It's commonly thought that introverts have a disadvantage in dating, but that's not true. Introverts simply excel at different parts of the process. #shorts
But as an introvert I don’t wanna talk to them and get to know them. I want to automatically skip those steps and go straight to we know and are comfortable around each other
Agree. Why be someone you're not and then change ? You give inaccurate 1st impression, just be yourself so the person can see your authentic self on the 1st date.
I remember you saying starting off high energy can set the bar high and make the girl feel as though the set is getting worse if you don't maintain that high energy.
Yeah i've been having this issue. My vibe is soft because i'm just low energy by default and acting excited enthused at the open is a struggle for me. After a girl hooks and we're in conversation then I can keep up the energy level no problem.
I feel as an introvert when I do speak in social situations about relevant things people tend to listen more than they would if a talkative extrovert was speaking, sometimes it’s off putting the direct attention you receive can be un expected if there has been an extrovert talking for some time, I’d rather not speak and just happy to listen to others that way saves me scrambling my brain 🧠 lol
I started game in the 1990s, and being an introvert actually seemed to be a useful tool. When a girl started jacking me around, it was naturally easy for me to slam the door on her and say next.
@jakubhladil5340 Ignore these losers here, these people are the reason why communication is so hard these days. Don't let them feel bad about yourself.
I always found this strategy kinda incongruent bc i didnt know at which point to switch back into introvert but it makes sense “once she starts responding and being interested then you can relax?”
They're around, they don't hog the attention like extroverted girls, they don't stand out. You can see them a mile away if you look for the characteristics
@@skateNappreciate yeah, I'm currently trying to hit on one. I can tell she's way more reserved than other girls cause she doesn't post on social media that often. And maaaan she's really hard to get, she's taking my game to the limits.
I travel the country and try Downtowns every few days. What I've learned is to be outgoing almost embarrassingly. Everyone is drunk in downtown, and you are sober. So the sober girls will be naturally attracted to you
Best thing to increase your energy as an introvert is to not even think about pulling and detach yourself from outcome, go out to have fun as you are supposed to foremostly. This is why you attract more girls when your are taken because when u go out, you’re not thinking about pulling and have fun, then they all magically come to you and have more engagements
#Opinion :- I think nobody is pure introvert or pure extrovert, people who don't like to talk much think that they are introvert & people who like to talk or express themselves think that they are extroverts but it's not true, where to express or to stay silent is mostly depend on our mood & people or situation around us.
As an extroverted female who accidentally got attracted to an anti social introvert “ Living Hell” stay with your pack. Makes life easier similar mindsets foundation of mutual understanding phew
I'm introverted and have had success doing this. It's a wall you have to break through, period. You'll notice when you've made it through the wall when she starts opening up, getting closer to you, saying personal things, asking you personal questions, etc. It's never too late bro. Keep trying but take notes and improve, don't give the exact same approach everytime if it's not working
@@skateNappreciate yeah i appreciate it but there comes a point when its too late. when you become too old for this stuff. and while there might be some outlier men (those "most interesting man in the world" types), the vast majority of men realize you cant do this forever and that you just look silly or even worse than silly - sad & ridiculous trying. 98/100 women my age are either married, strongly attached and or with children. i should have tried harder in my 20s - but back then there were no guides and I didnt know what I didnt know.
@@SillyGoose2024 Bro I understand, I was a late bloomer too, I'm 31. I understand everything you're saying, but I'm throwing it out there... there's a lot of chicks out there, I would say half of the chicks out there, have some degree of daddy issues lol. Either to the extreme, or mild cases, that's the gold mine if you just want to game. As far as a relationship, do your best with whatever you got (workout, develop a sense of style, get assertive as fuck but don't be a dick, there's a difference, and if you're balding, shave it or style it so it looks good). It's really easy to lose hope because you don't see any signs of it, it's there man, I'm telling you. You know how many chicks want to fuck that guy from Don't Breath lol he's pushing 70 and a lot of women in their 20s would tap that. Take notes, why do you think they see him that way. Good luck! Don't just repeat the same mistakes, change and experiment, even if it's weird or uncomfortable. Women want a man who's like a boulder, stands strong when things get bad and knows what's up, that comes with maturity: you have that
@@SillyGoose2024 why the hell are you talking about women your own age!? Forget them and go younger. Soooooo many younger women want an older man. I’m around your age and have been blown away at how much women half my age or younger have shown significant interest in me since I started learning all this stuff.
Dating is not actually about connecting. Girls don't want guys who they 'connect' with (wtf does that mean anyway?), they see guys as a status symbol - just like an expensive handbag. Therefore the guy's job is to always be the centre of attention in every situation. He needs to dominate every room with his presence and therefore demonstrate the highest value. It is NEVER an advantage to be introverted - in any walk of life really.
It is not that man, you can demonstrate value without being the center of attention to everyone, just demonstrate basic social skills, be the center of attention for her. If your girl sees you as a handbag, then you are in the wrong place, with the wrong person. Dont waste your time and find someone worthy.
@@paulgreengod It is simmilar with straight man that want to speak with straight woman. It can be intimidating. Everybody brings something to the table.
But as an introvert I don’t wanna talk to them and get to know them. I want to automatically skip those steps and go straight to we know and are comfortable around each other
World doesn't work like that lil bro
Agree. Why be someone you're not and then change ? You give inaccurate 1st impression, just be yourself so the person can see your authentic self on the 1st date.
What’s worse for introverts is meeting women and having to go through the initial
Stages and that means a lot of small talk .
@@MrRandomnese Yes, that's the point of the comment. He's poking fun at himself.
@@MrRandomneseInvention introverts are 90 than extroverts
98% of billioners are introverts
Proud to be introvert 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Interesting tactic. Never heard it laid out this way before, but it makes sense. Will try it next time for sure!
All that “game” shit is stupid
Dude did you try out this tactic? Are you still virgin?
I remember you saying starting off high energy can set the bar high and make the girl feel as though the set is getting worse if you don't maintain that high energy.
Nothing is perfect you just need to learn the vibe of what he is sayin
I find these shorts very engaging. Do keep them coming. And thank you for the nuggets.
Yeah i've been having this issue. My vibe is soft because i'm just low energy by default and acting excited enthused at the open is a struggle for me. After a girl hooks and we're in conversation then I can keep up the energy level no problem.
I feel as an introvert when I do speak in social situations about relevant things people tend to listen more than they would if a talkative extrovert was speaking, sometimes it’s off putting the direct attention you receive can be un expected if there has been an extrovert talking for some time, I’d rather not speak and just happy to listen to others that way saves me scrambling my brain 🧠 lol
I started game in the 1990s, and being an introvert actually seemed to be a useful tool. When a girl started jacking me around, it was naturally easy for me to slam the door on her and say next.
I trust you in theory but definitely not in practice.
That's why you don't get girls.
@@paulgreengod 😂😂😂😂
@jakubhladil5340 Ignore these losers here, these people are the reason why communication is so hard these days. Don't let them feel bad about yourself.
I always found this strategy kinda incongruent bc i didnt know at which point to switch back into introvert but it makes sense “once she starts responding and being interested then you can relax?”
I need a guide to get introvert girls
They're around, they don't hog the attention like extroverted girls, they don't stand out. You can see them a mile away if you look for the characteristics
@@skateNappreciate yeah, I'm currently trying to hit on one. I can tell she's way more reserved than other girls cause she doesn't post on social media that often.
And maaaan she's really hard to get, she's taking my game to the limits.
Step 1: be tall
Step 2: oh, wait there are no other steps
Be more sexual and escalated, push that emo out of her box.
I travel the country and try Downtowns every few days. What I've learned is to be outgoing almost embarrassingly. Everyone is drunk in downtown, and you are sober. So the sober girls will be naturally attracted to you
She also has to be physically attracted to you, or else you're a creep.
Best thing to increase your energy as an introvert is to not even think about pulling and detach yourself from outcome, go out to have fun as you are supposed to foremostly. This is why you attract more girls when your are taken because when u go out, you’re not thinking about pulling and have fun, then they all magically come to you and have more engagements
honestly i think im in between lol.
I can fake it
😂😂😂
Putting subtitles in your videos are making me look down and im not able to practice eye contact damn
I don't care how introverted a guy is. If he's strategically pursuing me, I will eventually pick up on it. Strategy is hot!!
Wow that help me alot
You can open very low key and very intense at the same time
Im an introvert who has a crush on introvert 🤔 help?!?!?!? I've told him i like him hes showed introvert interest but how does it move on from there?
#Opinion :- I think nobody is pure introvert or pure extrovert, people who don't like to talk much think that they are introvert & people who like to talk or express themselves think that they are extroverts but it's not true, where to express or to stay silent is mostly depend on our mood & people or situation around us.
So an introverted is a better peacock
I always say, "the louder you dress, the less loud you have to be".
Todd, Like you did "Spiderman", Can you break down how Jack's value increases for Rose in Titanic ?
Step 1; BE LEONARDO DICAPRIO.
Step one, touch Grass.
Value!!
Facts, no sht, what he said actually happened to me with a girl one time.
Easier said than done 💀🙏
Amazing.
Great thanks
The algorithm has really misunderstood me 😂
Huh. So start off strong…interesting method.
Until shes interested
Yes !
Can you imagine if Todd V got into big business?
Ok nice, easier said than done.
Todd man where are your two videos
One an hour long and two hour long
What a terrible question. He has dozens of videos that are that length.
My crush is same caste bruh
What about an introvert girl?
♥️
And then u gonna disapear for 7 weeks n come back like nothing happened yea no thanks vampires
goat
Life tip: Diffentiate between regular introversion and anti social extroversion.
As an extroverted female who accidentally got attracted to an anti social introvert “ Living Hell” stay with your pack. Makes life easier similar mindsets foundation of mutual understanding phew
Wowwwww
U are looking like aan introvert
Micah Bell?
Wait we have to talk to the girl?!?!?! I just gonna be single
Does anyone know how old Todd is?
Late 30s
Yes.
37
it cant be done. trust me. I'm a 40 yr expert on the subject
I'm introverted and have had success doing this. It's a wall you have to break through, period. You'll notice when you've made it through the wall when she starts opening up, getting closer to you, saying personal things, asking you personal questions, etc. It's never too late bro. Keep trying but take notes and improve, don't give the exact same approach everytime if it's not working
@@skateNappreciate yeah i appreciate it but there comes a point when its too late. when you become too old for this stuff. and while there might be some outlier men (those "most interesting man in the world" types), the vast majority of men realize you cant do this forever and that you just look silly or even worse than silly - sad & ridiculous trying. 98/100 women my age are either married, strongly attached and or with children. i should have tried harder in my 20s - but back then there were no guides and I didnt know what I didnt know.
@@SillyGoose2024 Bro I understand, I was a late bloomer too, I'm 31. I understand everything you're saying, but I'm throwing it out there... there's a lot of chicks out there, I would say half of the chicks out there, have some degree of daddy issues lol. Either to the extreme, or mild cases, that's the gold mine if you just want to game. As far as a relationship, do your best with whatever you got (workout, develop a sense of style, get assertive as fuck but don't be a dick, there's a difference, and if you're balding, shave it or style it so it looks good). It's really easy to lose hope because you don't see any signs of it, it's there man, I'm telling you. You know how many chicks want to fuck that guy from Don't Breath lol he's pushing 70 and a lot of women in their 20s would tap that. Take notes, why do you think they see him that way. Good luck! Don't just repeat the same mistakes, change and experiment, even if it's weird or uncomfortable. Women want a man who's like a boulder, stands strong when things get bad and knows what's up, that comes with maturity: you have that
@@SillyGoose2024 why the hell are you talking about women your own age!?
Forget them and go younger. Soooooo many younger women want an older man. I’m around your age and have been blown away at how much women half my age or younger have shown significant interest in me since I started learning all this stuff.
@@murphsviews where are you going to meet them? I'm not 40 either, I'm 48.
I don't believe any of this. How can I an introvert be interesting to others? Also, I don't believe you're an introvert, so stop lying.
Invention introverts are 90 than extroverts
98% of billioners are introverts
Proud to be introvert 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Dating is not actually about connecting. Girls don't want guys who they 'connect' with (wtf does that mean anyway?), they see guys as a status symbol - just like an expensive handbag. Therefore the guy's job is to always be the centre of attention in every situation. He needs to dominate every room with his presence and therefore demonstrate the highest value. It is NEVER an advantage to be introverted - in any walk of life really.
It is not that man, you can demonstrate value without being the center of attention to everyone, just demonstrate basic social skills, be the center of attention for her. If your girl sees you as a handbag, then you are in the wrong place, with the wrong person. Dont waste your time and find someone worthy.
Introversion is a curse. A Fucking malevolent evolutionary trait.
@@stiwari7871 fucking pessimistic much? Plenty of introverts rock their fucking world and enjoy it.
I want to make handbags out of those girls skin and sell them to other girls
@@brettlarkin1992 Whoa, easy there, Tiger.
We need gay man to learn to speak language with heterosexuals.. it would be sooo helpful
No thanks.
@@paulgreengod It is simmilar with straight man that want to speak with straight woman. It can be intimidating. Everybody brings something to the table.