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  • @yvonneasante7836
    @yvonneasante7836 2 місяці тому +1313

    Having a child with the wrong person will make u cry more than the baby 😢😢

    • @parkandplaywithdorathy
      @parkandplaywithdorathy 2 місяці тому +5

      Like it is well with our soul

    • @olaideadedokun9895
      @olaideadedokun9895 2 місяці тому +19

      Some men are dubious, manipulative, selfish. God have mercy on me. Thank God am not barren. Have beautiful kids

    • @somoyesimileoluwa2283
      @somoyesimileoluwa2283 2 місяці тому +7

      Very true 😢😢😢

    • @SMar-yu6od
      @SMar-yu6od 2 місяці тому +5

      Especially 😢when you first have the baby😢.

    • @kisakyeolivia3411
      @kisakyeolivia3411 2 місяці тому +1

      Why not be on pregnancy preventive measures. It is like we are saying that we are children who have sex as a test, to know how it feels and what happens. For people 18 years and above, there is nothing like pregnacy accidents expected only in rape cases or where someone's mind is unstable. engage get the by product.

  • @oluwatomithomas180
    @oluwatomithomas180 2 місяці тому +461

    Tosin, you are a powerful woman to talk about your experience. It is a sign that you are an overcomer. May God continually protect you and use you to help our younger generation.

  • @aSuperHeroStateofMind
    @aSuperHeroStateofMind 2 місяці тому +264

    You will see the red flags, but the wounds in your soul will urge you to continue....Powerful words. This is why I never talk about ppl who are in an abusive relationship. The only thing I would tell somebody is heal from the trauma in your past, from the things that you don't talk about. HEAL the Wounds in your Soul..❤❤❤

  • @daciagriffith6568
    @daciagriffith6568 2 місяці тому +381

    Run Sista Run!!!Being alone DOES NOT mean being lonely.

  • @swagservices7025
    @swagservices7025 2 місяці тому +31

    It’s so easy to pass judgment when you are not a victim, this lady would be a great counselor to people going through similar issues she just explained

  • @princewillokwoche6845
    @princewillokwoche6845 2 місяці тому +13

    She survived to tell her story! Many don’t make it out of the contraption

  • @nic_niko1003
    @nic_niko1003 2 місяці тому +25

    Manipulation is a dangerous thing in a relationship. You think you are compromising, but you are being taken advantage of. I'm happy you are speaking your truth. Sometimes, people never see it.

  • @sdcaldwell8882
    @sdcaldwell8882 2 місяці тому +123

    This is so true. 10 years after the divorce and I am still dismantling and renouncing the seeds that were planted during the marriage. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @helensomy2769
      @helensomy2769 2 місяці тому +2

      Thanks for sharing this, it never occurred to me that this can still take place even after leaving the marriage.

    • @cleverchakabva9901
      @cleverchakabva9901 2 місяці тому +2

      God be with you my sister

    • @TadeMakun
      @TadeMakun 2 місяці тому +1

      God will heal your heart and bind your spirit. Open up to Him... BE HONEST.

  • @hyeldaapollos3879
    @hyeldaapollos3879 2 місяці тому +208

    Lord have mercy on us. This generation is in need of light. The darkness is real. What happens in relationships is truly mind blowing 🤯🤯🤯

    • @rayannphillip931
      @rayannphillip931 2 місяці тому +13

      There is nothing new under the Sun.

    • @princeboateng4395
      @princeboateng4395 2 місяці тому +9

      It’s always the worst kind of men they loose themselves to and visit the wounds on the best men. It’s crazy

    • @chestchirecateyes
      @chestchirecateyes 2 місяці тому +2

      They're in need of nurturing and lessons in self-love.

    • @hyeldaapollos3879
      @hyeldaapollos3879 2 місяці тому

      ​​@@rayannphillip931 Yeah,.. But I love the fact that this is novel to me. The Bible would have us wise unto that which is good and simple (innocent) as to what is evil. (Rom 16:19) This kind of activity actually crosses the borders of just being bad... This is in the country of evil! This man clearly is into something dark! 😳

    • @gloryplufelpride4766
      @gloryplufelpride4766 2 місяці тому

      That word "self love " 📌📌📌 should be ultimate/utmost importance in ones life ... ​@@chestchirecateyes

  • @JemimaAidoo-e1t
    @JemimaAidoo-e1t 2 місяці тому +106

    😮my goodness. Relationships can be dangerous to your spirit, soul and body. To get pregnant and getting rid of it intentionally is madness

    • @florencenyandia2202
      @florencenyandia2202 2 місяці тому +5

      Initiation

    • @cleverchakabva9901
      @cleverchakabva9901 2 місяці тому +10

      Having someone tell you the plan of getting you pregnant and then "getting rid of it", that's just evil, it's heartless 😢😢

    • @nkemo65
      @nkemo65 2 місяці тому +6

      Simply demonic

    • @LestAnyManBoast
      @LestAnyManBoast 2 місяці тому

      Actually it's not madness, it's witchcraft, the kind of witchcraft that is found in the Apocrphya aka hidden books of the Bible removed from the modern KJV during the the corrupt Council of Nicea

    • @sophiachin1262
      @sophiachin1262 2 місяці тому +3

      Blood Sacrifice they offer up their first born child for whatever occultic reasons. She should have told him your own mother should have done that to you and left him forever. He is just another broken devil... The Lord rebuke him ooo.

  • @ElsaCamus-gd7es
    @ElsaCamus-gd7es 2 місяці тому +68

    We, women, can see red flags in day one but somewhere we think we can fix through love.. some souls cannot be fixed. They need divine intervention, if you stay in wrong relationship, your divinity dies. So eventually, your survival instinct makes you leave.. On His time. Not yours🤲🏽.leaving a toxic relationship is a divine protection.
    ☮️🫡💕

    • @irenemark9219
      @irenemark9219 2 місяці тому +4

      "if you stay in a toxic relationship, your divinity dies"
      Very powerful!

    • @theajcchannel1331
      @theajcchannel1331 2 місяці тому

      Divinity. We are immortal beings not The Trinity

    • @IbehStella-f2l
      @IbehStella-f2l 2 місяці тому

      Yes my dear I thought so too but it get even worst and worst , as a matter of fact my health is been affected, I'm lost and don't know how to start all over again. But I will not give up until I get my freedom.

  • @enthroned_one
    @enthroned_one 2 місяці тому +69

    Same happened to my best friend; Ify and after she left the marriage upon return front America; she died!!! LADIES...PROTECT UR DYNASTIES..THIS IS REAL

    • @LyndaDeniseJones
      @LyndaDeniseJones 2 місяці тому +4

      😢 my deepest deepest condolences, I lost my bbf to a jealous spineless manchild. It's been 20 years since her passing and I miss her more everyday. Hugs to you and all that love her ❤❤

  • @user-rz6oq3ey2r
    @user-rz6oq3ey2r 2 місяці тому +111

    I left my husband on a beautiful day which happened to be my birthday. We woke up romantically together. Took me shopping, Gave me cash and driver took me to my work station. Instead of leaving the car with me I told the driver to take it back and that was it. He almost ran mad. It's 7 years now. I am very grateful for breaking me from the shackles. If you judge me wrongly I wish you just 5% of what I went through without mercy. Ladies REMOVE yourself and do it sooner

    • @miniasikusara2936
      @miniasikusara2936 2 місяці тому +10

      What made you do it?

    • @billionairejumzietopbabe3304
      @billionairejumzietopbabe3304 2 місяці тому

      Abuse of course! 🤷​@@miniasikusara2936

    • @Lu_cc_ee
      @Lu_cc_ee 2 місяці тому +11

      It's the 5% for me 😂😂
      My dear, wish them 80%

    • @psalmzoe3746
      @psalmzoe3746 2 місяці тому +7

      Let them judge, believe me when I tell you it's out of ignorance they do it... They'll never understand

    • @OfficialDubemXB
      @OfficialDubemXB 2 місяці тому +10

      ​@@miniasikusara2936 this question is very necessary cause I don't understand how she woke up romantically together, went for shopping and still left him that day.

  • @matildaojeh4950
    @matildaojeh4950 2 місяці тому +59

    I want to watch the whole episode, its so painful but thank God you came ouy stronger

  • @ChijiubaJanet
    @ChijiubaJanet 2 місяці тому +75

    I can relate very well. Experience teaches you a lot. Thank God you are free.

  • @koyejoolanrewaju4157
    @koyejoolanrewaju4157 2 місяці тому +16

    Can one believe an intelligent lady like this could be a victim? You're brilliant, bold and beautiful. I'm happy that you live to share your experience.

  • @graystevens939
    @graystevens939 2 місяці тому +11

    I'm so sorry you went through this sister. A man who is constantly chasing personal gratification is a dangerous man,as a woman stand your ground. The wrong man will eliminate himself.

  • @Susankaaya
    @Susankaaya 2 місяці тому +35

    That’s why we should pray for them and with them. The devil be trying to destroy God’s people but that battle is won by His blood.

  • @heavenforum9124
    @heavenforum9124 2 місяці тому +40

    It is called, The Power of IMAGINATION! If you can imagine it, it's only a matter of time. It must come to pass.

    • @Dainess365
      @Dainess365 2 місяці тому +8

      The only thing I want to imagine and come to me is winning $100 million dollars 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @heavenforum9124
      @heavenforum9124 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Dainess365 Well, the ball now is in your court. If you call see it, then nothing stops you having it. If you can imagine it, then it's all yours! Rise up and make it happen but remember me when thou cometh into thy kingdom.

    • @eseoghenewealthmychamber6365
      @eseoghenewealthmychamber6365 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@Dainess365 lols.., ha! your own big oo. Mine is just 3 million naira . I don imagine tire and still dey imagine 😂. The smaller is inclusive in the greater. My dear remember me when your imagination becomes reality.

    • @Dainess365
      @Dainess365 2 місяці тому

      I’m in Australia and people have been winning lotteries lately, so now I’m waiting for my turn. So I hope that I’m next.
      No long ago someone won, $150 millions Aussie , another $40 millions, $12 millions . So I hope that I’m the next lucky winner 🏆

    • @niunice
      @niunice 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Dainess365it will come to pass 😊

  • @khairakhalid6083
    @khairakhalid6083 2 місяці тому +60

    He wanted to traumatise her for life and damage her mentally . He knew one of the worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting rid of her unborn baby.

    • @sosohe4018
      @sosohe4018 2 місяці тому +5

      And she will forever remember him without him remembering her or being bothered, abuse and control equal narcissism.

    • @teresaosborne2209
      @teresaosborne2209 2 місяці тому

      Wow.

    • @cleverchakabva9901
      @cleverchakabva9901 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes and that, 'getting rid of her unborn baby' can haunt and scar her mentally and emotionally.
      People are alive but carrying burdens.

    • @augustaukandu5838
      @augustaukandu5838 2 місяці тому +1

      It could also be a Satanic blood covenant he wanted to make with her!!

  • @ancientDna1979
    @ancientDna1979 2 місяці тому +71

    I understand, my late husband used to tell me I was dumb, when I was overachieving him in everything.

    • @Folakanbi
      @Folakanbi 2 місяці тому +1

      Wow!!!😮

    • @blandinamyinga9489
      @blandinamyinga9489 2 місяці тому +5

      Narcissistic behavior"he was angry that your shining.

    • @STAR-w5i
      @STAR-w5i 2 місяці тому +2

      ✝️JEALOUSY N INSECURITY OF U. N.IGNORANCE.✝️

  • @bukolaechue9538
    @bukolaechue9538 2 місяці тому +134

    I have watched this excerpt more than 6times…and I’m still in shock

    • @fruitinspector8247
      @fruitinspector8247 2 місяці тому +14

      Same here. She was dating a demon.

    • @ChideraOkorie-ls9qb
      @ChideraOkorie-ls9qb 2 місяці тому +1

      What a ministry

    • @spyksyde
      @spyksyde 2 місяці тому

      Where’s the full video

    • @TadeMakun
      @TadeMakun 2 місяці тому

      Don't just be in shock, dear... BE CONSCIOUSLY INSTRUCTED.

  • @OluwatobilobaWonders
    @OluwatobilobaWonders 2 місяці тому +4

    You'll see the red flags but the wounds in your soul will urge you (push you, drive you) to continue.
    Thank God for light.

  • @tredinabrown2249
    @tredinabrown2249 Місяць тому +1

    WE CAN NO LONGER ALLOW ANY MORE NEGATIVITY AND TOXICITY IN OUR PRECIOUS LIVES! BE BLESSED ALWAYS!

  • @toidiaz5136
    @toidiaz5136 2 місяці тому +3

    Very true- MANY of us have experienced this on some level- ladies we are a SISTERHOOD- may not always get along or do each other right- but we can still be supportive of our individual experiences and share to uplift!! Your words may speak to someone’s soul. Stay compassionate

  • @VeraAmarachukwu
    @VeraAmarachukwu 2 місяці тому +6

    I can relate...
    Loving a person or being in a relationship that draws you away from God is a red flag on its own
    We ladies should be careful out there...
    The world's really crazy
    God would protect us all❤

  • @williamseghe4066
    @williamseghe4066 2 місяці тому +3

    This is emotional, I'm already liking this lady

  • @uduaklawrence5237
    @uduaklawrence5237 2 місяці тому +56

    This is a similar story of my friend. I ran to me for help, I had to hide her in my house till now. I pray she gets over this 😭

  • @lavenderlillies8149
    @lavenderlillies8149 2 місяці тому +8

    Purposely get pregnant just to abort? What sort of sociopath is that? He's not thinking of the possible emotional trauma/extreme fear that an unplanned pregnancy and abortion/losing a child would have on you?
    My goodness. Thats just evil.

  • @DaughterOfEncouragement
    @DaughterOfEncouragement 2 місяці тому +110

    I thought he was gonna ask if he could bring another girl into the mix or something crazy like that, but that request was so specific, so sinister, that you KNOW it was a seed from the devil himself. Lord have mercy 😔

    • @SASK_M_Y
      @SASK_M_Y 2 місяці тому +27

      I thought of blood covenant

    • @DaughterOfEncouragement
      @DaughterOfEncouragement 2 місяці тому +8

      @@SASK_M_Y oh dang, that's right!! A requirement of sacrifice 😟

    • @ovedjerory
      @ovedjerory 2 місяці тому

      ​@@SASK_M_YSame.

    • @deolake
      @deolake 2 місяці тому

      ​@@SASK_M_Y, it's already a blood covenant in a complex and deeper form. They both create a life and sacrifice it via abortion😢. Oh God, there are demons everywhere😮.
      May we be shielded always by God's light.

    • @tonyelegbuanya3401
      @tonyelegbuanya3401 2 місяці тому +6

      ​@@SASK_M_Ythat's exactly what I thought because such happened to me. But this particular request ? Devil dey pay ten ten for the man head, I swear

  • @MureBeauty1
    @MureBeauty1 2 місяці тому +2

    I've always said it.
    It takes a broken person to break someone and those in an environment where broken records are playing would soon find themselves dancing to the tunes

  • @emmanuelaafari9434
    @emmanuelaafari9434 2 місяці тому +4

    Thank you for sharing this story!!! I almost entered into a relationship I knew God was telling me not to enter! And I was finding many ways to doubt it and to be in the relationship. But it’s not God’s will for me, and so I won’t venture. At first the pressure was so much! But now I know what to do. Thank God for answered prayers 🙏🏾

  • @annhome7099
    @annhome7099 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for the message. Greetings from Barbados. Blessing on you 🙏🏾

  • @Mywatercrystaltv
    @Mywatercrystaltv 2 місяці тому

    You go gurrrll!!
    Don't waste the pain!!!
    You're a phenomenonal woman!!❤❤❤

  • @henchilamcokej
    @henchilamcokej 2 місяці тому +3

    Basic principle of accountability requires that you be accountable for your actions. People, including mass murderers, who do terrible things often have others, including the victims, to blame for their actions

  • @Mailerd
    @Mailerd 2 місяці тому +2

    These words are short but really powerful. Let every woman listen and reflect on this.

  • @_Divine1
    @_Divine1 2 місяці тому +29

    The programming is often subtle but sometimes blatant. Don't ignore red flags

  • @chinenyeorakwue6233
    @chinenyeorakwue6233 2 місяці тому +23

    That should have been a wake up call!

  • @arekeogbonna7359
    @arekeogbonna7359 2 місяці тому

    I love Tosin. Such a beautiful testimony.

  • @fridaledale2024
    @fridaledale2024 2 місяці тому

    Sista you are right.. Your experience is going to help a lot of people. Pls do not keep quiet. Continue exposing relationship red flags. ❤

  • @IrisAgnes
    @IrisAgnes 2 місяці тому +38

    Wow! That program you are referring to is POWERFUL!

  • @zemskincare5965
    @zemskincare5965 2 місяці тому +1

    May God help the guy to change . I thank God for your life sister!

  • @adadiigbomma3217
    @adadiigbomma3217 2 місяці тому

    Thanks so much for your bravery in being this honest. May God bless you with happiness 🙏

  • @ceciliamelato3866
    @ceciliamelato3866 Місяць тому

    The wounds in your soul will make you push forward with the relationship, even as you see the red flags. I was wounded in my soul,my esteem was none existent. I wanted to be validated,I was in my mid 20's. Got in a relationship, I knew I didn't want to be with him,I knew I didn't love him. But the promises he made,made got me in a relationship with him. I had kids (2) based on promises...10 years later,none of the promises came true. I got out of the relationship, he still doesn't believe I left him.

  • @simplyblessed1516
    @simplyblessed1516 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes! So many people dont understand that mental abuse occurs first before any violent abuse. Manipulation and lies ... the enemy tried to plant in fertile ground.

  • @JustUdoro
    @JustUdoro 2 місяці тому +1

    WOOOOOOOOOOOOOW…this is eerily on point. My goodness. May God continue to deliver us from strongholds and false fruits. In Jesus’ name. Amen!

  • @irenedontoh9692
    @irenedontoh9692 2 місяці тому +1

    This is so deep. I subscribed immediately the lady made her point💯✅

  • @uzoamakaukoh6624
    @uzoamakaukoh6624 2 місяці тому +2

    I love this woman ❤

  • @ogamini
    @ogamini 2 місяці тому +1

    As empathetic as I'm inclined to feel for ladies like this.. It's pertinent to state clearly that we all know that women generally love the bad guys, they always choose the bad guys over the good ones coz they say they are more interesting and adventurous then tomorrow we begin to hear stories like this.. A woman will always blame a man for her mistakes even the ones she knows very clearly could have been avoided.. Ladies feel free to get offended.. But it's the bitter truth.. I hope every victim (male or female) recovers from their terrible relationships..

  • @dan-jumbonengimarvy6000
    @dan-jumbonengimarvy6000 2 місяці тому +10

    Yes they’ll spend years programming you to believe something.
    Now when the real person shows up you don’t see it. You see the programming.
    Thank God for saving me.

    • @gabrielchristiana3150
      @gabrielchristiana3150 2 місяці тому +3

      They are not the programmer😢
      They are the programming.

    • @graceoluwadunsin
      @graceoluwadunsin 2 місяці тому +2

      What you just said made me think....
      Thank you for saving me Lord.

  • @Okafor_chioma6.
    @Okafor_chioma6. 2 місяці тому +35

    Now where’s the complete video???

  • @Nickidtytan
    @Nickidtytan 2 місяці тому

    Indeed a strong Woman to pass through such experience and talks about it😊😊 , some relationships has weird things involved

  • @placeofalltrends7596
    @placeofalltrends7596 2 місяці тому

    I am so much in anticipating mode. Please release this podcast soon

  • @arababecca6432
    @arababecca6432 2 місяці тому +2

    Staying means ready to lose your life in an abusive relationship. Leave to live!

  • @rejoicemmachukwu
    @rejoicemmachukwu 2 місяці тому +52

    Only people who had not been in a toxic relationship will not understand 🥹

    • @chiomajaneoside4157
      @chiomajaneoside4157 2 місяці тому +2

      I understand Ma, I've been there. I understand perfectly, I can relate to everything she is saying 😢😢😢

    • @tonyelegbuanya3401
      @tonyelegbuanya3401 2 місяці тому +8

      You don't have to be in a toxic relationship to understand. What is evil is evil. Don't wait until it happens to you

    • @amaoparebea2990
      @amaoparebea2990 2 місяці тому

      ​@@tonyelegbuanya3401ikr

    • @manifoldhitslunargrace7603
      @manifoldhitslunargrace7603 2 місяці тому

      Thanks well said​@@tonyelegbuanya3401

    • @manifoldhitslunargrace7603
      @manifoldhitslunargrace7603 2 місяці тому

      I don't have to have been in a toxic shit to identify toxicity, I just have to run once I notice a red flag

  • @aminualiyuabbas7341
    @aminualiyuabbas7341 2 місяці тому +2

    Yo! It takes two to tangle. The red flag you saw was the kind of person you actually wanted. So he became that which you wanted. In every relationship, man treats a woman how he wants to be treated. So if you display bad at first. Well, vis a vis.

  • @joydaniel1327
    @joydaniel1327 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm happy you're talking about it.

  • @graceadoro
    @graceadoro 2 місяці тому +30

    Please can we get the full video 😢

  • @manfredmichaelwilliam6681
    @manfredmichaelwilliam6681 2 місяці тому

    God bless you for this deliverance. May God use your message to deliver many that are in such condition.
    Really life without Christ is crisis

  • @Ozmarc254
    @Ozmarc254 2 місяці тому +2

    And the saddest part is that she will always be bonded to him giving any guy who comes after nothing but headache

  • @elizabethm8610
    @elizabethm8610 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for saying all this❤❤ I appreciate you ❤

  • @ghananaturals8525
    @ghananaturals8525 2 місяці тому +6

    "you will see the red flags and the wounds in your soul will urge you to continue". phew, that's a word.

    • @mtp472
      @mtp472 2 місяці тому +2

      Which nonsense wound? RUN RUN RUN... I STILL DON'T KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH WOMEN. LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. SIMPLE! IMAGINE STAYING IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP BCOZ OF THE FEAR OF WHAT PIPU WILL SAY. LEAVE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. LEAVE ABUSIVE MARRIAGE. RUN!

    • @joyerhabor2229
      @joyerhabor2229 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@mtp472 I don't think it is that easy to just leave and run. It is easy for many of us ( myself included) to say leave and run but we don't know what's really going on in there. I am not in a relationship and I have never been in an abusive relationship but I have seen relationships and marriages with abuse,so if the shoe fits . Sometimes these people just need push and help to get out of it while some just need God .

    • @2oubleD
      @2oubleD 2 місяці тому

      @@mtp472if it was so easy to run from bad things, sun wouldn’t even be an issue and we would all be in right living with God. Ppl need healing to see the truth and until we acknowledge God and be transformed by the renewal of our minds we will stay stick in crippling situations and not fulfill our God-given mandates.

    • @mtp472
      @mtp472 2 місяці тому +1

      @@2oubleD MY OWN IS THAT IT'S BETTER RO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE THAN TO DIE. INFACT

    • @mtp472
      @mtp472 2 місяці тому +2

      THAT 'TIME TO HEAL' MAY NOT BE THERE O IF U ARE GONE! RUN FIRST AND BE HEALING LATER. DON'T TRY TO HEAL BEFORE RUNNING. THE PIPU JESUS HEALED FIRST MAKE MOVEMENT BEFORE HEALING CAME O. JESUS WOULD SAY, "RISE, TAKE YOUR BED AND ..." PLS OOO... LEAVE VIOLENT AND ABUSIVE MARRIAGE BEFORE HEALING O. YOU CAN'T HEAL IN THE MORTUARY OOO...

  • @azpersonal
    @azpersonal 2 місяці тому

    Thank you, Lord, that I have never fallen into this type of love. The thing no dey catch me because my mumu no dey tey🌚. So glad she survived

  • @tiannahmo1581
    @tiannahmo1581 2 місяці тому +13

    I can relate truly words are seeds

    • @irenemark9219
      @irenemark9219 2 місяці тому

      Yes so can I. You don't know when it's planted until you see yourself doing something you've sworn you'd never do because of a passive suggestion someone made.
      But how can one protect themselves from these word seeds that begin to supplant godly ideas you've always held onto?

  • @rubytuesday9831
    @rubytuesday9831 2 місяці тому +2

    What an intelligent girl...so on point😢

  • @doodeeventures8581
    @doodeeventures8581 2 місяці тому

    Devil is wicked. Thank God you are free. Embrace God to heal properly.

  • @RunorLove
    @RunorLove 2 місяці тому

    God is so good in the life of this girl.proud your out sis❤

  • @JamesORileyMukonda
    @JamesORileyMukonda 2 місяці тому +29

    The things we date

  • @saphirwenzi5882
    @saphirwenzi5882 2 місяці тому

    Stay strong beautiful lady!!❤❤

  • @All-as1
    @All-as1 2 місяці тому +2

    This is why virginity was cherished. Get with a woman that has those ties, and mad problems ensue. Even virgins in this time can be messed up. Virtue matters more than anything

  • @PhilbertOtasowie-xy4uj
    @PhilbertOtasowie-xy4uj 2 місяці тому +2

    I cant wait for the full video 😢

  • @sourceinsights
    @sourceinsights 2 місяці тому

    Amen.... This is truth. Live 🆓

  • @HarrietAgbenya-qs1vf
    @HarrietAgbenya-qs1vf 2 місяці тому +4

    I have watch this a million times just today

  • @sarahisrael8848
    @sarahisrael8848 2 місяці тому

    Some people are really working for the devil. Some don't even know... Thanks be to God that you're here testifying ma'am. May the Lord complete you and heal you

  • @lovendannachi2303
    @lovendannachi2303 2 місяці тому

    Your story is inspiring,. 🙏 thank you.

  • @Egorpy
    @Egorpy 2 місяці тому

    💯 accurate about the "programming" ❤

  • @MustYouTalk
    @MustYouTalk 2 місяці тому

    I can’t even begin to imagine how it might have felt being with an abusive person. I wish you well in your healing journey..
    .. however, I didn’t hear any accountability from you. Starting a relationship with a person who will encourage you to go against your believes is on you. We all have to choose better. That’s on us. Be more accountable for the decisions we make and the consequences.

  • @francesmbewe8457
    @francesmbewe8457 2 місяці тому

    I enjoyed listening to this so much ❤❤

  • @KochHaven
    @KochHaven 2 місяці тому +6

    Where is the full video pls. Just checked through the channel & didn't see it.

    • @vivianalabintei1419
      @vivianalabintei1419 2 місяці тому

      Go back and check, it's out now

    • @KochHaven
      @KochHaven 2 місяці тому

      @@vivianalabintei1419 yes, I’ve seen it. Thank you

  • @dukeisang
    @dukeisang 2 місяці тому +4

    He simply meant... let's shed innocent blood 😢😢😢

  • @mrsddrake
    @mrsddrake 2 місяці тому +2

    You will see the red flags, but the wounds your soul will urge you to continue.😢

  • @ChukwubuDike
    @ChukwubuDike 2 місяці тому +11

    Please where is the full pod. I came here from tiktok just for this but i can't find it.

  • @manifoldhitslunargrace7603
    @manifoldhitslunargrace7603 2 місяці тому +1

    I don't have to have been in a toxic shit to identify toxicity, I just have to run once I notice a red flag

  • @maydeed3964
    @maydeed3964 2 місяці тому

    Please go tell Morayo of TVC this! With her recent fllipant comments about DV. It beggers believe that she doesnt understand DV abuse the "programming" and evil manipulations. God bless you Sister and HEAL UP

  • @OGBAESTHER-jf6cm
    @OGBAESTHER-jf6cm 2 місяці тому +1

    this is very true!! they will think you're doing it with ur power

    • @SASK_M_Y
      @SASK_M_Y 2 місяці тому +3

      And most of the times it takes you to free yourself and that's why people say such things. Till you come to your senses and make that intentional decision,you will continue to be programmed

  • @sonofokere
    @sonofokere 2 місяці тому +5

    Can you please prompt me when the full interview goes online

    • @hilarysmartt5809
      @hilarysmartt5809 2 місяці тому

      Same

    • @TemplingRight
      @TemplingRight 2 місяці тому

      The full interview is out now. Check the channel

    • @TemplingRight
      @TemplingRight 2 місяці тому

      @@hilarysmartt5809it’s out now on the same channel as this short

  • @rebbybam230
    @rebbybam230 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes those in abusive relationship dont ever judge them z pray theyll get out some day

  • @Ozmarc254
    @Ozmarc254 2 місяці тому

    Beautiful words are often the children of trauma. Whenever you hear eloquent speech, moving poetry or uplifting music, it's almost always comes from a place of pain

  • @user-cv8me7vw3y
    @user-cv8me7vw3y 2 місяці тому

    May we have the capacity to speak up and save others

  • @lucasbrasi4625
    @lucasbrasi4625 2 місяці тому +2

    Thats what happens when you dont heal...The need to jump into another relationship like your life depends on it..Its ok to be alone for a little while...Dysfunctional homes screw with people's lives making them toxic..Healing to every broken soul..

  • @chibuikeanyadike8288
    @chibuikeanyadike8288 2 місяці тому

    Best way to learn is through your experiences, but a better way to learn is through other people's experiences.

  • @jrthomas1301
    @jrthomas1301 2 місяці тому

    Abuse is a terrible seed. The enemy knows all of our weaknesses, the fertile ground that God created for good and beauty, which he'll try to use to destroy us. This world and its influences (experiences) can make us all ripe to certain abuses. It starts very "small" but how quickly it grows and take root. Only God's love provided through His Holy Word will heal. Thank you for the reminder to be compassionate toward others because it can happen to you. Thank you for sharing.❤

  • @dee_alden
    @dee_alden 2 місяці тому

    It's quite simple. If the soil is fertile, and the seed isn't dead, growth is inevitable. Of course not all growth is positive

  • @gideonozuluoha9029
    @gideonozuluoha9029 Місяць тому

    People be acting stupid all in the name of Love.

  • @joyjaiyesimi8946
    @joyjaiyesimi8946 2 місяці тому +1

    Wow! You’re a woman of wisdom . Pls help our young girls. Marriage is beautiful! But never rush into it and don’t follow unwise women.

  • @tolua.3094
    @tolua.3094 2 місяці тому +4

    Abusive??? What’s abusive here??? Who was abusing who??? Two dumb adults living recklessly is now an abusive relationship??? Y’all just lost in this world

    • @ijeomanwichi1242
      @ijeomanwichi1242 2 місяці тому +1

      Look for the full clip and know what led to her telling this story of pain.Then you will understand the Genesis

    • @userexperienceconsulting6725
      @userexperienceconsulting6725 2 місяці тому +3

      Abuse is not only insults and beating, it goes far beyond that. The guy definitely knew what he was doing. He wanted to share his personal trauma with her to the point that she establishes demons such as he has and he drove it far!
      Brings to mind a psychopath.

    • @tolua.3094
      @tolua.3094 2 місяці тому +1

      @@userexperienceconsulting6725 and you know this because you know the guy. Y’all just jump to conclusion with one side of a story. In all she has said here in this short, I see no abuse…just two lost souls

    • @ayotundesoaga404
      @ayotundesoaga404 2 місяці тому

      Sensible comment so far.. He told u to engage in some senseless stuffs like smoking 🚬 weed etc and u agreed to it.. Very funny.

  • @curtisantonieospears3885
    @curtisantonieospears3885 2 місяці тому

    It's All About Control. Great Video. Love It.

  • @eshemomohugiomoh9455
    @eshemomohugiomoh9455 Місяць тому

    If she doesn't blame another person, you know that's not a woman. Accountability is never in they books.

  • @tosinakin2508
    @tosinakin2508 2 місяці тому

    She said my name and it took me a sec to realize she was referring to herself 🤦🏿‍♀️😅

  • @emelynklieman5540
    @emelynklieman5540 2 місяці тому

    Only people that went through abusive relationship or environment can understand this deeply 😢.