Thank you so much for watching my layoff story-it’s been quite the journey after 23 years! I'd love to hear where you're tuning in from, so we can share a little piece of our worlds. Let’s keep this conversation going!
Not judging, but why wouldnt you have saved any money whilst you had steady employment for 23 years - did they not have a 401k plan? As well, you have a lot of experience, would you not benefit from having a Head Hunter assist you in locating employment, or at the very least have a conversation re your resume - it may be something as small as how it is being presented. Best of luck to you - i'm sure you will be successful in locating employment . P.S. The moment you get new employment, please start saving a minimum 20% - you owe it to yourself!
@@quaithom3138 I thought the same, 23 years full time, no savings! I hope she takes your advice of saving 20%, or even 25% or 30% to get the retirement going. good luck to her..
Hey Kristol, I'm from Brazil! I'm about to start a very corporate job at this huge tech company after working customer service for almost 10 years. I think it would be cool to watch a video about what you would have done differently as an employee, would you have tried to hussle more, worry less? Stuff like that
Take note. Live frugally and save while you’re young. Rid yourself of the mindset that corporations have any interest in you as an individual. You are merely a line item on a budget.
This is really good advice. So many people figure that they only have to save 10% of their income because they plan to work to age 65, but you can't assume you'll be able to work that long. Many people get laid off (and it's hard to find another good job past 45), others have to start taking care of family like older parents, some get burnt out and can't mentally deal with working anymore, others get disabled (make sure to have LTD insurance). I was disabled for several years and couldn't work. Then, once I was well enough to work, I've been saving 40-50% of my income because I know that being able to work isn't a given. Save as much as you can but not to the extent that you're miserable.
I am so sorry this happened to you! I am guessing age and cost of health insurance had some bearing on the company’s decision. I was laid off one week after I turned 50 after working a similar length of time in publishing. My only debt thankfully was my mortgage. Fortunately, the was a program in my state that provided grant money to approved applicants to be pay the mortgage up to 18 months. It was a forgivable loan if I remained in the house another five years. I am hoping you have severance. I went nearly a year without employment and then worked part time at several jobs before regaining full time employment two years later. Please Do not touch your retirement. Medicaid is available for unemployed. You will be surprised at how little you can make do with. Many times I wanted to give up but one day at a time. Best wishes!
Hi! Excellent video! I am from Fairfield County CT. I was laid off at 56 after 22 years. I feel like they no longer want us when we're in our 50s. I was also shocked when I was laid off. It was a last minute meeting and was totally surprised. I cried and told boss I was taking day off. I told boss not to forget about the excellent yearly review he gave me. He was totally satisfied with my work. It has nothing to do with your performance was his response. Bastard! I did get 1 year severance and applied for and received unemployment for almost a year after severance stopped. I applied to a few jobs, but rejections. Nobody wants to pay me what I was making. They go for the younger ones. I now have a pet business. I board dogs at my home and am a dog walker. I'm happy with my life because no stress and I get to stay home and be with people I love most.
Performance reviews are difficult for most bosses, they don’t want to give an honest assessment because it almost always results in bad feelings and a strained working relationship, and it frequently spurs employees to start job shopping. Point being a boss saying “you’re doing great” doesn’t really mean much.
I was laid off at age 56 after working at a company for 38 years. Too young to retire. The shock and trauma of it all got me very sick and I could then no longer work. I had just bought a beautiful home and had to sell it. The loss was horrendous. I not only lost my job, but my home, my friends, my health, and my identity. My identity and friends were tied into my job. I feel for you and don’t wish these circumstances on anyone.
I am 66 now, all through my 50s I was afraid to upgrade my living situation. Fortunately, I may live in a bit of a run down apartment, but at least it was all paid for. I saved, maxed out my 403b account. Dressed younger than my chronological age, and then retired at 62+. Yes, I feel like a survivor. Aside from my husband, I don’t really have friends. Coworkers are not friends.
Here in San Antonio TX. Good luck in your job search. I'm 63 1/2 and laid off in September. Will be taking early retirement. Paid off home, cars, and no credit cards or loans made it possible. Now, every day is a Saturday for me. Blessing in disguise. Thank you heavenly Father. 🙏
You can only get bored if you dont have the money to travel. Or if you are receiving a very small ss check and dont have the means to keep up with paying property taxes, school taxes, bills and more bills. Thats me😢 If you are 62, retired, have a big savings account, a big retirement check and No bills to pay then you could have millions of things to do before getting bored.🙄🙄 I started working at around 14 years of age I am 63 now so I dont want to work anymore but I have to.😢😢
@@Peace-nm6bx I’m fine financially. Pension , ss , paid house. I was speaking of my personal experience only. Different people have different wants, desires.
2 things I've been passing on to the young people (my kids and my direct reports at work): 1. Start saving as much as you can afford the second you have a 401k, so you can retire in your 50s, or at least not have to worry as much about ageism at that point 2. Always be prepared for a layoff. Keep up with your network before you need those contacts, keep your resume updated and be ready for the layoff conversation if it ever happens. This way you can stay calm, ask questions and potentially negotiate. And hot tip, if you turn 55 (or older) in the year in which you lose your job, then you can take money from your 401k (from that job only) without penalty. Its called the "Rule of 55". So keep up with your rollovers. Best of luck to you Kristol!
thank you for hot tip. I was laid off after 22 years and did not know about Rule off 55. I can use money now for some home renovations.Thank you so much!
After 2 layoffs in my 30s, i learned to Not tie my identity to my job / employer. I started my own home business in my 40s, and I grossed $1.5M, which is $2M today. Being my own boss, was the best thing.
I’m sorry to hear this happened to you. Being laid off can be a terrible feeling, being laid off from a long time employer is even worse. I was laid off in 2013 after 17 years with one company, I felt so lost and was so unprepared for it. I had planned on retiring with the company, but of course that didn’t happen. My advice to everyone is always always have a backup plan, and if at all possible, have something saved for emergencies. And remember, your work doesn’t define who you are, that was another mistake I made. I’m in Southern California ☀️🌊🌴🏔️🏜️, I was born and raised here and the only place I’ve ever lived.
Happened actually 3 times to me in my IT career since 2000. It is tough to be an IT professional. What you described is exactly how it goes. Most difficult and strange is to go through the week without working. It is like your life goes from 120 miles per hour to 5 miles per hour. It is great idea to create your own schedules and routine and never give up. Excellent video, thank you! Also good luck and wish you find much better job soon!
Age discrimination is common. I am always amazed that those doing the layoffs don't realize that they will get older too. I am lucky to have a union job with protections. Corporate work is so stressful
Girl, I can relate! I was released 2 years after I built an entire department for them. And then the reasons that they let me go was so bogus. I feel you. I'm 60 years old, just 2 years from Social Security... 6 months later, I finally found a Contracting Gig that I am very thankful for, but all I can say is...thank God for family!
My ❤ goes out to you. I had the same experience last month, after 15 years. I also WFH. My last day will be next week. Fortunately for me, at 66, I decided to toss in the towel and retire on very meager savings. I never shed a tear, nor have I lost a minute of sleep over this situation. It is almost a gift, as I would never retire if it were based on my finances. This job market is beyond brutal, and for once I am not going to knowingly subject myself to constant rejection and disappointment. Had this happened to me when I was younger, I believe that all of my thoughts and feelings would mirror yours. This is merely to send you love and light, because I feel blessed… regardless of how budget conscious I will be living. Side note, in anticipation of this possibly happening in my future, I relocated from SoCal to Vegas last year. It is far more doable. 🌟✨💫
I was in IT for 25 years. I left when they outsourceed all our jobs to India. I have been a nurse for 15 years and have been much happier. Hope all goes well for you. Hang in there. You will find something.
Hello from Phoenix Arizona I am so sorry you was laid-off. My best friend was laid off after 20 years she was crushed. We cried together. She reached out to people about her layoff and found a job through church member. She found a job 2 months later. My best friend is close to 62. My other best friend laid-off after working 10 years. This best friend is over 50 still looking for work. Thank you for sharing sending hug from AZ.💐
I am so sorry for your current situation. I work for DOD and may be part of those cuts they are proposing I am 62 and was planning to working to FRA. I started preparing for the unexpected 6 years ago. Paid off my home and vehicles. I am retired military and when I first retired I was in cancer treatment so I spent a year looking for jobs. Heard so many excuses over qualified, too military you name it. So worked for the state for a few years then moved to DOD where I currently am. I have worked some contract offsite jobs at night and weekends. I guess that I am and have always been in fear of walking up one day without a job. I watched my daughter go through the stress little over a year ago she was so stressed she lost 30lbs. She is better now praise god. I truly hope you find something soon. I know that if I am laid off I may not get another job. Most jobs that are physical in nature I can't do because of injuries so praying for the best. Again thank you for sharing I am 62 by the way.
I am so sorry for you... you seem such a nice person. I was laid off in April. I found a new job 5 mths later, it is entertaining, remote and guess what... I got promoted to manager for the first time in my life, and I'm 52. Life goes on... it was a big shock at the beginning, I thought I was done, but look at me now.... give it time... you will heal and become even stronger... and you will never fall in love with any company ever again unless is your own.
That's really wonderful to hear. I had several co-workers in their 50s get laid off a year ago - six of whom I knew pretty well - and only one of the six has found a new position, and it took him like 8 months to find a job. You give some of the 50-somethings hope.
@Peace-nm6bx - My company hires from out the US.... the workforce is everywhere, Latin America, India, Turkey, Portugal, UK.... so many cultures and different accents! Is on LinkedIn, under remote, we are hired and paid as contractors, not payroll.... and I know the money is much less bc we are contractors, even though highly educated. Nevertheless, it is income and WFH.
Been there done that. I worked 30 years for my company and the day AFTER Labor Day I was called in the office and told they no longer needed me. I was 57. I was devastated. Self-supporting, no longer with a job terrified me. It took me 6 months and 600 job applications to get another job. Was in that one for a year and a half and they were shut down for not paying people their pension deposits. Again it took 6 months and another 600 job applications. Ended up in a job working for a witch and after a year having her tell me I should wear better clothes, I decided it was time to leave. Six weeks later saw an ad for a job that was 3 weeks old. Took a chance and applied; had a new job 3 days later. My boss had been in Europe on business that week. When she came back, she found my letter of resignation on her desk with only 1 week's notice. She didn't talk to me all that week . . . not one word until the final day when I told her at 3:30 there was nothing more I could do and that I was leaving and I walked out the door.
There is no loyalty anymore. Probably not being in Germany made you an easier target. This is a sign of the times and is happening to many people. I have also seen a push to get rid of people who are older. It is very traumatizing. Also, I am hearing from many people that when they apply for jobs they never hear anything back from Human Resources Departments even if they get interviews. This is something that takes a long time to recover from. It is a grieving process.
Kristol, greetings from New Mexico. After retirement I felt the same loss regarding my sense of self. My work defined a great deal of who I envisioned myself to be. Your honesty and courage in sharing this is admirable. Keep sharing from your heart and you’ll rise again. You are a natural for a channel that helps others. You are not alone!
At 52, I have been with my employer for 18 years. I've seen people come and go, and I know no one is safe from layoff. I think it's terrible you don't get unemployment. How is that possible? Sending positive thoughts that you land a job soon!
Same thing happened to me in March 2023. I’m 62 and had planned to work for a few more years. 28 years with the company. 40 years of IT experience. I applied to over 300 jobs….got two interviews, and no job. By 2024 I decided to officially retire. Don’t believe for a moment that the job market is good. I hope you find something in your field and get back on your feet.
Same thing here. Last year I decided to retire bc I couldnt find a job. Unfortunately, i worked many of my younger years in another country so my retirement check in USA is really small. I still looking for a part time job. If you know of any part time remote bilingual customer service legit job please kindly share info😊
You have such a wonderful personality. Although the news of this video were sad as no one likes to be laid off, I must say your view of things, self awareness and just great attitude made me a new subscriber. You are awesome ! ❤
I'm 56 and our company just laid off hundreds of people. Some with 20 -24 years employment. No cause, just because it had to happen. It's scary how little someone means to an employer. Even after decades. Corporations want loyalty, but show none in return. Be loyal to no company. go to work. Do your job and go home. Take every minute of vacation you are given. Take every sick day every year. In the end skipping vacations and not staying home on sick days means NOTHING when they want to cut you out.
@@fremontpathfinder8463 I was going to pretty much say the same thing you said. People don't realize that when we take on debt, we are signing our lives over to employers because it becomes a situation where we NEED a job to pay the debt. If people would pay off all their debt and stay out of debt, then they will have the flexibility to work because they want to, not because they have to.
@@Fishouta I was blessed and Lucky . This time. I didn't get laid off but watched people i've worked with for years get walked out. It was mostly admin level people. Im in a position in the company thats quite specialized and out of many thousands of people in the company there are only 40 of us doing what i do and bring in revenue doing it. So i have that as a bit of a shield.
Sorry for you. It’s traumatic to lose a job but it’s more than that for you. You have lost yourself too. You’re now on a new journey to reconnect with yourself. List your interests and what makes you happiest. Also recognize that it wasn’t just the work and sense is accomplishment that made you happy but the socialization. The work doesn’t define you. I also love your honesty and sensitivity. That’s a wonderful trait to have. It’s courageous to be vulnerable. That authenticity is appreciated in job interviews.
The same thing happened to me in June 2023. Sixteen years at UT Austin and let go, along with 10 others also near retirement age. Ageism is a thing. You have my sympathy and I know what you’re going through.
I agree and it's not right, but yup, hit our 50's, with lots of years, gone, they save on benefits and vacation plans by getting rid of those folks who have been there the longest and have the best plans.
Lady, you are as real as it gets with giving your testimony. Kudos to you and keep up the videos as I am sure that many others benefit by them. As most of us can testify to, it's a horrible experience to get laid off, especially when you don't expect it. I personally know this. Only when you come out of the shock of it can you begin to plan for the future. Of course, it's far worse when you have to face age discrimination, which is real. Most importantly, don't give up. Keep pounding the pavement, as they say and it will get better. Again, I speak from experience. I was in my late 50s and things were looking very bleak. I'm now in my 60s and due to not giving up and God's grace, things are looking much better. My advice is to get the advice from as many people as you can regarding your situation from people you respect. The ideas of others can be very powerful. I wish you the best of luck
These Zoom layoffs are brutal. My own company did one recently and although I survived (this time), the description of the chaos and lack of compassion/empathy was shocking. I don't know why I was shocked, but I was. I'm sorry this happened to you. I will pray you get something else soon!
I was laid off during Covid ...in a Zoom meeting by my manager's boss. The ice-cold c*nt literally read from a script. Zero empathy. It was not determined by seniority.
I’m sorry this happened to you. I got laid off in 2019 as part of RIF, me and 90% of my colleagues. They outsourced our jobs. I was 39 so not in as tough a spot as you were, I found a new job 2 months later. It really sucks ageism is so rampant in the US.
I was laid off March 2, 2024, with a 2 day notice. My job was a contract position within the military system. I have quit jobs before but never laid off. I joked about the layoff for those 2 days. Then it hits you, I have been laid off!!! My mental state was not good. I gained weight and didn't care for a while. I have found myself again and focusing on getting healthy. thank you for your courage to say exactly how I was feeling. Wish you the Best KristolClear.
I'm self-employed, 47 and newly retired!!! It's so good to not have to work anymore. Friends and loved ones deserve your loyalty; not a company. We are tools in a machine for them. I understood that very young and a job was only ever a way to get money. Now my money is working for me and I am free! Hope you find your happy ending through this 💜
I’m sorry this happened to you. Most companies layoff right before Christmas. Happened to my husband. Laid off from Grumman Aerospace, Fl, after a job transfer from NY. Had to reevaluate Everything. We filed for bankruptcy to protect our house. Companies define layoffs as “economic challenges," "restructuring," "cost-cutting measures," or "market shifts" to justify the decision. And unfortunately ageism exists when you have a 30, 40 even 50 yr old hiring manager.
I feel for you! I was let go from my job after 20 years! I had health problems and missed some days of work and I was let go! I’m still unemployed after a year.
American living in Germany here. I am sorry this happened to you. The German economy is in serious decline, we are in our second official consecutive recession. It's happening to Germans too but it first happened to you :(
The conflict with Russia has caused affordable energy disruption that will ultimately collpase all of Europe in a domino fashion. Sadly our American government is behind the final destruction of Europe.
Reality to some folks! People are a tool. If "a tool" is no longer needed, it's trashed. New professional life is like that. Like many folks, I worked for 5 different companies before I retired (at age 60). My 29 year old son already worked for 4 different jobs. My 27 year old daughter has worked for 9 different full time jobs. When you get punched in the gut, stop crying about it, get back up and keep moving forward. This attitude always worked for me (and my 5 different previous jobs). It works for them as well!
Your son and daughter are quite young, so yes they’re going have to do that, it’s a little bit hard to retire in your 20s They should be more resilient.
News Flash! One does NOT really retire. A person always does something in life. At any age one can chose to work "and make money" or one can chose work to create things for themselves. For example... Today I built / installed a 10ft wide x 5.5ft out ramp for my home's shed. Yes. I'm retired from my professional field. Today I continue to "work for myself" and make my life better. You pick the life to live. I taught my kids that. You can do it as well (regardless of your age).....
I was laid off too a couple of weeks ago. After being with them for 19 years. I am getting a very generous severance package but scary looking for a new job at 50 almost 51 years old.
66 now. I was lucky to have worked with companies with generous retirement plans. In almost 20 years I was laid off from 3 different companies. Was able to take my plan with me. Five years ago at 60 I saw the writing on the wall. I quit before they were going to let me go with out a severance. I'm fully retired and I'm so glad i didn't dip into any of my 401ks when it got tough financially like some of my co-workers did. I guess I'm saying always count on hard times. You never know when things will get tough. I always planned for the worse.
I also got laid off after 26+ years in September 2021 and I loved my job at that time but the last year I was so miserable I wanted to quit but my colleges told me to wait it out and see if I got laid laid off. If I quit I got nothing and I did get laid off. I now work at a totally different industry as what I was doing before. As they say when 'one door closes another will open' and that is what happened to me.
I was 51 when I retired early due to stress. I choose to retire early than die early. Now, I have rental property, small lots for sale and a small fishing boat. I also serve my community. I am 58 now, living with my partner who has a daughter, much happier and with no regrets. I should have done sooner. Goodluck to you in the next chapter of your life. May you find peace and contentment.
I was laid off 3 times from IT. First time in 1984 when the company went BK. Got lucky and got another job 2 months later. Laid off again in 2001 two weeks after 9/11 killed sales. Didn't get another IT job until May 2003. Took it even though it was a 40% less salary. Worst job ever as I was working with consulting firm outsourcing work to India and US employees hated us. Third layoff was in April 2012 when job was moved to India. I decided to retire at 59. Layoff in 1984 taught me to save money. Layoff in 2001 made me save everything I could and paid off the house, vehicles. If I was to tell someone anything, it would be to save while you can and live a debt free life. My jobs were my identity, and that was a mistake. I should have updated my skills and moved jobs like many of my co-workers did. They took care of themselves first. Sorry you got burned by the company. It's the new wave these days. 72 now and still shocked on how companies treat people.
I love your attitude, and personality! You are a phenomenal woman! Please keep going in UA-cam, you can reach people how to soar at work and not just glide.
It’s tough getting laid off. I got laid off in 2018 after working for a company for 7 years and remember saying goodbye and hugging co-workers and almost bursted into tears. I found another job after 6 months but ended up taking a $14k pay cut.
I’ve worked for a non-profit for 30 years. Even though the pay isn’t great, I’ve been able to support myself and my son after my divorce. I am so grateful to work for a non-profit that values their employees. I’ve survived 3 layoffs but each time employees were told in advance (3 to 6 months) and they gave severance packages that were 3 to 12 months (2 weeks for every year worked but 3 month minimum). So even if I was laid off I know I would get a year’s severance pay. They also contribute 10% of my salary into my 403(b) regardless of how much I contribute so I should be able to retire at 60 as long as the stock market doesn’t crash! I’m so sorry about your layoff. I imagine it’s hard as a 50(ish) old to try to find a job in the tech field, good luck to you.
I'm sorry you're going through this. I suspect a lot of what you went through was from having been with the company for so long. I have known since my first job that no job is secure so at least that knowledge insulated me being surprised when layoffs came. I've been through many layoffs, the most painful of which was in my early 30's after taking care of my terminally ill sister, I was let go. We had no other family support around and were so young. I never missed a day of work and there were no performance issues, just "downsizing." I was emotionally destroyed and financially ruined. The hardest experience I've ever been through was made much worse by the fact that I lost my job. Throughout my working life I've been through 4 layoffs, one of which i choreographed and used as an opportunity to go to graduate school. Two others I welcomed because the exit packages were generous and the jobs weren't good. Next year i fully expect to be in another layoff, around June time. I could position myself to avoid it, but I have no intention of doing that. I'm in my mid-50's and ever since that particularly painful layoff I have focussed on being ready for retirement very early. After age 50 you basically have to assume you have a target on your back. Fortunately, after next June I don't need to work anymore. Moreover, I've already too much of my life working. I want to experience what's next. I may work part-time here and there but I'm never working in the corporate world again. All kinds of very good reasons to continue to work, all financial. Not one reason beyond that. I'll cheerfully give up the money I could make to have my freedom. The corporate world in my experience is an absolutely revolting environment. Merit has nothing to do with reward and the people you are working with are not your friends. I have friends i met early in my working life, before i was in a corporate environment. I have not one friend from the corporate jobs I have done. I won't miss any of it and anyone I've met in these jobs will be deleted from my phone and LinkedIn the day after I'm out. I certainly won't tell anyone I work with that I've been let go.
I'm so sorry you went through that. What you described-losing your job after taking care of your sister-sounds incredibly painful, and I can't imagine how hard it must have been to face that on top of everything else. It's heartbreaking to hear stories like yours, but I think sharing them helps others realize they're not alone. I completely understand your perspective on the corporate world and how it can feel so transactional and impersonal. I love that you're at the point now where you're ready to live and have fun-'Earn to live!' is such a great mindset. It sounds like you've worked incredibly hard to make that a reality, and I hope you absolutely enjoy every bit of what’s next. Thank you for being so open about your experience. It’s eye-opening and inspiring, especially for people who might feel stuck or afraid to make a change.
This happened to me one time the exact same way I was the only person on my team within America. Everyone else was in Canada. They let me go over a zoom meeting with HR. That’s when I learned never to be loyal to a company. Never believe anything they say and if you are ever the only person from your country on a team, you’ll be the first to go.
Sorry that happened. You look like you loved your line of work. That is hard.. to forcibly have to let that go. Also.. big lesson for you. Save! Save for the rainy days. I don’t know why that is so hard for so many people with stable jobs, but I guess it is in America. Best wishes!
Any time a person is laid off it is very shocking. It will take as long as it takes to feel better. You will figure everything out as you go alone. Its great that you are a smart capable woman. So, for the time being if you need to make money just take what is available for now, that helps with your mental health. Continue to send out resumes but be realistic, you may not find something comparable to what you had and remember that thats ok too. Perhaps this lay off was your sign to do something a bit different. It may be time to explore other areas of interest, be ok with mixing things up a bit. Take care of yourself, go for a walk, resolve to eat healthy, try new things. Good luck and stay open.
German here. I used to live in the US and I did not like to work there. That was ages ago. I thought it was very depressing how employers treat their employees. I used to have an American friend who also got fired right before retirement so they would not have to pay her the retirement money she earned. You live in a country where people are treated like numbers and profit comes first. In Germany not everything is great but we have extensive workers rights and if you're being laid off or fired after so many years with a company you would get a 50% of one months salary × the years you worked there. Besides that it is very very difficult to fire someone without cause anyway, people at a certain age have additional protection. And usually if people are been laid off they get a good severance pay. At Bayer in Berlin for example my friend is being let go at the age of sixty but with a hupe severance pay that she can stay home until she officially retires. And she wasn't really let go, they asked who wants to take the deal and she did of course otherwise she could still work there. Also in Germany health insurance is not connected to the employer which also a huge plus. We have four to six weeks paid vacation and unlimited sick days also. We work to life and not live to work and overtime ist also strictly regulated. Even though salaries are lower the quality of life and food and therefore health is much better. Move to Europe and find an online job here. You need less money because you do not have to save up for health issues. In several EU countries health insurance is free and cost of living is much cheaper.
Hello to Germany. I totally get why you woulnd't like working here. Your country sounds much more humane. There's a REASON half the population is on meds just to cope.
In USA we live to work. Healthcare is disguisting. If you still working the price for health insurance is too high and you are not fully covered . Deductibles are too high. When you get old the Medicare is not free. From your small retirement check social security will keep a big amount to pay your Medicare!!! And many still think this is the greatest country in the world. 😢😢 The truth is that many retirees are moving out to different countries where their ss check can afford living. Now I know the reason why many retirees are homeless even though they are receiving a social security check. 😢😢
K r i s t o l so sorry to hear that you got l laid off after 23 years it sounds like to me you're a go-getter and I'm sure you'll have something in the future for yourself and you'll do well I was watching UA-cam and I heard that the Amish from Pennsylvania had gone to North Carolina where the devastation is were the people have lost lives and homes and they are going there to build tiny homes for these people the Amish are amazing builders and I personally want to thank them and say they're great and it's a wonderful and generous thing that they're doing❤❤❤❤😊
Thank you, @alexisfreeman5481, for watching and taking the time to comment! I think I've finally reached the 'layoff was a good thing' stage. I’ve found a new job and, thanks to this channel-and people like you giving it a chance-I’m more motivated than ever to keep learning and focusing on what matters most-work to live, not live to work! If you liked this video, I’d love for you to check out some of my others-or even subscribe if you want to follow along! That’s such an inspiring story about the Amish. What an incredible example of kindness and community. I think we could all take a lesson from that and help out where and when we can.
Hi! Just found ur channel and this is my first video. My husband and I are in our 50s as well. I am sorry this happened to you. We have been married 29 years. He has lost his job for multiple reasons more times than i can count. Currently, he has been at this job 8 years, i think. I do a side hustle with my daughter, we clean a couple medical facilities. Quite frankly, if it wasn't for his multiple job losses, we would not be as prepared as we are for anything that could happen, including his retirement in a couple years. I feel like the system is designed to lul people into a false sense of security! 😢 That said, i am a new subscriber. Please continue making videos! You will get through this!
I am 57 and have worked with the same employer for 20 years. We had a round of layoffs in March 2020 (related to Covid) and again now in October 2024. I am preparing myself in case we have another round and I am on the other side of the chopping block next time around. Thank you for this video.
I'm 57 as well... I have over 35 years of enterprise-level IT experience. I WAS with the company for 10 years and held a senior-level management position. My team just completed 3 major projects and the most recent one concluded in January of 2024. All of the major projects that my team were involved in were a complete success. They decided to terminate my position and do a re-org of the IT departments in February of 2024. I've been looking ever since... Just keep this in mind. Ageism is VERY REAL and AI & ATS systems also take a major role in whether your resume gets seen or not. Regardless of how motivated you are or not, people at a certain age are viewed as "Having more years behind them, than in front of them in the workforce". And based on the information that you have on your resume, AI & ATS systems are able to determine your approximate age and qualifications and it even goes as far as analyzing your grammar, spelling, and keywords. It can even distinguish if your resume was written with AI. Its no joke out here... make sure you have a contingency plan for sure.
People seriously have to understand that with our country putting tariffs in place inflation is going to skyrocket and we all need to reduce our spending by. 50%.... I think people might believe me to be too frugal. Everyone from age 40 and down needs to save money like their life depends on it, because it does.
It's getting increasingly harder to live in this country. The last few years have been a nightmare. And going forward is not looking good. AT ALL. It didn't use to be this way. I grew up in the 60's and 70's. ANY job could support you. ANY job could pay rent. NOTHING is normal anymore. We've been spiraling down for a long time now. I'm thankful I'm retired and I hope for the absolute best for all of you.
My heart goes out to you. I'm not sure how I ran into your video, but even tho I'm not an IT person I can relate to how you feel. I'm 58 years old and work for 18 years as a hairstylist. Due to car accidents shoulder injury and other things, I can no longer do hair. I understand not being able to find a job. I really feel like they're just throwing people in their 50s away. I ended up on the streets for 6 months. I'm going back to school to become a teacher but without a job I don't have enough money to live off of. I was able to rent an extended stay for a couple months and now I'm facing homelessness once again. This world has just changed so much it's such a scary place now. I hope you're able to find a job and keep your home. ❤
I am so sorry that you are going through this. I've been through some pretty bad things in my life too and it left it's mark. I came very close to homelessness. People don't understand unless they've "been there". Some of the people in these threads have so much more self confidence and assuredness than I ever had. I admire that. Corporations are heartless entity's . I don't know how some of those people can sleep at night or look in the mirror. Can you get grants to live on while going to school so that you can live. Or work on campus? It is appalling that homelessness is becoming "normalized" too.
So sorry. The timing is not great given the upcoming negative changes to the economy, but remember it only takes one opportunity ! Good luck and keep pushing.
I know it hurts, but please don't take it personal. I was laid off 3 times. The first one was after 23 years also. I planned to retire from this job. What it comes down to is $$$. I learned that when most companies lay off good employees, the decision is likely based on the bottom line, and I was making the big bucks. Don't worry, it might take a while, for me it was 5 years after the last time. It was during the great recession. I did manage to find temp work and that's how I eventually got the full time job I retired from. So, I know the tears and feelings of hopelessness because of age, but there's always something good around the corner.
@@Joyceee54 Being able to go for 5 yrs without becoming homeless - you must have had a LOT of $$ stashed or there were two incomes. Not everyone is that fortunate. AT ALL.
@@TLA123y6f My husband 's social security, some temporary work, some unemployment benefits, some credit, some savings, shopping at The Dollar Tree and Big Lots, and LOTS of sacrifices. We both grew up poor, so we knew how to stretch money.
I had the same situation 8 yrs ago got laid off after working for almost 27 yrs now working one of the most generous company for almost 8 yrs and no stress and problem 😊
I worked for the same company for 38 years, retired at age 60. So sorry for your experience. Even though it's not personal, it has to feel very personal. I know your skills will carry you through. But it is obviously painful for you. Thoughts and prayers.
I got laid off twice in my life (pharmaceuticals); now that I am retired I realize how unimportant it is in the grand scheme of life. For me, it was an opportunity to try things I always thought of trying. After 25 years, I had a good pension socked away. Don't sweat it, you will look back and not even remember. Just a bump in the road. Re: team members - I just said "I need some time to digest what happened" and never talked to them about it. Not their business.
Oh God. I’m seeing tons of videos of older people getting laid off at the top of their careers in their 50s and 60s. I am 62 and have been unemployed for two years now. It seems to be a pretty big thing that many people are going through. The only answer seems to be social media, but that can take years to build up and not that many people want to watch us overweight older people. The other problem is that we were at the top of our pay range. I struggled my whole life to get my pay up since I only had a two year degree from putting a man through school for seven years. But in my last job that lasted 3 1/2 years I was finally making over $100,000. Now jobs in my sector are trying to offer 20 bucks an hour which is the pay I was making in the 90s.
My husband lost his job over two years ago. Good news he got a new job. Same role same salary but out of town. Luckily our kids are now out if the home so a move is possible. Keep up the hope. It just takes time.
Thanks for sharing your story. I am working in IT too, 25 years now. And I know it's just a matter of time for me to get laid off as our American company is constantly doing reorg and in the process, let people go.😢 I'm originally from the Philippines but I've been in the UK for 20 years now. All the best to you.❤
Glad you got hired again! I had been working in group health insurance for 35 years and was let go of my last job in October 2021 at age 63. After some soul-searching, I picked up a couple opportunities, one with a large insurance company to sign up retirees, which is something I had done many years prior, and secondly, I started working as an actor and model. After a few months, it was crystal clear (LOL) which was more fulfilling and NOT financially. Coming up on three years now, I am on Social Security, retired from corporate work and pursuing my acting career.
Story sad. However, the real issue is not the job. It's not being financially prepared, and that's on us. Unfortunately, this is the world where in. Move forward, and believe in yourself. Wish you well!
Remote = out of sight, out of mind. I work in HR, we are letting go of all the remote people in January 2025. The ones that can’t come in/ or won’t come in, are being let go first week of the year! Of course none of these people know this. But the writing has been on the wall for a while.
@ people need to realize that the 100% remote party is over and CEOs are drawing a hard line in the sand. (Not all industry but most) Workers know this and many should not be surprised. 2025 is the year where the hard line is being drawn and people need to either return to work or find another job. That is the sentiment of corporate America . It is what it is…..is not up for a vote. 🗳️ the boss decides
@@jazzyflorida3757 Fortunately AI will eat your job too in 2025, then you'll realize you should've fought against CEOs stupidity together with the rest of the workers, instead of being their obedient little pet. Get ready to flip da burgers. Granted, that's about a 100 times more valuable job than HR-related anything.
Hi Kristol, mass sympathy to you and best wishes in your searches. Something similar happened to me in the past, and I had to change the way that my resume was perceived so that I could land a technical role. It might be extraordinarily difficult for you to land a role in the same capacity that you have had in the past, so you might do some soul searching and come to terms with that. In my circumstance, and after being unemployed for several months, I had to change my resume so that I looked more like a technician instead of an engineer so that I could land a technician role with the hopes of working back up to an engineering role. I retained my associates degree on my applications, and removed my bachelor’s degree as well as my master’s degree. I had to reword things as well so that I didn't look so stellar. Eventually, I did land a role and updated my background in the company databases so that I can regrow into R&D engineering roles. Whether this example helps you or not, I do wish you well and the absolute very best in your new life. Sincerely, Ken
When I was laid off it was a very surreal experience. Did you feel in a daze and numb for a while? The way I felt physically really took me by surprise. Nothing made me feel that stunned before. I honestly wouldn’t have thought I would feel that way. I was diagnosed with cancer in 2021 and that did not hit me as hard.
You were fortunate to work with one company for 23 years, if you invested correctly you should be set. I was a project manager for 16 years, got laid off and after a while I went to work at Home Depot for the health insurance. it was a terrible job but I needed health care
Just because you obviously made enough $$ to be investing does NOT mean everybody else does too. For a lot of people it's paycheck to paycheck just to survive. And the next few years will be worse.
@@jovictor3007 You gotta build up that FU money. When I got laid off two years ago, I had a slight grin during the zoom call with the senior manager laying me off. He thought that was odd and asked me if I was ok. I said I was great, thanked him for the time I got to work with the company but that I was perfectly fine moving on.
37 yrs for me and my job was eliminated. So thankfully I was 61. I had I year unemployment and then collected SS ever since. Starbies? 🤣🤣🤣 I guess money is no object. Great for you. 👍🏻 I was so angry for a good year but then I saw my supervisors getting dumped left and right. It was a HOSPITAL. All way pre covid it was 2012. Thank God I was 61. I was a nurse. I never had to get the jab which I wouldn’t have. I would have quit first. Life is funny. It worked out great. God knew what I needed. I started baby sitting my newborn great niece and it has been a wonderful life.❤️❤️❤️the saving Grace was no debt, great retirement savings…and all the admin of the hospital has now turned over many times. No loyalty, no “hospital family” just cold business. Not what I loved about the early years of hospital nursing. Sad but true. The quality is gone.
I like your editing (and channel name). I hope you continue in the fashion design path! There's no age limit for that! Would be cool to see your designs 💜
Many years ago I got laid off from a company in the Detroit area that made seatbelts because they could be made cheaper in Mexico. I did a job offer from Ford but like the rest of the auto industry layoffs were common, the hours long and pay raises minuscule. I took a chance and moved into my brothers basement rent free while I started a tiny house flipping business. Today I build multimillion dollar house ls for rich people and have finally become wealthy myself-it only took 40 years 😂
I was at my company for 43 years and was 58 years old and just lost my husband 7 months earlier so …. Had to go back in the working world and I was sooo lost. I temped for awhile too. My company got bought out but I was a receptionist … why was I let go ???
Wow, you are honest with a capital h. I love that you are pursuing fashion. Your true artist self is coming out. Also, when your light went out you looked even better. It showed your real face. Experiment with camera angles. That’s what the stars do!
That's why I advocate for everyone to save more than the typical 10 - 15% of salary, because there's no guaranty we will be able to work in our 50s. If we can try to save a higher percentage, hopefully get a 401k match, and contribute the max to our HSA (which is the only vehicle that is triple tax free), we can maybe retire by 50.
@@justmarla7398 yes absolutely too old to start over. That "you're never too old" crap is bs. In your 50s, you got 10-15 years left to try and do something. You can kiss a comfortable retirement good bye. You're gonna be working a minimum wage job till the day you die.
I spent 35 years in I/T, and in the 90's they started to move jobs to India. (This was the I/T equivalent of NAFTA for the auto industry in North America) I saw the writing on the wall. I began a "game" of Frogger, moving positions strategically in order to hang on. At the same time I acquired a couple of rental properties by relocating further out, using the capital to buy them. Well, very lucky I did because at 55 they did finally let me go. That said, labour laws in Canada meant a hefty severance package, and I received nearly 200k for my years of service. I hope Americans can get their labour laws changed to favour people over corporations. All the best to you! ❤❤
I lost my job a few weeks ago, and just turned 60. I was depressed for a few weeks and took the time to get better emotionally, because from experience, it's hard getting a job when you are certain age💔. You are not alone, stay positive and keep the faith that better days are ahead.
I’m really sorry this has happened to you , our whole social structure is upside down .. when you work with people that live in there cars and being homeless is becoming criminalized and wages can’t provide shelter you start realizing something is very wrong …
It's shocking where we've gone. It didn't use to be this way. Capitalism is a very cruel system. And it's going to get worse. And everything is connected to everything else.
@@LilyGazou The powers that be want to convince us that the homeless are drug/alcohol addicts. Or the mentally ill. And they don't want help. Number 1 - I was a single mom of two kids with no child support. Two or three unexpected emergencies could have put us on the street. A job loss, whatever. It doesn't take much to become homeless. It can happen to anyone. Number 2 - we have a mental health crisis in our country. Half the population is on meds - just to cope. Number 3 - if I were to become homeless, I would imagine that if I didn't have a mental health issue to begin with I would soon develop one. And I think a very high proportion of people, if they found themselves living under a bridge, would want to emotionally numb out too (alcohol/drugs). People love to point the finger when, in reality, they should be looking in the mirror.
I am a late Boomer. I applied for a State (Union) job at 56. I made it through all of the physical training with no issue. (Academic training was simple). Now I have 6 years in and hope to retire in 5 more if I can make it that long. I will not be the one to storm a cell and remove an inmate, but I am damn excellent at the Post I am assigned to. I have excellent rapport with the inmates. They treat me as a Mom/Grandma and I am happy to be that person for them. Max Security is hard time and Humanity and Dignity are in short supply.
Thank you so much for watching my layoff story-it’s been quite the journey after 23 years! I'd love to hear where you're tuning in from, so we can share a little piece of our worlds. Let’s keep this conversation going!
Not judging, but why wouldnt you have saved any money whilst you had steady employment for 23 years - did they not have a 401k plan? As well, you have a lot of experience, would you not benefit from having a Head Hunter assist you in locating employment, or at the very least have a conversation re your resume - it may be something as small as how it is being presented. Best of luck to you - i'm sure you will be successful in locating employment . P.S. The moment you get new employment, please start saving a minimum 20% - you owe it to yourself!
I respect you.
@@quaithom3138 I thought the same, 23 years full time, no savings!
I hope she takes your advice of saving 20%, or even 25% or 30% to get the retirement going.
good luck to her..
I’m from Mi. I wish you well.
Hey Kristol, I'm from Brazil! I'm about to start a very corporate job at this huge tech company after working customer service for almost 10 years. I think it would be cool to watch a video about what you would have done differently as an employee, would you have tried to hussle more, worry less? Stuff like that
Take note. Live frugally and save while you’re young. Rid yourself of the mindset that corporations have any interest in you as an individual. You are merely a line item on a budget.
This is really good advice. So many people figure that they only have to save 10% of their income because they plan to work to age 65, but you can't assume you'll be able to work that long. Many people get laid off (and it's hard to find another good job past 45), others have to start taking care of family like older parents, some get burnt out and can't mentally deal with working anymore, others get disabled (make sure to have LTD insurance). I was disabled for several years and couldn't work. Then, once I was well enough to work, I've been saving 40-50% of my income because I know that being able to work isn't a given. Save as much as you can but not to the extent that you're miserable.
I am so sorry this happened to you! I am guessing age and cost of health insurance had some bearing on the company’s decision. I was laid off one week after I turned 50 after working a similar length of time in publishing. My only debt thankfully was my mortgage. Fortunately, the was a program in my state that provided grant money to approved applicants to be pay the mortgage up to 18 months. It was a forgivable loan if I remained in the house another five years. I am hoping you have severance. I went nearly a year without employment and then worked part time at several jobs before regaining full time employment two years later.
Please Do not touch your retirement. Medicaid is available for unemployed. You will be surprised at how little you can make do with. Many times I wanted to give up but one day at a time. Best wishes!
Facts!
You can't save your way out of a broken economy. One major illness or a couple layoffs and those savings are gone.
As someone who does budgets … this is true!!
Hi! Excellent video! I am from Fairfield County CT. I was laid off at 56 after 22 years. I feel like they no longer want us when we're in our 50s. I was also shocked when I was laid off. It was a last minute meeting and was totally surprised. I cried and told boss I was taking day off. I told boss not to forget about the excellent yearly review he gave me. He was totally satisfied with my work. It has nothing to do with your performance was his response. Bastard! I did get 1 year severance and applied for and received unemployment for almost a year after severance stopped. I applied to a few jobs, but rejections. Nobody wants to pay me what I was making. They go for the younger ones. I now have a pet business. I board dogs at my home and am a dog walker. I'm happy with my life because no stress and I get to stay home and be with people I love most.
The side hustle 👍
Performance reviews are difficult for most bosses, they don’t want to give an honest assessment because it almost always results in bad feelings and a strained working relationship, and it frequently spurs employees to start job shopping. Point being a boss saying “you’re doing great” doesn’t really mean much.
I was laid off at age 56 after working at a company for 38 years. Too young to retire. The shock and trauma of it all got me very sick and I could then no longer work. I had just bought a beautiful home and had to sell it. The loss was horrendous. I not only lost my job, but my home, my friends, my health, and my identity. My identity and friends were tied into my job. I feel for you and don’t wish these circumstances on anyone.
I am 66 now, all through my 50s I was afraid to upgrade my living situation. Fortunately, I may live in a bit of a run down apartment, but at least it was all paid for. I saved, maxed out my 403b account. Dressed younger than my chronological age, and then retired at 62+.
Yes, I feel like a survivor.
Aside from my husband, I don’t really have friends. Coworkers are not friends.
True. Coworkers are NOT friends
I had something similar happen. Still struggling.
@ I am so sorry. I hope things look up for you soon.
56 is a good age to retire. That is how old I was. I am so sad your identity was tied to your job and work friends (not real friends).
Here in San Antonio TX. Good luck in your job search. I'm 63 1/2 and laid off in September. Will be taking early retirement. Paid off home, cars, and no credit cards or loans made it possible. Now, every day is a Saturday for me. Blessing in disguise. Thank you heavenly Father. 🙏
you did it congrats!!!!
Lost my job at 62 ( department outsourced) stayed home a month ! Got bored applied and got another job in my field. 67 and still going strong.
Congratulations 🎊
You can only get bored if you dont have the money to travel. Or if you are receiving a very small ss check and dont have the means to keep up with paying property taxes, school taxes, bills and more bills. Thats me😢
If you are 62, retired, have a big savings account, a big retirement check and
No bills to pay then you could have millions of things to do before getting bored.🙄🙄
I started working at around 14 years of age I am 63 now so I dont want to work anymore but I have to.😢😢
@@Peace-nm6bx I’m fine financially. Pension , ss , paid house. I was speaking of my personal experience only. Different people have different wants, desires.
2 things I've been passing on to the young people (my kids and my direct reports at work):
1. Start saving as much as you can afford the second you have a 401k, so you can retire in your 50s, or at least not have to worry as much about ageism at that point
2. Always be prepared for a layoff. Keep up with your network before you need those contacts, keep your resume updated and be ready for the layoff conversation if it ever happens. This way you can stay calm, ask questions and potentially negotiate.
And hot tip, if you turn 55 (or older) in the year in which you lose your job, then you can take money from your 401k (from that job only) without penalty. Its called the "Rule of 55". So keep up with your rollovers. Best of luck to you Kristol!
thank you for hot tip. I was laid off after 22 years and did not know about Rule off 55. I can use money now for some home renovations.Thank you so much!
@@mabelh7305- There are some other conditions around the Rule of 55, like you have to retire.
Great information.
My friends kids and family have all left the country and won't be returning. It's honestly the best solution over the next 20ish years.
After 2 layoffs in my 30s, i learned to Not tie my identity to my job / employer. I started my own home business in my 40s, and I grossed $1.5M, which is $2M today. Being my own boss, was the best thing.
What do you do for your work from home business??
Wow congrats
I’m sorry to hear this happened to you. Being laid off can be a terrible feeling, being laid off from a long time employer is even worse. I was laid off in 2013 after 17 years with one company, I felt so lost and was so unprepared for it. I had planned on retiring with the company, but of course that didn’t happen. My advice to everyone is always always have a backup plan, and if at all possible, have something saved for emergencies. And remember, your work doesn’t define who you are, that was another mistake I made.
I’m in Southern California ☀️🌊🌴🏔️🏜️, I was born and raised here and the only place I’ve ever lived.
Happened actually 3 times to me in my IT career since 2000. It is tough to be an IT professional. What you described is exactly how it goes. Most difficult and strange is to go through the week without working. It is like your life goes from 120 miles per hour to 5 miles per hour. It is great idea to create your own schedules and routine and never give up. Excellent video, thank you! Also good luck and wish you find much better job soon!
Age discrimination is common. I am always amazed that those doing the layoffs don't realize that they will get older too. I am lucky to have a union job with protections. Corporate work is so stressful
Girl, I can relate! I was released 2 years after I built an entire department for them. And then the reasons that they let me go was so bogus. I feel you. I'm 60 years old, just 2 years from Social Security... 6 months later, I finally found a Contracting Gig that I am very thankful for, but all I can say is...thank God for family!
My ❤ goes out to you. I had the same experience last month, after 15 years. I also WFH. My last day will be next week. Fortunately for me, at 66, I decided to toss in the towel and retire on very meager savings. I never shed a tear, nor have I lost a minute of sleep over this situation. It is almost a gift, as I would never retire if it were based on my finances. This job market is beyond brutal, and for once I am not going to knowingly subject myself to constant rejection and disappointment. Had this happened to me when I was younger, I believe that all of my thoughts and feelings would mirror yours. This is merely to send you love and light, because I feel blessed… regardless of how budget conscious I will be living. Side note, in anticipation of this possibly happening in my future, I relocated from SoCal to Vegas last year. It is far more doable. 🌟✨💫
I was in IT for 25 years. I left when they outsourceed all our jobs to India. I have been a nurse for 15 years and have been much happier. Hope all goes well for you. Hang in there. You will find something.
Hello from Phoenix Arizona I am so sorry you was laid-off. My best friend was laid off after 20 years she was crushed. We cried together. She reached out to people about her layoff and found a job through church member. She found a job 2 months later. My best friend is close to 62. My other best friend laid-off after working 10 years. This best friend is over 50 still looking for work. Thank you for sharing sending hug from AZ.💐
I am so sorry for your current situation. I work for DOD and may be part of those cuts they are proposing I am 62 and was planning to working to FRA. I started preparing for the unexpected 6 years ago. Paid off my home and vehicles. I am retired military and when I first retired I was in cancer treatment so I spent a year looking for jobs. Heard so many excuses over qualified, too military you name it. So worked for the state for a few years then moved to DOD where I currently am. I have worked some contract offsite jobs at night and weekends. I guess that I am and have always been in fear of walking up one day without a job. I watched my daughter go through the stress little over a year ago she was so stressed she lost 30lbs. She is better now praise god. I truly hope you find something soon. I know that if I am laid off I may not get another job. Most jobs that are physical in nature I can't do because of injuries so praying for the best. Again thank you for sharing I am 62 by the way.
I am so sorry for you... you seem such a nice person. I was laid off in April. I found a new job 5 mths later, it is entertaining, remote and guess what... I got promoted to manager for the first time in my life, and I'm 52. Life goes on... it was a big shock at the beginning, I thought I was done, but look at me now.... give it time... you will heal and become even stronger... and you will never fall in love with any company ever again unless is your own.
That's really wonderful to hear. I had several co-workers in their 50s get laid off a year ago - six of whom I knew pretty well - and only one of the six has found a new position, and it took him like 8 months to find a job. You give some of the 50-somethings hope.
Can you tell the name of the company?
I have applied to remote jobs but they all seem scams bc never respond.
@Peace-nm6bx - My company hires from out the US.... the workforce is everywhere, Latin America, India, Turkey, Portugal, UK.... so many cultures and different accents! Is on LinkedIn, under remote, we are hired and paid as contractors, not payroll.... and I know the money is much less bc we are contractors, even though highly educated. Nevertheless, it is income and WFH.
Thank you for being brave, vulnerable and sharing your story. You are not alone. Sending encouragement you will get through this valley. God bless.
Been there done that. I worked 30 years for my company and the day AFTER Labor Day I was called in the office and told they no longer needed me. I was 57. I was devastated. Self-supporting, no longer with a job terrified me. It took me 6 months and 600 job applications to get another job. Was in that one for a year and a half and they were shut down for not paying people their pension deposits. Again it took 6 months and another 600 job applications. Ended up in a job working for a witch and after a year having her tell me I should wear better clothes, I decided it was time to leave. Six weeks later saw an ad for a job that was 3 weeks old. Took a chance and applied; had a new job 3 days later. My boss had been in Europe on business that week. When she came back, she found my letter of resignation on her desk with only 1 week's notice. She didn't talk to me all that week . . . not one word until the final day when I told her at 3:30 there was nothing more I could do and that I was leaving and I walked out the door.
You were working with a narcissist lucky escape
There is no loyalty anymore. Probably not being in Germany made you an easier target. This is a sign of the times and is happening to many people. I have also seen a push to get rid of people who are older. It is very traumatizing. Also, I am hearing from many people that when they apply for jobs they never hear anything back from Human Resources Departments even if they get interviews. This is something that takes a long time to recover from. It is a grieving process.
Kristol, greetings from New Mexico. After retirement I felt the same loss regarding my sense of self. My work defined a great deal of who I envisioned myself to be. Your honesty and courage in sharing this is admirable. Keep sharing from your heart and you’ll rise again. You are a natural for a channel that helps others. You are not alone!
At 52, I have been with my employer for 18 years. I've seen people come and go, and I know no one is safe from layoff. I think it's terrible you don't get unemployment. How is that possible? Sending positive thoughts that you land a job soon!
you are getting to the age they start looking at you as a cut. Saving money thats it
Same thing happened to me in March 2023. I’m 62 and had planned to work for a few more years. 28 years with the company. 40 years of IT experience. I applied to over 300 jobs….got two interviews, and no job. By 2024 I decided to officially retire. Don’t believe for a moment that the job market is good. I hope you find something in your field and get back on your feet.
Same thing here. Last year I decided to retire bc I couldnt find a job. Unfortunately, i worked many of my younger years in another country so my retirement check in USA is really small.
I still looking for a part time job.
If you know of any part time remote bilingual customer service legit job please kindly share info😊
You have such a wonderful personality. Although the news of this video were sad as no one likes to be laid off, I must say your view of things, self awareness and just great attitude made me a new subscriber. You are awesome ! ❤
I'm 56 and our company just laid off hundreds of people. Some with 20 -24 years employment. No cause, just because it had to happen. It's scary how little someone means to an employer. Even after decades. Corporations want loyalty, but show none in return. Be loyal to no company. go to work. Do your job and go home. Take every minute of vacation you are given. Take every sick day every year. In the end skipping vacations and not staying home on sick days means NOTHING when they want to cut you out.
So very true!
That is why it is important to save as much money as possible so if it happens you will be ok temporarily. Yep they hae no right to expect loyalty.
@@fremontpathfinder8463 I was going to pretty much say the same thing you said. People don't realize that when we take on debt, we are signing our lives over to employers because it becomes a situation where we NEED a job to pay the debt. If people would pay off all their debt and stay out of debt, then they will have the flexibility to work because they want to, not because they have to.
Did you get a severance?
@@Fishouta I was blessed and Lucky . This time. I didn't get laid off but watched people i've worked with for years get walked out. It was mostly admin level people. Im in a position in the company thats quite specialized and out of many thousands of people in the company there are only 40 of us doing what i do and bring in revenue doing it. So i have that as a bit of a shield.
Sorry for you. It’s traumatic to lose a job but it’s more than that for you. You have lost yourself too. You’re now on a new journey to reconnect with yourself. List your interests and what makes you happiest. Also recognize that it wasn’t just the work and sense is accomplishment that made you happy but the socialization. The work doesn’t define you. I also love your honesty and sensitivity. That’s a wonderful trait to have. It’s courageous to be vulnerable. That authenticity is appreciated in job interviews.
The same thing happened to me in June 2023. Sixteen years at UT Austin and let go, along with 10 others also near retirement age. Ageism is a thing. You have my sympathy and I know what you’re going through.
I agree and it's not right, but yup, hit our 50's, with lots of years, gone, they save on benefits and vacation plans by getting rid of those folks who have been there the longest and have the best plans.
Lady, you are as real as it gets with giving your testimony. Kudos to you and keep up the videos as I am sure that many others benefit by them. As most of us can testify to, it's a horrible experience to get laid off, especially when you don't expect it. I personally know this. Only when you come out of the shock of it can you begin to plan for the future. Of course, it's far worse when you have to face age discrimination, which is real. Most importantly, don't give up. Keep pounding the pavement, as they say and it will get better. Again, I speak from experience. I was in my late 50s and things were looking very bleak. I'm now in my 60s and due to not giving up and God's grace, things are looking much better. My advice is to get the advice from as many people as you can regarding your situation from people you respect. The ideas of others can be very powerful. I wish you the best of luck
These Zoom layoffs are brutal. My own company did one recently and although I survived (this time), the description of the chaos and lack of compassion/empathy was shocking. I don't know why I was shocked, but I was. I'm sorry this happened to you. I will pray you get something else soon!
I was laid off during Covid ...in a Zoom meeting by my manager's boss. The ice-cold c*nt literally read from a script. Zero empathy. It was not determined by seniority.
I’m sorry this happened to you. I got laid off in 2019 as part of RIF, me and 90% of my colleagues. They outsourced our jobs. I was 39 so not in as tough a spot as you were, I found a new job 2 months later. It really sucks ageism is so rampant in the US.
I was laid off March 2, 2024, with a 2 day notice. My job was a contract position within the military system. I have quit jobs before but never laid off. I joked about the layoff for those 2 days. Then it hits you, I have been laid off!!! My mental state was not good. I gained weight and didn't care for a while. I have found myself again and focusing on getting healthy. thank you for your courage to say exactly how I was feeling. Wish you the Best KristolClear.
I'm self-employed, 47 and newly retired!!! It's so good to not have to work anymore. Friends and loved ones deserve your loyalty; not a company. We are tools in a machine for them. I understood that very young and a job was only ever a way to get money. Now my money is working for me and I am free! Hope you find your happy ending through this 💜
What do you do?
I’m sorry this happened to you. Most companies layoff right before Christmas. Happened to my husband. Laid off from Grumman Aerospace, Fl, after a job transfer from NY. Had to reevaluate Everything. We filed for bankruptcy to protect our house. Companies define layoffs as “economic challenges," "restructuring," "cost-cutting measures," or "market shifts" to justify the decision. And unfortunately ageism exists when you have a 30, 40 even 50 yr old hiring manager.
I feel for you! I was let go from my job after 20 years! I had health problems and missed some days of work and I was let go! I’m still unemployed after a year.
American living in Germany here. I am sorry this happened to you. The German economy is in serious decline, we are in our second official consecutive recession. It's happening to Germans too but it first happened to you :(
The conflict with Russia has caused affordable energy disruption that will ultimately collpase all of Europe in a domino fashion. Sadly our American government is behind the final destruction of Europe.
Reality to some folks! People are a tool. If "a tool" is no longer needed, it's trashed. New professional life is like that. Like many folks, I worked for 5 different companies before I retired (at age 60). My 29 year old son already worked for 4 different jobs. My 27 year old daughter has worked for 9 different full time jobs. When you get punched in the gut, stop crying about it, get back up and keep moving forward. This attitude always worked for me (and my 5 different previous jobs). It works for them as well!
Your son and daughter are quite young, so yes they’re going have to do that, it’s a little bit hard to retire in your 20s They should be more resilient.
News Flash! One does NOT really retire. A person always does something in life. At any age one can chose to work "and make money" or one can chose work to create things for themselves. For example... Today I built / installed a 10ft wide x 5.5ft out ramp for my home's shed. Yes. I'm retired from my professional field. Today I continue to "work for myself" and make my life better. You pick the life to live. I taught my kids that. You can do it as well (regardless of your age).....
I was laid off too a couple of weeks ago. After being with them for 19 years. I am getting a very generous severance package but scary looking for a new job at 50 almost 51 years old.
66 now. I was lucky to have worked with companies with generous retirement plans. In almost 20 years I was laid off from 3 different companies. Was able to take my plan with me. Five years ago at 60 I saw the writing on the wall. I quit before they were going to let me go with out a severance. I'm fully retired and I'm so glad i didn't dip into any of my 401ks when it got tough financially like some of my co-workers did. I guess I'm saying always count on hard times. You never know when things will get tough. I always planned for the worse.
I hope it’s onward and upward from here for you.
I also got laid off after 26+ years in September 2021 and I loved my job at that time but the last year I was so miserable I wanted to quit but my colleges told me to wait it out and see if I got laid laid off. If I quit I got nothing and I did get laid off. I now work at a totally different industry as what I was doing before. As they say when 'one door closes another will open' and that is what happened to me.
I was 51 when I retired early due to stress. I choose to retire early than die early. Now, I have rental property, small lots for sale and a small fishing boat. I also serve my community. I am 58 now, living with my partner who has a daughter, much happier and with no regrets. I should have done sooner. Goodluck to you in the next chapter of your life. May you find peace and contentment.
I was laid off 3 times from IT. First time in 1984 when the company went BK. Got lucky and got another job 2 months later. Laid off again in 2001 two weeks after 9/11 killed sales. Didn't get another IT job until May 2003. Took it even though it was a 40% less salary. Worst job ever as I was working with consulting firm outsourcing work to India and US employees hated us. Third layoff was in April 2012 when job was moved to India. I decided to retire at 59. Layoff in 1984 taught me to save money. Layoff in 2001 made me save everything I could and paid off the house, vehicles. If I was to tell someone anything, it would be to save while you can and live a debt free life. My jobs were my identity, and that was a mistake. I should have updated my skills and moved jobs like many of my co-workers did. They took care of themselves first. Sorry you got burned by the company. It's the new wave these days. 72 now and still shocked on how companies treat people.
Thank you for sharing your testimony. Sorry 😢 this happened to you . I would have been completely in shock. 😢😢😢. This is so sad 😔 😮😮.
I love your attitude, and personality! You are a phenomenal woman!
Please keep going in UA-cam, you can reach people how to soar at work and not just glide.
It’s tough getting laid off. I got laid off in 2018 after working for a company for 7 years and remember saying goodbye and hugging co-workers and almost bursted into tears. I found another job after 6 months but ended up taking a $14k pay cut.
Thank you for sharing.....loyalty has left so long ago....I truly feel your pain.
I’ve worked for a non-profit for 30 years. Even though the pay isn’t great, I’ve been able to support myself and my son after my divorce. I am so grateful to work for a non-profit that values their employees. I’ve survived 3 layoffs but each time employees were told in advance (3 to 6 months) and they gave severance packages that were 3 to 12 months (2 weeks for every year worked but 3 month minimum). So even if I was laid off I know I would get a year’s severance pay. They also contribute 10% of my salary into my 403(b) regardless of how much I contribute so I should be able to retire at 60 as long as the stock market doesn’t crash!
I’m so sorry about your layoff. I imagine it’s hard as a 50(ish) old to try to find a job in the tech field, good luck to you.
I'm sorry you're going through this. I suspect a lot of what you went through was from having been with the company for so long. I have known since my first job that no job is secure so at least that knowledge insulated me being surprised when layoffs came. I've been through many layoffs, the most painful of which was in my early 30's after taking care of my terminally ill sister, I was let go. We had no other family support around and were so young. I never missed a day of work and there were no performance issues, just "downsizing." I was emotionally destroyed and financially ruined. The hardest experience I've ever been through was made much worse by the fact that I lost my job. Throughout my working life I've been through 4 layoffs, one of which i choreographed and used as an opportunity to go to graduate school. Two others I welcomed because the exit packages were generous and the jobs weren't good. Next year i fully expect to be in another layoff, around June time. I could position myself to avoid it, but I have no intention of doing that. I'm in my mid-50's and ever since that particularly painful layoff I have focussed on being ready for retirement very early. After age 50 you basically have to assume you have a target on your back. Fortunately, after next June I don't need to work anymore. Moreover, I've already too much of my life working. I want to experience what's next. I may work part-time here and there but I'm never working in the corporate world again. All kinds of very good reasons to continue to work, all financial. Not one reason beyond that. I'll cheerfully give up the money I could make to have my freedom. The corporate world in my experience is an absolutely revolting environment. Merit has nothing to do with reward and the people you are working with are not your friends. I have friends i met early in my working life, before i was in a corporate environment. I have not one friend from the corporate jobs I have done. I won't miss any of it and anyone I've met in these jobs will be deleted from my phone and LinkedIn the day after I'm out. I certainly won't tell anyone I work with that I've been let go.
I'm so sorry you went through that. What you described-losing your job after taking care of your sister-sounds incredibly painful, and I can't imagine how hard it must have been to face that on top of everything else. It's heartbreaking to hear stories like yours, but I think sharing them helps others realize they're not alone. I completely understand your perspective on the corporate world and how it can feel so transactional and impersonal.
I love that you're at the point now where you're ready to live and have fun-'Earn to live!' is such a great mindset. It sounds like you've worked incredibly hard to make that a reality, and I hope you absolutely enjoy every bit of what’s next. Thank you for being so open about your experience. It’s eye-opening and inspiring, especially for people who might feel stuck or afraid to make a change.
This happened to me one time the exact same way I was the only person on my team within America. Everyone else was in Canada. They let me go over a zoom meeting with HR. That’s when I learned never to be loyal to a company. Never believe anything they say and if you are ever the only person from your country on a team, you’ll be the first to go.
Sorry that happened. You look like you loved your line of work. That is hard.. to forcibly have to let that go. Also.. big lesson for you. Save! Save for the rainy days. I don’t know why that is so hard for so many people with stable jobs, but I guess it is in America. Best wishes!
Any time a person is laid off it is very shocking. It will take as long as it takes to feel better. You will figure everything out as you go alone. Its great that you are a smart capable woman. So, for the time being if you need to make money just take what is available for now, that helps with your mental health. Continue to send out resumes but be realistic, you may not find something comparable to what you had and remember that thats ok too. Perhaps this lay off was your sign to do something a bit different. It may be time to explore other areas of interest, be ok with mixing things up a bit. Take care of yourself, go for a walk, resolve to eat healthy, try new things. Good luck and stay open.
Really sorry to hear this. I hope that you land of your feet somewhete. Best of luck.
German here. I used to live in the US and I did not like to work there. That was ages ago. I thought it was very depressing how employers treat their employees. I used to have an American friend who also got fired right before retirement so they would not have to pay her the retirement money she earned. You live in a country where people are treated like numbers and profit comes first. In Germany not everything is great but we have extensive workers rights and if you're being laid off or fired after so many years with a company you would get a 50% of one months salary × the years you worked there. Besides that it is very very difficult to fire someone without cause anyway, people at a certain age have additional protection. And usually if people are been laid off they get a good severance pay. At Bayer in Berlin for example my friend is being let go at the age of sixty but with a hupe severance pay that she can stay home until she officially retires. And she wasn't really let go, they asked who wants to take the deal and she did of course otherwise she could still work there. Also in Germany health insurance is not connected to the employer which also a huge plus. We have four to six weeks paid vacation and unlimited sick days also. We work to life and not live to work and overtime ist also strictly regulated. Even though salaries are lower the quality of life and food and therefore health is much better. Move to Europe and find an online job here. You need less money because you do not have to save up for health issues. In several EU countries health insurance is free and cost of living is much cheaper.
Hello to Germany. I totally get why you woulnd't like working here. Your country sounds much more humane. There's a REASON half the population is on meds just to cope.
I am so jealous. That's how people should be treated.
In USA we live to work. Healthcare is disguisting.
If you still working the price for health insurance is too high and you are not fully covered . Deductibles are too high.
When you get old the Medicare is not free. From your small retirement check social security will keep a big amount to pay your Medicare!!!
And many still think this is the greatest country in the world. 😢😢
The truth is that many retirees are moving out to different countries where their ss check can afford living.
Now I know the reason why many retirees are homeless even though they are receiving a social security check.
😢😢
Be strong........I am same position as you.......still looking for a job after so many months. Hang on there❤
K r i s t o l so sorry to hear that you got l laid off after 23 years it sounds like to me you're a go-getter and I'm sure you'll have something in the future for yourself and you'll do well I was watching UA-cam and I heard that the Amish from Pennsylvania had gone to North Carolina where the devastation is were the people have lost lives and homes and they are going there to build tiny homes for these people the Amish are amazing builders and I personally want to thank them and say they're great and it's a wonderful and generous thing that they're doing❤❤❤❤😊
Thank you, @alexisfreeman5481, for watching and taking the time to comment! I think I've finally reached the 'layoff was a good thing' stage. I’ve found a new job and, thanks to this channel-and people like you giving it a chance-I’m more motivated than ever to keep learning and focusing on what matters most-work to live, not live to work! If you liked this video, I’d love for you to check out some of my others-or even subscribe if you want to follow along!
That’s such an inspiring story about the Amish. What an incredible example of kindness and community. I think we could all take a lesson from that and help out where and when we can.
Hi! Just found ur channel and this is my first video. My husband and I are in our 50s as well. I am sorry this happened to you. We have been married 29 years. He has lost his job for multiple reasons more times than i can count. Currently, he has been at this job 8 years, i think. I do a side hustle with my daughter, we clean a couple medical facilities. Quite frankly, if it wasn't for his multiple job losses, we would not be as prepared as we are for anything that could happen, including his retirement in a couple years. I feel like the system is designed to lul people into a false sense of security! 😢 That said, i am a new subscriber. Please continue making videos! You will get through this!
I am 57 and have worked with the same employer for 20 years. We had a round of layoffs in March 2020 (related to Covid) and again now in October 2024. I am preparing myself in case we have another round and I am on the other side of the chopping block next time around. Thank you for this video.
I'm 57 as well... I have over 35 years of enterprise-level IT experience. I WAS with the company for 10 years and held a senior-level management position. My team just completed 3 major projects and the most recent one concluded in January of 2024. All of the major projects that my team were involved in were a complete success. They decided to terminate my position and do a re-org of the IT departments in February of 2024. I've been looking ever since... Just keep this in mind. Ageism is VERY REAL and AI & ATS systems also take a major role in whether your resume gets seen or not. Regardless of how motivated you are or not, people at a certain age are viewed as "Having more years behind them, than in front of them in the workforce". And based on the information that you have on your resume, AI & ATS systems are able to determine your approximate age and qualifications and it even goes as far as analyzing your grammar, spelling, and keywords. It can even distinguish if your resume was written with AI. Its no joke out here... make sure you have a contingency plan for sure.
People seriously have to understand that with our country putting tariffs in place inflation is going to skyrocket and we all need to reduce our spending by. 50%.... I think people might believe me to be too frugal. Everyone from age 40 and down needs to save money like their life depends on it, because it does.
It's getting increasingly harder to live in this country. The last few years have been a nightmare. And going forward is not looking good. AT ALL. It didn't use to be this way. I grew up in the 60's and 70's. ANY job could support you. ANY job could pay rent. NOTHING is normal anymore. We've been spiraling down for a long time now. I'm thankful I'm retired and I hope for the absolute best for all of you.
@@TLA123y6f the top guns have all the money and sadly they are the ones getting a tax break...
Well said. Tariffs will crush us all. Not just the people in Florida and NC who are rebuilding homes.
My heart goes out to you. I'm not sure how I ran into your video, but even tho I'm not an IT person I can relate to how you feel.
I'm 58 years old and work for 18 years as a hairstylist. Due to car accidents shoulder injury and other things, I can no longer do hair. I understand not being able to find a job. I really feel like they're just throwing people in their 50s away. I ended up on the streets for 6 months. I'm going back to school to become a teacher but without a job I don't have enough money to live off of. I was able to rent an extended stay for a couple months and now I'm facing homelessness once again.
This world has just changed so much it's such a scary place now. I hope you're able to find a job and keep your home. ❤
I am so sorry that you are going through this. I've been through some pretty bad things in my life too and it left it's mark. I came very close to homelessness. People don't understand unless they've "been there". Some of the people in these threads have so much more self confidence and assuredness than I ever had. I admire that. Corporations are heartless entity's . I don't know how some of those people can sleep at night or look in the mirror. Can you get grants to live on while going to school so that you can live. Or work on campus? It is appalling that homelessness is becoming "normalized" too.
I, too, was laid off after 23 years. It took me 11 months to find another job. It was tough time.
So sorry. The timing is not great given the upcoming negative changes to the economy, but remember it only takes one opportunity ! Good luck and keep pushing.
I know it hurts, but please don't take it personal. I was laid off 3 times. The first one was after 23 years also. I planned to retire from this job. What it comes down to is $$$. I learned that when most companies lay off good employees, the decision is likely based on the bottom line, and I was making the big bucks. Don't worry, it might take a while, for me it was 5 years after the last time. It was during the great recession. I did manage to find temp work and that's how I eventually got the full time job I retired from.
So, I know the tears and feelings of hopelessness because of age, but there's always something good around the corner.
These words are so empty because not everybody is designed to run a business or have some of the rebound that you are suggesting.
@Joce123 who said anything about running your own business???
@@Joyceee54 Being able to go for 5 yrs without becoming homeless - you must have had a LOT of $$ stashed or there were two incomes. Not everyone is that fortunate. AT ALL.
@@TLA123y6f My husband 's social security, some temporary work, some unemployment benefits, some credit, some savings, shopping at The Dollar Tree and Big Lots, and LOTS of sacrifices. We both grew up poor, so we knew how to stretch money.
@@TLA123y6f she said she made big bucks and that was probably why she was let go - don't shame her for knowing how to save.
I had the same situation 8 yrs ago got laid off after working for almost 27 yrs now working one of the most generous company for almost 8 yrs and no stress and problem 😊
I worked for the same company for 38 years, retired at age 60. So sorry for your experience. Even though it's not personal, it has to feel very personal. I know your skills will carry you through. But it is obviously painful for you. Thoughts and prayers.
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this. My cousin was laid off last Nov after close to 30 years.
I hope your Cousin was able to retire with benefits from that company . God Bless always !
I got laid off twice in my life (pharmaceuticals); now that I am retired I realize how unimportant it is in the grand scheme of life. For me, it was an opportunity to try things I always thought of trying. After 25 years, I had a good pension socked away. Don't sweat it, you will look back and not even remember. Just a bump in the road. Re: team members - I just said "I need some time to digest what happened" and never talked to them about it. Not their business.
Your voice is so calming and it looks like you found another job! Congrats and hope you are healthy and happy.
thanks for sharing your story. i've been laid of twice this year and kinda giving up on the job search for now.
Oh God. I’m seeing tons of videos of older people getting laid off at the top of their careers in their 50s and 60s. I am 62 and have been unemployed for two years now. It seems to be a pretty big thing that many people are going through. The only answer seems to be social media, but that can take years to build up and not that many people want to watch us overweight older people. The other problem is that we were at the top of our pay range. I struggled my whole life to get my pay up since I only had a two year degree from putting a man through school for seven years. But in my last job that lasted 3 1/2 years I was finally making over $100,000. Now jobs in my sector are trying to offer 20 bucks an hour which is the pay I was making in the 90s.
My husband lost his job over two years ago. Good news he got a new job. Same role same salary but out of town. Luckily our kids are now out if the home so a move is possible. Keep up the hope. It just takes time.
The irony is that what they did to you in the U.S. is illegal to do to a worker in Germany.
Thanks for sharing your story. I am working in IT too, 25 years now. And I know it's just a matter of time for me to get laid off as our American company is constantly doing reorg and in the process, let people go.😢 I'm originally from the Philippines but I've been in the UK for 20 years now. All the best to you.❤
Layoff is good. Gives you new perspective towards life. Good luck
Glad you got hired again! I had been working in group health insurance for 35 years and was let go of my last job in October 2021 at age 63. After some soul-searching, I picked up a couple opportunities, one with a large insurance company to sign up retirees, which is something I had done many years prior, and secondly, I started working as an actor and model.
After a few months, it was crystal clear (LOL) which was more fulfilling and NOT financially. Coming up on three years now, I am on Social Security, retired from corporate work and pursuing my acting career.
Story sad. However, the real issue is not the job. It's not being financially prepared, and that's on us. Unfortunately, this is the world where in. Move forward, and believe in yourself. Wish you well!
Western Washington state.
I’m training my replacement 😂- I do realize that.
Lining up self-employment for my future.
I have some videos on styling clothes for sale online.
In case you need to do that.
Yes - like your thinking! Great time to change things up!! May be in the future, you will be glad! You are doing right things to find your new path!
Remote = out of sight, out of mind. I work in HR, we are letting go of all the remote people in January 2025. The ones that can’t come in/ or won’t come in, are being let go first week of the year! Of course none of these people know this. But the writing has been on the wall for a while.
And you’re proud to say that? How many were hired under remote contracts?
@ people need to realize that the 100% remote party is over and CEOs are drawing a hard line in the sand. (Not all industry but most) Workers know this and many should not be surprised. 2025 is the year where the hard line is being drawn and people need to either return to work or find another job. That is the sentiment of corporate America . It is what it is…..is not up for a vote. 🗳️ the boss decides
HR is getting hit with AI. Get ready.
@@jazzyflorida3757 Fortunately AI will eat your job too in 2025, then you'll realize you should've fought against CEOs stupidity together with the rest of the workers, instead of being their obedient little pet. Get ready to flip da burgers. Granted, that's about a 100 times more valuable job than HR-related anything.
Brutal to go thru. Thank you for sharing.
Hi Kristol, mass sympathy to you and best wishes in your searches. Something similar happened to me in the past, and I had to change the way that my resume was perceived so that I could land a technical role. It might be extraordinarily difficult for you to land a role in the same capacity that you have had in the past, so you might do some soul searching and come to terms with that. In my circumstance, and after being unemployed for several months, I had to change my resume so that I looked more like a technician instead of an engineer so that I could land a technician role with the hopes of working back up to an engineering role. I retained my associates degree on my applications, and removed my bachelor’s degree as well as my master’s degree. I had to reword things as well so that I didn't look so stellar. Eventually, I did land a role and updated my background in the company databases so that I can regrow into R&D engineering roles. Whether this example helps you or not, I do wish you well and the absolute very best in your new life. Sincerely, Ken
When I was laid off it was a very surreal experience. Did you feel in a daze and numb for a while? The way I felt physically really took me by surprise. Nothing made me feel that stunned before. I honestly wouldn’t have thought I would feel that way. I was diagnosed with cancer in 2021 and that did not hit me as hard.
I’m sorry baby I’ve been through that once And it was no joke. God bless you with better and more.
You were fortunate to work with one company for 23 years, if you invested correctly you should be set. I was a project manager for 16 years, got laid off and after a while I went to work at Home Depot for the health insurance. it was a terrible job but I needed health care
Man just leave her alone. You don’t know her circumstances and it’s not about you.
Just because you obviously made enough $$ to be investing does NOT mean everybody else does too. For a lot of people it's paycheck to paycheck just to survive. And the next few years will be worse.
Sorry about that! Why not you can work as this podcast about job issues. I think your podcast would be great.
23 years, you’re fortunate to have worked for one company. Hopefully you saved enough money.
You would be surprised , most people dont care to save anything, that is why there are regrets and anguish during layoffs.
@@jovictor3007 You gotta build up that FU money. When I got laid off two years ago, I had a slight grin during the zoom call with the senior manager laying me off. He thought that was odd and asked me if I was ok. I said I was great, thanked him for the time I got to work with the company but that I was perfectly fine moving on.
37 yrs for me and my job was eliminated. So thankfully I was 61. I had I year unemployment and then collected SS ever since. Starbies? 🤣🤣🤣 I guess money is no object. Great for you. 👍🏻 I was so angry for a good year but then I saw my supervisors getting dumped left and right. It was a HOSPITAL. All way pre covid it was 2012. Thank God I was 61. I was a nurse. I never had to get the jab which I wouldn’t have. I would have quit first. Life is funny. It worked out great. God knew what I needed. I started baby sitting my newborn great niece and it has been a wonderful life.❤️❤️❤️the saving Grace was no debt, great retirement savings…and all the admin of the hospital has now turned over many times. No loyalty, no “hospital family” just cold business. Not what I loved about the early years of hospital nursing. Sad but true. The quality is gone.
I like your editing (and channel name). I hope you continue in the fashion design path! There's no age limit for that! Would be cool to see your designs 💜
Many years ago I got laid off from a company in the Detroit area that made seatbelts because they could be made cheaper in Mexico. I did a job offer from Ford but like the rest of the auto industry layoffs were common, the hours long and pay raises minuscule. I took a chance and moved into my brothers basement rent free while I started a tiny house flipping business. Today I build multimillion dollar house ls for rich people and have finally become wealthy myself-it only took 40 years 😂
Great comeback!
I was at my company for 43 years and was 58 years old and just lost my husband 7 months earlier so …. Had to go back in the working world and I was sooo lost. I temped for awhile too. My company got bought out but I was a receptionist … why was I let go ???
A mistake to stay at any company that long.
Wow, you are honest with a capital h. I love that you are pursuing fashion. Your true artist self is coming out. Also, when your light went out you looked even better. It showed your real face. Experiment with camera angles. That’s what the stars do!
I’m so sorry that happened to you.
I love this video and thank you so much for sharing your story.
Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, companies will give you the boot no matter how long you have been there.
Your fifties are the danger zone: too young to retire and too old to start over. I wish you well and hope you land a new job soon.
Or, I would add, just a couple of good contract jobs. Maybe that would be easier?
That's why I advocate for everyone to save more than the typical 10 - 15% of salary, because there's no guaranty we will be able to work in our 50s. If we can try to save a higher percentage, hopefully get a 401k match, and contribute the max to our HSA (which is the only vehicle that is triple tax free), we can maybe retire by 50.
Too old to start over?????
@@justmarla7398 yes absolutely too old to start over. That "you're never too old" crap is bs. In your 50s, you got 10-15 years left to try and do something. You can kiss a comfortable retirement good bye. You're gonna be working a minimum wage job till the day you die.
@@paprglage discrimination is real. Workers in their 40’s have a hard time finding a new job. People in their 50’s it’s even worse.
I spent 35 years in I/T, and in the 90's they started to move jobs to India. (This was the I/T equivalent of NAFTA for the auto industry in North America) I saw the writing on the wall. I began a "game" of Frogger, moving positions strategically in order to hang on. At the same time I acquired a couple of rental properties by relocating further out, using the capital to buy them.
Well, very lucky I did because at 55 they did finally let me go.
That said, labour laws in Canada meant a hefty severance package, and I received nearly 200k for my years of service. I hope Americans can get their labour laws changed to favour people over corporations.
All the best to you! ❤❤
That’s a nice package
I feel like my company used COVID to get rid of all of the older people who had physical handicaps and cancer.
Yep! You’re right….guaranteed!
I lost my job a few weeks ago, and just turned 60. I was depressed for a few weeks and took the time to get better emotionally, because from experience, it's hard getting a job when you are certain age💔. You are not alone, stay positive and keep the faith that better days are ahead.
My thoughts are with you and anyone else who is going through a hard time. I have had to tell myself many times 'This ,too, shall pass'
Employers don't want us after age 50. I'm not joking
Recently laid off at 64. Good chance I am retired at this point.....
I’m really sorry this has happened to you , our whole social structure is upside down .. when you work with people that live in there cars and being homeless is becoming criminalized and wages can’t provide shelter you start realizing something is very wrong …
It's shocking where we've gone. It didn't use to be this way. Capitalism is a very cruel system. And it's going to get worse. And everything is connected to everything else.
I volunteer at a homeless camp. Half the residents have jobs- but can’t afford rent.
@@LilyGazou The powers that be want to convince us that the homeless are drug/alcohol addicts. Or the mentally ill. And they don't want help. Number 1 - I was a single mom of two kids with no child support. Two or three unexpected emergencies could have put us on the street. A job loss, whatever. It doesn't take much to become homeless. It can happen to anyone. Number 2 - we have a mental health crisis in our country. Half the population is on meds - just to cope. Number 3 - if I were to become homeless, I would imagine that if I didn't have a mental health issue to begin with I would soon develop one. And I think a very high proportion of people, if they found themselves living under a bridge, would want to emotionally numb out too (alcohol/drugs). People love to point the finger when, in reality, they should be looking in the mirror.
I am a late Boomer. I applied for a State (Union) job at 56. I made it through all of the physical training with no issue. (Academic training was simple).
Now I have 6 years in and hope to retire in 5 more if I can make it that long.
I will not be the one to storm a cell and remove an inmate, but I am damn excellent at the Post I am assigned to. I have excellent rapport with the inmates. They treat me as a Mom/Grandma and I am happy to be that person for them.
Max Security is hard time and Humanity and Dignity are in short supply.
Watching from New Zealand and trying to be prepared for whatever may come. Thanks for sharing your story