baby and the daddy…while still young…😩🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Bingo!!
She has some attachment issues. I don’t think it’s saltiness.
@@opulence_prime she cried about an unknown Woman. But, no emotions regarding her Child....
@@Hotwingzlover84 did you watch to the end? The wall came down. Being hard on her doesn’t make you a better woman. Believe it.
@@opulence_prime I watched but, she comes across as a manipulator. And, we can agree to disagree. That definitely makes me a WOMAN. But, you enjoy your Evening 👑
Il be back when the comments get spicy... 😄
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I’ll start… He better continue to workout or else he’ll have boobs… 👀👀👀👀👀
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@@Ladylovebug26 the judge sent her to 😭
Damn didn't realize how early it is
Aww you can get it together buttercup, it’s never to late keep growing so you can be a better person and mom ❤
HOW DARE ya’ll women sit in this comment section and say he’s the problem! That man can have whomever he wants at his home so as long as that party isn’t harming the child! This woman appears to be well put together and she left her toddler in a car while she gambled. Gambled! Not something that she needed to do, but wanted to do. She wasn’t running in the store to get milk and pull-ups. She wasn’t interviewing for a job. She wasn’t pumping gas! She had no clear explanation of why she did what she did and no real remorse. Courts rarely hand over full custody to the dad! Most courts fully support mothers, so for yall to sit and skate over this woman leaving her baby in a car when he could have suffocated and died or been kidnapped is so typical of women not holding other women accountable. Im glad he recorded her. She could have came over, kept her cool, picked up her kid and texted him about her feelings later but she sat right there and acted a fool. Police don’t believe black men, so he better record it to protect himself! Ya’ll gotta cut that foolishness out!
some people don't believe in condoms 😑
The main question is will she learn from this? looking at her face when JM pour into her...something tells me up until that moment she had never taken accountability. She had one of those oh shiiiit facial expressions where something finally hits you.
Its moments like this where you are force to look in the mirror and finally accept the BS you bring upon yourself...and do something about it. Eventhough she has made some really bad choices she can redeem herself but she gotta do the work.
Thank you for not bashing her like every other perfect person in these comments. Yes she made an extremely terrible mistake in her past, however we are put here to learn & grow from them no matter how extensive they are. Ppl watch a 20 minute scripted television show and assume they have all the answers to someone else’s life. Anywho I personally know her & she has grown tremendously as a mother.
🌷I'm sooo "Happy" for him to know that's his son, we need more father's to step up to the plate like him and my son.#AWESOME FATHER'S!! 🌺🌹🥀
Folks betta stop laying up wit strangers RAW!! Don't even know each other!!
She needs to move on he doesn't want her
I remember hearing about her leaving the child on the news….hope she gets help for the sake of their child
I just feel she needs help and guidance instead of being totally dismissed like judge Mathis dismissed her
I grew up in a foster care system my mother never came to visit me but once left me …
at least she’s trying to fight fuck it she might have a gambling problem that’s the same as a drug addiction it’s a mental disorder she might just need help she looks like she needs help and of “😮course he sounded calm when he was the one recording the episode of course …he’s very manipulative and I bet she’s right I bet he just takes the child to his parents who are probably taking care of his child she just needs help and judge Mathis could be very cruel and dismissive but if she was a crackhead he’d have all this help for her “ are you willing to get help?” “you want some help?” he would say “I have staff on here and we can put you in a program are you willing to have help ?” …he offered her no help at all and And looked at her up and down and dismissed her on national television like she was garbage and that was help I’m glad his show was canceled he need to go sit down somewhere he’s out of touch with the world today !!!!🤬
She's a piece of work.
Best Wishes to the Father and Happy Life to the child!!! As for the defendant...either get help or stay away!
She’s Trifling how do you leave your kid in the car as you Gamble smh 🤦🏾♀️
The nerve and audacity of that woman….I’m glad judge Mathis read her ass and ain’t fall for those crocodile tears
Definitely sounds like she uses the baby as a pawn…you leave your child in a car unattended and want to feel bad because the dad has full custody and wants to control who the dad chooses to date as a full time single dad…lady take several seats
I wouldnt leave a 🐠 with her..parenting classes or not..she was more passionate about him having a girl around her son than leaving him on the car...so if he is playing games idc something could have happened to the child..he know he gave her a reson to leave on that ambulance she done came over on some bs..she wanted to say he acts like he do so much when his mom helps and jm shut it down
It’s illegal to record someone in Maryland without them knowing. She should press charges for that. She’s foul for what she did but something about him seems off.
Not when they’re on your property causing a disturbance. 🤷🏿♀️
@@Laatrice ma’am I implore you to go read the audio consent law for the state of Maryland where this party lives. You must inform someone they’re being recorded in MARYLAND. Thanks.
Smh made an unstable woman a mother. Folks please VET these people thoroughly before you sleep with them unprotected. She wasn't stable when she met him and now is even more unstable.
THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!!
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Glad the case turned out in plaintiffs favors ! It’s his child .
She got a lot of nerve 🙄
He definitely set her up
However what she did to her child is disgusting.
When you act without thinking this is what happens. He played it right, she made anger control her.
I'm independent because I pay bills and take care of myself... Thank you for being an adult
He stopped her from seeing his kid? That’s crazy. He can supervise her or get a cop or parent involves. A child should be around both parents unless one is clearly abusive.
So leaving a child in the car isn't abused 🤷🏽♂️
@@MrBigplaybrayexactly
She was not on the verge of violence, she was sad and jealous. The fact that she was negligent is almost making everything else she says null and void. This is just sad and toxic on several levels.
Sound like 2steps away from violence to me and many and the stick she grabbed and the arrest bye
She was more than on the verge of violence. She picked up a stick and tried to hit him with it. If that's not violent, I don't know what is.
She deserves to see her son. AT THE LEAST
She doesn't need to see her son if she put other things before him
@@micheallatham2924 I get it .. but who are we to judge someone by their mistakes .. lol that’s what’s wrong with ppl ; it was horrible however did she HARM HER IN KID NO made horrible decisions that could’ve possibly went left yes … however I believe she deserves a chance to at least see the child , FaceTime , supervised visits, court house , shit even the park
@@jocelynnicole__ and again I agree with that she should be able to see the child but at the same time how can you see a child when you put gambling before your own child I mean my thing is right now she didn't take no accountability to wish you did wrong that's why judge Mathis got on her about that
@@jocelynnicole__ my thing is it shouldn't matter if the guy is dating a new woman or not he is the father
@@jocelynnicole__ she did put her child in harm. Leaving a kid in a car they could be kidnapped, molested, raped, drugged. The possibilities are endless when it comes to leaving your child unattended even just for a minute because in a minute something could go wrong and they are only innocent. Adults can make mistakes but a mistake can be the cost of a child. Before she becomes a mother she should bloody learn to get herself together because if she can’t take care of herself why the hell do you think she should be able to see her child.
I know Doyle be thinking 💭 ‘this gone be a good one’ 😂😂
Despite her faults, kids need their mothers in their lives as well. Lord knows what she was going through. Pray they can become civil for the sake of their child
No don’t deserve a child
Children don't need BAD MOTHERS in their lives. So, Stop the BS
Hopefully she can live down/ recover leaving her child in the car @ 3 y/o!!! That's gon be the life long story for him!
Honestly to me, your comment makes no sense. The first sentence. As Magic World said above, children don't need parents who put them in the type of danger that could kill or maim them.
@@magicworld3242 exactly! She wasn’t even truthful why she left the child, blamed the father for being in DR.. that tells me she still is not accepting accountability for her poor choices..
He’s a creep and sneaky. He knows she cant control her emotions
Extremely manipulative using the child against her
I would have to wait until the child turns 18. Men do that all the time. She needs to get her life together. He is holding the child hostage. Let him have the child and move on.
it was a set up to have her come and pick the child up while the new woman was there. he did that on purpose
It's his fault she can't control her emotions? Accountability really is Kryptonite to a lot of us.
@@keylacmckemp1309 no one ever said that lol! EVER lol
This is why you give yourself time to get to know someone.
They met, and she was knocked up within a month's time 🤦🏾♀️
1. Who cares a woman was in the home if you barely get to see your son to begin with? Girl, get your child and go!!! You knew he was going on a date! What does it matter that someone was over there already?!
2. Shame on you all for defending her negligent behavior! Children have died countless times after being left in the car! That baby could have lost his life all because she wanted to GAMBLE!
so because she wasn’t in a good state and had no money she decided to go to the national harbor and blow her money at the MGM. i see that PG County education shining through.
Ikr.
She needs to grow up and be a mother, but he also needs to grow up. I think he invited her over to get the baby because he knew she would get upset when she saw the other woman.
I could hear the pain in her voice in that recording. That and the casino incident convinced me she *has more than growing up to do. Baby needs help and I say that in the kindest way possible.
Of course he did.
Thank you. I felt bad for her hearing her cry that way. It was a little heartless knowing she wasn't over him for him to have another woman in her face. They have to co-parent. Being kind to one another is necessary.
I believe she was in a very bad place at the time she left her baby. She probably thought that the baby would be okay. She DID pay for her mistake with the arrest and the awarding of full custody. Okay having said that. The father sure did set her up. It was his way of retaliating after she won split custody of her son. He invited her over and was pushed to pretty much begging to be heard. I don't know how the judge heard screaming and yelling in that audio. He coincidentally happened to record himself telling her to leave after he called her over there to watch their son while he went out on a date. I believe her when she said he choked her.
The judge overreacted condemning her when she had a right to point out the father's negligence about their son but the judge stopped her. Why? Men do that silly move all of the time. They want the upper hand and so they torment the mother withholding visitation to punish her for winning split custody. He planned that piece of audio evidence just so he could play it in court. HE SET HER UP! I believe she is in a better place now and deserves to be in her son's life. She wasn't on drugs and she could have received counseling since. Single mothers are often pushed to the edge when she has no one to help them. This is a need in our society. It could be a non-profit organization that helps relieve mothers giving them respite from day-to-day challenges.
She never had joint custody and what negligence? When did it become negligence to let a grandparent watch their grandchild? She’s an abusive deadbeat mom and she needs to put in a lot of work on herself before she can even think of getting any sort of custody again
This is the definition of not holding someone accountable how does a 5 day arrest and losing custody make her learn from her mistakes. You care more about what this made did to upset her compared to the fact that they may not have a child anymore if someone wouldn’t have noticed their kid in the car 🤦🏾♂️ I think you should evaluate where your morals lie sweetheart because to not understand the horrendous act she committed but can clearly identify dudes problems smh
Accountability is nonexistent for women, huh? Reading this gave me even less hope in women.
It’s funny how no women are calling her a deadbeat. Let it be a black man and the sisterhood would be calling him out of his name
I think that you need to scroll the comments before assuming. Plenty are calling her out..
Yep. They have all the sympathy and understanding in the world. If he had done what she did, he’d be the closest thing to a devil they could find.
@@Hotwingzlover84 true. But not with the same vigor they would if it was the father in her place.
@@emancipatedtalent I stated that also... In another section in this vid. There would definitely be no grace for the Male.
@@emancipatedtalent Let's forget about the war between males and females that so many of you are fighting and be concerned about THE CHILD.
He had to rely on his mom to help him raise his son. He still needs the same things a single mom needs, baby sitter, family, friends help to stand in the gap that she left.
14:48 she wasn’t diminishing anything. That man kept that baby from her out of spite and she’s stating he simply had support she didn’t; his mom. As a mom I want her to do better by her kid as a daughter I know sometimes we don’t have the best examples of mothers to follow after. She says nothing about a mom but mentioned having a dad helping her. That stood out to me. I hope she was able to get at least joint custody and the help and emotional support she needs to do right by her child. My heart goes out to her. I know Judge Lynn would have saw this case diff. I never compare my two fav judges but this time Linda should have been in audience to guide him.
That chick does not deserve custody
Yes...she made a mistake ...I don't think she should be away from her son
@@waukishaferguson2935 well do so many men do go to court and fight for your right
Yes she was, she wasn't saying he had support. She was saying he doesn't take care of our son his mom does. She has no accountability
Mom admitted she made the 😢wrong choice . Thank God nothing happened ..I failed to understand why JM assaulted her character.
I think she's remorseful .
Hope she followed through for joint custody .
I pray she gets the support she needs to coparent. This Father is not so great for several reasons. Any father who does not understand the importance of mom being in his son’s life, needs therapy.
Yes.... He's sick and very Spiteful... Why does he have access to her email??
Why is he still concerned about her?
He's trying to break her down...
His child will hate him once the truth is out .
@Tyi Berry, YOU need therapy. You don't allow a child to be involved with a TOXIC mother, that's going to put the child's life in danger. This woman is a mess. She should lose custody. He should NEVER let her see his child (Unsupervised).
@Magic World She was there at his request to take the son so he could go on a date. He trust her with the son. So somebody's lying😮.
I feel like it’s double standard because if the roles were reversed women would be saying “ he doesn’t need his father . I’m his father & his mother “ a lot of women do that but the roles are reversed it’s a different story
I don’t think the Judge should have dug into her like that. she was remorseful and she served her time for the mistake. he’s being vindictive like many bitter and single parents get. i wish her the best of luck
I usually go hard on the females but I did feel she was remorseful
If he would have left the baby in the car to go gamble he would still be in jail. Then crucified in jail by other inmates for being a child abuser.
She was holding back tears at the end, she felt so stupid, you can tell.
She WAS stupid AND dumb
Meet in a DC night club..well thank God the plaintiff didn't end up being a Richmond Phillips
Decided to move on and find a replacement. Not help the mother of his kids get the help she clearly needed. That recording put him in bad light, for me at least. I agree he did it to trigger her. But glad he’s getting the full experience of being a parent. Childcare is no joke. God bless the child.
HALLELUJAH!!!!!
The mother needs to behave like a responsible adult and parent appropriately. Left a 3YO in the car alone so she could gamble and still defended. Defending chaos... not surprised at this point. Smh.
Yes sound like she had issues before the baby and after having it made them worse
By all means lets just make excuses for the mother who made terrible decisions smfh...
@@Camila-nv5ep right? If it were the male....
You know the rest
She was more worried about who he is dating than having some time with her child…that was the start to getting joint custody. She does need help and I hope she gets it🙏🏾
exactly
Mom has her faults but just like we forgive and cut slack for dads that mess up we need to extend that same grace to moms , also he was messy for hsving the other woman there knowing she was coming
Who is the "we"? IMO, this is not a case of the difference between behaviors and consequences for moms and dads. This is not about her faults and his messiness. This is about a child put in a situation that could have ended his life. If the child was injured or killed, would it still be termed as a "mistake"? Let's talk about grace for the child.
Sorry. Not giving grace to a woman who left their child in the car to gamble in a casino for who knows how long
It’s always that one who takes the woman’s side no matter how bad the situation is on her part.
Nope
That’s crazy, woman literally left the kid in the car to gamble and you here talking about cutting slack, seems like when a woman fucks up, there’s always someone willing to cut slack .
In our communities, dudes get out of jail and get more love than a dude who graduates college. That gotta change if we want to move forward in any kind of way
I believe her. He set her up. He’s like a bitter baby momma and she’s reckless. Her child is the last thing on her mind. Both need to grow up. Every child needs both of their parents. Mother & father. Good parents knows that. Both of them need to grow up. I know it when I see it.
Must not know anything
Stuck ya' dick in crazy unprotected and now attached to her for life. That's on him. A month after seeing her??? She wasn't on birth control which is wild. With that being said, I'm not a fan withholding the child when mother's do it and father's. I suspect she regrets her mistake and is trying to improve as a parent. Allowing her to see the kid is necessary for both of them. Hopefully they can work something out for the kids sake.
Wait what....to gamble tho
With no money
deadbeat moms exist too y’all just don’t wanna call your friends out for it .
He is better off not taking her to court, and make up his mind to raise the son without her and focus on earning more money. Enforcing child support is a headache, it's never enough and she's a menace. The little bit he wants isn't worth it.
I agree. She doesn’t need to see nor be around the child anymore. The father & son will make it without her.
Judge Matis is messy 🤣🤣🤣
His name is Mathis. Not Matis
People should learn that sometimes less is more. Don't offer up no more than what's being asked of you. She embarrassed herself in attempt to embarrass the father lol.
They always wanna talk about deadbeat dads because it's been socially accepted to do so but there are a lot of deadbeat moms out here too just like this one
RIGHT!
I know a few that has given birth to several babies but the grandparents are raising them. Smh
Didn't the court order say supervised visits for the mother? When he asked her to pick up the son it didn't seem like it would be supervised. Seems he wanted her to see this other woman.
The plantiff is not 100% innocent. Why even call your ex over while you have company?! It's giving troll vibes, and given their circumstances, I would've just dropped my son off to her. She, however, leaves her 3 year old in a car alone in a parking lot surrounded by strangers coming and going but had a problem with the company her ex is keeping while he's with the child?! She is a broken woman for reasons we don't fully know, and she need to seek help like yesterday😬
You women 😂
Wheeew my heart was beating fast for the paternity results. If he wasn’t the child’s father that would’ve been wild like first 48 wild! 😮💨
She’s made some poor mistakes as a mother and he clearly triggers her on purpose. That recording was manipulative and a set up
He can't say she's a bad mom after one mistake! I think she has learned h er lesson & he needs to let her see her son PERIOD
So, The bih is sensitive about his son being around another woman.. but HAD NO FEELINGS ABOUT LEAVING HER 3 YR OLD SON IN HER CAR ALONE WHILE SHE WENT TO PLAY INTO THE CASINO..
SHE SHOULD'VE GOTTEN ATLEAST 1 TO 5 YRS.. CUZ HELL NO!!@.
Omg thank you!!!!
I'm baffled at how people are making excuses for her being emotional about the mystery Woman.
But, she didn't blink when describing leaving her Baby unattended. Ugh
She made a terrible choice by leaving her son in the car. However, I didn’t hear any further concerns about her behavior, that may be triggering. She should be given an opportunity to be a better mom. He definitely plays in her face, and has the advantage based on the choice she made, but it shouldn’t be used in a malicious manner.
If she has supervised visits, that should be honored. She needs some mental health support, and he should grow up.
It should only be honored if she is stable minded. As long as she keeps behaving badly, he shouldn’t have to subject his child or himself to that instability.
Since, I haven't seen NOBODY else say it...
THAT LADY WAS HOPING SOMEONE KIDNAPPED THAT BABY.. I mean... come on Now.. it's CRYSTAL CLEAR
That Chick said... She left her child in the car.. while she went inside a WHOLE CASINO, because she felt like she wasn't getting the assistance she needed.. so she was mad..
1. THAT ACT IS AN ON PURPOSE.. SOOO.. WHY TF IS SHE SAYING, IT WAS A "MISTAKE"... NO, MA'AM IT WASN'T A MISTAKE.. She made the CONSCIOUS. CHOICE.. to leave her child in the car.. where's the MISTAKE?.. SHE SHOULD'VE DID AT LEAST GOT A FEW YRS IN JAIL & HER PARENTAL RIGHTS TERMINATED... That child is NOT SAFE WITH THAT LADY..
LISTEN....How does she have the GUMPTION... to fix her pie hole... & say the baby grandmother had him all the time.. as if that's bad... trying to knock him for leaving HIS baby WITH his MAMA.. in a SECURE & SAFE PLACE.. on PURPOSE.. YET.. SHE'S SITTING UP THERE LIKE... SHE'S THE VICTIM.. TRYING to get grace and sympathy..
NO MA'AMMMMMM...
What she did was... ESSENTIALLY,
SET HER SON UP & LEFT HIM.. SO THAT ANYTHING COULD Happen TO him..
She DON'T L❤vE that baby..
AGAIN, TERMINATE her rights, never leave her alone with that baby..
Amen.
Dear black men, let’s stick together, defy the odds, accept our faults, grow, take care of our kids, help raise our nieces, nephews, and cousins if necessary, own property, and break generational curses #Gm 🏁💙
wishful thinking...
MARRY THE MOTHER, OTHERWISE its fornication and God said no fornicator shall enter heaven.
none of you care about that then you go around Jesus bless me, JESUS SAID WHY DO YOU CALL ME LORD AND NOT DO AS I SAY.
She’s wrong as the day is long for leaving the baby in the car alone to 🤬 gamble
He’s wrong for calling her over to get the baby knowing he had a woman over knowing how she is. Just to get a rise out of her and record her.
How’d he JUST NOW come across an email a month ago from when she was pregnant 🤔
He’s not showing up for court and they now have joint custody let her see their son.
They BOTH need to grow tf up period.