I met a beautiful, 19-year old Filipina and we hit it off right away. I waited until she was a month past her 20th birthday before we got married. She is still beautiful, but at 70 -years old she is not so young anymore. Life goes on. 😍😍
@@bannertraveller5879 That's like trading in a vintage classic 57 Chevy Belair for a couple of 1990 Chevy cargo vans that have been rented out by Home Depot for 15 years.
i was married to a Filipina for almost 39 years when she passed. Meet a 29 year old Filipina when I was 67. She not only became my GF but she's also the mother of our daughter and son we've been together for over six years now and still going strong.
@usmansandhu-ny5zd when GF was pregnant with our daughter she was living with me at my house but when she got pregnant with our son and we were hiring a live-in nanny the family of my late wife didn't like it so I moved GF and daughter to an apartment. GF saved enough money to rebuild her house that was destroyed by a typhoon she finished her house back in June of this year. I spend three and half days with the GF and our kids and three and half days at my house to make sure my two oldest grandsons are keeping my house clean and do shopping for food for them. And yes I trust my GF when I'm not with them.
@usmansandhu-ny5zd my two daughters by my late wife live in California my youngest daughter had a daughter and son and the two grandsons living with me here in the Philippines belong to my oldest daughter.
A friend tried to hook me up with her cousin in the Philippines. She was 19, me, let's just say old. I responded on FB to humor my mischievous friend. When you see her with her circle of 18- to 20-year-old friends it's pretty obvious any relationship like this won't work, you don't fit in!
The issue is finding a virgin who is over 18, let alone 18. For some of the older hunters out there I can understand why you'd avoid that at all. but us guys who aren't in our 40s yet, or in our early 40s, want a wife wife, PH is one of the few places in the world a man can actually be the first only and last one in his own domain.
Wow talk about tragic! In one hand how does that happen must be a story to what kind of tragic events that lead to that. But why do you want another family??
I'm sorry for your losses. Before you do anything, especially moving half way around the world, you should get counseling. You need to get out of grief so you can think clearly again. Good luck!
IM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MY WIFE STEFFY, IS MY 3RD WIFE. YOU MUST GET OVER YOUR WIFE, BEFORE YOU GO, YOU DO NOT WANT TO FEEL LIKE YOUR CHEATING ON YOUR DECEASED WIFE! AND YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE COMPARING YOUR POSSIBLE FUTURE WIFE TO HER EITHER. BUT LET ME TELL YOU, A YOUNG WIFE WILL SURE MAKE YOU FEEL YOUNG AGAIN!! IF IT DOES NOT, THEN YOU WILL FEEL LIKE HER GRAND FATHER! IM 3 YEARS OLDER THAN MY WIFES FATHER! GOOD LUCK TO YOU! PS. ITS A WHOLE DIFFERENT LIFE THERE. I THINK THAT IF YOU LIKE WHERE YOU LIVE, NO NOT SELL YOUR HOUSE. JUST RENT IN PHILIPPINES SO YOU HAVE EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO BRING HER BACK TO AMERICA!
Not true and I speak from experience. I have had great relationships with both an 19 year old and 18 year old. With the 19 year old for a few years and been with the 18 year old since the day of her 18th birthday and still going strong in love and treated like a king while she is my queen. Either could compete for ms Philippines no bullshit and I know pretty girls and have had them my whole life and not because I am the most handsome man or the richest although I am not ugly or broke but I know how to talk to them, treat them good and when the time is right, give them your heart if they have given theirs. Of course there are a lot of scammers that just want the money but if you are foolish enough to part with it, well you know. I have never sent a dime to a girl I had not met in person and then only for a little food. A good girl wont ask for anything anyway.
I tried to chat with a girl from province in the past. But I stopped after around 3 weeks. She answered me every 3-4 days. The reason was that she had no Internet in her phone and needed the WiFi in the mall. So a deeper private conversation was not possible. But it's important to talk every day every hour in a long distance relationship especially to start it.
not necessarily to you but anyone reading your post..there are 2 major cell providers in the PI Smart and Globe find out which one she has and go to the companies website and you can send "load" (data load is best) to any phone number on that network ..NEVER SEND MONEY..LDR's are very difficult been there done that nothing beats being here..
I'm recently retired in puerto galera on mindoro.I short time out-of-hours bargirls for 1500php. They're better quality than freelancers or poor province women. 3 things to stay right from in the Philippines-property,business and relationships.
It does not matter if anybody stares or judges you in public. It only matters if you care that people are staring and judging you. If you care, it means you secretly believe you are doing something. Foolish to think one person can satisfy all your needs. #harem
Hi, I am coming from California, USA, and I want to visit several women in the Philippines. I will be there for 10 days during the first and second weeks of January 2025. Great Information. Thank you
can you talk about just a big younger and how is the law about that? as in my country spain is since 16 the legal age of consent relation including everything. And also if it is posible to date one year below but just not making sex yet until she gets the legal age
I was 37. She was 26. I’m 67. She’s 56. We’re in love. We think along the same lines in just about everything. I wouldn’t be happy with anyone under 40, even if I were ever in the market.
Figure out your Chinese zodiac animal, then determine which other 2 animals are the most compatible with you, then determine the ages of those animals within the 18-28 age range. Narrow your dating app searches to those specific highly-compatible animals. Many Americans read these comments, and most scoff at such things; so, I suspect that 98/100 of you will discard this comment. For the other 2 of you: You're Welcome, and enjoy a life of happiness.
I’m a 38 years old man and I’m looking for a Filipina, I’m willing to have her to be my first person in my life. All she has to do is marry me, take my last name and always trust me. I just want a woman to own me, I believe a woman is the reason for my life.
A "lot" means very different things in the Philippines compared to the west. Considering that many people work all month to earn 20k pesos (around $400), if you're a guy making $2k-$3k a month, you're considered rich here.
Renting > Buying You can be a Sugar Daddy and still be smart about it. GIve her X amount of money each month, if she wants to send it all home, that's up to her, but she's not getting any more than than. If she doesn't like it, there's plenty more ready to take her place.
Spend money on them. Is 1,000 pesos bill is like having $100 to them. They will be yours forever if you keep spending money on them. 300 a month is nothing to Americans. It is a monthly salary for a Filipino
This video is horrible advice for most men. They're going to go over there they're going to fall in love and get ripped off and she's going to take all the money that these guys send her and give it to her real Filipino boyfriend or husband. If a guy is watching this video he is not the kind of guy a young Filipina would want
Why chase bubble gummers? I'm 62...what am I gonna talk about with an 18 year old? Found me a thic 32 year old single mom...we crack each other up, enjoy our time together n she treats me better than either of my Ex wives. Done n done. Don't be greedy guys
As an ordained minister I can only marry a virgin; am I wasting my time in the Philippines? Or not? Btw I will be conducting medical testing for this. ;)
Sorry, at 67 there is no way I’m looking for an 18 to 24 year old Filipina girl. Wayyyyy too young. Heck, I sometimes think I’m cradle robbing my 32 year old lady….
Ellie, you are promoting bad idea. Marrying an 18 to 21 is not right answer for everyone. I think it is perfectly OK to do this, but many older men do not enjoy a woman that young. There is no one size that fits everyone. It hardly needs saying, the critical issue is can the two people create a durable and mutually satisfying relationship. That is easier than many think if you focus on things that do not change. If you focus on the emotions that are rooted in the limbic brain, AKA primitive brain, you are headed for disaster most of the time. It does not matter who you are, you need to focus on things that do not change. This is not airy-fairy ideas. One very simple idea is children and how many are wanted by both parties. She wants 6, he wants 1. Or the other way around. There are many other issues. Too many to address here. Thank you for an excellent Vlog. You provide good information. Grateful fan. BTW: my preference is for an older Filipina 40 to 45. To each his own.
Honestly it's not difficult for a foreigner in the 60s to get such a young and even pretty Filipina. But it's not smart. It's almost impossible to have interesting life with such a young girl, except you see her as your daughter and not have any sex with her. For a real partnership it's much better with a matured and old partner, me personally would not start with one younger than 35
18 is 4 years removed from 14...that's a heavy lift for a guy anywhere. If she's already a mom, you're in business...she's had a crash course in pain, responsiblity, and now is looking for a good, responsible, man...not the guy-type that just kicked her and the infant to the curb.
I met a beautiful, 19-year old Filipina and we hit it off right away. I waited until she was a month past her 20th birthday before we got married. She is still beautiful, but at 70 -years old she is not so young anymore. Life goes on. 😍😍
@@bannertraveller5879 That's like trading in a vintage classic 57 Chevy Belair for a couple of 1990 Chevy cargo vans that have been rented out by Home Depot for 15 years.
Smart!
Congratulations on that long marriage.
"Beautiful flowers stay planted" 🌸
i was married to a Filipina for almost 39 years when she passed. Meet a 29 year old Filipina when I was 67. She not only became my GF but she's also the mother of our daughter and son we've been together for over six years now and still going strong.
What country are you living now
@usmansandhu-ny5zd living in the Philippines now and have been for almost 15 years minus few trips back to California last time in California was 2016
@@mikebrown1746 ohh
Your kids living with you in the Philippines right
@usmansandhu-ny5zd when GF was pregnant with our daughter she was living with me at my house but when she got pregnant with our son and we were hiring a live-in nanny the family of my late wife didn't like it so I moved GF and daughter to an apartment. GF saved enough money to rebuild her house that was destroyed by a typhoon she finished her house back in June of this year. I spend three and half days with the GF and our kids and three and half days at my house to make sure my two oldest grandsons are keeping my house clean and do shopping for food for them. And yes I trust my GF when I'm not with them.
@usmansandhu-ny5zd my two daughters by my late wife live in California my youngest daughter had a daughter and son and the two grandsons living with me here in the Philippines belong to my oldest daughter.
The way you pronounce "coconut" really does it for me 😆😆
I could listen to Ellie talk for hours. Something about her “breathy” pronunciation just works for me 😘
Simpy
Very true, great voice for this medium....
OMG Ellie, you are soooo entertaining and personable ! Happy 2025 sweetheart !!
A friend tried to hook me up with her cousin in the Philippines. She was 19, me, let's just say old. I responded on FB to humor my mischievous friend. When you see her with her circle of 18- to 20-year-old friends it's pretty obvious any relationship like this won't work, you don't fit in!
Wise advice indeed thanks Ellie
all you need is...💰💰💰💰...we are talking lust not love...Philippines.. one big hustle..🤫✌🏽
Do we mean a lovely 18 year old virgin -- who is as pure as the driven snow?
who is as pure as the driven snow?
yes as pure as the snow in the Philippines 😀
@@MickeyMouseParkwait lol
The issue is finding a virgin who is over 18, let alone 18.
For some of the older hunters out there I can understand why you'd avoid that at all.
but us guys who aren't in our 40s yet, or in our early 40s, want a wife wife, PH is one of the few places in the world a man can actually be the first only and last one in his own domain.
Sounds like a Christian nation are the best huh? Far cry from what the USA used to be!
I lost my only son this year, shortly after my wife of 38 years ended her own life. I am so tempted to go here. I miss having a family so much.
Wow talk about tragic! In one hand how does that happen must be a story to what kind of tragic events that lead to that. But why do you want another family??
@@journeytrials good question, why? You already did the family thing, dont have to keep doing family...other choices....
I'm sorry for your losses. Before you do anything, especially moving half way around the world, you should get counseling. You need to get out of grief so you can think clearly again. Good luck!
@@journeytrials I am the only one left. I have one distant half cousin who I have seen twice in last 40 years. Just tired of being alone.
IM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MY WIFE STEFFY, IS MY 3RD WIFE. YOU MUST GET OVER YOUR WIFE, BEFORE YOU GO, YOU DO NOT WANT TO FEEL LIKE YOUR CHEATING ON YOUR DECEASED WIFE! AND YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE COMPARING YOUR POSSIBLE FUTURE WIFE TO HER EITHER. BUT LET ME TELL YOU, A YOUNG WIFE WILL SURE MAKE YOU FEEL YOUNG AGAIN!! IF IT DOES NOT, THEN YOU WILL FEEL LIKE HER GRAND FATHER! IM 3 YEARS OLDER THAN MY WIFES FATHER!
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
PS. ITS A WHOLE DIFFERENT LIFE THERE. I THINK THAT IF YOU LIKE WHERE YOU LIVE, NO NOT SELL YOUR HOUSE. JUST RENT IN PHILIPPINES SO YOU HAVE EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO BRING HER BACK TO AMERICA!
18 - 25 year's old as usual & same interests to travel companionship too.. or appreciate it's.
most other vloggers advised NOT to use dating sites...also, a good 18yo girl will not use dating sites.
Not true and I speak from experience. I have had great relationships with both an 19 year old and 18 year old. With the 19 year old for a few years and been with the 18 year old since the day of her 18th birthday and still going strong in love and treated like a king while she is my queen. Either could compete for ms Philippines no bullshit and I know pretty girls and have had them my whole life and not because I am the most handsome man or the richest although I am not ugly or broke but I know how to talk to them, treat them good and when the time is right, give them your heart if they have given theirs. Of course there are a lot of scammers that just want the money but if you are foolish enough to part with it, well you know. I have never sent a dime to a girl I had not met in person and then only for a little food. A good girl wont ask for anything anyway.
@@ballinonabudget1130
may we know which dating site it was?
Hello,
Ellie, I liked your delivery and your advice fits many situations. The "coconut" comparison was funny.
Steve 😊
Ellie is gorgeous
Love your videos, Thank you 🙏
Great video and very informative. It also provides information that is consistent with my own experiences in the Philippines..
I like young fresh coconuts 🤗
Ahahah creepy
@@mimiannmie9452 No, i'm not a bad guy 😅
That is a nice reference to "Cats Paw" It seems appropriate in some cases.
After 30 years I will become a sugar daddy and go to the Philippines for a wife. I will definitely use your advice 😂
Interesting contents 👏👏
I tried to chat with a girl from province in the past. But I stopped after around 3 weeks. She answered me every 3-4 days. The reason was that she had no Internet in her phone and needed the WiFi in the mall. So a deeper private conversation was not possible. But it's important to talk every day every hour in a long distance relationship especially to start it.
not necessarily to you but anyone reading your post..there are 2 major cell providers in the PI Smart and Globe find out which one she has and go to the companies website and you can send "load" (data load is best) to any phone number on that network ..NEVER SEND MONEY..LDR's are very difficult been there done that nothing beats being here..
You do realize that long distance relationships existed long before the internet and the advent of affordable phone calls, right?
@@MickeyMousePark I knew it later. I sent a lot of load to my girlfriend (my wife now).
Yay Ellie again.
Deep Province is best
I'm recently retired in puerto galera on mindoro.I short time out-of-hours bargirls for 1500php.
They're better quality than freelancers or poor province women.
3 things to stay right from in the Philippines-property,business and relationships.
I hope they are disease free, your little rubber may or may not protect you....
Hopefully your little rubber will protect you from disease.....
@3777177 get checked once a year-monger life is tough sometimes....
How much do freelancers want for ST there?
@this.is.berlin largely depends upon the season, quantity and quality.
1500php.
Absolutely. Young people are not tainted
70's are over mate. These days lucky to get to 14 without being tainted
It does not matter if anybody stares or judges you in public. It only matters if you care that people are staring and judging you. If you care, it means you secretly believe you are doing something.
Foolish to think one person can satisfy all your needs. #harem
Hi, I am coming from California, USA, and I want to visit several women in the Philippines. I will be there for 10 days during the first and second weeks of January 2025. Great Information. Thank you
Modern Pinays are so much different from those ones who are in their 50,those middle aged now was close to ideal in their 20's
Yea sweetie wanted that as Both Christmas Eve and Present gift vocabulary 💖💖💖💖💖💖
Ill just rent 18 year olds. They will remain forever 18.
You know what you are?
A FRICKING GENIUS!
Reminds me of that line from Dazed and Confused - "I get older, they stay the same age."
@@nunuvyurbiz123 or the other saying "If it F***s, Floats or Flies it is better to rent rather than buy"
that's not sleazy at all. 😆
Seems kind of pedoish
Iam serious in finding a great quality Filipina.
Please help a great Australian man.
Living in Dumaguete now🤞🙏
Just go to the province and give a young filipina money
No money no honey and money talks. Got it.
A Very Smart Lady, Old American Living In The Philippines. I Chose a much Older Lady Though. I didn’t want to Raise Another Child.
She not believe what is in the script... LOL. And she is right. Just be with the one you connect and fall in love with.
Beautiful woman ever
I just want a loyal one. Loyal but cute too.
can you talk about just a big younger and how is the law about that? as in my country spain is since 16 the legal age of consent relation including everything. And also if it is posible to date one year below but just not making sex yet until she gets the legal age
I was 37. She was 26. I’m 67. She’s 56. We’re in love. We think along the same lines in just about everything. I wouldn’t be happy with anyone under 40, even if I were ever in the market.
Can you do a video how to find a good filipinas, how, where to find her, how to approach, will English be a barrier, city vs province filipinas.
The young ones only want your money, as soon as you quit giving them money they are gone
Figure out your Chinese zodiac animal, then determine which other 2 animals are the most compatible with you, then determine the ages of those animals within the 18-28 age range. Narrow your dating app searches to those specific highly-compatible animals. Many Americans read these comments, and most scoff at such things; so, I suspect that 98/100 of you will discard this comment. For the other 2 of you: You're Welcome, and enjoy a life of happiness.
Don't want no 18 maybe like 28 with no kid.
too old
Good luck haha
Unicorn
Where can I find an 18 year old Ellie?
I’m a 38 years old man and I’m looking for a Filipina, I’m willing to have her to be my first person in my life. All she has to do is marry me, take my last name and always trust me. I just want a woman to own me, I believe a woman is the reason for my life.
😂
Hilarious.
What I need to know is how to get Ellie!
Sweet
Who can we contact you
You live there?
Overall good tips
Step one: Have a lot of money. The End.
A "lot" means very different things in the Philippines compared to the west. Considering that many people work all month to earn 20k pesos (around $400), if you're a guy making $2k-$3k a month, you're considered rich here.
You are so intelligent and beautiful.. How does a gentleman 🤔 find a woman like you?
Passport Attained ° > ° En route.??
I want to marry 2 young energetic filipinas
Just be rich. They will be flocking to you😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes, timing is everything, but I was born with a broken watch. 😢
The real question, is Ellie available? 😊
No Dear Friends before its very good tò married philippine girls .Today its another situations its a Dreams. Only pay pay pay..
Practicality rather than physical attraction.
Not always. A 50 year old Dicaprio looks far better than 18 year old guys.
Most male sex symbols are over age 35.
FRESH MEAT!!
How to get you?
Deep conversation????
It must be ripe .. of course .
So is it Ellie or irish
Irish.....😂 I love the accent when she says 'smash' 😂🤣😂🤣 charr, joke lang.
Whats the real point in focusing on "Young" why not go for the " Best" choice.
Fertile and hot along with great personality is best.
I'm 60, my 33 filo gf chased me at work until she got me😅. We have a great life😉.
Thanks for the Advice. Are you single??
How old is the Smart Girl? I think she's 22.
She looks 38
No broker
Basically an 18 year old Filipina would just be Arm Candy. I would need someone with an MBA and possibly a Juris Doctor degree.
Make sure she not child minded. And be careful with financial need of her parents. And last can you handle a Young girl especially you old.
How to be a sugar daddy loser and pay for the whole family.
How to be an atm machine for young girls lol
Renting > Buying You can be a Sugar Daddy and still be smart about it. GIve her X amount of money each month, if she wants to send it all home, that's up to her, but she's not getting any more than than. If she doesn't like it, there's plenty more ready to take her place.
many new vloggers popping up giving new "advice" ....they should watch experienced vloggers' advice first😢
Spend money on them. Is 1,000 pesos bill is like having $100 to them. They will be yours forever if you keep spending money on them. 300 a month is nothing to Americans. It is a monthly salary for a Filipino
Is Ellie taken? She's beautiful and engaging.
This video is horrible advice for most men. They're going to go over there they're going to fall in love and get ripped off and she's going to take all the money that these guys send her and give it to her real Filipino boyfriend or husband. If a guy is watching this video he is not the kind of guy a young Filipina would want
I'm watching it and I'm a Chad 😂
Facts just get the booty and run 😂
Sound advice. Thank you.
❤
So, what is a male westerner a flippina would like?
The men you previously described!
More interested in 40 something than teenagers 🙂
joe rogan, hahaha
Why chase bubble gummers? I'm 62...what am I gonna talk about with an 18 year old? Found me a thic 32 year old single mom...we crack each other up, enjoy our time together n she treats me better than either of my Ex wives. Done n done. Don't be greedy guys
Very easy open the wallet 😂😂
I just wonder her age
Take good care of her..and she will take good care of your wallet..
As an ordained minister I can only marry a virgin; am I wasting my time in the Philippines? Or not? Btw I will be conducting medical testing for this. ;)
No money no honey
That goes for every kind of relationship, not only younger women.
Sorry, at 67 there is no way I’m looking for an 18 to 24 year old Filipina girl. Wayyyyy too young. Heck, I sometimes think I’m cradle robbing my 32 year old lady….
You lost me at Joe Rogan.
Hmmm sorry I’m not going to watch at all
Off topic but i just did a fart that sounded like ripping a canvas sheet.
4. Learn Tagalog
Ellie, you are promoting bad idea. Marrying an 18 to 21 is not right answer for everyone. I think it is perfectly OK to do this, but many older men do not enjoy a woman that young. There is no one size that fits everyone. It hardly needs saying, the critical issue is can the two people create a durable and mutually satisfying relationship. That is easier than many think if you focus on things that do not change. If you focus on the emotions that are rooted in the limbic brain, AKA primitive brain, you are headed for disaster most of the time. It does not matter who you are, you need to focus on things that do not change. This is not airy-fairy ideas. One very simple idea is children and how many are wanted by both parties. She wants 6, he wants 1. Or the other way around. There are many other issues. Too many to address here. Thank you for an excellent Vlog. You provide good information. Grateful fan. BTW: my preference is for an older Filipina 40 to 45. To each his own.
Honestly it's not difficult for a foreigner in the 60s to get such a young and even pretty Filipina.
But it's not smart. It's almost impossible to have interesting life with such a young girl, except you see her as your daughter and not have any sex with her.
For a real partnership it's much better with a matured and old partner, me personally would not start with one younger than 35
I don't know if we can consider Joe Rogan synonymous with deep thinker 😅
Came here to say that!
Same lang
Young one wants a Daddy
You would be perfect Ellie. How to date you?
Why is this recommended on my feed? I am not a creep.
wow that's creepy
18 is 4 years removed from 14...that's a heavy lift for a guy anywhere. If she's already a mom, you're in business...she's had a crash course in pain, responsiblity, and now is looking for a good, responsible, man...not the guy-type that just kicked her and the infant to the curb.
Just money.... Even the province girls have no standards when money is involved . Desperstion not a good power dynamic.
For someone like you yes there would need to be a lot of money given
95% of Western women would only marry a man who earms more than them. Then in divorce, she takes most.
Ellie may I have your email?