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Hello, Kris. It is January 2025. Where are you now in your trek? New plan? New narrative? Keep your chin up. There is no question that times are a changing for all of us. We can't throw our hands up. You are brave. I think telling your story will help you heal. Next step?

Thank you for sharing your story Kristol. It can help others mentally prepare to deal with this type of situation. Sometimes a door closing can turn into something better. I was laid off after 13 years at my former company at 44 years old. I think ageism was involved as my company only hires new graduates in their 20s. I'm not a youthful looking 46 year old with a bald spot and salt and pepper grey hairs. Having had a heart attack and by-pass at 43 years old didn't help my image either. My last role at that company required me to split my time between the main office and a subsidiary company. Two months before I was let go, I had a new manager in her late 20s who I could instantly tell had a narcissistic personality type who I needed to get away from, so I started applying for new jobs at other companies. My job search paid off and I was hired by another company with a higher salary within a couple days of being let go. The subsidiary company upon hearing that I was let go offered me a full time position, but I told them I already had a job offer in hand with a higher salary. I was also concerned that I'd lose my severance package if I joined them. I had a meeting with the president of the subsidiary company where he assured me my severance would be paid out and he offered me an additional 5k in salary over my job offer. I learned later that he called my former manager and blasted her for not consulting him on my dismissal given the subsidiary was paying 50% of my former salary. The icing on the cake was I became essentially a customer of my former manager who provides services to me. I'm sure that I would have struggled if things didn't turn around quickly. I pray that you will receive good news soon on your job search.

Love the fact that this video is so raw and real! ❤❤❤

55yo here, I hope I never have to work again. I work for cash in hand if I can be bothered. I am debt free and contemplating becoming car free. Hopefully I will never have to work full time again. No point working here in Australia as the rate of Tax is so high. If I can't afford a car I will a car I will ride my pushbike take Taxis train and Trans. I will also spend more time at home. I would rather be a hermit then go back to the EVIL workforce.

I grew up in turners falls and somehow got this on my recommend feed- the layoff crisis I think is happening right now ..

TRUST GOD'S TIMING, remember God is your employer, you are here for a purpose. move forward with FAITH

📌Anyone else feel like they’re living in a big, underground... let’s call it a cylinder? Asking for no particular reason. While you’re here, let’s talk about empowerment! Have you updated Glassdoor recently? What are some steps you’ve taken (or plan to take) to empower yourself or your team at work? Share your thoughts and ideas below-let’s help each other out! 😊

Thank you for sharing your story. This should be a cautionary tale for younger workers to make sure that their financial ducks are in a row in case they’re unceremoniously shown the door when they’re over 50. Yes, age is a protected class in the US, but it is extremely difficult to prove age discrimination. The reality is that if you’re over 45 years old (over 40 if you’re in IT), you are in the career danger zone when there are layoffs imminent. Even if you are on the bleeding edge in knowledge, so is the 30 year old, and they are cheaper than you are. Employers pick the younger worker. The only time that age is an advantage in the job market is if you are an executive looking for an executive position. This is why it’s important to get your money and savings up and get a side hustle or two while things are good. Social media is a great side hustle, and leveraging that to get you knowledge can not only make you some money, but it could get you “discovered”.

Very helpful!! Thank you!!

K r i s t o l so sorry to hear that you got l laid off after 23 years it sounds like to me you're a go-getter and I'm sure you'll have something in the future for yourself and you'll do well I was watching UA-cam and I heard that the Amish from Pennsylvania had gone to North Carolina where the devastation is were the people have lost lives and homes and they are going there to build tiny homes for these people the Amish are amazing builders and I personally want to thank them and say they're great and it's a wonderful and generous thing that they're doing❤❤❤❤😊

Kristol, would you be able to add your template to Google Drive and then share the link in the description box, since you are using Google Sheets? I appreciate your videos so much.

Thank you for sharing your story. I pray you get another job soon, you did a lot of learning after getting laid off, again stay strong, I know God has something else for you! Stay STRONG!

While I feel bad for you, not tons of sympathy. I come from a blue collar back ground. My dad was a Union pipefitter and during Regan he was laid off at least every 4 months. And it was always like that till he retired. My husband is a Union Electrician during the great recession he was laid off for 4 years. And still faces layoffs every winter when it slows down. Its about time white collar feel the pain. I know professionals like this lady don't consider themselves "working class" but you are. You are just a cogg in the system. And my dad who was a pipefitter until 63 yo keep himself in good shape. That would be another suggestion for this lady. She doesn't look old just needs to lose weight.

Really sorry to hear this. I hope that you land of your feet somewhete. Best of luck.

I was laid off nine months ago, after 20 years. Ten years older than you. The thoughts that cycle through your mind are vast. You were laid off because you were a higher expense that needed to be cut. Just a numbers game. Unfortunately, this economy sucks and it’s really difficult to find another job.

I'm sorry you're going through this. I suspect a lot of what you went through was from having been with the company for so long. I have known since my first job that no job is secure so at least that knowledge insulated me being surprised when layoffs came. I've been through many layoffs, the most painful of which was in my early 30's after taking care of my terminally ill sister, I was let go. We had no other family support around and were so young. I never missed a day of work and there were no performance issues, just "downsizing." I was emotionally destroyed and financially ruined. The hardest experience I've ever been through was made much worse by the fact that I lost my job. Throughout my working life I've been through 4 layoffs, one of which i choreographed and used as an opportunity to go to graduate school. Two others I welcomed because the exit packages were generous and the jobs weren't good. Next year i fully expect to be in another layoff, around June time. I could position myself to avoid it, but I have no intention of doing that. I'm in my mid-50's and ever since that particularly painful layoff I have focussed on being ready for retirement very early. After age 50 you basically have to assume you have a target on your back. Fortunately, after next June I don't need to work anymore. Moreover, I've already too much of my life working. I want to experience what's next. I may work part-time here and there but I'm never working in the corporate world again. All kinds of very good reasons to continue to work, all financial. Not one reason beyond that. I'll cheerfully give up the money I could make to have my freedom. The corporate world in my experience is an absolutely revolting environment. Merit has nothing to do with reward and the people you are working with are not your friends. I have friends i met early in my working life, before i was in a corporate environment. I have not one friend from the corporate jobs I have done. I won't miss any of it and anyone I've met in these jobs will be deleted from my phone and LinkedIn the day after I'm out. I certainly won't tell anyone I work with that I've been let go.

im 62,got fired,terminated with cause of harassment ,bullying,a cused of physical and verbal abuse,all all false,i was so disappointed

I’m sorry this happened to you. Most companies layoff right before Christmas. Happened to my husband. Laid off from Grumman Aerospace, Fl, after a job transfer from NY. Had to reevaluate Everything. We filed for bankruptcy to protect our house. Companies define layoffs as “economic challenges," "restructuring," "cost-cutting measures," or "market shifts" to justify the decision. And unfortunately ageism exists when you have a 30, 40 even 50 yr old hiring manager.

I did not have fun listening to this. Im sorry for your hardship! It sounds like you are doing everything right! Good luck, stay strong.

I love your attitude, and personality! You are a phenomenal woman! Please keep going in UA-cam, you can reach people how to soar at work and not just glide.

I was laid off, but was able to find a job in a month. I’m still at that job, to God be the glory. Getting laid off can happen to anyone! No one really never knows. You will make it through, God is on your side💜 Trust God, trust Him more. Wait a minute, you are in your purpose now with your UA-cam channel.

I’m noticing in the comments that many were laid off were well over 50. Unfortunately, it’s a sign that those who luckily have made it to 20+ years and past 50 yo, you’re no longer wanted bc you cost the employer more money to hold on to. It’s cheaper for them to hire younger bodies and pay them less. I call it, corporate greed economics and it sucks. What’s worse is that in America, employees have no recourse. If you’re reading my comment, save save save and treat every day at work as if it’s your last.

Corporate America, law firms, and computer giants Will not hire if you are over 45. You are not attractive enough, energetic enough and worst of all you are Old (and cheap labor is young!)

I am 57 and have worked with the same employer for 20 years. We had a round of layoffs in March 2020 (related to Covid) and again now in October 2024. I am preparing myself in case we have another round and I am on the other side of the chopping block next time around. Thank you for this video.

I wish that would be taught in school!!! Finally financially healthy after years of living paycheck to paycheck. I now have a saving and checking account that pays interest and gives you cashback. I love t! ❤

Here’s a video to help with your New Year’s resolution... a budget for 2025! No. Please. You’re welcome. 😎 While you’re in between playing with your kids’ (or grandkids’) toys or cleaning up the aftermath, check out my video and grab my budget template here: dropbox: bit.ly/40boxYn.💾 or Google: bit.ly/3DErIyS Let’s head into 2025 without that extra piece of stress-I know I’m focused on paying off debt and getting my savings back in order. What about you? What’s in your short-term savings plan? Drop yours below!

When they say they had no idea this was in the works…don’t believe it. They knew. All those moves take months to work out.

Germany’s economy is crumbling so I’m not surprised that the one American would be laid off. Especially since you’re home office

Western Washington state. I’m training my replacement 😂- I do realize that. Lining up self-employment for my future.

If you have been in the same job for 23 years - then i would be concerned !! Truely concerned that you have not tried for anything else - have become part of the furniture. As an IT Contactor working in a specific field (HCM / Pay) - I've been on multi contracts over the past several decades - improving my skills, gaining more knowledge, building relationships with various others (employees / 3rd party vendors ) to teh point that my last contract I was working over multi agencies and with people that I worked with on previous contracts. One should not IMO get stuck in the same role / company for so long - you may limit your opprtunities IF something happens. Further - you should be responsible for your career / growth - and not reliant on that one company. At 60 - and as as Australian - we have an retirement savings account (superannuation) that both the employer and employee contributes to. I can / have somewhat retired - BUT AT THE SAME TIME If I want to go back to work in 2025 I have a lot of demand for my skills / experience. Lesson : don't get stuck in one job !!

This job market is horrible. Employers know the ball is in their court. Before you could leave a job or lose one and in a week, you have a new one, not anymore.

Glad to hear you found something again.

Story sad. However, the real issue is not the job. It's not being financially prepared, and that's on us. Unfortunately, this is the world where in. Move forward, and believe in yourself. Wish you well!

🎉A very healthy mental health approach 🧘🏿‍♀️- I too am learning boundaries. I need to earn money 💰 but not to the degree of being stressed 😫 😅

Hi! Just found ur channel and this is my first video. My husband and I are in our 50s as well. I am sorry this happened to you. We have been married 29 years. He has lost his job for multiple reasons more times than i can count. Currently, he has been at this job 8 years, i think. I do a side hustle with my daughter, we clean a couple medical facilities. Quite frankly, if it wasn't for his multiple job losses, we would not be as prepared as we are for anything that could happen, including his retirement in a couple years. I feel like the system is designed to lul people into a false sense of security! 😢 That said, i am a new subscriber. Please continue making videos! You will get through this!

Here in San Antonio TX. Good luck in your job search. I'm 63 1/2 and laid off in September. Will be taking early retirement. Paid off home, cars, and no credit cards or loans made it possible. Now, every day is a Saturday for me. Blessing in disguise. Thank you heavenly Father. 🙏

Lost my job of 26yrs and 68 so l got social security l am 73 got a job at komar husband made me quit had to get hip replacement redone now l would love to go back to work my husband wants to keep me home but l am hopine to get back to work

I was laid off 3 times from IT. First time in 1984 when the company went BK. Got lucky and got another job 2 months later. Laid off again in 2001 two weeks after 9/11 killed sales. Didn't get another IT job until May 2003. Took it even though it was a 40% less salary. Worst job ever as I was working with consulting firm outsourcing work to India and US employees hated us. Third layoff was in April 2012 when job was moved to India. I decided to retire at 59. Layoff in 1984 taught me to save money. Layoff in 2001 made me save everything I could and paid off the house, vehicles. If I was to tell someone anything, it would be to save while you can and live a debt free life. My jobs were my identity, and that was a mistake. I should have updated my skills and moved jobs like many of my co-workers did. They took care of themselves first. Sorry you got burned by the company. It's the new wave these days. 72 now and still shocked on how companies treat people.

Nauseating.

I, too, was laid off after 23 years. It took me 11 months to find another job. It was tough time.

Most companies in the US start laying off (higher) paid employees starting at the age of 48-55. You should just assume you will be laid off then. Your next job will not likely be in the same job classification and will almost always pay about 30-50% less. This is why you must SAVE, SAVE, SAVE. Drive a beater car and stay in a low rent apartment. Then, invest 30-40% of your salary in growth stocks. After you have amassed about 300,000 dollars in stocks, they can start to build well if you have that much when you are only 35. Sanjosemike (no longer in CA)

I got laid off twice in my life (pharmaceuticals); now that I am retired I realize how unimportant it is in the grand scheme of life. For me, it was an opportunity to try things I always thought of trying. After 25 years, I had a good pension socked away. Don't sweat it, you will look back and not even remember. Just a bump in the road. Re: team members - I just said "I need some time to digest what happened" and never talked to them about it. Not their business.

My ❤ goes out to you. I had the same experience last month, after 15 years. I also WFH. My last day will be next week. Fortunately for me, at 66, I decided to toss in the towel and retire on very meager savings. I never shed a tear, nor have I lost a minute of sleep over this situation. It is almost a gift, as I would never retire if it were based on my finances. This job market is beyond brutal, and for once I am not going to knowingly subject myself to constant rejection and disappointment. Had this happened to me when I was younger, I believe that all of my thoughts and feelings would mirror yours. This is merely to send you love and light, because I feel blessed… regardless of how budget conscious I will be living. Side note, in anticipation of this possibly happening in my future, I relocated from SoCal to Vegas last year. It is far more doable. 🌟✨💫

16 years, Getting laid off is hard, harder is when they attack and you on baseless drama because now HR is family member and wants highschool drama. It all turns out for the best.

I had the same situation 8 yrs ago got laid off after working for almost 27 yrs now working one of the most generous company for almost 8 yrs and no stress and problem 😊

Yup. Most times it’s who you know. Years ago, a church goer asked me if my company was hiring. She was trying to help her niece find a job. I didn’t know a thing about her niece but told her to send me her niece’s resume. I forwarded the résumé to HR and her niece was hired. I need to build up my LinkedIn network.

It’s tough getting laid off. I got laid off in 2018 after working for a company for 7 years and remember saying goodbye and hugging co-workers and almost bursted into tears. I found another job after 6 months but ended up taking a $14k pay cut.

I was laid off March 2, 2024, with a 2 day notice. My job was a contract position within the military system. I have quit jobs before but never laid off. I joked about the layoff for those 2 days. Then it hits you, I have been laid off!!! My mental state was not good. I gained weight and didn't care for a while. I have found myself again and focusing on getting healthy. thank you for your courage to say exactly how I was feeling. Wish you the Best KristolClear.

I was at my company for 43 years and was 58 years old and just lost my husband 7 months earlier so …. Had to go back in the working world and I was sooo lost. I temped for awhile too. My company got bought out but I was a receptionist … why was I let go ???

Grace is a gift. Praying for you.