It's incredible how easy and effective this simplified model of game is. And this is a great place to get started if you're new to game. For my FULL model of game (more complicated but even more effective) check out systembytodd.com
Thanks Todd, I'm from Venezuela and I've been super shy about the game and dating cause I felt that my English was horrible. But seeing you helped me a lot and I'm more confident and I'm starting to have dates With English speakers. You rock dude. PD : The conversation in this intro was the one that make me know your channel.
Hey Todd, I feel terrible with communicating cuz I am not a primary English speaker. Also, I feel people quicksand my frame when they don’t understand me and I potentially seem to come across as try hard/ agenda driven. I have already bought the system and have tried implementing it- it does work but I lose attention midway.. how to deal with that? cocky and funny is what I use to get back power- but that’s just breaking rapport where people stop talking to me. Any tips/ advice on that?
@@iunnor In terms of old school PUA shit modernized, yeah definitely. There's alot of good creators out there that have practical advice and etc but im not gonna post them in here for Todd's sake.
@@victorlinge92 Everyone from the social dynamics group. Lucario AMS (alpha male strategies) Stephiscold I only listen to about 4 people given my lifestyle and what works for me.
I love how Todd is not going into some "self help, jesus christ, mumble jumble" and is genuinely still excited about game and still brings call backs to the foundation that Mystery and the lads in 00's laid out. It shows that it's genuine, but also that it's an ever evolving thing as the times go by and we have to adapt and learn with it. This is border lining PHD levels of human psychology, behavior, and interaction.
Todd! I took one of your boot camp back in the days. A decade later people still ask me who is the best in pickup. I always tell them Todd can teach pickup the best!
It’s awesome to hear this form of game explained. I naturally do this form when I’m in certain moods but never understood why I would get good reactions because it seemed like I was behaving so counterintuitively to what I was seeing in other forms of game. As always, great video!
I've done it inadvertedly in the past when I was only a newbie in the pick-up world. In fact, what most don't get was, and maybe it still is, that they hide themselves behind pick-up canned stuff instead of using it as merely tools. And what always have worked so much better for me was to actually be congruent. This one time I approached a girl just so my friend could approach her friend and have a conversation with her alone. I told the girl I was talking to that even though I found her adorable, I had no interest and that I was just chatting with her so my friend could have his conversation with her friend. And then the entire conversation was pure teasing and fun and she kept saying that she never had this much fun in while meating guys before and that she regreted so hard having a boyfriend. I'm not a natural, but naturally I discovered this. So, yeah, this frame does work, a lot!
this upload made me smile, I remember this video was on the RDS Todd channel and changed everything for me, also I was the one posting about this on the FB group
This is the game I have had since middle school. I give compliments to women I like its natural but it goes to there heads quickly so a quick insult with a smirk always balanced it out
As something of a newbie this is the kind of game that’s gotten me the most success and it’s pretty cool to see it’s actually a thing and explained this way. For sure I find expressing the fake (ideally i guess It wouldn’t even be fake) “resistance” is the hardest part if you don’t get a good opportunity to tease or express that you’re slightly concerned she might not live up to this high standard you’re putting her on
It is not resistance, fake or not. It is about standards. Key message being "you are interesting, yet... are you up to my standards". However to pull this off, one needs good sexual market value in the first place - well-groomed, fit, confident.
@@symboIiq well the whole point of having advanced game is to increase the probability of maybe-no girls to turn into yes girls… since most women you will ever meet are maybes towards you at first.. This type of game just simply doesnt work effectively for day game
@Pepé Le Pimp it works really well sometimes cause obviously this guy is a pro. But people don't realize it's the concept or like it's a model not a plug and chug.
Coach todd, I met you randomly at Mr Purple on Saturday- such a pleasure. I was shitfaced but it was amazing meeting you in person after all these years. Would love to follow up on coaching if you’re offering in NYC
I have a lot of respect for Coach v I personally think he was probably the best coach at RSD I don't know if his style I'm crazy about but I can see a couple other people maybe being into it and it's works for him nothing against him I use a couple of his things and methods and mix it with mine
Wow! Found a new coach. So many new UA-cam cats diss the OG PUAs, but that stuff WORKED! You are a continuation of that vein. You just got yourself a customer. Thank you, sir!
Could you make more of these specific style videos, where you introduce a style like sex addict or hopeless romantic etc. and explain the main components. Maybe you could even fit it in your system so it would be good marketing ;).
Had this video pop up while I just listened to a bunch in a rabbit hole. Without considering this to have been "game" I naturally did this with my ex of 13 years. I was completely addicted to her and it was craaazy effective.
Early 2000's? Calls girls "Sweetie"? Very direct? Getting mad Patrice O'Neal vibes here lol. If anyone watching these videos doesn't know about Patrice O'Neal or the Black Phillip show, pause this video and go watch him now (or finish the video lol). Patrice was the Godfather of this style of game.
@@wijny4222 Never heard of him. Looked up a few videos of him and I don't really see the connection. Oldest videos seem to be around 15y ago so right time range but they're very far in between. No real in field or examples, and I didn't hear him use pet names once in his conversations. You might be right, idk. Provide some examples I'd like to see how you came to your conclusion, but I'm sticking with Patrice O'Neal on this one. You can get a ton of content of him doing this kind of game from the 1st episode of his show lol and he uses "Sweetie" and "Pumpkin" so much he even calls guys that.
@@fudge3458 it's all in his book 'the alabaster girl'. very unique pick up style, he even made an appearance in 'the game' by neil strauss. his game basically is to be unapologetically in love with women in general (which todd said exactly in zan's words so i'm pretty sure it's him). being fully present with her and showing your appreciation of the female gender without any hidden agendas. and then leaving, making her want more. that's zan's game. no tricks, no manipulation, just completele awe for women. they can feel it and love it. did patrice ever talk about pick up and tactics? imo, he's more one of the philosophers and red pill guys than pick up artists, so it wouldnt make sense to me if todd would reference him. but prove me wrong if i am! peace out
@@wijny4222 Nah Patrice was no pick up guy, you're right he more lived by the philosophy than any tactic. Lemme go watch The Alabaster Girl and I'll let you know what I think afterwards.
I get paid to explain things to people and let me say this man seems to be better than anyone I've ever seen at explaining something. I don't mean just in his field.
Hey , Todd! I really appreciate the work and effort you put into this content. Im currently studying one of your programms called "Winner Game". A couple days ago the cite stopped working, I and other students are no longer able to access the course. Can you please solve the problem? Thank you
Thing that still confuses me, is how these guys are approaching as many girls as they apparently are. I’ve been going out a lot lately to do cold approaches, and I’m lucky if I find two or three good opportunities on a given day. Say we’re talking about daygame, because clubs are really tough for me anyway. I don’t understand yet how people flirt and interact in clubs…I keep thinking in terms of “real conversation” and not the secret extrovert language that everyone seems to know. I’m more comfortable in coffee houses, parks, malls, bookstores, grocery stores, etc. But everywhere all I see are girls already with guys, or in larger groups, or with otherwise terrible logistics. It’s really tough at my level because groups are still intimidating, and that means almost everyone is beyond reach. Plus, I’m still at the point when it takes me twenty minutes to psych myself into an approach, and often the window just closes. These “she walked past me” thirty second windows are terrifying. But even solving all these issues, I can’t understand how anyone finds 25 reasonably pretty, reasonably available girls in a day. It seems like ten good chances in a week would be a miracle!
I'll give you what works for me. Heres an example. Say you're in a club and the Dj is killing the set. Dance like no one's watching, obviously you have to have some flow. Take space. Be loud. Hold your head up. Ignore everyone. Whistle if you can in the build ups. Most importantly enjoy yourself. Act as if you're the sickest cunt in the whole club and provide value and vibes. I advice to get somewhat tipsy if youre naturally shy. Couple of shots of tequila or gin tonic will do. Prior to club. Warm up. Anything works. Cashiers, strangers, homeless people, talk to everyone you know. Don't expect nothing in return Prior to warm up Lift heavy weights and don't jerk off for a good week or two Makes you unstoppable Take b12 zinc d3 probiotic biotine cal mag vitamine e Eat good And most importantly act as if you have a baby mama and a kid and the last thing you need is a new girl, say thing you probably won't want me if you knew more about me Theyll be all over you. We want what we can't have type shit Take care of yourself. Be productive
Go to a big city and give yourself permission to talk to people I’ll walk up to a group like “Steven from grinder right?” What and they all start laughing “Just kidding, I’m Kyle I had to fuck with you guys tho” that was fucking funny dude. Now I’m in the group got them all laughing and displayed extreme confidence
Todd, this is brilliant breakdown of this game. I think "Sweetie" game is actually an accurate term too. It assumes intimacy, and it also assumes high SMV for you as well. If she recognizes that you are trying not to sleep with her, she naturally assumes you have a lot of experience, access and options. At that point she REALLY want's to be chosen by you.
Yes you are right. In German we have some words for "trouble", but all of them are too harsh, to negative. I am still searching for the right equivalent word.
I was walking on the street i see two pretty girls walking towards me as they're about to pass me by I say "hi, ladies" 1 of them smiled the other one gave me a dirty look. It works about 50% of the time....
Might be effective in work environment too. If you notice, that she likes you, I find it hard to escalate, because we're working here. But with this you can actually use it to your advantage, by showing her "Yeah I like you, but we're professionals. There can't be anything happening between us."
Would it work if you just put in your dating profile "recovered/recovering sex addict"? Maybe add something like "looking for more than just a hookup" And then call her adorable as an opener?
For some reason I feel breaking the ice with women by telling them you have zero self control or ambitions beyond how you feel won’t be the most effective
Video ideas: approaching in places with no privacy like public transport, approaching groups, approaching socially/culturally anxious and timid women aka asian girls.
There's sooo much contradictory advise in gaming/seduction it's making my head spin. I get that here are different tactics, but isn't it best to find the tactic that best suits your personality and base SMV and focus on that? By which I mean what feels more natural with your personality, but also what's more effective for your base SMV. At least as a newbie.
2:49 I already got a natural frame that is similar to what you described but... Is also quite the opposite (the frame in question is " I like girls and women but because of a s*x trau*a i had when I was a c*ild I am afraid of se*ual escalation") is that still OK?
how can I practice all of this? Is there any program that I Can start with? there are couple of programs you have, which one I should go with? please help
Bro use that to ur advantage. When u approach tell them you’re usually shy and don’t do this but I had to come say what’s up. For some reason, telling them that you’re shy, makes you less shy. Try it
Sometimes I see a girl and I think she is so lala, a few minutes after that, I realize that is my number 10, often too late to take action. How to be prepared for these girls?? Observe the environment better, take action more rapidly?
@Todd V Dating Master Todd, I am wondering about a special case scenario. What if I am with another guy in the gym and there are two girls. One of them asks me something. Now this other guy, talks way too much and in a tiring way, so I just left to continue my sets and let them talk, now I was attracted to one of the girls. My question is that If I am with a guy outside would it be better to play the "Mysterious" character that doesn't talk much or not, which one is the best approach? Thank you.
Hey Todd, awesome video. I would be careful with the title though. It could see it attracting all the wrong types of attention that I'm sure you are aware of. Otherwise awesome content!
Its like a push pull , behavior ,more than a technique (words)✋its like showing to the girl ,that you're pushing the breaks ,because you're not sure of her, while you can b 100 miles p/h
You said “right” a TON in this video. It’s a filler word that you’re using subconsciously and many podcasters / UA-camrs are now. Thanks for all the advice and just wanted to return the favor man ✊
I suppose that's a fair criticism. If you'd like to email me at todd@toddvdating.com and cc support@toddvdating.com, we can help you decide which course best fits your needs. Thanks
I actually am a sex addict - not even recovering yet - and I'm not joking in the slightest. My therapist just referred me to a different one who can help me with it so I'm in between. So I'm intrigued by this but it is a little too real and not a game/act for me, so I don't know if I should try this.
One question: How do you exactly explain the frame logically? Do you literally say you're a recovering sex addict lol? I think not, but it'd be helpful to get more examples of exactly what to say instead. You say you love women, you used to be with many, now you're trying to focus on work or something?
Damn, this is when I feel jealous of the life of my dad's generation. They didn't have the employ such mind game and were able to have a women for a lifetime.
@@user-ih6fg1hx3f My dad was 40 and my mom was 19 when they got married. Back then, parents gave away daughters as she was a liability with no income. Marriage was not an option for girls. So there were plenty options once you were ready.
Yes, because they were more protective, well mannered and polite. Too many guys have lost the art of being stylish, a gentleman who takes her nice places, makes plans AND DOES PHONE!! Technology isn't being used properly! Phone & text more, not less
Hi Todd, I have a question about the 3 phases of game you mentioned: how do you know when to transition between the phases? Follow-up question: what about a hypothetical phase of not liking the girl at all? Or, on the opposite end of the spectrum, being in love with her? Are these frames just inherently uncalibrated in every situation?
Looks matter, but they are not the only thing. If you are a hot, tall, lean muscular guy, you often don't have to work to get girls, they circle around you, I've seen it many times. Especially the tattooed gangster-looking, hot, tall, lean and muscular guys.
@@badass6300 As a tattooed gangster looking dude I gotta say whatever your style is has pros and cons. The girls I like are intimidated initially and genuinely, are overly cautious. A couple of pros is that guys fuck with me less when im out and girls feel safe with me.
It's incredible how easy and effective this simplified model of game is. And this is a great place to get started if you're new to game. For my FULL model of game (more complicated but even more effective) check out systembytodd.com
Thanks Todd, I'm from Venezuela and I've been super shy about the game and dating cause I felt that my English was horrible. But seeing you helped me a lot and I'm more confident and I'm starting to have dates With English speakers. You rock dude.
PD : The conversation in this intro was the one that make me know your channel.
You hire good female actors.
Please consider making a video on all the known styles of game so that we have a full picture please 🔥💙
@@davidfuturissimo467 Pay money to buy Todd's products. And educate yourself about how to be successful with women. Its as complex as that.
Hey Todd, I feel terrible with communicating cuz I am not a primary English speaker. Also, I feel people quicksand my frame when they don’t understand me and I potentially seem to come across as try hard/ agenda driven. I have already bought the system and have tried implementing it- it does work but I lose attention midway.. how to deal with that? cocky and funny is what I use to get back power- but that’s just breaking rapport where people stop talking to me. Any tips/ advice on that?
Todd is the only "pickup" guy I still listen to. 🔥
Hes the only one worth listening to.
@@iunnor In terms of old school PUA shit modernized, yeah definitely.
There's alot of good creators out there that have practical advice and etc but im not gonna post them in here for Todd's sake.
Which ones did you quit?
@@victorlinge92 Everyone from the social dynamics group.
Lucario
AMS (alpha male strategies)
Stephiscold
I only listen to about 4 people given my lifestyle and what works for me.
His Game honestly is out if this world.. i adoptes his Game to mine and ITs amazing how It works It does wonders..
I love how Todd is not going into some "self help, jesus christ, mumble jumble" and is genuinely still excited about game and still brings call backs to the foundation that Mystery and the lads in 00's laid out. It shows that it's genuine, but also that it's an ever evolving thing as the times go by and we have to adapt and learn with it. This is border lining PHD levels of human psychology, behavior, and interaction.
Todd! I took one of your boot camp back in the days. A decade later people still ask me who is the best in pickup. I always tell them Todd can teach pickup the best!
Thanks, man.
It’s awesome to hear this form of game explained. I naturally do this form when I’m in certain moods but never understood why I would get good reactions because it seemed like I was behaving so counterintuitively to what I was seeing in other forms of game. As always, great video!
Still remember this concept todd introduced some years ago. Amazing. 🔥
It’s basically a whole lot of push-pull.
Giving her these compliments but then pushing her away.
Puts her on an emotional roller coaster.
Internally adopting this frame over time could be very effective
I've done it inadvertedly in the past when I was only a newbie in the pick-up world. In fact, what most don't get was, and maybe it still is, that they hide themselves behind pick-up canned stuff instead of using it as merely tools. And what always have worked so much better for me was to actually be congruent. This one time I approached a girl just so my friend could approach her friend and have a conversation with her alone. I told the girl I was talking to that even though I found her adorable, I had no interest and that I was just chatting with her so my friend could have his conversation with her friend. And then the entire conversation was pure teasing and fun and she kept saying that she never had this much fun in while meating guys before and that she regreted so hard having a boyfriend. I'm not a natural, but naturally I discovered this. So, yeah, this frame does work, a lot!
this upload made me smile, I remember this video was on the RDS Todd channel and changed everything for me, also I was the one posting about this on the FB group
That trouble line is a go-to classic
😂 It really is, I use it for online dating a lot, I get interesting responses.
This is the game I have had since middle school. I give compliments to women I like its natural but it goes to there heads quickly so a quick insult with a smirk always balanced it out
As something of a newbie this is the kind of game that’s gotten me the most success and it’s pretty cool to see it’s actually a thing and explained this way.
For sure I find expressing the fake (ideally i guess It wouldn’t even be fake) “resistance” is the hardest part if you don’t get a good opportunity to tease or express that you’re slightly concerned she might not live up to this high standard you’re putting her on
It is not resistance, fake or not. It is about standards. Key message being "you are interesting, yet... are you up to my standards".
However to pull this off, one needs good sexual market value in the first place - well-groomed, fit, confident.
This style of game will work amazing on ‚dtf‘ and ‚yes‘ girls.. it’ll be hard to pull this off consistently on ‚maybe‘ to ‚no‘ girls
Of course. But we only go for girls who are sexually attracted to us anyway.
@@symboIiq well the whole point of having advanced game is to increase the probability of maybe-no girls to turn into yes girls… since most women you will ever meet are maybes towards you at first.. This type of game just simply doesnt work effectively for day game
@@leono7416 too much wasted energy trying to change a girls mind. But at the end of the day, it’s all up to you. I only go off of choosing signals
Indeed
when he says you gotta be sneaky about it, he means it. Some girls know the "trouble" thing so use the principle and make it your own.
@Pepé Le Pimp it works really well sometimes cause obviously this guy is a pro. But people don't realize it's the concept or like it's a model not a plug and chug.
Coach todd, I met you randomly at Mr Purple on Saturday- such a pleasure. I was shitfaced but it was amazing meeting you in person after all these years. Would love to follow up on coaching if you’re offering in NYC
Definitely... Shoot me an email at todd@toddvdating.com and we can talk
Shit wish I was there lol
I have a lot of respect for Coach v I personally think he was probably the best coach at RSD I don't know if his style I'm crazy about but I can see a couple other people maybe being into it and it's works for him nothing against him I use a couple of his things and methods and mix it with mine
This style seems similar to mark manson’s style explained in his book models. To be direct and vulnerable but not to be to sold on her and needy.
This is the character “the Rake” from art of seduction.
Wow! Found a new coach. So many new UA-cam cats diss the OG PUAs, but that stuff WORKED! You are a continuation of that vein. You just got yourself a customer. Thank you, sir!
Yes, it works... Been doing it without even realizing I'm running game😂
Practiced approaching at the high end Tivoli Village in Las Vegas
Could you make more of these specific style videos, where you introduce a style like sex addict or hopeless romantic etc. and explain the main components. Maybe you could even fit it in your system so it would be good marketing ;).
Had this video pop up while I just listened to a bunch in a rabbit hole. Without considering this to have been "game" I naturally did this with my ex of 13 years. I was completely addicted to her and it was craaazy effective.
Early 2000's? Calls girls "Sweetie"? Very direct?
Getting mad Patrice O'Neal vibes here lol. If anyone watching these videos doesn't know about Patrice O'Neal or the Black Phillip show, pause this video and go watch him now (or finish the video lol). Patrice was the Godfather of this style of game.
no it's zan perrion
@@wijny4222 Never heard of him. Looked up a few videos of him and I don't really see the connection.
Oldest videos seem to be around 15y ago so right time range but they're very far in between. No real in field or examples, and I didn't hear him use pet names once in his conversations.
You might be right, idk. Provide some examples I'd like to see how you came to your conclusion, but I'm sticking with Patrice O'Neal on this one. You can get a ton of content of him doing this kind of game from the 1st episode of his show lol and he uses "Sweetie" and "Pumpkin" so much he even calls guys that.
@@fudge3458 it's all in his book 'the alabaster girl'. very unique pick up style, he even made an appearance in 'the game' by neil strauss. his game basically is to be unapologetically in love with women in general (which todd said exactly in zan's words so i'm pretty sure it's him). being fully present with her and showing your appreciation of the female gender without any hidden agendas. and then leaving, making her want more. that's zan's game. no tricks, no manipulation, just completele awe for women. they can feel it and love it.
did patrice ever talk about pick up and tactics? imo, he's more one of the philosophers and red pill guys than pick up artists, so it wouldnt make sense to me if todd would reference him. but prove me wrong if i am! peace out
@@wijny4222 Nah Patrice was no pick up guy, you're right he more lived by the philosophy than any tactic. Lemme go watch The Alabaster Girl and I'll let you know what I think afterwards.
@@fudge3458 issa book, if u prefer to watch vids, look at his 21studios videos
Holy shit, I've actually intuitively been doing this ever since. But now someone has been able to articulate it.
I get paid to explain things to people and let me say this man seems to be better than anyone I've ever seen at explaining something. I don't mean just in his field.
Excellent advice again Todd. Thanks.
Hey , Todd! I really appreciate the work and effort you put into this content. Im currently studying one of your programms called "Winner Game". A couple days ago the cite stopped working, I and other students are no longer able to access the course. Can you please solve the problem? Thank you
This was a fun watch !! Thanks for sharing!!!
Thing that still confuses me, is how these guys are approaching as many girls as they apparently are. I’ve been going out a lot lately to do cold approaches, and I’m lucky if I find two or three good opportunities on a given day.
Say we’re talking about daygame, because clubs are really tough for me anyway. I don’t understand yet how people flirt and interact in clubs…I keep thinking in terms of “real conversation” and not the secret extrovert language that everyone seems to know.
I’m more comfortable in coffee houses, parks, malls, bookstores, grocery stores, etc. But everywhere all I see are girls already with guys, or in larger groups, or with otherwise terrible logistics. It’s really tough at my level because groups are still intimidating, and that means almost everyone is beyond reach. Plus, I’m still at the point when it takes me twenty minutes to psych myself into an approach, and often the window just closes. These “she walked past me” thirty second windows are terrifying.
But even solving all these issues, I can’t understand how anyone finds 25 reasonably pretty, reasonably available girls in a day. It seems like ten good chances in a week would be a miracle!
I'll give you what works for me. Heres an example. Say you're in a club and the Dj is killing the set. Dance like no one's watching, obviously you have to have some flow. Take space. Be loud. Hold your head up. Ignore everyone. Whistle if you can in the build ups. Most importantly enjoy yourself. Act as if you're the sickest cunt in the whole club and provide value and vibes.
I advice to get somewhat tipsy if youre naturally shy. Couple of shots of tequila or gin tonic will do.
Prior to club. Warm up. Anything works. Cashiers, strangers, homeless people, talk to everyone you know. Don't expect nothing in return
Prior to warm up
Lift heavy weights and don't jerk off for a good week or two
Makes you unstoppable
Take b12 zinc d3 probiotic biotine cal mag vitamine e
Eat good
And most importantly act as if you have a baby mama and a kid and the last thing you need is a new girl, say thing you probably won't want me if you knew more about me
Theyll be all over you.
We want what we can't have type shit
Take care of yourself.
Be productive
Go to a big city and give yourself permission to talk to people I’ll walk up to a group like “Steven from grinder right?” What and they all start laughing “Just kidding, I’m Kyle I had to fuck with you guys tho” that was fucking funny dude. Now I’m in the group got them all laughing and displayed extreme confidence
Todd, this is brilliant breakdown of this game. I think "Sweetie" game is actually an accurate term too. It assumes intimacy, and it also assumes high SMV for you as well. If she recognizes that you are trying not to sleep with her, she naturally assumes you have a lot of experience, access and options. At that point she REALLY want's to be chosen by you.
Guys am totally clueless about game, been alone for a long time don't even know where to start.
Imagine in your mother tongue the equivalent word for adorable does not exist, you are literally doomed hahaha
Whatever they call baby animals in your language, probably use that, lol
pretty sure there is an equivalent in any language, unless you speak one of those African clicking tongues
Yes you are right. In German we have some words for "trouble", but all of them are too harsh, to negative. I am still searching for the right equivalent word.
"You just have to be a recovering sex addict."
Me: So just be true to myself. Got it.
Todd is baked 😂
Imagine Sean Connery pulling off this sweetie game or Pierce Brosnan... maybe if you are in your early twenties partying on Ibiza...
Both those guys are celebrities, they pull just by the virtue of being themselves
Nice quality man !
damm thanks todd for so much value. I appreciate it
I was walking on the street i see two pretty girls walking towards me as they're about to pass me by I say "hi, ladies" 1 of them smiled the other one gave me a dirty look. It works about 50% of the time....
Those weren’t ladies. That was a lady among the bitches.
This "sweetie" game would work very well with Alcohol present, in a social setting. Sober it would most certainly come off creepy
Might be effective in work environment too. If you notice, that she likes you, I find it hard to escalate, because we're working here. But with this you can actually use it to your advantage, by showing her "Yeah I like you, but we're professionals. There can't be anything happening between us."
It’s a lot easier too when you’re literally the only guy at your job who gets laid 😂
@toddvdating love your content. But where can I buy those perfect Henleys???
Told can you make a video on explaining different levels of game like how do you qualify if your intermediate or advanced
Would it work if you just put in your dating profile "recovered/recovering sex addict"?
Maybe add something like "looking for more than just a hookup"
And then call her adorable as an opener?
Absolutely fucking not. Do not put anything like that in a dating profile.
For some reason I feel breaking the ice with women by telling them you have zero self control or ambitions beyond how you feel won’t be the most effective
Probably not.
This works incredibly well on all level
Lerning from a master. Thanx man!
Thx Todd.. Wish i could learn stuff like this from my father...
Video ideas: approaching in places with no privacy like public transport, approaching groups, approaching socially/culturally anxious and timid women aka asian girls.
"Hands off the merchandise" haha haven't heard that in years
Fascinating share!
I noticed that many girls go crazy since i am in a relationship and tell them they are georgeous but i have a girlfriend 🤐🤣💯
Current Todd and Old School Owen is the way to go for me.
There's sooo much contradictory advise in gaming/seduction it's making my head spin. I get that here are different tactics, but isn't it best to find the tactic that best suits your personality and base SMV and focus on that? By which I mean what feels more natural with your personality, but also what's more effective for your base SMV. At least as a newbie.
After how much time did you switch from 0.025% to 0.05%? And when did you switch from 0.05 to 0.1?
2:49 I already got a natural frame that is similar to what you described but... Is also quite the opposite (the frame in question is " I like girls and women but because of a s*x trau*a i had when I was a c*ild I am afraid of se*ual escalation") is that still OK?
It's not ok
If you're afraid of sexual escalation you won't get results
how can I practice all of this? Is there any program that I Can start with? there are couple of programs you have, which one I should go with? please help
I suck at approach i get too nervous haha
Just look at em like regular ppl dog u got this
Bro use that to ur advantage. When u approach tell them you’re usually shy and don’t do this but I had to come say what’s up. For some reason, telling them that you’re shy, makes you less shy. Try it
This just compounds my alien worldview. I am repulsed by this. It's so clearly manipulative. Probably why I don't hook up with many people.
Sometimes I see a girl and I think she is so lala, a few minutes after that, I realize that is my number 10, often too late to take action. How to be prepared for these girls?? Observe the environment better, take action more rapidly?
Cold Part iz… They ain’t e’en know I had Todd on my team 😅
its easy for me to go direct Todd. Specially live game.
@Todd V Dating
Master Todd, I am wondering about a special case scenario. What if I am with another guy in the gym and there are two girls. One of them asks me something. Now this other guy, talks way too much and in a tiring way, so I just left to continue my sets and let them talk, now I was attracted to one of the girls. My question is that If I am with a guy outside would it be better to play the "Mysterious" character that doesn't talk much or not, which one is the best approach? Thank you.
Leading. Talk louder
Great marketing and title line there my dude.
Hey Todd, awesome video. I would be careful with the title though. It could see it attracting all the wrong types of attention that I'm sure you are aware of. Otherwise awesome content!
The starting infield is evergreen and everywhere
Ayo, I didn't know that it'a a game strategy. I do the sweetie approach naturally and win every time. Haha, wow.
Its like a push pull , behavior ,more than a technique (words)✋its like showing to the girl ,that you're pushing the breaks ,because you're not sure of her, while you can b 100 miles p/h
Talking about Zan would be my guess
You said “right” a TON in this video. It’s a filler word that you’re using subconsciously and many podcasters / UA-camrs are now.
Thanks for all the advice and just wanted to return the favor man ✊
Hey man, have you got a product which is all the products combined?
"Sweetie" can sometimes be interpreted as condescending... How about "Cutie" instead??
How old are you?I am 41 .Does age have a big impact on the success rate of dating ?
I am 44, I've noticed young chicks (college age) get freaked out just by the number. It's best not to tell them how old you are at first.
You literally have six different websites in your video description. It's quite confusing if I want to buy a course from your site.
I suppose that's a fair criticism. If you'd like to email me at todd@toddvdating.com and cc support@toddvdating.com, we can help you decide which course best fits your needs. Thanks
game in reverse... but in my mind... its actually just being honest game.
This sounds like social rocket science. Wtf am i listening to? Sweetie game? Are you serious? Lol
Frame description sounds like what Hank Moody has done...
I actually am a sex addict - not even recovering yet - and I'm not joking in the slightest. My therapist just referred me to a different one who can help me with it so I'm in between. So I'm intrigued by this but it is a little too real and not a game/act for me, so I don't know if I should try this.
My mind''s tellin me no but my body my body's tellin me yeaahhhhh
How do I sign up for your bootcamp? I already applied on your website and got an appointment for the screening call but the call ever came.
email todd@toddvdating.com and cc support@toddvdating.com... we'll help you out
@@ToddVDating thanks. I'll do it as soon as am back home from the long weekend
Truly the goat
Todd V, the king of cheeeeeese
One question: How do you exactly explain the frame logically? Do you literally say you're a recovering sex addict lol? I think not, but it'd be helpful to get more examples of exactly what to say instead. You say you love women, you used to be with many, now you're trying to focus on work or something?
Why do you have to explain it logically? Especially to women.. totally counterproductive.
What are other styles tho?
VGA gang where you at! ✔️
Damn, this is when I feel jealous of the life of my dad's generation. They didn't have the employ such mind game and were able to have a women for a lifetime.
Back then you still needed game. Only difference is with the internet and how many men there are you have to evolve to get the girls you want
@@user-ih6fg1hx3f My dad was 40 and my mom was 19 when they got married. Back then, parents gave away daughters as she was a liability with no income. Marriage was not an option for girls. So there were plenty options once you were ready.
But… What’s the fun on that
Yes, because they were more protective, well mannered and polite. Too many guys have lost the art of being stylish, a gentleman who takes her nice places, makes plans AND DOES PHONE!! Technology isn't being used properly! Phone & text more, not less
good stuff
I been running sweetie game but didn’t know
Hi Todd,
I have a question about the 3 phases of game you mentioned: how do you know when to transition between the phases?
Follow-up question: what about a hypothetical phase of not liking the girl at all? Or, on the opposite end of the spectrum, being in love with her? Are these frames just inherently uncalibrated in every situation?
Any real life examples of this - like role play
Why do i feel this is the one of the most pervert ways to flirt and why do i find it so appealing
Anyone else think the old mentor he mentioned is Tim? The ones who know what I'm talking about knows whom I'm talking about
zan perrion
11:36 ez fix, just pick scaling next time
So.. the inspiration was JP?
what happened at the end of the court case between you and owen cook
Still ongoing...
@@ToddVDating how much are u needing to give him or him to u
Is he talking about Zan Perrion?
He's probably talking about Zan Perrion
Todd proves by his looks, looks doesn't matter
Backhanded comment much?
Not a bad looking guy. Just average
Looks matter, but they are not the only thing. If you are a hot, tall, lean muscular guy, you often don't have to work to get girls, they circle around you, I've seen it many times. Especially the tattooed gangster-looking, hot, tall, lean and muscular guys.
@@badass6300 As a tattooed gangster looking dude I gotta say whatever your style is has pros and cons.
The girls I like are intimidated initially and genuinely, are overly cautious.
A couple of pros is that guys fuck with me less when im out and girls feel safe with me.
He is a normal looking guy. If he was ugly, than your comment would have made sense
Bruh I’ve been doing this my whole life w/o realizing lol it’s some what effective
The "shaky pedastal" got me hard :D
This is high risk high reward because this is borderline simping. Don't think it's applicable in todays age of validational social media.