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  • @louisegarner8888
    @louisegarner8888 2 роки тому +139

    Narcs can steal our honey 🍯 but not our soul-full means of making it 🐝⛲ and they'll feel the sting of our absence long after we leave without us losing our stingers if we make our moves to leave in silence 🤫! Yes Tea, narcs underestimate losing the main cog in their fuel generator when it starts going wonkier than the 3 legged stool hiding under their mask which falls apart under stress to reveal their projected true colours we can 👁️to toss back at them with a hard and fast door slam and change of locks to block! Side stepping zebras can go hoover themselves! It's a sign we're too strong for them if they don't hoover us! Thanks for inspiring Telsha and your voice is sooo beautiful 🎶😇😍 Bella wants in too!! She's a gorgeous floofy girl! 😅💓🐩💓 Love you Queen, avagooday!! xox 👑👸👑🌹🙏💪💞🕊️🤗👋

    • @mandatereporter7928
      @mandatereporter7928 2 роки тому +3

      Please explain the terms honey and bees

    • @louisegarner8888
      @louisegarner8888 2 роки тому +13

      @@mandatereporter7928 Hey Sis, no worries, thanks for asking! 💕🤗👋
      If you can imagine the empath as a bee 🐝 who may die if they lose their stinger to a predator and honey 🍯 as gifts, talents, skills, money, sovereignty, ability to love, find peace and joy, be alone if needs be, build with others, access God, heal, be empathetic, step into their calling to heal others, etc., then see that the narcissist tries to copy and steal the empath's good qualites much as man steals a bee's honey for his own needs, the narcissist takes to boost their own egos while deflating, draining and undermining the empath to the point where the empath feels they've had all their joy sucked out and can barely function so to survive they'd need to get away from the narc to heal themselves and remember that they always did, still do and will always have, the methods and means for restoring all of their God given good, empathic qualities, skills, abilities and purpose of service once they turn to God and free themselves from the narc, whereas like the bee farmer who can't make his own honey without going to steal it from the bees, the narcissist needs to steal from empaths to keep their supply chain going to meet their fuel, feed, finance, freak needs.
      The narcissist needs the empath but the empath doesn't need the narcissist. 🗝
      It's a smarter move for the empath to escape the narcissist before feeling so drained and angry about the mistreatment and abuse that fightback to survive becomes inevitable as an empath will act out of character much like a bee will sting even though it knows it will die once it's stinger is gone and the narcissist will take advantage of any emotional reaction, criticism or challenge from the empath to further punish and abuse as their mission is to destroy the empath.
      I hope I've explained that properly? I was thinking I could answer it in fewer words! Sending lots of love and peace to you and yours Sis xox 🙏💪💕😊✌️👋 ✨ ✨ ✨

    • @mandatereporter7928
      @mandatereporter7928 2 роки тому +7

      @@louisegarner8888 That makes sense thanks

    • @louisegarner8888
      @louisegarner8888 2 роки тому +6

      @@mandatereporter7928 Oh good to know, I went a bit overboard there but Telsha's the best for giving us visuals on narc empath dynamics to inspire us about those bee stomping, side stepping zebras and hell-mentored frogs in psychedelic tutus with chinese crested woofers perched on their slippery, stinky behinds that need a good army booting to the curb! 😅😂💕😘✌️

    • @mandatereporter7928
      @mandatereporter7928 2 роки тому +8

      @@louisegarner8888 can’t make any of this stuff up Lol

  • @ayttiiie7
    @ayttiiie7 Рік тому +111

    They don't get with someone better, they get with someone that doesn't know any better.

  • @toniacompton1091
    @toniacompton1091 8 місяців тому +34

    The narcissist has no way to me.
    I’ve deleted all social media.
    I’ve changed my phone number and all of my information.
    He’s in the pitch DARK as far as my personal life goes. Amen and Amen.

  • @designatedblack9696
    @designatedblack9696 4 місяці тому +13

    No weirdo demon formed against me shall prosper!

  • @beachy9920
    @beachy9920 Рік тому +21

    When the devil cannot show up .. he’s sends in a Narcissist ❤ avoid them at all cost!

  • @loiswhite1834
    @loiswhite1834 2 роки тому +195

    Wow! That’s a real word: They had one assignment. That was to destroy you, and they failed. May every demon assigned to me and my bloodline, forever fail, in Jesus’s name!

  • @unitrarenee1406
    @unitrarenee1406 7 місяців тому +7

    They really are confused, then blame you. My ex started blaming me for things I said (I called him out his inconsistencies, etc…), and when I said I didn’t want to hear his excuses, he said “now that he’s FINALLY sharing his feelings, I don’t want to listen!” I was like, boy bye 👋 ✌🏽 🤦🏽‍♀️ They really are sick and delusional and want to entangle you up with the chaos. PLS LET SOMEBODY ELSE DO IT!

    • @Ronald-pz1lx
      @Ronald-pz1lx 7 місяців тому

      Always u

    • @leslieallen5704
      @leslieallen5704 5 днів тому

      😂😂😂...That is what I said...go on now, go deal with your friends/delusional relatives, flying monkeys ✌🏽🎯.

  • @jo5992
    @jo5992 2 роки тому +20

    I changed my number so The Narc and Flying monkeys can’t contact me…I shut them down before they even started. 😆

  • @Smilesbaylock8554
    @Smilesbaylock8554 Рік тому +9

    Honey you took me out when you said that's why they can't sleep! Up all night long.

  • @GreenEnvy.
    @GreenEnvy. 2 роки тому +23

    After the discard, the narcissist flew a drone with a camera attached over my house, then sent me the video. He literally hoovered above my house. He did this several times. I ignored it and after months it eventually stopped. These people are literally crazy.

  • @jacqui884
    @jacqui884 2 роки тому +177

    So true Telsha.
    I quit my narc, but after 3 months being free he started hovering last week. I refused his invite to dinner, but he still continued anyhow I sent him one RC Blake's video on Narcissism last night. He flipped out, went into a devaluing rant via text and blocked himself-didn't give me a chance to respond and blocked himself... Thank you Jesus. I'm continuing to cover myself by the blood of Jesus.

    • @esthero1994
      @esthero1994 2 роки тому +21

      😂😂😂 I act dumb about the whole situation....I did think about sending him some RC Blakes though. I just told myself if not even Jesus can save him, why would I even try🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @kathyheron4952
      @kathyheron4952 2 роки тому +17

      Love it, that was the perfect way to shut that Narcissistic demon up.

    • @dswannbeautyartist
      @dswannbeautyartist 2 роки тому +5

      😂😂😂

    • @simonw9332
      @simonw9332 2 роки тому +12

      Gotta love it when they suddenly go into a rage cause u figured them out good for u mate 👍

    • @ms.angieb.1597
      @ms.angieb.1597 2 роки тому +6

      Amen my sister!🙏

  • @jewelmathewson2997
    @jewelmathewson2997 2 роки тому +16

    How did my ex diagnosed with NPD get over me, he married his new supply, got a new job with lots of new supply.
    He never had complete control over me for 11 years.
    He never got my money, my soul or my mind, only my heart! I won.

  • @surfshack2
    @surfshack2 2 роки тому +144

    The cycle has to continue with every supply because that's how the disorder operates in order to control. The disorder has to control the supply. That is how they get the fuel that they need. The need for fuel has to be satisfied in order for them to cope and operate. The supplies feelings don't matter. It has nothing to do with you so don't take it personal. You are dealing with a machine that has targeted , baited and tried to take you over and destroy who you are in order to control you and secure you for a supply source. It's not really difficult to figure out , it's just that when you are in love (or think you are in love or have a special bond) with this person, you are not dealing with a person really but a demonic spirit that needs fuel in order to operate and control. If you try to reason or try to keep loving this person it will eventually drive you crazy.
    Be very careful who you let in your circle.

    • @deefletcher8148
      @deefletcher8148 2 роки тому +8

      Facts

    • @cheekslord1222
      @cheekslord1222 2 роки тому

      Facts it’s a demonic spirit. The devil seeks to destroy gif creation which is man. The devil he was a lier from the beginning he deceived the whole world.

    • @cheekslord1222
      @cheekslord1222 2 роки тому

      Facts it’s a demonic spirit. The devil seeks to destroy gif creation which is man. The devil he was a lier from the beginning he deceived the whole world.

    • @janmansour4313
      @janmansour4313 2 роки тому

      I’ve been saying all along that it’s Demonic! He’s infested and I believe the strongman is Jezebel .. THANK YOU

    • @shenika1979
      @shenika1979 2 роки тому +12

      So true. This spirit told me I was not a gem to him AFTER I have helped him on numerous occasions, loyal, there when he needed me. Smh. It was to think he was breaking my spirit. It's not his to break. No matter how hard he tried. He will never be unblocked. It's an evil spirit. I feel this.

  • @aboriginaleveything
    @aboriginaleveything 2 роки тому +82

    It's almost been two years since the disgard. And I still get calls from odd numbers. If by chance I answer they just hang up. That clown lost grad a supply when I got out. They are unstable absolutely. But that's no longer my concern, I more concerned about my healing and putting that period of my life in the rear veiw as far as possible.😌

    • @lg2different
      @lg2different 2 роки тому +7

      Facts 💯

    • @liv_my_life6947
      @liv_my_life6947 2 роки тому +8

      Same here...all kinds of app numbers..fake!

    • @nicolataylor536
      @nicolataylor536 2 роки тому +7

      Same...

    • @amessinadress9340
      @amessinadress9340 2 роки тому

      In a couple of weeks it will be a year that I DISCARDED HIM! I went NO CONTACT FOREVER and BLOCKED HIM FOR LIFE! After I found out he had been stepping out our whole relationship! He has not seen or heard from me again since that day! He did try to Hoover about a month out! Epic Fail on his part. That is when I BLOCKED him! Yesterday I got a Random message on my Instagram. Weird because I am not following him or him me! The message said I am glad my pain makes you happy🤔 Pain Seriously? They always play the victim 🙄 I guess the Pain I went through was Situational and I brushed it off! BOY PLEASE go sit in a corner somewhere! Watch this .......... Total Silence Moron Double Standards game I don't play! Haha he must be low on Supplies! Doing a Temperature Check!! NOT TODAY SATAN OR EVER AGAIN! BYE😂

    • @ms.s1321
      @ms.s1321 2 роки тому +2

      I wish I could say two years. My situation is unfair. Find a good lawyer to get this fake marriage out of my life. I'm doing good going no contact for 4 months and 11 days. A week ago, I got a text from a strange number. It was him. I thank Yah for delivering me from this wicked narcissist. I'm healing and getting better each day.

  • @ms.angieb.1597
    @ms.angieb.1597 2 роки тому +71

    They never change..will do same thing with the next one. I discarded him!

  • @thelightworker01
    @thelightworker01 2 роки тому +41

    Apparently there’s a narc supply shortage- ex narc hovered me after 3 days showed up unannounced, and asked for closure. Hell no I told him to close the door that’s the only closure you need.

  • @michaeltaylor9096
    @michaeltaylor9096 2 роки тому +31

    When I got discarded. Then I took the hoover fell in the trap. She told she was confused. I went back. I DISCARDED HER. IM NOT CONFUSED. SHE IS ALL THAT N SOME!! A FOOL N CRAZY. IM DONE

  • @newseason4417
    @newseason4417 2 роки тому +43

    Pray for me🙏, ex narc started back hovering last night.... dropped off flowers in the middle of the night, I threw them out. I've been free almost 1yr and it was the best decision of my life.

    • @empress9857
      @empress9857 2 роки тому +4

      Wow a yr nc and they did that wow that’s crazy and sickening 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @pigletcookie8242
      @pigletcookie8242 2 роки тому +2

      That’s so scary crap. I am praying for you

    • @DOTMH_1
      @DOTMH_1 2 роки тому

      My husband who left ne is the most dirty way violated the Restraining order and did a fake pocket call left a 3 minute recording of him walking the gag is the last time we talk was about a year ago so i should not be in his call log, and he also called at 12:16 pm my birthday is 12:16. He's creepy and weird.

    • @dmarcusfuture
      @dmarcusfuture 2 роки тому +1

      I'm willing to help you in anyway that I can, from my perspective, learning what makes them tick is a big plus. Because I thought I was just crazy, now I know that they are demonic an anything but normal, walk away asap! You are in my prayers an thoughts. If I could tell you some of the things I went through surely you may gain the strength to discard. Keep your head up.

  • @sadangel7334
    @sadangel7334 2 роки тому +20

    Thank you. It’s been a couple of years since I 100% left him alone. He’s been recently sentenced to 56 years, 4 months, to Life for 1st degree murder. God bless you❤️

    • @icalotdonthide2646
      @icalotdonthide2646 Рік тому +7

      Praise God that you got out and stayed out. Death was not your portion.

  • @desertangelfish140
    @desertangelfish140 8 місяців тому +2

    I live in the country and he showed up at my place once and I saw him through the window taking a 💩in my yard!!

    • @Xyzxyz-pl1jv
      @Xyzxyz-pl1jv 4 місяці тому

      I am on the floor😂😂😂

  • @kylaren6337
    @kylaren6337 2 роки тому +92

    Agreed. They’re confused because they don’t understand why you discarded them after all the shit they did to you or why they discarded you and you didn’t chase them.

    • @kimberlys347
      @kimberlys347 2 роки тому +32

      You didn’t chase them. Yea, that part! Lol.

    • @ms.s1321
      @ms.s1321 2 роки тому +6

      Correct!

    • @ms.s1321
      @ms.s1321 2 роки тому +11

      @@kimberlys347
      After 15 years of an emotional torture, I discard him , my final straw. All his family laughed and think I was crazy that I will take him back again. It's been 5 strong months of no contact. I changed my phone number and I stopped talking to his monkeys. I feel good and I am healing. The wonderful part about it all is that my children are healing too. Every man that comes my way I see the red flags. I don't even pay them any attention. I went through so much for 15 years. I divorced him during the 12 years, And he came begging to make it work. An extra 3 years went by of complete silence. Oh they played that good love bombing for a minute and then of course the mask came out. They were worst than the 1st. I am so glad I can say it is over. I will never go back to that depression. Aint no man will ever put me through that depression state again. Stay safe my lady.

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Рік тому

      @@ms.s1321 🎯🎯🎯

    • @UndergroundCommenter
      @UndergroundCommenter Рік тому +4

      You didn't chase them is right

  • @mhairimckellar1528
    @mhairimckellar1528 Рік тому +8

    My neck was broken by the nark last February and he's still calling me a lunatic. I think sometimes we just have to accept that you can't change these people or even tell them breaking your neck is criminal. I despair of how life is going these days girls, it's certainly a place I don't seem to recognise xx

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Рік тому

      Thank God you didn't die people put him in jail he will kill you the next time

  • @popecurro8023
    @popecurro8023 2 роки тому +53

    👑🥂One of the very first to add demonology & narcissism in the same sentence 💯 opened my eyes to how serious this is , they are everywhere

    • @janmansour4313
      @janmansour4313 2 роки тому +4

      Yes …!! AMEN

    • @donnalathrop9946
      @donnalathrop9946 2 роки тому +8

      Ephesians 6: 12 we do not fight against flesh and blood but of wickedness in spiritual places

  • @efremcharlot9623
    @efremcharlot9623 6 місяців тому +4

    The Narcissist tried to destroy me but im Gods child, failed mission on their part

  • @wanstar1771
    @wanstar1771 2 роки тому +9

    I love when you SANG 🗣🎶If Ya ROCKKKkks With YAAA Girlllll!!! 🎵🎶🥰🥰🥰🫖👑

  • @fionalee7360
    @fionalee7360 2 роки тому +14

    Had a dream the narc was outside my house but there were people who wouldn’t let the narc in. Couldn’t see the faces of these people. Shortly after I started getting the weird 2am calls.

    • @empressb444
      @empressb444 2 роки тому +8

      That was God warning you that he was coming. The people not letting him in was God's way of telling you you're protected and to continue to stand your ground against him

  • @diunjenai
    @diunjenai 2 роки тому +24

    I had a friend that was narcissistic. I confronted her about her behavior and she said she didn't understand what happened. I was wondering how she couldn't understand how messed up her behavior was, because when other people did the same thing she did she knew it was wrong.

  • @lorenal.6003
    @lorenal.6003 2 роки тому +17

    I started watching your videos and I love it because up until now I felt lonely and missing the narcissist thinking that I was wrong but girl let me tell you you made me open up my eyes !!!! Miss who ? Feel guilty why? Because he eat my heart and my life for 12 years ! I will listen to you every day to get on my feet and I recommend you to my girls too! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @roxxannejarrett3551
    @roxxannejarrett3551 2 роки тому +7

    When you talked about the not sleeping do to the demonic presence is what made me subscribe to your page I needed someone else to understand the truth of that. Thank you

  • @ChrisPyle
    @ChrisPyle 2 роки тому +9

    Recycled pigeon gets me every single time lol Thanks for the smile!

  • @alienamarsh3623
    @alienamarsh3623 4 місяці тому +3

    The 13:00 minute marks has ne cracking up, " One demon wanna stay up, the other wanna sleep they can't get on the right sleep schedule" 😂😂😂

  • @neeksweeks
    @neeksweeks 2 роки тому +69

    My ex said he doesn’t like to be alone because he fights with himself. ....Physically 😐. I thought it was a joke but now I know why. ...He’s absolutely crazy

    • @Dajahgraves
      @Dajahgraves 2 роки тому +17

      I’m laughing omg wtf. Are these things fucking demons bruh

    • @pigletcookie8242
      @pigletcookie8242 2 роки тому +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Dam smh

    • @eerynessential
      @eerynessential 2 роки тому +5

      🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂Wowwww..You have to explain more. This is Gold!😂

    • @temposhop8739
      @temposhop8739 2 роки тому +1

      dang lol. I feel a bit bad for them, though

    • @queenb3088
      @queenb3088 Рік тому +1

      Not crazy... EVIL! He's fighting with his demons. And that's not a game; it's a fact! Mine had a psychotic breakdown after a narcissistic collapse and I LITERALLY saw a demon. His eyes had changed... a demon had emerged, and was talking reckless. But, it was powerless over me because I have the Holy Spirit abiding in me. I always marvel at how resistant people are to accepting that demons are REAL. If we accept and believe in goodness why are we so unaccepting of the wickedness in the earth. We're told that the enemy is sent to steal, kill and destroy and that he roams the earth like a lion seeking to devour whom he will. It's written and it's TRUTH.

  • @gemini188
    @gemini188 8 місяців тому +4

    He has too many options. They don’t care.

  • @thereallisa1
    @thereallisa1 2 роки тому +7

    Bless your heart. I did everything for that man. Best thing he will ever have. Loved him unconditionally for years. He abused the hell out of me and said the most horrific things to me even imaginable. 😢 no hoover yet .. been a few weeks ghosted. He sabotaged himself and a million hrs of therapy would not be enough.

  • @ms.angieb.1597
    @ms.angieb.1597 2 роки тому +39

    After I discarded him for hitting me, he went off the chain for six months.. smearing my name, in and out of jail, drinking, bad tempers, rage, etc! Ended up hitting his own neice. Spent 4 hours in jail only… friends with sheriff.. go figure! I thank God for delivering me out of that toxic relationship! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @lutreciawhitfield6892
    @lutreciawhitfield6892 2 роки тому +6

    Stalking me through our children. Where’s your mom, did she buy a house, where is she living Non of your business BIRD! Smh! 2 months, zero contact after 34 years of marriage. Getting my peace back!! Glory be to God!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @mrscee44
      @mrscee44 2 роки тому

      To God be the Glory 🙌🏽

    • @empressb444
      @empressb444 2 роки тому

      That's ridiculous he's using them. Have a talk with the kids and explain to them the importance of not leaking any info to him and tell the kids whatever questions he ask them to reply back with "ASK MOM."

  • @johnnymccottrell8040
    @johnnymccottrell8040 2 роки тому +4

    Let them fall into whatever is there for them. Don't care, don't give in, don't respond periodt!

    • @johnnymccottrell8040
      @johnnymccottrell8040 Рік тому +1

      I had to take my own advice. The individual reached out to me through Facebook and I almost slipped thinking maybe the changed, matured, but I had to tell me , Dont.do it boy!

  • @michwashington
    @michwashington 2 роки тому +14

    You had me dying with a million hours of therapy 😂

  • @catherinev53
    @catherinev53 Рік тому +2

    An exorcism yes! Ain't nothing else going to help them 😂😂😂😂

  • @darkndlovly3
    @darkndlovly3 2 роки тому +11

    I had one who said they wanted to be with me, I said no, then he asked could we be friends, I said yeah then he ghosted me… then I started ignoring him and he played victim, then ghosted me again 😂😂 I’m like oh I know what this is! I been watching Auntie videos for a while now! Goodbye!! 😂

  • @aldenduffieldIII
    @aldenduffieldIII 8 місяців тому +1

    I absolutely LOVE the healing wisdom you’re sharing. Feed me young lady!
    Thank you from the Interior Smokies of East TN.

  • @farah4983
    @farah4983 2 роки тому +20

    Family, our unresolved past made us desperate which allowed the narc to take advantage. When we pour that love and affection into ourself and begin to heal, when we encounter toxic individuals the red flags will not be ignored. Because our resolve will become sturdy and unpenetrable. Praise God for his guidance and to communities like this that provide support and knowledge.

  • @soultrynicole8443
    @soultrynicole8443 2 роки тому +7

    This is so on point! A fool despises wisdom OMG! BABY!! When I say you have read that demon...a perpetual complainer...going in cycles in toxic relationships...playing the victim and the list goes on. I have been so drained and now I am fed up. Cut! Door closed! You wont snuff out my great ebergy anymore! Thank you thank you thank you!!!

  • @kb847
    @kb847 11 місяців тому +1

    I love your channel.. u make me laugh and give me hope.. my current situation. I discarded mine after one wk of giving birth to my second child.. and he’s already w someone else (2m) NO CONTACT and looking fwd w/ all my might! And yes he was up the whole night and on types of sleeping meds and he abuses pills as well.. he did .. he blamed me for everything.. but I’m too strong minded to even believe this… it hurts bc I gave him 2 kids but ima keep myself and my kids away from him and his flying monkeys.. his family (the enablers) especially his Mom.. doing voodoo on me and him.. true evil they all are..

  • @toniacompton1091
    @toniacompton1091 8 місяців тому +1

    You have given me a much deeper understanding on this situation. I want to thank you so much for this insight.
    God bless you.🙏🙏

  • @karadodge7118
    @karadodge7118 2 роки тому +30

    Wow......you said it! I sometimes have wondered if the narc was really confused or if it was all just an act............ And you nailed it.......the different demons are throwing a tantrum cause some want to go to bed and the others ones don't....lolol...........This was so helpful!

  • @gabriellemaes4078
    @gabriellemaes4078 Рік тому +14

    You are absolutely hilarious. When I watch your videos I immediately feel so much better it’s like I’m with a good friend. Thank you so much for all you do. And you are so right about them not doing better after they leave you or after in my case I left him because I got tired of being kicked and punched and pushed and interrogated for hours for merely looking at a guy when in fact it was hit him that was cheating the whole time. I finally left and he immediately started dating another woman this was after 16 years of marriage. He started dating somebody literally a few days after I left. He moved in with her almost right away. Several months ago I got a message from this woman’s daughter very concerned about her mother. She felt that her mother was being abused but isolated and she was very worried and she asked me if he was OK or not. Well I got my moment of glory and it was sad and at the same time confirming for me. Sad because I don’t like the idea of another woman suffering like that because I know how much I suffered. And at the same time itIt confirmed that I was justified leaving.

  • @lg2different
    @lg2different 2 роки тому +9

    I been in a lot of relationships in my life an I never been in something like this …. This wasn’t normal 🤨🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life.
    @JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life. 2 роки тому +34

    You're absolutely right about their confusion at the time of discard, Sis. For 2 weeks before it happened, he was constantly sending me selfies and videos of himself while he was on the road. He was crying in all of them. Telling me how much he was missing me, and wanted to be here with me. He'd say that he loved me so much and needed to hug me tight. Or..... he'd be insanely excited and giddy. But all of that crying! At the time, I couldn't figure it out.
    Now that I'm far past that discard and fully no contact, I believe (in retrospect) that he was so utterly confused. He had already sucked in his new supply and was ready to monkey branch over to her....but, y'all, he's such A GODLY MAN! Oh yeah, he wanted her badly, but she's not a believer and he'd already said that he'd only be with a Godly woman. I honestly think that he thought he could force her into his beliefs, so that he could continue to play his "Godly man" part. Hahaha....
    He'd say strange things that I didn't understand at the time, like, "Audrene, I love that you pray over me day and night. Pray for me now, Baby. You're my good woman. You love me so much." Then he'd push away. Yep. I believe he was scared to make the jump. He knew what he was leaving behind, but he wanted her.
    See? Just reading that is confusing! But that's how these spirits work! From a place of confusion and contradiction. That is how you know that it is NOT OF GOD. That's from the ENEMY because he's a LIAR!
    Sis Telsha, God has anointed you for this time. I'm giving Him praise and glory for that! From all of us that God has used you to help, and for those coming out behind us, that He'll also help through you...
    We appreciate you and we love you! God bless you Telsha! 💗🙏🏼

    • @jenniferhaynes8625
      @jenniferhaynes8625 2 роки тому +7

      As a Christian woman it breaks my heart when people: use",Christianity and they are not Christians, they are false Saints to manipulate the true Saints to take away their virtues.

    • @JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life.
      @JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life. 2 роки тому +1

      @@jenniferhaynes8625 I agree with that 100 percent. When I was out there whining to people about wanting a Godly husband, and a covenant marriage, Satan heard that, and he assigned this "Christian" man to come into my life. Sweep me off my unbalanced feet, and take me down that road to perdition. Fornication. Idolatry.
      The devil is a liar! And a THIEF. I'm done letting him steal from me!

    • @hr2r805
      @hr2r805 2 роки тому +1

      @@jenniferhaynes8625
      Narcissists are full of EVIL in their HEART...
      They are under the influence of SATANIC
      Influence 👹 that
      make THEM enjoy
      what THEY do...
      • Full Misery is
      is within THEM...
      • The ONLY way THEY
      feel better is ROB
      the GOOD out of
      the "Object" they
      are attacking....
      •••••••••••••••••••••••
      • No Contact •
      • is one's #1 •
      • WEAPON •
      •••••••••••••••••••••••
      • NOTHING •
      •••••••••••••••••••••••
      • Vengeance is mine
      • Thus says the Lord...
      • Let God - Let Go
      •••••••••••••••••••••••••
      • Allow only God to
      • let His Sovereignty
      • serve Justice as
      • that Narcissist
      • "Reaping what they • Sowed" - Leaving
      • You with "Peace of • Mind" and a "Clear
      • Conscience"...
      •••••••••••••••••••••••••••
      • (" No Contact ") •
      •••••••••••••••••••••••••••

    • @2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1
      @2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1 2 роки тому +1

      @@jenniferhaynes8625 Profoundly stated!

  • @antoniojohnson285
    @antoniojohnson285 2 роки тому +15

    You described my ex after the breakup. She ended our relationship but told me I shouldn’t move on but instead wait on her. When she saw I moved on and she didn’t have control over me. She did everything you said. Calling from block numbers and telling people she still love me. I done and never looking back!

  • @Shesmooth28
    @Shesmooth28 2 роки тому +31

    I’m almost 1 year and half since my narc situation and I’m so blessed I walked away that last time and never looked back and couldn’t pay me enough to deal with that demon thank god I ran into my wife which has been a completely different situation I really
    lucked🍀 up I tell you

  • @Shawn2689.
    @Shawn2689. 2 роки тому +9

    My whole family is made up of malignant narcissists that have slandered my name to dentists, gas station attendants, indeed, and my employers and coworkers. I'm not holding my breath on forming long term relationships with women in particular cause then they'd eventually want to meet the "fam" I just hope I can escape one day and I'm curious how many empaths just stay single after being in a narcissistic relationship.

  • @lucrishamcallister410
    @lucrishamcallister410 2 роки тому +8

    He gave my mother a dining room set and set it up in her garage. A way of controlling. He knew I parked in the garage when I stayed over……. I marched it right to the alley. The sleep part just confirmed what I saw. I would literally sit up and watch him squirm, toss and turn with a sad moan. I’m convinced now he was fighting demons within👹Exorcism ☠️

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Рік тому

      That's too crazy 🤣🤣🤣

  • @designatedblack9696
    @designatedblack9696 4 місяці тому +1

    Hahaha...recycled pidgeons...luv it!

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 2 роки тому +3

    This channel is Golden!!! They always play the victim....their goal is to destroy you.

  • @js-gstrength4190
    @js-gstrength4190 2 роки тому +7

    The last thing she said to me was that she had a future that she was beautiful and that she had love in her life. All of those things was the things that I had. Thinking about it now. She never ever acknowledged my worth to what I really was

    • @chazbickel4518
      @chazbickel4518 2 роки тому +2

      They are masters of hurtful words, and you are right JS. They see your worth as their own. All of the things you have they do not. They never will. Keep in the light.

  • @deleshiadavis4326
    @deleshiadavis4326 2 роки тому +6

    My ex just tried to hoover again twice this past week by texting from new numbers. I promptly blocked the new numbers. It’s been like 4 years and he still sidles back when he’s going through something. Mostly when the new supply isn’t supplying what he needs. It’s sad because I can just imagine how many of his other ex’s his doing the same way. It’s sickening to think about to be honest!

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 Рік тому +1

    "Gone ham, egg, and cheese on the family". 😄

  • @alexandriaderamus1660
    @alexandriaderamus1660 2 роки тому +8

    Whew this is was my ex .. he is definitely demonic .. I blocked him so he won’t bring my sprit down to the ground … being with a narcissistic is extremely exhausting.. I’m 10 weeks pregnant and I’m protecting my energy at all cost … my baby is a blessing but I wished I never believed his lies .. 😭when you’re a highly highly highly sensitive empath you need to stay away from people like that .. they’ll tear you down until you can’t stand it any longer ..

    • @Justhavefaith-
      @Justhavefaith- 2 роки тому +2

      I went through the same as you or worse. Prayer saved me

    • @alexandriaderamus1660
      @alexandriaderamus1660 2 роки тому +2

      @@Justhavefaith- prayer is saving me too .

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Рік тому +2

      If it wasn't for God's grace he would have killed me a long time ago

  • @jochosen3969
    @jochosen3969 2 роки тому +17

    "What just happened here, I loss another one?" Yes Narc, "I caught on to your mess and I have your number now." Door 🚪 closed!!

  • @delightfuldeb1218
    @delightfuldeb1218 2 роки тому +20

    So true, Telsha! Mine bought a shack paid cash in another state - didn't tell me! Also, ripped out all the plants/trees I planted in his yard when we were married as soon as I moved out. When I went no contact for almost 3 months, he got mad that I didn't call him on his birthday so the next day he filed for divorce. His brother spent a week with him trying to help him fix his shack and he said something is very very wrong with him mentally. He said he was on eggshells the whole week and he is very concerned about him now. He even had a family meeting over him - this was when I was no contact, so that tells me he was going crazy because I wasn't talking to him.. Even though he had the neighbor lady on the side, so evidentally she wasn't making him happy. Now he can have her 24/7!!!. Addicted to dope (smoked it all day and all during the night!!!) I went no contact when he told me the neighbor lady has been coming over and his bed smelled like cig smoke really bad. Disowned the whole family - he has no idea what's going on with me and I feel good about that, but still sad about the whole thing!

    • @bridgesbridges7179
      @bridgesbridges7179 2 роки тому +1

      Lol, I decided not to celebrate his next month.

    • @delightfuldeb1218
      @delightfuldeb1218 2 роки тому +1

      @@bridgesbridges7179 Good for you! You should do something fun and treat yourself that day!

    • @bridgesbridges7179
      @bridgesbridges7179 2 роки тому +1

      @@delightfuldeb1218 lol, good suggestion. I most definitely will.

  • @MillMill-fv1xo
    @MillMill-fv1xo 9 місяців тому +1

    I just love you. Thank you❤

  • @Bo00si33
    @Bo00si33 2 роки тому +3

    He doesn't. He's lost without me 😂😂😭

  • @louveniabutler9202
    @louveniabutler9202 11 місяців тому +1

    Wow you r right point thank god I’m out but wow I felt like u where right with me but it’s been 1 since me and my daughters been gone. I was with him for 10 years

  • @CAROLYN143-8-9
    @CAROLYN143-8-9 2 роки тому +30

    I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU MISS TELSHA. YOU TALKED ABOUT A TOPIC THAT I EXPERIENCED. THEY WILL ATTACK YOUR CHARACTER ( PROJECTING) 👈 REAL TALK.. LACK ACCOUNTABILITY, OWNERSHIP AND RESPONSIBILITY. PROMISCUOUS IS SOOOOO TRUE 👀, 15 YRS NARC FREE, I'M SO HAPPY I LEFT HIM HALLELUJAH 💃💃💃

  • @gratitudeandselfthinking
    @gratitudeandselfthinking 2 роки тому +3

    I finally put my foot down and stop dealing with this narc completely, but now my family members are being hoover by the narc.

    • @empressb444
      @empressb444 2 роки тому

      Have a group meeting and tell them all what's going on and why he's doing it.

  • @pigletcookie8242
    @pigletcookie8242 2 роки тому +4

    Narcissistic free since November 2021 no contact 👀 Praise God I turned to Jesus & therapy to set me free❤️I am loving me now and will never go back to what almost destroyed me 👍Sending prayers to all suffering in silence

  • @andraewilliams6429
    @andraewilliams6429 2 роки тому +4

    My dear you have spoken the absolute truth I experienced the things you said, keep speaking this truth....

  • @veryrareshit4149
    @veryrareshit4149 2 роки тому +8

    It’s crazy because I was called the narcissist but I’m not the narcissist.. my ex is, she devauled me and discarded me after a dropped call.. she thought I put her on hold and she flipped out on me.. she brought up things that happened weeks ago and made me feel like the worst person ever.. I never experienced that before… I was at work and I had a panic attack because she just kept texting me and I really wanted to talk on the phone.. man she crossed my boundaries and baited me into accepting what she felt.. I never felt like such an idiot.

  • @bellezanegra0206
    @bellezanegra0206 2 роки тому +7

    I found this right on time. Just discovered my cheating ex is a narc. This was much needed education and levity. Thank you for this.

  • @ess1954
    @ess1954 2 роки тому +8

    You are so true and refreshing. I absolutely love how straight up you are. I am a white woman and you so speak my language. God bless Sister.

  • @christyliberge4189
    @christyliberge4189 7 місяців тому +1

    And Now they Changed. Please Take Me Back. I'M A NEW MAN.

    • @Ronald-pz1lx
      @Ronald-pz1lx 7 місяців тому +1

      Don't believe it it's still the same person STARTING SHIX AND DRAMA, ATTENTION

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 2 місяці тому

    They get so ruthless & cold during the devaluing, i WILL NEVER forget the distain the X husband had towards me

  • @nl7504
    @nl7504 2 роки тому +2

    No coping for a narc. They move on b4 their bags are packed

  • @Anonymous-vk5bt
    @Anonymous-vk5bt 2 роки тому +3

    Flying monkeys are the worst.

  • @yuhheard.6391
    @yuhheard.6391 2 роки тому +4

    YOUR ENERGY IS EVERYTHING!!!!😍😍😍😊😊😊💓💓💓💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @aimeehylaris5820
    @aimeehylaris5820 Рік тому

    You'd think that they'd be tired of this cycle. How can anyone live like that without being empty on the inside? That must be exhausting!

  • @metavio7
    @metavio7 10 місяців тому +1

    Soooooo true my ex told me she hid in the bushes hahaha

  • @laurensmith5076
    @laurensmith5076 2 роки тому +1

    No more good cuisine type meals because the new supply can't cook and they deserve somebody who can't cook smh.

  • @Goddesigned
    @Goddesigned 2 роки тому +3

    Such a good doggie!!!! Doesn't distract and so calm. Awe puppie!!!

  • @robdiesel9932
    @robdiesel9932 2 роки тому +2

    This is unreal... Never heard this before realizing what just happened.... Sad

  • @chilo597
    @chilo597 10 місяців тому +1

    1 time he said...i dont know why i am the way i am. I have so much aggresion in my body. I have issues.

  • @Stacey-s3s
    @Stacey-s3s 7 днів тому

    I love how you call them pigeons…

  • @JGlass-os5th
    @JGlass-os5th 2 роки тому +4

    You have a true gift from God.

  • @simonw9332
    @simonw9332 2 роки тому +4

    This woman is spot on 👍

  • @deefletcher8148
    @deefletcher8148 2 роки тому +12

    So very true, my ex said he don’t know why he keep losing people

    • @janmansour4313
      @janmansour4313 2 роки тому

      I said to him on a couple of occasions.. look at the common denominator.. IT’S YOU.. in one ear out the other.. oh well, I tried

  • @pressncurl
    @pressncurl 2 роки тому +13

    Your videos keep me on my square. So grateful for the wisdom and the laughter. Thank you so much! ❤

  • @ashtonandthehelms2777
    @ashtonandthehelms2777 5 місяців тому

    Oh gosh did I holler when you said that’s why they can’t sleep 😂. I swear that is so true

  • @stephaniewilliams9890
    @stephaniewilliams9890 Рік тому +1

    I don't want any parts of that..his wish was finally granted. He is dead to me and I'm fine with that.

  • @jamainedingle4639
    @jamainedingle4639 2 роки тому +1

    They mess up your finances on the way out

  • @laquintaford6092
    @laquintaford6092 Рік тому +1

    I don’t care what someone who tries to kill me is going through

  • @denisemariani6958
    @denisemariani6958 2 роки тому

    I fully appreciate your language because my most Beloved,the Word ,is inspiring you.

  • @jaybrick8973
    @jaybrick8973 2 роки тому +1

    they are confused probably because they feel they are never wrong an always play the victim

  • @reneepalmer3969
    @reneepalmer3969 Рік тому +1

    This is very helpful in getting away from the narcissist

  • @kieranoconnor333
    @kieranoconnor333 5 місяців тому

    I’ve been feeling in denial about it all recently, but there’s no denying that you just described my exact experience with the nex!
    Peace 🙏

  • @Mr93sharpei
    @Mr93sharpei 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you 😊
    Your co-host is beautiful. .I I just lost my little white poohuahua, Fancy....yours reminds me of her ...

  • @yvonnewhite5798
    @yvonnewhite5798 2 роки тому +4

    Girl you nailed this hilarious video! My x birdbrain narc has been calling me from strange numbers for three years since the Disgard . Recently I got an unknown “supposedly wrong number” and I knew it was this guy when he asked me to forgive him for wrong number! Busted! My reply D ….Don’t ever contact me again! Unknown response Why? He’s creepy and I won’t even be with this nut again in life

  • @theresabullock3241
    @theresabullock3241 2 роки тому +3

    I love seeing your doggie on your lap. I love animals and she is so cute! Thank you for all you do Telsha!

  • @delightfuldeb1218
    @delightfuldeb1218 2 роки тому +1

    Oh yes, he went in on me! I was shocked - couldn't believe this other person came out of him!

  • @tanyagamble3432
    @tanyagamble3432 2 роки тому

    These swamp creatures are ridiculous it’s been almost 2 yrs Aug 4 th I’m still getting these fake friend request from ppl with no profile pic , BLOCKED