We Can Finally Discuss This Incident
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- Опубліковано 17 жов 2023
- We invite you to our 50 state RV book tour. The cost is too much, but the content is priceless! Join us this week as we plan out a book tour, talk about our scariest meet up, and, of course, round it out with another AITAH.
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When the father initially put his foot down and told his daughter this was an anniversary trip for just her parents, she should have shut it, backed off and even apologized for presuming she could weasel her way in. Daughter is the a-hole, and the wife/mother borders on being an a-hole by conceding when she knew better.
J aimerais bien que ce soit traduit en Français, pour comprendre, merci, vous êtes un couple formidable, j aime bien vous regarder. Je vous embrasse tous les deux. 🙏❤
DAUGHTER A-HOLE... she wanted a free vacation and a free nanny... so entiteled brat... daughter super A-hole!
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I would never DREAM of infringing upon someone’s anniversary trip. I don’t even infringe upon an anniversary day. We’re scheduled to have a game night with friends on their anniversary, and I was happy to reschedule so that they can have the weekend to themselves. The nerve of that lady to weasel her way into her parents anniversary vacation…
I’m so sorry you have to deal with low life people like that. What type of person even does that? What kind of vial disgusting individual finds someone’s number, continually harasses them and then makes physical threats? It’s unbelievable and so disheartening to hear that you have to deal with this. I love your channel and thank you for sharing your life with us 😊💜.
What a ray of sunshine you guys are in the dark days of winter,keep it going.your chemistry is infectious
You guys are so real. If I could fill my day with people like you, I’d like people better and would want to spend more time with them. Honest!!
I laughed out loud when you said you were waiting outside with the people that were there to see you 😂
When we invite my mom to travel with us, it's to take her ON VACATION. Her own room. If the kids want to bunk one or two nights with her, they have to ask her. Jane is a huge ah and a brat. Also, phew! Fear makes us panic and act out of sorts!
I love you both. You make a bad day more tolerable. Your personalities are like shining lights in a deep, dark pit. Thank you.
@danbatten, I hope you can continue to find lights to help you climb out of the dark pit that you find yourself in.
YES, Dan Batten!!!!
I agree. You guys . make me happy t😅😊😂❤❤❤
I agree a billion percent :)
I feel the same, watching them first thing in the morning. Really helps me start the day with a smile. And a happy mood i adore yall so very much
Suggestion ... consider hiring a 'security' person to cover your meet up sessions. Perhaps you can find a person at each location, once you get the route established, with stops reserved and confirmed. Don't be scared, be prepared (a la Ryan Hall, Y'all) - be safe!
I would and I think many more would offer to be your security at no charge....
Shane, ask around.....
Love Ryan Hall!
@@marlenetobin3242 they would need someone trained in security
Great advice🎉
@allisontaylor1818...I owe it all to "Ryan Hall, Y'all"! for his fantastic weather reporting! thru all the tornado and other wicked weather events here in ARkansas!
Jane is an A-h for being immature, presumptuous and spoiled. The mom is an A-h for not having enough fortitude to shut down her daughter’s overstep. The dad is an A-h for his secretive flip-flopping. SIL is an A-h for yelling at his generous in-laws on the phone. Shane’s right EVERYONE is the A!!! Sorry, Grandkids. You’re walking in the footsteps of 2 generations of A-hs.
Well, now I don't need to leave a comment because you said it all. Preach!
40th anniversary romantic trip. NO KIDS OF ANY AGE. PERIOD
Preach it, sister! It sounds to me like mom and dad were wishy-washy like this when they raised Jane, letting her get her way far too often, and now Jane assumes she can get away with it. Such unmitigated gall she has! And I agree that dad handled it poorly, almost passive-aggressively (which may be another trait that runs in this family). I don;t have any grandchildren, but I have two grown daughters, and neither of them would ever DREAM of imposing upon my wife and me like this.
Nope. Only the daughter is the a-hole.
@@alekhidell3644don't give the gma a pass for being a spineless weakling then blaming it on others
Good luck on your Book Tour - may you have much success with your sales and your trip! The troll story and library meet-up...so sorry for the angst you had to endure. Amazing what you go through when being famous! Finally, It is so hard to know the all-round dynamics of such an extended incident that was described in the final segment of your podcast here. One wishes everyone could do the right thing each moment...perhaps the best lesson is to remember the story and try and catch ourselves to do the right thing in the moment. Thanks as always for your sharing your lives. Your humor and good nature is always uplifting.
One of the most genuine, real, down to earth awesome people to walk this planet! I just love, adore & admire yall like CRAZY! Been watching/following you 2 for sooooo dang long it's nutso, and have to say its been so awesome to watch yall grow & to see just how far yall have come, both as individuals & as a beautiful couple! Cannot wait to see what's to come! Thank you both for all the hard work, dedication & the many late nights *as I can only image the work it takes*!
Sending ❤️
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The fact the daughter felt so intitled to even ask says alot she obviously grown up with little boundaries or respect for her parents
I really just love you two! You were meant to be on this earth TOGETHER! Thank you for sharing. I think Josh Blue would be the perfect comic to start your book signing extravaganza!
I love Shane’s humor 😂
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I loved your Gulfport meetup! 😊 Would go to another. I will say the entire segment devoted to talking about that meetup I had a strong irrational fear that it was something I did 😂 Like maybe something I said was unacceptable or unintentionally ableist or I asked too many questions cause I love you guys! Deep sigh of relief it wasn’t me lol.
You two are AWESOME! You often make my day lighter and put smile on my face. Thank you Shane 😊
Thank you Hannah😊
I am supporting the book tour idea, especially if each stop has a chocolate fountain for attendees to enjoy!
Don’t forget Allentown ,Pa
I haven't seen all yer videos, but have followed you guys from when you first met. It's been a good journey so far. Gives me a few smiles ti get me through the day.
I'm watching from a country town in South Australia 🇦🇺
I Love watching you both, you always make me smile!!!
I hate the negative things that people say/message to you, that Hannah reads out ~ Happy you both laugh at them and don't let it bother you!!!
Can't wait to read your book, will Definatly buy one/some ~ will be good for chrissy presents 😊
Keep being yourself!! Love you Both ❤
I love all of your videos. You are both so natural and REAL. I don't know how anyone can think that your love is not real. Ignore those comments. Thank you for sharing. Xoxo ❤❤
I would travel out to California from Ohio just to meet you guys in person! You guys are awesome and ive enjoyed watching your videos and following your journey. Also I must say that I have obtained the inspiration from you guys to start my own blogging and then write my first book at some point. Keep on shining a light on an otherwise dark world we live in. You both are amazing and very inspiring.
You both have such loving hearts, souls and spirits....thank you for sharing who you are, and your journey, with the world💞💞💕💕💕💕💕💕♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
Hi Hanna and Shane from North Dakota. I have been watching and 100% enjoying you videos for at least a couple of years - this is the first time leaving a comment. We have/had 2 young women with disabilities and find it so refreshing to hear the honesty of life with challenges and those that care and love unconditionally. When you do your book tour and should you decide to come to North Dakota, we would be front and center. Am sure you've already thought of this but will throw it out anyway. If you'd check with the support agencies in each state you visit - would get lots of people tha 25:26 t are dealing with the same issues as you - to come and be part of the event.
Yeah I definitely don't think he's the asshole , good for him. Jane is 100% the A-hole . Love you guys . And if you do a book tour come to Oregon 🥰🥰🥰 .
The book tour story gave me my first ( and probably my only) laugh of the day…..thank you…love you ❤️❤️
Janes parents are definitely NOT the a-holes.
The daughter and son in law had no business inserting themselves in their 2nd honeymoon more or less.
And then expect the grandparents to babysit? Hell NO!!!
Right!! Even if they had all ended up in the same place, how dare you expect the grandparents to watch YOUR kids on their anniversary trip!
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Absolutely!!!
Shane’s hair looks good like that. I would definitely attend your book signing. That would great! Texas here 🤍
We're in Fairbanks, Alaska. Make a stop here!
The sound quality was excellent. Far better than previous episodes. I usually have a hard time understanding Shane. This senior enjoyed the entire broadcast. What ever you did, keep it up. I enjoyed the story and will try to watch for you on meetup in the South California area. I look forward to seeing you face to face. I wish you well.
you guys are great XD listening to your book tour plans 10/10 and that meetup story was terrifying. And hilarious.
You two always make me smile
The best part of your podcasts 22:46 is how real and genuine you both are. So, to all the hidden trolls out there, waste your time else wear. It's great just to laugh at stupid situations.
They were right to spend time alone. Me and my husband celebrated our 40th anniversary and 8 months later he passed away. Nov will be 2 years he passed
I’m sorry for your loss of your husband.💔😭
😅 What a relief about "the camera man"! I burst out and laughed so much, constantly triggered by the anticlimax of it!!😂
Glad your book outing was safe afterall. Keep well both of you.
The banter between yall is so fun
Wish you both good health.
I LOVE the AITA segments!! Keep finding good ones! Love you guys ❤️💖❤️💖
Passive-Aggressive behavior is a short term conflict avoider. The father probably never said 'no' to his daughter. Love you guys!
Watching you together is like a masterclass in "complicité".
Shane- you should be a sit-down comic!!!!
Haha ! I think He already is !
I work at a bookstore in NYC and have been a supporter of yours for years! If you guys come to NY on a book tour I would love to help facilitate an event with you :)
I’m dying 😂😂😂. You guys are great. I’m exactly that awkward hahahaha. I can’t get the image of you guys just hanging out silently with the crowd that was there to see you 😂😂😂😂 you guys will be laughing about this for the rest of your lives lol
I stumbled across a video of you two on TikTok and just thought you two were the cutest and I had to know more.
So I went to your UA-cam page..
And over the past month, (Todaay actually)
I just finished watching what I think is about 700 videos. 😂
I started on the very first video you both posted and every night before bed, I’d go to your page and scroll down to where I last left off.
I’d watch about 5-10 videos (maybe even more on some nights cause I was just so hooked or couldn’t sleep)..
and then during the day while I was at the gym I would listen your podcasts.
And I can’t believe today I’ve finally come to the very end!
Kinda happy.kinda sad. Moment.
Don’t know if you will ever see this, but I just want to say thanks for being apart of my nights, and my workouts for the past month! You both are amazing, funny. You’re both just my kinda people.
and I love your story and what you
allowed us fans to see!
I’ve Learned so much from you, and I am more aware of accessibility and ableism now. I probably never thought twice about it and now when I got out to places I am more conscious of.
It’s funny how just a little over a month ago,
I had no idea who you guys were,
and now you both feel like my best friends!
I’m excited to continue to watch your channel and see more of your journey ☺️
Love the book tour idea! 👏 You guys always make me laugh
❤HI love you both. So happy you are in California I'm jelly I went to visit my son serving in the US Navy in June in San Diego and I loved it! Beautiful weather and landscape. Keep my son in prayers currently deployed😢 love you both. Missy in San Antonio
I’m sad you moved, but happy you are in a warmer climate. I enjoy your vlogs, no matter what you discuss.
The suggestion from Shane for the book tour is perfect and you need to add every city in Canada too because we are very friendly. Love the groopies, band, "sleeve dates". You could have a professional chef for the food too. You guys need to do a rock star tour type, nothing less! Oh, it could become a international tour with your private plane so you won't have to deal with the airlines rules anymore. Ahhh, it's so much fun to dream for you guys! Lol Love your videos and what you do for the community.
I would love to me you both! Awkward or not, I’m sure, at the end of the day, it would be a great memory. I love your humor and your willingness to share your lives with us. Please bring your tour to Oregon (the Oregon Coast is especially beautiful!). If you will have merch on this tour, please have T-shirts available that read “I’M A FREAK IN EVERY SETTING “. I will buy one for sure!
Yes, book tour!! I think that sounds awesome. Can't wait for the book to come out
I never had heard of this AITA stuff, now I had to look it up and listen to them on UA-cam, thanks🤣. Love listening to you're videos, you two are great fun.
That AITA is for sure an ESH situation. That family needs to communicate more.
Excited for your book tour! I’ll start saving now, and testing potluck recipes. 😉
Y’all better do a book tour!! I literally can’t wait!!
It would be so rad to meet you both, I hope this dream is realized.
love you guys so much.... loved your last book shane. RV book tour sounds amazing, please come to canada. i'd happily host your book reading!
I found your channel about a week ago. I love you guys! You’re such a good fit and SOOOO funny! 😃
As usual you two are adorable. Thanks! Ha. Hope you eventually make it to Kansas.
I love you to your personalities and humor is so refreshing
Can I just say that you both look AMAZING?!! You two are so hilarious. Keep it up!
"TAKE THE COOKIES, EVERYONE".
😂😂😂.
OMG I spit my coffee out
That was a pretty badass move from Dad, not gonna lie
Please do not underestimate your drawing power on your book tour. I can see easily a couple hundred people at each stop. You guys are great and people are excited to meet you.
Your sense of humour is brilliant. Love it.
Hey Shane and Hannah, Your account of the meet up was nerve wracking. I'm relieved to know that the troll did not present himself. I appreciate your candour and humour as you share aspects ofyour lives. Very Courageous, Kudos. Norm
Hey Shane and Hannah. My name is Dmytro I am 21 years old from Ukraine.
I was born with cerebral palsy. But I don't let CP pull me down. I love seeing you guys always smiling and have a great time. I love listening to your podcasts. 😀
Love you both! ❤
You two are my favorite comedy act. I adore your banter so much. How harrowing yet ending funny was that story!!
NTA: We ALL know this daughter, either from our family or someone else's. She's the one who is always angling for herself. She's taken advantage of nice parents MANY times before, no question about that. They know her. Dad also knows Mom and had he told Mom, she would have felt bad and told daughter and there would have been a huge fight and the vacay would have been ruined. He gave his wife his intended gift of a great vacay with the two of them. In this case, with this daughter, it's better to ask forgiveness than permission because no permission would have been given and they would have been stuck on vacay with their grandkids while daughter and her hubby were off having the great time Mom and Dad SHOULD have been having. So no, NTA and it's high time this daughter had to deal with the No. She was told NO in the beginning and hassled Mom til she relented. Now she'll just have to get over it as it's already done, they had the fun vacay they originally planned, (and daughter actually GOT a vacay too) and should not care at all that daughter is mad. It's her own fault for not caring one wit that Mom and Dad deserved a romantic 40 year anniversary trip by themselves and not being grateful she actually still got a vacay too. I'm sure she'll find plenty of other things to horn in on and get free things as she always does. That's my take. NTA. The daughter is TAH.
Yay! Junkyard mayhem is back!
Oh my gosh please go on a book tour!!!! Come to Salt Lake City 🙏🏼 you guys are the best. You are so funny. I love your relationship and I've learned so much about disability from your stories.
You are a blessed couple a tough young man and a smart beautiful wife. The mountains you have already concurred .
You guys should never do anymore meet and greets without having some security personal, especially with the times today. Criminal behavior has no bounds, you are always responsible for your own safety at All Times no matter time or place.
Love y'all please make safety a priority for events 💞 it's better to be safe than sorry💞
I just love you guys, and love hearing your stories about life experiences infused with humor.
Shane you are so funny…”a family dinner”…love you guys!!!
I love you ❤guys both .. wish I could meet both of you guys in person one day .. I love how funny you guys are .. ❤
Plot twist: It was him. He was both people communicating through different online names.
The guy is definitely NOT the A-hole! A person shouldn’t put their expectations on another person, and be rude a forward enough to invite themselves with the expectation of her parents babysitting while on their 40th wedding anniversary trip! In a heartbeat I would have done the same thing by changing the plans. Sadly so the daughter sounds very self entitled and selfish, plus childish for not speaking to her parents after the trip. She shouldn’t have gone on the paid for trip if she felt so strongly about the outcome!
On another note, thank you both for sharing your lives with us, I absolutely enjoy watching you two🥰
omfg the episode this time was hilarious! I'm sorry that it was such a stressful time for you, dealing with a deranged stalker like that but I'm glad it's a funny story now haha I definitely relate to being an awkward potato when meeting up with people for the first time 😂
also i remember reading the anniversary story on reddit the other day! daughter was definitely the asshole
I am nominating the book store in Peddlers Village as your Pennsylvania stop!!
That story about the troll is hilarious!! 🤣
YES,, Come to Boise, Idaho!! I absolutely love you both!! ❤️
Jane and her husband who wanted to tag along for a free vacation and to use the grandparents as babysitters knowing it was their 40th Anniversary, were the A-h. The father just wanted this Anniversary to be special . The mom of course broke down because she always gives to others and wants to make sure everyone is happy. So, the father decided to give the kids what he thought they wanted, which was a free vacation, but also do something special for his wife. This trip was about the two of them, not a family vacation and for Jane and her husband to take that away and think the vacation was going to be all about them and use the parents for babysitting service on their 40th was so very selfish ...
If you look at it that way he probably was trying his best, but he still should have told them plans had changed in advance.
The daughter should not want to go with her parents on their trip. Love watching you'll. Blessings to you both 🙏🏾
Love you guys talking about Swift and Kelce. Funny!
I’ll be a groupie for your tour!! Like in “Almost Famous” (but no drugs).
But I have to have my knees replaced first!
You guys are so fantastic! Love you!!
Guys this is sweet u guys are so sweet. U guys deserve to be together forever
Please come to Iowa! Would love to come to your book tour and meet you guys! 😩❤️❤️
Come to Cleveland!! I’d love to see your outrageously expensive book tour! Plus, Hannah, we have awesome pierogi here! And sausages! Come come come!!
I genuinely loved the idea of an opener! If you come to Maine please definitely go to Portland! Population wise it's your best bet and better than assuming you'll pick up the mainers in Boston because we won't travel in that traffic... It has nothing to do with how much time it takes in more to do with how dangerous the traffic is! I know you'll probably end up doing something in Boston but you might want to take transportation either public or otherwise to get there because it still gives me nightmares. ( I've driven in New York and that's definitely worse but I'd say it's the next best worst lol )
I hope ya'll make it to Atlantic Beach/Jacksonville Florida during your book tour. Can't wait for it to come out!❤
Omg its my new dream to open with comedy on a tour of you ❤❤
I can’t judge theme because I had a similar incident after my first grandchild was born. She was born in Minnesota in October and they had 36 inches of snow still on the ground at Thanksgiving. My husband is from Michigan and we were going to drive up over the 4 day holiday, he was used to snow. My parents wanted to see their first great granddaughter. THEY decided they would rent a motor home since my Mom had health issues. I really didn’t want to change our plans and they didn’t let us know they had already rented the RV. We went and were there for Thanksgiving dinner with my daughter-in-laws step mom and our son and new baby. The weather news peas on and lots more snow was predicted for the day we were to start home. I was furious when we had to leave the next morning! I went for my little granddaughter and I had not had enough time with her! I pouted in the rear of the RV all the way home
Looking back I realize I was the a___ hole. My Mom saw her first grgreat grandchild 3 months before she died. Seeing her was the highlight of my Moms last few weeks. There is always two sides of each story.
Keep on mak😊ing everyone laugh. I wish I could be at a book signing but I live so far in the country in Texas that you would have to come to Waco, TX for me to see you.❤️
Why did you have to leave?
@@outoftheklossetThere was a lot more snow forecast, and I'm assuming they couldn't drive the RV in the snow, so they had to leave sooner than planned. Still, maybe Grandma could've stayed and flown back later?
NTA most people don't want to provide childcare on a romantic once in a life time trip.
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Lots of snow was predicted again so we didn’t want to be stranded. It took away my visiting time. Selfish, yes. My Mom had health issues and couldn’t have flown. Had to forgive my parents but I needed their forgiveness for pouting all the way back home.
I love her comments after he talks. Okay.😂
I have a similar story to share. I had someone in my family invite me to a vacation they claimed they'd pay everything for. I said yes because I don't travel much and get tired easily. The other person who was always harassing me/abusing me ended up paying for it, and of course they used it against me (I had to video the whole incident and they were nearly thrown in jail). What's funny is I was barely interested in going there because it's religious and kind of dangerous. Recently I found out the area near it was bombed around the trip date, so I'm glad the whole thing was cancelled (I had a bad feeling about going there months previously). Moral of the story: don't treat people with disabilities like crap, or invite them to dangerous religious locations like we're stupid.
Just love ur joy happiness and fun u make me giggle so much...sooo good for soul so funny
Laugh out loud funny story about your library meet up. Thank you!!
Omg, you guys, that is so scary. I couldn’t handle that, at all.
Love his humor
Well Shane there are wheelchair accessible RV's reach out to companies that do them , maybe they would give you one to use during duration of tour as sponsor and bring awareness that there are RV's for everyone 😉 worth a try
Yes they lost their babysitters and they knew it was their 40th anniversary and the kids and their kids should have been happy to go but know that they would need to let there be some space for the love birds to celebrate and not just be the care for them. I really think that good for Grandmas husband :)
And the daughter kinda forced herself in so to many people take to many people for granted. Loved this. hugs
hey guys😊 loads of love from New Zealand ❤
You two are great! Once again come to Dubuque I will make all the arrangements for you speech where it would take place the advertising etc.