I am 42 and I have truly given up. I don't know any happy couple. I thought I knew one, but they are breaking up. I never even see anyone I like anymore, all men seem to be too young, too old, too fat, too effeminate, too this, too that. It's like a soap bubble popped and there is just nothing.
I'm 38 but every word you said resonates with me. My ex of 3 years (5 years younger, extremely financially successful, looked like a runway model, but treated me very poorly and then left our shared home in a horrible way). Seeing my dating apps tell me that I need to widen my already very minimal dealbreakers because I've run out of men who fit my criteria in a 50mi radius - yes I X'd out lots of men, but it was because I could imagine myself in a physical situation with them. Even the matches I do have aren't anyone I would usually find attractive, but they fall just over that threshold where personality could make up for the rest of the attraction. However even getting them to do a simple facetime to assess whether it makes sense to meet is resulting in so many stalled out conversations. This gave me the push I needed to do more hobbies and go out to more events and mingle in the world. Chance encounters, people we regularly see at some place or event , and introductions from others are how people met for decades until apps took over in 2012. It feels terrifying to throw yourself into the unknown, but pursuing what you love puts you in the path of likeminded people, and if you're out and looking good but more importantly feeling good, there are plenty of single men around you who may make a move.
I really love how at 51 you seem very energetic and optimistic. Not jaded about love and relationships. Sometimes it can seem like the longer you're single, you kind of resign yourself to that's how it will always be. But that isn't true. I LOVE LOVE LOVE when you said we deserve and are worthy of having our dream. Especially when we are working on and loving ourselves. I'm seeing this a year after you posted but I'm so grateful to see this vid today. I really needed it. Thank you.
I like the advices but, I very disapointed of the selling of the product. "In my website everybody is working on it, nobody will cheat on you" seriously, nobody can can promise that. It is, to say the minimum, arrogant and irresponsible to say such things
Totally agree with the 40+, it's like a switch is flicked and you know more about yourself let alone a lot of other thing. I'm 49 so like you I think, after being 40 for 9 years what I'm fter. Thanks for this and Lots of Love and Light from Me Down Under here in Australia ❤🙌
Ghosting. Yeah had that happen to me recently. I’m not really that disappointed that it didn’t work with her because we were so different, but I felt like crap that she didn’t find me worth even talking it over.
I never liked young fruits, they taste sour and are too hard. Thats why me as a 28 year old subhuman love mature women. 40plus is the way to go. But now where Im nearly 30 I like the woman to be at least 45-48.
I'm in my early 50s. single for 2 decades. do i believe i can meet a good husband/partner at this age? no. the good ones are taken and what is left is not something you one. even if you find one, they have financial luggage, emotional luggage and kids.
Yes I believe in love 😍, it is the best thing especially when you find the one who fits your life perfectly, regardless of their flaws. I am open to interracial dating and marriage, 44 yrs black queen 👑, mum of 3 grown-up kids, ready to love and be loved 🥰. Sending big hugs 🤗 to all.
10:53 _"... ask and it's given. done. ..."_ You are cute ... :) But I think, it is much like: try and prepare for failure. (And it's even worse if you do not try ... we are human, we always crave for the love we cannot have.) Believe me, I tried.
0:00 _"... do you believe in love ..."_ You don't have to believe in love, at all. Even if you got it, in most of the cases you will get only pain from it. Love is just the biggest scam of life ... Just one another thing why life should get that big kick into its @ss.
38 and I’m not independent depending on family becuase of my disability. My last relationship was when I was 15. Which doesn’t count . It only last a week. My family knows about me and they care . If I find someone that would care just like my family then. I’ve had friends that would pick me up from home but got tired . I’ve had zero best friends . I have friends just Becuase it’s within my brothers and sisters . And friends from school . But no best friends that will turn into a relationship Becuase of my disability. Majority I stay home with my mom. And you say nothing is wrong with me. Smh 🤦
Ha ha yeah, makes it more complicated dating women who aren’t as mature in life’s journey. I have a personal saying that younger women will hurt you and not even feel bad about it.
John 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Mark 1:15 - “The time is fulfilled,” He said, “and the kingdom of God is near. Repent and believe in the gospel!”
lol what a joke. successful men want women who are pleasant, friendly, cooperative, submissive, fit and feminine. if you're not these things there are 50 other women to do it. BYE boss ladies who think men care about your career success, we don't.
You forgot to to add "young", because a man who's successful is at his prime shouldn't be shy on dismissing the old women just for their age. Because a women at her 20's will absolutely dismiss a guy who's shorter, weeker, broke, without mercy. Yeah I said it, come at me
@@agilenjeyamraj1739 I agree, young women will often dismiss short guys generally as they should. It drives the short man to work harder to be successful to attract women with his success. A successful man looking for a family doesn't want an older woman. Why would he? A man's job is to be successful and a provider, kind, intelligence, and sincere, and hopefully faithful and dedicated to his wife and children and their success and happiness.
Ya but there are men like that though that care about that stuff too 😮I think it’s like a combination be older woman smart and still submissive. But I get what you are saying . But just because girl didn’t marry doesn’t mean she never had bf before . I used to think that and I feel so stupid now
I am 42 and I have truly given up. I don't know any happy couple. I thought I knew one, but they are breaking up. I never even see anyone I like anymore, all men seem to be too young, too old, too fat, too effeminate, too this, too that. It's like a soap bubble popped and there is just nothing.
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
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ViawhatsApp..
or too married!
@@muppetlove77 true..or very broke and sick wants a nurse
Just stay single.
Yes I recently realized relationships are for community and humanity .. it’s so true
I'm 38 but every word you said resonates with me. My ex of 3 years (5 years younger, extremely financially successful, looked like a runway model, but treated me very poorly and then left our shared home in a horrible way). Seeing my dating apps tell me that I need to widen my already very minimal dealbreakers because I've run out of men who fit my criteria in a 50mi radius - yes I X'd out lots of men, but it was because I could imagine myself in a physical situation with them. Even the matches I do have aren't anyone I would usually find attractive, but they fall just over that threshold where personality could make up for the rest of the attraction. However even getting them to do a simple facetime to assess whether it makes sense to meet is resulting in so many stalled out conversations. This gave me the push I needed to do more hobbies and go out to more events and mingle in the world. Chance encounters, people we regularly see at some place or event , and introductions from others are how people met for decades until apps took over in 2012. It feels terrifying to throw yourself into the unknown, but pursuing what you love puts you in the path of likeminded people, and if you're out and looking good but more importantly feeling good, there are plenty of single men around you who may make a move.
I like you
Listening to a single woman on dating that's selling a product. Lol
Will you marry me
This is the best advice on the subject I’ve ever seen.
I 100% agree it’s nice knowing what I want, and what I don’t want.
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
..
ViawhatsApp.
I really love how at 51 you seem very energetic and optimistic. Not jaded about love and relationships. Sometimes it can seem like the longer you're single, you kind of resign yourself to that's how it will always be. But that isn't true. I LOVE LOVE LOVE when you said we deserve and are worthy of having our dream. Especially when we are working on and loving ourselves. I'm seeing this a year after you posted but I'm so grateful to see this vid today. I really needed it. Thank you.
Thanks 😊 I was being delusional before but this gives me a good way to be happy happy 😃 I feel good other people out there that feel this way also
Thank you for your intelligence and your charm .I wish you the best .
I like the advices but, I very disapointed of the selling of the product.
"In my website everybody is working on it, nobody will cheat on you" seriously, nobody can can promise that. It is, to say the minimum, arrogant and irresponsible to say such things
Totally agree with the 40+, it's like a switch is flicked and you know more about yourself let alone a lot of other thing. I'm 49 so like you I think, after being 40 for 9 years what I'm fter. Thanks for this and Lots of Love and Light from Me Down Under here in Australia ❤🙌
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
..
ViawhatsApp..
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Is the app free? Do you have to be a member of your program?
Already awesome life. Life is great. It is also difficult and finding someone who is willing to suffer well together…
Ghosting. Yeah had that happen to me recently. I’m not really that disappointed that it didn’t work with her because we were so different, but I felt like crap that she didn’t find me worth even talking it over.
I never liked young fruits, they taste sour and are too hard. Thats why me as a 28 year old subhuman love mature women. 40plus is the way to go. But now where Im nearly 30 I like the woman to be at least 45-48.
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
..
ViawhatsApp..
I think the app is gone? Can't find it anywhere.
I'm in my early 50s. single for 2 decades.
do i believe i can meet a good husband/partner at this age? no. the good ones are taken and what is left is not something you one. even if you find one, they have financial luggage, emotional luggage and kids.
Does this app still exist? I can’t see it on the Apple Store… thanks
I was looking for it too, I think it doesn exist anymore
Yes I believe in love 😍, it is the best thing especially when you find the one who fits your life perfectly, regardless of their flaws. I am open to interracial dating and marriage, 44 yrs black queen 👑, mum of 3 grown-up kids, ready to love and be loved 🥰. Sending big hugs 🤗 to all.
10:53
_"... ask and it's given. done. ..."_
You are cute ... :)
But I think, it is much like:
try and prepare for failure.
(And it's even worse if you
do not try ... we are human,
we always crave for the love
we cannot have.)
Believe me, I tried.
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
..
ViawhatsApp..
I’m 45, where did all of these years go? I guess I was too busy living by myself.
It’s never too late to try again regardless of how you fell
0:00
_"... do you believe in love ..."_
You don't have to believe in love, at all.
Even if you got it, in most of the cases
you will get only pain from it.
Love is just the biggest scam of life ...
Just one another thing why life should
get that big kick into its @ss.
You look gorgeous, make a beauty video. You look like your 42!
38 and I’m not independent depending on family becuase of my disability. My last relationship was when I was 15. Which doesn’t count . It only last a week. My family knows about me and they care . If I find someone that would care just like my family then. I’ve had friends that would pick me up from home but got tired . I’ve had zero best friends . I have friends just Becuase it’s within my brothers and sisters . And friends from school . But no best friends that will turn into a relationship Becuase of my disability. Majority I stay home with my mom. And you say nothing is wrong with me. Smh 🤦
Nothing wrong with being alone. Make the best of what you have. There is no peace and quite with a relationship.
❤
U just don't give a care anymore. Problem is solved!!
Ha ha yeah, makes it more complicated dating women who aren’t as mature in life’s journey. I have a personal saying that younger women will hurt you and not even feel bad about it.
John 3:3
Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
Mark 1:15 - “The time is fulfilled,” He said, “and the kingdom of God is near. Repent and believe in the gospel!”
lol what a joke.
successful men want women who are pleasant, friendly, cooperative, submissive, fit and feminine. if you're not these things there are 50 other women to do it. BYE boss ladies who think men care about your career success, we don't.
😂
You forgot to to add "young", because a man who's successful is at his prime shouldn't be shy on dismissing the old women just for their age.
Because a women at her 20's will absolutely dismiss a guy who's shorter, weeker, broke, without mercy.
Yeah I said it, come at me
@@agilenjeyamraj1739 I agree, young women will often dismiss short guys generally as they should. It drives the short man to work harder to be successful to attract women with his success.
A successful man looking for a family doesn't want an older woman. Why would he?
A man's job is to be successful and a provider, kind, intelligence, and sincere, and hopefully faithful and dedicated to his wife and children and their success and happiness.
@@u235u235u235 👌
Ya but there are men like that though that care about that stuff too 😮I think it’s like a combination be older woman smart and still submissive. But I get what you are saying . But just because girl didn’t marry doesn’t mean she never had bf before . I used to think that and I feel so stupid now
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