Entitled DATES That Bring NOTHING To The Table - REACTION
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Online dating is more like dumpster diving and hoping you don’t accidentally grab a rabid raccoon.
And the dumpster is on fire
I love your comment. Well done!
I only ever did it in the nascent days, like when Yahoo Personals was a free thing. It was iffy back then, I can only imagine how it is now. I'll just become a monk or something if my partner since 2008 dies on me.
I tried once a dating app specifically "christian" app and oh my goodness, that was full of pervert men 😥 asking for pictures and stuff. I was like really? How people can even think that would find love in there... Might be there are good people looking for a partner but that really hard to find one.
Except I've found furnishings, home decor, holiday decorations, clothes, food, makeup, shampoos, conditioners and other hygienic products i normally would not pay the price for (65.00 for a bottle of shampoo is nuts) and so much more dumpster diving, and don't think I would trust any of the strange people on a dating app.
I do like the original posters comment. I loled thinking of the time i scared the crap out of a squirrel trying to eat some bird seed.
Prediction - in a few minutes, Imma hug my absolutely bewildered husband, screaming 'Don't leave me! Don't you EVER leave me'. Also, Imma bake that man a pie this weekend ..
Mine is still asleep...but I just went and rubbed his back. Lol.
And make him a sandwich😉
You’re such a thoughtful potato ❤️
Same but mine is at work, when he gets home imma snuggle him extra, bonus is that he likes snuggles and cuddles as much as I do, and he's 6'6" so it's like a giant bear hug
Apple Pie?! If so, I want a piece! lol
"Entitlement does not know gender" that has to be the one of the truest statements on UA-cam.
I agree both men and women can be entitled. I worked with this woman who thought she was above the job we were hired to do. She revealed in our training class she would only date men who had a Masters Degree. then she looked around the room and said "obviously, no one in here'. To which I responded 'Well, I have a masters but I wouldn't go out with you if you were the last woman on Earth'. Everybody laughed at her and she hated on me the rest of the training class. Then she quit at the end of training. I stayed and got a small pension out of the job.
Who says that in a training class? Like... wtf were ya'll training for?
I'm confused 😕 about the last 2 sentences but definitely I definitely appreciate the comeback 😆 🤣 😂
"and everyone applauded" 😂
Yeah, it seems like it's 50-50 from what I can see as well. Of couse there is a difference between being entitled and being delusional and some of the guys with their "requirements" borderline on delusional and unrealistic expectations. In the case to your example, that woman sounds like she's a company that only wants people with a Masters Degree to work there.
I like how the last guy said, “Be able” to cook and clean. Honey, we’re all ABLE. The question is: do we want to do it for you?
honestly there's some ppl who SHOULDN'T cook. like burn water bad lol
That's me lol.
I thought you were going to say were all able but some of us shouldn't, which is also true.
feminist
Does he want to cook and clean himself? He's able too.
I've dated a few guys who, at first were not that attractive to me, or even not considered attractive in general. I've given it a reluctant chance, and found their personalities so attractive that they become physically good looking to me. Beauty is only skin deep ~ Ugly goes all the way to the bone. Quote by my mother. I've lived by that.
I'm like that but always as in I dont see a guy & feel sexual attraction until I start getting to know them. Its called Demi sexual & I didnt know that term til a few years ago.
I thought it was just another bit of my brain that was broken as I never got how people talked about whatever guy they fancied.
@@snooganslestat2030 It's interesting that you said this. I was talking to my male best friend of 32 years the other day, and he used that term for himself. If never heard it before and now I'm hearing it everywhere. I'm 46 now, but until a few years ago, I didn't have to have feelings, other than at least liking the person.. now I'm completely opposite.. its interesting how that happens haha
my mom said she looked at my dad said he was a short chubby guy and said uh no....but HERE I AM!!! personality matters a lot
Wow you should really question with is wrong with you? Yeah as k my wife.. She wrote this.. Daf.
This is exactly how it works for me too. I may not find you attractive at first but make me fall inlove with your personality and suddenly you’re the most beautiful person in the world to me.
I love how the guy says he's open minded and then lists the things he won't accept. Jesus, people are awful and deluded! So glad I found a good husband and had him for forty three years.
I think he's being satirical.
I've not even met the guy but I already hate his guts, he'd have a better chance riding a bird over the Sahara
I recently started looking back on a dating app. There was a guy who messaged me, a little older than what I prefer but looked younger. I went on the internet and typed in his first name on his profile and found out a bunch of things about him. I messaged him to say he’s older than I’m looking for but seems nice and just wanted to recommend go by an alias because by his first name and city, a person can access a lot of personal info about him. He asked what, and I proceeded to tell him his full name, full date of birth, address, phone number, that he is disabled, when he had some sort of inquiry with immigration, and while I was pulling this info, I did the free crumble records check the state offers. He had arrests for hit and run, not cooperating with police, a bunch of judgements, and he was arrested twice due to not paying child support for two different women. Upon finding this I told him I changed my mind, and he’s not so nice. He responded with a diatribe how people change and I’m going to be alone forever because I’m a “b*tch”. This is what guys call picky women, wanting a man who takes care of his kids and doesn’t get arrested.
You dodged a BAZOOKA!!! As Charlotte would say lol
Wow!!!
Funniest part - I know a Harvard educated lawyer who married a mechanic. They bonded over their love of restoring classic cars & motorcycles. He's even shorter than her (she's 5'11)
I don't get the height thing. I've always been attracted to shorter men. I've dated a few men shorter than me (I'm 5'-3"), and men over a foot taller than me. It made no difference in the relationship, and I can't understand why a woman would turn down a great guy because of height.
I'm a lawyer in my country and I'm with a guy who doesn't even have a degree. He is smart, hard working, funny and our personalities match. He is a true partner. That's all I need.
@@Kitti_B same, I’m an engineer and the love of my life happens to be a gardener. Who cares about degrees or money, he makes me feel loved and happy every day of my life and that is priceless 😊
I met my husband on one of these trash apps. It even started with a late night "hello" I almost didn't respond to. Turns out he worked 3rd shift at a 24 hr diner, so he was just up. He's turned out to be the most respectful, hardworking, loving, and compassionate men I know and we developed a great relationship.
I think I may go bake him some cookies after watching this as a thank you lol
Does anyone ever... you know... look for love anymore? My fiance became legally blind within two years of moving to my state to be with me. He can't work, he's on disability, and we get by. He would sit up with me all night when I would have horrible gallbladder attacks, sat with me for a week in the hospital without leaving my side, and when I feel like I'm going to puke, would make sure everything's ready, and even clean the toilet beforehand for me. Financial security is nice, but don't throw out the perfect man who loves you for who you are, and will take care of you, just because he doesn't have the perfect job. We've been together officially now for 11 years this year.
It may be time to tie the knot then, no? I’m sure y’all get enough pressure on that front so I’m sorry for leading with it. He does seem to love you a great deal and it’s obvious in your praise and admiration of him that you love him too. May God richly bless y’all in your relationship/marriage and may your love never fade or lose focus. Sending you prayers from San Antonio TX USA.
@@davidguidry657 It's one of those things where... we know we're never going to be with anyone else, and we didn't even need a "proper" proposal. It was sort of, we just knew. Our relationship isn't like... the normal type of relationship where we went through dating. We were each other's first relationship, knew each other all our lives pretty much. As of now, money really is the entire reason why we haven't just gotten the certificates yet. He's got good health insurance through his disability, and we're both worried that if we did get legally married, he might lose that. Which if he needs eye surgery, or even for medical (heart attacks run in his family, his dad died of one and he's petrified of leaving me like his dad left his mom), we can't afford it except with that insurance. Our lack of getting married isn't on anything except that he needs his disability benefits, and we honestly don't want to give the government any reason to try to take it away from him.
Well said!!! When my wife and I got married I and everyone else knew she was way out of my “league”
Luckily for me she was more interested in who I was and not what I looked like…Im not hideous looking, but I’m no 8 or 9 either! 😂
Fast forward 26 years and here we are…still together and still in love!!!
@@wardharrah55 that's really awesome to hear. When relationships aren't built on appearances, someone's 'worth', or getting in their bed, they tend to last longer. May you have many, many more happy years ahead!
@@kaliarchon Thank you! I wish the same for you…Godspeed
I once had a man tell me on our first and only date, "My girlfriends are either beautiful or very intelligent. Let's hope you have an IQ over 130." What an a**hat.
It's okay though. I ended up going on a date with someone soon after who would eventually become my husband. We're still together eight years later.
Love this for you! He clearly did not meet his own standards because even someone with a 100 IQ would know better than to insult someone. That’s not only stupid but a horrible thing to do. I’m glad you moved onto better!
PS it’s possible that he is visually impaired as well as stupid tho.
@@davidguidry657 🤣😅😆👍
Did you tell him "I don't know if its 130 or not, but I'm sure smart enough to never go out on another date with you"
@@Birdbike719 Yeah. I had some not so nice words I wanted to say, but I refrained. Lol
it's possible he was just 'negging'' you. some guys do that
You know, when you bring nothing to the table and you're NOT entitled, that's when you really find some of the most amazing partners. Most people who have a lot to offer just want someone who cares more about who they are than what's in their wallet
You’re not wrong.
This was true for me! When my (now) husband and I met, we were 19 and 20, he lived with his parents, I only made about 17k a year and had no savings, neither of us had been to college yet, and we both had chronic illness. We got to grow up together, improve our health together, and reach a lot of milestones together. I wouldn't trade our relationship for anything.
Can confirm. My gf is amazing af and while she's getting better I still catch her talking herself down due to her ex being a user with the "If you love me you... .". It's such a chill relationship if you don't overload it with estimates and tons of wishes.
@@CenerothXaris this comment is my favorite. It's so true. I swear half of relationships that don't work end because one or both people are simply asking for too much.
To me, just being near my boyfriend is enough. He's the most amazing person I've ever met. That lack of pressure allows for so many amazing things
Actually I do know someone who got the vax who's partner then got bells palsy from them sooo
Like 2 weeks ago I came across a guy who said past partners rated him an 8.9/10 and he was literally the most unattractive and obnoxious person ever, he was asking for a trophy wife and I was like homie with a face like that, if you get a wife at all you should feel blessed.
If he gets a trophy, it must've read: Consolation Prize?
Participation Trophy!!! 😂
That's an oddly specific number
@@WeirdSnakeGal LoL 😂
Why do you say that? I consider myself to be a 7.2..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Should have been “with a Face like that, the only trophy you’d get is the kind you mount to a wall”
I've started to comment five times and deleted everything because I honestly have no words for those people... they remind me of job ads that state that they want someone who's fresh out of college, under 30, and with ten years of experience. Thanks for making me laugh, though! :)
True words !!! Thank you
Or those ones that demand years of experience on a new piece of technology.
rejection and high standerds in both worlds are just so common for me they always make you feel like it all impossible
Internship working 50 hours a week with a quarterly performance review, with a view to a permanent position after first 12 months. Minimum of bachelors degree required, must have own car, and be flexible to work across weekdays and weekends, and be available to cover shifts at short notice. Starting wage $30,000 p/a
I work for a luxury hotel, and had a situation about a month ago. Not only is there a strict policy about dating guests, but it’s also inappropriate. A man was VERY aggressive in trying to give me his phone number, and was so floored when I wouldn’t take it. He proceeded to tell me that women were waiting to get with him, and were blowing up his DM. He couldn’t possibly understand why I didn’t want to talk to him. He than proceeds to tell me that HE owns the hotel(he doesn’t😂), and that he’s a professional golfer, and a big deal. I have never been so repulsed in my life.
Why wouldn't a woman date a carpenter? My fiance is a truck driver, idc if you are a carpenter or CEO, you just have to be a good person.
Love your videos btw!!! 🧡
Because incels wrote it and they don't actually have a clue what real women think or feel.
People forget or just don’t realize how much money us skilled tradesmen make! I’ve been a HVAC technician for 30 years now and some of my buddies have a long running joke about how they have college degrees and massive student loan debt and always want me to pick up the check because I make more than they do…
There just aren’t enough young people coming into the trades right now…it reminds me of the nursing shortage 20-25 years ago
Also...carpenters make good money LMAOOO and it's cool to have a skill like that! Check and check!
Saddly, there are people who seem to view dating and relationships as a way of getting social status and elevating themselves through their partner. To them, it "sounds" more impressive saying they're dating a CEO of a big company making in the 6 digits than it does a carpenter, no matter how sweet the guy can be. It's pure narcissism, they're in love with themselves and you're just accessory to their image. People like that should be avoided like the plague as they do not care for you for one second.
Most women view education as a status symbol and won't accept a serious relationship with a man that isn't at least equal to them. The same usually applies to jobs, pay, etc. Heck with pay, the average women won't marry a man that makes less than 150% of what they do.
Out of all the " influencers" on the interwebs no one deserves all the super success like you do!! You were meant to bring joy and petty to all!! WE ARE NOT WORTHY!! LOVE YOU CHARLOTTE🤗❤
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@Untold truth Aren’t you that guy that got wrapped up with the Thernos lady…Elizabeth Holmes???
What about Mr Beast?
good god dont insult her by calling her an influencer!!
@@millym7270 quotation marks
If anyone wants insight from a person who has been married for 37 years....I am a guy, a "towering" 5'6" tall, and my wife is 4'11". We both "violate" the stereotype right there. Height (or lowth) means nothing in a relationship. We were both interested in the PERSON the other was when we met. We both were wanting a lifetime relationship, though neither of us were looking for one at the time we met. You choose a real person who is the "fit" with you, not dream up some superficial desires which don't make the person who they are. Yes, it is this simple. Stop complicating it. Next year we will be together 40 years.
Congratulations Tater Tot!!! Wishing y’all many more happy years together.
“Lowth” I love it
@@davidguidry657 - Thanks!
@@pugsondrugs5480 - Yeah, we're not tall enough to have "height." LOL.
Exactly I'm 6' my boyfriend is 5'5 it bothers neither of us, I jokingly tell him that I'll hold stuff above my head so he can't get it lol
There's something so satisfying in seeing people's extremely high demands getting torn to shreds and them not bring anything to the table. Honestly girls who pick on guys for being shorter tick me off to no end, especially since there's nothing wrong with them in my opinion.
My man is on the shorter side and he's the most perfect guy on the inside I just remind him that sometimes amazing things do come in smaller packages if someone says anything to him about it in an effort to try and piss him off
I don’t care if my husband was a fry cook, a carpenter, a pilot, or POTUS... 150 pounds, 350 pounds, 5”0, 6”4, “skinny”, or muscular... I’m looking for an emotional connection with someone. Someone who will laugh with me, cook with me, be vulnerable with me, let me baby them, take care of me when needed, be open, loyal, and genuinely want to spend time with me. Someone who wants to build a family and sit on the porch when we’re old and make fun of our grandkids because they wouldn’t be here if we didn’t smash🤣💕 Someone who isn’t interested in screaming at each other or our children. Someone to cuddle with during a scary movie, and then jump out at when then movie is over😂 Most women think like this...
I mean yes for sure, but you definitely want physical chemistry and attraction with that person! I definitely agree that your personality matters the most though! I would rather go out with an average looking man who has a kind heart and is funny than rude and entitled jerk who is the hottest guy ever. Good message here! 💜
@@7ShadowMaiden7 also when you truly love someone I think the become attractive to you anyway. I've known really good looking people that suddenly seem really ugly after realizing they are an ahole.
Claire do you have an older sister who thinks like you do? 😉
You know what's funny. I actually have more peace in my life as a single mother than I ever did dating or being married. Going on 5 yrs since my divorce and every time I've gotten on a dating app to see if I would re-enter the market... It's filled with desperate angry or entitled men. I put in my profile I'm a worship pastor and get approached by couples to be their 3rd🤦. Guys that call you babe literally on day two of talking, guys that have the feminine cartoon filters, sticking their tongue's out in photos (huge pet peeve). Because of my divorce from an unfaithful man I am a single mother with full custody and guys get irritated because u ask them to plan ahead for a date... Like oh I'm sorry I thought we were adults and could manage a calendar 😂
If ur adding stress to my life and we haven't even been on a date yet... Yeah not worth my time. I'm happier single. Unhealthy Men want to be ur number one priority... And there are a lot of unhealthy men out there. Don't be mad at us women who have finally discovered our worth. Some men think us expecting them to have a job and a car is to high of standards... That's pretty basic adult requirements 😂
I'm 57 and divorced for 10 years. My list is: must have drivers license, own vehicle, own income, own home and must have teeth. Don't care if their real or not. And I can't find anyone and I don't care about looks. It doesn't get easier as you get older. So I've done the same. I'm working on myself. Self love, self worth etc. For some reason men get mad when we do this haha.
I think on both sides there are men and women who prioritize looks alot, maybe men more than chicks but I could be wrong. Having been in a few very emotionally abusive relationships I really desired someone i can feel safe and happy with, which is why I think the emotional connection is whats essential for a long term healthy relationship. Right now i have a great GF and we are basically best friends.
Every scientific study I've ever read about says women are far pickier about looks than men are. Women have a skewed view of men, because they all mostly date the same 20% or so of men, and those men have it so easy that they often become entitled. And for some reason a lot of women don't see their superficial preferences, like height, as superficial.
It's actually quite easy to see in this video. The very next clip after saying it Charlotte goes on about the entitled guys looks.
I've had girlfriends (the last one especially) who went on and on about how she and other women doesn't go for looks and in the next sentence tells me she's horny because she saw Kal Drogo.
men created standards for women for thousands of years and now that women have risen their own standards, men are taken aback? pretty hilarious.
@@OmniscientlyMe "every scientific study ive read" ... riight. Where can we find all these 'scientific studies' about women being "pickier"?
Oh, and a Reddit poll doesn't count.
@@ontxtteredwxngs You got evidence to back that statement or that it's anymore true for men than women?
Charlotte you are undoubtedly the only internet bestie that could ever exist, no one is as relatable and down to earth as you are. 🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️
Stay petty my friend 💋
Back 15 years ago or so my sister in law had all these requirements when it came to men…which I never understood because she was NO Catch by any stretch!
A guy showed up to pick her up, went to the door, a minute or two after being inside waiting he said he forgot something in his car and peeled out and drove off!!! I caught so much crap from my wife because I laughed uncontrollably then and every time I thought of it!!!
That guy has no idea how lucky he is!!! He dodged a massive bullet!!!
Every man that ever dated her for a bit has ended up at their rock bottom! I don’t know to this day how she is able to take a middle class normal guy and turn him into a complete nut job basket case! I’m not kidding…2 guys ended up being admitted into a mental facility!!!
The one guy even ended up as the top news story one night…he completely lost it, threatening to kill himself barricaded in the house after he led police in a high speed chase across three counties! I always kinda felt sorry for these guys, but I tried to warn them…but the feeling bad was quickly overshadowed by the complete comical entertainment value of watching this stuff unfold…I had a front row seat to the best soap opera in the country!!! Metaphorically and physically, her and her kids lived just a couple blocks down on the same street as us!!!
I used to have a male friend in uni who had that very same requirements for his ideal woman and he looked like the mole-man from the Simpsons. I laughed so hard in his face when he said that he didn t talk to me for quite a while
Of all the ridiculous requirements, the weight one is maybe the most alarming. 124 lb at 5 ft 9 is a BMI of 18.31. Definite anorexic territory, especially with everything else. Top weight wouldn't get a woman with these stats discharged from an EDU. There's so much I want to say here but I can't do speech to text very well.
18.5 is considered the cutoff for a "healthy" bmi as long as you're not an athlete as a lower bmi is still considered healthy (if you're athletic). So 18.31 is not borderline anorexic, it's low but depending on the person's body type, race, etc that could be a perfectly healthy weight.
Edit: clarification
@@slumbrrbunnie Sigh.
Oops. Sigh. I'm having to use voice to text right now. This is a very nuanced topic, and it is one I know quite well. Not only am I a nurse, but I have struggled with an ED on and off for most of my life. Unfortunately, a BMI of 18.5 has been emphasized in eating disorder literature and even the DSM, as a criteria for AN. The fact is eating disorders are mental illnesses. They aren't about a number or food, despite it feeling that way. It sounds like you have a lot of information so I don't want to patronize you, and I definitely don't want to insult anyone who is healthy and happens to be this BMI. I should have said more in my reply and should probably say more now, but I really struggle to do this. My speech is not very clear. The danger comes and having an expectation like this over one's head, and this guy sounds very toxic. Bodies change. This is a very low weight and it's one that few women can maintain healthfully. I don't ike to see extreme weight expectations in people's bios. Weights at either extreme have health risks and challenges. Ideally a partner will support the other in their health and other endeavors and won't behave in a toxic way. Wishing you the best.
@@summerdais325 I agree the man sounds toxic as hell but we have to stop placing hard and fast rules about health based upon how thin/fat a person is. Now obviously the extremes on either end of the spectrum are unhealthy but being just outside of normal can be normal for a lot of people who do take care of themselves properly.
Not trying to preach but most of the literature I have read classifies 18.5 as a "healthy weight" and anything under 18.5 as "underweight", you don't start being "severely underweight" until you have a bmi under 16.5. Now if you have disordered eating or other signs of an ED yes 18.5 could be a sign of anorexia but that is not a hard and fast rule.
This is like calling someone obese when their bmi is 25.3, they're not obese they're *slightly* overweight. This is why bmi is a tool to be used in conjunction with other litmus tests of a person's overall health.
I realize that YT isn't the best place to have a nuanced discussion around something like this. I have been around 17.5-18 bmi my entire life due to genetics so perhaps I took your comment a bit personally and for that I'm sorry if I came off a bit hot headed.
@@summerdais325 Just checked the DSM it says nothing about an 18.5 BMI just that one of the criteria is being underweight sometimes severely as well as a whole slew of disorder thinking and behaviors to qualify so maybe don't spread misinformation.
I have to wonder if any of the crazy dating requirements are a prank. Someone at my place of work created a funny dating profile for a newly single co-worker. Co-worker #1 put in crazy requirements like "must love clown decor." and "looking for someone that isn't intimidated by my imaginary friend". Oddly, there were some people that were in to it.
😂that’s really funny. I’m guessing they liked the “honesty” about weird hobbies/likes. It really stands you out from the crowd. I bet most of them were curious if the profile was for real or what kinda of person is into clowns and imaginary friends.
@@kay-jay1581 more like they liked the “ honesty “ because they’re honestly weird af and looking for someone ok with that too. As a Chaplin I once worked in a sexual trauma program and I’m still a little wanna wash off the ick from some peoples idea of ….borderline of legal
That profile sounds really funny. If I got a whiff she was serious I would politely part ways.
It s to put women on the spot and reverse the role.
But what about the poor soul into that? They’ve had all these lackluster dates and see a profile that looks promising! Then they reach out and find it was a joke 🥺🥺🥺
My experience is:the people you have real chemistry with will never fit your pre-conceived ideas of what you think you want, because they will be a real person. If you’re narrow-minded you’ll never give yourself the chance to meet someone you feel fireworks with.
I used to suffer from narrow mindedness in partner searches, then I stopped that crap and have found the love of my life who is coincidentally a total smoke show in bed.
Too true. My husband was the most inconvenient boyfriend ever. He was too busy and I was too clingy. Eventually living together and me being medicated for my own issues sorted us out and we got married.
Sometimes I wonder if there are people whose “inner dialogue” mandates that they stay single… So they create arbitrarily impossible standards, while bemoaning that there are no “good ones” out there.
Interesting!
Sounds about right
Seems that way. They probably don't want to deal with why past relationships have failed or they don't think that anything is wrong with them and are unwilling to change themselves. I wouldn't trust dating a person or even a friendship with someone who can't see their own flaws or blame others
@@jackiekurtz6494 💯 why seeing someone described himself as “set in their ways“ or anything along those lines should be a red flag. They are outright telling you they have no intention to grow or develop as a person, and you are going to have to grow and develop just to be around them. It’s one thing to grow together, that’s literally the entire point, but you shouldn’t have to do the growing within the relationship for both you and your partner in order for it to survive.
@@Onyx-qd9tl Exactly! It makes the relationship one sided instead of working as a team. I think there are ways to compromise or tolerate but I don't think I could handle someone with no goals or ambitions. Unless they are just content and happy
Jono from Cinema Therapy said this (I think on the Hitch episode)... and it really really stuck with me. I will paraphrase because I can't remember specifics.
He had a client come in one day, lamenting his absolutely rotten luck with women. When pressed a bit further, client reveals to Jono that he has a list. He promises to bring the list next session.
Jono describes this "perfect woman list" as cross between Mary Poppins and Wonder Woman. He then asks this question: "The woman on this list.... What does her list look like?"
Mic drop. Seriously. All of these lists.... yeah there should be lines you won't allow crossed..... but to detail your ideal person on a list? Do you fit their own personal list?
I love this comment. Their pea brain never goes that far. Lack of self awareness and also a full length mirror.
Exactly the same thing came to my mind! I love Cinema Therapy!
@@PaperMario64 unfortunate, isn't it?
@@AnnaKath3 me too! I'm also a fan of Mended Light, and just discovered Alan's filmmaker page.
I watch cinema therapy too. Isnt Johnno amazing. Gotta love our internet dads 😊
As I have stated before, in an Online Dating world, you can be whom ever you want to be without any inhibition's. Me personally, I've met most of the people that I have had a romantic relationship with in real life (IRL). You cannot hide as much when you meet in person, so you have to either be yourself or put on an act. Act's are very easy to see through.
ESPT is from that Myers’s brigs personality test. You answer a bunch of questions and it gives you 4 letters as a result
It gives you 4 letters. 😂
@@SoManyRandomRamblings when you dumb it down yeah. It gives you 4 letters that people base their whole life around 😂
At this point I’m so bloody glad I’m middle aged and married to a man who I’ve know since school, and while we went off and do our own things for years finally got together after always being in love with each other since we were teenagers. I have so much fear for my 4 teenage sons though 😳😳😳
According to some articles I read, Kate Winslet's daughter (Mia Threapleton) doesn't use social media and is focused on her studies. Since she doesn't use social media, I doubt she would be on Vibe (or date that jagoff).
Ah yes, everything you read is factual
She's also a kid. So ewww.
I love it when Charlotte makes fun of entitled people
😂Charlotte is so funny....i like this Channel so much...❤️ she's like a friend at this point hahaha.
I know right?
I bet it’s kinda weird for her when she meets some of us…we’re all bubbly and excited giving hugs and stuff because we feel like we know her…we see her every day in our homes and laugh with her…and she has no idea who the F we are!!!
I literally died on that one with the 22 year olds. I was laughing with tears lol. My thoughts are that guy wants only 22 year olds...does he not realize hes gonna age too? So he wants 22 when hes 80??? Gross! 👀😫😳💀😂
P.s. Omg ive seen some crazy profiles too. Ive had guys ASK me if im submissive and would do..blah blah blah...to them. Like i literally RAN from the conversation and blocked them. Wtf 💩💩💩😂😂😂😂
Yeah? And with those specks, it seems like he wants a barely legal adult who looks like a tall child 🤢
@@Marskilius 😂😂😂😂 like charlotte said..better off getting a doll or custom mannequin. She'll always look the same and never age 🤷
It was likely satire…
I love these videos so much! Could you imagine Jonathan's face if/when he sees this 😳 I would pay good money to see that. What's under the hat JONATHAN!? 🤣🤣
Dating apps have legit become a joke when it comes to meeting anyone worthy of pursuing a long term relationship with. Most just use it for hookups, followers on other platforms, and whatever else they may need someone else to fulfil. I'm sure there are some people out there that have had some luck with dating apps. But the majority outweighs those few. Basically..dont expect to much from those on a dating app. lol.
ive heard that the amountof relationships and the enount of sex people have has dropped like 30 percent since the introduction of tinder.
ikr I've been on dating sites for more than 10 years sometimes unactive other times actively looking and it just cost a lot of time and money 9 times out of 10 ill have a great time, feel that we are both attracted to each other and I still get a vague reason they don't want a 3rd or 2nd date. standers are just so freaking high
@@EstherHulst-Artist People dont want to commit anymore. I feel that the astronomically high standards are more excuses to not settle. Especially when they are contradicting standards.
I did most of my dating pre dating apps. We had to go to a bar and pluck up the courage to approach a woman, then have a good first line and interesting conversation. that was how you got a date. Now it's just weird.
Charlotte is 100% correct. Women go for stability and men go for looks, and both are entitled af. Remember to stay humble my friends!!
Well said, bestie! Our Potato Queen is wise beyond her years. Reminds me of the country song lyrics “how’m I gonna be old and wise if I ain’t never been young and crazy?”! 😉
Women go for stability and looks
@@tj5579 not true considering how many really attractive women and girls will get with an average or ugly guy even if he's a terrible person with no money 😅 EVERYONE goes for looks first because that's biology, but men typically hyperfocus on it and make it the main importance of a partner. It's mostly because society doesn't encourage women or girls to be stable. And stability is put on the shoulders of his and men. Gotta have some balance.
@@Lill2895 Absolutely women go for looks and hyperfocus on looks. The only time women go for ugly men is if they are generous and/or make a lot of money
@@Lill2895 Where are all these attractive girls you speak of that are getting with ugly guys with no money because I don't see that happening at all lol women are just as shallow as men if not more so especially when it comes to height
I’m short and my hubby is a few inches taller than me. He’s the best thing that’s happened to me along with my kids 💖
just got one of your hoodies, that is noice! no offense was expecting "cheap, thanks for coming to our fundraiser, frayed after first wash" quality but damn this Abercrombie+Fitch level thanks big fan!
@Untold truth sorry buddy that place looks beautiful but your camera is so shaky i'm gunna projectile vomit on my laptop
@@kewlkeef5446 ya don’t click on it!! Report it as spam and move on.
@@davidguidry657 awwwww he seemed so nice lolol
Love you Charlotte! Thank you for sharing your humor with the world!!
I love it when people reveal their shitty personalities via bio’s lol It makes swiping left so much easier when so many red flags are on display.
Thank GOD my in-laws raised their son right and that i don’t have to be on dating apps anymore lmao. My soulmate stumbled into my IG DM’s lol.
I'm so early that ariana grande still has tears left to cry
Jesus showing up after 'kind funny carpenter' killed me. Your content is uh-mazing!!!!
once again I'm reminded of how grateful I am to not be dating in these times!
Boo! Thanks for the reminder of what I have to look forward to. 😉
Oh me too! My sister is recently widowed and is starting to try navigating the dating world. I don’t envy her.
@@tellavega9777 oh gosh...that's sad in so many ways 😥
I would tell them I’m not vaccinated then spend a few dates getting close just to finally reveal the truth of my vaccination and watch the drama unfold
As slightly messed up as that is, I'd do it subtly; I'd just leave my vaccination card on the bedside table just slightly peeking out beneath my wallet.
Come back to bed, pretend to realize it's out and be like, "Oh, I forgot I had that."
"Had what?"
"Huh? Oh, my vaccination card. I got the shot ages ago and forgot about it."
And let the drama begin. >:)
^^^ Some people just want to watch the world burn ^^^
It’s unfortunate that people like you are walking around.
Watch as they say, "I always felt extremely sick around you! I am sooo mentally strong and a terrific actor so I was able to easily covered it up and fool you! Now I know why I always felt sick!"
.....wonder if the "anti-vax" requirement would become void if the prospect was worth millions.....🤔
In terms of the height thing: I swipe left on guys who have their height in their bio if they are shorter than me. I used to not because I really don’t care and have dated guys shorter than me, but if they’re broadcasting their “short” height, they usually make a big deal about it irl too. I’ve been on too many dates where guys complain about how short they are and over explain why they added it to their bio. It just feels like a red flag of insecurities. Especially if they add something like “short king” or “5’4 since it matters”.
That said, I also swipe right on guys who make a big deal about being tall too.
I don't need a cup of coffee to start my mornings but I do require my daily Charlotte intake.
A friend of mine had a saying about sex. "Men just need a place while women need a reason." I tend to agree.
It’s a stereotype for a reason. There is some truth to it but it certainly isn’t a rule that applies to all people at all times. My ex-wife and I were on opposite sides of that little equation but I don’t take offense because I remember times when I(as the male) only required the place. Now it needs to actually mean something (and something other than “it’s Saturday).
Not gonna lie...
"Then f*** off" had me in stitches rolling around on the sofa. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao, im so glad I'm too old to have to be in the dating swamp.
The INCEL/Neckbeard/Nice Guy™️ vibes were so strong on that first one that I could smell the B.O. and filthy apartment from here. Also, Kate Winslet’s daughter just turned 21 this year so… depending on the person’s age that’s maybe a thing.
The fact you all missed the obvious joke is pretty embarrassing
oh how cute, she knows some of the feminist buzzwords, I am guessing you are a prime specimen of "modern and independent vvahmen" so brave and stunning lol
I had the same thought. Don't think Winslet would allow that sort of thing. She worked with DiCaprio, after all.
Pretty sure it's nearly impossible for there to be a 20-yr old runway model making over 100k, with no friends who spends all her time gaming, and is available every day to spend time with her boyfriend. Good luck dude.
Guy is obviously trolling.
My god, women really can’t take a joke
I said when I first met my husband and I will always say it, I am so happy I met him and I will never go through single life again. Holy shit...its just....wow. Can't wait for my husband to get home so I can give him a big hug and kiss.
I can never stop at one video ! I started with todays new video and I am on my 4th previous video now. I'll end up binge watching them until I overflow with petty and laughter 😂 😂
I absolutely love this channel!
Absolutely love the entitled videos. Oblivious arrogance is running rampant!!💋❤❤❤
Videos like this always make me feel better that I'm no longer in the dating pool.
Unfortunately, there is no lifeguard for the gene pool.
@@vempriex 🤣🤣🤣
Thank u for reminding me why I stopped dating, thanks, so freaking much
“Entitlement does not know gender” is my new favorite saying.
Damn, the entitlement runs deep!
Lucky I met my husband when we worked together at McDonald's. 15 years together. ❤️
P.S. I miss your outro!!
Can we agree that height is not a characteristic we should be looking for while dating? They have done literally nothing to obtain it. Literally could be a DB, and be 6 foot 4. Kindness on that other hand....
It’s hard not to. People are attracted to specific people and if they don’t fit that height criteria then it won’t work. I’m 5’6” and it’s awkward for me to date someone as tall as me or shorter.
pretty sure women started saying that as tongue in cheek bc men were telling women they needed to be under 120 pounds at 5'9. women don't ACTUALLY care about height as much as men do. They're even concerned about their own heights to the point of losing dates bc they ASSUME a woman won't date him for being "too short." It was a joke at first and now it's just funny to watch men explode about "standards" they think women have when they INVENTED standards.
@@dhf161 nah, women just want that guy that all the other women want.
If other women all wanted guys that were 3 ft tall, dwarfs would be killing it
@@ducksquidbat8315 I don’t think that applies to all women
@@dhf161 True but I definitely think it’s a factor as to why so many women gravitate towards the same 10% of the male population.
I watch your videos when I'm eating, you're a good company 😂😂😂
U know the saying u gotta kiss a hundred frogs to find ur Prince…..still waiting to get off the leach level 😂😂😂 great video Charlotte 💋❤️
You also have to be looking in the right spot, bestie. You won’t find a meaningful relationship where the objective is to hook up. Just sayin. 😉
@@davidguidry657 who said I was hooking up?? Bold assumptions hun 😂
I'm still stuck on the first one that said he's only interested in girls under 22. However, he didn't put a specific range. Maybe it's me listening to so much true crime and my own history of trauma but it would probably be better if he put a range there because there are other numbers under 22 and 17 of them are illegal. 😳
he'd go as young as her state allows it and that's sometimes as young as 14
Guy was obviously trolling.
I swear this comment section has the iq lower than the temperature of tap water…
I just love the fact he gave his height and that he is an entrepreneur, aka unemployed, yet he has a laundry list of expectations. The perfect example of "What do you bring to the table?" It looks more like a application to "The Bachelorette".
@@ducksquidbat8315 Pot meet kettle.
Gross you are probably right. I was thinking it was because most grown woman would never accept his ridiculous list of requirements. But that some 18 yr old somewhere might think they have to fit the requirements to keep an older guy interested
Hilarious as always, my only issue with dating apps is that you have to pay for the upgrade in order to see who matched you or to even have a conversation with said match or anyone you show any interest in talking to after you download the app for free. Sorry but if I’m gonna download something free then I’m not gonna sink money I don’t have into it. Call me entitled but if dating apps and apps in general are gonna expect money to have full use maybe make the app cost the amount of money for the “upgrade” that way you have use of the app. I understand safety measures and what not but it’s pretty easy to spot a douche bag or a predator and reporting someone isn’t very hard. Apologies for the rant but I’ve had a lot of frustration with apps because of this.
7:10 "Uber Eats for d*ck."
😂😂😂 I'm done! 💀
Charlotte, I love your comebacks ! Keep it going my potato queen!!
When I was playing around with online dating, recently, I changed my bio to, if you're going to treat me like a prostitute, you're going to pay me like one too. Surprise, I got very few matches.
maybe because even if you were being facetious most men who saw that would instantly think that you are legitimately trading sex for money/favors. and no man wants that, and tbh most men can find local prostitutes for cheaper than you would charge anyway(unless your self respect is even lower than it sounds).
@@jamesf694 Whatever, it worked. I got way less wanna f**ks than I had before. Which was my desired result. I'm not your unpaid hooker. I'm a person.
So this is what I have to look forward to? Ugh! I’d rather not honestly. When did it get this way?!
Whatever happened to walking up to someone you find attractive, introducing yourself, and seeing if they’d be open to talking over coffee/dinner to get to know each other better? Does that no longer happen?
Are the only choices to stay in an unhealthy/toxic/harmful relationship/marriage or face THIS in the dating world? I may just get a pet fish and practice enjoying my own company. Please tell me that there are other super sweet, talented, pretty, smart, and funny women (in no particular order) now that Miss Charlotte is making time with Mike. Please! 🤞🏼
There are lots of great people out there David! Don’t give up ❤️
That’s how I met my husband. Saw each other across a room, he came up to me and introduced himself and we’ve been together ever since. That was 20 years ago though…….! I look at this video and appreciate him all the more.
@@CharlotteDobre thank you for the encouragement, Miss Charlotte. And for the daily example/reminder of “the standard”.😉
As far as dating goes; I have not yet begun to date! (To paraphrase John Paul Jones) Or, more aptly (since I love the movie Tombstone), “Nonsense! I have not yet begun to defile myself.”-Doc Holliday (played by Val Kilmer). 😂🤣
@@LucyStokesOceansofNotions love this for y’all! I wonder if it still works? I guess I’ll find out when I try it, huh? 😉
@@davidguidry657 You know what, we only hear about these eejits on apps because it’s funny, but i would bet most people would FAR prefer to be approached by a genuine person and feel the sparks fly. Best of luck!
Thank you Charlotte for all your vids and especially ones like this. I have never been on a "dating app" nor do I plan to join in the future. And mainly because you provide key insight into what to expect. Too many "requirements" and I'd be tempted to just cut to the chase with a simple question like "What's your stance on axial precession?" LOL
I have to say that your videos always cheer me up!! Oh and whoever edits your videos and puts your face on everything makes me lmao😂😂
I personally believe that if you're a guy, and you can make a girl laugh, that will do more for setting up a relationship than money, looks, or height. Girls LOVE funny guys.
OK, but Victoria's Secret models do not have 6 days a week free, right? Don't they have to do a lot of work like shoots, shows, go-sees for other gigs, travelling for said gigs, etc.?
If by some miracle a Victorias Secret model had a stroke and was interested in this guy, presumably he’d just tell her to F off.
"I want something real but I'm not willing to have a conversation!" is me probably 90% of the time. I understand I am the problem 😂
That first one sounds like a GEM!
I have been listening to the guys on Shxtsngigs (thank you Charlotte), and learned about the hassle some men go through regarding their height or lack, there of, while dating. I was shocked. Some of the comments women made were so demeaning and rude. The entitled generally lack class, manners or empathy so...there's that 🤭
There is no guessing with me, I'll straight up tell you I won't have the COVID jab, I find it hilarious that people can't tell the difference between an anti vaxxer vs a person who won't have the 2 jabs- untill they change their narrative to include more jabs. Refusing to have a jab hardly makes an anti vaxxer 🤣
Ditto. The fact that the COVID jab is NOT a "Vaccine" never seems to enter the conversation (or that it remains "EUA" only). I've had ALL other "Vaccines" without issue ... but when FDA/CDC/WHO quietly changed the definition of a "Vaccine" to change the 100+ year old version by removing the key passages of "Prevents infection/transmission" ... tells me a lot about the peson. I have no problem with folks doing what they want and getting the jab ... but please don't tell me what I must do given the facts we now know.
Lol, loved the Drew Afuelo vibes! 🤣 is awesome
I just love your content 💜
Both men and women are entitled I have yet to find a man that wants a kind loyal woman. The last guy I talked to only cared about sexual compatibility and told me he'd been with 60 women. He expected me to be ok with all this. I have some standards but mine are reasonable especially since I'm tired of giving my all to people who don't bring anything to the table. The best part is they'll try to make it seem like you have nothing to offer when you call them out on their bs. 🤷♀️
Edit:
I knew a judgmental person on the Internet was going to comment. Guys y'all don't know the other person's experience stop assuming crap. So to explain I haven't been with extremely attractive. Most of the men I've dated actually have been a little chubby. Stop assuming us women are chasing extremely attractive men. Average and ugly people can be trash too. It's really damn hard to find a decent person these days. Not to mention the guy I was talking about lied to me. We'd been talking for about a week I didn't know he'd been with that many women ok. He's not even extremely drop dead handsome y'all need to stop with this bs and assuming only the extremely attractive people act like that.
Sounds like you’re leaving the part out about how you want a guy who all the other girls are attracted to.
Just lower your standards. Most guys are virgins until 30 yet you want chad.
@@ducksquidbat8315 oooo I love it when people assume that crap. First off I didn't know he'd been sleeping around with women he lied to me secondly most of the men I dated have been average compared to what people considered atractive most of my ex have been a little chubby. People don't relize the average person and ugly person even can be trash as well.
@@ducksquidbat8315 and no that's not true I've yet to meet a virgin we don't exactly have lookers here but the woman just kinda throw themselves out at them so there's that. Maybe don't judge a stranger you don't know my story and you haven't walked in my damn shoes.
@@ducksquidbat8315 I really don't give a damn about the virgin part eaither I just want to be fucking treated well and I'm tierd of this judgemental assuming shit society. Most people don't find me attractive maybe you should tell your fellow men to lower their standards. Fair is fair right.
04:15 She matched with Leonardo Dicaprio.
Thanks for another great video Miss Charlotte!
Hi Charlotte, I don't comment on most things but I LOVE your channel! Your videos make me laugh when I've had a hard day! Keep them coming.....! :)
Who's gonna tell Jonathan that slavery was abolished and we're in the 21st century not the 1500s
I’ll tell him but I doubt it’ll register.
Back when I was younger and dumber and spend time on dating sites.
The one word answer thing was the most annoying thing ever.
And it was like 90% of people did it, even people who did it, complained about people doing it to them.
If you have no interest in talking to someone in general, why are you on here. there is no way to get to know if something could lead anywhere if you do not say more than one word.
And if you think I am a waste of your time, then sure.. fair.. - Say that. It's much easier than saying.. " No, no.. I really want to talk, just like you know " and then never say anything, and only answer in one word replies.
I really do not miss that one bit.
Okay but some people are introverts and not talkative until they get to know you
@@stacydetwiler1475 But how will you ever get to know anyone, if you do not talk to them? One person talking is not making anyone know anyone.
I do get what you are saying. I am a introvert.
But I dont buy the excuse in this case. Because its not what its about when people just give nothing back in a conversation. On text, so its not like being nervous. Its just about not wanting to give anything back into the conversation, but expecting something from it.
There is no "until they get to know you" if they do not try anything at all to get to know one.
Hardcore channeling Drew vibes in that last bit 👏👏
That one about 3:30am..the OTHER person sent the message FIRST xD Which makes it even funnier.
There is definitely entitlement with both men and women. I see it as people are inherently selfish and want the best for themselves. There is a lot of fool's gold out there! But there's also real gold out there, and those are the people who are more open minded and realistic to their standards. Unfortunately dating apps are full of fool's gold so good luck with discerning who's real and who's not on there. Generally the "hey wyd" club are the fool's club.
And romance scams.
I’m guilty of something. I once created a fake dating profile as kind of an experiment. I described myself as looking for someone looking for incredibly low standards. She would’ve been the perfect match for Jonathan31. The response was UNBELIEVABLE! Nearly 100 responses. Maybe IATA for doing it, but it was quite entertaining.
Hey gorgeous!! Love waking up to see you've posted a new video!!
This video makes me glad I’m single 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ❤️ you Charlotte!
To the dude that claims women wouldn't date a carpenter. I absolutely would, pun not intended. Get me a good carpenter that could build a house and furniture and I am happy. Women want security and a guy that is able to build is security.
honestly men can be way over entilted when it comes to what they gain in relationships and such. There's a pattern of men (well toxic men) choosing more impressionable young partners that haven't wised up to bullshit yet. Maybe I'm doing something wrong but my expectations have shifted to- Just treat me with actual wholesome love and respect and be my partner and a good communicator. A lot of people would be kicked off just the list just for that important yet basic standard.
Same, infact I need to heal from all the crap I've been delt. Then those are my only requirements lol just respect really
And woman aren't that way???
There's plenty of entitled men AND entitled woman on this planet. Unfortunately most of the woman who are that way appear to blindly, hypocritically call out the men like that without any self-examination beforehand. "Toxicity" exists every bit as much or more on the female side of the aisle.
@@staceyschmidt3149 anyone can be entitled. The patterns of relationships are often based on the husband's choices and goals. It's not the status quo as much anymore. Just feels like women have to jump through various layers and hoops to get respect. And one mistake can belittle them for longer. A woman's nude leaks? She gets criticized for having it accessible instead of the person who leaked it.
Generally, men get away with more and ask way more. Women aren't really taught enough to have a voice and put her foot down until it's past the breaking point.
Bitchy and entitled women may happen, but there are plenty of women who decided to not give a F anymore for others.
Oh, Charlotte, you are still the best. This was so funny.
Also “Uber eats for ****” I cannot!!! 😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️ ICON!!!! Xxx
As a non-straight person it has always seemed strange to me how there are so many straight men who seem to be looking for a mother to feed them and keep their house clean, but also younger and more beautiful than them.
I guess it's a cultural thing.
Meanwhile, there are women looking for a daddy to pay for everything, baby them and treat them like the incompetent toddlers that they are.
How is sexual orientation even remotely relevant?
@@-Devy- Because I have only seen that behavior in heterosexual men towards women.
Obviously it's not something that happens with all straight men. Nor does it mean that all non-heterosexual person will never look for a partner who will support them like a parent would for a child.
Simply this behavior of looking for a partner with all these requirements is strangely common in heterosexual men.
@@valpet4944 You have 🍵 today.
@@valpet4944 i call BS, i've met a FEW gay men that acted the way you described so please STFU and trying to turn this into a gay vs hetero thing.