Do they regret?! Who cares?! My life goes on. I do not waste my time. If they are unavailable, they have to work on themselves. It's not my problem at all.
They are still hoping to have me in their lives. I said: "No. I'm not the same person and my feelings for you have changed. You've had your chance and you did not appreciate me, so I left you. That's all."
They only miss when they realize that you gave more than other people after you. They miss what they got from you, but not you as a person, who you were - only the way you made them feel so special. And also the nostalgia hits, they only want you again because now they know you are gone and they cannot have you. As soon as you give them another chance, the same behavioural patterns play out. You ladies deserve so much more and the man who will truly want you, will do anything to be with you. Very simple.
i literally JUST cut off a year solid of a FWB, we hung out, watch movies, hed make me steak and we would have drinks....we would hang out with his friends at the beach, like a group of buddies. we got real close..... i fell in love, i wanted MORE...he flat out said his heart is dust from bla bla bla bla. basically emotionally unavailable. i wanted him so bad:( i just stopped it all. i couldnt keep sleeping with him without a commitment, after a while you feel UNWORTHY AND CHEAP, im worth more, i deserve love, he even told me "you deserve someone who is more emotionally available, a shoulder you can cry on someone whos able to give you what you need, i cant be him, my scars are too deep, im not ready and probable never will be, i can see myself single rest of my life" i walked away...and it hurts.
Yeah, that’s why I never date guys fresh out of a breakup, or if I have a gut feeling they’re still in love with someone else. You end up being someone who serves the purpose of being an emotional crutch to restore their strength, and they won’t see you as someone they can be crazy about. Often the next one is.
@@ladyowl9187 ugh he still texts me every 3-4 hours , he hasnt missed a day in a year, not one, gmorning gmight, sending memes leaving voice texts even today " gmorning, happy Fri, hope its a good day, good vibes your way" this sucks, how stupid are u to not see you like me more than you care to admit to yourself, LMAO, i still feel hes just terrified.
One-thousand percent! According to so many men I've asked this same question to, yes. Of course this only applies when there weren't any other major challenges or arguments between you both. If the only thing was not being ready for a serious relationship, they kick themselves down the road and realize they should have committed to her or married her... usually after she commits to and marries someone else. She could be the perfect woman and make the perfect wife/mother of his children, but he would still leave or walk away if he isn't ready to settle down or get more serious. Even if he's a really good hearted, genuine guy. There really is the right person at the wrong time, according to men. Super frustrating!
@@Goodwillwinoverevil1984why is it funny? I think k it’s definitely brave of him and I hope he gets to a stage where he is released from his burdens eventually.
Where did your emotions go? 🤣🤣 such a stupid word emotionally unavailable. Essentially means emotionally immature with dreadful communication skills. Also analysis paralysis. Bad thought processing.
Elliot, you're so damn right! That's what I did. You're not ready for me, so you're free to go. I'm a free woman, too. Thank you for your good advices! I do agree with them.
I hope my ex doesn’t miss me/regret leaving. He was a good man, but he was so hurt by his ex-fiancé leaving him that he said he didn’t think he could ever love again (which I don’t believe will be the case… he’ll meet someone that will give him that security). I hope he finds a loving, happy, fun relationship like I have since him!
Wait, I don't get it. Why did you guys break up then if he was that good? I'm glad you don't have hard feelings but that's weird.. you basically wasted your time with him if you knew he wasn't the right person all along. Hope it wasn't that long that you guys went out.
I understand the principle, but I think it’s misleading to say that most men will regret letting a woman go. Most of the time, whether it’s men or women, we don’t regret letting someone go. I can’t think of a single person I regret letting go. There is one I miss terribly, but I know better than to try again. It’s only that “one who got away”, and they’re in the minority. Anyone can have a bit of doubt as to whether they made the right decision, but we all know if someone may be “the one” or not. Coming back in order to keep you on the hook isn’t regret; merely about their ego. Sometimes people get labelled “emotionally unavailable”, and it’s more the fact that they just weren’t interested ENOUGH to commit. I think it’s best to assume that if he’d really wanted to seal the deal, he would’ve done so, and the right guy would never risk letting you get away. Holding out hope that the last guy will somehow fall madly in love just keeps US emotionally unavailable for a better guy.
You're absolutely right! Everything you said, I couldn't have worded it any better. If a man sleeps with you but won't make it official and is talking to other girls and also could be trying to get back with an ex then yeah he doesn't want you, he's just keeping you around for when he's lonely or wants 😺. We all usually have just that 1 person that got away. But that's it. He doesn't regret losing you, he's just butthurt bc all his options ran out and now he has nobody to help him pass time anymore.
Relationships are super risky. I wish they were easier and the men I'd met in the past were not divorcees with drug and anger issues, or mama's/papa's boys! Homelessness, etc!
I like you, I enjoy spending time with you and I care about you… whilst ignoring me, not wanting to spend time with me and breadcrumbing. Told him thanks but no thanks, worth more than that. He agreed, repeated the I care about you, I like you crap, gave me a load of compliments then ghosted me after I pointed out if that’s what he thought then he wouldn’t be behaving in the opposite manner. 🤷♀️ Absolute mind job.
He wasn’t available and then now he is in a relationship so it’s not that he wasn’t emotionally available he just didn’t want it with me. It stings but time to move on.
I believe they do. If you treated him with respect, was kind, and tried to make it work, he will absolutely regret it. A lot of times men like this can be prideful and full of ego, not all but many. My "ex" was like this, I never slept with him (waiting until marriage) which is one of the main reasons he ghosted me because he "thought" he could do better. Long story short my suspicions were true he was with someone else. He tried to build with her and she ended up cheating on him four months in, gave him possible STD, and could possibly be having a child by another man but saying its his. Now he's calling me from different/unknown numbers, making fake text scenarios, etc. Doing all this but when he had me all he did was make excuses to not even be around me, literally didn't even try.Though I wished him well in life all he had was dust and became a ghost. I'm a firm believer in respecting the dead. Well he lost out big time and he'll never have access to me again simply because he doesn't deserve me and I don't feel the same. You snooze you lose.
Though your answer was 4 months ago, I loved how life turned itself on him & you had the insights to steer clear. I'd be playing songs like 'Who's Sorry Now' over & over & grin broadly.
That a good question, my ex made no effort to reconnect or talk again. So, it’s his loss I been stop chasing him. I’m on dating sites, trying to meet other guys. I got a whole glow up, new doors opening for me.
So right. If he's stable then the knows what he wants. When you are starting a relationship then you are consistent. If he wants to come and go as he pleases show him the door and don't open it again. Great Video Elliott, you are definitely right. Hope woman listen to this.
Three and a half months of bliss until one day he pulled a complete 180 on me and said he wasn't ready to fully commit. I genuinely don't feel like he was manipulating or playing games with me but I'm still so confused as to how someone can change so fast. This video gave me a bit of clarity. Thanks Elliot.
Men who were stringing a woman along for sex will regret losing access to sex. You don't understand what women mean when they say will he regret it. They mean will he regret overlooking the wonderful person that I am and potential to be his life partner. Not did he miss joking around and getting sex on tap. The answer is most men don't because most men don't care about or value the things women do.
Wow cruel. Then what's the point of even being with them like that if they don't want or appreciate what you did for them?! Let them just be with THEIR video games, or cats, or whatever! Leave the good hearted ones alone and let them be with other good hearted, genuine people!
I like this guy and it is a lot like this. It’s no guarantee you’ll end up with them. But you have to be prepared to walk if need be. You have to be able to follow through with that. If they know you will always come back they won’t be afraid of losing you
It's plain stupidity if they don’t know how lucky they are. My last relationship, I had every quality most men would absolutely love. Charm, humor, beauty, kindness, vice versa. Tis sad he let me go. If he does regret I won't know until I see him again.
Thank you for telling women to not accept the games!👏 Bottom line a woman who is real shouldn’t do anything different, she just knows what she wants, ajust move on. If he regrets it or not it’s a moot issue. Let another guy treat you right. Stop overthinking ladies. Please keep your boundaries.
Its not genuine regret where he feels he lost a good woman. He knows he lost a good woman, thats not a priority to him, however. More like, he lost access to sez with you. That stings.
I don't think any man regrets losing a woman - too many options. There are more single women in the world and men have their pick. It is a fact. Also, emotionally unavailable men are usually unconscious so it is rare for them to feel regret.
It’s actually the opposite over 50% of young men mostly in their 20s and 30s are single. A lot of men are still virgins in their 20s, online dating is 75% men so each woman has her pick of multiple men. I’m a tomboy and had male friends my whole life, they said online dating is a joke and the majority have to message tons of women just to get one to reply. I know a very handsome young man that makes great money and he said he doesn’t have tons of women stalking him! I’ve also noticed the past year or so men are using social media for dating because they are not finding women in public or with online dating. I’m 42 and in the past year had multiple men hitting on me from ages 21 to late 40s. I actually feel bad for some men cause many do want to settle down.
even in nursing homes there are WAY more widowed, divorced, single women than men....and the 1 rooster in the henhouse is having a blast, right up until he drops, figuratively & literally while the hens all peck & squabble for his attention.
Utter tripe most average men do not have lots of options they never did and never will unless they get a $ex bot. And a lot of men were never relationship material.
by the time they come back , you don't even want to deal with them anymore, everything they say makes you feel disgusted even if it is a simple ''hey''.and u don't even know how to love them now.
Dude was so emotionally unavailable he wouldn’t even have sex with me. One night he got drunk and started sexting me. I asked him weeks later if he actually wanted to do those things. Which he admitted it. Still no moves. I’m over it.
I liked this video with the bullet points! Can you do one about no contact? I am going to be going no contact soon (I’ll be moving out) and I would like some details about how to do it, and how it works. How to respond if he reaches out. When to respond, and when not to respond. Do I tell him I’m going to take some time off for myself? Or do I just stop talking to him?
So why did he wanted to get engaged and got me a ring? Why did he suddenly after almost 4 years, dissapear he crossed bounderies and told me to pawn the ring? I kicked him out.
I was 27 when I met him and now I’m 35 with no commitment.. all he did was string me along … I feel like I’m older now and no man would want me cuz of my age so I just settle for less… I feel like a fool and stupid smh 😢
This is all a bunch of UNGODLY mess and Tracy Douglas does not feed into the internet bull, I've always known who my REAL MAN is and that is the whom Tracy Douglas loved at first sight..........Mujahid. After all the starts and stops we keep coming back to these two hearts ❤Tracy and ❤Mujahid.
Hi everyone. I am needing some advice. I am based in Australia and have been seeing a guy for approx 18 months, whose based in LA. I flew over three times last year, between 2 weeks-1 month duration. We met in Australia in 2019. He has been very hot and cold/indecisive about meeting up with me next the past 6 months (since december- my last month long trip where i felt he was emotionally distant for most of my trip). I met all his close friends/family periodically throughout last year and it went well. A month ago I called to re-arrange a scheduled flight and he broke up with me. Told me he "is more focused on living a happier and healthier life, and I find the long distance tough". I told him not to contact me unless he changes his mind. Then, I find out hes spend the past 3.5 weeks isolating from friends and smoking weed. He has epilepsy and had a seizure yesterday (triggered by weed). I messaged him to check in on him and he ended up calling me. Was upset/tearful, saying he is reducing and will quit over the next wek or two. Expressed his love for me and said he is unsure if he made the right choice ending things... We had a shared vision at one point that i'd move over IN 2024/25 to live with him. We also spoke about marriage. He definitely has commitment issues that pre-date our relationships based on conversations we have had about his past relationships. What should I do? I love him so much..
Just what I needed. Coach he got my power. I broke my own boundaries because of him. He wanted to have sex and I said "no" many times. But since he's so persistent, I gave-in since it's been 5 years since the last. Now we are in 45 days NC. How should I get my power back?
Cut the connection simply...Do not even get close or let him get closed. That will make you care less and less each day about them, be strong...if he doesn't initiate anything, move on so that someone better can arrive to your life path. If he does, slow down the pace even start from zero because remember he doesn't come back for you, he comes back for your assets or for his ego boost or for keeping you as a place holder till he finds better ❤
@@icescubes2341 thank you for your advice. But we are 13 hours miles apart(via bus). I'm older than him 9 years. He got married already before, and so am I. Made 15 pages of letters for him since he blocked me on Facebook, messenger and changed his phone number. I even went around the block cause I was so confused. Broke NC twice since March. I'm in 47 days NC now. It's his birthday next month
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You don't give an instruction manual for after they start to return and text you.
Do they regret?! Who cares?! My life goes on. I do not waste my time. If they are unavailable, they have to work on themselves. It's not my problem at all.
Nice! Are you single instructor 😋
@@marleyjacobson-or7co is my private life your business? Who do you think you are? Mind your own business and do not write nonsense!
Amen 💯
Totally agree
They are still hoping to have me in their lives. I said: "No. I'm not the same person and my feelings for you have changed. You've had your chance and you did not appreciate me, so I left you. That's all."
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
They don’t want you if anything they just want your body. No disrespect but from your profile pic your not that attractive.
That's how I am begging to feel I'm tired of the lack of imtancy
Exactly!! The words you said show you stayed true to yourself and that show strength, respect ❤
EXACTLY
They only miss when they realize that you gave more than other people after you. They miss what they got from you, but not you as a person, who you were - only the way you made them feel so special. And also the nostalgia hits, they only want you again because now they know you are gone and they cannot have you. As soon as you give them another chance, the same behavioural patterns play out. You ladies deserve so much more and the man who will truly want you, will do anything to be with you. Very simple.
I want him to try to come back so I can ignore him
All very true. Women we have go learn to cut our losses. Time is too precious to waste on men who don't know what they want
i literally JUST cut off a year solid of a FWB, we hung out, watch movies, hed make me steak and we would have drinks....we would hang out with his friends at the beach, like a group of buddies. we got real close.....
i fell in love, i wanted MORE...he flat out said his heart is dust from bla bla bla bla. basically emotionally unavailable. i wanted him so bad:(
i just stopped it all. i couldnt keep sleeping with him without a commitment, after a while you feel UNWORTHY AND CHEAP, im worth more, i deserve love, he even told me "you deserve someone who is more emotionally available, a shoulder you can cry on someone whos able to give you what you need, i cant be him, my scars are too deep, im not ready and probable never will be, i can see myself single rest of my life"
i walked away...and it hurts.
Yeah, that’s why I never date guys fresh out of a breakup, or if I have a gut feeling they’re still in love with someone else. You end up being someone who serves the purpose of being an emotional crutch to restore their strength, and they won’t see you as someone they can be crazy about. Often the next one is.
It sucks 😢
Hell no to sleeping with them! Without a 💍 ring there is no peach 🍑
I'm going through the same thing. I cut it off. Hard. Love the guy.
@@ladyowl9187 ugh he still texts me every 3-4 hours , he hasnt missed a day in a year, not one, gmorning gmight, sending memes leaving voice texts even today " gmorning, happy Fri, hope its a good day, good vibes your way" this sucks, how stupid are u to not see you like me more than you care to admit to yourself, LMAO, i still feel hes just terrified.
When I’m done. I’m just done. There is nothing for them to come back too. I’m gone.
One-thousand percent! According to so many men I've asked this same question to, yes. Of course this only applies when there weren't any other major challenges or arguments between you both. If the only thing was not being ready for a serious relationship, they kick themselves down the road and realize they should have committed to her or married her... usually after she commits to and marries someone else. She could be the perfect woman and make the perfect wife/mother of his children, but he would still leave or walk away if he isn't ready to settle down or get more serious. Even if he's a really good hearted, genuine guy. There really is the right person at the wrong time, according to men. Super frustrating!
Thank you very much for sharing! That's helpful 😊
What makes it worse is you never know WHO'S ready. Some me are ready at 18 while others, aren't ready till they're 40!
As an emotionally unavailable man, yes we do.
That's intriguing, thanks for your honesty. Curious - why/when did you feel regret?
Dont u feel u hurt the girl?
Lol, that was bold of you (and funny weirdly enough) to admit this in front of a lot of people online!
@@Goodwillwinoverevil1984why is it funny? I think k it’s definitely brave of him and I hope he gets to a stage where he is released from his burdens eventually.
Where did your emotions go? 🤣🤣 such a stupid word emotionally unavailable. Essentially means emotionally immature with dreadful communication skills. Also analysis paralysis. Bad thought processing.
Elliot, you're so damn right!
That's what I did.
You're not ready for me, so you're free to go. I'm a free woman, too.
Thank you for your good advices! I do agree with them.
I hope my ex doesn’t miss me/regret leaving. He was a good man, but he was so hurt by his ex-fiancé leaving him that he said he didn’t think he could ever love again (which I don’t believe will be the case… he’ll meet someone that will give him that security). I hope he finds a loving, happy, fun relationship like I have since him!
God bless your heart. I hope I also find love and wish my past well
Wait, I don't get it. Why did you guys break up then if he was that good? I'm glad you don't have hard feelings but that's weird.. you basically wasted your time with him if you knew he wasn't the right person all along. Hope it wasn't that long that you guys went out.
I understand the principle, but I think it’s misleading to say that most men will regret letting a woman go. Most of the time, whether it’s men or women, we don’t regret letting someone go. I can’t think of a single person I regret letting go. There is one I miss terribly, but I know better than to try again.
It’s only that “one who got away”, and they’re in the minority. Anyone can have a bit of doubt as to whether they made the right decision, but we all know if someone may be “the one” or not. Coming back in order to keep you on the hook isn’t regret; merely about their ego.
Sometimes people get labelled “emotionally unavailable”, and it’s more the fact that they just weren’t interested ENOUGH to commit. I think it’s best to assume that if he’d really wanted to seal the deal, he would’ve done so, and the right guy would never risk letting you get away. Holding out hope that the last guy will somehow fall madly in love just keeps US emotionally unavailable for a better guy.
You said it.
You're absolutely right! Everything you said, I couldn't have worded it any better. If a man sleeps with you but won't make it official and is talking to other girls and also could be trying to get back with an ex then yeah he doesn't want you, he's just keeping you around for when he's lonely or wants 😺. We all usually have just that 1 person that got away. But that's it. He doesn't regret losing you, he's just butthurt bc all his options ran out and now he has nobody to help him pass time anymore.
Men and women are different 😂😂😂! All these things you are writing here it’s non sense
@@Minime669Expand please…I’m really interested to hear your take on it.
Relationships are super risky. I wish they were easier and the men I'd met in the past were not divorcees with drug and anger issues, or mama's/papa's boys! Homelessness, etc!
I like you, I enjoy spending time with you and I care about you… whilst ignoring me, not wanting to spend time with me and breadcrumbing. Told him thanks but no thanks, worth more than that. He agreed, repeated the I care about you, I like you crap, gave me a load of compliments then ghosted me after I pointed out if that’s what he thought then he wouldn’t be behaving in the opposite manner. 🤷♀️
Absolute mind job.
He wasn’t available and then now he is in a relationship so it’s not that he wasn’t emotionally available he just didn’t want it with me. It stings but time to move on.
He wasn't available than or now. He just found someone to hurt that stayed and be his nexts victim.
@@funnygirleveragree. Men like that dont change
No no he make her suffer thats all 😢
I believe they do. If you treated him with respect, was kind, and tried to make it work, he will absolutely regret it. A lot of times men like this can be prideful and full of ego, not all but many. My "ex" was like this, I never slept with him (waiting until marriage) which is one of the main reasons he ghosted me because he "thought" he could do better. Long story short my suspicions were true he was with someone else. He tried to build with her and she ended up cheating on him four months in, gave him possible STD, and could possibly be having a child by another man but saying its his.
Now he's calling me from different/unknown numbers, making fake text scenarios, etc. Doing all this but when he had me all he did was make excuses to not even be around me, literally didn't even try.Though I wished him well in life all he had was dust and became a ghost. I'm a firm believer in respecting the dead. Well he lost out big time and he'll never have access to me again simply because he doesn't deserve me and I don't feel the same. You snooze you lose.
I love this. Good for you!
Did you move on to something better? That's what I'm hoping for
Though your answer was 4 months ago, I loved how life turned itself on him & you had the insights to steer clear. I'd be playing songs like 'Who's Sorry Now' over & over & grin broadly.
That a good question, my ex made no effort to reconnect or talk again. So, it’s his loss I been stop chasing him. I’m on dating sites, trying to meet other guys. I got a whole glow up, new doors opening for me.
So right. If he's stable then the knows what he wants. When you are starting a relationship then you are consistent. If he wants to come and go as he pleases show him the door and don't open it again. Great Video Elliott, you are definitely right. Hope woman listen to this.
Three and a half months of bliss until one day he pulled a complete 180 on me and said he wasn't ready to fully commit. I genuinely don't feel like he was
manipulating or playing games with me but I'm still so confused as to how someone can change so fast. This video gave me a bit of clarity. Thanks Elliot.
Same here , it hurts too much
Men who were stringing a woman along for sex will regret losing access to sex.
You don't understand what women mean when they say will he regret it. They mean will he regret overlooking the wonderful person that I am and potential to be his life partner.
Not did he miss joking around and getting sex on tap.
The answer is most men don't because most men don't care about or value the things women do.
Wow cruel. Then what's the point of even being with them like that if they don't want or appreciate what you did for them?! Let them just be with THEIR video games, or cats, or whatever! Leave the good hearted ones alone and let them be with other good hearted, genuine people!
You give very good advice. Common sense but when you are in it you forget sometimes. Thank You for all your advice. 😊
ELLIOT WITH THE BANGERS AGAINNN
I think the last dude is starting to regret it
Oh he is going to regret this
I needed this video thanks
A "good ass" woman 😆. You Americans have a whole lot of fun with our language.
I like this guy and it is a lot like this. It’s no guarantee you’ll end up with them. But you have to be prepared to walk if need be. You have to be able to follow through with that. If they know you will always come back they won’t be afraid of losing you
Biting my own words here. I’m backing off him considerably
This is probably the best video I’ve seen you make. Very helpful. Thank you!
I think that would be funny actually “you’re just not ready little guy” *rubs head* 😂
It's plain stupidity if they don’t know how lucky they are. My last relationship, I had every quality most men would absolutely love. Charm, humor, beauty, kindness, vice versa. Tis sad he let me go. If he does regret I won't know until I see him again.
Wish i saw this 7 months ago! I broke up with him yesterday and its not easy but i‘ll get over it hopefully
I can confirm this.
This brought out some clarity for me. Thank you so much for this❤
Just went through this ,, today and this week. great timing
Nope …they only regret they couldn’t use the female more .
This is so informative! But what do I do if that person is my ex of 3 years but also now my friend? I'm getting a lot of mixed signals lol
I wish I had discovered your videos earlier....now it's too late and I just want to be single lol so much more peaceful :D
This was actually incredibly helpful, thank you!
Thank you for telling women to not accept the games!👏 Bottom line a woman who is real shouldn’t do anything different, she just knows what she wants, ajust move on. If he regrets it or not it’s a moot issue. Let another guy treat you right. Stop overthinking ladies. Please keep your boundaries.
Spot on. Best coach ever!
Elliot, I like you, I really really like your work!!!
"you're not the customer we're looking for, if you can't afford get the f outta here" nice!
Maybe it's just better to see the pulling away as it's over.
Its not genuine regret where he feels he lost a good woman. He knows he lost a good woman, thats not a priority to him, however.
More like, he lost access to sez with you. That stings.
I literally just popped on here to say, I don't care!! I couldn't care less if they wish they had me. I'm already gone.
Your hair looks nice
I don't think any man regrets losing a woman - too many options. There are more single women in the world and men have their pick. It is a fact. Also, emotionally unavailable men are usually unconscious so it is rare for them to feel regret.
They all do to my experience. I had exs and guy friends tell me they regret losing a good girl. They just wasn't ready and not in a good place.
It’s actually the opposite over 50% of young men mostly in their 20s and 30s are single. A lot of men are still virgins in their 20s, online dating is 75% men so each woman has her pick of multiple men. I’m a tomboy and had male friends my whole life, they said online dating is a joke and the majority have to message tons of women just to get one to reply. I know a very handsome young man that makes great money and he said he doesn’t have tons of women stalking him! I’ve also noticed the past year or so men are using social media for dating because they are not finding women in public or with online dating. I’m 42 and in the past year had multiple men hitting on me from ages 21 to late 40s. I actually feel bad for some men cause many do want to settle down.
@@MelModicaexactly
even in nursing homes there are WAY more widowed, divorced, single women than men....and the 1 rooster in the henhouse is having a blast, right up until he drops, figuratively & literally while the hens all peck & squabble for his attention.
Utter tripe most average men do not have lots of options they never did and never will unless they get a $ex bot. And a lot of men were never relationship material.
by the time they come back , you don't even want to deal with them anymore, everything they say makes you feel disgusted even if it is a simple ''hey''.and u don't even know how to love them now.
I love your videos ❤😂
Dude was so emotionally unavailable he wouldn’t even have sex with me. One night he got drunk and started sexting me. I asked him weeks later if he actually wanted to do those things. Which he admitted it. Still no moves. I’m over it.
He couldn't get it up.
I'm goin thru it now
I'm done. I deserve better
He knows fuckboy 101 takes one to know one
I liked this video with the bullet points!
Can you do one about no contact? I am going to be going no contact soon (I’ll be moving out) and I would like some details about how to do it, and how it works. How to respond if he reaches out. When to respond, and when not to respond. Do I tell him I’m going to take some time off for myself? Or do I just stop talking to him?
So why did he wanted to get engaged and got me a ring? Why did he suddenly after almost 4 years, dissapear he crossed bounderies and told me to pawn the ring? I kicked him out.
When they are avoidant, they won't.
Ever notice how the numbers of videos for men on how or get/keep the women of their dreams is slim to none?
@lila2028 there are plenty of videos on that topic just not on my channel bc I don't have a male audience
@@ElliotScottDating Slim to none in comparison to the numbers of those created and written for women to attract and keep men.
Haven't seen it yet and we never had a fight so I don't know.
Narcissist classic move.
My ex talked to me through Insta last week and today he blocked me 😂 what should expect next? Kinda getting tired, it’s been a year!
I was chill about it, trying not to make conversation, guess that upset him
Move on! He’s wasting your hot years ❤
P.S. - Elliot, you look so handsome! Wow.
Going no contact, does that mean I should take back the fan I borrowed him? And the f1 tv subscription I got him?
Wish I saw this 8 months ago!
How long does it take for them to miss you??
I was 27 when I met him and now I’m 35 with no commitment.. all he did was string me along … I feel like I’m older now and no man would want me cuz of my age so I just settle for less… I feel like a fool and stupid smh 😢
35 isn't old but if you want a child you need to start getting strategic real fast. If not then it doesn't matter.
@@jessicahitchens6926thankfully I already have two kids
No.
Everyone regrets losing me
How do you walk away and make him regret his loss when you have a child together?
You are just the nuts xxxxx
Is the bundle AUDIO Files too? I want to listen. Not read
I'm sure he regrets plenty he died.
This is all a bunch of UNGODLY mess and Tracy Douglas does not feed into the internet bull, I've always known who my REAL MAN is and that is the whom Tracy Douglas loved at first sight..........Mujahid. After all the starts and stops we keep coming back to these two hearts ❤Tracy and ❤Mujahid.
Mine did 🤣
he dumped me i was nothing but nice to him i feel lost
Don't be nice to men... it never ever works.
@@jessicahitchens6926so True never
Anyone given up on dating in 2024? Sexually abstinent 5 years in December. Dating is a waste of time these days.
8:24 OMG 🤣🤣🤣
😅😅 love Elliot
Just leave regret or no usless 😂
Emotional block = another woman he is sleeping with
Smh lol
in your case. not everyone's
Can context be done over again what I mean is start a new connection with a context 2.0?😂
I make humans suffer after they treat me bad
No he was emotionally available for other women. Me he just sexually assaulted , was racist towards and treated like trash
Then why talk to her at all
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The short answer is no we don’t sometimes a bit, but nah
Nope 😂😂😂
Who cares 😂
Why would I want advice from a f boy. This guy gives me bad vibes y’all
Hi everyone. I am needing some advice. I am based in Australia and have been seeing a guy for approx 18 months, whose based in LA. I flew over three times last year, between 2 weeks-1 month duration. We met in Australia in 2019. He has been very hot and cold/indecisive about meeting up with me next the past 6 months (since december- my last month long trip where i felt he was emotionally distant for most of my trip). I met all his close friends/family periodically throughout last year and it went well. A month ago I called to re-arrange a scheduled flight and he broke up with me. Told me he "is more focused on living a happier and healthier life, and I find the long distance tough". I told him not to contact me unless he changes his mind. Then, I find out hes spend the past 3.5 weeks isolating from friends and smoking weed. He has epilepsy and had a seizure yesterday (triggered by weed). I messaged him to check in on him and he ended up calling me. Was upset/tearful, saying he is reducing and will quit over the next wek or two. Expressed his love for me and said he is unsure if he made the right choice ending things... We had a shared vision at one point that i'd move over IN 2024/25 to live with him. We also spoke about marriage. He definitely has commitment issues that pre-date our relationships based on conversations we have had about his past relationships. What should I do? I love him so much..
Just what I needed. Coach he got my power. I broke my own boundaries because of him. He wanted to have sex and I said "no" many times. But since he's so persistent, I gave-in since it's been 5 years since the last. Now we are in 45 days NC. How should I get my power back?
Cut the connection simply...Do not even get close or let him get closed. That will make you care less and less each day about them, be strong...if he doesn't initiate anything, move on so that someone better can arrive to your life path. If he does, slow down the pace even start from zero because remember he doesn't come back for you, he comes back for your assets or for his ego boost or for keeping you as a place holder till he finds better ❤
@@icescubes2341 thank you for your advice. But we are 13 hours miles apart(via bus). I'm older than him 9 years. He got married already before, and so am I. Made 15 pages of letters for him since he blocked me on Facebook, messenger and changed his phone number. I even went around the block cause I was so confused. Broke NC twice since March. I'm in 47 days NC now. It's his birthday next month
You need to get help. Stop obsessing about some man whom doesn't want you. Put the work into you.
They probably miss the assets more than anything else 🫣
Who cares😂