Our Wedding Night Experience As Virgins // What YouTubers Don't Tell You

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  • Опубліковано 29 жов 2020
  • Hey Stalwart Fam,
    Finally, we have it for you, our thrilling gist on how we did it for the first time as virgins. Have fun watching.
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  • @TheStalwartLovers
    @TheStalwartLovers  3 роки тому +1306

    Hope you enjoyed the video 😍😅... Share! Share!! Share!!! Help us get this video everywhere 🙏🏽 let's grow our stalwart family ☺️😄😁

    • @adaramajaomotolani8104
      @adaramajaomotolani8104 2 роки тому +30

      It’s the scriptural references for me😀😀
      Much love for you guys from here🥰

    • @leahkiratu8900
      @leahkiratu8900 2 роки тому +1

      9o I'm okloo I'll look î I'll oo lol I'll l9o lokook I'l klo9kl I'll kill

    • @Aysquare
      @Aysquare 2 роки тому +9

      @@wakeup857 WAKE UP AND KEEP QUIET, IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANY POSITIVE THING TO SAY

    • @augustaofori1754
      @augustaofori1754 2 роки тому +2

      We are really growing stalwart fam... the views are blowing wow 👏😍😳

    • @Pst.nancy.n7092
      @Pst.nancy.n7092 2 роки тому +11

      The beauty of waiting 😍

  • @saintraphael94
    @saintraphael94 2 роки тому +2784

    I find bliss when I listen to stories like this. I'm 27, virgin, single and searching. If you are reading this, be not ignorant of the truth that we still have Christian men who uphold purity and purpose in a world that tells them to do otherwise. Even as an advocate, it's a battlefield out here considering the events that we see and here every blessed day. Hitherto, it has been the grace of God!!

    • @natureworld295
      @natureworld295 2 роки тому +19

      Hi , can I have your whatsapp number .

    • @thedietdiary
      @thedietdiary 2 роки тому +197

      There are non Christians that are virgins because they chose to keep themselves. It not particularly a Christians thing. It is morally right.

    • @thedietdiary
      @thedietdiary 2 роки тому +12

      @@natureworld295 😶😶

    • @nomkhosibiyela5131
      @nomkhosibiyela5131 2 роки тому +3

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @maggief1851
      @maggief1851 2 роки тому +64

      I'm the same, I am 25 stories like this give me hope.

  • @TronoMusiKafe
    @TronoMusiKafe Рік тому +260

    Wow! My wife and I had this same experience 11 years ago. We couldn't breakthrough until the 2nd day and we are happy and so proud to start our sex life as newbies ( virgins). Young people don't be deceived by lies going out there that being a virgin is outdated. It is a noble thing to keep yourselves till you are married. We did it, the Stalwart did it and many are still getting married as virgins, so join us to have such a good testimony.

  • @joyjohn5117
    @joyjohn5117 2 роки тому +193

    No shame, no guilt, that's the beauty of waiting 😍😍.
    I'm 27 years still a virgin..
    No regrets what so ever..
    like I'm so proud of myself, in our world were premarital sex has become a norm, God has helped me to hold on to sexual purity 😍.
    My mum have birth to 3 of us all girls, my elder sister got married as a virgin, in fact her hubby threw a party literally..
    I and my younger sister are still virgins..
    I'm greatful to God for giving me godly parents who trained us in the way of the Lord. To God be the glory..

    • @yomide_naturals
      @yomide_naturals Рік тому +4

      Awwwnnnn that's sweet 🥰🥰

    • @Pinkiebabe
      @Pinkiebabe 25 днів тому

      I’m 25 and still a virgin ❤❤❤

    • @user-xi7zf5kh7s
      @user-xi7zf5kh7s 12 днів тому +1

      I tap grace to be a virgin before marriage for all my children in Jesus name and so shall it be. Amen

  • @dominicdestiny2914
    @dominicdestiny2914 2 роки тому +264

    I'm 20 still a virgin and am being pressured by friends, almost giving in, until I saw this video,am so encouraged Love you guys ♥️♥️♥️

  • @joshuaadesina5466
    @joshuaadesina5466 2 роки тому +1821

    I'm a virgin at 29, and my generation is so messed up that everyday I feel very odd. But watching this video literally warmed my heart, you can't understand how it feels. God bless you both and God bless your marriage!

    • @appituguemi
      @appituguemi 2 роки тому +102

      Same here o..
      26yrs.. and people keep trying to make me feel odd for keeping it.. God will keep strengthening us till we meet our partners.🙏🙏

    • @patiencenimmoh3956
      @patiencenimmoh3956 2 роки тому +71

      At 24 and still waiting. I don't care how people will take it but yeah irriz what irriz...... I know and I can't to meet with him

    • @vcj8096
      @vcj8096 2 роки тому +50

      You have a cloud of witness cheering you on. We did it and yes you can. It's worth the joy and respect you feel for yourself throughout life. It's one of the best thing that happened to me beside salvation experience.

    • @ogbonnayaphilomina9270
      @ogbonnayaphilomina9270 2 роки тому +67

      Please don't feel odd, even though the world makes us feel odd.
      I am 27 and waiting for that night.

    • @likejesushere
      @likejesushere 2 роки тому +76

      I’m 28, and I’m a virgin! Whoop! Whoop!!! 🙌🏼😊

  • @patiencemwine4420
    @patiencemwine4420 Місяць тому +129

    I don't know how I bumped on this 10 years after our marriage. Hehe. We were virgins too at 26 both of us. 1st night, things didn't work out. 2nd day. No progress. 3 Rd day we tried again. It was during day. I clenched my teeth and allowed him to press several time. I was determined to have a break through. It was the most painful experience ever. After that. I cried but tried to be strong, there was too much fire. My hubby ran to the pharmacy and he brought pain killers. Hehe Tramadol. He was shaking and didn't know what to do. The Pharmacy person calmed him down. Unfortunately the Tramadol made me vomit non stop. I was like have I become pregnant😂😂 hehehe. With all the medical knowledge I had, we were confused. I actually remember we bought a pregnancy test kit which was negative of course. Oh my God, what an experience. I encourage.all young people to wait. Later on we went for our actual honeymoon. Every time I remember the experience, I laugh. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @mariammapunda5831
      @mariammapunda5831 Місяць тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @NateTheGreat265
      @NateTheGreat265 Місяць тому +1

      😂😂😂That's hilarious

    • @emmadora7848
      @emmadora7848 24 дні тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Chxzzy101
      @Chxzzy101 15 днів тому +2

      Maybe you had vaginismus because before sex foreplay comes first to relax both you and your partner. But vaginismus it goes beyond foreplay

    • @joyceogwe3272
      @joyceogwe3272 12 днів тому

      After reading this, I literally had to scroll back up again to check your name so I could have a good laugh! 😂😂

  • @oluyemiblessing2646
    @oluyemiblessing2646 2 роки тому +503

    I will be 22 this year and I’m still a virgin. Listening to this makes me feel so good and with God by my side,I promise to keep myself till marriage
    I pray to come back here,years after to tell you that I actually kept myself till marriage 🥳🥳🥳

    • @aminajenny7868
      @aminajenny7868 2 роки тому +3

      How are you doing my princess?
      I'm a mum of a handsome young man looking for a virgin daughter with a good upbringing good character for my son, age between 19-22.
      If you're still interested let me know
      Thanks

    • @nnekafavour1491
      @nnekafavour1491 2 роки тому +23

      Yes it gives you confidence. I was 28 when I got married and was a virgin. I never regret it till today am still cherished

    • @oluyemiblessing2646
      @oluyemiblessing2646 2 роки тому +5

      @@nnekafavour1491 thanks for this ma’am. God bless you home in jesus name

    • @PRAISEINSPIRES
      @PRAISEINSPIRES 2 роки тому +31

      You don't keep your self for marriage... You keep yourself beacause God said it... Holiness is for God not for a husband.

    • @oluyemiblessing2646
      @oluyemiblessing2646 2 роки тому +2

      @@PRAISEINSPIRES true. Thanks for this sir

  • @royalprince9965
    @royalprince9965 2 роки тому +889

    Ma guy you're a great story teller. Talking about sex in such a clean and hilarious way. You're smart.

    • @dorcasifeoluwakiitan7990
      @dorcasifeoluwakiitan7990 2 роки тому +15

      As in ehnn😀....I still don't understand how I manage to understand everything

    • @WILMA_
      @WILMA_ 2 роки тому +15

      I truly cannot listen to what he is talking about without loving this dude! “Sister was in pain but I was still STANDING”! I love this couple!!!

    • @preciouschisom9582
      @preciouschisom9582 2 роки тому +6

      As in eh!😂
      Laughed all through the video.
      Funny enough, I understood all the slangs used here.😂

    • @brightbutipemmanuel881
      @brightbutipemmanuel881 2 роки тому +4

      When he said “get through dz door today”i lost it 😂🤣🤣like wtf bro

    • @marel2575
      @marel2575 2 роки тому

      That is ur problem. When someone lies easy to know. U can't just understand

  • @alenielizabeth8942
    @alenielizabeth8942 2 роки тому +454

    No shame, No guilt!.
    Thats the beauty of waiting.
    God bless you both.

  • @ogalaali4439
    @ogalaali4439 Місяць тому +51

    Im glad to see that so many are virgins from the comments. The devil wants us to believe that everybody is doing it and if you're not, then you're odd. Love you guys. Hope the passion is still there 3 years later

  • @debbieadeoye
    @debbieadeoye 2 роки тому +311

    It’s the honesty & openness for me. Thank you for openly and boldly showing the world that sexual purity is still of great value🧡

    • @BEE_Hall_
      @BEE_Hall_ 2 роки тому +1

      Amen 33 years old going on 34 I wish I waited.

  • @jakarahporter
    @jakarahporter 2 роки тому +406

    The transparency, modesty, and HUMOR exuded in this video is priceless! You two are a beautiful couple. Blessings and favor on your God ordained marriage.❤️❤️❤️

    • @khonkhosilelihle7414
      @khonkhosilelihle7414 2 роки тому +5

      True ey. I'm loving the video.

    • @princesscauldwell7311
      @princesscauldwell7311 2 роки тому +6

      Omg its so good to hear young people speak about sex the way you both speak, I had hope I waited bcaz am 40years old and still not married I was in the church and came out I regret the decision I have made,nevertheless I will return to serving God hope to find a God husband and we both served God

    • @yemi5193
      @yemi5193 2 роки тому +2

      I’m loving their content. They have similar attributes ie humour, beautiful smile, intelligence amidst many beautiful attributes they display on their channel. Keel up the good work

    • @faithFul_nheeKie
      @faithFul_nheeKie 2 роки тому +1

      @@princesscauldwell7311 God will perfect it, just keep trusting in HIM

  • @anaskawsar1701
    @anaskawsar1701 2 роки тому +742

    This is my first time here. I love u guys. I’m a virgin and a Muslim. This video has taught a lot. I think there’s beauty in waiting and being patient. May the lord help us through.

  • @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman
    @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman Рік тому +107

    I came across this video over a year ago and added it to my watchlist but never watched until now. I am not a virgin, but I’ve been abstinent over 7 years and I always joke about how I’m gonna feel like one again once I get married lol… I love how DETAILED yall were. I literally had flashbacks to my first time 🥴 The difference is that you both did it God‘s way and your story was beautiful and very entertaining. I can see the love between you two ❤️

    • @giftnwosu5931
      @giftnwosu5931 3 місяці тому +1

      But are you going to feel like it's a first time again??

    • @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman
      @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman 3 місяці тому +1

      @@giftnwosu5931 Are you a woman or a man? Have you had sex before? If you haven’t, I understand how you may not know this answer. Just to give you some context… The vagina is elastic; think of a rubber band. It is small, but stretches enough for a newborn baby to pass through during childbirth. After time passes, the vagina shrinks back to its normal size. I have a friend who is married, and she was abstinent for 7 years by the time she met and married her husband. She was married prior to that for almost 20 years and she has three grown children. On her wedding night she felt like she was having sex for the very first time because of the amount of time that had passed. So to answer your question, yes, physically it can feel like the first time again.

    • @manuella5177
      @manuella5177 3 місяці тому +27

      No she won't but will have an inner peace because she did the right thing by abstaining. It's easy to stay a virgin when you are a real virgin, but for someone who has done it before to abstain for 7 years is a real deal....she tried

  • @princesslaari8681
    @princesslaari8681 2 роки тому +94

    I am 18 turning 19 this Yr n still a virgin. I don't understand the world nowadays young people who break their virginity think that because they were not able to keep them selves they think its not possible for others, thats y I don't explain my self when people tell me I am lieing cos God knows the truth n that is the most important thing. I pray I will be able to keep it till I get married 🙏 💯 thanks for sharing 👍 I am happy, someone actually told me that it was not worth keeping it n I should just break it cos people will make fun of me if they find out, but still I know he is just part of the devil's temptation 😊 pls God give me the strength to overcome amen 🙏

    • @temmy_jay
      @temmy_jay Місяць тому +6

      Amen,the Lord will give you the strength to overcome as He gave me till I got married over ten years ago as a virgin, I now have four wonderful boys. Please speaking from experience, never over trust yourself to play near what you don't want. Kissing and romancing are not healthy either. Ensure you have measures to prevent premarital sex intentionally. God bless you dear.

    • @Ik-ea-de
      @Ik-ea-de Місяць тому +8

      You need, as a matter of safety, to stop trying to convince people and don't share this private information with just anybody.
      The world is wicked.

    • @ukonzeogochukwu8768
      @ukonzeogochukwu8768 Місяць тому

      ​@@temmy_jay God bless you ma

    • @ukonzeogochukwu8768
      @ukonzeogochukwu8768 Місяць тому

      ​@@Ik-ea-deGod bless you

    • @samuelidakwo2521
      @samuelidakwo2521 Місяць тому

      Stop telling people, whenever the discussion comes up just be quiet or excuse yourself
      It's not everyone that have to know you're a virgin

  • @faith_ibings
    @faith_ibings 2 роки тому +432

    We didn't try on our wedding night as we had to travel down the next day, as soon as we got to hubby base, we tried and tried, I cried at some point too, infact I formed tired at some point like whenever hubby is making the move, I get scared, thank God hubby was calm and gentle with me. Hubby fingers worked the magic too, the veil was torn after the 3rd day (the blood encouraged us too) and on the 6th day, we got to Jerusalem. Glory 💃💃💃💃💃 #2weeks of marriage today

  • @kennedykoweshunjnr8534
    @kennedykoweshunjnr8534 2 роки тому +385

    I'm so encouraged! Sometimes if feels like we're stupid to be virgins. This is encouraging. God bless you

    • @monicaruby8888
      @monicaruby8888 2 роки тому +11

      You're definitely not stupid, stay strong, keep the faith, hold onto God's word, and wait until you're married! :-)

    • @ob_isaiah
      @ob_isaiah 2 роки тому +18

      I'm 32 and a virgin. I'm ever proud and rather than let others shame me, I pose a challenge to them

    • @notella_ng
      @notella_ng 2 роки тому +5

      You're not stupid. You're in fact more sensible than them. It takes a wise man/woman to know the dangers of premarital sex. And it takes a brave and disciplined person to hold his/her grounds on being a virgin. God bless you and continue to give you the strength not to fall into lustful temptations

    • @ScissorN
      @ScissorN 2 роки тому

      Ya we are stupid

    • @esperanzawanjiru2435
      @esperanzawanjiru2435 2 роки тому +4

      Only Gods opinion matters imagine. Nobody else matters

  • @rehemamiriam588
    @rehemamiriam588 Рік тому +84

    No shame no guilt. It pays to wait. I love this couple. From Kenya🇰🇪

  • @happyseth9673
    @happyseth9673 2 роки тому +43

    I just turned 28 this April and still a virgin, am proud of myself after hearing you people , sometimes I get tire of waiting and wanted to give it out but thanks to God my friends advise am strong,

  • @giftij
    @giftij 2 роки тому +224

    Nice to see people who still have my "oldskul' mentality in a world where premarital sex is so normalised

    • @summera4019
      @summera4019 2 роки тому +2

      @@Prettyscorp80 lol 😂 you should probably google social construct… something being a social construct doesn’t detract from its legitimacy. calling something out as a social construct is essentially useless because if the construct is harmful it will be eradicated eventually through social progression, so there's no real need to call out its constructed-ness….. And I’m anti marriage lool.

    • @andreaa.1393
      @andreaa.1393 2 роки тому +7

      @@Prettyscorp80 it is not normal. Sexual ties are not normal

    • @margaretfoley5302
      @margaretfoley5302 2 роки тому +3

      Yes you still have plenty of people who still have that mentality and it is good to talk about it and the couple can make it work for them.

    • @esperanzawanjiru2435
      @esperanzawanjiru2435 2 роки тому +6

      true. the word of God will never change. even those fornicating know they are sinning and are insanely jealous of we virgins.

  • @irisgraham7222
    @irisgraham7222 2 роки тому +513

    This was very well done. It sounds very similar to my wedding night. My husband and I were both virgins. My husband was very patient as well. I feel better about our experience now that I have seen this. We' ve been married almost 15 years now and we are glad we waited and did it God's way. A lifetime of happiness to you both!

  • @kemiajiboye2220
    @kemiajiboye2220 2 роки тому +43

    God bless your home. I am so proud of you and your story reminds me of me about 20yrs ago. My husband was not a virgin, yet we was worried and scared that he doesn’t hurt me. We are happily married with 3 kids and still being boyfriend/girlfriend. Waiting till marriage can never be over emphasized. Keep, Keeping Faith😍

  • @thando_t1723
    @thando_t1723 Місяць тому +17

    I am 23 years old and I am wating 😊 and i will continue waiting for my God appointedhusband. Amen. I really learned a lot from your video❤

  • @sundayozioma4426
    @sundayozioma4426 2 роки тому +1648

    This video is so hilarious, I am 36 still keeping my virginity hoping that God will bless me with my own hubby one day. Happy to see people like me in this demoralized world.

    • @nkwonkechianita160
      @nkwonkechianita160 2 роки тому +86

      The God that did it for me and them will surely do yours in Jesus mighty name amen.

    • @nnamdiokwuosa9616
      @nnamdiokwuosa9616 2 роки тому +45

      The LORD strengthen you and give you the husband that you deserve.

    • @estherpedro8378
      @estherpedro8378 2 роки тому +61

      Soonest your husband will locate you! Congratulations in advance!

    • @naomimonicah2570
      @naomimonicah2570 2 роки тому +48

      😂😂very hilarious. I thought am a weird girl...At 26 keeping mine too😂😂 i honestly dread that day

    • @sundayozioma4426
      @sundayozioma4426 2 роки тому +13

      Thank you all. And I say amen to all that.

  • @vanessaenyonam6949
    @vanessaenyonam6949 2 роки тому +495

    It’s so refreshing hearing a Christian couple share a realistic story. I laughed so hard watching this 😂😂😂I also learnt a lot🤗

  • @Fendifobs
    @Fendifobs 2 роки тому +45

    Her eyes , theres something about innocence, its so visible and sweet. love you sis. So happy to hear these stories. I didnt marry a virgin but that was my dream. My husband waited though, wish that for our lil one

  • @estheramachree2829
    @estheramachree2829 Рік тому +88

    I'm 19 and I do believe in waiting till marriage but I will be honest with you I always fantasize about doing it with some random boy in school to just know how it is but discovering you guys and watching this video it just encourages me keep the veil closed and it shows me what a beautiful moment it would be to go through this with someone I love and to get through it together (the pain and anxiety) and also knowing that what I am doing is not wrong .
    Thanks.

    • @viviananku1315
      @viviananku1315 Рік тому

      Sure 👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️

    • @katherinenuel3827
      @katherinenuel3827 Рік тому

      My love keep yourself…it’s a beautiful thing

    • @SarjoJasseh
      @SarjoJasseh 4 місяці тому

      Girl I am 19 too. Respect from your future husband is worth waiting. Please never let it go

  • @deleolukotun1196
    @deleolukotun1196 2 роки тому +135

    May the Lord keep you both. You're impacting the generation of young Christians. God bless you. My marriage is 36years now and still counting. You are a blessing!

  • @eniolaadeyemi3303
    @eniolaadeyemi3303 2 роки тому +80

    You both shared your first time experience in an amazing way. These things are not mentioned in pre marriage counselling sessions. Your advice to the groom is the best part for me. Gentleness and empathy, spot on!

  • @ifynath5050
    @ifynath5050 2 роки тому +46

    It's encouraging that two people can develop a closeness that allows you to be free and open with each other even while having a non-sexual relationship. Kudos.

  • @obinechelilianchioma8636
    @obinechelilianchioma8636 2 роки тому +34

    I love this. Just came across this video. Thanks guys for lifting my spirit. I'm 35, still intact and that's my promise to God. It sounds weird especially in this our generation. Still believing God for my divine ordained husband. God bless and keep u both in Jesus name

  • @friendsofthesaviour4690
    @friendsofthesaviour4690 2 роки тому +373

    This is one of the reasons rape should carry very, very heavy penalty.

  • @DoofanHiikyaa
    @DoofanHiikyaa 2 роки тому +256

    This guy is crazy in a good way🤣 I absolutely love how he looks for ways to refer to something in scriptures! The blood paved the way🤣🤣 The lady has a lovely smile. Great job!

    • @victoriavicky5728
      @victoriavicky5728 2 роки тому +11

      Gorgeous smile! Very infectious. May God bless their beautiful union. 🥰🥳🥰

  • @irankundajacob9579
    @irankundajacob9579 2 роки тому +1

    Man I’m so glade with the information not just that but the ways y’all represented it! May Almighty Papa continue you guys and others through y’all!

  • @AudreyB_
    @AudreyB_ 2 роки тому +23

    This video just popped up in my feed and I watched. I just fell in love with you both. The way you told your story was funny and encouraging. I’m a new fan. God bless.

    • @TheStalwartLovers
      @TheStalwartLovers  2 роки тому +3

      Welcome to the family 🥰. Please watch more videos, you'd be glad. Don't forget to subscribe. We love you ❤️

  • @JesusMyIshi
    @JesusMyIshi 2 роки тому +318

    The purity of this video makes my heart smile!!!!!!! Lol May our generation go back to this. Celebrating marriage the RIGHT WAY! You guys are great. It’s sweet that you guys are being transparent like this for the sake of others. God bless your marriage. 😍💕

    • @sandraokonkwo900
      @sandraokonkwo900 Рік тому +1

      Honestly sis

    • @paulnwazor588
      @paulnwazor588 Рік тому +1

      Awesome really
      Thank God for everything. Glory to God

    • @euniceatieno-wb1uo
      @euniceatieno-wb1uo Місяць тому +1

      God bless you for waiting till marriage. It takes patient to reach that far. Blessings

  • @Moments_with_Ada
    @Moments_with_Ada 2 роки тому +170

    One thing I've come to understand is if you honour God, God will definitely honour you. I'm 24 and still a virgin...i feel honour. People keep saying is no more trendy but I smile because I know everyone feels good when they know they are the first to use a thing. My husband will be so proud of me this I know. Don't allow peer pressure push you to do what is not right. And if you have lost yours, you can still abstain and see what God will do in your life

  • @Rm-lb7ou
    @Rm-lb7ou 2 роки тому +1

    Awwwwn! My love for you guys just trippled! May God continue to keep you strong till the end of time!🙏

  • @Mariajohnson11
    @Mariajohnson11 2 роки тому +7

    Omg exactly what I needed to hear, I have being going through same excruciating pain with my husband. He has being so patient, caring and kind with me. God brought this video to me, it can only be God. All in all it’s a beautiful experience

  • @okpankunkechi1534
    @okpankunkechi1534 2 роки тому +202

    Am crying seriously, I was loosing hope for Keeping mine till now. I thought it wasn't paying off and I had made out plans to just do it. I guess God brought me to your channel to remind me that he is still God. At 35 being a virgin with the guys we have now that want to taste isn't easy. It's as if am the odd one, thank you Jesus Christ for reminding me to hold on strongly, I will experience the sweet pain on my wedding night....

    • @danielekemycin6825
      @danielekemycin6825 2 роки тому +8

      Don't give up , you own day of joyous pain is coming soon

    • @roselineonyii7892
      @roselineonyii7892 2 роки тому +4

      Keep holding on Sis,it pays .You will testify soon in Jesus name Amen

    • @ScissorN
      @ScissorN 2 роки тому +2

      😂 35 years? Im 30 but if i don't get married this year then im done with this thing

    • @Qey6723
      @Qey6723 2 роки тому +6

      Please hold on. I lost my virginity at 34 pleading to God to help me to keep my virginity- the sex was so awful and painful. I honestly was thinking sex was way better in my head then it was when I had it. It's more reasons why it turned out this way, but I was so horny and angry with my hormones that I just went out and lost it...

    • @nyashacharuza3428
      @nyashacharuza3428 2 роки тому +1

      You are not alone..our God is watching us.......sometimes it really gets tough....

  • @magdalenebahago5057
    @magdalenebahago5057 2 роки тому +265

    I feel like crying after watching this. I'm determined to keep myself even at 34. It's so difficult staying chaste because the men coming around are not willing to wait. And they're all promising. With this video, I'm bent on waiting. Thank you. Please pray for me

    • @kennyaderemi03
      @kennyaderemi03 2 роки тому +9

      Lord will keep empowering you

    • @jessicawest224
      @jessicawest224 2 роки тому +12

      More grace dearie. I also felt like no one out there can wait but I found one. He was willing to wait. He waited for about 7years and now we are beautifully married. God will bring His son your way 🙏 Stay Encouraged

    • @estherokon8312
      @estherokon8312 2 роки тому +13

      Same problem here. I am even called a pretender, a bisexual. God go help us Because the way the men of our generation cherish immorality ehhh.

    • @sarahclark8350
      @sarahclark8350 2 роки тому +7

      You’re not alone...I believe virgins are worth the wait...there are virgins much older than you my dear...”...standfast..in Christ Jesus...”

    • @v.o.n3495
      @v.o.n3495 2 роки тому +2

      The generation we are in was called ' adulterous generation! Ask GOD for more grace HE is faithful! & HE will".....keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
      (Amplified Bible) Now to Him Who is able to keep you without stumbling or slipping or falling, and to present [you] unblemished (blameless and faultless) before the presence of His glory in triumphant joy and exultation [with unspeakable, ecstatic delight]-"

  • @adeleemmanuella1394
    @adeleemmanuella1394 2 роки тому +8

    Thanks for this. I'm turning 20 and I've had Pple and friends tell me I'm just being a child when all I want is to please God and keep my promise to myself to marry as a virgin. God bless you guys for real, I feel encouraged to continue. Thanks a lot.

  • @richarddeborah3881
    @richarddeborah3881 2 роки тому +5

    Awwwwnnn watching this made me glad and i am so happy for you both.One thing i can see in this is that you both are friends and there’s love,friendship,empathy,i can see the understanding. Look at the laughter
    Infact am so happy you met each other cos indeed it’s meant to be. God presence will never depart from your home.
    I thank God for grace upon my life and my time is close

  • @sammycokere
    @sammycokere 2 роки тому +239

    Absolutely loved the video! Pheww.. this one answered my questions. Lovely. I’m 22(23 by December), virgin & proud. I can’t tell you how many times the temptations have come , but my love for God and the will to wait has helped me overcome them. Being a virgin, especially for a guy, is NOT EASY, but it can be rewarding. I get asked why I’m still a virgin, and every single time, I give one answer : I simply haven’t found the girl who deserves my body just yet. It’s not pride, it’s respecting your body. It has spiritual benefits too FYI. Still okay if you’ve already cashed in though.
    Once again, thank you guys for making this video. (I actually edited this comment to add that) you guys are so adorable together, may this union last a lifetime Amen 😊

    • @oladepotemitope5843
      @oladepotemitope5843 2 роки тому

      Wow! I can relate.
      I was not just tensed, I was afraid. The veil wasn't totally broken until few days afterwards,but it was worth the waiting!
      God bless you guys!

    • @athen4725
      @athen4725 2 роки тому

      So true. I have learnt to field virginity questions anyway

  • @kate4realus
    @kate4realus 2 роки тому +625

    I can totally relate to this.😊 My honeymoon was in a beach house just by the beach, my own kind of fairytale, but the sexy times was anything but that. We couldn't get past 'the veil', it was a terrible kind of pain everytime we got to that part, and it was like that all through the 3 nights away from home, but we kept on trying every other day, i was too tiny, at a point, i was thinking i didn't have a hole* down there. Our 1st breakthrough was 20days after (yes i was counting), it was still really painful but we got somewhere, let's just say i was sore for the 1st few months... but things got better as the days went by. I'm thankful for a patient partner, that definitely helped and i wasn't pressured. They need to teach these things at counseling o, wedding nights are usually not all that, but yeah, you have the rest of your lives together to keep stepping it up. ... I need to stop typing now.😁

    • @chizobamuomah1846
      @chizobamuomah1846 2 роки тому +22

      They really need to. So many things we didn't know. It wasn't a funny experience. For some of us it took weeks. At some point we were considering going to the hospital to know if everything was okay. Thank God for a patient and considerate husband. And even after the breakthrough, it still takes months to become enjoyable.

    • @carolinewanjera6775
      @carolinewanjera6775 2 роки тому +18

      You have described my situation fully.I thought something was wrong down there.Day 25 on a Wednesday that's when we atleast managed.I was so glad and I felt like almost an expert 🥰🥰🥰🥰😆😆

    • @ndmacokereke4154
      @ndmacokereke4154 2 роки тому +4

      Oh my God, I wish I saw this before my own experience, oh, oh, am just speechless, I saw my self crying like a baaaaabbbyyyy🤔🤔🤔

    • @cutiekay1000
      @cutiekay1000 2 роки тому +20

      Thanks for your comment. I think we need to promote more sexual purity and chasity especially in men. I wish I would have waited. May God grant you the strength to endure. Take it from me. It is worth it. Wait patiently on the Lord. Dont be or feel pressured.

    • @ifeefee6964
      @ifeefee6964 2 роки тому +13

      Thank you so much for sharing your testimony especially about a caring husband being patient with you. I am a virgin and I sometimes think about my wedding night and wonder will my husband be ok if it takes a minute and I am thankful for this video & y'all sharing your experience. It calms & encourages me!. 🥰🤗🥰🤗

  • @brendonkline596
    @brendonkline596 6 місяців тому +14

    Thank you guys for making this video. I'm 27, engaged, and getting married to the most amazing blessing of a woman I could have asked God for. This night is something I'm very anxious about because I never want to cause my wife pain. But the way you guys described this was so biblical and beautiful. Thank you. 🙏

  • @victoriaowumi3812
    @victoriaowumi3812 2 роки тому +7

    This is educating. And I love it. Thank you for sharing your personal journey and lessons with us all. A lot of lessons were learnt.
    This is what the church is shying away from. It’s hightime Christian couples (who got married with the bed undefied) teach the upcoming couples how to go about it.
    I love you guys. God bless your home Amen 🙏

  • @eleanorayanamorgan5417
    @eleanorayanamorgan5417 2 роки тому +168

    I really appreciate this lovely couple's testimony; however, I would have liked to hear more from his wife and her own words about her real experience. May God continue to bless you and your marriage.

    • @Mymamayama
      @Mymamayama 2 роки тому +12

      Lol I like this comment .. the wife needs to speak up ,beautiful couple tho!

    • @tyraannan3013
      @tyraannan3013 2 роки тому +9

      Hope he brought you the icecream 🤣🤣🤣🤣 bless you both

    • @mem3769
      @mem3769 2 роки тому +12

      She said she was in so much pain, she couldnt do it. She also said she had clothes in between her teeth like biting down to not scream out.

    • @beverleyhunter5174
      @beverleyhunter5174 2 роки тому

      This is beautiful

    • @manikasakala5866
      @manikasakala5866 Місяць тому

      me too

  • @stephthecreative6312
    @stephthecreative6312 2 роки тому +311

    I don’t even you two, but I’m so proud of you! GOD is truly going to bless your marriage for staying the course.

  • @daisyondiege6566
    @daisyondiege6566 2 роки тому +4

    Just came across this video and decided to check it out and oh my...
    Its so encouraging to hear your story and this affirms that it really is possible in such a generation to still keep the veil shut until the right time in marriage
    Hearing from you guys just made me desire even more than I already do to please God with my body by maintaining purity until the right time comes
    Baraka tele!!! (Or blessings, as we say it in Kenya🖤🖤)

  • @Crey4you
    @Crey4you 2 роки тому +2

    Lol the best conversation about this I've heard! So funny and light and real info, thanks!! God bless y'all

  • @EzekielBb
    @EzekielBb 2 роки тому +32

    The anointing broke the yoke and the blood paved the way… glory to God hallelujah 🔥😍♥️

  • @VictoriaNakaraKizer
    @VictoriaNakaraKizer 2 роки тому +35

    She is just beautiful, love her smile. Glad yall waited. Bless your union…!

  • @samsonojoawo9299
    @samsonojoawo9299 2 роки тому +16

    Quite a beautiful presentation by you guys, made me recollect similar experience my wife and I had some 19 years ago our first wedding night at Camp Young Ede Nigeria, both of us first timers too, there is dignity in waiting till the appropriate time God has designed, that pride is a strong factor keeping our love stronger by the day till this moment, we keep loving each other the more each time remember our first night and love. May God enable our younger generation to uphold the dignity of God's word, virginity, patience, godliness, and such virtues even in this end time!

  • @allyson4801
    @allyson4801 2 роки тому +2

    I love this video, thanks for sharing. It is a good resource for persons getting married to see their peers instead of listening to an old person giving advice on these matters.

  • @rchambers1993
    @rchambers1993 2 роки тому +68

    Praise God this is a beautiful example for others to learn living God's way is the best way!❤️

  • @loisleke-amoo5919
    @loisleke-amoo5919 2 роки тому +46

    I remember that I even developed a confession about it. Saying God made this and so it's beautiful! Thank you for shooting this video

  • @winniekuria3234
    @winniekuria3234 2 роки тому +167

    You just gave me the confidence to shine with my virginity in this weird generation ❤️❤️

  • @adedoyinorowee3959
    @adedoyinorowee3959 2 роки тому +17

    Wow, such a beautiful video. I remember i was a bit angry during my honeymoon that nobody told us that we should have lubricant with us, my hubby had not penetrated but the pain was bad. we could not continue even after applying olive oil that we had with us, eventually we had to go get lubricant from a pastor friend, we didn't even know where to buy one. That was 9years ago and by the way today is our anniversary. Glory to God for Christian marriages.

    • @Chxzzy101
      @Chxzzy101 15 днів тому

      Is it that you people don’t know what foreplay is? Ha!!! Foreplay alone can get you naturally lubricated. Amazing grace children 🙄🙄

  • @elyseetube
    @elyseetube 2 роки тому +75

    The way this was narrated was so beautiful. God is great, it was so refreshing to see "the Jerusalem" beeing spoken about in such a pure and beautiful way in the appropriate concept it was meant for by God

  • @JACOBAMAO-2
    @JACOBAMAO-2 2 роки тому +142

    I would like to encourage the Marriage Counselors to download this video and show it to the would be couples during their counseling sessions.
    Bravo to this Couple. May God bless your home with divine goodness 🙏

    • @jubrilsonia6152
      @jubrilsonia6152 2 роки тому +3

      Oh my goodness I just came across this video, and I must commend you two, I love you, this video made my day completely complete, May Jehovah the originator of marriage bless your home, thanks for being transparency with us in the video, your really good to imitate.

    • @balogunoluwabukola7733
      @balogunoluwabukola7733 2 роки тому

      @@jubrilsonia6152 I know you are jw...... pleased to meet you

  • @me-zp7db
    @me-zp7db 2 роки тому +53

    Finally UA-camrs that get to the point and not just say, "You'll be okay. It'll be messy but you'll know what to do." Like what do you mean I'll know??? 😭😭😭

  • @estherprecious9816
    @estherprecious9816 2 роки тому +8

    This video personally serves as an encouragement to me to keep moving and not give up. I love the originality of the video and the vibes you guys got. I had to watch it all. Not one dull moment. At the inception of the video, what came into my mind,was "what could they possibly say in a 21mins video about this?". You blew my mind beyond. Indeed, purpose matches purpose.
    And vision with vision.
    Keep the good work up. 👏

  • @UniqueFood8861
    @UniqueFood8861 2 роки тому +101

    Your story is similar to mine,though my hubby wasn't a virgin but i was at 30 years and i still remember the first night, the memory is as fresh as ever.I can't forget the pain and i hated sex too,just didn't want to do again.Just like you guys,we stopped and had to continue later but with so much pain.To worsen it,we didn't use any lubricant, i hated that night but i glad we pull through after trying and trying.And we like it now.Next month our marriage will be 10 years. It really pays to grow with the fear of God and keep one's self till Marriage. God bless your union 🙏

    • @nakiryowaclaire7264
      @nakiryowaclaire7264 Рік тому +2

      U have given me courage to stay keep my virginity till God say yes

  • @cliffidahosa
    @cliffidahosa 2 роки тому +72

    No guilt, no shame.. this is it for me. The experience for me and my wife wasn't funny cos we were on the matter for almost two weeks😃 Finally we made it and all glory to God 🙌😀. And for you both, I just love youuuu🤗🤗🤗🤗.

  • @Sarahpelz98
    @Sarahpelz98 2 роки тому +6

    It pleasing to find so many people here as virgins. I'm proud to be one.
    Not left alone... It would definitely worth the wait at the end. Thanks for sharing 😌

  • @christabelemeh4257
    @christabelemeh4257 Рік тому

    Thanks guys for being real that's the more reason why I stick to your channel. Shalom.

  • @JephPrince1
    @JephPrince1 2 роки тому +286

    THIS IS A MILLION DOLLAR STORY IN THIS CURRENT EVIL GENERATION. WE ADMIRE YOU PEOPLE. MAY GOD LEAD YOU TO DEVELOP MORE HELPFUL CONTENT.

  • @iTuneGee
    @iTuneGee 2 роки тому +109

    I consider myself blessed to see this... you guys are a beacon of light in a dark and perverse generation. Take that from a bro who went to his virgin bride a virgin himself some 17 years ago! Kudos Stalwart lovers!

  • @Kekes1941
    @Kekes1941 2 роки тому +1

    I love you all! Thank you for your story so candidly I appreciate it so much ❤

  • @vinishagovender5767
    @vinishagovender5767 2 роки тому +7

    You guys are just crazy and hilarious, thank you for encouraging words.

  • @rahablyonga5680
    @rahablyonga5680 2 роки тому +38

    Approaching 39, difficult to keep oneself spotless from this world but possible. Keeping a clean conscience before God is the best feeling ever.🙏

  • @beccab4029
    @beccab4029 2 роки тому +48

    My latest favourite couple! It's evident you're best friends. Thank you for sharing freely. I must say all your biblical nuances were 👌🏽 and made the video so relatable. Love it!

  • @bamikayy
    @bamikayy 2 роки тому +2

    You guys are so beautiful! I love that you both were being real. Thank you!❤️

  • @ezehadaezez7354
    @ezehadaezez7354 Рік тому +3

    Wow. I love this, I am 27,will be 28 in a month time and still in tact. I have been so scared on how my first night will be. Thank God for watching this.. I pray the Lord helps me and give me the strength..cos I can't endure things. Hearing of pains to feel on first day gets me nostalgia.
    Thanks alot

  • @onyemaechicharity183
    @onyemaechicharity183 2 роки тому +58

    Thank you so much for doing this. It's a big encouragement to every single who is still a virgin. I am glad I came across your video. God bless both of you.

  • @adeolaade-alao7309
    @adeolaade-alao7309 3 роки тому +249

    This has to be the most explicit video on this matter that I have watched. I celebrate you guys for doing this. Thanks for the enlightenment! Good jobs!

    • @TheStalwartLovers
      @TheStalwartLovers  3 роки тому +11

      😅😉

    • @sweetsopcomedy1458
      @sweetsopcomedy1458 2 роки тому +17

      It was well presented, no shame here at all. I appreciated them both....flying to Jerusalem...

    • @misswinnie4.8
      @misswinnie4.8 2 роки тому

      Here's another Christian couple, there are several on YT ua-cam.com/video/d9tp2g27BMY/v-deo.html

  • @Selenadeetigris21
    @Selenadeetigris21 4 місяці тому

    Awwwe I loved this! The pure honesty, the humor it was so reassuring! I’m 26 and still a virgin waiting for my husband but I’m sooo afraid of the pain I’ll experience my first time and will I be able to make my husband happy but hearing testimonies like this makes me feel like I can overcome that fear! Amen! God is good!!!🥹🎉

  • @jacquelinehenriques2106
    @jacquelinehenriques2106 2 роки тому +1

    Honestly I just love the way you continue speaking the word of god keep standing on the word of god your marriage will perlong 🙏

  • @KKLevy
    @KKLevy 2 роки тому +45

    Am 26 years old am still a virgin in August 2021. I pray God will help me find a right soul mate in Jesus Christ name. Youth Pastor Levy from Lusaka Zambia. Love you people 😍

  • @rasheedahabdur-rahman1508
    @rasheedahabdur-rahman1508 2 роки тому +36

    Excellent video! I love the chemistry between the two of you - and the practical advice you offer in such a classy way. ♥️

  • @gifted7492
    @gifted7492 Рік тому +1

    Wow!
    Speechless at this point. I love you guys. Talking about this with so much purity is a cool one. God bless you guys

  • @sherrimanuel1454
    @sherrimanuel1454 Рік тому +14

    I am 38 and still a virgin in waiting. I feel blessed.

  • @emilyagbosu4766
    @emilyagbosu4766 2 роки тому +91

    I just love how your hubby explain everything deeply May God bless your union

    • @godwinkosoko7633
      @godwinkosoko7633 2 роки тому

      I am so proud of you as couples 💑 the communications of both of you is real and fantastic. I wish both of you good marriage life in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙌

  • @leaholu-king164
    @leaholu-king164 2 роки тому +40

    It is my first time to be here and I am married for 30 years and this video took me back to 1991 when we got married and it is very beautiful waiting until you get married and your lovely husband will never forget that particular day because it is a very special day.

  • @osenioluwadamilaresakariya4785
    @osenioluwadamilaresakariya4785 2 роки тому +1

    This is great, really enjoyed the terms and terminologies used in this clip... Thanks for sharing.

  • @nnedinsoabugu5640
    @nnedinsoabugu5640 2 роки тому +4

    Just stumbled on the video, the title was what caught My fancy🥰. In a world where sexual immorality has become the norm leaving most virgins shy to own their truth, you both showed the 'Joy ' of waiting for the right time. I was honestly energized

  • @ebenezeraina9133
    @ebenezeraina9133 2 роки тому +49

    Love the groom's sincerity with diplomacy.

  • @Sandart65
    @Sandart65 2 роки тому +50

    Beautiful story. I’m so glad God made you two for each other.

  • @mercyleonekwashix8366
    @mercyleonekwashix8366 2 роки тому +5

    So true,got married three months ago,and am happy I waited,it was worth the wait,thanks for sharing this.

  • @sandychristabell4706
    @sandychristabell4706 Рік тому +5

    I am bursting out in laughter here😂😂... Very inspiring...Thanks for the hope and may your union grow in Christ eternally 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ldwoods3237
    @ldwoods3237 2 роки тому +54

    Loved this video! What an honor to wait to consumate your union as husband and wife to honor God 🙌🏾

  • @graceojirot6317
    @graceojirot6317 2 роки тому +18

    A testimony of young persons who have walked with God! Thank you for courage. This is useful for counselling virgin couples!! I am so grateful to you lovebirds!!!!

  • @kikibee4u
    @kikibee4u 2 роки тому

    Never had so much fun listening to a story before.... I appreciate the honesty in this video. Ppl have the preconceived notions that the first time will be magic...... lies!!!!! Thanks for sharing.

  • @Purityadvocate
    @Purityadvocate Рік тому +1

    This is amazing,I believe in the marriage bed undefiled,it’s a season for me to study on this and i am glad to come across yours today,thank you❤ and God bless you 😊

  • @MsBdoll87
    @MsBdoll87 2 роки тому +17

    This was beautiful! Thanks for your humor and transparency!

  • @OwolabiEsther
    @OwolabiEsther 2 роки тому +86

    UA-cam recommended me this gem, I do not regret it. I love the honesty in this video!

  • @tonyhalfelven376
    @tonyhalfelven376 Рік тому +2

    Well done. This is spot on. I wish we would have been taught this in premarital counseling. I thank God that He guided us through this in the same way as you two.

  • @IbiyemiAworeni
    @IbiyemiAworeni Місяць тому +2

    It's great to hear this testimony. We are already 22 years old in this school of ❤. Our testimony is very similar... both of us were BEGINNERS 😂. But one of the things that helped us was that ..when he said maybe we should stop because of the pain I was going through I said 'Our baby's head will be BIGGER than this (sausage) !!! humm..so let's keep trying. So even in the pain we both experienced, we still saw the necessity of penetrating so that we would have pleasure later on and then bundles of JOY (children) to top it up.
    It's been over 2 decades now, and God has been faithful, giving us new wine regularly.
    Virgin brides n grooms still exist. Singles , keep yourselves pure.
    Non virgins, no worries... you will still have your JOY because AT HIS RIGHT HAND, THERE ARE PLEASURES FOREVER MORE...
    God bless you two.