I WAS A VIRGIN ON MY WEDDING NIGHT

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2020
  • Hey guys! I really hope that you enjoy this video. I don't know why I'm just now sharing my story but, here it is. I pray that I come off as loving and inspiring for every one of you that watch it. Feel free to leave questions for me in the comments Also, let me know what you'd like to see as a follow up to this video.
    I'm also very saddened by the quality of this video..the content is way better lol.
    Follow me on the gram & friend me on Facebook :)
    @adiamondstarks

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  • @patr9117
    @patr9117 3 роки тому +127

    Great insight I'm 29......30!😊and a virgin my story is quite different I didn't know God growing up, I was exposed to a lot and later on in life I started to search for God. I found him along the way and every thing became clear to me and now I know he has a beautiful life planned just for me and not of this world. So thank you for sharing your testimony and to those who might be in their late 20s early 30s we are still worth the wait! 😊🙏🏾

    • @adiamondstarks
      @adiamondstarks  2 роки тому +5

      Amen sis! Thank you for watching.🤍

    • @sheilahbabirye3847
      @sheilahbabirye3847 Рік тому

      WE have a similar story

    • @MusedDiaries
      @MusedDiaries 6 місяців тому

      Turned 30 in November and I’m still waiting for marriage. It’s nice to know that I’m not alone.

  • @gertrudeowusu-agyei5300
    @gertrudeowusu-agyei5300 3 роки тому +35

    The Bible is still the Bible sis!💯👏

  • @InspiredUno
    @InspiredUno 3 роки тому +39

    Beautiful!!!! You are the fruit of godly parents, it just radiates all over you!!! You have encouraged me sis!!!! I pray that you get women and girls find your channel to see you can be fly, saved, and truly dedicated to walking in the royalty God has created us to be as His daughters.

  • @kennadydunn
    @kennadydunn 3 роки тому +79

    I’m waiting till marriage, but it’s so hard. Nobody really talks about how difficult it is but I believe the fight is worth it.

    • @NarutoUzumaki-xg9et
      @NarutoUzumaki-xg9et 2 роки тому +5

      rooting for you 💪🏾

    • @audienceofone9842
      @audienceofone9842 2 роки тому +5

      You can do it Baby Sis!
      I’ll hear your testimony same way.

    • @toomuchtruth
      @toomuchtruth 2 роки тому +11

      Keep up the good fight! Remaining a virgin makes you 100x more desirable to a man who's actually looking for a WIFE, rather than just a body to use. There's NOTHING more valuable to a man than virginity in a woman. It massively increases your chances of having a successful marriage. Blessings.

    • @NarutoUzumaki-xg9et
      @NarutoUzumaki-xg9et 2 роки тому +5

      @@toomuchtruth I heavily echo his statement. You are doing yourself a MASSIVE favor. Your future self will thank you!

    • @kennadydunn
      @kennadydunn 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you to everybody for all the encouragement under this comment 🙏🏿❤️

  • @azilebooi1448
    @azilebooi1448 3 роки тому +39

    Such an inspiration cause many people think that I'm crazy when I say I want to remain pure until my wedding night.. I just hope I find someone who is God fearing and faithful.

  • @eternalvoicehannah
    @eternalvoicehannah 3 роки тому +20

    This video is a blessing because I needed to find someone telling her own story. I'm encouraged to wait till marriage, it's never easy if almost all men aren't virgin nowadays. But I believe the right one for me will surely come one day

  • @Jojoyou628
    @Jojoyou628 3 роки тому +12

    Only a strong, real and Godly man will know the value of such a woman.

  • @joycefoguen5162
    @joycefoguen5162 3 роки тому +35

    Hi sis Adiamond, thank you for this video. It s a blessing and an encouragement to me. I m a 24 year old virgin and in love with Christ. For all of you who are virgins and christians , may God continue to help us walk in his ways for his glory. For you who aren’t married but not virgins , if you’re a christian, I want to tell you that virginity is good but it is not our value as Christians. Many Christians who aren’t virgins anymore have some feelings of not being good enough or feelings of being a second class Christian. I just want you to know you are so worthy whether you are a virgin or not because Christ died for you and that s your price. To the unmarried Christians and non virgins please remember, your worth is the life of a diety( Our Lord and savior Jesus Christ). That s your worth. May the Lord bless you all.

  • @lottopink
    @lottopink 3 роки тому +25

    You are so beautiful girl inside & out. I’m grooming my daughters to be the same way & have God in their hearts. I didn’t save myself, but I know they will do & be better than me in Jesus name ♥️

  • @albertrobinson4133
    @albertrobinson4133 3 роки тому +2

    The broad and narrow paths are very real it’s so hard trying to stay on the narrow path because the devil is so busy but your YT channel encourages me and gives me hope that god still has women of faith out here thank you so much for being an inspiration god bless you and your beautiful marriage

  • @BEAUTYFUL18
    @BEAUTYFUL18 2 роки тому +20

    I WANT EVERYONE TO HEAR THIS. IM MARRIED BUT WAS NOT A VIRGIN I HAD 2 SEXUAL PARTNERS IN WHOLE LIFE BEFORE HUSBAND BUT....I LOST MY VIRGINITY TO MY GRANDFATHER WHO WAS AND STILL IS A PREACHER WHO TO THIS DAY ACT LIKE IT NEVER HAPPENED. I GREW UP IN A ALL CHRISTIAN UPBRINGING AND THAT HAPPENS AT 9 YEARS OLD...BUT IT HAS NEVER MADE ME STRAY AWAY FROM GOD I GOT MY OWN RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM WITHOUT MY GRANDFATHER.I SAY ALL THAT TO SAY THIS JUST BECUASE YOU COME FROM A CHRISTIAN UP BRINGING STUFF HAPPENS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS THAT SOCIETY DONT SEE.I FEEL SAVING YOUR SELF FOR MARRIAGE IS WONDERFUL.BUT WHAT IF THAT CHOICE WAS TAKEN.

    • @cloverscactus4796
      @cloverscactus4796 2 роки тому +3

      Thank you for sharing because this is unfortunately something that's so prevalent in the church and gets oftentimes ignored. But it's really inspiring how you grew your relationship with Christ despite it all and it's a great reminder that God accepts you as you come and knows your heart, and there's redemption for all, virgins, non virgins etc.

    • @shirah528
      @shirah528 2 роки тому

      Omg. I’m sorry that happened to you. I honestly thought I misread that sentence… You were raped at 9 years old??

    • @adiamondstarks
      @adiamondstarks  2 роки тому +9

      I’m so sorry this happened to you. If that choice was taken from you, God sees your innocence. I pray that complete healing and justice will come from this situation. Have you shared this with anyone that can help something be done about your situation? Feel free to reach out to me on IG. @adiamomdstarks

    • @kanyisoncapai8378
      @kanyisoncapai8378 Рік тому +3

      I'm so sorry my sister.

    • @thulisilengwenya711
      @thulisilengwenya711 Рік тому +2

      And it's not your fault that the choice was taken 😐.... Thank you for sharing ur story with us ❤️

  • @munachimsonwufo708
    @munachimsonwufo708 3 роки тому +2

    This was really beautiful
    God bless you for this❤️

  • @maronreigns4033
    @maronreigns4033 Рік тому +5

    22 and half. Still virgin . It's more innocent 😇 until the right time which is marriage

    • @vincemusic3333
      @vincemusic3333 Рік тому

      I'm waiting for marriage too, I'm thinking I might make a video and talk about it, lol

  • @misss7758
    @misss7758 3 роки тому +23

    Virgin at 20. Married at 20. Is that waiting really. I am 45 a virgin and no man in sight. That's what you call waiting. You were lucky as hell.

    • @onyemaechichibuogwu1793
      @onyemaechichibuogwu1793 3 роки тому +7

      Any age is waiting as long as you are waiting in holiness through faith in Jesus Christ Crucified (Isaiah 40:31). I cannot agree with you on the fact of being 45 *without any man ever asking you about friendship, relationship and marriage*, you can only say *that you were not conscious about mens' interest in your life at your growing up years* unless you are residing in an environment where men do not exist. However at 45 you can pray and ask Jesus Christ Crucified to lead you into His perfect-will for marriage in your life while at the same time bearing in mind that *marriage is not a compulsion or prerequisite for all human beings or for gaining eternal life in Heaven* (Matthew 19:10-12). For Christians, we *are COMPLETE in Christ Jesus Crucified who is the head of all principalities and powers* " (Colossians 2:10) not by *being married or just being a mere virgin*. Great Grace Brethren!!!

    • @Concept_mamii
      @Concept_mamii 2 роки тому +1

      😹😹😹😹😹😹😹

  • @Bella_M26
    @Bella_M26 3 роки тому +2

    Accountability is everything! ❤️

  • @vitalinadombrovska5714
    @vitalinadombrovska5714 Рік тому +5

    Lady, you were 20! It's totally normal that you were a virgin. And lucky you you met your hubby early enough 😊😊

  • @2mchjoy103
    @2mchjoy103 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing!! 🙌🏼❤️ God bless

  • @Highly_Favoured99
    @Highly_Favoured99 3 роки тому +3

    I'm grateful for this video. I'm also bent on helping myself till marriage too. Thanks for talking about the shows,I think I needed the truth rubbed in my face. I must stop and watch beneficial stuff. I love you gurl❤️🇬🇭

    • @cordneybrucenimoh615
      @cordneybrucenimoh615 2 роки тому +1

      Hello , I'm also a Ghanaian and on the waiting journey...I would like us to be friends since we are on the same journey....hope to hear a positive response

  • @elroco4827
    @elroco4827 Рік тому

    I'm so happy to hear this. This is beautiful to me. Only few women can say this. Blessings to you and your husband.

  • @yarekim5932
    @yarekim5932 3 роки тому +12

    Best Advice! I was a virgin until 20 myself, I wish I had waited.

  • @jewelamani7971
    @jewelamani7971 3 роки тому +4

    You are beautiful 😍. I love your message and your make up girly.

  • @tokolohomusa7645
    @tokolohomusa7645 2 роки тому

    So inspirational❤️

  • @kamilaariasss
    @kamilaariasss 3 роки тому +3

    So good!!! I love this

  • @jamesjohnson7698
    @jamesjohnson7698 2 роки тому

    I pray there's more of you out there.

  • @chaquiseedwards
    @chaquiseedwards 8 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful love it …. 🙌🏽😭

  • @frankschattner7640
    @frankschattner7640 3 роки тому +4

    Amazingly beautiful woman, inside and out.

  • @elizabethobeng6868
    @elizabethobeng6868 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing dear.

  • @wellsaid7192
    @wellsaid7192 3 роки тому

    Well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @darkbeauty8990
    @darkbeauty8990 3 роки тому +1

    that’s beautiful! it’s still obtainable! i could of done it

  • @briann5001
    @briann5001 Рік тому

    That was beautiful and the way it was supposed to be done. If you had waited till 30, it would have been harder, translation, you guys did it right by getting married young.

  • @thisiscowanmedia
    @thisiscowanmedia 10 місяців тому

    I love this.

  • @sheilahbabirye3847
    @sheilahbabirye3847 Рік тому

    its really hard but i believe that the fight is worth... not giving up though. 24 now. By Gods Grace

  • @sarponzysdiary5610
    @sarponzysdiary5610 9 місяців тому +2

    Hmmmm, I Kno it's actually worth the wait but No one talks about how tough it is while waiting hmm, especially when you are in a relationship where your partner doesn't have that mentality, it's really difficult

  • @tickedoffnow
    @tickedoffnow 2 роки тому +7

    I was raised agnostic and was traumatized by the medias views on sex
    I'm still scared of sex but now I actually wanna do it with the right man
    I'm a 29 year old virgin and I plan on staying celibate/a virgin until I find the right man

  • @dannyphantom3090
    @dannyphantom3090 6 місяців тому +1

    Huh your so lucky to meet your guy so early I'm 21 and waiting is so hard like I definitely want to wait til my wedding night because thats how god imtended but i wish he would just make her appear right now.

  • @zeerecaps
    @zeerecaps 2 роки тому

    girl you just telling me everything i did say and ,,, um still trying straggling to save ma self till marriage ,,,,

  • @louisesimone1
    @louisesimone1 3 роки тому +3

    Hey, I was wondering do you think god brought you and your husband together and did god lay this on your heart before you met him?

  • @oneloveoneheart9075
    @oneloveoneheart9075 3 роки тому

    This is so on time ♥️🙏🏾💜

  • @Fashion_With_Tamyia
    @Fashion_With_Tamyia 3 роки тому +1

    ♥️

  • @LZE-12
    @LZE-12 3 роки тому +2

    I've just recently went back to church and when I left I did some things and I have kids now. My biggest fear is that my husband is saving himself and I'm tainted. 😣

    • @joycefoguen5162
      @joycefoguen5162 3 роки тому +6

      Hi my lady, indeed you have already won. I hope you will go to the cross in prayer and let go of the guilt. Virginity is good but God s heart for us( his daughters) is so much more than whether we act perfectly or not. While we were still sinners Christ died for us. Please , walk in confidence because when we repent of our sins, we are renewed in God s sight.I pray for you that God gives you a husband who will love and respect you, someone who will see you as pure as God does.

    • @LZE-12
      @LZE-12 3 роки тому

      @@joycefoguen5162 Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @dud3man6969
    @dud3man6969 3 роки тому +16

    There needs to be a virgin only dating site.

  • @agslxdz2953
    @agslxdz2953 3 роки тому +4

    who disliked a vid like this

  • @AmberDennis001
    @AmberDennis001 2 роки тому +1

    I just turned 28 and am still a virgin, starting to doubt if God will ever bless me. Scared to still be 35, a virgin, and with no ring. Sounds depressing.

  • @lightraveler333
    @lightraveler333 3 роки тому +1

    I was 20 as well!!!!😊
    My sister's, one who is one yr. younger and the other is two yrs older were fast lol but I was just really kiddie until I was in my 20s so It wasn't even like a struggle to keep my virginity I just wasn't interested And even when I did I just wanted to see what the hype was 🤷🏾‍♀️ I felt so lame and different. My peers teased me, But like you I wish I had just waited until marriage🤦🏾‍♀️
    However I'm 39 and never yet been married which means I would've been a 39 y/o virgin😬

    • @shirah528
      @shirah528 2 роки тому

      That’s what I’m afraid of lmao it’s like you never know if you will even get married…. I’ll be 22 this year and it’s so hard to wait

  • @senceriacruse4943
    @senceriacruse4943 3 роки тому

    I miss seeing your videos!

  • @marct7234
    @marct7234 2 роки тому

    10:04 Disney, does have a lot of bad subliminal messages, especially towards children, you should go find this out. Imagine if a child is not brought up in the way of God, and watches those shows and cartoons, and in many different scenarios.

  • @AmberDennis001
    @AmberDennis001 2 роки тому +4

    I am 27 and still a virgin. It's getting hard

    • @adiamondstarks
      @adiamondstarks  2 роки тому

      Hey Amber! Would love to chat. Are you on IG? Send me a DM. Or email adiamondstarks@gmail.com

    • @Brandpeople
      @Brandpeople 2 роки тому +3

      hello amber don't give up the fight stay strong, encouraged and pray. Iam a man and also waiting till i marry to be intimate with just 1 beautiful girl.

    • @thulisilengwenya711
      @thulisilengwenya711 Рік тому +1

      Stay strong 💪u are not alone

  • @BrotherNick777
    @BrotherNick777 Рік тому

    HalaluYAH!

  • @TjRizzles09
    @TjRizzles09 3 роки тому +1

    ❤️