Marvin Gaye dirty rumors.. what was REALLY going on?
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- Marvin Gaye dirty rumors.. what was REALLY going on?
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“If you cannot find peace within yourself, you will never find it anywhere else. Most fear stems from sin; to limit one's sins, one must assuredly limit one's fear, thereby bringing more peace to one's spirit.” -Marvin Gaye
Yay. Marvin. He was truly a tortured and divided soul. So sad that he was able to bring joy and happiness to others but couldn't find that for himself. He's finally at peace and for that I'm glad. His legacy lives on through his incredible music.
@@jolenesimon6123I really hope in the end as he laid there, he found peace and reconciliation within. He deserved so much better from his childhood and just needed love 💔
So True & He was so wise
I needed to read this 💗
His father destroyed him and then shot Him. A father.s love, especially in the early years,is totally essential for the child to grow up emotionally healthy. It still makes me angry. The way those church people are so hypocritical and judgemental,as bent as so many of them are. He was a genius.But he went through too much pain ,in childhood and as an adult. The scars never healed.
No wonder Marvin took drugs. He needed to drown out the pain. 😔
His father was a nightmare.
but his mother she allowed the abuse to go on. so sad
@@user-wc5en8qv6x perhaps she was the other abuse victim
most mothers/wives in those days were helpless victims and were considered second class to men! I know from experience! It’s like most women from those decades didn’t realize they had choices!! Very sad!
My mother and father were very abusive. I didn't get hooked on drugs. Yes, I dabbled but after I turned to Jesus, the healing began. My mom worked at Motown. She knew Marvin. I met Tammi Terrell. Fame can drive you nuts. It's very stressful. The people at Motown.. let's just say it was quite incestuous. Everyone sleeping with everyone. Chile.....
You don't do drugs to drown out pain. You give the pain to the Lord Jesus. Jesus will heal that pain.
Politics and hypocrites is turning us all into lunatics.
~Marvin Gaye
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TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH ❤❤❤
It’s crazy! But true
Lord have mercy. We are hated for who we are and loved for what they get from us, take from us, by any means necessary, and do whatever it takes to bring us down!!
It's easy to have a problem with authority if your father, your first authority, treated you like crap.
Him fighting back against outside authority was his way of standing up to his father’s authoritarian ways…
If I was his mother, I'd rather be on welfare than stay with an abuser. My ex-husband was violent and I left with my children. I was scared but I had to protect myself and children.
Hell like I said before he didn’t like her child from another relationship that was a sign there
The dad was demonized , no doubt. People think clergy or pastors can't be demonized but they can & it ain't pretty.
did they have welfare then? but i agree id done anything to make it then let my kids get abused same thing happened to tyler perry his father did horrible things to him and his mother looked the other way
That’s facts
I'm glad you were strong enough to leave him.
Marvin Gaye was such a music icon.
He still is.
So terrible when parents don't protect their kids from the other parent. And just sending your child away to get married. It's nuts.
Exact scenario for my mom! My mom was 14 when she married my dad in 1957! She came from 13 siblings! So my grandmother felt like it was okay to send my mother off like that! One less mouth to feed and in the hands of someone who would hopefully take care of her! Trust me, my mom’s troubles were just the beginning from there on out! Four children later and all before she was 20! Life had a lot of rotten moments for all of us kids and mother for many years! But we tried to make good memories in between! That was our lives in the 60-70’s!!
@@coryd2668 Yeah there's a reason early marriage all over the world is associated with poverty and abuse. Plus kids bodies are not ready to have babies, that same energy that you are meant to grow your own body goes to making the baby. You really shouldn't start having babies until after 20 at least.
Imagine a husband buying his wife new shoes because she grew out of them!
And conservatives in the U.S still think marriage solves all issues, like the intimate partner of a woman is not the most dangerous person to her officially.
Women should get an education and be independent from a man financially before having kids, so she can protect them. Though dads should also protect their kids from the mother of course if she's the bad one.
And no one protected the teenager he dated from him.
@@yani.e Many teenage girls think sleeping with celebrities is a great thing, sometimes parents even offer them up like they did with R Kelly.
Ain't no way! If a had a baby way when you met me, we a package deal. Take it or leave it
Many of our heroes are very misunderstood. It must be awful to live under such scrutiny. This is why I enjoy your videos because you never judge or throw in petty put downs, instead you bring to light their brightest traits. ❤
Thank you for this! I really think all bad behavior comes from somewhere and if we are able to understand this, we judge less and create environments that promotes healing instead of shame ❤
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@@KarineAlourde🚬👴🏿🥃 YOUR WELCOME I GUESS BUT DOROTHY DANDRIGDE IS THE FIRST WOMAN OF THE WORLD 🌎 BAR NONE
@@KarineAlourde🚬🥶🥃 SAM COOKE
🚬🥶🥃 SAM COOKE
I'm a 59 year old white woman and totally agree with you that "What's Goin On" is one of the best albums ever!! What he had to say then still rings true. I sometimes listen to it as I go to sleep. He was so talented. There's a video here on You Tube where he is singing live in 1972. He sings "What's Going On?" and "What's Happening Brother?" Its AMAZING! You can see the audience just quietly listening and he sings while playing the piano with no notes. It's mesmerizing. I watch it often.
Marvin Gaye didn't write what's going on somebody else did he just interpreted it his way.
Marvin Gaye was a co-writer of the song along with Al Cleveland and Renaldo Benson.
Tammy Terrell and Marvin Gaye what a duo! ❤
What’s going on!
What an album 💕
A traumatised, broken child who grew up into a traumatised, broken man. He didn't stand a chance. I love his music and my heart breaks 💔 for the man. Just so, so sad 😞
My opine is that his father was envious of his son, the son who was constantly longing for his love and approval and attention.
He shouldn't have moved in with his parents. People think family is everything. Its not. Your own blood will harm you. It began with Caine & Abel.
Sometimes family will hurt you worse than someone on the street and that’s hard to say
Family will bring you down quicker than strangers. Especially the toxic ones.
I was a huge fan of Marvin Gaye. When I found out that he died I was pregnant with my first born and went into labor. It was shockingly tragic to hear such awful news. Especially growing up listening to his music and watching his music soar to the top of the charts. The death of Motown great artists such as Tammi Terrell and Florence Ballard. The 1960's and 1970's was such changing times for black Americans.
Oh wow! I was a toddler and my older sister turned 14 on the day Marvin was killed. Just one day before his 45th birthday. This is the first celeb death that would strike a nerve with me. Marvin will ALWAYS be an inspiration. I've loved his music my whole life. Death will NEVER take this away. 😔🙏🏾❤️🕊️
Hollyweird & the music industry hasnt changed, if anything it IS WORSENING
Agree
Absolutely 💯💯
Omg Marvin Gaye one of the saddest stories ever
An icon, a genius, a divided & tortured soul. A very handsome man. One of my favorite singer of all time. May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace. 🙏.
And he knows so much you start to wonder what’s up with Quincy if you know what I’m talking about! How are you doing?
He probably had the most tragic life of all the music legends I researched. A true musical genius. He really needed therapy! 💔
The debarges had a jacked up life, competitive to Marvin's
@@Bresocharming They’re definitely up there.
Thank you for covering this! Narcissism within religion and the church needs to be exposed and you did that. Also, his father was the one that finally unalived him.
@feleciamorris2861it’s so it doesn’t get flagged and the video doesn’t get taken down.
He was so handsome. ❤
🚬🥶🥃SO WAS SAM COOKE
Very !!!!
@@paulyricca3881 Sam Cooke was cute in a boyish way. But Marvin was grown sexy, probably because of the beard .
@@benedicta3576 🚬😩🥃WRONG!!! MARVIN GAYE WAS A FRUIT 🍉 CAKE 🧁 AND CRACK HEAD BUT SAM COOKE WAS ALL MAN VIRILE AND MANLINESS BAR NONE
@@benedicta3576 🚬😩🥃 WRONG!!!! MARVIN GAYE WAS FRUIT 🍉 CAKE 🧁 BUT SAM COOKE WAS A SUPER MALE VIRILE AND MANLINESS BAR NONE
I miss Marvin Gaye. His song, "What's going on," came out in 1971. I wasn't born until a year later, but to this day, it has taken on so many meanings. It's evolved in me without ever changing the words.
You don’t miss. This is the journalism I miss.
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🚬🥶🥃 SAM COOKE WAS BETTER
@@KarineAlourde🚬🥶🥃 SAM COOKE IS THE BIGGEST STAR ⭐️ OF ALL TIME
His dad was jealous of him from birth, I can't believe the mom allowed the dad to treat her kids, and her so horrible. The dad was a pastor and a crossdresser, how embarrassing that had to be. Jealous of him to the end, to take him out. Rip Marvin loved your music
I really love your breakdowns. The way he died broke my heart, but sadly, it wasn't surprised. 😢❤
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SAM COOKE
@@KarineAlourde🚬🥶🥃 SAM COOKE WAS A MAN
My heart hurts hearing Marvin Gaye's story. His father was an evil, vile, disgusting, brutal demon. Poor Marvin Gaye 😭
Exactly I remember hearing stories about his father it brings me to tears because I know a little how that feels and it cuts worse than anything in the world
That judge did not care about Justice for Marvin Gaye. Marvin was protecting his mother.
So upsetting 😢
his Dad was hell on overdrive...☠️
The Prince of Motown; forever missed- He & Tammi are singing with the angels.🙏🏾 ❤
Good commentary on Marvin Gaye. What a sad life 😔
Well it’s clear that his craft speaks for itself! Love him and Tammi Terrell’s ain’t no mountain high enough & you’re all I need to get by
His body of work is incomparable!
@@KarineAlourde yup sexual healing was one of. The songs my mom she made love to
Me too love those songs. They sang good together.
@@darleneparsons8536 they were also nice eye Candy to each other
😳 JACK?
I never knew MG had such a sad tragic life, no wonder he was such a tremendous artist; the greatest artists suffer through a lot of trauma and it results in incredible art.
omg this is exactly what I needed today! cannot describe how much I adore this man
DISTANT LOVER will always and forever be my favorite song by him, I really love him and his work. Heartbroken about the things he went through, seems like he was really misunderstood 💯👌🏽
Aww I love love love Marvin Gaye. ❤️
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If only Marvin would’ve possible stayed in Belgium 🇧🇪 and redeemed himself there. Staying far away from the drugs/addiction, & his sadistic monstrous wicked poor excuse for a father…💔 He may have still been here just a tragic story, Marvin’s legacy continues on within his music, lyrics, incredible duets with the late, talented Tammi Terrell also, & touching songs.💜😪💜 Beautifully and compassionately done dearest, Karine…🕊️🙏🏾😢
I still love his song'How Sweet It Is'
Let’s get it on
Wow, how you spoke on trauma was incredibly insightful. And how you really took it to a place of showing empathy and compassion for others instead of judgement. Wonderful job on your videos! I’m a fairly new subscriber and I am so hooked on all the amazing bios!
Marvin Gaye was a genius and an amazing spirit. And yes, he was troubled. My heart went out to him when he was describing himself in the interview. He must have been in so much pain, dealing with all the conflicting emotions and the trauma of his upbringing. I can’t imagine the lack of understanding and support for mental health back then and beyond. I know he is at peace in heaven. ❤️🕊️
Omg! I watched Tammy Terrell’s bio on TV1’s Unsung and her story is just so sad along with Marvin’s… their Chemistry together is just unmatched! I have many faves from him… “Love to Ball” has to be my fave! Along with “I want you” and “ Distant Lover” in those songs i love the natural instruments ❤
I love Marvin Gaye so much I know where I was and what I was doing when it was announced on the radio that he was dead. So sad
I saw what’s going on with that title!! Clever 😉
lol glad someone caught it ❤
His rendition of the National Anthem is still (in my opinion) THE BEST 💐
oh i have to look it up i only know whitney houstons as the best
Hi my Haitian sister 🥰🇭🇹, I'm a big Marvin Gaye fan also, my only wish is that his mom would have left Marvin’s father sooner. I feel like that would have prevented him from going into a downward spiral. It's hard to accept the man in the interviews was out here on these crazy boom-boom room escapades with Janis high as a kite. But I just try to appreciate him for his music, especially his conscious music. Mercy Mercy Me is one of my faves.❤😊
Sometimes the ppl u need to stay away from the most sometimes, is toxic family members.
They say the eyes are the window to the soul and all I see is sadness in Marvin’s eyes.
Another one of my favorite artists 😁💖🎶 I love Marvin's song "Give It Up!' 🎹🎸 It's so funky! I love how they recorded a picnic BBQ and let it play throughout the entire song 🔥🔥🔥 Awesome production value
Sad, the tragedies and trauma of young life are much deeper than skin & bone, the mental scares are so deep and the ripple effects spread so fa 6:00 r and last so long it can cause "life devastation" too much to endure! I pray he found peace even in his painful death. I pray our Father God found mercy on his tortured soul.😢
It's been 40 years. Let Marvin Gaye rest peacefully. God knows he wasn't at peace when he was here. He had his flaws yet he will ALWAYS be a PIONEER. Marvin's music is FOREVER. Purple Snowflakes is HIGHLY recommended. 😔🙏🏾❤️🕊️
Why is the speech speed of Marvin’s video so fast?
Oh wow! I was just jamming out to Marvin & subscribe to the UA-cam about an hour ago! & here you go putting out a video on Marvin!
This is giving me chills!
I absolutely love old school music & been going back listening to him & others. It's like were on the same wave link, Karine ❤
Blessings & love always
Always Nicole! Great minds think alike! Xoxo 💖💖✨✨
THE MUSIC 🎶 OUR FATHER WHO ART IN HEAVEN 🙏🏿❤🙏🏿🎶
22:55 chills...I can't even imagine. I hope his soul found comfort & peace in the afterlife
I remember the day he died. I was a senior in college and it was announced over the radio. It was Aopril 1st., so everyone thought is was a cruel April Fools joke. I remember the announcers saying " People , this is not a joke...Marvin Gaye has died". Saddest day ever. He was so smooth ...and also , very aware and concerned about what was happening in the world at that time. Still missed ♥
I grew up with Marvin Gaye’s music. It gives me so many good memories. I heard there is an autobiography in the works and I am here for it!👍
It’s ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING 🤢🤮🤮 when people wait until folks pass away to do autobiographies of them, or “spill” their tea!!
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@summercooper374
All this is old news and tea so stop it
Marvin Gaye was so gifted! One of the most sexy and gorgeous voices! My goodness! He was in so much pain! His dad was a hell to be around! Things in a childs eyes! He was hurting! I have all his music! Never another Marvin Gaye! RIP brotha!!😢😢😢😢😢😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
Hitch Hike and What's Going on were my favorites by Marvin Gaye. Thanks for another superb production.
Indeed, both sounds are my favorite ❤️
"What's goin on" is my favorite song from Marvin Gaye. It's just so smooth ❤
With social media and everybody's business being out there, it is hard sometimes to separate what an artist does in their private life versus what they create. And, damn I did not know all this stuff had gone down in his life.
I still feel grief with Marvin’s passing. His music was on my playlist as a young adult at the time he died. RIP Marvin Gaye 🙏🏽
Such a talent,very sad story.
RIP. Marvin. A Legend that will never be forgotten
His daughter Nona gaye is so pretty!
Side note nba young boy has facial structure like his. The one side profile photo of younger him, Pple be relatives all through entertainment Field.
Omg yess!!! NBA young boy really does have a resemblance to him. Wow
May he rest in eternal peace, let’s always continue appreciate the powerful messages he left in his music for us, words of wisdom never die 💯
So much talent. I loved the 8:25 Whats Going On album, his BEST IMO. RIP MARVIN GAYE😢❤ ✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👼🎤🎹🎶🎵❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My goodness how you speak on trauma with no judgement speaks volumes, the older I get the more understanding I am becoming. It’s truly disheartening, I absolutely love Marvin so handsome & such a musical genius I just hope that his soul is free from all the pain
He has truly left a mark here on this earth many many years later
Another great and revealing video on a legend. And Hollywood and the music industry STILL is crooked and evil, and even more so.
I’m an old soul too! Rest in heaven Mr Gaye
Hey Karine , I’m glad you did a video on Marvin Gaye…I love that song Distant Lover. I’m interested to know more in depth about Teddy Pendergrass
Hey love! Teddy Pendergrass is coming up soon. That was Marvin Gaye’s nemesis lol
@@KarineAlourde Opps my bad lol. Well like PAC & Biggie alike. I loved them both. Great artists of our time.
@@capricornqueen90Pac and Biggie were Geminis. Teddy and Marvin were both Aries males. Sometimes you clash with people who are practically like you. Insane! 🤦🏾♀️
@@danavixen6274 You’re got a point. Both all of them made good music. People got their differences and what not that’s what make them-Them I guess 🤷🏾♀️
Fun fact Jan Gaye slept with teddy pendergras and he could never forgive her.
My all time favorite song still is Sexual Healing. Marvin’s life was so complicated. I agree with you 100% about not stating accusations when the person is dead. What a talented man he was!
Can you do Tammy Terrell? Love this ❤️
😒🙏🏼Amen! First off, empathy is usually the first thing to go out the window when folks hear what he did. But I believe in forgiveness and Marvin had a lot of trauma in his life since childhood and I’m sure he didn’t address many things in his life that he should have, but he deserves all the accolades for his music. I love his music.
He had unhealed trauma. Absolutely. No doubt. A phenomental artist. The best. Mercy mercy me.
This was devastatingly sad- i remember when he was killed we were sitting down at the dinner table watching the evening news when his death was announced - my father was in shock over it - he could not wrap his head around a father murdering his own child
No number of millions of stranger's love will ever make up for the love of your father.
Yes, I knew about Marvin dating and having a child by teenaged Jan Hunter. I guess I never fully reconciled that. I was born in 1971. As a small child, I remember seeing Marvin perform on Soul Train singing Distant Lover. I fell head over heels in love with this man and every since, have been relentless in finding out everything about him, good or bad. And still, I love his music and love him ......And I always will. I just learned that sometimes idols have clay feet
I was working the night shift at General Foods when I got the news. 😭💔
My fave Marvin Gaye song is his Christmas song “ I want to come home for Christmas” ughhh it’s so good 😭
In my favorite song Ain’t No Mountain High Enough - Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell. And her life story is so sad too😘🦋🥲💐💐💐💐
I love when I finish a new mental gems to come over here to a new video 😊
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😳 ANDY?
@@KarineAlourde🚬👴🏿🥃DOROTHY DANDRIGDE I LOVE ❤️ U SO MUCH.
❤My favourite Male Artist
He is my favorite too, since I was 10
LEGEND! 🤎🤎
Very talented ❤️🌺🌷RIP Marvin. Still listen to his songs. Seeing his dad in a dress was something else. Wasn’t his Dad a preacher.
Yes he was!
Mz. Alourde! Thank you for this💚 ... I have never contemplated somebody's salvation more than I do Marvin Gaye's. I sincerely hope he made it
We as individuals have to work on our own personal salvation..All of us has to give an account on judgment day 🙏 ❤ RIP Marvin Gaye ❤
Whew! 😅 a lot and I mean A LOT of trauma in that family. Marvin Gaye’s soul was yearning for both love and peace. To be killed by your own father…sheesh! That’s a very hard pill to swallow because his father knew after that incident that nobody was going to deal with him afterwards and plus he walked away free. Although that maybe the case he wasn’t free from having to relive that moment mentally.
Some people shouldn't be parents. These abusive parents create children who grow up to be broken and internally tormented adults. This doesn't excuse Marvin's behavior at all because he traumatized the women he was with. I hope those who are victims of child abuse heal. I'm a tormented and broken person because of my childhood, my healing process through therapy has been rough. May everyone find inner peace 🙏
God bless you. I hope you find the healing you seek ❤
Never ever would judge you for liking old school music. I’m 46, I love alll kinds of music, old and new. My 17 year old son though, he’s an old souls like you. He loooooves alll kinds of music from waaaay back before all of us. I love it so much. ❤ I love your videos Karina! ❤
All motown artists were so well spoken
Damn I didn't know that he passed that way. This is truly sad. I've always loved his music. I didn't know he went through so much as a kid. I get why he turned to drugs as a way to cope with his trauma. But I wish that he could have gotten free from that.
😮 Wow.. where were you ? The whole world seams like it stopped that day.. just eerie feeling and sad 😢
His music are such as a timeless. R.I.P. 🙏🏽🩷
I agree with your sister it’s true and that’s still go on Today is so many broken people in the world and what I mean is it’s just been passed down to generation to generation. I pray for all😘🦋
Rest Peacefully always & forever!! Mr Marvin Gaye🙏🏽💝💯💔❤️🩹🙏🏽
God is Able!!!
Growing up it was very rare that we spoke of Marvin Gaye. Marvin's death was the equivalent to Elvis dying in my home. They really took that personally. But his music was played all of the time. I keep saying his biopic needs to be made on him because Jesse L. Martin would be perfect for that role imho. Great Video! ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for another beautifully crafted piece ❤ life can be complex and messy I think your research is sound and your opinions are fair. Looking forward to another piece ❤
Thank you so much! 🫶🏾💖✨
😳 ANDY? THELMA LOU?
@@KarineAlourdeDOROTHY DANDRIGDE WAS A GREAT GREAT ENTERTAINER OF THE FIRST ORDER.
I find it problematic when someone says "problematic" all the time.
There's ABSOLUTELY NO 🙅🏾♀️ way I could just choose one song by Marvin Gaye.
The ultra funny 85 South Show podcast always has the same photo of Marvin Gaye in the background so I had to watch this video! Oh and how wild they just posted a video minutes after you posted this video.
I was 3 when he died but for some odd reason I remember this being on the news when it happened.
Yessssss thank you for using my suggestion!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉 I'm looking forward to this!
Hope you like it! 💖💖✨
@@KarineAlourde I am enjoying it! I am an old soul. I love his music.
A video on Tammi Terrell would be great! Can you do one on R&B singer Cherrelle or fashion designer Coco Chanel ❤❤
What???? How did I not know this, this is so absolutely tragic. Thank you for sharing his story. I had absolutely no idea.
KARINE?! Yooooooo this is wild. Proud of you being an influencer out here homie. Sheeeesh! I was searching UA-cam and one of your videos popped up. And I was like waaaaaaaaht?!
Do ya thaaaaaang girl. 🤙🏾
All praises 🙌🏾
Poor Marvin. I had a similar childhood and understand how much that must have affected him. I didn´t stop hurting until I ended contact with my parents. Anyway, love you Karine! You made such an excellent point about generational trauma.