They better check her out for signs of rapes and her brother was probably sexually assaulted as well before the scumbag murdered him. And no bail for that scumbag either!
The Mother was the brave mastermind she wrote and coached her daughter to carry the notes and deliver them to adults at school. The daughter was intelligent to follow the Mothers plan.
Once she realize that he was insane she should have gotten out as soon as possible because the longer you deal with criminally insane people the harder it will be to get away 🏃♂️ from them.
Bruh it is some evil people out here. Here I am wanting to have kids so I can raise them and nurture them the right way and leave a legacy behind. And this monster killed an innocent kid. This breaks my heart.
@@hildegardplatz8999 that because they don’t know anything about the world we live in and don’t know any better I think it depends on how they are as a person later on in life as they get older and meet new things in life or simply because of how they grew up
I escaped a man like this. I had to give up my home and everything. By the next year, he did to another woman what he wanted to do to me. Don't assume how you would act when you are a danger. This woman had already lost one child..
These idiots on UA-cam don't know ANYTHING about real domestic abuse. Domestic Abusers threaten to kill you and your loved ones. They go out of their way to terrorize you and instill fear in you. They rape you or hold you captive. They stalk you or refuse to let you leave by force
@@ezzow4263 I’m not promoting a video. I’m promoting awareness so that we can learn to avoid situations like the one the woman experienced in this video. The fact that you all are more concerned about the fact that a positive video was shared in the UA-cam comment section just goes to show that we focus our attention on all of the wrong things and this is how so many people put themselves in situations that could be avoided. I know the video that I shared will resonate with someone and they’ll begin to be more aware of their surroundings and they’ll potentially save their life or someone else’s. I appreciate the feedback though.
I can’t imagine the trauma the sister still has trapped in her nervous system. This is so hurtful. I hope the perpetrator receives the harshest sentence possible. Rip little boy.
You might be wondering why she couldn't get help sooner, but these type of man can trap and terrify a woman to death. She was probably very scared he'd kill her daughter too. Please don't blame this mother, she sent the note and wanted help. She and her daughter are probably both suffering from terrible PTSD as well as deep sadness abd depression over the tragic death of her son. These situations can be horrifying and terrifying, if you haven't been in it, try not to judge. It's easy to think what you would've done, but hindsight is always 20/20. Prayers for this mother and her daughter 🙏💖🙏💖🙏 They deserve help, love and support.
Thank you for saying that!!! Your right!!! People have no idea how men like that can basically paralyze a woman's survival instincts out of great fear, ive seen it first hand in others relationships growing up, I was once one of those scared little kids. Like you said it's easy for people to say what they would have done if it were them in that situation...this literally breaks my heart for all three victims 💔 😔 God bless them 🙏
The woman could have left that abuser long before her son died. It pretty much is her fault for not leaving him and allowing the abuse to continue. She wasn’t in her right mind.
this made me cry so hard. I cant even imagine the fear both of them had. So happy the teacher took the notes seriously and so proud of the little girl being brave and very proud of the mother trying to come up with a way out despite a lunatic looming over them. Abusive people are SO conning. They dont show up all mean and controlling. For a good bit they seem like prince charming but slowly and gradually they enforce fear in you while hurting you
@@SunshineStateofMind1981 that’s a gross generalization… and how does everything wrong men do always land back on women? Men are grown and capable of making their own decisions that they are 100% responsible for. You don’t know the situation, abusive people are really good at lying to get you to let them in it could happen to anyone, even you.
Thank God the mom asked for help and the teachers helped. It takes a Village to raise children. We all need to intervene. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is very tragic.
It's better to be wary & wrong than be right & do nothing. A lot of people brush off reporting suspected child abuse or abuse of any kind but I encourage all to always report it, even if you only have the slightest knowledge or smallest suspension. As an abused child myself (sex trafficked from age 6-17) I wished someone would have reported the obvious signs. As an adult now I realize just how many didn't care enough to make a simple phone call. I refuse to be one of those people.
This is why I didn’t start dating until my daughter was older. Her father passed before she was born, and though I hoped any man I dated would have a good heart (obviously wasn’t on the prowl for a bad boy or bad influence for my kid) but you just NEVER know what someone is capable of until you’ve known them for a long time. My current partner and I are just now really talking about moving in together, and that’s after 5 years and my daughter now being in middle school. Your child is your most important job. It’s terrifying. Hope she and her daughter are able to heal and are able to surround themselves with good men so her daughter doesn’t get roped into the same pattern. Parents, raise your boys to be gentlemen. And raise your daughters to be thoughtful partners, but to stand up for themselves. Rest In Peace sweet boy 🙏🏼
It looks like you are on the right track. But, if you decided to move in together make sure your daughter understands that she can come and tell you if she becomes uncomfortable being alone in the house with him.
This is so hard to hear, the baby girl is so brave I can’t imagine her being so scared and being so brave to go to school witnessing so much , it’s so heartbreaking a baby boy lost his life 💔.
My husband was my high school sweetheart 💕. When he got me away from my family he mentally abused me . I feared for my life daily. Knives helt at my throat while being told how he could kill me. Must stop talking about it, don't want to relive it. Pushed down deep for 52 years to survive.
@@sinoralewis4521 I’m so sorry. I’m a make and I was almost a victim of someone like this. She tried really hard to trap me but thankfully she got pregnant with some other guys baby and she left me alone for life.
I beg women to stop bringing men into their homes when they have small children. If the guy is good, he'll have a place of his own and he'll understand that you want your children to be protected.
I don't know why this made me cry... it's so INSANE how many women and children are killed by these psychopaths. And for what? Because they don't want to be alone? We have an obligation to our babies and if the man you choose to date doesn't understand that then THAT'S YOUR SIGN TO LEAVE!!!!!
yes- intersting how most comments are all praising this GARBAGE of a "mother" who wanted to KILL HER SON by CHOOSING of ALL MEN IN EXISTENCE the 1% that is a psychopath. Instead, why not praise the surviving CHILD who did not CHOOSE like a moron nobrain trash? Intersting how that works- society throws CHILDREN away but WORSHIPS the subhuman MOTHERS. Almost...as if THERE IS A HUGE MASSIVE MYTHOLOGY AND PREJUDICE TOWARDS MOTHERS.
You have to be careful who you introduce into your children's lives. Not everyman is a role model for your child.I would rather be without a man and happy than to be with one and be miserable.
I know this is reaching forward in time but from what I’ve experienced myself, I hope the little girl is never mad at her mom “for letting it happen” I’m a domestic violence survivor and it took 3 years for me to get away, when my daughter became a teenager she hated me for not getting away sooner, she didn’t understand how dangerous it was. She is a bit older now so I think she gets it, but I hope and pray for the mother and daughter they find peace. This breaks by heart so much
The excuses to stay in these types of relationships are running thin. It’s not the early 1900’s when there was no help or access to information around!! We’re seeing these types of stories more frequent than ever! Some females just don’t want to leave!!! There’s shelters, assistants and other people available to help… These tragedies do not have to happen … 😞
@@Truelyblue333 and I'm sure you've heard of the numerous cases of a woman filming for divorce, separating or leaving and the man kills her or the kids or everyone? Not everyone can be hidden away. These men will find you and follow through with their threats
Your daughter is mad because you made a relationship with that man a priority over your children's best interests, you should have never brought a man into your children's home. I understand that like any human you have needs but you should have kept it outside the home or waited till your children were grown. Your daughter might be more willing to forgive and get over it if you acknowledge that you made a mistake without making excuses about why you couldn't leave, just say that you messed up and you're sorry.
The daughter has every right to be and at her mom for letting this happen. You are willfully ignorant if you think the mom didn’t see red flags. She put a man over her kids, and it costed her son’s life. Stop making excuses for the mom.
This is why my focus is on my son as single mom. He has always been my priority. I was in an abusive relationship and that made me wise up real quick that I will not ever put myself in that situation again. No relationship should become more important that being a mother and protecting your children. Red flags start early in abusive relationships.
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@@santosbanuelos6661 Right? Their god doesn't even step in to stop thousands of their holiest priest representatives from raping children, they sure don't care about some random civilian doing it.
Never let the boyfriend or girlfriend come live with you if you have kids under 18. It's not worth it. Yeah, there are nice people, but that one person, who walks into your life, can take everything away and leave you empty for the rest of your life. Don't get pregnant with people you just met either. No knocked-up business. Get a stable career, work on all your own trauma WITHOUT finding a relationship as a crutch. Read those books, go to therapy, watch videos about the issues you are dealing with online, find support groups but know that people prey on the vulnerable and can befriend you from those support groups or mirror the same trauma as you to get into your life. Psychopaths, sociopaths, and people will personality disorders often mimic your life story (ex. childhood abuse, dysfunctional families, bad parents, rape, bullied etc....) to get unwarranted acceptance from you as you feel this sense of familiarity. It's a ruse; it's fraud. Never divulge your weaknesses to someone you barely know. Unless you have met up at least 100 times (Yes, 100. Isn't your life worth that much vetting?) for a couple hours each time and seen them angry, upset, sad, happy...., met their family and friends often and with much depth of interaction, not just a rush by meeting once to say hi, do not let them know vulnerable things about yourself. Sus out their family and friend too. You don't want evil, volatile people in your circle. Your significant other might be great but has horrible people around him or her. Do not bring them, your significant other and their family or friends, home for dinner unless you have vetted them thoroughly and exhaustively. Remember, 100 in-depth meetings per person first. Do not let them babysit your kids or pets. Do not give them money. Yeah, it's painfully slow and takes a lot of time, but that is what must be done to safeguard yourself. The population as it explodes so does the population of nutty people. You WILL bump into them. Trust is not a greeting. Trust has to be earned. So don't let anyone tell you that you should be more trusting and "open", especially not if you have young kids. Don't let people tell you how to safeguard yourself. Don't let them tell you that you are paranoid or excessive. Often those who want quick access for nefarious reasons will push for getting close too soon, getting into your house too soon, getting your trust without earning it by making empty promises knowing full well they never intend to keep them. Someone might look nice, seems sweet, work for a nonprofit, want to "help" you.......but it is on you to play the CEO and detective for your life. Ted Bundy volunteered at a suicide hotline; animal abusers have been known to be animal rescuers or even those that run the organization; pedophiles have been known to work at amusement parks, schools, and churches. So when you judge a person, you cannot ever use their career or hobbies, you must do the 100 days. Otherwise, keep them as very distant acquaintances. Have few good friends instead of wasting your time making tons of acquaintances. But the reverse is also true. It's better to have more acquaintances than friends, who have access to your life. If you make 2-3 really good friends for the rest of your life, then you are doing it right. Be friends FIRST before getting into a romantic relationship.
How about don't have kids unless you're with someone equally dedicated to spending the rest if their life and buliding a family as you are? Thats the problem. All these single moms creates an environment where creeps can take advantage of them. It happens litteraly all the time.
@@Redwhiteandtired Not the case in this story. From what I remember, she is a widow. The father of her children/husband is dead. This creep was the new man in her life.
so not having a mom or dad, this is the advice I never got. even though I'm 38 and have been a victim to DV, I thank you because now I see where I went wrong. God bless you
It took a lot of bravery for the mom and little girl to follow through. Experiencing abuse really messes you up. Shoutout to mom for being innovative ❤️
This is why I’m forever thankful that my mom decided to stay single while raising me, as my dad was already abusive. Now that I’m out of the house she’s dating again and we get to talk about her dates like best friends, I thank her a lot for prioritizing me and fighting for me. Even running away with only diapers and a baby bottle to keep me safe. There’s some incredibly messed up people out there and I’m glad that they found away to escape that environment.
i could never imagine the agony of waiting, not just for your daughter to return safely from school but to hope that the police will be (finally) informed. Man...
It's probably always been like that. Crimes started early on. Cain killed Seth. Not that it's a good thing, but I don't think it's new. 💙 We're all capable of doing horrid things since we're human, so we should stick close to Jesus and let God change our hearts.
My heart breaks for all of them. The mom, the daughter, & the boy that lost his life 💔 I’m so glad they were able to get the notes out without being caught & police were able to intervene before there were two more deaths. I pray for this mama after everything she endured & losing a child. I pray for the daughter & all the emotional distress & trauma she endured along with losing a brother. I hope they can get some counseling & go on to live happy lives together while this POS rots in a prison cell. That is IF gen pop don’t kill his ass first. RIP sweet boy your mama & sister will see you again some day ♥️
As parents we need to educate our sons and daughters that any type of toxic abuse in a relationship is not acceptable in any form. You need to cut off these toxic people and let them go about their way. Because at the end of the day the only thing they're going to do is abuse.
Easy said than done as you can clearly see in this video yes she was being abused and I'm pretty sure she didn't want to stay but she had no choice so duhhh
Educate yourself and your children on identifying the different types of narcissists especially covert narcissists, that are harder to spot. They are everywhere.
@@dmonroe7368 she decided to involve this man in her life. she is to be held accountable for her actions. stop treating women like they are too stupid to make wise decisions
she decided to involve this man in her life. she is to be held accountable for her actions. stop treating women like they are too stupid to make wise decisions
My heart breaks for little Mason and his mother and sister. What a traumatic situation at the hands and whims of a psychopath. I hope and pray they are able to heal and are surrounded by a loving family and community to help them through it. RIP little man, Godspeed 💔
We spend a lot of time discussing victims of domestic abuse, but how much is known about abusers? What makes a person go off the rails like this and think it's okay or enjoyable to control and abuse another person? It's very abnormal. I suppose psychologists are studying this but you don't hear about it.
Esha bee is right. Both of my parents were abused and as a result they abused me. After 19 years of it I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and C-PTSD, which is a version of sociopathy that results from abuse. I found myself becoming like them to other people, and gave my child away because I knew I wouldn't be able to be a good mother. Abuse ruins everyone it touches, and it's sad that it can't be stopped.
There's actually alot of info in this but I don't really think it matters for most of us. Unless you're a mental health professional, you can't help or control it? Of course assuming YOU aren't an abuser yourself, creating a monster who will inflict pain on others. The focus is on victims in part bc we sympathize with them ... It's a dangerous road IMO to try and identify with an abuser which could lead to making excuses for that behavior (oh it's bc his childhood was bad, oh he has a disorder and needs medication, oh theres an addiction issue it's not his fault). If someone offed your child I'm sure you wouldn't care about their back story or brain chemistry. At the end of the day, there's certain rules in society that no one should be able to violate, no matter what. When and if they do, consequences should be severe.
Cowardly monsters who abuse children deserve the worse punishment the courts can pass down. Brava to the mom and little daughter for risking their lives to find justice and safety.
No words can convey the pain and suffering that child must have gone through in his short little life Very very sad . My God Rest His Beautiful Little Soul
I have one word for you women out there “Background Check”. Also, try and get as much information about a man’s last relation before you get involved with him. There are a lot of criminally insane people out in the world so watch your back because sometimes they are very hard to spot.
I wish the last woman that dated my Psycho ex had given me the heads up True statement!!! We as women have to do better I’m just glad me and my children got away alive 🤦🏾♀️🥴🧘🏽♀️
Don't hook up with strangers, no matter how well you think you know them. Especially if you have children. May the little boy rest in peace and justice be served!🙏🥀
Listening to this gave me chills, just the fear for the abusive guy to find the note. I am just glad the mom was able to get help I was hoping for a positive ending for Mason (rip). So sad.
For every Victim we hear about there are plenty more living this life and suffering alone without any help. Unless you have lived it you can't comprehend how much strength it took her to write those notes. We NEED some sort of tracking system for abusive people. We do it for s. offenders so why not abusers? It could save so many lives because the Abusers often move on to find another Victim who doesn't know their history.
Hiding notes in her child’s socks .anyine going through this abuse get away and do it safely get help from woman refuge anything just get you and you kids out ASAP it’s absolute shocking and horrible
I physically got anxious when they talked about her scribbling notes for a few seconds a day for weeks, then quietly coaching a kid that young, and finally waiting on cops. God that’s rough. Where was the boy? How long before the note got to school did he die? Jeez. I was in a couple extremely abusive relationships, which always gets me weird looks, but surprise surprise men can be abused. I cannot emphasise enough how huge of a red flag it is when someone starts isolating you. See your mom less? Stop going out on weekends? Quit that job, find something closer to home? Don’t use X social media, you’ve already got Y and Z? RUN RUN RUN DON’T LOOK BACK. Don’t wait until they’re holding a literal gun to your head asking why you spent 22 minutes instead of 20 at the neighbors’ place.
There is a male in our family who is under all the red flags you list and more. We are so gutted over his well-being and that of the children. No one dares put a foot wrong for fear of the punishment that will come. The wrath of the wife cannot be underestimated.
I am so incredibly sorry that you had to go through that. It's so heartbreaking to hear of anyone having to deal with it. I endured 15 years of it by my ex husband and haven't been in a relationship since because of the trauma it creates. I hope all the best for you❤
@@SamaelMoneyStein their are a lot of stupid fathers out there who can't man up and take care of their children! It takes a real man to be a good father! Any man can make a baby, but a father will take responsibility!
@@SamaelMoneyStein she’s a widow and probably wanted her kids to have a father to look up to... there’s nothing wrong with single mothers or fathers wanting someone to fill a position that’s open.. sadly single parents are often the one who get taken advantage of.. clearly you know jack shit about how things like this can happen and not everyone chooses to be a single parent sometimes people die... “there’s a lot of ignorant stupid mother fuckers who don’t keep their mouths shut and people like you make me sick”
Sorry but she let this happen. She should have severed the relationship at the first signs. You may not want to hear it single moms but you need to put your needs on hold and never bring a new dude into the house if you have young kids.
He probably confiscated her phone. It still surprises me how ignorant many people are about how this kind of abuse works. She was so terrified of him especially after he killed her son, and he had her so isolated from anybody who could help her, she was reduced to scribbling notes begging for help any chance she got.
I wish there were a way to fix the sick minds of criminals instead of just dumping him in prison. Treat the problem before it's too late! Sociopaths and narcissists are created.
Stop moving strange men in over your children ladies. Family check on your family, you see behaviors change, check on them. Damn shame this baby lost his life, I couldn't imagine being do struck with fear I'd allow anyone to harm my kids.
Poor little boy, I'm helping raise my grandson who just turned 9, my love for this boy is so intense I just can't comprehend this..... Sorry life failed you little guy, but at least you are at peace! May the POS that did this live in eternal misery..
@@yeslek It was probably Vishnu.🤣 I got two likes because they didn't realize that I was being sarcastic. Just say how great "god" is and the people will give you likes.🤣
I had lived the same horror as this family since I was born. I dont even know what it feels like to be free until my abussive father passed away. Everyday is the same fear, fear of making mistakes, fear of being abused, fear of death. My father would blame us for the smallest mistakes even when that is not our doing. One day one of his pet bird escape because he forget to lock the cage. He became very angry and began abusing us. He even brought out a knive and treaten to kill both of us. At that time I am only 13 and my sister is 11.
Say it LOUDER! She got with him literally days after her husband died. The father of her kids died and then she started sleeping with his acquaintance. This could have been avoided had she put her children first instead of being a desperate woman needing sex and a man.
@@enishalihoward8119 yes shes crazy she needs to be arrested too how is she gona say she wasnt allowed in a certain part of her house with her kids how can a man keep you away from your kids unless you allow it
@@enishalihoward8119 Some women rather a mother or not don't know how to not have a man in their beds, sometimes inviting the devil himself, these women got to learn to be alone without feeling lonely
I love how people keep blaming her when in reality the guy shouldn’t be an abuser or murder... like there’s many cases where people get into relationships with someone just for one of them to decide years later to kill them without an indication prior to the murder... instead of blaming the victim because she is one and is most likely feeling total guilt already for everything.. fucking teach people not to abuse and murder women and children
So this went on for months and her remedy is sticky notes in her daughter's stocking? Was she chained up inside the house or what? Doesn't sound right.
Mothers have a responsibility not to have shady characters around their children. Poor Mason who has lost his life because Mom allowed a monster to be around him.
That poor beautiful little boy so, so horrific. I cannot even imagine the emotional, physical and mental trauma both sister and mom are suffering from this beyond heartbroken especially for those innocent babies.
I would would need bail over my child. As a mother, your children come first. Their peotection. Stability and security. He should have ate thermometer to check his temper.
I know this family personally so just to see your whole entire UA-cam video based on this whole case is so surreal to me and I just realize that life is very real and very grateful for everything that you have and everyone in your life because it’s situations like this that you would never think that could happen to anybody that you know like I literally know the woman in this video video. She was the receptionist for the pool that I lifeguard it out when I was younger. Literally the most sweetest most quite as most humblest person that I ever met and no in my life so all they can do is pray and hope nothing but the best for this family because I know that whole family is some of the strongest people that I have ever met.
@@user-lr9cw9bb3k I don’t know too much of what happened but what I do know is that the victim of it is someone that I worked with and knew at the time so I don’t know whatever else is going on or what have happened from the seven years in between for when I last worked together but what I do know is that she was a great sweet kind loving woman so that is what I will go off of.
Don’t judge this lady and don’t ask why she didn’t leave, until you have worn her 👠 or been a victim of domestic violence this is tough territory, been a victim of DV before and it’s too scary
And nobody questions the woman's bad judgement. How long did she know the bf? Did she run a background check before letting him have access to her children? Where is the father?
So sad 💔 you never know what goes on behind closed doors. You gotta be careful who you date and bring around your children. There are usually red flags. 🚩
Guess I don't know the details but why is it a "wrongful death"? The word "wrongful" is a adjective, not a verb. It's like he's charged with the outcome, not with causing it.
Kind of wondering if the mother has any guilt for not killing him in his sleep before he killed her son. I would've put him out of his misery before he ever laid a hand on my children.
He probably bragged about it to her or was holding her sons life over her head until he actually did it. Then he was holding her daughters life over her head.
"oh my kid was murdered by someone, I know what we should do sue for money..." What grief and trauma stricken person thinks like that? How do you get sticky notes from the car if you're being held captive? If you have alone time in a car, why do you need sticky notes as opposed to simply driving away? How do you get yourself into a captive situation over a period of months? You're either captive or you're not. This seems suspicious to me.
When imposing a civil suit such as this one a lot of times the end result wanted is evidence and not money. Let’s say she loses this lawsuit, any evidence discovered during this case MAY be used in a criminal case/investigation.
@@KPbouj Depending on the type of evidence, it being recorded in a civil trial often means it won't be admissible in a criminal trial. Furthermore, he's already been criminally charged. The civil suit will occur after his criminal trial. The mother has outright said her motivation is so that he has to pay monetarily. It is suspicious, at least to me
@Dorkaholic Oh my god we know he died! The report is not going to use every quote in 2 minutes. Abusers murder. Scroll through the news. A ton of murders. Why are you shocked? Oh my god a controlling and possessive man murdered a family member! What a shock!🙄
When I was 15 a boyfriend punched me in my arm so I punched him in his face and dared him to fight me. Instead, he apologized profusely and begged me to forgive him. I did not. I later heard that in his adult life he’s had a history of domestic abuse. My hope is that these women can find the strength in them to fight back sooner rather than later. Most bullies do not like to be challenged and will move on to someone who is easier to manipulate.
I'm still confused about this horrible story. The lawsuit says months before her son was killed by her boyfriend she feared for her and her daughter's lives and that he separated her and her daughter. So was she locked up in the home and held against her will? Why did she only fear for her life and her daughter's? Why is there no mention of fearing for her son's life months before he was killed? The fact that her lawsuit mentions her boyfriend misrepresented himself as someone who would take care of her son is ridiculous, it was her responsibility to protect her babies regardless of what some man tells her. I'm sorry but something is missing in this story.
@@kataylove I just don't understand where she thought her son was if she only feared for her and her daughter's lives. Somehow I feel that she must have known what her boyfriend did to her little boy. I have a grandson that is 4 years old and it's just heart breaking to hear that someone could hurt a small innocent child.
@@sandiraygoza1514 I looked up the story and she did suspect that he killed her son but she couldn't do anything because he basically locked her up in the room and took her phone. He even handcuffed her to the car door when she was in the car with him. It's messed up. She tried multiple times to figure out way to get notes out and was finally able to when he let her sleep with her daughter one random night.
I think she was saying once Mason was killed she feared for her and her daughter at that point. I still personally don't understand being able to stand by and watch your son being beaten, hear the screams and live in the house with his body. I think I would have done the unthinkable to stop him. But, I don't know her situation, it's so sad what happened to that little boy.
Another case of a woman inviting evil into her children's lives. Ladies, just raise your kids and don't get involved with a man until your kids are grown. It's just sickening how these stories are repeated over and over again.
Outside men almost always hating on another man's son, which is why men should raise their own and not abandon their parental responsibilities. Such a sad , desperate but brave act for the mother. I thank her. Saddened at little Mason's end. So tired of hearing about these boyfriends the mom bring into their lives and end up killing their children. Father's you matter. Step the Phuck up and get your ass involved in your kids life. Be present. Show these outside men that your child/children are loved by both parents. Not just one. Be present!!! This wouldn't happen so much if the father's were involved and taking care of their own babies!!!
@@BlackStar-hy1iy I was widowed in 2009. Men killing other men's children out of hate snd jealousy still exists. In. Cases where the father has passed away, he obviously can't step up but MORE TIMES THAN NONE women and their kids are at risk for the mother's bringing other men into the home exposing their children and themselves to danger. In which case , unfortunately it falls on the mom.
@@BlackStar-hy1iy Please. She cheated on her husband with this man. This man had kids with her husband he’s now deceased sister. When her husband died she refused an autopsy and moved in with Brandon two months later. She cut off all of her husbands family and didn’t allow them to even see the kids. She’s not innocent one bit. (This is a cut and paste from another person on this forum, and I thought you might want to know).
She knew him for a while. It's easy to pretend for a couple months to years. Most people can't guess who an abuser is. They're the most Christian and goody two shoes of the bunch usually. Also idk why you people act like biological fathers can't be abusive.
Being single is a wonderful thing. If you have children, put them first. You never know what evils you could be inviting into your home; the very place a child should feel most safe.
Do not get a boyfriend if you have kids. Especially not an unbalanced disturbed one. Better off alone than with someone who will eventually kill you and your kids
This story is so heart broken, she should have seen the signs from the beginning. Unfortunately, help came a bit too late for her son and that is the tragedy in this whole situation. My heart goes out to her and her family.
There are always signs. These women choose to ignore the signs for their own selfish reasons, not giving a crap about their children, but only what benefits them personally.
once again so called males blaming women for male actions. As if she was suppose to know he would be like this. Funny how when it is step mom or father girlfriend doing this, yall do not blame the dad
@@MsBizzyGurl you do realize that a big man can easily forcibly separate you from your kids right ??? it is easy to act strong and brave but in real life if you are chained up with G8n, there is nothing you can do.
@@ezzow4263 sure, anyone can forcibly separate a woman from her child(ren), but modern society is going to dictate that she's freed at some point. Neighbors have phones and if the local authorities won't intervene, it's up to her as a protector of her child(ren) to find a shelter until she can gain safety.
Very proud of this little girl for being so brave for her mother and her brother 🙏🏽
The dead brother right
They better check her out for signs of rapes and her brother was probably sexually assaulted as well before the scumbag murdered him. And no bail for that scumbag either!
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The Mother was the brave mastermind she wrote and coached her daughter to carry the notes and deliver them to adults at school. The daughter was intelligent to follow the Mothers plan.
Once she realize that he was insane she should have gotten out as soon as possible because the longer you deal with criminally insane people the harder it will be to get away 🏃♂️ from them.
Put this guy in general population. Inmates will take care of him really good.
Rest in peace little one. Your mom and sister are safe.
When this country finally held accountable you'll be right with him and you can tell him to his face how much you wanted him where yous both should be
@@ninarosado5811 learn to speak
Nina Rosado Lmao did you even read what he wrote? Remember crack isn’t good, not even in small amounts. Just say no to drugs.
@@ninarosado5811 you fool, this has nothing to do with that..... ignorance is always loudly spoken 🤦♂️
@@TheLunarSurface Learn proper syntax and use at least the minimal amount of punctuation to complete a sentence.
It just blows my mind that anyone could beat / kill an innocent little kid like that. Absolutely despicable.
Bruh it is some evil people out here. Here I am wanting to have kids so I can raise them and nurture them the right way and leave a legacy behind. And this monster killed an innocent kid. This breaks my heart.
Some mother's give birth to munster's yet so many say may baby is innocent u have seen it on tv
Men don’t like to take care of other men’s kids 🤷🏻♂️
@@hildegardplatz8999 that because they don’t know anything about the world we live in and don’t know any better I think it depends on how they are as a person later on in life as they get older and meet new things in life or simply because of how they grew up
He's got to be evil.
Children are innocent
I escaped a man like this. I had to give up my home and everything. By the next year, he did to another woman what he wanted to do to me. Don't assume how you would act when you are a danger. This woman had already lost one child..
I'm glad he didn't kill the little girl 😞
These idiots on UA-cam don't know ANYTHING about real domestic abuse. Domestic Abusers threaten to kill you and your loved ones. They go out of their way to terrorize you and instill fear in you. They rape you or hold you captive. They stalk you or refuse to let you leave by force
Poor baby boy. Sending love and prayers to mom and baby girl 😖
It is scary how quickly things like that can happen and no one is the wiser. So glad this woman and her daughter found a way out.
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@@resonatingtruthswhy are you promoting your channel here? shameless
@@Mndsets Because it’s a free space and there are no rules here about where I can or can’t share a video. I appreciate your concern though.
@@resonatingtruths I understand you have to promote but shouldn't you pick better time ? It is better to do it under less serious video
@@ezzow4263 I’m not promoting a video. I’m promoting awareness so that we can learn to avoid situations like the one the woman experienced in this video. The fact that you all are more concerned about the fact that a positive video was shared in the UA-cam comment section just goes to show that we focus our attention on all of the wrong things and this is how so many people put themselves in situations that could be avoided. I know the video that I shared will resonate with someone and they’ll begin to be more aware of their surroundings and they’ll potentially save their life or someone else’s. I appreciate the feedback though.
I can’t imagine the trauma the sister still has trapped in her nervous system. This is so hurtful. I hope the perpetrator receives the harshest sentence possible. Rip little boy.
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@@thithi8793 😐
And the mom will have hard time trusting. So sick of these controlling men.
Amen
@@NARCDELUSION put feminists into power so that males everywhere can be raised into good citizens.
You might be wondering why she couldn't get help sooner, but these type of man can trap and terrify a woman to death. She was probably very scared he'd kill her daughter too. Please don't blame this mother, she sent the note and wanted help. She and her daughter are probably both suffering from terrible PTSD as well as deep sadness abd depression over the tragic death of her son. These situations can be horrifying and terrifying, if you haven't been in it, try not to judge. It's easy to think what you would've done, but hindsight is always 20/20. Prayers for this mother and her daughter 🙏💖🙏💖🙏 They deserve help, love and support.
Thank you for saying that!!! Your right!!! People have no idea how men like that can basically paralyze a woman's survival instincts out of great fear, ive seen it first hand in others relationships growing up, I was once one of those scared little kids. Like you said it's easy for people to say what they would have done if it were them in that situation...this literally breaks my heart for all three victims 💔 😔 God bless them 🙏
The mother made the decision to place her fear of the man before the safety of the children. Enough said
@stopthecrazyguy they are though tbh
@stopthecrazyguy I mean read what you just said
The woman could have left that abuser long before her son died. It pretty much is her fault for not leaving him and allowing the abuse to continue. She wasn’t in her right mind.
Poor baby. What a beautiful child Mason is. His sweet spirit lives on in the heart of his mother and sister. May the LORD bless them.
this made me cry so hard. I cant even imagine the fear both of them had. So happy the teacher took the notes seriously and so proud of the little girl being brave and very proud of the mother trying to come up with a way out despite a lunatic looming over them. Abusive people are SO conning. They dont show up all mean and controlling. For a good bit they seem like prince charming but slowly and gradually they enforce fear in you while hurting you
That kinda species is call either a sociopath or psychopath.
@@notimetodienttd1115How about both!!
yeah right, you would have recorded and posted it if you're bragging about crying so hard haha
Very sad how many don’t believe her story
Disgusting
They only believe when it's too Late...
@@SunshineStateofMind1981 that’s a gross generalization… and how does everything wrong men do always land back on women? Men are grown and capable of making their own decisions that they are 100% responsible for. You don’t know the situation, abusive people are really good at lying to get you to let them in it could happen to anyone, even you.
@@esmeouo9728 No excuse for allowing awful men around your kids.
@@sweetcheeks5775 that’s a fact. This shit happens way too often.
Thank God the mom asked for help and the teachers helped. It takes a Village to raise children. We all need to intervene. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is very tragic.
What village raised you? The oompah loompahs?
Thank God she put her child in a position to be abused. That, Is what your thanking GOD for.
@@samthai818 obviously a far better one than the village of idiots that raised you
It's better to be wary & wrong than be right & do nothing. A lot of people brush off reporting suspected child abuse or abuse of any kind but I encourage all to always report it, even if you only have the slightest knowledge or smallest suspension.
As an abused child myself (sex trafficked from age 6-17) I wished someone would have reported the obvious signs. As an adult now I realize just how many didn't care enough to make a simple phone call. I refuse to be one of those people.
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This is why I didn’t start dating until my daughter was older. Her father passed before she was born, and though I hoped any man I dated would have a good heart (obviously wasn’t on the prowl for a bad boy or bad influence for my kid) but you just NEVER know what someone is capable of until you’ve known them for a long time. My current partner and I are just now really talking about moving in together, and that’s after 5 years and my daughter now being in middle school. Your child is your most important job. It’s terrifying. Hope she and her daughter are able to heal and are able to surround themselves with good men so her daughter doesn’t get roped into the same pattern. Parents, raise your boys to be gentlemen. And raise your daughters to be thoughtful partners, but to stand up for themselves. Rest In Peace sweet boy 🙏🏼
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Parents, raise your daughters to be gentle ladies
Parents set good examples for your children. A home with married parents. Going to Mass. dinner together Just my middle of the night thoughts.
U can still date but keep the motha*cks out of ur house !!
It looks like you are on the right track. But, if you decided to move in together make sure your daughter understands that she can come and tell you if she becomes uncomfortable being alone in the house with him.
This is so hard to hear, the baby girl is so brave I can’t imagine her being so scared and being so brave to go to school witnessing so much , it’s so heartbreaking a baby boy lost his life 💔.
😢.... So proud of the mom and the daughter!!!! I'm glad she didn't give up 💁🏽
It hurts to know the evil we have in this world. People who isolate others as a form of total control over them are some of the worst people around.
@Good Boy He's not god though.
My husband was my high school sweetheart 💕. When he got me away from my family he mentally abused me . I feared for my life daily. Knives helt at my throat while being told how he could kill me. Must stop talking about it, don't want to relive it. Pushed down deep for 52 years to survive.
@@sinoralewis4521 I’m so sorry. I’m a make and I was almost a victim of someone like this. She tried really hard to trap me but thankfully she got pregnant with some other guys baby and she left me alone for life.
Did she have relatives, friends, or neighbors? Idk what to think about this?
Men.
I beg women to stop bringing men into their homes when they have small children. If the guy is good, he'll have a place of his own and he'll understand that you want your children to be protected.
Exactly
I don't know why this made me cry... it's so INSANE how many women and children are killed by these psychopaths. And for what? Because they don't want to be alone? We have an obligation to our babies and if the man you choose to date doesn't understand that then THAT'S YOUR SIGN TO LEAVE!!!!!
He did have his own place. She actually moved into his house. He ended up handcuffing her.
I agree
Alan!
Wow so much anxiety watching this and what a brave little girl.
yes- intersting how most comments are all praising this GARBAGE of a "mother" who wanted to KILL HER SON by CHOOSING of ALL MEN IN EXISTENCE the 1% that is a psychopath. Instead, why not praise the surviving CHILD who did not CHOOSE like a moron nobrain trash? Intersting how that works- society throws CHILDREN away but WORSHIPS the subhuman MOTHERS.
Almost...as if THERE IS A HUGE MASSIVE MYTHOLOGY AND PREJUDICE TOWARDS MOTHERS.
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Felt it too..thinking of all that could have gone wrong but God went with her...Good will always Triumph over evil🙏🙏🙏
You have to be careful who you introduce into your children's lives. Not everyman is a role model for your child.I would rather be without a man and happy than to be with one and be miserable.
She’s the most bravest baby girl I’ve seen!, she did a great job!
How scary. I can’t imagine having someone control me to that extent.
I know this is reaching forward in time but from what I’ve experienced myself, I hope the little girl is never mad at her mom “for letting it happen” I’m a domestic violence survivor and it took 3 years for me to get away, when my daughter became a teenager she hated me for not getting away sooner, she didn’t understand how dangerous it was. She is a bit older now so I think she gets it, but I hope and pray for the mother and daughter they find peace. This breaks by heart so much
People think it's easy to just leave but a lot of times it's safer to stay
The excuses to stay in these types of relationships are running thin. It’s not the early 1900’s when there was no help or access to information around!! We’re seeing these types of stories more frequent than ever! Some females just don’t want to leave!!! There’s shelters, assistants and other people available to help… These tragedies do not have to happen … 😞
@@Truelyblue333 and I'm sure you've heard of the numerous cases of a woman filming for divorce, separating or leaving and the man kills her or the kids or everyone? Not everyone can be hidden away. These men will find you and follow through with their threats
Your daughter is mad because you made a relationship with that man a priority over your children's best interests, you should have never brought a man into your children's home. I understand that like any human you have needs but you should have kept it outside the home or waited till your children were grown.
Your daughter might be more willing to forgive and get over it if you acknowledge that you made a mistake without making excuses about why you couldn't leave, just say that you messed up and you're sorry.
The daughter has every right to be and at her mom for letting this happen. You are willfully ignorant if you think the mom didn’t see red flags. She put a man over her kids, and it costed her son’s life. Stop making excuses for the mom.
This is why my focus is on my son as single mom. He has always been my priority. I was in an abusive relationship and that made me wise up real quick that I will not ever put myself in that situation again. No relationship should become more important that being a mother and protecting your children. Red flags start early in abusive relationships.
Amen
So true about the early red flags; however, sadly many women don't heed them. They let lust and loneliness cloud their better judgement.
YOU THINK RIGHT? common fucking sense jesus fukkin christ use common sense, wtf is wrong with women
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If you've got pain
He's a pain taker
If you feel lost
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If you need freedom or saving
He's a prison shaking savior
If you're got chains
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Don't let your heart be troubled.
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So sad. I pray for this family and the child lost in this tragedy. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Little late for prayer, isn't it? Silly religitards.
@@marcuslinton310 I am sure those are the words you will use when bowed before GOD
@ prayers are a complete waist of time obviously no divine intervention to help the poor child
@@williamelliott Which god? There are so many, you really should be specific.
@@santosbanuelos6661 Right? Their god doesn't even step in to stop thousands of their holiest priest representatives from raping children, they sure don't care about some random civilian doing it.
Never let the boyfriend or girlfriend come live with you if you have kids under 18.
It's not worth it.
Yeah, there are nice people, but that one person, who walks into your life, can take everything away and leave you empty for the rest of your life.
Don't get pregnant with people you just met either. No knocked-up business.
Get a stable career, work on all your own trauma WITHOUT finding a relationship as a crutch. Read those books, go to therapy, watch videos about the issues you are dealing with online, find support groups but know that people prey on the vulnerable and can befriend you from those support groups or mirror the same trauma as you to get into your life. Psychopaths, sociopaths, and people will personality disorders often mimic your life story (ex. childhood abuse, dysfunctional families, bad parents, rape, bullied etc....) to get unwarranted acceptance from you as you feel this sense of familiarity. It's a ruse; it's fraud.
Never divulge your weaknesses to someone you barely know. Unless you have met up at least 100 times (Yes, 100. Isn't your life worth that much vetting?) for a couple hours each time and seen them angry, upset, sad, happy...., met their family and friends often and with much depth of interaction, not just a rush by meeting once to say hi, do not let them know vulnerable things about yourself. Sus out their family and friend too. You don't want evil, volatile people in your circle. Your significant other might be great but has horrible people around him or her. Do not bring them, your significant other and their family or friends, home for dinner unless you have vetted them thoroughly and exhaustively. Remember, 100 in-depth meetings per person first. Do not let them babysit your kids or pets. Do not give them money.
Yeah, it's painfully slow and takes a lot of time, but that is what must be done to safeguard yourself. The population as it explodes so does the population of nutty people. You WILL bump into them. Trust is not a greeting. Trust has to be earned. So don't let anyone tell you that you should be more trusting and "open", especially not if you have young kids. Don't let people tell you how to safeguard yourself. Don't let them tell you that you are paranoid or excessive. Often those who want quick access for nefarious reasons will push for getting close too soon, getting into your house too soon, getting your trust without earning it by making empty promises knowing full well they never intend to keep them.
Someone might look nice, seems sweet, work for a nonprofit, want to "help" you.......but it is on you to play the CEO and detective for your life.
Ted Bundy volunteered at a suicide hotline; animal abusers have been known to be animal rescuers or even those that run the organization; pedophiles have been known to work at amusement parks, schools, and churches. So when you judge a person, you cannot ever use their career or hobbies, you must do the 100 days. Otherwise, keep them as very distant acquaintances. Have few good friends instead of wasting your time making tons of acquaintances. But the reverse is also true. It's better to have more acquaintances than friends, who have access to your life. If you make 2-3 really good friends for the rest of your life, then you are doing it right. Be friends FIRST before getting into a romantic relationship.
How about don't have kids unless you're with someone equally dedicated to spending the rest if their life and buliding a family as you are? Thats the problem. All these single moms creates an environment where creeps can take advantage of them. It happens litteraly all the time.
@@Redwhiteandtired Not the case in this story. From what I remember, she is a widow. The father of her children/husband is dead. This creep was the new man in her life.
Now this is very solid advice.
I wish someone who thinks like you could teach a class to all young people in the USA.
so not having a mom or dad, this is the advice I never got. even though I'm 38 and have been a victim to DV, I thank you because now I see where I went wrong. God bless you
Facts
It took a lot of bravery for the mom and little girl to follow through. Experiencing abuse really messes you up. Shoutout to mom for being innovative ❤️
This is why I’m forever thankful that my mom decided to stay single while raising me, as my dad was already abusive. Now that I’m out of the house she’s dating again and we get to talk about her dates like best friends, I thank her a lot for prioritizing me and fighting for me. Even running away with only diapers and a baby bottle to keep me safe. There’s some incredibly messed up people out there and I’m glad that they found away to escape that environment.
i could never imagine the agony of waiting, not just for your daughter to return safely from school but to hope that the police will be (finally) informed. Man...
Women please just don't bring men into your house due to'needing a man 'a man don't live Off a woman First of All
Toesland isn’t Hispanic so it definitely was a race thing, like always
Men, please just don’t abuse and murder. There, I fixed it for you.
@@Whatshaname 100x better ngl
💯💯
@@oceanwavesandcocaine1129 hispanic is not a race hispanics are literally all races LMAO😂😂😂😂
We're living in times where you could sleep next to a person for 20 yrs but never really know them!!! Super sad!!!
Yes. So true. That's what scares me the most.
sad but True.
It's probably always been like that. Crimes started early on. Cain killed Seth. Not that it's a good thing, but I don't think it's new. 💙 We're all capable of doing horrid things since we're human, so we should stick close to Jesus and let God change our hearts.
Human mind is complicated like their could've been the chance the beginning was good and genuine but slowly staring going south in the recent times
My heart breaks for all of them. The mom, the daughter, & the boy that lost his life 💔 I’m so glad they were able to get the notes out without being caught & police were able to intervene before there were two more deaths. I pray for this mama after everything she endured & losing a child. I pray for the daughter & all the emotional distress & trauma she endured along with losing a brother. I hope they can get some counseling & go on to live happy lives together while this POS rots in a prison cell. That is IF gen pop don’t kill his ass first. RIP sweet boy your mama & sister will see you again some day ♥️
Why are people so wicked and evil and deadly???
As parents we need to educate our sons and daughters that any type of toxic abuse in a relationship is not acceptable in any form. You need to cut off these toxic people and let them go about their way. Because at the end of the day the only thing they're going to do is abuse.
Easy said than done as you can clearly see in this video yes she was being abused and I'm pretty sure she didn't want to stay but she had no choice so duhhh
Amen!!!
Educate yourself and your children on identifying the different types of narcissists especially covert narcissists, that are harder to spot. They are everywhere.
He handcuffed her to things according to another article.
@@dmonroe7368 she decided to involve this man in her life. she is to be held accountable for her actions. stop treating women like they are too stupid to make wise decisions
Very sad story. Very sad how many don’t believe her story.
Because they stupid
Because they’re just as sick as the abuser and they actually have empathy and sympathy for him
@@smikell9997 I agree
@@stefaniedejesus3769 beyond stupid, they are heartless.
I dont believe her
So sad and crazy. That girl was so brave and the mom too. So sorry for your loss
she decided to involve this man in her life. she is to be held accountable for her actions. stop treating women like they are too stupid to make wise decisions
My heart breaks for little Mason and his mother and sister. What a traumatic situation at the hands and whims of a psychopath. I hope and pray they are able to heal and are surrounded by a loving family and community to help them through it. RIP little man, Godspeed 💔
These moms have to stop getting with random men and start putting their children first.
Absolutely horrendous.
Children of single parent families can easily become "at risk" when a new partner arrives, unfortunately.
Especially when they becomes widowed such as in this case
@Delores Cannon Yeah, she was a perfect taget for that monster. Even a divorce father being around probably would have kept him away.
We spend a lot of time discussing victims of domestic abuse, but how much is known about abusers? What makes a person go off the rails like this and think it's okay or enjoyable to control and abuse another person? It's very abnormal. I suppose psychologists are studying this but you don't hear about it.
Most likely they probably was abuse themselves
Esha bee is right. Both of my parents were abused and as a result they abused me. After 19 years of it I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and C-PTSD, which is a version of sociopathy that results from abuse. I found myself becoming like them to other people, and gave my child away because I knew I wouldn't be able to be a good mother. Abuse ruins everyone it touches, and it's sad that it can't be stopped.
There's actually alot of info in this but I don't really think it matters for most of us. Unless you're a mental health professional, you can't help or control it? Of course assuming YOU aren't an abuser yourself, creating a monster who will inflict pain on others. The focus is on victims in part bc we sympathize with them ... It's a dangerous road IMO to try and identify with an abuser which could lead to making excuses for that behavior (oh it's bc his childhood was bad, oh he has a disorder and needs medication, oh theres an addiction issue it's not his fault). If someone offed your child I'm sure you wouldn't care about their back story or brain chemistry. At the end of the day, there's certain rules in society that no one should be able to violate, no matter what. When and if they do, consequences should be severe.
Testosterone
@@chicnoir29 grow up.
That was smart and brave of the mom. Thank God that the teacher took action.
Cowardly monsters who abuse children deserve the worse punishment the courts can pass down.
Brava to the mom and little daughter for risking their lives to find justice and safety.
No words can convey the pain
and suffering that child must have gone through in his short little life
Very very sad .
My God Rest His Beautiful Little Soul
This crap is so heartbreaking.😥😥😥😥😥 That guy should be locked away for eternity.😤
The mom too, know matter how you cut and slice it mom open the door to that animal
@@delorescannon455 your comment makes u a scumbag
My thing is how can this dude keep you kidnapped for so long she should’ve been said something about his behavior rip
Lock him under the jail faculty! Done!
I have one word for you women out there “Background Check”. Also, try and get as much information about a man’s last relation before you get involved with him. There are a lot of criminally insane people out in the world so watch your back because sometimes they are very hard to spot.
Totally agree! I tell my boys the same thing
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AMEN!
I wish the last woman that dated my Psycho ex had given me the heads up
True statement!!!
We as women have to do better
I’m just glad me and my children got away alive 🤦🏾♀️🥴🧘🏽♀️
@@lauralusk6292 She probably didn’t because she was glad to dump the psycho on someone else.
Don't hook up with strangers, no matter how well you think you know them. Especially if you have children.
May the little boy rest in peace and justice be served!🙏🥀
Something off about the mother too. Pretty quick to jump at a civil suit in the middle of the criminal case.
Wth is wrong with these people?
Listening to this gave me chills, just the fear for the abusive guy to find the note. I am just glad the mom was able to get help I was hoping for a positive ending for Mason (rip). So sad.
For every Victim we hear about there are plenty more living this life and suffering alone without any help. Unless you have lived it you can't comprehend how much strength it took her to write those notes. We NEED some sort of tracking system for abusive people. We do it for s. offenders so why not abusers? It could save so many lives because the Abusers often move on to find another Victim who doesn't know their history.
Why are these single mothers putting their children at risk having boyfriends?
Hiding notes in her child’s socks .anyine going through this abuse get away and do it safely get help from woman refuge anything just get you and you kids out ASAP it’s absolute shocking and horrible
I physically got anxious when they talked about her scribbling notes for a few seconds a day for weeks, then quietly coaching a kid that young, and finally waiting on cops. God that’s rough. Where was the boy? How long before the note got to school did he die? Jeez.
I was in a couple extremely abusive relationships, which always gets me weird looks, but surprise surprise men can be abused. I cannot emphasise enough how huge of a red flag it is when someone starts isolating you. See your mom less? Stop going out on weekends? Quit that job, find something closer to home? Don’t use X social media, you’ve already got Y and Z? RUN RUN RUN DON’T LOOK BACK. Don’t wait until they’re holding a literal gun to your head asking why you spent 22 minutes instead of 20 at the neighbors’ place.
There is a male in our family who is under all the red flags you list and more. We are so gutted over his well-being and that of the children. No one dares put a foot wrong for fear of the punishment that will come. The wrath of the wife cannot be underestimated.
I am so incredibly sorry that you had to go through that. It's so heartbreaking to hear of anyone having to deal with it. I endured 15 years of it by my ex husband and haven't been in a relationship since because of the trauma it creates. I hope all the best for you❤
Mason passed away in December. She wrote the note in February
Thank you for the examples you shared. Helps give us more than just a general idea of what abuse looks like.
There is a lot of evil people out there.
There are a lot of ignorant stoopid mothers who can't keep their legs closed single moms like her make me sick
@@SamaelMoneyStein their are a lot of stupid fathers out there who can't man up and take care of their children! It takes a real man to be a good father! Any man can make a baby, but a father will take responsibility!
That's why you have to get to know someone before you have kids with them.
@@SamaelMoneyStein comments like yours are sick
@@SamaelMoneyStein she’s a widow and probably wanted her kids to have a father to look up to... there’s nothing wrong with single mothers or fathers wanting someone to fill a position that’s open.. sadly single parents are often the one who get taken advantage of.. clearly you know jack shit about how things like this can happen and not everyone chooses to be a single parent sometimes people die... “there’s a lot of ignorant stupid mother fuckers who don’t keep their mouths shut and people like you make me sick”
Sorry but she let this happen. She should have severed the relationship at the first signs. You may not want to hear it single moms but you need to put your needs on hold and never bring a new dude into the house if you have young kids.
Why can’t she call 911 herself? It doesn’t make any sense. If she can find time to write a note, she can make a call.
He probably confiscated her phone. It still surprises me how ignorant many people are about how this kind of abuse works. She was so terrified of him especially after he killed her son, and he had her so isolated from anybody who could help her, she was reduced to scribbling notes begging for help any chance she got.
I wish there were a way to fix the sick minds of criminals instead of just dumping him in prison. Treat the problem before it's too late! Sociopaths and narcissists are created.
Stop moving strange men in over your children ladies. Family check on your family, you see behaviors change, check on them. Damn shame this baby lost his life, I couldn't imagine being do struck with fear I'd allow anyone to harm my kids.
Poor little boy, I'm helping raise my grandson who just turned 9, my love for this boy is so intense I just can't comprehend this.....
Sorry life failed you little guy, but at least you are at peace! May the POS that did this live in eternal misery..
This mother and daughter was so brave. Thank you God for Grace and mercy! Thank you for safety, peace and comfort
Yes, isn't God wonderful? God is good! Praise the Lord!
People like you are disgusting.
@@yeslek It was probably Vishnu.🤣 I got two likes because they didn't realize that I was being sarcastic. Just say how great "god" is and the people will give you likes.🤣
I had lived the same horror as this family since I was born. I dont even know what it feels like to be free until my abussive father passed away. Everyday is the same fear, fear of making mistakes, fear of being abused, fear of death.
My father would blame us for the smallest mistakes even when that is not our doing. One day one of his pet bird escape because he forget to lock the cage. He became very angry and began abusing us. He even brought out a knive and treaten to kill both of us. At that time I am only 13 and my sister is 11.
Me too. Step father. It was a daily horror show. Knives, guns, threats, anger. It was living hell.
Wow 😢. I hope your life is better now and I pray 🙏 you found Jesus
What the fuck!?!?!? She chose to say "digging" when referring to an infants death case. What an insult.
This is what happens when parents put themselves before their kids safety. He shouldn't have even met those kids much less lived with them.
Say it LOUDER! She got with him literally days after her husband died. The father of her kids died and then she started sleeping with his acquaintance. This could have been avoided had she put her children first instead of being a desperate woman needing sex and a man.
The husband died last year so within months of meeting a man her son was murdered KMT I’m so angry the kids was let down
@@enishalihoward8119 yes shes crazy she needs to be arrested too how is she gona say she wasnt allowed in a certain part of her house with her kids how can a man keep you away from your kids unless you allow it
@@enishalihoward8119 Some women rather a mother or not don't know how to not have a man in their beds, sometimes inviting the devil himself, these women got to learn to be alone without feeling lonely
I love how people keep blaming her when in reality the guy shouldn’t be an abuser or murder... like there’s many cases where people get into relationships with someone just for one of them to decide years later to kill them without an indication prior to the murder... instead of blaming the victim because she is one and is most likely feeling total guilt already for everything.. fucking teach people not to abuse and murder women and children
So this went on for months and her remedy is sticky notes in her daughter's stocking? Was she chained up inside the house or what? Doesn't sound right.
Rest in Heavenly Peace sweet little Mason 💔😢🕯🕊
Yes, isn't God wonderful? Praise the Lord!
Mothers have a responsibility not to have shady characters around their children. Poor Mason who has lost his life because Mom allowed a monster to be around him.
That poor beautiful little boy so, so horrific. I cannot even imagine the emotional, physical and mental trauma both sister and mom are suffering from this beyond heartbroken especially for those innocent babies.
I would would need bail over my child. As a mother, your children come first. Their peotection. Stability and security. He should have ate thermometer to check his temper.
Why is a civil suit required? Killing is a capital offense.
The death penalty isn't guaranteed and it makes her entitled to anything of value belonging to him dead or alive even through his (choke) appeals
I know this family personally so just to see your whole entire UA-cam video based on this whole case is so surreal to me and I just realize that life is very real and very grateful for everything that you have and everyone in your life because it’s situations like this that you would never think that could happen to anybody that you know like I literally know the woman in this video video.
She was the receptionist for the pool that I lifeguard it out when I was younger. Literally the most sweetest most quite as most humblest person that I ever met and no in my life so all they can do is pray and hope nothing but the best for this family because I know that whole family is some of the strongest people that I have ever met.
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You seriously need to look at more details of the case. She’s not as innocent as you say.
@@user-lr9cw9bb3k I don’t know too much of what happened but what I do know is that the victim of it is someone that I worked with and knew at the time so I don’t know whatever else is going on or what have happened from the seven years in between for when I last worked together but what I do know is that she was a great sweet kind loving woman so that is what I will go off of.
I know the family too :( it is heartbreaking
@@user-lr9cw9bb3k where can I find more details
Don’t judge this lady and don’t ask why she didn’t leave, until you have worn her 👠 or been a victim of domestic violence this is tough territory, been a victim of DV before and it’s too scary
And nobody questions the woman's bad judgement. How long did she know the bf? Did she run a background check before letting him have access to her children? Where is the father?
So sad 💔 you never know what goes on behind closed doors. You gotta be careful who you date and bring around your children. There are usually red flags. 🚩
So sad. Thank God the teacher took the notes seriously
@@launchpadw9379 And so they should…
I feel so bad for the mom and daughter…. I can’t imagine the fear on a daily basis… it’s horrible… this man is pure evil.
Guess I don't know the details but why is it a "wrongful death"? The word "wrongful" is a adjective, not a verb. It's like he's charged with the outcome, not with causing it.
I found that odd also.
Oh, just found out that he has been charged with murder by the police. Wrongful death is related to the civil suit by the mother.
Kind of wondering if the mother has any guilt for not killing him in his sleep before he killed her son. I would've put him out of his misery before he ever laid a hand on my children.
I hope dude gets all tha pain returned back onto himself that he inflicted onto the mom & kids!
I’m so confused with what was going on. When did she realized that her son wasn’t home? This is so sad.
She wasn't able to leave a room
He probably bragged about it to her or was holding her sons life over her head until he actually did it. Then he was holding her daughters life over her head.
@@chocolatecharley99 This person needs the fullest extent of the law- this is one extremely sick SOB.
"oh my kid was murdered by someone, I know what we should do sue for money..."
What grief and trauma stricken person thinks like that?
How do you get sticky notes from the car if you're being held captive? If you have alone time in a car, why do you need sticky notes as opposed to simply driving away?
How do you get yourself into a captive situation over a period of months? You're either captive or you're not.
This seems suspicious to me.
When imposing a civil suit such as this one a lot of times the end result wanted is evidence and not money. Let’s say she loses this lawsuit, any evidence discovered during this case MAY be used in a criminal case/investigation.
@@KPbouj Depending on the type of evidence, it being recorded in a civil trial often means it won't be admissible in a criminal trial.
Furthermore, he's already been criminally charged. The civil suit will occur after his criminal trial.
The mother has outright said her motivation is so that he has to pay monetarily.
It is suspicious, at least to me
Sounds weird to me too but I’m hell on wheels let someone kill my kid… we all just going to have to go down fighting
@Dorkaholic Oh my god we know he died! The report is not going to use every quote in 2 minutes. Abusers murder. Scroll through the news. A ton of murders. Why are you shocked? Oh my god a controlling and possessive man murdered a family member! What a shock!🙄
@Dorkaholic You want the comment section to be filled with empty ""prayers and looove🙏🙏🙏"" comments? Those are useless and attention seeking.
Ladies stop having these men around your kids these men these days are MONSTERS!!!!!!
When I was 15 a boyfriend punched me in my arm so I punched him in his face and dared him to fight me. Instead, he apologized profusely and begged me to forgive him. I did not. I later heard that in his adult life he’s had a history of domestic abuse. My hope is that these women can find the strength in them to fight back sooner rather than later. Most bullies do not like to be challenged and will move on to someone who is easier to manipulate.
I'm still confused about this horrible story. The lawsuit says months before her son was killed by her boyfriend she feared for her and her daughter's lives and that he separated her and her daughter. So was she locked up in the home and held against her will? Why did she only fear for her life and her daughter's? Why is there no mention of fearing for her son's life months before he was killed? The fact that her lawsuit mentions her boyfriend misrepresented himself as someone who would take care of her son is ridiculous, it was her responsibility to protect her babies regardless of what some man tells her. I'm sorry but something is missing in this story.
I was looking for this comment! I'm very confused as well. This story is so freaking heartbreaking. I'm just confused of the timeline of events...
@@kataylove I just don't understand where she thought her son was if she only feared for her and her daughter's lives. Somehow I feel that she must have known what her boyfriend did to her little boy. I have a grandson that is 4 years old and it's just heart breaking to hear that someone could hurt a small innocent child.
@@sandiraygoza1514 I looked up the story and she did suspect that he killed her son but she couldn't do anything because he basically locked her up in the room and took her phone. He even handcuffed her to the car door when she was in the car with him. It's messed up. She tried multiple times to figure out way to get notes out and was finally able to when he let her sleep with her daughter one random night.
I think she was saying once Mason was killed she feared for her and her daughter at that point. I still personally don't understand being able to stand by and watch your son being beaten, hear the screams and live in the house with his body. I think I would have done the unthinkable to stop him. But, I don't know her situation, it's so sad what happened to that little boy.
I’m very confused as well.
Another case of a woman inviting evil into her children's lives. Ladies, just raise your kids and don't get involved with a man until your kids are grown. It's just sickening how these stories are repeated over and over again.
Outside men almost always hating on another man's son, which is why men should raise their own and not abandon their parental responsibilities.
Such a sad , desperate but brave act for the mother. I thank her.
Saddened at little Mason's end.
So tired of hearing about these boyfriends the mom bring into their lives and end up killing their children.
Father's you matter. Step the Phuck up and get your ass involved in your kids life. Be present. Show these outside men that your child/children are loved by both parents. Not just one. Be present!!! This wouldn't happen so much if the father's were involved and taking care of their own babies!!!
She is a widow.
Now repeat what you just said
@@BlackStar-hy1iy I was widowed in 2009. Men killing other men's children out of hate snd jealousy still exists. In. Cases where the father has passed away, he obviously can't step up but MORE TIMES THAN NONE women and their kids are at risk for the mother's bringing other men into the home exposing their children and themselves to danger. In which case , unfortunately it falls on the mom.
@@BlackStar-hy1iy Please. She cheated on her husband with this man. This man had kids with her husband he’s now deceased sister. When her husband died she refused an autopsy and moved in with Brandon two months later. She cut off all of her husbands family and didn’t allow them to even see the kids. She’s not innocent one bit. (This is a cut and paste from another person on this forum, and I thought you might want to know).
She knew him for a while. It's easy to pretend for a couple months to years. Most people can't guess who an abuser is. They're the most Christian and goody two shoes of the bunch usually. Also idk why you people act like biological fathers can't be abusive.
@@heartstrings7814 There are so many biological fathers that are abusive its insane. You have no idea what you're talking about
Being single is a wonderful thing. If you have children, put them first. You never know what evils you could be inviting into your home; the very place a child should feel most safe.
Do not get a boyfriend if you have kids.
Especially not an unbalanced disturbed one.
Better off alone than with someone who will eventually kill you and your kids
I have no faith in the human race
I worked for social services and I have nightmares every night because of what I saw every day
So sad, rest in peace little one.
What a horrific story. I weep for the son, but am also so thankful the mother and daughter are safe now. May that monster rot in jail.
Jail is too good for that demon
This story is so heart broken, she should have seen the signs from the beginning. Unfortunately, help came a bit too late for her son and that is the tragedy in this whole situation. My heart goes out to her and her family.
Oh that poor woman! I can’t even imagine!
I hope this guy gets a long time in prison..
.give him some of his own medicine!
That man is pure evil.
There are many many more I'm afraid to say !
Hold on she is suing the boyfriend that murdered her son. That's different to me.
Yeah like WTF clearly that's not sufficient at all, surely more info is coming...
There are always signs. These women choose to ignore the signs for their own selfish reasons, not giving a crap about their children, but only what benefits them personally.
Where are the children's father?
Once again so-called moms putting their boyfriends first!
Exactly.
once again so called males blaming women for male actions.
As if she was suppose to know he would be like this. Funny how when it is step mom or father girlfriend doing this, yall do not blame the dad
@@ezzow4263 nah. As a mom, my kids come first. Anybody requiring me to be separated from my child is an enemy.
@@MsBizzyGurl you do realize that a big man can easily forcibly separate you from your kids right ???
it is easy to act strong and brave but in real life if you are chained up with G8n, there is nothing you can do.
@@ezzow4263 sure, anyone can forcibly separate a woman from her child(ren), but modern society is going to dictate that she's freed at some point. Neighbors have phones and if the local authorities won't intervene, it's up to her as a protector of her child(ren) to find a shelter until she can gain safety.
Google this " Man kills GF's child" . Be horrified at it all. The poor children.
I couldn’t. It’s literally everyday there’s a new case of step mom or step dad killing the child. When are these grown ass women/men going to learn!
He’s a real gem, I’m sure his parents are very proud of their son.
Shhhhh don't give up the hiding spots. These victims need to be able to maintain forms of communication. It was obviously hard if it's in a sock.
Very sad to hurt that 4 year old. How will mom recover from that.