Men are CLEAR, not CONFUSING
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- Опубліковано 24 лип 2018
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As a guy, have to agree with Emily on this one. If a guy is being "confusing" as Emily is describing it. It is because, he doesn't want to be with you, but texts/snapchats you spends time with you occasionally, because he likes something about you or wants something from you without committing. Or, it is because he does want to be with you, but he is too insecure/unsure about himself to pursue you. If a guy wants to be with you, he will make it clear to you.
Thanks Hunter!
Thanks for sharing your input!
Thank You So Much,Hunter! This Helped!!👍
I removed him from my social media. I cried and feel really sad, but I did it. Thank you for reminding me of what I deserve
This sooo true! There is a HUGE difference between a boy and a man. I remember when my husband and I started dating he clearly stated that he wanted s serious relationship and that he wanted to date. There was never a question about it. Looking back I was the one that was immature I told him that we should “just hang out” (I had just broken up with my previous bf) and he was like “No, I am not doing that. I already have friends for that.” 😂 I am so glad that I changed my mind. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I can’t believe I almost messed that up.
Ladies, do not waste your time with a guy that “just wants to hang out” or isn’t clear about what he wants. A real man will be intentional and let you know how he feels.
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Wow thanks for sharing your story
Yep yep yep
I’m in Australia and I feel I will not find a good Christian guy here. Not many people are religious here. Please pray that I find someone good, I seriously losing hope!! 💔
O P babes don't worry you'll find your man, just be patient
Have faith! I live in Brazil and though a lot of people say they believe in God, most of them don't really care about the Bible and yet a couple months ago I met an incredible guy who loves God and his commandments more than anything. The funny thing is that I had already accepted that maybe I was gonna be a spinster. Trust God's timing and be faithful to Him. He has the best for you and you'll see it in the right time.
O P God knows your situation, He will take care of you and your problems. Just keep up that hope and prayer!
Texting and Snapchat are ruining dating, they are terrible, juvenile, immature ways of communicating, especially at the courting phase of a relationship.
I know so many girls who are in relationships without guys who won't 'define' the relationship and who just keep getting more and more confused. Loved what you said about this - Men who care about you will not leave you wondering whether he is interested or not! ✨ xxx
Amen!
THANK YOU!!! OMGGGGGGG! This has been my WHOLE life and I'm actually done. For real. I actually don't want anything to do with relationships or dating until someone flat out says "HEY. I LIKE YOU AND I WANT TO PURSUE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. LETS GO OUT." Someone who is straightforward and bold. Someone who isn't afraid to tell me how he feels.
Yes, yes, yes, and amen hallelujah. Stick to your guns, sistah. You won't regret it.
I remember I emailed you Emily about this EXACT kind of situation roughly 2 years ago, and I'm so glad I took your advice. It wasn't until I took a step back and looked at the situation with a clear head that I realized the guy in question was only looking for attention, and had no interest in being intentional or clear about where we stood. I couldn't cut him out of my life completely because we had so many mutual friends, but once I stopped caring and hanging on every word, it didnt matter to me anymore. I went on my way, and enjoyed myself without worrying about him or his ambiguity up through when I graduated college and said goodbye to that group of people. These situations are rough, but getting invested in something thats grounded in potential instead of reality will only hurt your heart in the long run. This video was exactly all of that, summed up so beautifully. Thank you for sharing your heart with us
Thank YOU for sharing your experience and wisdom with other women here! I'm proud of you.
I literally have to comment twice because I have been here SO many times!!! Thank you SO so so so much for this Emily...this made me emotional to watch because I am so disappointed in myself for the past decisions I made with guys who did this to me because I to a certain extent allowed it to happen. I had to bring this to God this morning and ask for forgiveness for it...I've recently realized how it's not just the physical stuff we need to set boundaries for, it's the emotional stuff too. It's all so so important. I love you SO much and literally look up to you so much, thank you for being such an amazing role model for so many of us girls. I have tears in my eyes watching this, God really spoke to me through you and I'm super grateful.
As a guy guilty of this type of behavior, I have learned that I have to go to God for forgiveness and to have self-control of my thoughts and actions. We are only complete in Christ and not in relationships. I have put pressure on myself for so long to have a girlfriend (amongst other things) that I have caused significant emotional damage to women and even myself. I currently do not believe that I will ready for a God-centered relationship until I have more self-control as a result of trusting God with my thoughts.
Its so cool to see one of my favorite You-tubers responding on another favorites videos. Keep up the great work both of you!
We are not place holders for a wife someday. I DESPISE when men do this to women...and if my sons even dream of treating young women like this...so much trouble and I will tell her to dump him.
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MISSED Y'ALL. Send this to your friends who need a pep talk to take control and be done with these confusing situations!
Emily Wilson UGH I related to everything you said! THANK YOU for posting this!
THIS was so good!
Emily Wilson hi Emily, have you received my package yet? I’m just checking because I’m a little bit worried that I got the address wrong.
This is such a great topic. When I was younger fell in love with a few confusing guys but God never let me go any further with any of them. A couple months ago I finally met a real man who was clear since the beginning about his intentions and I praise God for putting him in my life because he's such a godly man. There are good men out there. Have faith. It's just not the time for you to be reunited yet. But when you do get together it will be beautiful and the wait will be worth it as it was for me.
Wow! Thank you for sharing that! That was such an encouragement to me
What’s more, a guy who does this to a girl is effectively taking her off the market. As a guy, I wouldn’t want to date a girl who I saw frequently hanging out with another guy. Even if he had told me that they weren’t dating, I would be suspicious about exactly why they’re hanging out in the fashion that dating couples do without dating. Just a thought.
My 2 Cents yes very true
God is not the author of confusion my sister. This channel is a blessing to the believers and unbelievers.
Bless you for your courage, efforts and time. Praise God! I love how God is using you to edify the women. This also apply to men too.
Praying for you & your family. Amen.
Thank you so very much!
Emily Wilson Amen, you're welcome. All glory to God! You are doing exactly what Jesus want you to do for edification to women as a woman. It's so magnificent. You are a crown to your husband, indeed. (Proverbs 12:4)
May the Lord God continue to use you for the glory of his kingdom.
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My boyfriend was really confused whether to choose me or his new girlfriend. Well I allowed him to choose her.
I just found your channel today, and lets me say tis video spoke straight to me. I was with this guy and to me it seemed like we were in a relationship but he never opened up. Things ended after 5-6 months of talking. A few weeks ago he sent me a snapchat and asked how I was and let me tell you... he drew me back in. I've invited him to church with me and never comes. This video was definitely the wake up call I was needing. A true man will not make me wonder or question what we are. I simply just wanted to say thank you. I feel like I found your channel at the time I needed it the most, crazy how God works! thank you.
Welcome to the party! So glad you are here. You are so very welcome. Keep that heart up!
I know one thing for sure. I don't wanna be in that roller coaster of emotions because of a guy never ever again. 😏
solange Same here. Never again. Been there done that.
Indeed, so done with it and all this dishonesty
Same. 😂
Amen!
* sigh of relief *
Thank you so much for the video, I really needed to hear this message!
Emily, thank you for this video. I just wanted you to know that I find myself coming back to this video (and your channel) over and over again as a pep talk to myself. I'm in a confusing situation, it's been many months and I still haven't mustered the courage to have the conversation with him, thinking it's never a good time because we still take classes together, there's too much at stake etc. but I know eventually I'll have to get down to doing it because there's only so much longer I can carry on like this. It's consuming so much of my heart and my head and your channel has been a beacon through the mess.
I was in tears watching this - it spoke to me at just the right time and I believe every truth you are speaking here Emily 🌷 cannot thank you enough
Girl you are so cool!! Good on you for saying how important clarity is!!
EMILY!! Thank you for being such an inspiration and role model your videos have helped me so much :)
THANKS GIRL! Happy you are here!
This came up in my suggestions today and it's something I've been praying on for awhile now. Thanks for making this video
What a great video! I wish I saw it one year ago. It made me want to share my experience with you. I had a guy friend who really liked me and showed me his affection but never actually clarified where we're at and I was so confused! And I told myself I would not care anymore but just like you said, then I got a text and another and another. It felt both great and painful. And then he sent me a box full of things, one of which was his T-shirt and I was like ' Why did he send it, what is the meaning of this? Ok I've had enough, this is killing me. The truth will set me free and I am sick and tired of being in a gray zone and wondering if this is going anywhere or not'. So I stepped in and asked him what the heck this was. One of best decisions of my life. Ever since then when I feel confused about something or some one (not necessarily a guy) I just ask. It's so easy. The truth will set you free! Honesty is the key. And if he is not brave enough to be honest with you he is not worth it. Such a cowardly thing to do. I know I'm dating a MAN right now because he told me openly and honestly about his feelings and intentions - and he made himself vulnerable in the process, of course! I was so amazed. I am not at all confused about where we're at and it's so beautiful. Everyone deserves a partner who is honest or at least someone who does not confuse you and keep you wondering 'Are we...? Will we...?' You're better than that! Thank you Emily for a great video. We're blessed to have you!
Puuureach Em! Thanks for this 😊
I really needed this thank you! A boy has done this to be for almost 2 years now and I fall for it every single time. He will just pop up every couple of months and then drop me in a second. Thanks Emily! Love you so much
Emily, thank you for putting this out there. Unfortunately I’ve been dealing with this type of situation for a couple of months, but I chose to ignore and not admit that I was being treated this way! Enough is enough! I want and deserve clarity! My soul mate is coming! Your videos are always exactly what I need to hear 😊
Yes! Enough is enough!
Okay, this was life saving right now! Thank you for opening my eyes!!
Thank you for this. I’ve needed to hear this for the past five years.
Yes, dead on Emily. If guys are beating around the bush too much, don't trust them wanting to be your future husband. I am very clear in the way I approach women, and if I like one and want a meaningful relationship with her that leads to marriage, then I will be clear in my interest. I would never be flirty and confusing by leading her on, and would just say I don't like you in that way. Us men that are faithful and want to marry are direct and assertive in our way in meeting women. If he does not act that way, fugget about 'im ladies!
Preach!
Amen!!! So true! One of my girlfriends have been going through this with a guy and I try my best to tell her that if the guy really does care about and has true intentions to date you then He wouldn’t be treating you this way. Thanks Emily for talking about this subject. Hope you and baby are doing okay!! ☺️
We are doing great! Thank you!
This message came right on time!! Thank you so much, was going through the this the week you posted this video. This is confirmation of what I had been feeling but couldn't put in to words!!!
Omg, thank you so much for this. This is exactly what I needed. Sick of not knowing where I am standing with this guy I met a couple of months ago.
I'm happy to see you back! Love you and your personality, Emily! ❤
Thanks girl! So glad to be back! More videos to come!
good to have you back your videos are always so uplifting
I've usually seen men as fairly simple creatures so I've never really worried to much about what they do say or think
Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and insight with us! So many times your videos have made me feel normal and more and encouraged as a teen catholic girl!
I am so glad! Thank you for watching!
Everything you say is just true and amazing. Thank you!!!!!
I literally had this confusing situation happen recently and this came at the perfect time. Thank you
You are welcome!
I really needed this today! 💕
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! This makes me feel so much better!!
YES! Thank you SO much Emily for another amazing, truthful and inspiring video!
I've been needing this video !!! Thank you so very much
This was such a fantastic video, thank you so much Emily! I pray for you and your growing family all the time and can't help but think about how lucky this little baby is to have you and Daniel as such amazing parents and built-in role models! Keep up the incredible work!
WOW thank you so much this couldn’t have been more perfect or well timed!!!
MISSED YA SOOOO MUCH UGH THIS WAS GREAT❤️❤️❤️ every singleee situation I'm in seems to pertain to your words of wisdom. Thank you always💕
Ya girl!
This was a theme in my life for a VERY long time. Thank you for speaking on this topic! As usual, you have amazing topics!
Thanks, sister! I really appreciate that!
Thank you Emily! God bless!
Oh my gosh thank you for putting this up!!! I have a friend who says he "likes me" and he's super funny and cute and tells me I'm beautiful and all this stuff but when I ask him to hang out, not a date just hang out, he flakes and never gives me an answer. I get tired of it, then as if he knows what I'm thinking tells me something cute...
Love love love the video! You are honestly such an inspiration to me in my life as a young Christian woman. I really value your advice and you have such a gift of WISDOM from God. I was wondering if you take video requests, and if so, could you PLEASE do one on either: a God centered relationship, or: when to know you are ready for a relationship as a Christian person wanting to put God first! Thank you so much Emily!
emily this video is literally an answered prayer!! thank you for the honest and direct advice. needed to hear this today for sure. feelin more confident because of you!
Good! Keep that heart up!
I'm a brazilian catholic girl and I found your channel last week. I'm not fluent in english yet but I can understand about 90% that you say. I already watched many videos and you are helping me a lot. I think your love story is so beautiful and I also believe in wait until marriage, but I can't find a guy with this same purpose. I don't wanna lose my faith because God knows everything.
God bless your family, Emily. 😊
Thanks Emily ❤️❤️❤️
It’s clear to me now what’s going on. I thought I was being too dramatic, but you have described my situation exactly.
This is perfect Emily!! I really appreciate this 💕
Thank you for posting this video!! Needed to hear this!
You are welcome!
Beautiful video! Thank you for all of the advice and pep talk. It really has helped me 💖
Emily, thank you for speaking the way you do. Bold, impassioned, and unashamed. It is a true Godsend for all of us girls out here struggling to figure this whole "woman" thing out! I also really loved your Steubenville West talk! It was just what we needed to hear!
A very, very sweet comment that made me smile. Thank you so, so much Grace!!
Thank you Emily! I needed that.❤️
This is so good. I'll be keeping this in my mind as I head off to college. Thanks Emily!!
Thank you Emily! This brought so much clarity to me :)
Preach it sister! When it’s right you will just know, how often do the red flags tell us it’s not right.
Thank you Emily
Thank you VERY much Sia! You keep that heart up, girl!
I really needed this today lol thank you! ❤️
Thanks so much for
making this video I needed it just found ur channel btw and I love ur videos
Thankyou Emily!! You are such an awesome person!! :)
Thank you so much for this!!
Thank you Emily!! I really needed this - the message came at the right time, as always! :)
I'm glad! I hope it helped!
So accurate thank u for sharing!!
whoa. I needed this! thank you!
I've defined my relationships in the past. It also goes both ways women don't all want to be in a committed relationship where a definition is given either. Its worthwhile for both people to have that conversation about what we want and what the relationship currently is. Crushing those fears is what a relationship can grow from and coming from a guy who suffers from anxiety taking action and being a leader can get you through the fear of the unknown and shows you how life can be so wonderful. Emily your videos help me know what devout women want in a relationship and for that I thank you ( no sister in my family) . And lady's guys who care about there faith exist and with ambition for their careers and lives as well. Godbless
Needed this. Thanks!!
God preached to my soul through you!! Thank you! God is so good 🙌
i freaking needed this! thank you! i clicked so fast
I hope it helped!
Ugh this video was a few months too late. I wish I would have heard this and understood this message months ago. It would have saved me a lot of pain. Better late than never. Thank you so much, I will keep this in mind for the rest of my life
Better late than never indeed!
this is ME!!! omg it feels like you know exactly what i’m going through. thank you!!!!!
Omg I LOVE you! Thank you for speaking on things not a lot of others say!!! “Take control of your brain!” UR SO AMAZING LOVE YA MY SISTA IN CHRIST!
I was just thinking of you today and I said, "I have a feeling she's definitely going to post today" and I was right! Coincidence 🤔? I think not 😁
You know me too well! :)
JUST what I needed to hear!! Thank you!
You're totally glowing! Pregnancy looks so good on you!!
Hey thanks Rebecca! That makes me happy to hear!
I needed this...thank you so much 💕💕
I really needed this video. Time to think with my heart a little less and a little more with my brain. Thank you!
Yes. It's hard to do, but really really important!
Gold!! This is gold girls! Listen up!!
Em, I am so thankful for meeting you and all of your wisdom and knowledge about the Bible and all that have for us in a good, stable, healthy relationship. I am from Brazil and I am a baptist. I know that you are a catholic and that we have our differences, but I’m happy to see that Christ and all that the Bible says and teaches us make us one in Him and His Spirit! Kisses!!
I needed to hear this. Totally fall for guys like this. It also convicts me not to do this with a friend of mine anymore. 😬🙈
Congrats on 70K subscribers!!
Thank you very much Yuliya! So happy so many women are here to be encouraged and supported.
Hey Emily! I just wanted to say I really enjoyed today’s UA-cam video! You are amazing as always. I’m glad you had started to make these amazing videos for girls who need this advice now or later on in the future.
Thanks Morgan!
Yes yes yes thank you for this! If women could get this through their heads we’d all save so much time and heartbreak! Thank you for sharing :)
I don't share your faith but I really appreciate this video and needed it right now.
I've saved it and will come back to it every time I forget what I already know!!!
Thank you and congrats on the birth of your bubba 💗💗💗
I am so glad it is helpful for you!! Thanks for watching!
God has AMAZING timing. I need this video so bad. Im glad you’re back!!!!!! 💞 thank you!
Really wished I watched this over a year ago. I had to learn this the hard way and I was too forgiving for no reason. Great advice
Thank you so much for this video!!
Thank you for this advice! God bless you!
YES EMILY!!!
AMEN 🙏🏻 thanks for the wisdom as usual, Emily!
Amen!!!! Thank you so much. You are wonderful
I love your optimistic and evergreen personality, your vlogs are dope, lots of love.
One of my favorite comments ever. Thank you very much :)
I got so excited seeing that you have a new video that I haven't even watched it yet and had to comment first!
So glad you like when I post :)
NEEDED THIS OOOOOOFFFF
Great as always💓
Well thank you!!
Yayy! Another video🤣
This is AMAZING. Thank you so much Emily for giving me a wake up call.