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I wish I could do that. My roommate is a narssacist shrew. She tricked me into .moving here in a tiny town. 150 miles from my ho.e in Dallas. Sheakes my life a living hell, but I have no transportation so I'm stuck. Thank you Rebecca for your help dealing with this!
@@daleidsogood4217 I’m happy you slayed. I’m doing everything as far as getting things like important things and keys back first I took my spare car key off their key ring it was noticeable I just said simply mine battery was low and I’m not going to the dealership anytime soon and tomorrow I’ll be taking the house key off as well and then no contact I will go from there. 🤞🏽 When they say you need to have a plan you really need to have a plan even if they intercept the first plan plan again until you get away is my best advice .
Keep going with it! It didn't hit me til after useless vows were exchanged! It's a heck of a story, but I implore you, if you feel the same, cut if off NOW! You'll be amazed at how you will feel! Love yourself FIRST, my friend!!
Thank Rebecca, I know you have had to get down and dirty with these types of people and you understand them from the inside out . Love your videos, they have helped us so much 🙏
I just left 2 weeks ago. He's already turned all of our mutual friends against me. I realize though that I am NOT who he says I am but who my GOD says I am. That's where my focus and purpose lies. Does it hurt? Yes, absolutely, but I'm reminded there are more people in my town to find new friends. So I'm developing a new support base!!
The beginning was sheer bliss, after a while that stopped. In the end, I was the worst thing that could’ve happened to her, so she’s telling everyone in social media. I corrected that, a lot of people said they could see it unwinding. Now she’s quiet on social media, still totally blocked and absolutely no contact. Sit back and enjoy the train wreck that they are.
I'm divorcing my covert narcissist wife. She is really slick at points, but she gets very loose with her mouth and emails. Thank god I had good friends telling me what to do. Notes, record, conversations, and get my child into counseling so she doesn't weaponize the daughter. My lawyer never told me any if this unfortunately
Three day's ago I left narcissist. Within less than two hour's, his flying monkey's were repeating his "smear campaign". I don't care and cut off contact with flying monkey's. One is blowing up my phone with calls and text's. I have chosen to ignore. Still trying to heal and realize I am entitled to peace and contentment. God only knows how long that will take. No more toxic relationships. I will finally be able to let in my "real" friend's who are not toxic. Soaking in my solitude. Good luck to everyone who are still struggling with their narcissistic relationship.
6:33 "But you just got to make sure that you are prepared ahead of time." So true. Once you understand their pattern, you're going to win. “I can slay this.”
I just want you to know that these videos are simply AMAZING, and bring sooo much insight to understanding what’s going on in real time life scenarios. I stand with you and applaud 👏 your work and efforts. Bless you for what you’re doing.
I'm a male, stay at home dad for 3.5 yeas. I'm going through it right now and I think the is a covert narcissist. 9 months after filing and we didn't get anywhere. She broke every court order so far, spent all of our money, changed bank accounts, didn't pay alimony the 1st month. Her attorney told the judge I was harassing her over my daughter being with a nanny instead of the mother or father. I SHOWED NO REACTION IN COURT WHEN SHE SAID THAT, after the judge chewed me out, her attorney said he wasn't harassing her but my client felt like she was being harassed 😂😂😂. Then my lawyer stepped in and said your honor what the other council didn't mention is there is no 4 hr grace period that was put in place so my client was in every right to ask about the child. The judge changed and looked confused like she was played like a fiddle... The judge put the 4 hr grace period in and then the ex's council asked to change the custody days.... judge didn't even look at her and said absolutely not you asked for what you got in the 1st hearing... 😂 We will see how it turns out
We were at our settlement meeting this last week. It was such a waste. The Judge was a bias woman with a chip on her shoulder, trying to tell me about my womanhood, and just slammed me. When I told my sons about it, they were passed, they will be writing her a letter, and put her in her bias-s place. Lol my attorney made me believe i was going to get what the law says I could get, but when I get there he said a judge isn't going to give me that. Aren't they supposed to uphold the law and make sure we both get a fair Negotiation. My husband didn't even speak or see the Judge. It was a sick, Expensive and a waste of time. But I learned a lot. Don't trust Judges and some attorneys. 🤯🤯
I made a decision bcs I knew my attorney had no idea the s*it show we were in for. So knowing I was being spayed on I told everyone I would not settle for less than X dollars, in the mediation stage he offered just under what I said I would accept. Only thing he didn’t expect, I took his first offer and God My Life back. It is enough, he made out with most the material goods but I got my life back! I only wish I’d known about Rebecca Zung, then. But am still Grateful I got Out! I slayed it!!!🤙😳😂😂
I'm a male, stay at home dad for 3.5 yeas. I'm going through it right now. 9 months after filing and didn't get anywhere. She broke every court order so far, spent all of our money, changed bank accounts, didn't pay alimony the 1st month. Her attorney told the judge I was harassing her over my daughter being with a nanny instead of the mother or father. I SHOWED NO REACTION IN COURT WHEN SHE SAID THAT, after the judge chewed me out, her attorney said he wasn't harassing her but my client felt like she was being harassed 😂😂😂. Then my lawyer stepped in and said your honor what the other council didn't mention is there is no 4 hr grace period that was put in place so my client was in every right to ask about the child. The judge changed and looked confused like she was played like a fiddle... The judge put the 4 hr grace period in and then the ex's council asked to change the custody days.... judge didn't even look at her and said absolutely not you asked for what you got in the 1st hearing... 😂
I told her how well I’ve done and that I feel so much better in myself before blocking her and going no contact. Don’t know what her reaction will be because she’s lured me back in before as well
You have hit the mail on the head.Every thing your saying is so right.Discribes my ex.to the tee.I have had no contact with him in over a year.Ive blocked him from any contact.So he tried to contact my family to get in touch with me.He left 6 yrs ago for a women in Mexico on line love.He is her problem now.But I don't know why he tried,even after so long .I'm still legally married to him.Im single and on disability.I cannot afford it on my own.The important thing is he is not my problem anymore.I don't have to go thru that horror.Thank you Rebecca, I have learned a lot from you.
My narcissistic dad doesn't know I am ignoring him!(nil to no-contact/block of his number on my phone). He doesn't get that I don't give a damn(thanks, Rhett Butler, for that line!)
This is the not mother in law to the letter lol!! Trying to accuse me of being a junkie.....yeah. I operate computers along with heavy machinery... uhhh.... I would lose my job.. whatta fuckin freakshow asshole. I'm already planning the escape route. Pray for my disabled hubby and i please!!! Holy 💩!! Stay awesome!! This one's gotta God complex!!! A biligerent hater with absolutely zero shame. What a jerk.
I could see the writing on the wall so I made the first move. Hell broke loose. I received a very nasty txt from her then I was instantly blocked everywhere. WOW, what a relief, she’s gone.
My son verbally attacked me....sent 21 unanswered texts..called 3 times in15 minutes...9 months later he texted and wanted to see me..told him no..when he cut off the hatred...grew up and treated me with respect I would take it under consideration..he blocked me on the spot..haven't heard from him in 10 months...I'd like to Thank him for his gift of silence..but I won't
I asked her to read a book, attend therapy and resolve the issue with her narcy friend triangle point. Then I gave her a Day of Reckoning. Address her friend, who just so happened to be her male obsession cult leader (she never told me he was an ex. Coverts have sexes with exes and she hated his wife). On the "Da of Reckoning" she told me she would "break up" with him. That night I dreamed of being with her with the clarity betrayal is all she knows. I called her in the AM and to say we're done and to never contact me. She deserved no explanation and she did react or ask for one. Her true self showed in that moment. I was just an object of her processes with no feelings for me. Two days earlier her bestie got a similar text stating send no more. She knew what was coming. I don't credit her with intelligence but she damn sure knows how to read a partner.
My narcissistic brother gets furious if he gets your voice mail and you don't immediately return his call. He will leave angry voice mails and deny saying what was left in those voice mails.
I am actively slaying this as I type this. She has damaged my family and my income just to feed he own ego. She will soon learn that she has barked up the wrong tree. I have externsive experience with this sort of personality type through both my family and professonal life, yet I tire of this interaction and just want it to be over. The only thing that motivates me to keep going on to adress this issue is the preservation of my family life and my ability to create a future for my self and the people that rely on me for their futures.
Perfectly said...!! Thank you. !! Slay. NARC's..!! We should talk. I really got em especially since listening to all who are on the same page...not the NARC's page..or their flying monkeys.....etc.. God put me in this to Win..!!
I rejected him after 2 years and he took the revenge badly did fake recordings to manipulate the things to show he is not a loser now I am surviving with the baggage for the language he used and the way he abused now I have panic attacks it’s worst what they do to you …. But I am trying to heal
If only I could get away from all of them!!! A whole family of sibs & their spouses (6 of them) who have lied, cheated, stolen, etc. to friends, family and lawyers!!!
One lady made a suggestion that some of us should stop researching narcissism. Well, I got caught up in it again and I'm back researching because her intentions are to make me crazy. I don't know if this is bs or not, but her girlfriend told me she was flying back to India to marry this Indian guy she met while over there for medical reasons. I was shocked initially but then started laughing and wondering who she is intending to hurt this time? She is 43 and never married. I've cut all contact but that girlfriend I met for other reasons and not romantic, it was about my artwork.
I’m curious to if one just says to them “I know your characteristics of narcissism and im just not going to give you any money.”…..? I’ve gotten the love bombing to pull me back. Wouldn’t she just go to the there next source. She has those “I want my image to not be tarnished”. Funny the word was out on her long before I came around and heard it over time. It all has been adding up and even with my isolation by her it seeped in.
I met a man on a dating site. I was not having good connections and was over the whole thing. So I up and went silent. He contacted me to see what the problem was. So we started connecting. He seemed like a good man. Well then there were out of the blue weird questions. Many times asking if I could trust a man I met online. There were other times he would keep asking the same things until he would get a rise out of me. Then it was we should be able to say anything to each other. I was ok because I thought he was an honest man. Then out of blue questions started coming. 1. How would you calm yourself down if someone upset you? 2. If you were convicted of a crime would you admit it and accept your mistakes? 3. Could your man trust you? Each time I asked him what kind of question was that. He got so mad. I tried to tell him we haven’t even met. I haven’t had time to show him I was everything I said. He just get more upset making me feel like I shouldn’t be questioning his questions. My gut was upset. So it finally came down to him saying you have just tonight to think over if you want to be in this relationship. The next day I told him relationships weren’t without conflict and everyone was entitled to an opinion. He needed to find a perfect woman and I was not perfect. I even tried again this morning to get him to understand but he wouldn’t budge. I got mad and called him bull headed. He called me a dead rat and a bitch. I typed hahaha and left. Was this man a narcissist? I deleted him but after hearing what you said here. I am scared will he come after me.
Those are Huge red flags , please block him on all levels and move on . I got chills reading as he sounds so much like this psycho Chris who was an ex psychotherapist !! He was obsessed by how many men I'd slept with and asked similar questions to what you've written . Lesson I've learnt now , if I see 1 red flag , I'm out.
The town never does anything and calling them out is like running a hamster wheel. It’s a that’s my story and I’m sticking to it kind of town no matter how people don’t want to live there or visit. Real people go in and move after they get done what they have to do. The town looks bad and so does their country club so it’s not working for them but firewalled itself for so long so it was a solid way of doing things. Had to get it out
Well just cause I was hanging with my Grandbabies my Xlisa Garza cant even be my friend she says everytime I'm Around some1 I forget about her l.ol I never forgot about her she wants me to call her around my kids No I'm not guna do that she as in my X she has her sisters brothers fooled so anyhow lisa thinks I'm deal with her bull💩
Just out of curiosity, how many on here were married to a narcissist and got leukemia? It happened to me. I'm just wondering because leukemia is associated with the emotion of devaluation and narcissist devalue you.
I got breast cancer but I don't blame it on him. I admit stress can cause cancer ext. Bit after many years I started drinking quite a but and I sort of blamed the drinking. Who knows. I've left my husband after 44 years two years ago and can't imagine why I stayed so long except I'm religious and trusted God and still and always will, but I wanted to stay the distance so to speak but in the end I also valued my sanity.
@@monicahocking1507 Breast cancer isn't associated with being devalued like leukemia. It is more associated with taking care of everybody else but yourself. But I hope you beat it. Negative emotions manifest into physical illness no matter where the emotions came from. I was just curious. I was feeling absolutely worthless and unwanted and was crying every day when I got leukemia.
It's been 4 years since someone I considered a good or best friend go no contact with me, so am I the narcissist or her? She always made sure to tell me she was my best friend, and I believed her. I think she figured out, that i wasn't ssying how high when she'd say jump. I don't like that term "best friend" anymore.
It's strange but I'm finding out most of us ask ourselves if WE are the narcissist. I don't believe so but I do believe after many years of living with one you tend to take on some of their traits. But when you do you don't like yourself for it. I think its a natural sorta defence thing. You just have to ge aware of it and stop doing it. That's what I found in my situation.
I did not act this way to be vindictive. I tried to help to no avail, all that did was let her know I knew. This only made her more distant. If she had half a brain, we could’ve gotten through all this but that’s not how they think. I became the enemy. Good riddance FFS. She did however contact me once to tell me about her new supply. I responded with, “That lame brain, oh c’mon, you can do better than that”. The last thing I heard was, she’s going to beat up on me next time she sees me. She knows better than to do that, I believe in equality. ‘You want your rights?, you’d better watch that left, it’s a doozy’. If there are no kids involved, you really have no reason to be there with them. Walk away, everything has improved for me the minute I walked away. It’s sad yes, but hanging around will only make it worse. So many women have said to me, ‘so you’re no longer with that …., good for you’. Life goes on without the confusion, no more treading on egg shells, no more analysis of every word you say incase it offends, no more “yes dear no dear, how high dear?’ Once it starts to go down, there is no recovery. The best thing to do is run as fast as you can in the opposite direction for as long as you can. And don’t go back.
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Yes they help me so much.
I wish I could do that. My roommate is a narssacist shrew. She tricked me into .moving here in a tiny town. 150 miles from my ho.e in Dallas. Sheakes my life a living hell, but I have no transportation so I'm stuck. Thank you Rebecca for your help dealing with this!
I’m engaged to a narcissist and just now about to slay my way out of the whole thing.
I was 5 hours into my marriage when I slayed it!!
@@daleidsogood4217 I’m happy you slayed. I’m doing everything as far as getting things like important things and keys back first I took my spare car key off their key ring it was noticeable I just said simply mine battery was low and I’m not going to the dealership anytime soon and tomorrow I’ll be taking the house key off as well and then no contact I will go from there. 🤞🏽 When they say you need to have a plan you really need to have a plan even if they intercept the first plan plan again until you get away is my best advice .
Keep going with it! It didn't hit me til after useless vows were exchanged! It's a heck of a story, but I implore you, if you feel the same, cut if off NOW! You'll be amazed at how you will feel! Love yourself FIRST, my friend!!
@@TK-wd7de I’m officially 3 weeks out of the relationship and very relieved
RUN!!! Don't walk, thank me later
Narcissists start a smear campaign against you after a no contact decision
Exactly. I was wondering why my sister's neighbor was giving me dirty looks. ??
My mom had a smear campaign against me few times a year when she was alive.
@@IngaCombs That is exactly what they do... - It is not because of you. You made nothing wrong.
@@justbehappyandbless7652 I know...
Thank Rebecca, I know you have had to get down and dirty with these types of people and you understand them from the inside out . Love your videos, they have helped us so much 🙏
It's amazing how easily a narcissist can identify and attack vulnerability. I can slay this.
I slayed. no contact activated 8-15-22 9 year relationship. YOU TUBE is the support system I never had. Thank you!
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I just left 2 weeks ago. He's already turned all of our mutual friends against me. I realize though that I am NOT who he says I am but who my GOD says I am. That's where my focus and purpose lies. Does it hurt? Yes, absolutely, but I'm reminded there are more people in my town to find new friends. So I'm developing a new support base!!
AMENN!!💯💯💯
The beginning was sheer bliss, after a while that stopped.
In the end, I was the worst thing that could’ve happened to her, so she’s telling everyone in social media.
I corrected that, a lot of people said they could see it unwinding.
Now she’s quiet on social media, still totally blocked and absolutely no contact.
Sit back and enjoy the train wreck that they are.
I left my narc wife last September and she's still reeling from it by using our child's needs to exploit me financially. But I will slay this!
I'm divorcing my covert narcissist wife.
She is really slick at points, but she gets very loose with her mouth and emails.
Thank god I had good friends telling me what to do. Notes, record, conversations, and get my child into counseling so she doesn't weaponize the daughter.
My lawyer never told me any if this unfortunately
Tierra please get away from it. ITS TOXIC AND YOU WILL REGRET IT.
Three day's ago I left narcissist. Within less than two hour's, his flying monkey's were repeating his "smear campaign". I don't care and cut off contact with flying monkey's. One is blowing up my phone with calls and text's. I have chosen to ignore. Still trying to heal and realize I am entitled to peace and contentment. God only knows how long that will take. No more toxic relationships. I will finally be able to let in my "real" friend's who are not toxic. Soaking in my solitude. Good luck to everyone who are still struggling with their narcissistic relationship.
6:33 "But you just got to make sure that you are prepared ahead of time."
So true. Once you understand their pattern, you're going to win. “I can slay this.”
Why you want to win against insane behaviour ? Theres nothing to win, just things to learn to adjust your perceiving of truth.
I will not be provoked or moved by my narcissistic brother because it's all his inner projection of his fears and insecurities
I just want you to know that these videos are simply AMAZING, and bring sooo much insight to understanding what’s going on in real time life scenarios. I stand with you and applaud 👏 your work and efforts. Bless you for what you’re doing.
Amen
AGREE💯💯💯💯
I'm a male, stay at home dad for 3.5 yeas.
I'm going through it right now and I think the is a covert narcissist.
9 months after filing and we didn't get anywhere.
She broke every court order so far, spent all of our money, changed bank accounts, didn't pay alimony the 1st month.
Her attorney told the judge I was harassing her over my daughter being with a nanny instead of the mother or father. I SHOWED NO REACTION IN COURT WHEN SHE SAID THAT, after the judge chewed me out, her attorney said he wasn't harassing her but my client felt like she was being harassed 😂😂😂.
Then my lawyer stepped in and said your honor what the other council didn't mention is there is no 4 hr grace period that was put in place so my client was in every right to ask about the child.
The judge changed and looked confused like she was played like a fiddle...
The judge put the 4 hr grace period in and then the ex's council asked to change the custody days.... judge didn't even look at her and said absolutely not you asked for what you got in the 1st hearing... 😂
We will see how it turns out
Don't get emotional
We were at our settlement meeting this last week. It was such a waste. The Judge was a bias woman with a chip on her shoulder, trying to tell me about my womanhood, and just slammed me. When I told my sons about it, they were passed, they will be writing her a letter, and put her in her bias-s place. Lol my attorney made me believe i was going to get what the law says I could get, but when I get there he said a judge isn't going to give me that. Aren't they supposed to uphold the law and make sure we both get a fair Negotiation. My husband didn't even speak or see the Judge. It was a sick, Expensive and a waste of time. But I learned a lot. Don't trust Judges and some attorneys. 🤯🤯
I made a decision bcs I knew my attorney had no idea the s*it show we were in for. So knowing I was being spayed on I told everyone I would not settle for less than X dollars, in the mediation stage he offered just under what I said I would accept. Only thing he didn’t expect, I took his first offer and God My Life back. It is enough, he made out with most the material goods but I got my life back! I only wish I’d known about Rebecca Zung, then. But am still Grateful I got Out! I slayed it!!!🤙😳😂😂
I'm a male, stay at home dad for 3.5 yeas.
I'm going through it right now. 9 months after filing and didn't get anywhere.
She broke every court order so far, spent all of our money, changed bank accounts, didn't pay alimony the 1st month.
Her attorney told the judge I was harassing her over my daughter being with a nanny instead of the mother or father. I SHOWED NO REACTION IN COURT WHEN SHE SAID THAT, after the judge chewed me out, her attorney said he wasn't harassing her but my client felt like she was being harassed 😂😂😂.
Then my lawyer stepped in and said your honor what the other council didn't mention is there is no 4 hr grace period that was put in place so my client was in every right to ask about the child.
The judge changed and looked confused like she was played like a fiddle...
The judge put the 4 hr grace period in and then the ex's council asked to change the custody days.... judge didn't even look at her and said absolutely not you asked for what you got in the 1st hearing... 😂
You nailed this with 100% accuracy. "I CAN slay this!"
I can slay this
Well done Rebecca your spot on you hit the button x
Fantastic info and advice. The only positive to this situation, is that you come out the other side, stronger and wiser. Peace and love to you all.
I can slay this! 🎯EXACTLY!
6:25 Very Good. Nail on Head. Spot On. If you have a conflict with someone and you apply that strategy, You will always come out the winner.
I told her how well I’ve done and that I feel so much better in myself before blocking her and going no contact. Don’t know what her reaction will be because she’s lured me back in before as well
You have hit the mail on the head.Every thing your saying is so right.Discribes my ex.to the tee.I have had no contact with him in over a year.Ive blocked him from any contact.So he tried to contact my family to get in touch with me.He left 6 yrs ago for a women in Mexico on line love.He is her problem now.But I don't know why he tried,even after so long .I'm still legally married to him.Im single and on disability.I cannot afford it on my own.The important thing is he is not my problem anymore.I don't have to go thru that horror.Thank you Rebecca, I have learned a lot from you.
My narcissistic dad doesn't know I am ignoring him!(nil to no-contact/block of his number on my phone). He doesn't get that I don't give a damn(thanks, Rhett Butler, for that line!)
I CAN SLAY THIS !!! Thank you Rebecca. You are a life saver.
Stay strong! ❤
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I can/will slay this! Thank you again Rebecca!
Thank you Rebecca! Spot on as always !
Once a narcissist can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you.
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This is the not mother in law to the letter lol!! Trying to accuse me of being a junkie.....yeah.
I operate computers along with heavy machinery... uhhh.... I would lose my job.. whatta fuckin freakshow asshole. I'm already planning the escape route.
Pray for my disabled hubby and i please!!! Holy 💩!! Stay awesome!!
This one's gotta God complex!!!
A biligerent hater with absolutely zero shame. What a jerk.
Yes.
Right years ago there weren't resources and now there are.
liking how the little dramatic interludes reject the wokist narrative, iykwim
All new to me. But makes sense. I want myself back.
I could see the writing on the wall so I made the first move. Hell broke loose. I received a very nasty txt from her then I was instantly blocked everywhere.
WOW, what a relief, she’s gone.
I hereby pledge to hereby slay and maim my enemies. Thank you for sound advice, human. Vengeance is coming.
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I want to be able to slay them!!! That's why I Listen to You Rebecca!!!
Another awesome video! Thank you !!!👏👏👏💪💪💪
THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME WITH THIS
I CAN SLAY THIS
This is insane, these animals are just Insane. 😂I can slay this.
My son verbally attacked me....sent 21 unanswered texts..called 3 times in15 minutes...9 months later he texted and wanted to see me..told him no..when he cut off the hatred...grew up and treated me with respect I would take it under consideration..he blocked me on the spot..haven't heard from him in 10 months...I'd like to Thank him for his gift of silence..but I won't
I can slay this! Thank you, Rebecca!
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I asked her to read a book, attend therapy and resolve the issue with her narcy friend triangle point. Then I gave her a Day of Reckoning. Address her friend, who just so happened to be her male obsession cult leader (she never told me he was an ex. Coverts have sexes with exes and she hated his wife). On the "Da of Reckoning" she told me she would "break up" with him. That night I dreamed of being with her with the clarity betrayal is all she knows. I called her in the AM and to say we're done and to never contact me. She deserved no explanation and she did react or ask for one. Her true self showed in that moment. I was just an object of her processes with no feelings for me. Two days earlier her bestie got a similar text stating send no more. She knew what was coming. I don't credit her with intelligence but she damn sure knows how to read a partner.
My narcissistic brother gets furious if he gets your voice mail and you don't immediately return his call. He will leave angry voice mails and deny saying what was left in those voice mails.
Im in that no contact now waiting for whats coming ...
I am actively slaying this as I type this. She has damaged my family and my income just to feed he own ego. She will soon learn that she has barked up the wrong tree. I have externsive experience with this sort of personality type through both my family and professonal life, yet I tire of this interaction and just want it to be over. The only thing that motivates me to keep going on to adress this issue is the preservation of my family life and my ability to create a future for my self and the people that rely on me for their futures.
Stay strong! ❤
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I can slay this too i know im mentality stronger because of these videos and from listening to Bruce Lee's mentality strength etc. Thanks
I can slay this . I will say this you are really good looking . I hope that compliment brightens your day !
Rejected and ejected. Now to find a court room shark.
I can SLAY this and I DID!!!!
Perfectly said...!! Thank you. !! Slay. NARC's..!! We should talk. I really got em especially since listening to all who are on the same page...not the NARC's page..or their flying monkeys.....etc.. God put me in this to Win..!!
Slay it baby....
I can SLAY this!
I rejected him after 2 years and he took the revenge badly did fake recordings to manipulate the things to show he is not a loser now I am surviving with the baggage for the language he used and the way he abused now I have panic attacks it’s worst what they do to you …. But I am trying to heal
I CAN SLAY THIS!!
It's on now!
I CAN SLAY THIS!!!!!
If only I could get away from all of them!!! A whole family of sibs & their spouses (6 of them) who have lied, cheated, stolen, etc. to friends, family and lawyers!!!
I can slay this! Btw not sure if there are any metal heads going to be watching, but this reminds me of the song Scavenger of Human Sorrow by Death.
Thanks for sharing! Best video I've watched on this so far. #SurvivorsUnite
Spot on! Thanks. 💪
Narcs don't get better. That's their facade. They can't escape inner needs to control any situation. Be aware!
I can slay this!
I Can Slay This !!!
Please make a video talking about how Narcissists mothers are acting to their only chid daughter, that would be very helpful !
I've been no contact for 5 months, he hasn't tried to contact me, as far as I know. I've had a few restricted calls on my phone. But that's it.
One lady made a suggestion that some of us should stop researching narcissism. Well, I got caught up in it again and I'm back researching because her intentions are to make me crazy.
I don't know if this is bs or not, but her girlfriend told me she was flying back to India to marry this Indian guy she met while over there for medical reasons. I was shocked initially but then started laughing and wondering who she is intending to hurt this time? She is 43 and never married. I've cut all contact but that girlfriend I met for other reasons and not romantic, it was about my artwork.
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Omg yessss! All of this !! Ugh
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I’m curious to if one just says to them “I know your characteristics of narcissism and im just not going to give you any money.”…..? I’ve gotten the love bombing to pull me back. Wouldn’t she just go to the there next source. She has those “I want my image to not be tarnished”. Funny the word was out on her long before I came around and heard it over time. It all has been adding up and even with my isolation by her it seeped in.
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I met a man on a dating site. I was not having good connections and was over the whole thing. So I up and went silent. He contacted me to see what the problem was. So we started connecting. He seemed like a good man. Well then there were out of the blue weird questions. Many times asking if I could trust a man I met online. There were other times he would keep asking the same things until he would get a rise out of me. Then it was we should be able to say anything to each other. I was ok because I thought he was an honest man. Then out of blue questions started coming.
1. How would you calm yourself down if someone upset you?
2. If you were convicted of a crime would you admit it and accept your mistakes?
3. Could your man trust you?
Each time I asked him what kind of question was that. He got so mad. I tried to tell him we haven’t even met. I haven’t had time to show him I was everything I said. He just get more upset making me feel like I shouldn’t be questioning his questions. My gut was upset. So it finally came down to him saying you have just tonight to think over if you want to be in this relationship. The next day I told him relationships weren’t without conflict and everyone was entitled to an opinion. He needed to find a perfect woman and I was not perfect. I even tried again this morning to get him to understand but he wouldn’t budge. I got mad and called him bull headed. He called me a dead rat and a bitch. I typed hahaha and left. Was this man a narcissist? I deleted him but after hearing what you said here. I am scared will he come after me.
I would definitely say he was.
Those are Huge red flags , please block him on all levels and move on . I got chills reading as he sounds so much like this psycho Chris who was an ex psychotherapist !! He was obsessed by how many men I'd slept with and asked similar questions to what you've written .
Lesson I've learnt now , if I see 1 red flag , I'm out.
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The town never does anything and calling them out is like running a hamster wheel. It’s a that’s my story and I’m sticking to it kind of town no matter how people don’t want to live there or visit. Real people go in and move after they get done what they have to do. The town looks bad and so does their country club so it’s not working for them but firewalled itself for so long so it was a solid way of doing things. Had to get it out
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PLEASE EXPLAIN HOW THE FAMILY DYNAMIC CREATES THE NARCISSIST!!!
I don’t know how to thank you
maybe this is the vital reason why musk is working on starting a new planet. So many seeds that are an embarrassment. tru work and tru friends.
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Do something on bosses that are narcasists
An easy way out is,
let her have the last word, do not respond and disappear.
Can't go no contact. I'm a 32 yr old dependent under a narc mother
That puts you exactly where they want you! Try to become independent! It might take some time. Could you seek therapy in the meantime? Best wishes
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RAGE! Pure nonsense! Slay!!!
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Well just cause I was hanging with my Grandbabies my Xlisa Garza cant even be my friend she says everytime I'm Around some1 I forget about her l.ol I never forgot about her she wants me to call her around my kids No I'm not guna do that she as in my X she has her sisters brothers fooled so anyhow lisa thinks I'm deal with her bull💩
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Just out of curiosity, how many on here were married to a narcissist and got leukemia? It happened to me.
I'm just wondering because leukemia is associated with the emotion of devaluation and narcissist devalue you.
I got breast cancer but I don't blame it on him. I admit stress can cause cancer ext. Bit after many years I started drinking quite a but and I sort of blamed the drinking. Who knows. I've left my husband after 44 years two years ago and can't imagine why I stayed so long except I'm religious and trusted God and still and always will, but I wanted to stay the distance so to speak but in the end I also valued my sanity.
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Breast cancer isn't associated with being devalued like leukemia. It is more associated with taking care of everybody else but yourself. But I hope you beat it.
Negative emotions manifest into physical illness no matter where the emotions came from.
I was just curious. I was feeling absolutely worthless and unwanted and was crying every day when I got leukemia.
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It's hard indeed, but sooner or later you gonna slay tf of it :) good luck my friend
It's been 4 years since someone I considered a good or best friend go no contact with me, so am I the narcissist or her? She always made sure to tell me she was my best friend, and I believed her. I think she figured out, that i wasn't ssying how high when she'd say jump. I don't like that term "best friend" anymore.
It's strange but I'm finding out most of us ask ourselves if WE are the narcissist. I don't believe so but I do believe after many years of living with one you tend to take on some of their traits. But when you do you don't like yourself for it. I think its a natural sorta defence thing. You just have to ge aware of it and stop doing it. That's what I found in my situation.
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Hi Rebecca 👋
Time to slay
I did not act this way to be vindictive.
I tried to help to no avail, all that did was let her know I knew. This only made her more distant.
If she had half a brain, we could’ve gotten through all this but that’s not how they think.
I became the enemy.
Good riddance FFS.
She did however contact me once to tell me about her new supply.
I responded with,
“That lame brain, oh c’mon, you can do better than that”.
The last thing I heard was, she’s going to beat up on me next time she sees me.
She knows better than to do that, I believe in equality.
‘You want your rights?, you’d better watch that left, it’s a doozy’.
If there are no kids involved, you really have no reason to be there with them. Walk away, everything has improved for me the minute I walked away.
It’s sad yes, but hanging around will only make it worse.
So many women have said to me, ‘so you’re no longer with that …., good for you’.
Life goes on without the confusion, no more treading on egg shells, no more analysis of every word you say incase it offends, no more “yes dear no dear, how high dear?’
Once it starts to go down, there is no recovery.
The best thing to do is run as fast as you can in the opposite direction for as long as you can.
And don’t go back.
Stay strong! ❤
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